She sounded like she did not want to have this conversation, real weird that she reached out to talk and then just kind of stuck to facts without much elaboration. Would have liked to hear about how its negatively impacted her friendships beyond just that.
She doesn’t seem like someone who has been able to put much thought into why she does the things she does, and if she has then she doesn’t seem to like what she concluded with and doesn’t want to share
This episode was so interesting. I found it slightly uncomforting that she does not seem to care to get help and was shocked that people were mad when she slept with their boyfriends and husbands...idk, trying not to judge, it just throws me off that she is aware that its an addiction and doesn't care to get help.
I have so much compassion for her being in the wheelchair. I can empathize with the self esteem issues. But having sex with friends husbands and boyfriends is as shitty as you get. This girl needs help. Like, therapy.
@@bellanoche4945 I found it interesting that she was hostile that girls were intimidated by the fact that she crosses boundaries with SOs. When she blatantly admits to sleeping with her “friend’s” husbands without permission
She is one hell of a talker, isn’t she… I give kudos to these guys for being able to carry on this topic for so long. I’d lose my interest in wanting to get to know more about her after few minutes.
Being honest here, I first read that as "I'm a 'Handicapped sex' Addict" and the thought of someone being addicted to only having sex with Handicapped people was interesting to say the least. Great episode tho.
@Kaylie Hogan you know I didn’t think of “wheelchair” at all when I first read handicapped. I also think it doesn’t matter and people fetishize anything. Just the way a part of your body looks is fetishized regularly. Big nipples, small nipples, larger and tiny people. Something about everyone will be someone’s fetish.
This episode made me feel icky. Addiction isn’t an excuse to treat people like trash, and she seems very well aware of what she is doing. She doesn’t have any respect for herself or other people. I think it’s really sad that she seeks validation from other people and I am not sure if she is really addicted to sex per say, or more so addicted to the feeling of being desired and wanted by someone. I think we can all relate to having low self esteem in our lives at one point or another but that’s something you need to find within yourself, seeking momentary validation from outside sources only fills that void for a minute but then you’re back to feeling shitty. But I’m not a therapist lol. I think it’s really gross that she has no respect for her friendships and their relationships and has no issue sleeping with peoples husbands and has no remorse over that at all. I certainly wouldn’t want to be her friend, who wants to be friends with someone who has no respect for you on a basic human to human level? No thanks. I also find it really concerning that she doesn’t use protection all the time, she’s had a list of std’s (which can happen to anyone, no shame) but she admits to sleeping with 5-6 guys in a week, if she has an std but isn’t aware for say, a month, that’s 20 guys she’s slept with that she could have passed that on to, and who knows who those 20 guys are sleeping with.. just use condoms all the time it’s not that hard 😂 I felt for the guys trying to get conversation out of her. It was like pulling teeth lol.
I don't like it when people think that very sexual women "have no self respect". She makes sure she uses protection, and she has standards for who she sleeps with. That looks like basic self respect to me. She stated she has a history of addiction, and im assuming this is the route she has taken with an addicitve personality, which seems like an ok method vs other more harmful optins. The part where she doesn't respect others is the only one that bothers me.
@@yyg4632 But she literally said herself that she doesn't use protection all times. When sleeping with 5-6 people a week, if she doesn't use protection every time she's just risking spreading STDs before she even knows she has one. There's nothing wrong with a very sexual woman, but in this case it really just doesn't seem like she has self respect. The main reason she sleeps with so many people is for validation. If you truly cared about yourself you wouldn't seek temporary validation, you'd seek help and focus on repairing yourself rather than make it worse.
Regarding the conversation around sleeping with her friends' husbands: I understand that it gives her validation because they choose to risk their relationships to be with her / they kind of choose her over their wives. But I wish she could realize that all that self-esteem and confidence she's gaining is exactly what her friends are losing when they find out about the cheating. Very sad.
yeah i really agree with that. I always try to be understanding and not judge ppl if they want to sleep around with whoever they want. but doing so with someone who is married, especially a friend or even just someone you know and sleeping with their husband, is wayyy past crossing the line. there's just boundaries you should never cross. she may feel validated that a man is cheating on their wife for her but in reality she is most likely ruining someones relationship. messing with peoples lives/ feelings/love is never okay in my opinion
She's not addicted to sex she's addicted to the validation she's addicted to feeling wanted maybe she's addicted to feeling what she thinks or role plays is love. She's hurting a lot I think she recognizes all this too she's not stupid she's definitely self aware and honest for the most part
@@msinna6433 but it’s also her fault too for sleeping with her friends husbands. If you had a husband and your friend slept with him you’re telling me you also wouldn’t be mad at her too? Your friends owe you loyalty as much as a significant other owes you loyalty.
@@msinna6433 it's both their faults. It's not one or the other. But since those husband's aren't on here I can only go off her point of view. She's still a shitty person lol
I feel bad for her. It’s one thing to have sex because you enjoy it, but it’s another to be okay with constantly allowing people to use your body with your permission for internal validation. I don’t like how they glamorized how fantastic her sex life must be because it didn’t really sound all that great, going up to randoms for sex, sleeping with people’s husbands, not being able to maintain relationships (she said she has no close friends and has had few and far between monogamous relationships that didn’t last long), catching all these STDs. She also mentioned struggling with heroin and meth addiction. She really needs counseling or some kind of help rather than a pat on the back and a good for you.
I think it’s hard for them bc it’s a fine line of them still being entertaining, but they also try to make guests feel comfortable & not judged. It’s such an honest conversation that they weren’t expecting like they said that sometimes you don’t even know how to react. They did at the end I feel show glimpses of their true opinion & saying how people should get help so I don’t think they were entirely glamorizing the situation. It’s all a very bizarre fine line to teeter on
@@YasminGoncalves1998 I agree. I commented before fully listening to the whole episode. I appreciated what they said at the end. I know they keep it as serious or as light as the person they are interviewing wants to go, and her vibe was this is no big deal so they didn’t make it one.
@@Wandawil It's just unfortunate because I wish they really said to her face that this is something that she needs help with instead of keeping it light and fun. Sometimes people need to hear the truth said instead of have their own feelings validated. I understand that they want everyone to feel comfortable on the show, but man I would not have been as supportive..
as a person without a sex addiction, I find it difficult to stomach the part where she explains how only if someone is her "real friend", will she not hurt them and choose to stop herself from sleeping with their partner. her criteria for "a good friend" could be personal and non specific. If she describes someone as not a real friend, is that someone who has wronged her or just someone she doesn't feel especially close to? If it's the latter then I don't understand why she would decide it's not worth the self restraint. addiction can be debilitating and painful, of course and I don't mean to come off as insensitive but it would seem that she can and has stopped herself. I just wonder why it's only "real friends" whose feelings and relationships are completely off the table for her, and why she doesn't feel like that is something she wants to seek help for.
I feel the same exact way. I understand addiction can be a complex thing, however, by definition addiction is characterized not just by excessive behavior but also COMPULSIVE behavior and a lack of control. I find it odd that she can pick and choose which friends she deems close enough and not sleep with their partners. That shows there is control and some decision making involved which doesn’t fit into the ICD-10 definition of addiction. One thing I want to note is that addiction almost always leads to excessive behavior but excessive behavior doesn’t mean addiction. There maybe other things going on like how the lady stated her need for validation and admitted to having some insecurities. Personally, I think the male sex addict that they had on here before was an actual addict by definition due to his “I just need to get my fix mentality” and also the lack of standards and control.
It’s just so sad all around, the thing is- the wives are put at risk as well and so are all these people who are high risk for very serious diseases that aren’t curable - like HIV I absolutely feel for guest but it seems clear that this addiction is a substitute for the lack of love and value she has for herself. it is is possible to have lots of sex with someone who loves and appreciates you Disability/no disability
If she used to be addicted to drugs and now it's sex- her addiction just transfered from one thing to the other. Both endangering her health. I hope she's able to heal on a deeper level which will mean good therapy.
She is not a big talker which is fine but joe and greg have to work more on getting a conversation going and being enthusiastic to entertain people and their guests . However , what on earth was that episode !! She is literally the opposite of what i expected . Im trying so hard not to judge her but she should carry herself more with respect because this will affect other aspects of her life to the point where she might end up alone with no family or partners , after all no one escapes aging and our bodies will eventually deteriorate . At this point and AGE she should really get help , she might not see it as a problem now but once enough people reject her both sexually and socially this will pose a threat to her mental health .
It’s weird that she’s like “as long as it doesn’t disrupt your life it’s okay” ... disrupting your life and impacting your relationships/daily functioning is literally what distinguishes a sex addict from a person with a high sex drive. If it doesn’t disrupt their life, they aren’t an addict (unless in recovery). This was a weird conversation.
idk if it makes sense but it seems like she's in denial that her addiction disrupts her life but also acknowledges the things it has costed her at the same time. lol it's really strange
I’ve been struggling and in therapy for multiple addictions including sex, I hope she gets the help she needs and finds healthy habits to replace it, harddd work tho, w any addiction
Addiction & risky behavior go hand in hand. The fear of an STD wouldn’t fully deter a sex addict the same way the fear of an overdose doesn’t always deter a drug addict 🤷🏾♀️
If we sticking to that schedule to the t. 19 years. 5/6 guys per week. And we say half is regulars a conservative estimate holding these variables is around 3000 different people.
I know this is going to sound insane but minus the sex addiction, this woman’s life is eerily similar to my own. I was diagnosed with MD as a child, which I inherited from my father, which put me in a wheelchair at the exact age of 28. I am 38 right now as well. I’ve been in a healthy relationship for 12 years but damn that is so weird how my life aligns with this chick. I’m literally sitting here mind blown 🤯
Honestly I had a friend that was a sex addict, and it was bad. And we were all full service sex workers, and it wasn’t enough for her (not that it’s *real* sex). But she would get drunk and talk about wanting threesomes with people boyfriends, always having sex with married men but getting stds... it was bad. She messaged my ex when she was on vacation but claimed she just wanted coke... they’re terrible friends.
Guys, I love your content but as a wheelchair user, I would suggest using the term "disabled" to refer to someone disabled as the term 'handicapped' has evoked the idea of a beggar being out with his cap asking for money for decades. Although it is still used on governmental signs such as "handicap parking" instead of "accessible parking" it is not a very acceptable term for disabled people. Some might be alright with it while many won't. Loved the episode tho!
Nobody knows what words to use anymore because every 10 years or so it becomes offensive and we invent another word. It is like this African American b.s. We went from the N word thank god to the word Negro, then to black and now African American. I thought black was the best but we had to move on again. Disabled will become offensive in time. I won't even talk about this pronoun b.s. going on now.
Joe, your facial expressions are PRICELESS!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. When she answered that her only fear of STDs is not being able to have sex. That face you made. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Someone not being a "true friend" is a shitty excuse to go and screw with the relationship. Imagine you get to know her and treat her well then suddenly she goes and sleeps with your husband because she doesn't consider you a "true friend". Basic respect for other humans would be a nice addition if you're framing the addiction as a positive thing.
Omg he said "ride it out" and dude on the right thought he meant because she uses a wheelchair but he meant ride it out like a sex position lol omg that whole moment made me bust out laughing.
Hey, if youre the person who did this interview, first off i hope youre doing good. Second, i am in a very similar boat in terms of sex addiction and wanted to say i understand a lot of what you talked about. I hope you dont take the comments on here to heart that are negative. People who are "normal" dont understand and are always judgemental. Good luck in life and i wish you the best
You just know as soon as the cameras are off and filming is done, Joe and Greg talk aaaallllllllllllll the shit 🤣 and man I wish I was there to hear it and participate 🤣
This episode is very interesting. To me it seems like she is not interested in getting help for her issues and addiction. She seems to pity herself and still hold onto the fact that she was viewed as less attractive because of her weight when she was younger. It seems like she has developed this narcissistic personality due to the fact that men want to have sex with her. She seems comfortable in this life style.
Addictive personalities don't discriminate.. Wheelchairs, amputees, full on paralysed... or an upright walking person.... I pity her, such low self esteem, such a low opinion of herself. No self respect. She needs encouragement and a sense of self worth.
"I've slept with my friends husband" but also "if they're really my friend, I would never hurt her" soooooooo. Which is it? They're not really your friend and you slept with their husband or they ARE you friend and you slept with their husband?
You know you smoke too much when you remember the fact that the first time you saw and OPL episode I didn’t put together that it stood for other people’s lives so I spent the whole video trying to figure out what it stood for
Not necessarily. She could get help someday, or just naturally get less interested in sex over time and become more interested in friendship or other things. That said, I think the most concerning thing was her lack of interest in friendship.
@@jennystout8600 she definitely COULD become naturally less interested in sex over time. That's not going to fix her lack of a moral compass. You don't have sex with friends husbands and boyfriends and suddenly become a good person. She definitely needs therapy.
@@crowmedicine3890 well that's the thing about addictions. People's moral compasses go out the door because the addiction takes priority. Help is def possible for her.
@@crowmedicine3890 For sure! She appears "happy" now, but I think over time she will realize that this kind of happiness is fleeting. I do hope she gets therapy.
I'm a sex addict and this isnt how mine manifests at all. I mostly use sex as self-injury and it's not really about wanting to feel powerful or confident. I have really high-risk, degrading, and/or have sex with people I canr stand in order to deepen the self-loathing and then get off on my own shame and use the guilt as an excuse to "use" again. Before I was aware of it it was definitely a huge problem, but I've learned to check my motives thanks to resources from SCA... I also had a period of full celibacy. I still have benders sometimes, but I'm usually able to get myself in check. what makes it an addiction is escalation and disruption. Not saying she isnt a sex addict, I just want to make it clear to people that we arent all like this....
❤-ADVICE- Please use protection! You don't even need to have sex with many partners to get the really bad STD's. I didn't sleep around and I was also nervous about sex with people in fear of HIV. And now I have had HIV for the last 3 years. Just use a condom especially if you are having sex with people you don't know well. People lie all the time and probably moreso if they know that you wouldn't sleep with them if they have an STD.❤
When you think, well this is it. I've seen everything there is to see. I've heard everything I need to hear. I've experienced everything there is to be experienced. And then this? To me this may have become an addiction. But I see someone who has zero self esteem or self worth, who confuses being desired to being exploited.
Like she said, it's the only joy in life she gets.. 😢😢😢 We all got our vices. Smoking, drinking, etc... Behaviour becomes a habit and some are hard to break... Wishing her all the best, lives are so complex..
"If i truly love my friend i would never" shes burning the possibility of a bridge before it's ever made.. bullshit.. and girl theyre not thinking that youll steal their man its that you have no respect.
A lot of my MS patients were hyper sexual I have one that to this day I don’t understand how and why someone would abuse her like that, she even got pregnant and her family came and got her so I have no outcome but I’m ok with that.
I'm sad this lady doesn't know what a loving relationship is with trust, honesty, loyalty, and being monogamous. Maybe she doesn't know what she wants in a partner.
I know for sure i am and have been my whole life a sex addict, but when im living or married to a woman I do not cheat on her, never did, but in between look out except for the last five years i haven't had sex, and won't until i meet the right woman.
She definitely has an addiction problem. With the drugs and now sex. How do you have sex if in a wheel chair? I'm confused. I don't know if I would like this woman. I'm not prejudiced about her being in a wheelchair but her as a person.
Wheelchair or not, it’s much easier for a woman to get it than a man. I’m in a wheelchair and I get a lot of 😻 but it’s not as simple as it is for this girl
There's no self esteem here so it makes sense that she is addicted to sex because that short attention makes her feel worthy. She's okay with being used like a gym towel. Love yourself girl!
this one was hard to watch... its one thing to have sex with a married man with the consent of his wife but to fuck her friends husbands is straight up disgusting. and to then say she thinks women are intimidated by her?😂 no they just dont want you to fuck their husbands, i can see why she has no friends and "doesnt want them", i think its an internalized excuse for herself to feel better about not having them. please have safe sex, dont break marriages up, and be a decent human PLEASE.
She doesn't love herself. She is looking for approval by wrong people and behaviors. I hope she gets the love and proper attention she needs, and get help from a professional.
She sounded like she did not want to have this conversation, real weird that she reached out to talk and then just kind of stuck to facts without much elaboration. Would have liked to hear about how its negatively impacted her friendships beyond just that.
She doesn’t seem like someone who has been able to put much thought into why she does the things she does, and if she has then she doesn’t seem to like what she concluded with and doesn’t want to share
This episode was so interesting. I found it slightly uncomforting that she does not seem to care to get help and was shocked that people were mad when she slept with their boyfriends and husbands...idk, trying not to judge, it just throws me off that she is aware that its an addiction and doesn't care to get help.
Her addiction is founded on trauma. She likely blocks out the "feelings" as to not feel pity for herself
I have so much compassion for her being in the wheelchair. I can empathize with the self esteem issues. But having sex with friends husbands and boyfriends is as shitty as you get. This girl needs help. Like, therapy.
Absolutely what I thought. She has zero boundaries and that's a trash human.
@@bellanoche4945 I found it interesting that she was hostile that girls were intimidated by the fact that she crosses boundaries with SOs. When she blatantly admits to sleeping with her “friend’s” husbands without permission
Bottom of the barrel
She almost sounds like a legitimate “sociopath” tbh & def needs help :\
@@YasminGoncalves1998 I was thinking the same
I would have loved to be a fly on the wall to see Greg & Joe’s conversation after filming this episode 😭🙈
She is one hell of a talker, isn’t she…
I give kudos to these guys for being able to carry on this topic for so long. I’d lose my interest in wanting to get to know more about her after few minutes.
Lol this girl is hard to get a conversation out of
Literally lol! So many times the guys would just be stopped in their tracks like okay what do we say now 😭😂
Listeeeeeen 😂
I’m having to turn off cos it’s like speaking to a breeze block lol
Seriously
What girl, all I heard was a woman.
Being honest here, I first read that as "I'm a 'Handicapped sex' Addict" and the thought of someone being addicted to only having sex with Handicapped people was interesting to say the least. Great episode tho.
I thought the same thing! I was slightly disappointed 😂
@Kaylie Hogan you know I didn’t think of “wheelchair” at all when I first read handicapped. I also think it doesn’t matter and people fetishize anything. Just the way a part of your body looks is fetishized regularly. Big nipples, small nipples, larger and tiny people. Something about everyone will be someone’s fetish.
There are a group of people who only like to have sex with Handicap people the are called “Devotees”.
2 years later, I had the exact same thought
Same 😩
This episode made me feel icky. Addiction isn’t an excuse to treat people like trash, and she seems very well aware of what she is doing. She doesn’t have any respect for herself or other people. I think it’s really sad that she seeks validation from other people and I am not sure if she is really addicted to sex per say, or more so addicted to the feeling of being desired and wanted by someone. I think we can all relate to having low self esteem in our lives at one point or another but that’s something you need to find within yourself, seeking momentary validation from outside sources only fills that void for a minute but then you’re back to feeling shitty. But I’m not a therapist lol. I think it’s really gross that she has no respect for her friendships and their relationships and has no issue sleeping with peoples husbands and has no remorse over that at all. I certainly wouldn’t want to be her friend, who wants to be friends with someone who has no respect for you on a basic human to human level? No thanks.
I also find it really concerning that she doesn’t use protection all the time, she’s had a list of std’s (which can happen to anyone, no shame) but she admits to sleeping with 5-6 guys in a week, if she has an std but isn’t aware for say, a month, that’s 20 guys she’s slept with that she could have passed that on to, and who knows who those 20 guys are sleeping with.. just use condoms all the time it’s not that hard 😂
I felt for the guys trying to get conversation out of her. It was like pulling teeth lol.
It may be coming from a place of self-hate. It is hard to love others when you do not treasure yourself
@@barosalearninglab beautifully said
I don't like it when people think that very sexual women "have no self respect". She makes sure she uses protection, and she has standards for who she sleeps with. That looks like basic self respect to me. She stated she has a history of addiction, and im assuming this is the route she has taken with an addicitve personality, which seems like an ok method vs other more harmful optins. The part where she doesn't respect others is the only one that bothers me.
@@yyg4632 But she literally said herself that she doesn't use protection all times. When sleeping with 5-6 people a week, if she doesn't use protection every time she's just risking spreading STDs before she even knows she has one.
There's nothing wrong with a very sexual woman, but in this case it really just doesn't seem like she has self respect. The main reason she sleeps with so many people is for validation. If you truly cared about yourself you wouldn't seek temporary validation, you'd seek help and focus on repairing yourself rather than make it worse.
@@lemmefeelyerjibblets8856 she probably gave many ppl a nasty case of scabies tho
Regarding the conversation around sleeping with her friends' husbands: I understand that it gives her validation because they choose to risk their relationships to be with her / they kind of choose her over their wives. But I wish she could realize that all that self-esteem and confidence she's gaining is exactly what her friends are losing when they find out about the cheating. Very sad.
yeah i really agree with that. I always try to be understanding and not judge ppl if they want to sleep around with whoever they want. but doing so with someone who is married, especially a friend or even just someone you know and sleeping with their husband, is wayyy past crossing the line. there's just boundaries you should never cross. she may feel validated that a man is cheating on their wife for her but in reality she is most likely ruining someones relationship. messing with peoples lives/ feelings/love is never okay in my opinion
exactly. well said.
Not to mention it’s cheap validation. They only want her for the sex..it’s pure objectification. Nothing more
She's not addicted to sex she's addicted to the validation she's addicted to feeling wanted maybe she's addicted to feeling what she thinks or role plays is love. She's hurting a lot I think she recognizes all this too she's not stupid she's definitely self aware and honest for the most part
that is what sex addiction is though..its never about the actual sex.
I can sympathize for her disability. How ever being a home wrecker is not cool. She needs some professional help.
It’s not like she’s holding their husbands at gunpoint to sleep her 😂. It’s more their fault imo
@@msinna6433 but it’s also her fault too for sleeping with her friends husbands. If you had a husband and your friend slept with him you’re telling me you also wouldn’t be mad at her too? Your friends owe you loyalty as much as a significant other owes you loyalty.
@@msinna6433 it's both their faults. It's not one or the other. But since those husband's aren't on here I can only go off her point of view. She's still a shitty person lol
@@sweetpea9191 agreed
isnt it more the spouses place to not wreck their own marriage?? If a spouse is dedicated to their marriage no one will be able to make them cheat
You can tell joe doesn’t screen the emails because his facial expressions when Greg said the list of stds
Aahahahhahahaa I caught the same thing his face was gold 😅
If she keeps sleeping with people's husbands, somebody gonna end up rolling her ass out into a busy intersection🤣
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I feel bad for her. It’s one thing to have sex because you enjoy it, but it’s another to be okay with constantly allowing people to use your body with your permission for internal validation. I don’t like how they glamorized how fantastic her sex life must be because it didn’t really sound all that great, going up to randoms for sex, sleeping with people’s husbands, not being able to maintain relationships (she said she has no close friends and has had few and far between monogamous relationships that didn’t last long), catching all these STDs. She also mentioned struggling with heroin and meth addiction. She really needs counseling or some kind of help rather than a pat on the back and a good for you.
I think it’s hard for them bc it’s a fine line of them still being entertaining, but they also try to make guests feel comfortable & not judged. It’s such an honest conversation that they weren’t expecting like they said that sometimes you don’t even know how to react. They did at the end I feel show glimpses of their true opinion & saying how people should get help so I don’t think they were entirely glamorizing the situation. It’s all a very bizarre fine line to teeter on
@@YasminGoncalves1998 I agree. I commented before fully listening to the whole episode. I appreciated what they said at the end. I know they keep it as serious or as light as the person they are interviewing wants to go, and her vibe was this is no big deal so they didn’t make it one.
don't look to dudes who emulate that one timeless trash tabloid at grocery store checkouts for morality
@@Wandawil It's just unfortunate because I wish they really said to her face that this is something that she needs help with instead of keeping it light and fun. Sometimes people need to hear the truth said instead of have their own feelings validated. I understand that they want everyone to feel comfortable on the show, but man I would not have been as supportive..
as a person without a sex addiction, I find it difficult to stomach the part where she explains how only if someone is her "real friend", will she not hurt them and choose to stop herself from sleeping with their partner. her criteria for "a good friend" could be personal and non specific. If she describes someone as not a real friend, is that someone who has wronged her or just someone she doesn't feel especially close to? If it's the latter then I don't understand why she would decide it's not worth the self restraint. addiction can be debilitating and painful, of course and I don't mean to come off as insensitive but it would seem that she can and has stopped herself. I just wonder why it's only "real friends" whose feelings and relationships are completely off the table for her, and why she doesn't feel like that is something she wants to seek help for.
I feel the same exact way. I understand addiction can be a complex thing, however, by definition addiction is characterized not just by excessive behavior but also COMPULSIVE behavior and a lack of control. I find it odd that she can pick and choose which friends she deems close enough and not sleep with their partners. That shows there is control and some decision making involved which doesn’t fit into the ICD-10 definition of addiction. One thing I want to note is that addiction almost always leads to excessive behavior but excessive behavior doesn’t mean addiction. There maybe other things going on like how the lady stated her need for validation and admitted to having some insecurities. Personally, I think the male sex addict that they had on here before was an actual addict by definition due to his “I just need to get my fix mentality” and also the lack of standards and control.
Either that or maybe she doesn’t have any self-awareness.
It’s just so sad all around, the thing is- the wives are put at risk as well and so are all these people who are high risk for very serious diseases that aren’t curable - like HIV
I absolutely feel for guest but it seems clear that this addiction is a substitute for the lack of love and value she has for herself.
it is is possible to have lots of sex with someone who loves and appreciates you
Disability/no disability
i never thought about the STD aspect with the wives. Makes being a home wrecker even shittier.
Lady it’s not worth compassion we all cheat on spouses go study swinging and how many divorces THIS is saving more or move on we are done also
If she used to be addicted to drugs and now it's sex- her addiction just transfered from one thing to the other. Both endangering her health. I hope she's able to heal on a deeper level which will mean good therapy.
She is not a big talker which is fine but joe and greg have to work more on getting a conversation going and being enthusiastic to entertain people and their guests .
However , what on earth was that episode !! She is literally the opposite of what i expected . Im trying so hard not to judge her but she should carry herself more with respect because this will affect other aspects of her life to the point where she might end up alone with no family or partners , after all no one escapes aging and our bodies will eventually deteriorate . At this point and AGE she should really get help , she might not see it as a problem now but once enough people reject her both sexually and socially this will pose a threat to her mental health .
the way she's so nonchalant about catching all these stds blows my mind
It’s weird that she’s like “as long as it doesn’t disrupt your life it’s okay”
... disrupting your life and impacting your relationships/daily functioning is literally what distinguishes a sex addict from a person with a high sex drive. If it doesn’t disrupt their life, they aren’t an addict (unless in recovery).
This was a weird conversation.
idk if it makes sense but it seems like she's in denial that her addiction disrupts her life but also acknowledges the things it has costed her at the same time. lol it's really strange
Y’all really having to pull words out of her Jesus. This one was hard to listen to 😅😂
I like how her standards boil down to looks, not contracting a debilitating sexually transmitted disease from her partner.
“Double standards are stupid” until it’s your relationship
I’ve been struggling and in therapy for multiple addictions including sex, I hope she gets the help she needs and finds healthy habits to replace it, harddd work tho, w any addiction
Addiction & risky behavior go hand in hand. The fear of an STD wouldn’t fully deter a sex addict the same way the fear of an overdose doesn’t always deter a drug addict 🤷🏾♀️
“I’m slept with lots of married men.” then she giggles. Gross. 😒
Her saying 400+ people is a low estimate yet she has standards? She’s delusional omg
You have no idea what you're talking about. Try having an open mind and empathy as opposed to using this person as a way to feel superior
If we sticking to that schedule to the t. 19 years. 5/6 guys per week. And we say half is regulars a conservative estimate holding these variables is around 3000 different people.
Holy shit
I know this is going to sound insane but minus the sex addiction, this woman’s life is eerily similar to my own. I was diagnosed with MD as a child, which I inherited from my father, which put me in a wheelchair at the exact age of 28. I am 38 right now as well. I’ve been in a healthy relationship for 12 years but damn that is so weird how my life aligns with this chick. I’m literally sitting here mind blown 🤯
Imagine being that woman's friend..... not only does she sleep with my husband but I later find out I "wasn't the real friend anyways."
3:30 pm “KIDS, BEDTIME!”
Honestly I had a friend that was a sex addict, and it was bad. And we were all full service sex workers, and it wasn’t enough for her (not that it’s *real* sex). But she would get drunk and talk about wanting threesomes with people boyfriends, always having sex with married men but getting stds... it was bad. She messaged my ex when she was on vacation but claimed she just wanted coke... they’re terrible friends.
The STDs 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
Girl, stop it.. that’s not acceptable.
I absolutely love how open and honest she was. This was a great episode!
Sleep with who you want. Be free, but safe. BUT don't sleep with someone who is attached.. That makes you garbage.
Am I the only one that felt like maybe Joe didn't read the email? 😂
Guys, I love your content but as a wheelchair user, I would suggest using the term "disabled" to refer to someone disabled as the term 'handicapped' has evoked the idea of a beggar being out with his cap asking for money for decades. Although it is still used on governmental signs such as "handicap parking" instead of "accessible parking" it is not a very acceptable term for disabled people. Some might be alright with it while many won't. Loved the episode tho!
Nobody knows what words to use anymore because every 10 years or so it becomes offensive and we invent another word. It is like this African American b.s. We went from the N word thank god to the word Negro, then to black and now African American. I thought black was the best but we had to move on again. Disabled will become offensive in time. I won't even talk about this pronoun b.s. going on now.
"No, that was my advice to other people." The way I screamed with laughter 🤣 this episode was very interesting!!
I’m trying so hard not to judge😂
Lmao same. I really had to find a lot of compassion with myself and her while listening.
Joe, your facial expressions are PRICELESS!!!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. When she answered that her only fear of STDs is not being able to have sex. That face you made. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Sick in bed & cannot sleep. Thanks for the episode, boys!
She traded one addiction for another.
Someone not being a "true friend" is a shitty excuse to go and screw with the relationship. Imagine you get to know her and treat her well then suddenly she goes and sleeps with your husband because she doesn't consider you a "true friend". Basic respect for other humans would be a nice addition if you're framing the addiction as a positive thing.
Joe looks so good omg 😳
Greg was on a roll w his puns...to the very end...well thats the gist of it 😂😂😂 probably didnt even realize.
Omg he said "ride it out" and dude on the right thought he meant because she uses a wheelchair but he meant ride it out like a sex position lol omg that whole moment made me bust out laughing.
Bro this girl hates herself. That’s the sad truth.
Joes face about the std convo 😂😂😂
Sleeping with friend’s husbands? Disgusting.
Joe's facial expressions always get me lol
the ride it out joke literally killed me
Hey, if youre the person who did this interview, first off i hope youre doing good. Second, i am in a very similar boat in terms of sex addiction and wanted to say i understand a lot of what you talked about. I hope you dont take the comments on here to heart that are negative. People who are "normal" dont understand and are always judgemental. Good luck in life and i wish you the best
You just know as soon as the cameras are off and filming is done, Joe and Greg talk aaaallllllllllllll the shit 🤣 and man I wish I was there to hear it and participate 🤣
This episode is very interesting. To me it seems like she is not interested in getting help for her issues and addiction. She seems to pity herself and still hold onto the fact that she was viewed as less attractive because of her weight when she was younger. It seems like she has developed this narcissistic personality due to the fact that men want to have sex with her. She seems comfortable in this life style.
Bro I saw the title and HADDDDD to click.... I’m ded 😂😅
Addictive personalities don't discriminate.. Wheelchairs, amputees, full on paralysed... or an upright walking person.... I pity her, such low self esteem, such a low opinion of herself. No self respect. She needs encouragement and a sense of self worth.
Many of you blame this girl, but no one talks about the men committing that adultery! Really strange!
17:20 Joes face 😂
She is so nonchalant, but hep B does not just clear up, you can pass it on.
"I've slept with my friends husband" but also "if they're really my friend, I would never hurt her" soooooooo. Which is it? They're not really your friend and you slept with their husband or they ARE you friend and you slept with their husband?
You know you smoke too much when you remember the fact that the first time you saw and OPL episode I didn’t put together that it stood for other people’s lives so I spent the whole video trying to figure out what it stood for
i feel so bad that she’s gonna become a sad and lonely person and will die alone :/
Not necessarily. She could get help someday, or just naturally get less interested in sex over time and become more interested in friendship or other things. That said, I think the most concerning thing was her lack of interest in friendship.
@@jennystout8600 she definitely COULD become naturally less interested in sex over time. That's not going to fix her lack of a moral compass. You don't have sex with friends husbands and boyfriends and suddenly become a good person. She definitely needs therapy.
@@crowmedicine3890 well that's the thing about addictions. People's moral compasses go out the door because the addiction takes priority. Help is def possible for her.
@@crowmedicine3890 For sure! She appears "happy" now, but I think over time she will realize that this kind of happiness is fleeting. I do hope she gets therapy.
@@jennystout8600 agreed. I hope she gets help, too.
I'm a sex addict and this isnt how mine manifests at all. I mostly use sex as self-injury and it's not really about wanting to feel powerful or confident. I have really high-risk, degrading, and/or have sex with people I canr stand in order to deepen the self-loathing and then get off on my own shame and use the guilt as an excuse to "use" again.
Before I was aware of it it was definitely a huge problem, but I've learned to check my motives thanks to resources from SCA... I also had a period of full celibacy. I still have benders sometimes, but I'm usually able to get myself in check. what makes it an addiction is escalation and disruption.
Not saying she isnt a sex addict, I just want to make it clear to people that we arent all like this....
How tf did you not ask her what positions she has sex in?? lol
They do have 12 steps for this....
Just a public health announcement there is no “clearing Hepatitis” on its own
I feel really dirty lol
Me too I got to repent 😞
"I didn't have a lot of friend groups."
i.e. people to prey upon.
This is cross-addiction. From drugs to sex- either way, it's risky behaviour. She needs rehab.
❤-ADVICE- Please use protection! You don't even need to have sex with many partners to get the really bad STD's. I didn't sleep around and I was also nervous about sex with people in fear of HIV. And now I have had HIV for the last 3 years. Just use a condom especially if you are having sex with people you don't know well. People lie all the time and probably moreso if they know that you wouldn't sleep with them if they have an STD.❤
My question is if she uses dating apps to meet men.
4:48 She said that she still looks for hook ups, I didn't understand her first sentence but I think she insinuated that she does use apps
When you think, well this is it. I've seen everything there is to see. I've heard everything I need to hear. I've experienced everything there is to be experienced. And then this? To me this may have become an addiction. But I see someone who has zero self esteem or self worth, who confuses being desired to being exploited.
Interviewing her felt like pulling teeth out for you guys, I am sure
Like she said, it's the only joy in life she gets.. 😢😢😢
We all got our vices.
Smoking, drinking, etc... Behaviour becomes a habit and some are hard to break... Wishing her all the best, lives are so complex..
"If i truly love my friend i would never" shes burning the possibility of a bridge before it's ever made.. bullshit.. and girl theyre not thinking that youll steal their man its that you have no respect.
A lot of my MS patients were hyper sexual I have one that to this day I don’t understand how and why someone would abuse her like that, she even got pregnant and her family came and got her so I have no outcome but I’m ok with that.
I would have asked what her favorite position is. Is it painful moving around.? Do guys help her get dressed after?
Wonder what she looks like 🤔
Lol bruh
this got me going!, the way she went about it, Damn!
joe, you kill me at the "you are riding with it" AWESOME JOE! you are so cute OMG!
At the end, she says as long as you’re being safe go for it but she’s had so many STD so how is she being safe?
I would’ve asked her what’s her favorite position 🤭
Y’all nastyyy🤫
I need to know.
'handicapped' is considered an outdated term, use 'disabled' instead. alternatively, in this instance, you could use 'wheelchair user'
Assuming she used those words herself to describe herself.
get over yourself
I'm sad this lady doesn't know what a loving relationship is with trust, honesty, loyalty, and being monogamous. Maybe she doesn't know what she wants in a partner.
Not everyone is brainwashed into societies way "life is supposed to be"
I know for sure i am and have been my whole life a sex addict, but when im living or married to a woman I do not cheat on her, never did, but in between look out except for the last five years i haven't had sex, and won't until i meet the right woman.
I wish she would have talked more
400? Lol being in a wheel chair did not slow her down at at 😂
I wished they asked her if she just has to starfish or….
She definitely has an addiction problem. With the drugs and now sex. How do you have sex if in a wheel chair? I'm confused. I don't know if I would like this woman. I'm not prejudiced about her being in a wheelchair but her as a person.
Wheelchair or not, it’s much easier for a woman to get it than a man. I’m in a wheelchair and I get a lot of 😻 but it’s not as simple as it is for this girl
Damn Joe… double homicide 😂💀
Make her talk to me PLEASE.. Joe, I'm begging
There's no self esteem here so it makes sense that she is addicted to sex because that short attention makes her feel worthy. She's okay with being used like a gym towel. Love yourself girl!
I suspect she is still on drugs. Sounds like it... If your not then I'm so sorry for this comment.
this one was hard to watch... its one thing to have sex with a married man with the consent of his wife but to fuck her friends husbands is straight up disgusting. and to then say she thinks women are intimidated by her?😂 no they just dont want you to fuck their husbands, i can see why she has no friends and "doesnt want them", i think its an internalized excuse for herself to feel better about not having them. please have safe sex, dont break marriages up, and be a decent human PLEASE.
Don’t do drugs kids….
This sounds like a personality disorder.
Should I leave my contact info 😂?
She doesn’t sound like a sex addict lol
She doesn't love herself. She is looking for approval by wrong people and behaviors. I hope she gets the love and proper attention she needs, and get help from a professional.
Hahahahaha she broke Joe 😂