Truly one of the most gracious, respectful, genuine true crime creators on the internet. How you cover these stories so sensitively impresses me every time
My husband also got insanely controlling when I went back to school for my nursing degree. Luckily I never had kids with him and got out so far, safely. Definitely was frightened and def sent that "it was him" text just in case I got murdered. The night he turned off our ring cameras was the night I left. Moved all my stuff out while he was at work and had movers do it. I watch too many of these videos, he was displaying all the warning signs. ALso, THANK YOU for donating to the Daisy foundation. Ive been nominated several times but have never won. She must have been an amazing nurse and person.
That's so frightening. I hate that it's reality for so many people. I'm glad you saw the signs, trusted your gut to get out when you did and are still here. x
@sidnee9489 I am happy that you didn't hesitate another minute!! Glad that you are safe. Too bad Becky didn't purchase her very own "protection" and was ready for him when he broke in. Maybe she would have gotten a speedy trial and on with her life! Prayers for the boys, her parents, her sis, and the rest of friends and family 🙏
That's so scary. Glad you listened to your gut instinct and saw the signs that helped you get out of that situation. My ex-husband was a bipolar narcissist (found out after marriage when he stopped taking his medication for it) and the person he was turning into was very scary which prompted a "it was him text" to my best friend. Got out of that marriage not long after but it took years to self heal and move on from that whole traumatic experience.
Becky sounds like such a gem. I know the 'narcissist' thing is a cliche at this point, but it's the only explanation I can think of. Instead of Tim thinking "gee maybe I'm the problem, I'll work to be a better partner to my wife" his ego is so out of whack he thinks she's the devil and the source of all his problems. (A nurse and loving mother who ROUTINELY helps others)
When the judge counted out each shot. That hit me hard! Saying "you shot her 14 times" is shocking to hear but shouting "1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10,11,12,13,14" just made it ring in my ear like actual gun shots. That was powerful. Rip beautiful lady and I'm glad her and her family got justice.
Kendall, I am a Daisy recipient and I didn’t know that Becky was, too. Thank you so much for truly caring about the victims. No matter how many times I had heard about this case, I knew that I was about to learn so much more. You have such a gift! You go above and beyond for the victims and their families, in the most compassionate way possible. Rest in peace, Becky. Although I didn’t know you personally, as a fellow nurse, I will ensure your legacy lives on.❤
Let’s not forget that Becky had just had surgery and was in a very vulnerable state.. and Tim knew that! She had asked him to keep the boys for another night because she wasn’t feeling well after her surgery. He knew how vulnerable she was and he took complete advantage of it.
@@Gina-x6mthat's a grim but probably true statement... I read some stats once where a majority of women who land in jail for "violent" crimes are there because they tried to defend themselves from a murderous abusive partner. I don't remember if this was in USA or my own country, but that statement resonated.
@@Gina-x6mthis is true. I went in at 18 (3days) for being stupid and the horror stories i heard will haunt me forever. One lady i was with stabbed her bf after being beat for yrs. She poked him after she caught him on top of her 7yr old SON one night.
i initiated no contact w my ex. he broke no contact but i needed him to explain why he started seeing me as an enemy. he said he realized he was jealous of me. couldn’t explain why he was or why he couldn’t stop feeling jealous. “keep your enemies closer” is something some men live by.
The “91126” being on her phone absolutely breaks my heart. I cannot stand violence, this is sickening. To take someone’s life who was putting nothing but positivity in the world is beyond low. Her family and her sons were also stolen from too. How dare you take a mother away from her children?
Her mother is one of the sweetest and most selfless women I’ve ever met. I never met Becky, but her mom spoke so highly of her. I haven’t seen her mom since she lost Becky, she has been focusing all of her energy on raising Becky’s boys.
I sobbed the whole end of the video 😭 The victim statements, the attorney, and the judge counting out the 14 gun shots, got me. My heart breaks for this family. There is no doubt in my mind they put the correct person behind bars.
I love that it’s called The Daisy Foundation, that was my grandmas name (miss you, grandma) and my mom is an amazing nurse. She’s been a nurse since before I was born and she always takes such special care of her patients… why is it always the ones who makes the world an amazing place the ones to have to leave us
That’s so sad, she seemed like such a beautiful person. So sad that those boys lost such a wonderful person for a mom. As a nurse the Daisy award is an honor, says so much about her!
The defense attorney shaking her head and rolling her eyes while Becky's mother was reading her impact statement at 49:43 made my skin crawl. Just absolutely sickening and so incredibly disrespectful. I hope that Becky's soul is resting in peace and that her family and sons can heal. As for Tim, I hope he rots in hell.
@@kordei-7839exactly! If she truly thought her client was innocent, fine, understandable, but that means the mother of his children was viciously murdered, someone’s sister, daughter, mother. Whether she thought he was guilty or not, a woman was murdered. That piece of info is not up for debate. A woman lost her life, the world lost a beautiful person, the hospital lost a hardworking and caring nurse, her patients lost a wonderful and decorated caregiver, her friends lost a great and reliable friend, her family lost a beloved member, this man lost his ex, his children’s mother, etc. Whether she thought he was guilty or not, she was disgusting in her actions and it’s reprehensible that she sat there knowing cameras were on her, shaking her head. Turns my stomach to know she could know all the facts, listen to all of the testimony, hear all of Becky’s family’s stories and heartbreak and still show her face in public. I would be utterly mortified to know so many people saw me acting that way. The way she not only acts that way, but then doubles down in later interviews, is gross. She should be ashamed. I know it takes a certain type of psycho to defend murders and be a defense attorney to people like this man… so I already know she’s a trash human with no conscience but then to openly and obviously act that way…. I don’t know how she sleeps at night. You can defend your client while still respecting the victim, two things can be true at once. She’s gross. As well as Tim
I think you’re reading into something that didn’t happen… Can I ask honestly, were you looking for this? A reaction of sorts from the defence attorney?? I’ve looked at this footage three times now and do not equate to anything you have. The eye roll?? Yes there is a quick and slight head shake but you have no idea what this is and/or actually means.
Becky was an amazing nurse, friend, mother, coworker ❤ I was blessed to know her. Her poor boys now have to grow up without either parent. It still doesn’t seem real.
She was a lot more than that, did you not hear anything else said about her? She obviously had a lot of energy and care in her to be able to do the amount of things she was doing PLUS being a mother of 3/wife @@everythingisupsidedown9593
Me ex wanted me two buy a pink 22 from our neighbor. I told her you must be out of your fucking mind. You would have to know her, my step daughter and the in-laws
Girl talk is "My husband is talking to me about fantasy football again and I'm just going with it." Not "My husband beats me and throws things at me in front of the kids. If I end up dead, he did it" How could she with a clear conscious even say something like that? I understand that defense attorneys need to give their clients a fair defense under the law. I know that some attorneys defend clients that they may not 100% believe are innocent, especially if it's a public defender. But after the trial not even admitting "Yeah this guy was a monster and I see now that he did it" . Her ego and ethics are wacky.
@@ahoward3503 she's also saying that about someone who lost their life, i think it's also overconfident of her to say this case is dripping with reasonable doubt when she defends someone who says he doesn't know where the gun his wife gifted him is. i also hate it when the defense puts down someone who is already dead just to defend their client
One could possibly (though still major cringe-y) argue that it's "girl talk" if there was at least an "lol" in there somewhere but it sure didn't look like that was the case. What a jackass that woman is. Defense attorneys can often be dealt a crap hand of a case but ESPECIALLY when someone has lost their life there's a way to stand by and defend your client while also displaying tact and respect.
That judge must have had a flash back to his prosecution days...he did not hold back and it was great! Justice is such a hard concept- if only his life sentence could substitute hers😢
He was great. The prosecutor was impressive as well. Some prosecutors irk me, even when the defendant is a POS, they can be a lot to take. This guy is a very effective speaker without feeling the need to be extra.
if some one is ordered by a judge to return a piece of weaponry given them by another, IMMEDIATELY, while STILL in the court-room, at least two police officers should be called to the court-house to accompany the person to their home to get the gun, and either the cops bring the weapon back to the other person, or they go with the one who was ordered to give it back, to the other's home to return it. the judge shouldn't just leave it up to the person to give it back when ever they felt like it. it should have been done IMMEDIATELY, that very day. now that's not to say he couldn't have gotten another gun some other way, but all the same -- he should have been made to bring the gun back THAT DAY, with a police escort to make sure he actually followed the judge's orders, OR ordered him to surrender the gun to the police and had the cops bring it back. common sense clearly is not a part of the judicial system.
The defense's attempt to poke holes in the phone search is ridiculous. "Oh well maybe the real killer used his phone, we don't know it was him!" COME ON they're PIN protected. I hate Bliefnick's lawyer's type of defense: it's basically wanting to equate "astronomically tiny possibility" with "reasonable doubt". It doesn't work that way.
Thank you for donating to the Daisy foundation! My husband and I are both RNs and he has actually won a Daisy award Becky seemed to be an amazing nurse, mom and person. Nursing school is no joke and not having a supportive spouse makes it tough. My ex was very much not supportive of me in my BSN program. I think all nurses can honor Becky by providing compassionate and excellent care. Her memory will live on through the nursing community ❤
my mom is a victim of DM, my whole family is. it’s terrifying knowing that it’s statistically more common to be murdered from your spouse (ex spouse) they’ve been divorced since 2020 but it wasn’t a easy divorce and i’m always scared of what could happen. we understand you becky and we’re glad you got justice!
Watching the 48 Hours I low-key think she's in love with Bliefnick, on that idea one of the following is true: she believes he's not guilty because her affection is clouding her judgment, or she thinks he deserves to get away with murder.
That crossed my mind, too. She may be concerned about her reputation as an attorney, or thinking that she will no longer take on cases where she knows she is defending a guilty person. But something about her body language, shaking, and facial expressions gave off a hint of there being something more to it.
Hearing him say “I love my wife” on family feud knowing what he ended up doing makes my skin crawl. Becky deserved so much better than this “man” and I hope her family can find peace someday ❤️
I have mixed emotions every time Kendall uploads a video. I love her videos because of how elegantly and responsibly they are presented, and they are getting the media attention they deserve, but it’s another sad story about someone losing their life. I’m just so glad we have creators like Kendall who spend their time really understanding all sides of the cases and presenting them with good morals, as well as donating to foundations and charities that support stories like this one. 🖤
I dont know how to feel. I am angry. He asked for the divorce, he wanted to leave and when he realised he couldn't keep everything in the process he considered her disposable?! When i watch stuff like this, I always tell my Fiancé 'if you ever want to leave me, dont kill me' and he's always so confused that I'd think thats an option. But the sad reality is, for many men- it's less of a hit to kill someone you love then to let them leave. Just let them go, let them leave. Xxxx
the only word that came to mind when i heard about becky's life was "superwoman." truly a brilliant, kind, caring, and special person. my heart breaks for her family.
This is a sad story but i always love how you do so well talking about these stories! Your voice is soothing and comforting with such sad stories that need to be heard
I really do hope the children are growing up with Becky's loving family, so they can hear all about their amazing mum and I hope they are healing the best they can.
I love that she was a Daisy recipient. I went to university right after school and graduated with my BSN in 4 years. Several of my classmates were older-average age was 29-and nursing was not their first career. One went on to win a Daisy and she was a fantastic classmate, nurse, mother and woman. The world lost a wonderful person. Glad he got the correct sentence.
As a boy mom myself, my heart really breaks for those young men. Losing your mom at that age in this horrible manner... I pray that the Lord surrounds them with comfort, peace, and love.
LOVE FROM SERBIA, Kendall! I look up to your and Josh's marriage and can't feel anything but pure love and support. I love how he is so gentle towards you, but still very "himself" in your mutual relationship - not telling you what 'one wanna hear' on Mile Higher, but rather speaking his mind out, like yourself. I wish more people like the two of you share love, compassion and sincereness. This is the fastest I could write my mind out 'cause I know the comment section will be flooded. LOVE You.
I love that the defense attorney didn’t expect the judge to say 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10,11,12,13,14 (shots fired). Eff her. We show our support for Becky’s family and friends. A kind soul lost to a psychopath. Prayers 🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I literally gasped out loud when his search history was “how to open a door with a crow bar.” And the searches just got worse from there. RIP Becky, she sounds like she was an incredible person
This is so heartbreaking. I’m glad he got life with no parole but Becky should have lived much longer, what a beautiful soul she was. Sending so much love and prayers to her family and friends.
Kendall, i have been watching you since i was in 6th grade, i am now 20. i’ve always loved your channel. I grew up on the ID channel bc my mom had it on as long as I can remember. this grew my interest in true crime. your passion for telling these victims stories, your attention to detail and how you bring every single detail into your videos is amazing. you truly talk about each case as if you knew the victims yourself. this translates a sense of deep emotion in your videos, which has always touched me.
Steve was not impressed. In Steve's books he talks openly about loving his wife and says she's worth more than millions to him. I was glad to see him stare the other guy down and not support that.
Speaking as a person who is also going through a divorce, I would also look into the new boyfriend or girlfriend, mainly because I want to be sure that my kids are safe around this new person. I wouldn't go that crazy, but I understand to an extent. Also, Aldi is a cheaper place to shop for groceries, but they are also 100% dye free in all of their products. I have noticed a significant difference in my daughters behavior since we switched to dye free. Love you and all of your shows. ❤
I’ve never heard of this case before but oh my gosh does it break my heart. As a mom of 3, a registered nurse who had no support from their spouse in school, and who lived in fear of their abusive partner each and every day, this has always been my worst nightmare. My divorce and custody court where I have lots of evidence to support me getting full custody isn’t until this fall and I truly fear how he will react. I can only imagine the fear Becky felt in those final moments. What a phenomenal woman she was and what a devastating loss. Those poor babies.
That's a good point. In this case I see a lot of anger at the judge, and while it's *something*, ultimately I think Bliefnick would have murdered her either way. I've known situations where a restraining order even aggravates the abuser, sadly. With some cases, like the murder of Amie Harwick, I think extending the restraining order could have been helpful: her stalker showed a pattern of escalating violations after her 8-year restraining order expired. But even then it's no guarantee. (i.e. Her killer Gareth Pursehouse was still breaking into her apartment even WHEN the order was in place, he was just more stealthy about it. After it expired he got brazenly creepy.)
Unfortunately it's not until the woman dies that the system decides to do something. My heart goes to all the individuals going through physical and mental abuse and the system ignoring their cries.
Agreed, but it might have given him pause. Continuing to get away with his threatening behavior may have given him false confidence. He felt untouchable. Murdering someone who has a restraining order against you makes you the #1 suspect and is evidence. It may have helped stop him but we’ll never know. Her and the children deserved that protection or at least validation form the courts regardless 😢
Wow I had no idea what the daisy award was, my daughter was born wirh a rare liver disease and has spent alot of time in the hospital, I've seen signs that said "nominate your nurse for a daisy award!" Now that I know what it is I will definitely nominate our favorite nurse next time my daughter is in the hospital. Your donation to this foundation hits a little close to home for me because when you have a child with medical complexities, you realize just how important and amazing nurses really are. Thank you for making this donation on the behalf of Becky, it means alot to nurses and the families that they take care of 🩷
Omggggg that effing defense attorney!!! The complete disrespect while the mother was reading her victim impact statement 😡😤. How does one live with themselves?!
I’ve seen so many of these true crime videos but I’ve never thought to myself “wow, I really wish I could have known her. “ I really hope her family stays close and protects those boys. 💜
Looking at her old Facebook's it's heartbreaking because she's so happy for her beautiful family and healthy kids and wonderful husband she says. You can tell what kind of wonderful human being she was.
Good God, his lawyer is not only a disgrace of a woman, but a disgrace of a human being. To say that about her message expressing genuine fear of that man. Yikes.
Don't know how the family could keep their composure as much as they did, in the courtroom. I was balling at times in this video and I didn't even know her! I absolutely appreciate you putting us in our feels and making this an emotional journey because IT IS and it should be portrayed with that sensitivity and compassion.
I hope these 3 boys are doing the very best that they can. RIP Becky. Such a horrible tragedy now these children have no parents because of one selfish monster!!
What a horrifying tragic case. My heart is so heavy for Becky and her boys. Thank you for the respectful and informative background into her life and accomplishments.
These victim impact statements were some of the most impactful I’ve ever heard. Becky’s sister really captured the agony of losing someone like her. She seemed like she was a bright light amongst the darkness. I hope her boys can grow up to cope with both of these losses in healthy ways. Nobody deserved this pain.
The programme is called Family Fortunes in UK. The victim statement from Becky's sister is so powerful. Rest in peace Becky, an Angel gone from this world to the Lords🤗🇬🇧
I watched the whole trial, the prosecution was AMAZING!!! RIP precious Becky. Condolences to her family and friends. My heart breaks for her little boys.
Everyone in the court aside from the AWFUL defense attorney were incredible. amazing show of empathy, and a well deserved sentence. I hope her family heal knowing justice has rightfully been served.
I wish i could resubscribe over and over.. or like the videos over and over.. because you are so compassionate, these tragic events you cover aren't just stories for you, not just something to do on yt for views.. you genuinely have compassion and empathy for the families and victims. Love you sooo much, and all the brother sister channels ❤️
I encourage everyone to look into the Alexis Gabe case!! She still desperately needs justice. I feel like if her case was covered here it would bring so much attention and awareness
I am from Brazil and saw articles about this case several times, but I didn't know how many times she was shot or how many shots the killer fired in places that didn't kill her quickly so she would suffer. It's so sad. I hope that her family, especially the boys, are well and that she has found peace wherever she is.
Hey Kendall, i really enjoy watching your videos i’ve been watching you for a VERY long time & i love how you do real research on every single victim case it never seems rushed or as if your just rushing to get content out by the end of every video i feel as if i knew the victims almost personally. i’m a U.S army solider currently on deployment so i don’t have any access to netflix hulu etc so i’ve been binge watching & rewatching all of your videos 😭 continue doing great!
Love you Kendall , I am watching while at chemo for my ovarian cancer ( metastatic). I have all my chemo friends here watching you . I make jewelry do you have a pic box so I can send you something
You are my favorite! The way you tell the stories of the victims are so respectful to them and their families. Thank you for helping so many families ❤❤😊
Why is it always the purest of people who get murdered?? No one deserves to be murdered, but I don’t understand how someone could hate someone so wonderful!
I didn't see a smirk. It looked more like an insecure wannabe cool-girl, that wants to look as unbothered as possible. It's like she took the sentencing personal.
The fact that he had searched for Becky’s new boyfriend’s license plate 200 times makes me truly mad. Not only is that an evasion of their privacy but it also shows just how far he was willing to go to harm her. Rip Becky
What a heartbreaking case 😢 Those poor boys!! My heart goes out to them, it will be a long recovery from this level of trauma, and it’s all so very senseless!
Just got back from searching for my missing cat with no luck.. seeing you posted is a positive for my day at least. Your kitty in the back reminds me a lot of my Louie. I really miss him :(
what episode were you going watch? i often put on old episodes when i need to power through something at work and don't want to be totally distracted by the case lol. so curious what episode(s) are your go to ones? I personally loved the Lauren Spier case, its always stuck me so when Kendall covered it I was super in!
thank you for always highlighting what beautiful lives these victims lived, making them more than just a true crime story. you really show how much life they had and honor their memory. thank you
I often wonder in cases like this, if the perpetrator even consider the fact that they are now leaving their children without any parents for the rest of their life. I don’t understand why any parent wouldn’t think about that. Parents are supposed to love and protect their children, not leave them traumatized.
Thank you for doing this video! This happened in my hometown and it always made me upset that she went to the authorities and they did nothing to protect her.
I adore the calm vibe of your videos, im one of those ppl who can listen to these falling asleep and your videos are 10/10 for that!! And your storytelling is also on point. 💜💜💜
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Truly one of the most gracious, respectful, genuine true crime creators on the internet. How you cover these stories so sensitively impresses me every time
Thank you :)
This is why she’s my favorite ❤️ You’re a true earth angel, Kendall.
100% agree!
I agree, too ❤
This is why she is my favorite too! She is a true gem
My husband also got insanely controlling when I went back to school for my nursing degree. Luckily I never had kids with him and got out so far, safely. Definitely was frightened and def sent that "it was him" text just in case I got murdered. The night he turned off our ring cameras was the night I left. Moved all my stuff out while he was at work and had movers do it. I watch too many of these videos, he was displaying all the warning signs.
ALso, THANK YOU for donating to the Daisy foundation. Ive been nominated several times but have never won. She must have been an amazing nurse and person.
That's so frightening. I hate that it's reality for so many people. I'm glad you saw the signs, trusted your gut to get out when you did and are still here. x
@sidnee9489 I am happy that you didn't hesitate another minute!! Glad that you are safe. Too bad Becky didn't purchase her very own "protection" and was ready for him when he broke in. Maybe she would have gotten a speedy trial and on with her life!
Prayers for the boys, her parents, her sis, and the rest of friends and family 🙏
Nurses are superheroes and i always nominate my nurses for a Daisy award ❤
That's so scary. Glad you listened to your gut instinct and saw the signs that helped you get out of that situation. My ex-husband was a bipolar narcissist (found out after marriage when he stopped taking his medication for it) and the person he was turning into was very scary which prompted a "it was him text" to my best friend. Got out of that marriage not long after but it took years to self heal and move on from that whole traumatic experience.
I truly don’t get how some man children get so threatened when their wives want more out of their lives. 😤 being a nurse is one heck of a milestone! 👍
SA nurses deserve so much love! I wouldn’t be here without someone like her. Rest in peace!
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Becky sounds like such a gem.
I know the 'narcissist' thing is a cliche at this point, but it's the only explanation I can think of.
Instead of Tim thinking "gee maybe I'm the problem, I'll work to be a better partner to my wife" his ego is so out of whack he thinks she's the devil and the source of all his problems. (A nurse and loving mother who ROUTINELY helps others)
they are amazing!! but don’t ever fail to acknowledge your strength! sending love
@@lilith7160 you’re so kind, thank you!
She was from San Antonio
When the judge counted out each shot. That hit me hard! Saying "you shot her 14 times" is shocking to hear but shouting "1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10,11,12,13,14" just made it ring in my ear like actual gun shots. That was powerful. Rip beautiful lady and I'm glad her and her family got justice.
Me too. Actually made me tear up.
The look on the defence lawyer's face says it all
Kendall, I am a Daisy recipient and I didn’t know that Becky was, too. Thank you so much for truly caring about the victims. No matter how many times I had heard about this case, I knew that I was about to learn so much more. You have such a gift! You go above and beyond for the victims and their families, in the most compassionate way possible. Rest in peace, Becky. Although I didn’t know you personally, as a fellow nurse, I will ensure your legacy lives on.❤
Me too, as a nurse , I will ensure that Becys öegacy lives on!!
Thank you for your service. We love nurses ❤
@@SunniDae333 thank you so much ❤️
Let’s not forget that Becky had just had surgery and was in a very vulnerable state.. and Tim knew that! She had asked him to keep the boys for another night because she wasn’t feeling well after her surgery. He knew how vulnerable she was and he took complete advantage of it.
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Wow! How cruel!
I have never had or been part of “girl talk” that involves us just casually chatting about how our husband’s abuse us….
😂😂 THIS made me lol during a distressing and disturbing last hour; thanks!! **A MILLION times over agreed 👍🏼
I think that only happens in women’s country jail.
@@Gina-x6mthat's a grim but probably true statement... I read some stats once where a majority of women who land in jail for "violent" crimes are there because they tried to defend themselves from a murderous abusive partner. I don't remember if this was in USA or my own country, but that statement resonated.
I can’t even imagine. That’s just crazy.
@@Gina-x6mthis is true. I went in at 18 (3days) for being stupid and the horror stories i heard will haunt me forever.
One lady i was with stabbed her bf after being beat for yrs. She poked him after she caught him on top of her 7yr old SON one night.
The "if something ever happens to me" type of messages are always a dead giveaway in these domestic cases. How unfortunate
A lot of these men are jealous of their spouses and can’t stand it smh she was a force and should’ve been with someone that uplifts her smh
Yup. If your partner views you as competition, then they are your enemy. Only a toxic man would be jealous of their own wife.
@@saltycat662this!!!
Statistically women commit more domestic violence and child abuse then men. Stop being a feminist.
i initiated no contact w my ex. he broke no contact but i needed him to explain why he started seeing me as an enemy. he said he realized he was jealous of me. couldn’t explain why he was or why he couldn’t stop feeling jealous. “keep your enemies closer” is something some men live by.
@@sydneynunez7249 yes, they get very envious of you and we’ll never understand it
The “91126” being on her phone absolutely breaks my heart. I cannot stand violence, this is sickening. To take someone’s life who was putting nothing but positivity in the world is beyond low.
Her family and her sons were also stolen from too. How dare you take a mother away from her children?
Hearing mothers mourn the loss of their children will always hurt my heart in the most unimaginable ways, rest in power Becky
Her mother is one of the sweetest and most selfless women I’ve ever met. I never met Becky, but her mom spoke so highly of her. I haven’t seen her mom since she lost Becky, she has been focusing all of her energy on raising Becky’s boys.
His attorney gives red flags! I wonder how often she visits him in prison? The body language is just weird and her “girl talk” comment was suspicious.
I sobbed the whole end of the video 😭 The victim statements, the attorney, and the judge counting out the 14 gun shots, got me. My heart breaks for this family.
There is no doubt in my mind they put the correct person behind bars.
Agree - it was a personal crime of a passion that's CRYSTAL clear. "break in burglars" don't shoot people 14 times.
Me too. I cried when Beckys mom gave her speech. I usually don't while watching these videos but it was just gut-wrenching and really got to me
Yeah... him counting out the 14 shots got to me. Breaks my heart 😞
Same, I am still wiping tears. My heart just hurts for her boys and family.
I love that it’s called The Daisy Foundation, that was my grandmas name (miss you, grandma) and my mom is an amazing nurse. She’s been a nurse since before I was born and she always takes such special care of her patients… why is it always the ones who makes the world an amazing place the ones to have to leave us
That’s so sad, she seemed like such a beautiful person. So sad that those boys lost such a wonderful person for a mom. As a nurse the Daisy award is an honor, says so much about her!
These cases with children involved never fails to completely break my heart. It’s so sad that people can be so evil
The defense attorney shaking her head and rolling her eyes while Becky's mother was reading her impact statement at 49:43 made my skin crawl. Just absolutely sickening and so incredibly disrespectful. I hope that Becky's soul is resting in peace and that her family and sons can heal. As for Tim, I hope he rots in hell.
It’s weird cos no matter how much she believes that man she should still show respect to the family of the victim.
I saw that and I honestly wish her mother would have seen it and called her out on it. She deserved to be made to look like the ass that she is. Smh
@@kordei-7839exactly! If she truly thought her client was innocent, fine, understandable, but that means the mother of his children was viciously murdered, someone’s sister, daughter, mother. Whether she thought he was guilty or not, a woman was murdered. That piece of info is not up for debate. A woman lost her life, the world lost a beautiful person, the hospital lost a hardworking and caring nurse, her patients lost a wonderful and decorated caregiver, her friends lost a great and reliable friend, her family lost a beloved member, this man lost his ex, his children’s mother, etc. Whether she thought he was guilty or not, she was disgusting in her actions and it’s reprehensible that she sat there knowing cameras were on her, shaking her head. Turns my stomach to know she could know all the facts, listen to all of the testimony, hear all of Becky’s family’s stories and heartbreak and still show her face in public. I would be utterly mortified to know so many people saw me acting that way. The way she not only acts that way, but then doubles down in later interviews, is gross. She should be ashamed.
I know it takes a certain type of psycho to defend murders and be a defense attorney to people like this man… so I already know she’s a trash human with no conscience but then to openly and obviously act that way…. I don’t know how she sleeps at night. You can defend your client while still respecting the victim, two things can be true at once. She’s gross. As well as Tim
I think you’re reading into something that didn’t happen… Can I ask honestly, were you looking for this? A reaction of sorts from the defence attorney?? I’ve looked at this footage three times now and do not equate to anything you have. The eye roll?? Yes there is a quick and slight head shake but you have no idea what this is and/or actually means.
Yes, that defense attorney’s behavior really manifested her true character!
Becky was an amazing nurse, friend, mother, coworker ❤ I was blessed to know her. Her poor boys now have to grow up without either parent. It still doesn’t seem real.
Damn, Becky sounds like an awesome human. May her soul rest in peace and may Tim rot in hell.
Amen 🙏
Oh he will. He'll never sincerely repent because he's pure evil.
Being a travelling nurse with three young children is awesome?
@@everythingisupsidedown9593 Shut your mouth! She was murdered by her abusive husband and that's your comment?! You're a pathetic human being!
She was a lot more than that, did you not hear anything else said about her? She obviously had a lot of energy and care in her to be able to do the amount of things she was doing PLUS being a mother of 3/wife @@everythingisupsidedown9593
The fact that Becky gifted her husband her own murder weapon💔💔
Me ex wanted me two buy a pink 22 from our neighbor. I told her you must be out of your fucking mind. You would have to know her, my step daughter and the in-laws
"Girl talk" is disgraceful, what an annoying defense.
Girl talk is "My husband is talking to me about fantasy football again and I'm just going with it."
Not "My husband beats me and throws things at me in front of the kids. If I end up dead, he did it"
How could she with a clear conscious even say something like that? I understand that defense attorneys need to give their clients a fair defense under the law. I know that some attorneys defend clients that they may not 100% believe are innocent, especially if it's a public defender. But after the trial not even admitting "Yeah this guy was a monster and I see now that he did it" . Her ego and ethics are wacky.
He reminds me of Count Dracula
@@ahoward3503 she's also saying that about someone who lost their life, i think it's also overconfident of her to say this case is dripping with reasonable doubt when she defends someone who says he doesn't know where the gun his wife gifted him is. i also hate it when the defense puts down someone who is already dead just to defend their client
One could possibly (though still major cringe-y) argue that it's "girl talk" if there was at least an "lol" in there somewhere but it sure didn't look like that was the case. What a jackass that woman is. Defense attorneys can often be dealt a crap hand of a case but ESPECIALLY when someone has lost their life there's a way to stand by and defend your client while also displaying tact and respect.
Yeah, that was disgusting.
I had to giggle at " you are disgusting and I don't wanna talk about you anymore" but seriously that is such BS - "GIRL TALK"?!
Samesies!! 😂
That judge must have had a flash back to his prosecution days...he did not hold back and it was great! Justice is such a hard concept- if only his life sentence could substitute hers😢
He was great. The prosecutor was impressive as well. Some prosecutors irk me, even when the defendant is a POS, they can be a lot to take. This guy is a very effective speaker without feeling the need to be extra.
This judge did the right thing in this case, but if you up his name (judge Robert Adrian) you can see how bad of a person he is.
if some one is ordered by a judge to return a piece of weaponry given them by another, IMMEDIATELY, while STILL in the court-room, at least two police officers should be called to the court-house to accompany the person to their home to get the gun, and either the cops bring the weapon back to the other person, or they go with the one who was ordered to give it back, to the other's home to return it. the judge shouldn't just leave it up to the person to give it back when ever they felt like it. it should have been done IMMEDIATELY, that very day.
now that's not to say he couldn't have gotten another gun some other way, but all the same -- he should have been made to bring the gun back THAT DAY, with a police escort to make sure he actually followed the judge's orders, OR ordered him to surrender the gun to the police and had the cops bring it back. common sense clearly is not a part of the judicial system.
The specificity of those google searches is WILD
It always makes me so happy when the killers are stupid enough to google these things 😅
The defense's attempt to poke holes in the phone search is ridiculous. "Oh well maybe the real killer used his phone, we don't know it was him!" COME ON they're PIN protected. I hate Bliefnick's lawyer's type of defense: it's basically wanting to equate "astronomically tiny possibility" with "reasonable doubt". It doesn't work that way.
And the fact that they have no time stamps or dates in this age?! Insane
That’s what I thought. Those searches are too clear as you said the specificity.
can you imagine how happy the prosecution was to discover these? case closed
Thank you for donating to the Daisy foundation! My husband and I are both RNs and he has actually won a Daisy award
Becky seemed to be an amazing nurse, mom and person. Nursing school is no joke and not having a supportive spouse makes it tough. My ex was very much not supportive of me in my BSN program. I think all nurses can honor Becky by providing compassionate and excellent care. Her memory will live on through the nursing community ❤
Good God, this womans resume, she sounds like a true angel on earth 😢
Yes, she was a very angel person in earth, I feel very surprised yesterday she was a strong nurse student.
my mom is a victim of DM, my whole family is. it’s terrifying knowing that it’s statistically more common to be murdered from your spouse (ex spouse) they’ve been divorced since 2020 but it wasn’t a easy divorce and i’m always scared of what could happen. we understand you becky and we’re glad you got justice!
The defense attorney's facial expressions while the impact statements were being made were absolutely disgusting.
I thought the same thing. She has a sour, blank look on her face.
Watching the 48 Hours I low-key think she's in love with Bliefnick, on that idea one of the following is true: she believes he's not guilty because her affection is clouding her judgment, or she thinks he deserves to get away with murder.
@@dante6985 you never know. You could be right about that.
That crossed my mind, too. She may be concerned about her reputation as an attorney, or thinking that she will no longer take on cases where she knows she is defending a guilty person. But something about her body language, shaking, and facial expressions gave off a hint of there being something more to it.
when the judge read his sentence as natural life or so, the way she turned and frowned at her client, disgusting
That is so kind of you to make a donation to the Daisy foundation! Im a nurse and have seen quite a few coworkers receive this award. Thank you!
Hearing him say “I love my wife” on family feud knowing what he ended up doing makes my skin crawl. Becky deserved so much better than this “man” and I hope her family can find peace someday ❤️
I have mixed emotions every time Kendall uploads a video. I love her videos because of how elegantly and responsibly they are presented, and they are getting the media attention they deserve, but it’s another sad story about someone losing their life. I’m just so glad we have creators like Kendall who spend their time really understanding all sides of the cases and presenting them with good morals, as well as donating to foundations and charities that support stories like this one. 🖤
I dont know how to feel. I am angry. He asked for the divorce, he wanted to leave and when he realised he couldn't keep everything in the process he considered her disposable?!
When i watch stuff like this, I always tell my Fiancé 'if you ever want to leave me, dont kill me' and he's always so confused that I'd think thats an option. But the sad reality is, for many men- it's less of a hit to kill someone you love then to let them leave. Just let them go, let them leave. Xxxx
You may want to reconsider things...
@@joutoob9 nope, perfectly secure and happy. But thankyou.
@@joutoob9wait why?
the only word that came to mind when i heard about becky's life was "superwoman." truly a brilliant, kind, caring, and special person. my heart breaks for her family.
I saw the 48 hours and the lawyer came across as his delusional girlfriend rather than a legal professional.
Yeah her behavior was very unprofessional.
My thought exactly! She is messy!
She probably was a delusional gf. These desperados love a good degenerate
She probably was a delusional gf. These desperados love a good degenerate
Narcissistic males seek our female lawyers because they think they can be manipulated, which obviously this one was.
This is a sad story but i always love how you do so well talking about these stories! Your voice is soothing and comforting with such sad stories that need to be heard
Her sisters speech made me cry 😢 I can’t imagine how painful it would be to know my older brother was afraid, alone, hopeless and in pain while dying.
I really do hope the children are growing up with Becky's loving family, so they can hear all about their amazing mum and I hope they are healing the best they can.
I love that she was a Daisy recipient. I went to university right after school and graduated with my BSN in 4 years. Several of my classmates were older-average age was 29-and nursing was not their first career. One went on to win a Daisy and she was a fantastic classmate, nurse, mother and woman. The world lost a wonderful person. Glad he got the correct sentence.
As a boy mom myself, my heart really breaks for those young men. Losing your mom at that age in this horrible manner... I pray that the Lord surrounds them with comfort, peace, and love.
LOVE FROM SERBIA, Kendall! I look up to your and Josh's marriage and can't feel anything but pure love and support. I love how he is so gentle towards you, but still very "himself" in your mutual relationship - not telling you what 'one wanna hear' on Mile Higher, but rather speaking his mind out, like yourself. I wish more people like the two of you share love, compassion and sincereness. This is the fastest I could write my mind out 'cause I know the comment section will be flooded.
LOVE You.
Tata kendall tu as dis badass j'ai pas compris expliques moi 😊
Omg I'm watching from Croatia! 🫶🏼
Drago mi je da vidim jos nekog iz Srbije da gleda😍❤️
@@Solènelamigonnelicorneshe means that Becky was very smart!!
Watching from Serbia, too!
I love that the defense attorney didn’t expect the judge to say 1,2,3,4,5,6,7,8,9,10,11,12,13,14 (shots fired). Eff her. We show our support for Becky’s family and friends. A kind soul lost to a psychopath. Prayers 🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I literally gasped out loud when his search history was “how to open a door with a crow bar.” And the searches just got worse from there. RIP Becky, she sounds like she was an incredible person
This is so heartbreaking. I’m glad he got life with no parole but Becky should have lived much longer, what a beautiful soul she was. Sending so much love and prayers to her family and friends.
The deffense attorney just has one of those faces that you just cant trust.
Kendall, i have been watching you since i was in 6th grade, i am now 20. i’ve always loved your channel. I grew up on the ID channel bc my mom had it on as long as I can remember. this grew my interest in true crime. your passion for telling these victims stories, your attention to detail and how you bring every single detail into your videos is amazing. you truly talk about each case as if you knew the victims yourself. this translates a sense of deep emotion in your videos, which has always touched me.
I remember this click, Steve Harvey did not like that answer either…which is telling cuz he usually laughs at the contestants “crazy answers”
No, Steve says "huh??" and makes wtf faces allll the time. I don't think you've seen very many episodes....
Steve was not impressed. In Steve's books he talks openly about loving his wife and says she's worth more than millions to him. I was glad to see him stare the other guy down and not support that.
Speaking as a person who is also going through a divorce, I would also look into the new boyfriend or girlfriend, mainly because I want to be sure that my kids are safe around this new person. I wouldn't go that crazy, but I understand to an extent.
Also, Aldi is a cheaper place to shop for groceries, but they are also 100% dye free in all of their products. I have noticed a significant difference in my daughters behavior since we switched to dye free. Love you and all of your shows. ❤
I was actually just thinking about how upset and terrified I’d be if one of my friends sent me a text like that. Girl talk my ass.
I’ve never heard of this case before but oh my gosh does it break my heart. As a mom of 3, a registered nurse who had no support from their spouse in school, and who lived in fear of their abusive partner each and every day, this has always been my worst nightmare. My divorce and custody court where I have lots of evidence to support me getting full custody isn’t until this fall and I truly fear how he will react. I can only imagine the fear Becky felt in those final moments. What a phenomenal woman she was and what a devastating loss. Those poor babies.
Even if Becky did get that protection order I don’t think it would have mattered. So sad.
Yeah, sadly it's just a piece of paper. 😢
That's a good point. In this case I see a lot of anger at the judge, and while it's *something*, ultimately I think Bliefnick would have murdered her either way.
I've known situations where a restraining order even aggravates the abuser, sadly.
With some cases, like the murder of Amie Harwick, I think extending the restraining order could have been helpful: her stalker showed a pattern of escalating violations after her 8-year restraining order expired. But even then it's no guarantee. (i.e. Her killer Gareth Pursehouse was still breaking into her apartment even WHEN the order was in place, he was just more stealthy about it. After it expired he got brazenly creepy.)
Unfortunately it's not until the woman dies that the system decides to do something. My heart goes to all the individuals going through physical and mental abuse and the system ignoring their cries.
Agreed, but it might have given him pause. Continuing to get away with his threatening behavior may have given him false confidence. He felt untouchable. Murdering someone who has a restraining order against you makes you the #1 suspect and is evidence. It may have helped stop him but we’ll never know. Her and the children deserved that protection or at least validation form the courts regardless 😢
It seems like more times than not, restraining orders only escalate the situation.
Wow I had no idea what the daisy award was, my daughter was born wirh a rare liver disease and has spent alot of time in the hospital, I've seen signs that said "nominate your nurse for a daisy award!" Now that I know what it is I will definitely nominate our favorite nurse next time my daughter is in the hospital. Your donation to this foundation hits a little close to home for me because when you have a child with medical complexities, you realize just how important and amazing nurses really are. Thank you for making this donation on the behalf of Becky, it means alot to nurses and the families that they take care of 🩷
All the impact statements got me, but that judge counting out the shots fired 😭😭 My heart is with her family and especially those boys ❤️❤️
Omggggg that effing defense attorney!!! The complete disrespect while the mother was reading her victim impact statement 😡😤. How does one live with themselves?!
There should be a charge against her for improper court behavior
game shows/ TV shows leading to murders is mental!! Seeing the people before tragedy strikes is sickening and unsettling
seriously!!
I’ve seen so many of these true crime videos but I’ve never thought to myself “wow, I really wish I could have known her. “
I really hope her family stays close and protects those boys. 💜
Thank you for covering this! So glad there’s justice for the family and friends in this case❤ sending healing vibes to all involved
Looking at her old Facebook's it's heartbreaking because she's so happy for her beautiful family and healthy kids and wonderful husband she says. You can tell what kind of wonderful human being she was.
Good God, his lawyer is not only a disgrace of a woman, but a disgrace of a human being. To say that about her message expressing genuine fear of that man. Yikes.
Don't know how the family could keep their composure as much as they did, in the courtroom. I was balling at times in this video and I didn't even know her! I absolutely appreciate you putting us in our feels and making this an emotional journey because IT IS and it should be portrayed with that sensitivity and compassion.
I hope these 3 boys are doing the very best that they can. RIP Becky. Such a horrible tragedy now these children have no parents because of one selfish monster!!
What a horrifying tragic case. My heart is so heavy for Becky and her boys. Thank you for the respectful and informative background into her life and accomplishments.
Can’t wait to watch this after work! Kendall, PLEASE cover Micca’s story one day. Micca and her family deserve peace and justice.
Mica
i just covered this case for a final for a class i’m taking. grateful to see you talking about it and bringing awareness!
perfect timing before the kids get off the bus ❤️
Becky sounds like someone I would have loved to meet in my life. Sending good vibes to her family.
These victim impact statements were some of the most impactful I’ve ever heard. Becky’s sister really captured the agony of losing someone like her. She seemed like she was a bright light amongst the darkness. I hope her boys can grow up to cope with both of these losses in healthy ways. Nobody deserved this pain.
The programme is called Family Fortunes in UK. The victim statement from Becky's sister is so powerful. Rest in peace Becky, an Angel gone from this world to the Lords🤗🇬🇧
I watched the whole trial, the prosecution was AMAZING!!!
RIP precious Becky. Condolences to her family and friends.
My heart breaks for her little boys.
Everyone in the court aside from the AWFUL defense attorney were incredible. amazing show of empathy, and a well deserved sentence. I hope her family heal knowing justice has rightfully been served.
I wish i could resubscribe over and over.. or like the videos over and over.. because you are so compassionate, these tragic events you cover aren't just stories for you, not just something to do on yt for views.. you genuinely have compassion and empathy for the families and victims. Love you sooo much, and all the brother sister channels ❤️
I encourage everyone to look into the Alexis Gabe case!! She still desperately needs justice. I feel like if her case was covered here it would bring so much attention and awareness
Kendall has a request form to submit suggestions. She doesn't always see it when it's put in the comments.
I am from Brazil and saw articles about this case several times, but I didn't know how many times she was shot or how many shots the killer fired in places that didn't kill her quickly so she would suffer. It's so sad. I hope that her family, especially the boys, are well and that she has found peace wherever she is.
Hey Kendall, i really enjoy watching your videos i’ve been watching you for a VERY long time & i love how you do real research on every single victim case it never seems rushed or as if your just rushing to get content out by the end of every video i feel as if i knew the victims almost personally. i’m a U.S army solider currently on deployment so i don’t have any access to netflix hulu etc so i’ve been binge watching & rewatching all of your videos 😭 continue doing great!
Thank you!!! And thank you for your service! 😀
Damn the fact that the same thing happened to her coworker just shows how common this is...
Love you Kendall , I am watching while at chemo for my ovarian cancer ( metastatic). I have all my chemo friends here watching you . I make jewelry do you have a pic box so I can send you something
You are my favorite! The way you tell the stories of the victims are so respectful to them and their families. Thank you for helping so many families ❤❤😊
Thinking your husband is going to kill you ~just girly things~ (apparently)
Why is it always the purest of people who get murdered?? No one deserves to be murdered, but I don’t understand how someone could hate someone so wonderful!
Even during the victim impact statements, the defense attorney has a smirk on her face. Disgusting.
I didn't see a smirk. It looked more like an insecure wannabe cool-girl, that wants to look as unbothered as possible. It's like she took the sentencing personal.
The fact that he had searched for Becky’s new boyfriend’s license plate 200 times makes me truly mad. Not only is that an evasion of their privacy but it also shows just how far he was willing to go to harm her.
Rip Becky
What a heartbreaking case 😢 Those poor boys!! My heart goes out to them, it will be a long recovery from this level of trauma, and it’s all so very senseless!
I’m so glad the trial didn’t go on for years and years. My heart goes out to Becky, her entire family, friends and all who loves her.
Just got back from searching for my missing cat with no luck.. seeing you posted is a positive for my day at least. Your kitty in the back reminds me a lot of my Louie. I really miss him :(
I hope you find him soon or he wanders back ❤
sending you good vibes! I hope your kitty comes home!
Bsr tata Haley j'espère que tu trouveras ton chat bientôt pauvre minet moi j'ai perdu mon chat minou alors je comprends ton inquiétude 😊
Il s'appelle comment ton minent tata Haley 😊😊❤
Tata Haley j'ai remarquée que les américains sur internet les adules bien sûr ne sont pas respectueux pourquoi 😊😊
the new visual and little sounds have been scratching my brain. they're soooo good. great quality!
This guy had the biggest "glow down" imaginable.
Word 😂
What a loss. She seemed like a wonderful person. Nurses are amazing.
What a terrible loss for the whole world. She was extraordinary.
I RECOMMENDED THIS ONE!! From my town and man it flipped it upside down heartbreaking case thank you for sharing her story respectfully
Was having an off day and went on RUclips to watch one of your older videos, but was surprised seeing this new one. Totally made my day! Thank you!🥳
what episode were you going watch? i often put on old episodes when i need to power through something at work and don't want to be totally distracted by the case lol. so curious what episode(s) are your go to ones? I personally loved the Lauren Spier case, its always stuck me so when Kendall covered it I was super in!
@@crystal_smmine is the missing 411 case of dennis martin it’s stuck with me
Hope your day gets better :)
Tatie kendall moi j'adore les licornes je fais des coloriages souvent je pense que holly également elle aime faire des coloriages et les licornes 😊❤
The story of a woman being murdered makes you feel better?
My heart goes out to the boys and I pray hard they get all the support needed throughout their lives, and to all those who loved Becky 😭 RIP Becky❤.
thank you for always highlighting what beautiful lives these victims lived, making them more than just a true crime story. you really show how much life they had and honor their memory. thank you
I often wonder in cases like this, if the perpetrator even consider the fact that they are now leaving their children without any parents for the rest of their life. I don’t understand why any parent wouldn’t think about that. Parents are supposed to love and protect their children, not leave them traumatized.
Becky sounded so awesome! Why is it always the awesome people who are taken from us? Those poor kids are victims in this too. RIP Becky.
I have watched all these cases on 48 hours and other channels...but no one can narrate these better than kendall...❤
Thank you for doing this video! This happened in my hometown and it always made me upset that she went to the authorities and they did nothing to protect her.
It’s very common in Quincy!!!
I REMEMBER this exact Family Feud show when it 1st aired. Crazy!
she seemed like such a beautiful soul ❤️ thank you for sharing her story
That judge. Was. Awesome.
Yes!!
Family Feud is called Family Fortune in the UK
That's cool!
I adore the calm vibe of your videos, im one of those ppl who can listen to these falling asleep and your videos are 10/10 for that!! And your storytelling is also on point. 💜💜💜