Single mothers by choice: 'I am the CEO of my own operation'

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  • Опубликовано: 19 сен 2024
  • Women open up about their choice to have a child without a partner, supporting each other, and children reflect on their decision to raise them alone.

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  • @JohnDoe-le8fy
    @JohnDoe-le8fy 5 лет назад +266

    How to destroy a Nation 101.

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +3

      John Doe simple; live in the Middle East

    • @bryantlong6522
      @bryantlong6522 5 лет назад +9

      Strawberries Blueberries Yes haul your fucking ass you useless ass...tell me what do you provide in the society I live in?

    • @bryantlong6522
      @bryantlong6522 5 лет назад +4

      Strawberries Blueberries Sweetheart I do plenty of good in the world. I most likely donate more to st Jude on an annual basis than you’ve ever donated in your life. But even if i didn’t...i still contribute a fuck of a lot more to society than you ever will. There’s human beings and human doers...we all know what I am.

    • @fbfb64
      @fbfb64 5 лет назад +6

      @@bryantlong6522 I'll tell you what Strawberry does to provide to society : She gives people death threats on youtube if their opinion differs from hers. Her kids must be so embarrassed and ashamed of her for being so violent. I bet she beats her kids at least twice a week.

    • @marvinossai4910
      @marvinossai4910 5 лет назад

      Niki Lyons Yes

  • @MGPMGP18
    @MGPMGP18 5 лет назад +30

    I have no problem with women not waiting for a partner that might not show until its too late. Shame on people for leaving such disgusting and rude comments on these women's choice to become mothers. If you have the money and the time to dedicate to being a parent well good for them.
    I grew up in a house with both parents and it was chaos and a father who was absent most of life. My life got better when my mother became a single parent. It brought clarity on what I want in a relationship and the type of father I would want for my child. This year I've graduated with my master's degree in Marketing mostly because of my single parent mother. These children will have strong role models. I turned out normal and healthy. Nothing bad happen to me and I'm sure these kids will be fine too.

    • @snowwhitebeautyful
      @snowwhitebeautyful 5 лет назад +3

      Finally someone with common sense here. Others are just rambling about stuff they have no clue about.

    • @snowwhitebeautyful
      @snowwhitebeautyful 5 лет назад +1

      @zadose lol, go back to the 17th century!

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +1

      MGPMGP18 WELL SAID 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @PabloEscobar-zd7re
      @PabloEscobar-zd7re 4 года назад

      No shame on you

    • @DESTIELWINCHESTER-q5w
      @DESTIELWINCHESTER-q5w 4 месяца назад

      Your mom is pretty innocent according to your story. But this woman in the video is extemely selfish towards the child. The difference between her and your mom is that, your mom saved you from a useless man, while this lady JUST SUDDENLY CHOOSE broken family for her child. She chose to put her child in a situation that might cause issues.

  •  5 лет назад +90

    No subsidies. No tax break. No child support. Go for it.
    Since spreading your legs guarantees food, housing, and healthcare. Be a real a woman and really do it on your own. Dont be a pussy just because you have one and use it to benefit yourself while not raising the bastard seed with a good moral code

    • @nikadavise-br9lx
      @nikadavise-br9lx 5 лет назад +12

      She is rich mr. virgin for life.

    •  5 лет назад +19

      @@nikadavise-br9lx the bitch better be ms. Dick to pay rent

    • @Leelz247
      @Leelz247 5 лет назад +3

      You want the government to get rid of tax breaks for having a dependent? Good luck with that

    • @tonrobert3391
      @tonrobert3391 5 лет назад +2

      smashing your Mom lol 😂 I know right

    • @Hannah-tg8hw
      @Hannah-tg8hw 5 лет назад +2

      So those are your reasons for having a child?

  • @WhiteArrow76
    @WhiteArrow76 5 лет назад +121

    It's not just women taking this course, a lot of guys do this too, and I'm one of them. I started as a foster parent, then had my first two through a surrogate, and went on to adopt four more. May not be a typical family, but it's mine

    • @guineapiggirl400
      @guineapiggirl400 5 лет назад +10

      I'm so happy your experience was a positive one!! Best of luck on your parenthood journey

    • @sarasmith5110
      @sarasmith5110 5 лет назад +12

      You are just as bad as she is. You are depriving your kids of having a mother. And to purposely go out and have two kids through a surrogate is awful. Kids know they have a mother and a father or they would not exist. You are selfishly taking half their normal existence away. What are you going to tell your kids? That their mother was paid to have them? How do you think that is going to affect them? Fostering older kids is great. But kids belong in a two parent opposite sex household. Because that is what they would have come from.

    • @babydoll6280
      @babydoll6280 3 года назад +8

      @@sarasmith5110 you are evil.

    • @frankwillems4341
      @frankwillems4341 3 года назад

      Hello 👋 how are you doing today

    • @jaimeduncan6167
      @jaimeduncan6167 3 года назад +2

      I don't oppose, but I will say it will be good if they added sexual selection to the mix.The guy at 5:12 looks week. Girls are vey adaptive and strong, boys really need positive role models so they grow to understand that their value is not just what they can do for the government, the nation and their partners. In that sense a single mother is bette that a women and a machista. That will also filter misogynists and misandrists .

  • @auriel8300
    @auriel8300 5 лет назад +203

    Single Mother = Crime Factory

  • @sabaande
    @sabaande 5 лет назад +66

    This is a big reason why women can't have it all...i.e. the successful career AND a successful marriage with a happy family. Life is about making choices and prioritising. I don't think there is anything empowering or honourable about the Single Mothers By Choice movement.

    • @dreamsofturtles1828
      @dreamsofturtles1828 5 лет назад +17

      Totally agree. Her desires are more important than whats best for the child. Wait till they are teenagers, youll find out how much a male co- parent is needed then.

    • @Hannah-tg8hw
      @Hannah-tg8hw 5 лет назад +10

      Stop thinking in a box: Single parents also come via the death of one parent. Why is your judgement partial?

    • @sabaande
      @sabaande 5 лет назад +3

      @Alexa B Exactly. But I just couldn't be bothered to answer her lol. 🙈

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +2

      It’s sad sisters don’t stick together

    • @blackfeet5810
      @blackfeet5810 5 лет назад +4

      Strawberries Blueberries stick together for foolishness?

  • @colonelreb1014
    @colonelreb1014 5 лет назад +162

    Trust me, you don't want a daughter with Daddy issues.

    • @theepicfailgamer6317
      @theepicfailgamer6317 5 лет назад

      both grandpa issues too

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +7

      Colonel Reb you’re a bigot against women

    • @jeffreystern5886
      @jeffreystern5886 5 лет назад +18

      That's exactly what she's creating.... and when her daughter hooks up with a series of jerks and gets pregnant herself..... the mom will cry and cry... about how selfish she was.... tooo late...

    • @colonelreb1014
      @colonelreb1014 5 лет назад +2

      @Niki Lyons lol

    • @theharshtruth8563
      @theharshtruth8563 5 лет назад +12

      Notice that when "daughter with daddy issues" is brought up... Strawberries Blueberries is the FIRST ONE TO GET OFFENDED.. 😂

  • @chandlerchandler8530
    @chandlerchandler8530 5 лет назад +9

    I seriously can't believe all the negative comments. Have a child alone is better than raising children in a abusive household, she is an older lady if she gets much older she would not of been able too have children besides as long as she can support herself and the child also has family and friends support why not. You habe teen mother's out there also who have children and they are still. Children themselves. Many children have been raised in single parent households and turned out fine u guys are all over reacting.

    • @cthpham
      @cthpham 5 лет назад +3

      I'm with you there. Why can't people just be open minded and see that you can't make assumptions based on one scenario. Yes, some children in single parent households do grow up bad, but some grow up fine. I can attest to that as I grew up without a father and didn't get into any trouble. Got my doctorate, bought my own car, and house all before I turned 30. Some kids grow up fine in heterosexual two parent households, but some grow up far worse with two parents due to constant fighting and abuse. Instead of wasting time blaming and pointing fingers, why not accept what the reality is and try to create support programs for troubled youth. Frankly I don't know why the automatic assumption is that single mothers by choice are leaching off the government. Do you know how much artificial insemination actually costs including meds, doctor visits, and lab work? It's not covered by insurance and all out of pocket expenses. Not to mention they may have to go through many failed rounds down the drain. I think if they can afford this, they can afford to raise their kid without leaching off the government and our tax dollars. In fact they probably have to pay more taxes because they're still considered single. Yes, I agree that there are a lot of selfish and irresponsible mother's out there, but some older single mothers by choice are in their late 30s or 40s. They've experienced enough life, done their research, and sought a lot of medical and psychological consult before deciding on artificial insemination. To group them with lowlife uneducated leachers is unfair.

    • @chandlerchandler8530
      @chandlerchandler8530 5 лет назад +3

      @@cthpham Exactly some people will never get it you are living proof of a single parent household. Educated independent and living a well rounded life. Hats off too your mother.

  • @darrenp2719
    @darrenp2719 5 лет назад +235

    Soo she is depriving her kid a chance at a complete family to serve her own selfish reasons

    • @phillipsmom6252
      @phillipsmom6252 5 лет назад +26

      Darren P .... you sound stupid

    • @piaann23198
      @piaann23198 5 лет назад +4

      Agree

    • @darrenp2719
      @darrenp2719 5 лет назад +36

      Phillips Mom You sound stupid so what you are saying is kids dont need 2 parents?

    • @orueom7720
      @orueom7720 5 лет назад +14

      @@phillipsmom6252 that's rich coming from Phillip's mom

    • @cheyenneShel
      @cheyenneShel 5 лет назад +3

      They’re happy?

  • @middletech
    @middletech 5 лет назад +131

    Single mothers by choice is deniel.

    • @middletech
      @middletech 5 лет назад +1

      @eQuariuz toushea

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +1

      Eric Lytle I disagree.

    • @middletech
      @middletech 5 лет назад +10

      @@strawberriesblueberries2258 A single mother is twice as likely to be on welfare and half more likely to be impoverished. Their children are 3 times more likely to be on probation than graduate college.

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +5

      Eric Lytle the truth is; you’re a gender bigot! I’ve seen the videos on single fathers by choice; and all I saw was praise from the comments. This has nothing to do with your opinion on single mothers. This is all about gender favoritism. You support everything a man chooses and put down women for their choices. You just hate women. Which makes you full of crap! This is all about sexism!

    • @theharshtruth8563
      @theharshtruth8563 5 лет назад +7

      Single mothers are broads that chose to fail in life.

  • @britishmgtow7251
    @britishmgtow7251 5 лет назад +85

    Child Abuse

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +10

      MGTOW Gopnik when a father decides to be a single parent; all praise to him! But when a mother decides to be a single parent; it’s child abuse!

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +5

      MGTOW Gopnik you’re just a bigot against females

    • @didistutter8417
      @didistutter8417 5 лет назад +9

      But, being without a father reduces your chances of being abused though. I mean, It's usually the fathers doing all of the abuse; rape, physical abuse, emotional abuse, mental abuse and even murder. And those numbers continue to rise.

    • @britishmgtow7251
      @britishmgtow7251 5 лет назад +3

      @@didistutter8417
      Wrong

    • @britishmgtow7251
      @britishmgtow7251 5 лет назад +2

      @@strawberriesblueberries2258
      Wrong

  • @orueom7720
    @orueom7720 5 лет назад +209

    I'm sorry for that kid.

    • @adamgruds4661
      @adamgruds4661 5 лет назад +15

      yea but that kid could have been born to the parents that just killed their 5 year old at least the kid will be wanted

    • @orueom7720
      @orueom7720 5 лет назад +16

      @@adamgruds4661 could be worse of course. But the lady seems very me-centred, and I think that skinny dude put it perfectly, she's gonna miss out on watching the two genders interact with each other.
      Her first interaction with boys would be immature boys in middle / high school that ain't right

    • @jmfong76
      @jmfong76 5 лет назад +10

      Ese Omoru, it’s a good thing in this instance it isn’t your choice. So, to you families should only be traditional male/female households?! Get with the times. Keep the 1940’s way of doing things in the 1940’s. The world today is so different, whether you like it or not. If you want to marry a woman and have children, by all means do that. Don’t knock what others do because it goes against what you’d do. Just because you wouldn’t do it, does not make it wrong.

    • @skyrobin4008
      @skyrobin4008 5 лет назад +4

      Well fuck you and your opinion you insignificant piece of shit

    • @Leelz247
      @Leelz247 5 лет назад +6

      @@orueom7720 creating and nurturing life is the exact opposite of ME-centered

  • @christinekent2460
    @christinekent2460 5 лет назад +56

    I wish I had been a single mother, everybody is different. My X is not the worst dad, but everytime he didn't get his way he would drag me into court. A lot of people go thru hell in the family courts! If I was a single mom I could have just lived life peacefully with my children.

    • @jmfong76
      @jmfong76 5 лет назад +2

      Justin 12O16E26, that may be the case but it statistics do not mean that it will happen that way. I am sure growing up with a single parent was not ideal but sometimes growing up in a two parent household isn’t good either.

    • @JohnDoe-le8fy
      @JohnDoe-le8fy 5 лет назад +4

      That's because you made terrible decisions on finding a husband. Women have to start taking responsibility for their own actions and society should stop bailing them out after. Bring shame back, it's the only thing that keeps females horrible nature under control. Instead they feed it so it grows into the cancer we have now that's one of the things killing the country and indeed the whole western world.

    • @Hannah-tg8hw
      @Hannah-tg8hw 5 лет назад +9

      John Doe you’re an idiot! If she married a great man and he died she’d also be a single mother. The most important thing about rearing children is to give them love.

    • @christinekent2460
      @christinekent2460 5 лет назад +7

      @ John Doe Gimme a break you can know somebody from Childhood, or be married to them and never suspect they are that serial killer the FBI's been looking for the last 30 yrs. You can never truly know somebody unless they allow you to! Bailing them out? From what? I made more money than my X. You have no idea what your talking about.

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +1

      Christine Kent well said 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I agree.

  • @snowwhitebeautyful
    @snowwhitebeautyful 5 лет назад +27

    I'm a single mom by choice and I don't give a damn who might judge me.

    • @MacJeezy
      @MacJeezy 5 лет назад +7

      Well just wait until that Baby of yours turns 12-13, and tells you to go fuck yourself (Natural impulse)... and you’re all alone trying to deal with adolescent teenager, when your child is beginning to grow into their INDIVIDUAL SELF

    • @DarthBalsamic
      @DarthBalsamic 5 лет назад +1

      @@MacJeezy So true.

    • @MacJeezy
      @MacJeezy 5 лет назад +3

      Wendell: Just listen to the woman in this video. Within just the first 10 SECONDS, the first thing out her mouth is: “I have waited MY WHOLE LIFE!”

    • @DarthBalsamic
      @DarthBalsamic 5 лет назад +1

      @@MacJeezy I know exactly what you mean brother. I agree wholeheartedly. I posted a similar response in this same comment section. Here's how I feel about it:
      Utterly immoral and foolish. You can push this crap however you want, this is not ok. Get out of here. My own mom who was a single mom would find this egregious. My mom did well in her career, but even she would admit that me and my brother not having fathers was not good for us. It affected me greatly personally not having a father; not to mention the amount of studies bolstering that we need two parents households with mothers and fathers. That is the primary standard. End of story.
      This is also why I have a problem with the egg freezing scheme; it has turned into encouraging this nonsense. It's not right.
      What's even worse is when you get to the end you see the cognitive dissonance and acknowledgement that you need a two parent home, particularly with men(who they pretended weren't important and ignored their input.) Rediculous. They're literally discounting complete families and the value of men in the home in this video. Stop it with this stuff.
      I'm a black guy and this is a major issue in my community and alot of young men I've met got messed up over fatherlessness, and this crap is being pushed purposefully like it's not detrimental. I refuse to accept this as a standard. You can obfuscate however you want, but this is unacceptable. Unbelievable.

    • @snowwhitebeautyful
      @snowwhitebeautyful 5 лет назад +3

      @@DarthBalsamic who gives a damn if you can accept it or not? Welcome to the 21.st century, bro! Us women don't need men anymore - they do zero to provide for their kids, they are cheaters and abusers. The only thing they are good for is their semen and occasional sex. Accept it, number of single mothers will be growing in future, whether u like it or not.

  • @tatecraft1361
    @tatecraft1361 5 лет назад +128

    Single mother by choice huh? 🙄

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +19

      Thai Craft yeah but you are all supportive if a man decides to be a single dad?

    • @britishmgtow7251
      @britishmgtow7251 5 лет назад +17

      @@strawberriesblueberries2258
      Because men raise etter chikdren, single mothers are trash

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +6

      MGTOW Gopnik you can’t even spell! So shut up! Oh wow good father figure; can’t even have proper grammar! Go back to grade school dummy!

    • @theharshtruth8563
      @theharshtruth8563 5 лет назад +22

      Single mother by choice is like saying "irresponsible by choice". Same shit.

    • @theharshtruth8563
      @theharshtruth8563 5 лет назад +10

      ​@@britishmgtow7251 Totally agree! Single mothers are scummy irresponsible dirtbags.

  • @pinaopina
    @pinaopina 5 лет назад +24

    Most get married have children and get divorce and then they fatherless anyways. 😒😒 I’m glad for this woman that doesn’t bring kids to the traumatic process of separation from their father. They don’t have to go through that.

  • @ava4001
    @ava4001 5 лет назад +173

    How irresponsible, that poor child

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +11

      Ava the child looks happy to me

    • @cheyenneShel
      @cheyenneShel 5 лет назад +7

      Yeah the children are so happy lmao

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +9

      Ava but if it was a single dad you would be supportive

    • @britishmgtow7251
      @britishmgtow7251 5 лет назад +16

      Poor child, this is abuse
      Children from single mothers are much more likely to commit suicide, drugs, crime.

    • @britishmgtow7251
      @britishmgtow7251 5 лет назад +7

      @eQuariuz
      Most are working and picking up the pieces of an unreliable woman

  • @MexIndio1
    @MexIndio1 5 лет назад +15

    Congratulations! Screw the haters below.

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +1

      Afro-Indio well said 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😀😀😀😀😀😀😀😀🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @fbfb64
      @fbfb64 5 лет назад +3

      #SingleMothersAreTrash

    • @MexIndio1
      @MexIndio1 5 лет назад +4

      @@fbfb64 Mommy issues so you are secretly gay with a star shaped butt hole? Congratulations!

    • @theharshtruth8563
      @theharshtruth8563 5 лет назад +2

      @@fbfb64 Totally agree.

  • @dreamsofturtles1828
    @dreamsofturtles1828 5 лет назад +69

    I grew up with kids who never had a dad, had a distant dad or lost their dad. The girls craved male attention and many of the boys seemed lost and often got into trouble. They needed a male role model to bond with and teach them.
    Im a woman, and i think its selfish to refuse a child a father because of what YOU want. In the long run you may end up with a troubled child. Especially when they are teens, a male co- parent is essential imo.

    • @bobbertee5945
      @bobbertee5945 5 лет назад +7

      MEMEMEMEMEMEMEME!!!!!!

    • @AvyScottandFlower
      @AvyScottandFlower 5 лет назад +4

      Lots of these future single mothers might end up with children who kill them, or at least abandon them
      Poetic justice, some might say.

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад

      dreams of turtles funny I was happy until I had a dad loo

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад

      Jeniliah Everette you’re nothing but a piece of trash yourself! You’re probably just some dude using a woman’s picture to hide behind the scenes. Get a life looser!

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +3

      I grew up in a home where my siblings only wanted a single parent. They were happy until another parent came into their lives. I was satisfied with having one parent. I never got along with my step parent.

  • @gotskinn
    @gotskinn 5 лет назад +124

    Fathers play more of a roll than I ever realized.
    It seemed like I didnt need him...until they were teenagers.
    That blew my MIND.
    THANK GOD my children had their father.
    Men think different and women change.
    Kids need both. Period.
    I know you can kick ass. Me too.
    But dads do other stuff you can't even imagine. They can get on a different level.
    ALL levels are neccessary and valuable!

    • @thecommentator9148
      @thecommentator9148 5 лет назад +5

      Women have the best of both worlds, men have the best of no worlds.

    • @nikadavise-br9lx
      @nikadavise-br9lx 5 лет назад +10

      My kiddo did fine without one........never in trouble ........never on drugs/drank........got their degree using only scholarships and grants(so you have to be smart/responsible/dedicated to get them that much) and is a great all around human being...............so if your husband had died your kids..........um what............would be crack heads now???? Seriously women have HAD TO raise kids on their own when men died/went off to war for years or decades or simply dumped their first families for a new one(my piece of shit father left two women with kids he never wanted/wanted to pay for........the first one he never paid a dime in child support for and ruined her mothers life by leaving her and their kid behind to make a new life(wasn't that long ago that women were blamed entirely if their spouses/partners left them).............so is it cold up their on your blindingly stupid ivory tower, honey????????????????????? My grandmother raised 3 boys while fighting the nazi s so maybe you and your kind should stop breeding if you are so weak and unable to raise your own kids yourself.

    • @moriclips
      @moriclips 5 лет назад +2

      Val Duke Nailed it.

    • @gotskinn
      @gotskinn 5 лет назад +1

      @@nikadavise-br9lx probably scared of turning out like you. So you should say you had fear on your side.
      That does happen a LOT.
      My best friend had an alcoholic mother, sisters prego, rape, dad never home, smoking etc and DID THE OPPOSITE.
      It just depends on circumstances provided them. She beat everything w no help just because her family disgusted her.

    • @gotskinn
      @gotskinn 5 лет назад +2

      @@Immortal_Liberty this is probably why we have so many gays.
      As I say....hard times make strong men, strong men make easy times, easy times make weak men and thus a country is easily INVADED.
      Be very aware of what your government propagates and agrees with.
      Our country is not our own anymore.

  • @LMusicKC
    @LMusicKC 5 лет назад +6

    Read the comments and the had to stop... Why are ppl being so negative? This woman was blessed with a baby.

    • @cthpham
      @cthpham 5 лет назад

      Yet it's these same negative people that shun these women and children treating them poorly and teaching their kids to treat these people with the same rudeness. These people are also to blame for the way single parent kids act out. Instead of trying to help, they make the situation worse pushing people to a dead end. How is being a bully helpful? You're basically hypocrites voicing you're beliefs and opinions for just the sake of trying to prove you're "right" and setting a bad example to your own kids.

  • @overlord8658
    @overlord8658 5 лет назад +183

    No hymen, no diamond. Did that wall hurt when you hit it?

    • @nomadicam
      @nomadicam 5 лет назад +37

      Obviously not too much, she seems pretty happy to me and is doing what she wants to do in life!

    • @armandobroncas4276
      @armandobroncas4276 5 лет назад +5

      @@nomadicam lol no

    • @pinkgal206
      @pinkgal206 4 года назад +1

      J A how much does it cost

    • @jessecompestine7861
      @jessecompestine7861 4 года назад +4

      Right. Pathetic!!!

    • @AlexandraTama
      @AlexandraTama 4 года назад +17

      The myth about the hymen has been debunked 100 years ago.

  • @susisiebert5942
    @susisiebert5942 5 лет назад +14

    I am a single Mother of four grown daughters and was married to their Father and he was a useless man in all areas who abandoned all of us. I love those girls more than life itself and had a good support system of family and friends. My girls are happy, healthy and successful...So don't put all single Mother's in the same pot!!!

    • @joannp5806
      @joannp5806 5 лет назад +2

      Susi Siebert
      That's different,your kids still know who their dad is,you didn't choose to be a single mother.

    • @nikadavise-br9lx
      @nikadavise-br9lx 5 лет назад +1

      Plenty of shitty men. And then there are the awesome ones.......i am told my grandfather was one of those.......until he was murdered by the nazi s which left my grandmother at 22 to raise their 3 boys alone while fighting the nazi s.................plenty of strong/tough women have done it because they had to.......now women can skip the shit relationship/marriage and have kids they never have to fight with some asswhole(yes they are a whole ass most of the time) about. I advise this as the only way of having kids to my grown kiddo. Seeing how young/old/whatever men are like now i would much rather have a ivf grand kid or three than have to bury some fucktard who thinks he would use/abuse my kiddo just because one of his swimmers made it........fuck that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @angelaangela3428
      @angelaangela3428 5 лет назад

      Facts I can definitely 2nd that comment. Three great kids, good grades, and planning for their individual futures and they know exactly their father is. You cant beg a man to be a man nor a father.

    • @angelaangela3428
      @angelaangela3428 5 лет назад

      @zadoseonce the relationship is over not during.

    • @theharshtruth8563
      @theharshtruth8563 5 лет назад +2

      Susi : You were dumb enough to make kids with him.

  • @hoderharris
    @hoderharris 5 лет назад +74

    So is her career going to interfere with her child rearing? She seems a bit selfish to me.

    • @onlyplayaseattacoswiththei9433
      @onlyplayaseattacoswiththei9433 5 лет назад +13

      Same here. Plus its funny how women bitch about wages & this woman talks about making enough $$ to have a baby sans father smh

    • @thecommentator9148
      @thecommentator9148 5 лет назад

      Only time will tell.

    • @nikadavise-br9lx
      @nikadavise-br9lx 5 лет назад +9

      She is rich and owns her own corporation.............yeah she and that kid will be fine. And how selfish is it for the billions of men who run off and leave their kids to starve or die never providing a dime to help raise them. Better to be a healthy, stable, loving one parent family than stuck with some asshole you messed up and banged once who knocked you up.............

    • @onlyplayaseattacoswiththei9433
      @onlyplayaseattacoswiththei9433 5 лет назад +4

      @@nikadavise-br9lx billions of men? Starving kids....in America?...stfu!

    • @jmfong76
      @jmfong76 5 лет назад +6

      Seems none of you were really listening or watching this show. You just got on here to bitch because they did something you do not agree with. So, would love to hear what you’d think about military couples??? Should military couples not have children because it’s possible they could die in harms way? I know plenty of married couples in the military that make things work out just fine. You can’t same in some aspect that this child isn’t in some ways raised by a single parent in many ways. Does that mean they don’t deserve the right to have children? If your answer is yes, than shame on you. I know couples who’ve become pregnant and the father goes overseas and is lost. Never to see his child. So, according to your logic this wife should get an abortion because she’d be single? Oh, but let me guess, you don’t believe in that? So, what? She should give the child up for someone else to adopt? Oh, but wait, let me guess, it HAS to be a woman and a man because you only believe in traditional marriage?! You guys are pitiful. Anyone who can provide a loving, healthy and safe home is a proper home. Even if that is to a single man or woman, gay couple, lesbian couple or to any other combination. Keep your 1940’s behavior where it belongs, in the 1940’s. The entire world is changing, has changed and will change more as time goes on. There were things that were normal when you were born or growing up. That doesn’t mean that should be the only way to do things. Depending on when you were born, many of you should have heard this at one time or another,”If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all”.

  • @JustMe-dn9fh
    @JustMe-dn9fh 5 лет назад +3

    People on here bashing a woman who is taking responsibility for bringing a child into the world, because she is not with a partner? So strange. Why don't some of you men on here offer to marry her!! Shoot!!

    • @fbfb64
      @fbfb64 5 лет назад +2

      @MadDilla ATCQstarr Amen!! Preach! #Facts

    • @theharshtruth8563
      @theharshtruth8563 5 лет назад +1

      Single mothers are the epitome of "life failure". You would have to be pretty desperate to lower your standards enough to date one. #Gross

  • @singlemumbychoiceuk4081
    @singlemumbychoiceuk4081 4 года назад +35

    As a SMBC myself I admire you and love our community of powerful women ❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @Hyderabadidunyakasafar
      @Hyderabadidunyakasafar 4 года назад

      Are you married?

    • @Hyderabadidunyakasafar
      @Hyderabadidunyakasafar 4 года назад

      Hello medam

    • @johnnlegend5458
      @johnnlegend5458 3 года назад +1

      SingleMumByChoiceUK hi

    • @solarsnake
      @solarsnake 3 года назад

      Nothing powerful about single mom trash lmao

    • @jaimeduncan6167
      @jaimeduncan6167 3 года назад

      Please just select the gender of your child. That is all. A girl will grow happy and strong without men in her life. Boys are different. A children is not a toy one wants , not even a pet.

  • @AlanWattResistance
    @AlanWattResistance 5 лет назад +16

    Deliberately denying a child a father is child abuse.

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +8

      AWResistance so you’re saying that lesbians and gays are abusive

    • @theharshtruth8563
      @theharshtruth8563 5 лет назад +2

      @@strawberriesblueberries2258 Single mothers are also abusive.

    • @jusme4142
      @jusme4142 2 года назад +3

      Haven’t experienced actual abuse then.

    • @z7z766
      @z7z766 Год назад +1

      @@theharshtruth8563 weakling

  • @JD2.0N54
    @JD2.0N54 5 лет назад +36

    This should be a crime against humanity.

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +2

      J.D 2.0 men need to work on their characters if you want women to not do this.

    • @JD2.0N54
      @JD2.0N54 5 лет назад +7

      @@strawberriesblueberries2258
      Or maybe women need to get off their high horse.
      Short overweight women are looking for rich men over
      6 feet tall with nice abs.
      That's the problem..

    • @AlexandraTama
      @AlexandraTama 4 года назад

      @@fbfb64 This woman has her own money.

    • @lanaherrera5659
      @lanaherrera5659 4 года назад

      FB FB The woman in this video has a lot of money. And has her own job

  • @Moitie-Bae
    @Moitie-Bae 3 года назад +10

    I’m so sorry that the incels found this video.

    • @Gnashercide
      @Gnashercide 2 года назад

      U mean people who put kid interest first ?

    • @z7z766
      @z7z766 Год назад +4

      @@Gnashercide no, incels

    • @Gnashercide
      @Gnashercide Год назад

      @@z7z766 no

  • @DinoHunter56
    @DinoHunter56 4 года назад +23

    Speaking as a MGTOW myself. I am surprised at the MGTOW men in this comment section criticizing this woman. Seems a little hypocritical in my opinion. I heard these same MGTOW men saying they will simply have a child through surrogacy. What this woman is doing is essentially the equivalent of a man having a child via surrogacy so why all the hate?

    • @AlexandraTama
      @AlexandraTama 4 года назад +11

      Mgtows are not rational, they speak from their anger towards women.

    • @DinoHunter56
      @DinoHunter56 4 года назад +4

      @@AlexandraTama but I am MGTOW. I am not angry at women. I simply have different life goals that don't align with what society expects from a man.

    • @crewmatewillthrowthesehand7600
      @crewmatewillthrowthesehand7600 2 года назад

      yea. I saw videos of MGTOW surrogacy and all of them support the choice to be single dads.

    • @z7z766
      @z7z766 Год назад

      @@DinoHunter56 these inches are ruining the mgtow movement. Real mgtow should stand against these males.

  • @cymbolichuman433
    @cymbolichuman433 5 лет назад +11

    Women have little choice. The men that we have to choose from, isn't what we wished for ourselves.

    • @thecommentator9148
      @thecommentator9148 5 лет назад +2

      Huh?

    • @Rebellion_009
      @Rebellion_009 5 лет назад +5

      Annabell Mendez sounds like someone’s standards are so high that all they get is disappointed

    • @P3RF3CTD3ATH
      @P3RF3CTD3ATH 5 лет назад +1

      Maybe you should stfu about your hypergamy. We all know that the top 80% of women chase the top 20% of men so spare us the bullshit that there are no men to choose from.

  • @TheNiloticEmpress
    @TheNiloticEmpress 5 лет назад +6

    I am never going to judge any woman for choosing to be a mom solo,most times society tell you that you must wait on a man to come accept you so all your dreams come true including having a baby..many women aren’t lucky enough to meet prospective partners by a certain age and it’s only a natural maternal desire to brood with or without a partner..if she is physically,emotionally and financially able to take care of a baby so who cares?Worry about yourselves and stop trying to put women in your society box..unless you are in her shoes,Don’t judge her!a lot of people born in both parents household doesn’t always turn out to be great humans after all..so who cares!its her life,her womb and her baby!

  • @domirican81
    @domirican81 5 лет назад +9

    This right here is what is wrong with Western women, wouldn't touch with a ten foot pole.

    • @cheyenneShel
      @cheyenneShel 5 лет назад

      Comic Score how??

    • @domirican81
      @domirican81 5 лет назад

      Taylor .. When?!?

    • @meheretoday6968
      @meheretoday6968 5 лет назад

      Comic Score and with that attitude I think all women thank you for staying ten feet away.

    • @domirican81
      @domirican81 5 лет назад

      me heretoday ... My attitude saves men's lives.

  • @ShikhaSharma-qw4px
    @ShikhaSharma-qw4px 4 года назад +22

    Women in Western world are so lucky. I wish i could have live in western world. Marriage sucks

    • @ShikhaSharma-qw4px
      @ShikhaSharma-qw4px 4 года назад +9

      @IceMan24 in India it's hard to marry (arranged marriage with no love). Bride side have to struggle a lot to find groom and they pay lot of dowry. Any single lady don't have priveledge to go for ivf without marry.

  • @lordsomber
    @lordsomber 5 лет назад +6

    A woman who thinks a father is unnecessary in raising a child is not fit to be a mother.

    • @sarasmith5110
      @sarasmith5110 5 лет назад

      Agree 100%. You have failed parenthood at the start. The mother may not want the man, but the child sure does.

  • @betoortiz6098
    @betoortiz6098 5 лет назад +28

    Mgtow!

    • @EsotericElle
      @EsotericElle 5 лет назад +9

      We dont care. Go your own way and stay there.

    • @onlyplayaseattacoswiththei9433
      @onlyplayaseattacoswiththei9433 5 лет назад +3

      @Nancyray I'm not for MGTOW, although I understand why , but yes , I agree with you. I bet this woman could make Jesus miserable. She's probably wrapped up into herself , her fantasies , everything is probably all about her. Nothings good enough for her...not so much in the $$$ a man has , but his actions & what he does. I could definitely see her being a bitch & treating men like her children. Smh😂 I'm good

    • @onlyplayaseattacoswiththei9433
      @onlyplayaseattacoswiththei9433 5 лет назад +5

      @Nancyray lol, I love pissing off feminist Nazis like her who judge men & is probably 20 yrs old. My son is 19 & in college & my daughter is 17 in h/s. When they were 3-5 their mom left US for a man with $$$ thinking it was a get rich quick scheme. I NEVER bitched ECT...I took care of them by myself, in 06 the courts gave my custody & all. I don't wanna hear some snot nosed bitch , who hasn't done shit in life yet , tell me what a real man is! A real man stands strong when his woman leaves him & THEIR CHILDREN. He still raises them on HIS own & somehow manages to become a published author & a ghost writer for 3 professional comics....fucking right I'm proud & I REFUSE to let some liberal bitch of a woman jump in my shit bcuz being a feminist is cool....fuck that

    • @onlyplayaseattacoswiththei9433
      @onlyplayaseattacoswiththei9433 5 лет назад

      @Nancyray ps. Chump don't want no help, chump don't get no help 😂...airplane.

    • @onlyplayaseattacoswiththei9433
      @onlyplayaseattacoswiththei9433 5 лет назад +1

      @Nancyray I agree. Ppl are so set on their agenda today that they don't give a shit about others smh....like how you think.

  • @theepicfailgamer6317
    @theepicfailgamer6317 5 лет назад +19

    feminism fail at its finest typical Gen X arrogant mindset and in about 15 years she gonna regret real quick of getting let go from the company in favor of the younger generation

    • @Leelz247
      @Leelz247 5 лет назад +2

      I would seriously reassess your definition of a fail if it results in a happy and healthy child. These women are brave and changing the laws to enable more people to have families who WANT them. Consider how many children are born to families who don't want them and mistreat them and then take your head out of your ass.

    • @theepicfailgamer6317
      @theepicfailgamer6317 5 лет назад +1

      Leelz247 denial the right to have father for the child is seriously a arrogant hypocritical attitude

    • @theepicfailgamer6317
      @theepicfailgamer6317 5 лет назад +1

      Leelz247 oh yeal feminazi did I hurt ur pathetic feeling go back to ur fuck safespace hole piece human trash lunatic

    • @theepicfailgamer6317
      @theepicfailgamer6317 5 лет назад +1

      Leelz247 go get a life human waste used condom

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +1

      the epic fail gamer I like the feminist

  • @cocoapuff134
    @cocoapuff134 4 года назад +12

    Men on here are mad they cannot hold this over our heads👎👌✌ !!! We CAN Do whatEVER we want !!

    • @Gnashercide
      @Gnashercide 2 года назад +1

      We talking about the children, society, nation and civilisation. Single mothers are a burden

    • @cocoapuff134
      @cocoapuff134 2 года назад +2

      @@Gnashercide Triggered ? Tough titties !!!! LOL !!!

  • @RafaelSantos-pi8py
    @RafaelSantos-pi8py 5 лет назад +67

    I'm so happy that i have both a father and a mother. My life would have been poorer without one of them.

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +11

      Rafael Santos BS

    • @RafaelSantos-pi8py
      @RafaelSantos-pi8py 5 лет назад +12

      @@strawberriesblueberries2258 Its not up to you to call BS on my life experience.

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +13

      Rafael Santos just like it’s not up to you to stop single parenting

    • @RafaelSantos-pi8py
      @RafaelSantos-pi8py 5 лет назад +9

      @@strawberriesblueberries2258 Actually it is. By making the choice to find a stable partner before i have a child instead of impregnating a woman and leaving them both.

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +2

      Rafael Santos that’s a good thing you don’t believe in impregnating women though.

  • @strawberriesblueberries2258
    @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +26

    I believe in the land of the free. If you don’t believe in single parenthood; then don’t do it. But allow others to be single parents if they want too. Only step in when there is abuse and murder. Other than that; LIVE and LET LIVE!

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +1

      MadDilla ATCQstarr oh give me a break. I keep my legs closed and you men can’t stand it!

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад

      Niki Lyons what about single dads? I bet you praise them for being single fathers! You’re just a bigot against women.

    • @theharshtruth8563
      @theharshtruth8563 5 лет назад +3

      @@strawberriesblueberries2258 Who broke your heart, sweetie pie? Come sit on daddy's lap and tell us the name of the mean ol' man that broke your heart and made you bitter.

    • @fbfb64
      @fbfb64 5 лет назад +3

      #SingleMothersAreGarbage #WomanUpAndGetAMan

    • @fbfb64
      @fbfb64 5 лет назад +2

      @@strawberriesblueberries2258 Actually men can't stand when you open them. The smell of rotting seafood is horrible. Please keep them closed and keep your smelly bastard kids away from us.

  • @CrimsonKarl
    @CrimsonKarl 4 года назад +14

    People are disparaging her and I can see why. BUT.. on the bright side, at least she didn't marry a dude, divorce him, drag him through courts and collect 18 years of child support. All too many women choose that route instead. So in a way, it's commendable. But what an odd irony. Women pay for IVF and men pay for sex. Is that the future?

    • @CrimsonKarl
      @CrimsonKarl 4 года назад

      IceMan24 yeah i was referring to the first woman- the one from PA. The woman from NJ seems like a freeloader. Hopefully her new boyfriend did not sign the legal paternity form.

    • @z7z766
      @z7z766 Год назад +1

      @@CrimsonKarl women are waking up and starting their own family on their own after they settle with their career and buy a house.

  • @mehmey
    @mehmey 5 лет назад +10

    She compared having a child to buying a car and a house.

  • @meheretoday6968
    @meheretoday6968 5 лет назад +26

    Strong women ... they have my admiration.
    Many of us raise our children on our own because one parent is a gutless wonder and decides they can not take the responsibility of raising children, after the children have arrived on the scene... men and women alike do the duty of single parenting and I have nothing but respect for those willing to put themselves out there on these sort of videos, to remind the world that although having two parents is possibly more desirable, it is not necessarily the norm and that single parents are quite capable of raising their children to become productive and happy citizens of this world...
    Good luck to all of these strong women and children...

    • @meheretoday6968
      @meheretoday6968 5 лет назад

      okey dokey so you are unable to actually read...what a shame the person who raised you didnt teach you to comprehend what you read...have a nice day...

    • @aurozappa305
      @aurozappa305 5 лет назад +2

      Lmao these are cat ladies that nobody wants they hit the wall!!

    • @alexesquivel8566
      @alexesquivel8566 4 года назад +1

      Hell no. I grew up in a single mother household and my bro and I literally wreaked havoc on her. She had no control over us and was puzzled how to keep it in order. Luckily, we’re grown up now and realized it was wrong of us but we’re the minority compared to 80% of criminals that grow up in single mother households.... your comment should be deleted kus it’s stupid af.

    • @crewmatewillthrowthesehand7600
      @crewmatewillthrowthesehand7600 2 года назад +2

      @@alexesquivel8566 my grandma was a single mother with 4 kids. She was wealthy enough to raise and send them to university. family is still going strong for the 3rd generation. It isn't the single motherhood that's the problem but the poverty of unprepared pregnancy and the man going out to get milk. We support men who don't want to marry women and have surrogates too

    • @yessalady5003
      @yessalady5003 2 года назад

      @@crewmatewillthrowthesehand7600 thank you! It’s the poverty that keeps some people in the streets. When you’re stable with money, there are less worries. One or both parents spend more times with their children. They take more interests in what they’re doing. They’re less stressed and worried.

  • @deficator750
    @deficator750 4 года назад +26

    Title should be: 42 year old career women decides to have a child after realising she will die alone

    • @serenasimms1400
      @serenasimms1400 4 года назад +7

      And thats her fault somehow that no man wanted to step up to The plate and settle down its her fault that she couldn't find a man that loves her? Its a man's fault.

    • @gauravsanjay6758
      @gauravsanjay6758 3 года назад

      @@serenasimms1400 she needs to learn to negotiate, there is no perfect being for anyone. All we can do is negotiate

    • @serenasimms1400
      @serenasimms1400 3 года назад +4

      @@gauravsanjay6758 true but there's a difference between negotiating and settling and at this point she'd be settling which isn't good for her or her kids she's been waiting how long for a good man? and one just hasn't shown up its her life she doesn't need to co tinue to waist it looking for a man she only has one life and this is what she wants to do with ot.

  • @strawberriesblueberries2258
    @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +3

    Loving a child is not child abuse.

  • @theunknownbachatero8899
    @theunknownbachatero8899 7 месяцев назад +2

    So many children growing up WITHOUT fathers (especially boys)

  • @preciselyme4775
    @preciselyme4775 5 лет назад +11

    There's a much cheaper route, sleep with a man who doesnt want you then watch him disappear when he finds out your pregnant. Voila! No ivf needed.

  • @vigorlilover
    @vigorlilover 4 года назад +13

    If the people in this comment section have such fulfilling lives then why all the negativity? Seems like those of you weren’t raised right either. Worry about yourselves.

    • @z7z766
      @z7z766 Год назад +2

      Women who are smbc are affluent women. They have solid careers, bought their own home and went to have expensive treatment like ivf. Ppl are jealous of them for having their life together

  • @mortastic5117
    @mortastic5117 5 лет назад +38

    This is sad

    • @onlyplayaseattacoswiththei9433
      @onlyplayaseattacoswiththei9433 5 лет назад +11

      Not sure if we agree on WHY its sad , but it is....I also raise an eyebrow to a woman like this. 42 yrs & she couldn't find 1 decent enough man to start a family with? Something tells me this lady is a professional BITCH.

    • @EsotericElle
      @EsotericElle 5 лет назад +1

      @@onlyplayaseattacoswiththei9433 shut the fuck up

    • @onlyplayaseattacoswiththei9433
      @onlyplayaseattacoswiththei9433 5 лет назад +2

      exactly! & as a ghost writer for 3 professional comedians I have to correct you ...."lowered expectations" was MAD tv 😂...but I fully get what you mean & agree w you 😉

    • @gotskinn
      @gotskinn 5 лет назад +1

      @Nancyray I agree and I don't. My daughter hasn't found anything but spoiled SELFISH people.
      I had a lot of devoted good men when I was dating.
      Times are very different.

    • @gotskinn
      @gotskinn 5 лет назад

      @Nancyray well...I have a straight girly daughter. She dates all kinds. I'm pretty sick of feeling like she will kick ass over most of her boyfriends.
      Times are very different.
      You'll see.

  • @Honeycoupe
    @Honeycoupe 3 года назад +11

    Single parents are awesome. If this was a single dad, the mgtow incels would be applauding.

    • @Gnashercide
      @Gnashercide 2 года назад +1

      No ,single parent aren't awesome, they are a problem for society.

    • @sonicrealismguy
      @sonicrealismguy Год назад +9

      @@Gnashercide You ​wrong the single father are awesome my mom was abused on me my friend is fine he doesn’t have mother

    • @Gnashercide
      @Gnashercide Год назад +1

      @@sonicrealismguy no ,being single parent doesn't make you awesome and shouldn't be the norm for kids and society .

    • @Gnashercide
      @Gnashercide Год назад +1

      @@sonicrealismguy nuclear family is the goal, not this baby mama culture.and all of this because of welfare state

    • @Thanouse
      @Thanouse Год назад

      @@Gnashercide We don't care u incel 🤓 the moms are not good anymore

  • @bigollie006
    @bigollie006 5 лет назад +13

    Men, if you read this, understand:
    Do not date single moms. No exception. No exception. No exception. Say it with me

    • @bakatobijuu
      @bakatobijuu 5 лет назад +2

      Just date virgin woman not the non-virgin women
      Single mothers are not virgin whoever dating single mother are whore you will get STDs. Don't trust them .

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад

      Edward Alexander no body wants to date your sorry dead beat behind anyway

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +2

      Goku Godly if that’s the case then all women should date virgin men.

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад

      Goku Godly you have allot of nerve calling yourself Godly but yet you make sexist comments like this. No wonder why people turn atheists!

    • @bigollie006
      @bigollie006 5 лет назад +5

      @@strawberriesblueberries2258 you sound like a pathetic single mom

  • @billjenks7199
    @billjenks7199 5 лет назад +1

    Not sure what all the fuss is about. The divorce rate is around 50% which leaves the world awash with single moms anyway.

  • @dreamsofturtles1828
    @dreamsofturtles1828 5 лет назад +24

    I wish i could give this more than 1 thumbs down. The fact she seems offended that people even dare QUESTION her is political corectness bs at its worse. There shall be no questioning!

  • @MsLotusBlooms
    @MsLotusBlooms 4 года назад +22

    That child will be so loved. Older mom who really wanted it desperately. That's as good as it gets.

  • @josewilliams6094
    @josewilliams6094 4 года назад +17

    Good for her. I admire women who have the courage to follow their own destiny. Most single mothers are single because the men who fathered their children have decided they have changed their minds about being fathers. Easy for them to walk away. easy to criticise the mothers who stay and tough it out as most single mothers do. This woman is in a different position because she has a good career and that means extra resources.

    • @isaaclooper1298
      @isaaclooper1298 4 года назад

      Oh shut up. Maybe the guy didn’t want to have kids right away. Maybe get a guy who wants children.

    • @josewilliams6094
      @josewilliams6094 4 года назад +5

      @@isaaclooper1298 She'd probably also prefer a bloke who isn't abusive. Maybe she couldn't find one?

    • @lennertcornette
      @lennertcornette Год назад

      Ehm, women decide everything about children on their own? Don't want a kid but the guy does? Abortion. Do want a kid but guy doesn't? Pay child support. It's women who do 60% of the dumping and 70-90% of initiating divorce so it's not men, I'm afraid, it's women.

    • @lennertcornette
      @lennertcornette Год назад

      @@josewilliams6094 Ah, yes, millions of single men but they are al abusive. Maybe women have become completely narcissistic and entitled?

  • @xxgavinxxx1883
    @xxgavinxxx1883 5 лет назад +20

    I really wish men were encouraged to constantly pat themselves on our backs like women .then we could feel like making totally stupid choices are a courageous thing

  • @CustomStyleCajunTurkey
    @CustomStyleCajunTurkey 5 лет назад +3

    Fertility treatments are not cheap and the success rate is low. This woman was fortunate it only cost her 15k+, but other women have spent millions sometimes with no success in conceiving a child. How much $$$ are you willing to spend to be a single mother by choice?

    • @orrenboyle2814
      @orrenboyle2814 5 лет назад +3

      Worse yet, IVF treatments have caused strokes in otherwise healthy women.

    • @workingshlub8861
      @workingshlub8861 5 лет назад +1

      do foster care or some kind of volunteer work...why the need to be a single mother?? its like couples who are having problems and think having a kid will solve everything....ridiculous.

  • @britishmgtow7251
    @britishmgtow7251 5 лет назад +3

    Single mothers raise terrible, unfortunate children

    • @britishmgtow7251
      @britishmgtow7251 5 лет назад +2

      @Jeniliah Everette
      Yep, their mothers, cabon copies of trash

  • @sheilacastillo3988
    @sheilacastillo3988 3 года назад +21

    If later on I don’t have a partner that’s what I’m going to do as well it’s so inspiring

    • @Gnashercide
      @Gnashercide 2 года назад +4

      No . Just don't ruin kid life . Kids need parents, stop being selfish, Kids aren't dogs

    • @Gnashercide
      @Gnashercide 2 года назад

      @@icyunvme2400 I'm talking about kids interests not yours selfish desires

    • @Gnashercide
      @Gnashercide 2 года назад

      @@icyunvme2400 I'm talking about kids . I know what a kid need for his mental construction : NUCLEAR FAMILY . Not single motherhood and fatherless home , and i can prove that with stats

    • @z7z766
      @z7z766 Год назад +1

      @@Gnashercide well the kid will obviously have a parent you foool

    • @Wizardwitchse
      @Wizardwitchse Год назад +5

      @@Gnashercide Incel cry about

  • @lennoxbeharry5004
    @lennoxbeharry5004 5 лет назад +25

    i wonder if you ever had a fathers love

  • @Leelz247
    @Leelz247 5 лет назад +8

    Fulfilling the dream of becoming a mom is NOT a selfish thing to do, I cannot believe the horrific judgmental comments on this channel. She is going to be a good mom. Thank God we have the means nowadays to fulfill this dream and women to have this choice using technology. Congratulations!

    • @MrThenonchosenone
      @MrThenonchosenone 5 лет назад +1

      It's extremely selfish to bring a child into a home, just to be raised by a nanny while the parents work 14 hours a day chasing a career

    • @cthpham
      @cthpham 5 лет назад

      That's not true, some of these financially stable mothers that decided to have kids do have a plan to have more time with their kids. You shouldn't be making assumptions. You're not exactly in their shoes. You do know that there are two parent households that require both parents work full time right?

    • @crewmatewillthrowthesehand7600
      @crewmatewillthrowthesehand7600 2 года назад

      @@MrThenonchosenone I think the mom's financially stable. that's why she chose to have the baby. There are families with both parents working to make ends meet too.

  • @DJCayne
    @DJCayne 5 лет назад +9

    So her child is pretty much a science experiment. Great

    • @meheretoday6968
      @meheretoday6968 5 лет назад

      every child in this world that has ever been born has been a science experiment... 'if we have a child will it be healthy and will we be able to raise it properly, oh what the hell lets have a kid and see." is the usual way things go... no one knows what the outcome of their experiment will be, but they give it a go. They document every step of the life of the pregnancy and the childs life with paperwork, medical documents and photos and video footage and share their findings with anyone stupid enough to stand still long enough to be caught and forced to look... its called PARENTHOOD

    • @DJCayne
      @DJCayne 5 лет назад

      "Every" child brought into this world was not an experiment. Look up the definition of an "experiment". Unless you're trying to prove something new or test a hypothesis, it's NOT an experiment. This video clearly displays a NEW alternative norm to having babies, thus it is an experiment. But yeah, let's keep positive mindset and create more single parent households...which is not normal for those who are civilized. @@meheretoday6968

  • @MrPorkncheese
    @MrPorkncheese 4 года назад +4

    Selfish women are more important than a child's future

  • @DannyBoi86
    @DannyBoi86 5 лет назад +6

    She's 42?, that child is probably going to have birth defects on top of being raised in a broken home. No thought of how the child is going to be affected, just what she wants matters to her, so selfish!

    • @theharshtruth8563
      @theharshtruth8563 5 лет назад +1

      Only reason she had kids is because she's too lazy to work. She wants some free government money.

  • @kristenb180
    @kristenb180 4 года назад +27

    This is the same thing my daughter plans on doing when she’s older.😀

    • @jaimeduncan6167
      @jaimeduncan6167 3 года назад

      Great. Tell her to use sexual selection technology. Clearly she does not get along with men (that is 100% good) but she should not rise a *boy* without a father just for fun. The technology currently is 85% effective. Girls are flexible and they really don't need men.

    • @danielwanyerah3346
      @danielwanyerah3346 3 года назад +2

      Tell her no

    • @danielwanyerah3346
      @danielwanyerah3346 3 года назад

      💀

    • @crewmatewillthrowthesehand7600
      @crewmatewillthrowthesehand7600 2 года назад +8

      @@danielwanyerah3346 what. are you going to go marry her? lmao

    • @malloryjines5050
      @malloryjines5050 2 года назад

      Oh GREAT! You’re cheering on another fatherless child!

  • @bluediamond4895
    @bluediamond4895 4 года назад +6

    For those of you who like to criticize and say children need a mom and Dad. What about gay parents and single fathers? How come it’s considered child abuse when a woman decides to be a single mother but yet it’s suddenly not child abuse when a father decides to be a single Dad by choice or if a gay couple decides to have children?

    • @crewmatewillthrowthesehand7600
      @crewmatewillthrowthesehand7600 2 года назад +1

      it's just the logic bending when they claim women are meant to become mothers and evolutionarily wired to raise children by herself, but if she's a single mother, she's suddenly worse at parenting than single fathers. These people still can't decide whether women are good a raising children or not.

    • @malloryjines5050
      @malloryjines5050 2 года назад

      EVERY CHILD deserves a mother and a father and that INCLUDES gay couples. I’ve known a few and the kids LOVE their moms or dads but have still suffered issues from not having a parent of the opposite sex.

  • @abcdefu359
    @abcdefu359 4 года назад +25

    “Right now I’m on my career path. After this, I’ll find my Prince Charming and start a family.”
    Only....you’re now 43. She bought the feminist’s lie - that women should live just the same way men do, and you’ll be happy.
    Nah.

    • @AlexandraTama
      @AlexandraTama 4 года назад +6

      What if she never met someone she'd love? That can happen.

    • @mqmatadukare9310
      @mqmatadukare9310 4 года назад

      It's bad in marrige procedureit

    • @mqmatadukare9310
      @mqmatadukare9310 4 года назад

      All depend upon men they chose girl they hate girl they can chose anyone

    • @AlexandraTama
      @AlexandraTama 4 года назад +3

      @@Indipuk Why would she be a feminist? Any evidence?

    • @serenasimms1400
      @serenasimms1400 4 года назад +3

      Focusing on her career isn't a problem woman already make less then men so wanting to be able to support herself and live a more lavish lifestyle without needing to depend on a man isnt a problem and doesn't make you a feminist

  • @missdesireindependance5194
    @missdesireindependance5194 5 лет назад +27

    I’m happy these ladies where able to achieve their goals of becoming mothers. No one should judge why they choose their careers before marriage. Hopefully these kids will in the future have fathers.

    • @amywatkins9309
      @amywatkins9309 5 лет назад

      Miss desire Independance This. 100 times over.

    • @gotskinn
      @gotskinn 5 лет назад +5

      What? Men these days are not men. They can barely get past their own greed to take care of a wife; much less her other children.
      I will say it simple.
      War makes hard men, hard men work hard, hard working men make easy times and easy times make weak men.
      Men are weak & greedy today. And that's why all the men wear makeup & fake nails now.
      I have yet to see my daughter date a real man that can throw a punch better than her.
      *that is okay w everybody now?*
      Wtf is going on? The women are supposed to be stronger than MEN NOW?
      No wonder why we think of aliens as infeminet and ungendered and INTELLIGENT. That is all female properties.
      Wake up people.

    • @domirican81
      @domirican81 5 лет назад +6

      Nancyray .. PSA: MEN, DO NOT UNPAUSE ANOTHER MAN'S SAVED GAME!

    • @takeover08
      @takeover08 5 лет назад +4

      The black woman has TOTALLY lost her mind in America. I stand firm in saying you follow white women and belong to white men. Considering you abort more children than you give birth to, and don’t wear your own hair to top it off, it further proves my stance.

    • @domirican81
      @domirican81 5 лет назад +1

      Nancyray .. Totally valid, women shouldn't date/marry single dads either. Single mom's and single dad's deserve each other.

  • @unicornus33
    @unicornus33 2 года назад +3

    She has said more than once that the right man didn’t come along, but she chose to have a child that isn’t genetically related to her. So she didn’t use a sperm donor in place of a partner to have her “own” child. She put two stanger’s reproductive material together and carried her that way. Other than being pregnant and giving birth she could have adopted and had a daughter. She also could have carried and given birth to an unwanted frozen embryo that already existed with the same outcome.

  • @Highboostakon
    @Highboostakon 4 года назад +18

    Say no to single mothers... recreational use only.

  • @marcusanark2541
    @marcusanark2541 4 года назад +19

    Never interrupt your enemy when he is making a mistake - Sun Tzu.

    • @Youngnrrwhtjwtjetk
      @Youngnrrwhtjwtjetk 3 года назад +12

      lol is your enemy women? that's quite sad

    • @danielscott7985
      @danielscott7985 Год назад

      ​@@Youngnrrwhtjwtjetk at this point they are all of our enemies

  • @TeddyBearShark575
    @TeddyBearShark575 Месяц назад +1

    I wonder how Deirdre and Kelce are doing now? Anyone have any updates?

  • @Aisha_Davis
    @Aisha_Davis 4 года назад +11

    Every kid deserves a mom and a dad.

    • @christopheralexander2887
      @christopheralexander2887 4 года назад +1

      Aisha Davis hello 👋

    • @Aisha_Davis
      @Aisha_Davis 4 года назад

      Christopher Alexander hi 👋🏾

    • @dominiquewyatt6704
      @dominiquewyatt6704 2 года назад

      Sometimes that don't turn out that way

    • @z7z766
      @z7z766 Год назад +1

      @@Aisha_Davis every kid deserves love and guidance wherever that comes from, be it a single parent and two parents or other relatives

  • @Gods-bad-boy
    @Gods-bad-boy 5 лет назад +9

    The devil has fooled all of us.

    • @serenasimms1400
      @serenasimms1400 4 года назад +4

      It isn't the devil💀 its the fact that men don't grow up quick enough.

  • @sonyaberry9805
    @sonyaberry9805 5 лет назад +7

    I don't really think the term "single parent" is applicable nowdays because even single parents need reliable daycare providers grandparents church families to help with taking care of the children.

    • @strawberriesblueberries2258
      @strawberriesblueberries2258 5 лет назад +2

      Sonya Berry when two parents work; don’t they need someone to watch their children at home? If you don’t believe in daycares then maybe children shouldn’t be going to school either.

  • @makhluktuhan9746
    @makhluktuhan9746 5 лет назад +2

    Did anyone bother to ask, would the child want to be born that way?

  • @decemberdarling6058
    @decemberdarling6058 5 лет назад +8

    I support this. Have a baby when you want to. Don't wait on a stupid man to tell you when you can marry and start a family with him. Besides, men today don't even want to get married so what are women to do? Wait for these men forever and end up childless? No more.

    • @richardschiffman7657
      @richardschiffman7657 5 лет назад +3

      You can have all the babies out of wedlock that you want. Just don't expect me to help you pay for your bastards.

    • @CustomStyleCajunTurkey
      @CustomStyleCajunTurkey 5 лет назад

      Do you want to talk about why men don't want to get married? I didn't think so.
      On the other hand, women are also choosing careers and education over marriage so how could men marry them even if they wanted to? I don't get it. You want men to marry women, but women DON'T want to get married so they focus on being CEOs or trying to be. Then when these same women are ready to get married, they are past their fertility window, carry student loan debt and have nothing to offer a good man.

  • @cocoapuff134
    @cocoapuff134 4 года назад +12

    SINGLE MOTHERS ROCK !!!!!!

    • @Gnashercide
      @Gnashercide 2 года назад

      No thanks

    • @cocoapuff134
      @cocoapuff134 2 года назад +2

      @@Gnashercide You sound wombless. Jealous much ?

  • @nikkiblazier3793
    @nikkiblazier3793 2 года назад +19

    I'm so happy for you. Also I want to point out this - stop asking single women to adopt if they want kids. It's not on single women to adopt anymore than it is on hetero couples to adopt.

    • @Gnashercide
      @Gnashercide 2 года назад

      Selfish mothers

    • @Gnashercide
      @Gnashercide 2 года назад +1

      @@fk-rm6xs I'm talking about the children interests not your desires. Nuclear family is the most efficient structure for children development. Want a kid ? Go find a decent man (stable good father)

    • @Gnashercide
      @Gnashercide 2 года назад

      @@fk-rm6xs ruclips.net/video/KQPMjQApBcw/видео.html

    • @LuvJewels7
      @LuvJewels7 Год назад

      Thank you for saying this ❤

    • @Wizardwitchse
      @Wizardwitchse Год назад

      @@Gnashercide She cannot get man the men in internet are bad talking about single mothers not other they decide not marry to single moms

  • @thisismyloooveeeyy8014
    @thisismyloooveeeyy8014 5 лет назад +4

    very strange , what would she tell her kid, when he ask who is my father , why he is not with us , why he did not visit us , and many needs feeling , very strange choice .

    • @spazdude1
      @spazdude1 5 лет назад +2

      This is 2019 there are family s with 2 moms or 2 dads or just a mom or a dad.

    • @thisismyloooveeeyy8014
      @thisismyloooveeeyy8014 5 лет назад

      @@spazdude1 This is just in the Societies which call them self modern (2019) ( unbeliever in God orders ) and they think it is better than having real dad , it is all about choices so Allah has gave us the ability to pick ,may we follow his order then we have a better life or we don't follow it so we have to suffer .

  • @natalianat9105
    @natalianat9105 2 года назад +15

    I plan to be a SMBC too. Found this video very helpful 🥺🤩🤩🤩 i wanna be a mon but yeah romantic love always fail and my age cant wait any longer 😥

    • @malloryjines5050
      @malloryjines5050 2 года назад

      You need to think what is in the best interest of the child, NOT what makes you happy.

    • @z7z766
      @z7z766 Год назад +1

      @@malloryjines5050 what do you know about makes the child happy?

    • @malloryjines5050
      @malloryjines5050 Год назад

      @@z7z766 I suspect being a mother of 2 grown sons and 3 beautiful grandchildren gives me some amount of experience. I’m still married to their father after 48 years, who I might add has been my only husband and is a great father and grandfather. My sons would not be the stable confident men they are today without the guidance of a strong man in their lives. Perhaps I struck a nerve with you. Families with a mother and father have been the historical norm for thousands of years. Yes, sometimes there are deaths in the family or an abusive individual in which case it’s imperative to get out of that relationship. As a general rule in the best interests OF THE CHILD (not your maternal yearnings) they should be raised with a mother and a father.

  • @zebare726
    @zebare726 5 лет назад +13

    Grannies wants to date Thor.

  • @JK20239
    @JK20239 5 лет назад +6

    I still dont date single mothers.. Good luck to her.

  • @kayf661
    @kayf661 5 лет назад +16

    Her choice. I know a lot of women who did it traditionally and still end up being a single mom /the man is a dead beat. I love having both my parents but life has no guarantees. I hope there is still a strong male influence in the child's life.

    • @JohnDoe-le8fy
      @JohnDoe-le8fy 5 лет назад +6

      That's because the women chose horrible BF / Husbands instead of Fathers, then come crying about how bad men are, no one cares anymore you ladies need to be shamed back into reality before society collapses.

    • @workingshlub8861
      @workingshlub8861 5 лет назад +2

      @@JohnDoe-le8fy exactly...they saw who they wanted the father to be...not who he really was ..a deadbeat . sorry but that is 100% on the mother.

    • @workingshlub8861
      @workingshlub8861 5 лет назад +1

      @@JohnDoe-le8fy they love march around yelling" my body my choice " how come that does not apply when they chose a deadbeat dad??

    • @cthpham
      @cthpham 5 лет назад +12

      Don't victim blame. Men are also responsible for their own behaviors and actions.

    • @mulhollanddriven4520
      @mulhollanddriven4520 2 года назад +2

      The old “dead beat dad” lie.

  • @noonehere4332
    @noonehere4332 4 года назад +8

    “Single mother by choice.” That is a poor choice.

    • @evalinacesarcassule5097
      @evalinacesarcassule5097 4 года назад +1

      Nah...your mom choice was the worst. If she didnt had you and verly educated you, the world would be a better place

    • @solarsnake
      @solarsnake 3 года назад +1

      @@evalinacesarcassule5097 who hurt you?

  • @henrymccomments
    @henrymccomments 5 лет назад +8

    Don’t take government handouts

  • @g18lu
    @g18lu 5 лет назад +25

    6:14 why is she spoon feeding ideas into the child's mind? The kid is obviously sad about not having a dad

    • @serenasimms1400
      @serenasimms1400 4 года назад +1

      Shes not sad her mom is literally dating someoen💀

    • @braydenbjorn9953
      @braydenbjorn9953 3 года назад

      you prolly dont care but if you are bored like me atm you can stream pretty much all of the new series on instaflixxer. Been streaming with my girlfriend recently xD

    • @lucahugh7209
      @lucahugh7209 3 года назад

      @Brayden Bjorn Definitely, I've been using instaflixxer for since november myself :D

    • @jaimeduncan6167
      @jaimeduncan6167 3 года назад

      @@serenasimms1400 We don't know that, one way or another, she did not let her child speak.

  • @specialedandrew7331
    @specialedandrew7331 5 лет назад +32

    4:00 future cat lady do it all by yourself

  • @mannyverse6158
    @mannyverse6158 5 лет назад +8

    Woman like this are scary AF

  • @listianiachmad3140
    @listianiachmad3140 5 лет назад +5

    I dont want not to have a Dad.

  • @josejonhson674
    @josejonhson674 5 лет назад +10

    The right guy showed up lol that man is at least 70 years old

    • @abcdefu359
      @abcdefu359 4 года назад +1

      Jose Jonhson “The right man” = he had money.

  • @jeffreystern5886
    @jeffreystern5886 5 лет назад +2

    The next generation of kids who were purposely raised without a father will curse this generation.

  • @hkarim9648
    @hkarim9648 5 лет назад +26

    6:16-6:23 mind control from early so they grow up to think they don’t need a man just like miserable mummy

    • @spazdude1
      @spazdude1 5 лет назад +2

      you dont really need a man this days.

    • @orueom7720
      @orueom7720 5 лет назад +3

      @@spazdude1 until a crisis happens and your "sistas!" Are to busy yo help you out.

    • @Leelz247
      @Leelz247 5 лет назад +4

      She doesn't look miserable to me

    • @JohnDoe-le8fy
      @JohnDoe-le8fy 5 лет назад +3

      @@spazdude1 Got to be the dumbest comment ever, while living in a world literally built and maintained by men, men you more than likely look down on or think of as trash are the only reason you aren't starving to death in the middle of woods shelterless. The brainwashing and delusions are so strong, it's amazing how successful their social conditioning programs to depopulate the world actually were.

    • @spazdude1
      @spazdude1 5 лет назад +1

      @@JohnDoe-le8fy How does it make you feel? a woman only need to go online buy sperm go to a Dr or even do it at home to get pregnant no need for sex with a man.

  • @workingshlub8861
    @workingshlub8861 5 лет назад +3

    ok..no tax payer funded anything and good luck...no food stamps ..no section 8 etc..

    • @Moitie-Bae
      @Moitie-Bae 3 года назад +1

      ...You really think that women paying for these treatments would be on welfare? Jfc. Never have children.

  • @random7279
    @random7279 4 года назад +7

    congrats, just ignore those negative comments

  • @Aar0nMD
    @Aar0nMD 5 лет назад +3

    Why do people just ignore the fact that kids from single parent households have way less success in life? It’s so. Not good for the kids. And this lady seems super selfish.

  • @colonelreb1014
    @colonelreb1014 5 лет назад +6

    My career took priority over having a child. So I want to become a single mom. I'll have to make work my main priority but at least I'll have a little cute picture on my social media now. Plus I'll employ a nanny now.

    • @onlyplayaseattacoswiththei9433
      @onlyplayaseattacoswiththei9433 5 лет назад +4

      A Latino nanny no doubt 😂...isn't it funny how these women can NEVER seem to find the "right man"?...😂, 40 + yrs old & still believes in "the right guy".lol. I bet women like this couldn't find happiness w a man 2 save their lives.

    • @colonelreb1014
      @colonelreb1014 5 лет назад +3

      @@onlyplayaseattacoswiththei9433 I've seen this over and again in the place I work.woman starts work. Sleeps with half the guys that work there knowing or not knowing they only wanted quick pleasure. The other half won't touch her knowing her background. She gets bitter. Says she doesn't need a man. Gets impregnated by some unknown guys semen. Has the baby. It's a news story and all the sudden she feels better. Then she goes and sleeps with a dozen more men and has a dozen step daddy's in her child's life and fucks them up too. It's a cycle.

    • @domirican81
      @domirican81 5 лет назад +1

      Peyton Bell ... Most of today's WESTERN women are garbage, gotta head out of the U.S. nowadays to find even decent quality women. With globalization (Instagram, Facebook), more women getting into the same mindset.

    • @onlyplayaseattacoswiththei9433
      @onlyplayaseattacoswiththei9433 5 лет назад

      @@domirican81 that's true.

  • @Nino_J
    @Nino_J 5 лет назад

    I bet if this was a black mother it’d be outrage

  • @louididdy
    @louididdy 5 лет назад +17

    Nice American Football jersey. She's got some male qualities, at least.

  • @mindelo23
    @mindelo23 4 года назад +12

    This is kind of depressing.

    • @serenasimms1400
      @serenasimms1400 4 года назад +1

      Yeah too bad most men don't grow up fast enough anymore.