good to hear because all I usually hear is blood is thicker than water, family is everything. my mom dad have my back. sisters are besties, etc. meanwhile i'm sitting there like cut them off.
This was about airing your dirty Laundry on Social Media. Call out your family to their faces, there's No need to be on Social Media or RUclips Channel calling out names. It doesn't make the pain go away.
I agree 100% with you. I come from a family that’s not even that supportive of me. They talk about me behind my back etc. I think it’s the type of family you grow up with depending on the loyalty.
I so agree and it's funny I ran into this episode.. because I'm dealing with something that happened in my family and I felt so violated, and disrespected by a family member.. and I had no support what so ever.. and for her to say that.. to me it was a sign
yes, when Tamera speaks, I just wait it through, it sounds like 11 year old’s inspiration speech in middle-school, with no one but her parents clapping, and then Jeannie speaks..♥️
I agree completely with what Loni and Adrienne said.... there is no way Drake could've been around his dad a lot if his dad lived in a completely different country 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏿♂️
@Eriss R. who tf said mess with kids I get that I went through child abuse and other things similar to jeannie when I was in third grade, I am a bigger advocate a lot of people but torture is just as evil to me idk the two things shouldn't even be compared both are evil
@@thegreenrose4660 Exactly! Tisha is not angry or hurting anyone by sharing what happened to her. She's the one who was hurt and no one protected her after she told her family what happened! She and Jenny are one of the lucky ones who was strong enough move on with their lives and become victors instead of succumb to being victims! Shondique or whatever, sounds like one of those people who love to coddle abusers and blame the victims.
@@latoyataylor403 truth !!! and the worst part of this is how people suffer and end up having their life taken away from them, bc they have no one to talk to.
When the public image of the family is more important than healing the family, ties need to be cut. ‘As long as we look happy and ignore the mess, it will all be ok.’ Or even worse, when an older family member tells you to ‘sort it out’ instead of ‘go get help’, that’s a toxic family member.
My boyfriend met his dad at 17, talked to him here & there.. then his dad had the nerve to argue with him saying HES supposed to call HIM..🤦🏼♀️ absent fathers are definitely delusional
Magdalena Ann “Why don’t you ever call your old man?” is the Absentee Fathers Association’s motto. Or my favourite is when you ask them where they’ve been, they reply “the phone goes both ways.” WHAT?! You’re the parent, I’m a child!
I’ve lived with my dad since I was born and he’d never give me and my other siblings too much attention unless we were messing up something. Then when I turned 13 we moved out with my mom and he started asking the same thing “why don’t you call me?” And it’s like the phone goes both ways, then if I did call he’d either be awkward, not answer or find a way to cut it short
I think also what Jeannie said resonated with Tisha. I don't remember the story exactly but Tisha said on Steve Harvey's talk show that she was abused by a family friend at the age of 3. It was heartbreaking to hear that about her. 💔
Y’all need to watch Tisha Campbell’s “Uncensored” episode, it should be on Demand, that’s how I watched it! She talks about the experience there as well and it’s honestly a candid and powerful recount of the incident, with such detail, and she was super young at the time smh. The interview is overall great and if you have a moment, y’all should check it out!
Ppl always say " blood is blood" "you cant betray family", "blood is thicker than water" ok cool but umm if you betray my trust and code of honor I dont care who you are, family or not. I'm not going to Sacrifice my self worth for you if you do me wrong. I've been in way too many situations with family where they completely disregarded loyalty 😒🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
I totally agree. What I learned in my adult life. Is family members only care about their needs first. So, I'm learning I need to take care of myself, exercise and cut, stay far oway from toxic family. I learned to balance life, also always have time for myself.
I cut off both my bitcha** brothers when they didn’t handle my sister’s husband after he brutally abused her and those cats *dared* to turn around and question my sister (when she’s half this mf’s size and the only one with visible wounds??). Guess who got the whole family against those two scared bitches? Me! And I would gladly do it again bc that’s not family. “Family” is given until unearned.
Did she say 40? Wuttttt am I the only person shocked ? I literally had to rewind 3 times to make sure I heard right. Jeannie again like fine wine🍷. You go girl!
Jeannie you mentioning your story is helping so many people like myself. Thank you for being so strong about talking about the effects of what happened to you and how that has impacted your life. Thank you for helping other people heal and be able to relate. Thank you.
I can't believe her molester still lives in her childhood home. I was so startled by that revelation. Her dad still lives there and Mama Mai stays there occasionally.😱
@@amisings3716 You talking about Drake situation and what you would do if you were him. And FYI when you know what family is, you first go to the person not run to the public. Try harder...-_-
Ok but Drake not lying tho. It’s a fact that his Dad went to jail and wasn’t allowed to live in Canada. It’s a fact that his father was a touring musician too. So just because Dennis spent time with Drake during the summer and talked to him on the phone doesn’t mean that Drake won’t feel his fathers choices caused him to not be there the way he needed growing up
@@P03ticJustice you just heard for yourself that Drake and his father lived in different countries but you still think he was present in his life? Stop being stubborn for no reason and just accept the facts.
My father actually tells me and my siblings that we make things up when we confront him on how abusive he use to be. Some people just don’t wanna know who they truly are.
I completely agree with Jeannie, I experienced domestic violence from my sister for years and it didn’t get addressed until I almost had a nervous breakdown in college, once I felt secure enough to speak my truth on video my mom and dad forced me to delete it because “it could follow her” and “don’t air out family business” and I couldn’t have been even more disappointed. If the family member didn’t mind violating you then they shouldn’t mind you calling them out on it, we should be able to speak on our experiences whether they like it or not !!!
I think there's something to be said for people like jeannie, and many others that have been through these kinds of things in life, with no justice even from their own family, and how they keep faith in the good in other people. That they will try to bring good into this world and not more evil. These are the real light workers in our world and I am grateful that they exist. ❤️
What Jeannie said really hit home with me. That’s why I genuinely believe in “friends are the family you choose” coz I got some friends who’ve been there/done things for me that 90% of my family would never, could never, have never. I CHOOSE who my family is. And that choice is based on loyalty and genuine love. I would sell my arm for TRUE family, but being blood related means nothing to me.
Lol 😂 that’s funny that they say drake grew up in a different culture. Canada and the US share a lot of cultural similarities especially Toronto where Drake is from. It’s not like he’s from Australia. Also it’s not like he’s hasn’t elaborated in the past before “he started from the bottom” of one of the richest neighborhoods in Toronto.
I feel like at the end of the day... now listening to that... you as a parent or in general , when you do me wrong and it involves something that’s extremely detrimental to me and I have stuff weighing on me and I’m losing my focus and purpose in life due to the hurt that a person caused me... of course what do you expect an artist to do... people do things to set themselves free of all the pain , the hurt , the angst , the bitterness , the turmoil , the chaos , the confusion just for the BETTERMENT OF THEMSELVES ! So I give props to people who are willing to speak the truth on people who have done terrible stuff to them !
Jeannie I can relate to your story. The same thing happened to me so that is why I do not have loyalty to anyone that's my "family" unless it is my sisters.
Sounds like a Markle situation. You find out who your real friend and family are when you are successful or on the upswing in life. Personally, I’m the friend or family that will have your back no matter what.
I love you Jeannie Mai! You’re literally my favorite at this point. Always so honest and real with a heart so pure you can feel it through the tv screen! Bless your heart and thanks for inspiring the viewers including myself to be US and own who we are and WHOSE we are. 🧡⚜️
I agree with Jeannie. Balance it out. Protect you and expose evil for truth sake. It helps you heal and others too, and your platform can be your saving grace, letting the one in the wrong know/see they are wrong based on the way the world responds to it.
This show he helping me in so many ways. Please can you do a whole episode on abuse.. sexual, mental, financial, physical. For all ages, male and female. On how we as people can have a voice to stick up for ourselves/confidence, move past or move in from these terrible situations. It’s very hard to do and there are so many different situations... One of my situations happened when I was young but I can’t remember by who, how old I was or what happened but I know for a fact something did. It’s very hard to explain fortunately and unfortunately
Jeannie!!!! I rocks with you (grammatical error intended) because your truth shall set you free! Holding in/suppressing hurt only numbs the pain and kills the soul. So happy you released your truth because YOU are the one living with the pain. I salute you.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👊🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️
I relate so much to Jeannie, I wish she would write a book. It's sad how being molested/sexually abused gets swept under the rug, I will not talk to some of my family members because of this. This is not okay.
Jeannie always speaking such wisdom I love her I never want her to stop talking can we give this girl an entire show! She’s impacting so much of us for the BETTER
Ya'll, Jeannie really should write a book. That woman can preach. She truly has a way with words, maaan!! Every time she adds her 2cents to a topic, I listen, attentively!! Always so deep.
Jeannie is so brave to talk about her family issues especially when the other girls situation seems all rosy in comparison. I really respect her and she is right to not tolerate people just because you're blood related to them!
P03tic Justice Do you need a hug? What was your reasoning behind the “ yo mama” joke? Do you know this person or are you just a mean human? It can’t make you feel good to be so cruel. I wish you a better existence. Really.
Family 100% equals loyalty. For example, If I beef with my brother and I disagree with whatever he says to me or tells me whether I disagree with him in my head or I tell him straight up that what he's talking about doesn't make sense, I would never in my entire life air him out publicly because I'm loyal to him. Of course, this goes for the rest of my family, But I felt like my brother was the best example. Adrienne spoke straight facts. What she was talking about, I had to comment on. P.S. Cheetah Girls was my childhood.
My therapist told me, there is a difference between family and relatives . Changed me from the day I heard it and learned a lot from that short phrase 👏🏽
why are they acting like canada and the us aren’t VERY similar culturally? we have the same things as you have. toronto, which is where Drake grew up, is basically part of the U.S at this point.
I think u missed point... Nothing to do with culture.. Per say.. Everything to do with geography. Drake grew up in Canada. Drakes father lived in the U. S. during his childhood. They were saying he cldnt have been there since he was in a whole other country.
Shardae Randolph Why didn’t he move? He had no problem living in Canada when he was fckin Drakes mom but then moves when the relationship breaks down even though he got a son out there
@@alexjames2510 I believe that he was married to Drake's mom and living in Canada until Drake was 5 or 6. Then they divorced and he moved bk to the states.. Who knows why?
"Blood is thicker than water..." nah man the Original saying is "the blood of the Battlefield is thicker then the water of the womb". Loyalty and respect is a two way street. Family is choosen and if you always choose others over me I aint choosing you either.
This is why you should keep parents like that at arms length. The whole reason why why we even know about Drake’s dad is because he’s featured his father in his videos. Despite being an absentee parent Drake’s father is benefiting off of him financially. All these absentee parents only come out when their kids are successes like Adele’s father.
I almost cried when Jeannie was speaking about when she was molested by a family member because I was also sexually abused by my uncle and when I told my dad about it, he would beat me and say why would I say something like that about my uncle, my mom called me crazy, my stepmom said I was just dreaming. Til this day no one knows what happened to me and my family refuses to acknowledged what happened
Jeannie I'm in a similar situation but my dad punch me in the nose and i started bleeding and all my mom did was tell him to not do that and if I bring it up they get mad and he never said sorry for what he did and this happen like 2 days ago
Drake did say on several occasions he did spend time with his dad in the states growing up. It wasn't regularly but he never denied spending time with his dad in Tennessee I think it was or somewhere.
I actually think Drake’s father isn’t lying. He came out with a song a few years back called started from the bottom where he talked about having a rough upbringing and finally making it. When in actuality Drake was on a very popular tv show as a main character. So I do think that he’s lies to sell records because he wants to relate to his audience.
🗣🗣🗣“Absentee fathers always think that they are not absent”! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
PREACH LONI
💯💯💯
Funny but 💯
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Ms. Beautiful YASSS!
I’m heading straight to Facebook to post this quote from ms. Loni ❤️
“..putting air to the wound actually gives you a scab so you can start to heal” - God...Jeannie speaks so poetically so naturally
Yessss
It's called Quoting wise people. She doesn't come up with these things on her own. Kudos to her for sharing what she's learned so far in life.
I was looking for someone to quote what she said. Because that right there was the truth she was speaking.
Lol no one said anything about her "coming up" with it though. Marisa just said she speaks so poetically, which is straight facts!!
@@sharzhay facts
Jeannie is spot on. Not everyone has a loving family dynamic. Whether someone is family or not, if they are toxic CUT THEM OFF. PERIOD.
Vanessa's World I was waiting for her to jump in with her spin and speak truth.
“You gotta let air in to that wound to heal.” That’s hella powerful
PERIODT!!!
good to hear because all I usually hear is blood is thicker than water, family is everything. my mom dad have my back. sisters are besties, etc. meanwhile i'm sitting there like cut them off.
This was about airing your dirty Laundry on Social Media. Call out your family to their faces, there's No need to be on Social Media or RUclips Channel calling out names. It doesn't make the pain go away.
Sometimes family can be THE most disloyal to you, and even the most toxic for your mental health, I feel adrienne but it's not everybody's reality
Co sign
I agree with you
Of course family can be the most disloyal to you, an enemy cant stab you in the back.
I agree 100% with you. I come from a family that’s not even that supportive of me. They talk about me behind my back etc. I think it’s the type of family you grow up with depending on the loyalty.
I think that was her point tbh
Jeanie is honestly so inspirational and smart. Everytime I hear her talk and preach, it’s a fresh breath of air. Love her
I love her wisdom. INDEED SHE'S FRESH BREATH OF AIR!!!!!!!!!!
I love her. She's my fave.
I so agree and it's funny I ran into this episode.. because I'm dealing with something that happened in my family and I felt so violated, and disrespected by a family member.. and I had no support what so ever.. and for her to say that.. to me it was a sign
I feel the exact same💯🙌🏽
yes, when Tamera speaks, I just wait it through, it sounds like 11 year old’s inspiration speech in middle-school, with no one but her parents clapping, and then Jeannie speaks..♥️
Jeannie was ON POINT with her message! Yes ma’am! Wrong is wrong! Stop trying to protect family mess
Tamera's hairstylist and makeup artist must really love her because she slays every single day
Tessa girl!!! She keep em low key cuz they hella GOOD she know someone gone try to snatch them up! 😭😭
She says she does her own hair.
On God
EVERY DAY without flinching tf
Alaila Reyes she does her own makeup ^^ she said she’s helpless at doing hair ;) her hairstylist’s name is Ray (@hairforkicks)
I agree completely with what Loni and Adrienne said.... there is no way Drake could've been around his dad a lot if his dad lived in a completely different country 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏿♂️
Drake also lives in the U.S and his son is in France with his mom who got deported. It's not really his fault.
@@bookbag6432 exactly. But doesn't mean what Drake experienced isn't true. And Drake can afford to fly and travel to visit his son more frequently
@@theiconicfamily_ both men are bad fathers period
@@PHlophe 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏿♂️ pretty much lol
@@PHlophe Both of them probably did not want to be fathers.... That's what happens when you force a child on a man. He won't be there.
Jeannie has grown so much since this show started
This girl chat was too real 🔥 especially Jeannies part
I love it when Jeannie speaks. 👏👏
say that again..
Too real Sis👏.... I felt that.
Uhm
Lauren what happened with Tisha?
Pedophilia is the worst thing to befall mankind.
Anita M. One of 😐
Plenty more topics as well..
Eriss R. Murder
@Eriss R. murder, torture, we shouldn't even be comparing these things
@Eriss R. who tf said mess with kids I get that I went through child abuse and other things similar to jeannie when I was in third grade, I am a bigger advocate a lot of people but torture is just as evil to me idk the two things shouldn't even be compared both are evil
Did y’all see Trisha’s face?! She had so much to say .. she went through the whole molestation thing too and boy you can tell that topic struck a cord
Saw that too... 😬
Wendy Edwards yes and she needs to get help and heal because her anger has hurt a lot of people and she still has it and it show drastically.
@@shonquesanders4232 You are a family member of hers, on here to make her look bad. You are not a good person.
Wendy Edwards *Tisha
@@thegreenrose4660 Exactly! Tisha is not angry or hurting anyone by sharing what happened to her. She's the one who was hurt and no one protected her after she told her family what happened! She and Jenny are one of the lucky ones who was strong enough move on with their lives and become victors instead of succumb to being victims! Shondique or whatever, sounds like one of those people who love to coddle abusers and blame the victims.
When a family member cares more about preserving their own public image instead of mending family relationships then you just know there’s a problem.
@TheTR1358 like most absent fathers smh...
A lot of families are like that...
"What goes on in this house stays in this house"...a toxic cycle!!
@@latoyataylor403 truth !!!
and the worst part of this is how people suffer and end up having their life taken away from them, bc they have no one to talk to.
When the public image of the family is more important than healing the family, ties need to be cut. ‘As long as we look happy and ignore the mess, it will all be ok.’ Or even worse, when an older family member tells you to ‘sort it out’ instead of ‘go get help’, that’s a toxic family member.
are you talking about Drake or his dad? lol
Glad that Jeanie said something. Sometimes blood isn’t the only thing that makes family family. Some sibling relationships are plain toxic.
Leora Cho Agreed
I kind of think Jennie needs her own show. She always has a lot to say and totally relatable.
Bye
Agreed
She has her own RUclips channel. I think that’s enough lol
I WAS JUST THINKING THAT. SHE DESERVES HER OWN SHOW. I LOVE HER WISDOM
S C She'll get one after The Real ends. She also needs to write an autobiography
My boyfriend met his dad at 17, talked to him here & there.. then his dad had the nerve to argue with him saying HES supposed to call HIM..🤦🏼♀️ absent fathers are definitely delusional
Magdalena Ann “Why don’t you ever call your old man?” is the Absentee Fathers Association’s motto.
Or my favourite is when you ask them where they’ve been, they reply “the phone goes both ways.” WHAT?! You’re the parent, I’m a child!
"Ummm maybe because I dont know you like that"🙄😐 gosh absentee fathers love making stuff up😂😂
I’ve lived with my dad since I was born and he’d never give me and my other siblings too much attention unless we were messing up something. Then when I turned 13 we moved out with my mom and he started asking the same thing “why don’t you call me?” And it’s like the phone goes both ways, then if I did call he’d either be awkward, not answer or find a way to cut it short
3:42 I don’t know if anyone else felt that but when Tisha said “HONEY” i was like OOOOOOO CHILE YES 😭😂😂
Yes! I heard it too. When ever someone does that, you already know this conversation is honest
I think also what Jeannie said resonated with Tisha. I don't remember the story exactly but Tisha said on Steve Harvey's talk show that she was abused by a family friend at the age of 3. It was heartbreaking to hear that about her. 💔
Nikole Linares yes exactly! i seen it!
Yes, after seeing that clip where she speaks about her own abuse you just know that she relates to Jeannie.
Y’all need to watch Tisha Campbell’s “Uncensored” episode, it should be on Demand, that’s how I watched it! She talks about the experience there as well and it’s honestly a candid and powerful recount of the incident, with such detail, and she was super young at the time smh. The interview is overall great and if you have a moment, y’all should check it out!
Tamar once said "Just because they blood, that don't mean they family." that quote speaks VOLUMES
Pastor Jeannie, "Put air to the wound so you can actually start to heal" - Girl this will preach. AMEN!!!!!!
Jeannie is GOLD! The best and wisest/deepest host on The Real. She needs a book and her own show.
Kisimban I would watch her own reality show too. She’s fantastic.
Ppl always say " blood is blood" "you cant betray family", "blood is thicker than water" ok cool but umm if you betray my trust and code of honor I dont care who you are, family or not. I'm not going to Sacrifice my self worth for you if you do me wrong. I've been in way too many situations with family where they completely disregarded loyalty 😒🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
I totally agree. What I learned in my adult life. Is family members only care about their needs first. So, I'm learning I need to take care of myself, exercise and cut, stay far oway from toxic family. I learned to balance life, also always have time for myself.
eleasha dorvil I was literally searching for this comment, you spit nothing but facts gurl
thank you
I cut off both my bitcha** brothers when they didn’t handle my sister’s husband after he brutally abused her and those cats *dared* to turn around and question my sister (when she’s half this mf’s size and the only one with visible wounds??). Guess who got the whole family against those two scared bitches? Me! And I would gladly do it again bc that’s not family. “Family” is given until unearned.
Tell me about it !
Lol Loni 😅😅😅
Absent fathers don't think they are absent
Did she say 40? Wuttttt am I the only person shocked ? I literally had to rewind 3 times to make sure I heard right. Jeannie again like fine wine🍷. You go girl!
Yeah, didn't you read or watch about her big 40th bday party? And yes she does look so amazing
Autumn Equinox No I dont watch the show often I just catch the RUclips clips but she looks amazing. I hope to look that great at 40.
@@SAHMshorts I hope I looke that great at 35 🤣🤣
I think she's probably older. Maybe 40 is her hollywood age. Cause she said Mama mai had her at 16, but mama mai just turned 60 some days ago.
@@EloquentlyEse 19 not 16
I hate how they post a clip then post a slightly longer version of that clip a day later.
Right. I miss having cable to record it and watch the WHOLE episode later. I just am not missing that damn cable bill
Seriously!! About 2:49 I’m like… I already seen this. Why
Yeah it's quite lame. An Emmy-winning show should do better.
THAT'S IT I WILL WRITE JEANNIES BOOK FOR HER, WHERE IS MY PEN????
😂😂😂😂
Exactly 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Kezia-Priscilla Valentine you better get those ghostwriting coins
“Giving air to a wound creates a scab which helps you start to heal” 🙌🏽 Or something like that she said 👏🏽❤️ that right there!
4:35-4:37
I felt that, from Jeannie's "that killed me" to Tisha's "yep"
Jeannie you mentioning your story is helping so many people like myself. Thank you for being so strong about talking about the effects of what happened to you and how that has impacted your life. Thank you for helping other people heal and be able to relate. Thank you.
Whew Jeannie. I need a book from you!
I can't believe her molester still lives in her childhood home. I was so startled by that revelation. Her dad still lives there and Mama Mai stays there occasionally.😱
If you publicly lie and bash on my name whether family or not I will defend myself publicly. Your not gonna have me out here looking like a fool
Ok but he should've said something when Drake started making songs about him.
Colene Wright I’m talking about myself not drake situation.
@@amisings3716 You talking about Drake situation and what you would do if you were him. And FYI when you know what family is, you first go to the person not run to the public.
Try harder...-_-
Right
Ok but Drake not lying tho. It’s a fact that his Dad went to jail and wasn’t allowed to live in Canada. It’s a fact that his father was a touring musician too. So just because Dennis spent time with Drake during the summer and talked to him on the phone doesn’t mean that Drake won’t feel his fathers choices caused him to not be there the way he needed growing up
PREACH ADRIENNE!!!! a real father wouldn't expose his son!
And a real son wouldn't lie to sell records or appeal to blacks. They need to cut that narrative of black men.
so in order to be considered a real parent u have to let someone lie on u?
@@P03ticJustice you just heard for yourself that Drake and his father lived in different countries but you still think he was present in his life? Stop being stubborn for no reason and just accept the facts.
@@omphilemoerane2569 that's his mom fault. Next
@you're arrested for first-degree clownery luv I'm neither but thanks for assuming.
I'm with Jeannie on this family thing !
First.🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
Love Jeanie she is real and speaks from her heart,mind and soul
Dennis only wants the money 🤷🏼♀️ His words do make money but it’s the truth.
My father actually tells me and my siblings that we make things up when we confront him on how abusive he use to be. Some people just don’t wanna know who they truly are.
I completely agree with Jeannie, I experienced domestic violence from my sister for years and it didn’t get addressed until I almost had a nervous breakdown in college, once I felt secure enough to speak my truth on video my mom and dad forced me to delete it because “it could follow her” and “don’t air out family business” and I couldn’t have been even more disappointed. If the family member didn’t mind violating you then they shouldn’t mind you calling them out on it, we should be able to speak on our experiences whether they like it or not !!!
One should confront that person to their face.should one hurt the one that hurt them?
4:10-4:12 Tisha felt that
She went through it as well
If Jeanie ever decides to write a book it will be fire, I love how she expresses herself
I think there's something to be said for people like jeannie, and many others that have been through these kinds of things in life, with no justice even from their own family, and how they keep faith in the good in other people. That they will try to bring good into this world and not more evil. These are the real light workers in our world and I am grateful that they exist. ❤️
Wish i cud like this comment💯more times!
I agree with jannie .The problem most of time it takes such long years to share with others what happens to u
Did She say he still around .
What Jeannie said really hit home with me. That’s why I genuinely believe in “friends are the family you choose” coz I got some friends who’ve been there/done things for me that 90% of my family would never, could never, have never. I CHOOSE who my family is. And that choice is based on loyalty and genuine love. I would sell my arm for TRUE family, but being blood related means nothing to me.
The best Girl's Chats I seen. Real& raw, BTW missing fathers always have the same excuse.
Lol 😂 that’s funny that they say drake grew up in a different culture. Canada and the US share a lot of cultural similarities especially Toronto where Drake is from. It’s not like he’s from Australia. Also it’s not like he’s hasn’t elaborated in the past before “he started from the bottom” of one of the richest neighborhoods in Toronto.
Sarah Brooklyn lol your definitely right but I thought they meant maybe cus his mom is Jewish and white and his dad is black American
Sarah Brooklyn exactly. toronto is basically part of the U.S at this point lmao.
Canada is nothing like the US love 😖
Ilhan Yuusuf yes it is...
Thats true. Canada and the US are very similar. I'm Canadian and when I'm in the US, sometimes I even forget that I'm in a different country.
I feel like at the end of the day... now listening to that... you as a parent or in general , when you do me wrong and it involves something that’s extremely detrimental to me and I have stuff weighing on me and I’m losing my focus and purpose in life due to the hurt that a person caused me... of course what do you expect an artist to do... people do things to set themselves free of all the pain , the hurt , the angst , the bitterness , the turmoil , the chaos , the confusion just for the BETTERMENT OF THEMSELVES ! So I give props to people who are willing to speak the truth on people who have done terrible stuff to them !
Jeannie keeping it all the way💯
YAAAASSS JEANNIE!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Adrienne got real New York in this clip lol I love when she gets real real 😏
Jeannie I can relate to your story. The same thing happened to me so that is why I do not have loyalty to anyone that's my "family" unless it is my sisters.
“Nobody said NATHAN” loooool I know it’s not a funny subject but that cracked me up 😂
Hypothetical Plot Twist: the person who molested her is named Nathan
jeanie speakin factssss
Sounds like a Markle situation. You find out who your real friend and family are when you are successful or on the upswing in life. Personally, I’m the friend or family that will have your back no matter what.
Jeannie be speaking on a deep level. She needs her own talk show.
I love you Jeannie Mai! You’re literally my favorite at this point. Always so honest and real with a heart so pure you can feel it through the tv screen! Bless your heart and thanks for inspiring the viewers including myself to be US and own who we are and WHOSE we are. 🧡⚜️
PREACH JEANNIE CMON NOW
Honestly, Loni always says she wants her own show, but I’d rather listen to Jeannie.
They can both have their shows, though.
I think that's what's going to happen.
@you're arrested for first-degree clownery luv 🙄
THAT PART!!! Absentee fathers always think they are not absent!!!
I agree with Jeannie. Balance it out. Protect you and expose evil for truth sake. It helps you heal and others too, and your platform can be your saving grace, letting the one in the wrong know/see they are wrong based on the way the world responds to it.
Family is everything.... depends on what family you are in
I agree with Adrienne. She's a real one. Loyal too!
Jeannie Mai! You anointed for this hour!
wow!! you guys are out here talking nothing but fact!! absolutely love you guys!!!
This show he helping me in so many ways.
Please can you do a whole episode on abuse.. sexual, mental, financial, physical. For all ages, male and female. On how we as people can have a voice to stick up for ourselves/confidence, move past or move in from these terrible situations.
It’s very hard to do and there are so many different situations...
One of my situations happened when I was young but I can’t remember by who, how old I was or what happened but I know for a fact something did. It’s very hard to explain fortunately and unfortunately
Jeannie!!!! I rocks with you (grammatical error intended) because your truth shall set you free! Holding in/suppressing hurt only numbs the pain and kills the soul. So happy you released your truth because YOU are the one living with the pain. I salute you.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👊🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️
Jeannie... that's all I have to say... no words.
I relate so much to Jeannie, I wish she would write a book. It's sad how being molested/sexually abused gets swept under the rug, I will not talk to some of my family members because of this. This is not okay.
If you watch the interview, Drakes father called him Drake. How tf are you his father referring to him by his stage name? Nah.
Floralisa well Technically it’s Drake’s name just not his first but his middle name. His mother i believe calls him Aubrey though.
Wow...powerful words, Jeannie. Putting air to the wound gives you scab so you can start to heal... Yes!
I agree with Jeannie❤
Jeannie always speaking such wisdom I love her I never want her to stop talking can we give this girl an entire show! She’s impacting so much of us for the BETTER
Ya'll, Jeannie really should write a book. That woman can preach. She truly has a way with words, maaan!! Every time she adds her 2cents to a topic, I listen, attentively!! Always so deep.
Jeannie is so brave to talk about her family issues especially when the other girls situation seems all rosy in comparison. I really respect her and she is right to not tolerate people just because you're blood related to them!
Preach Jeannie !!!
The only person I am obligated to be "Loyal" to is my Creator My Lord Jesus Christ!😍😍😍😍😍😍
Amen !
My father was absent all my life and the only time he ever showed up was if I was graduating from college or if it was my birthday
@@P03ticJustice you talking about me
P03tic Justice Do you need a hug? What was your reasoning behind the “ yo mama” joke? Do you know this person or are you just a mean human? It can’t make you feel good to be so cruel. I wish you a better existence. Really.
@@P03ticJustice what????? U dont know the circumstance. And NOTHING should keep a father from raising his son. U must be a deadbeat.......
Thank you Jeannie!!!!
I agree with Jeannie 💯!!! Sometimes blood is not that thick !!!
"wrote a song about it, like to hear it, here it go... " - DEADBEATS INC. come through..
Thank you Jennie
Thank you Jeannie 💜
Jeannie Mai!! I live for you !!
Oh my Loni, you are soo right. Absentee fathers always think they are not absent.
Family 100% equals loyalty.
For example, If I beef with my brother and I disagree with whatever he says to me or tells me whether I disagree with him in my head or I tell him straight up that what he's talking about doesn't make sense, I would never in my entire life air him out publicly because I'm loyal to him.
Of course, this goes for the rest of my family, But I felt like my brother was the best example.
Adrienne spoke straight facts. What she was talking about, I had to comment on.
P.S. Cheetah Girls was my childhood.
My therapist told me, there is a difference between family and relatives . Changed me from the day I heard it and learned a lot from that short phrase 👏🏽
Protection is everything. I totally agree.
why are they acting like canada and the us aren’t VERY similar culturally? we have the same things as you have. toronto, which is where Drake grew up, is basically part of the U.S at this point.
I think u missed point... Nothing to do with culture.. Per say.. Everything to do with geography. Drake grew up in Canada. Drakes father lived in the U. S. during his childhood. They were saying he cldnt have been there since he was in a whole other country.
He was raised by his Jewish white mother and not his southern African American father. That's a huge cultural difference.
Shardae Randolph Why didn’t he move? He had no problem living in Canada when he was fckin Drakes mom but then moves when the relationship breaks down even though he got a son out there
@@alexjames2510 I believe that he was married to Drake's mom and living in Canada until Drake was 5 or 6. Then they divorced and he moved bk to the states.. Who knows why?
Nope we don't America and Canada are not the same at all I lived in both countries and I'm Canadian there's a big difference with culture
"Blood is thicker than water..." nah man the Original saying is "the blood of the Battlefield is thicker then the water of the womb". Loyalty and respect is a two way street. Family is choosen and if you always choose others over me I aint choosing you either.
wow wow jeannie i sure needed to hear this
Loni and Adrienne are speaking facts lol
lmao y'all saying he from Canada like its the most foreign country
Jani Pn it’s not the same and even the US alone from east to west or north to south is like living in foreign countries.
This is why you should keep parents like that at arms length. The whole reason why why we even know about Drake’s dad is because he’s featured his father in his videos. Despite being an absentee parent Drake’s father is benefiting off of him financially. All these absentee parents only come out when their kids are successes like Adele’s father.
Hello Honnay...i love that show!...I Love your Mom!!🤗
What jeannie said. You can only have loyalty in situations that are not hurting you. If it is you need to heal and protect yourself.
Yes, SCORPIO ADRIENNE! Agreed. Loyalty is important
I almost cried when Jeannie was speaking about when she was molested by a family member because I was also sexually abused by my uncle and when I told my dad about it, he would beat me and say why would I say something like that about my uncle, my mom called me crazy, my stepmom said I was just dreaming. Til this day no one knows what happened to me and my family refuses to acknowledged what happened
So sorry to hear what happened to u I hope you find healing
Jeannie I'm in a similar situation but my dad punch me in the nose and i started bleeding and all my mom did was tell him to not do that and if I bring it up they get mad and he never said sorry for what he did and this happen like 2 days ago
Drake did say on several occasions he did spend time with his dad in the states growing up. It wasn't regularly but he never denied spending time with his dad in Tennessee I think it was or somewhere.
It was probably doing his much younger years. Most of his teen years was spent on Degrassi.
#IAmWithUJeannie #Facts ...... family can be wrong as well but can't blame them tho imperfection is such a beat down
I actually think Drake’s father isn’t lying. He came out with a song a few years back called started from the bottom where he talked about having a rough upbringing and finally making it. When in actuality Drake was on a very popular tv show as a main character. So I do think that he’s lies to sell records because he wants to relate to his audience.
Adrienne looks sooooooo Beautiful n she was speaking facts‼️✨ and they all do look gorgeous💖💋
Jeanie thanks for saying that