How to Recognize a SIGMA MALE in Public (Might Offend You)

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  • @LIveAfterWork
    @LIveAfterWork  Год назад +57

    If you liked the video. Subscribing is really appreciated🙏

    • @guyjones8605
      @guyjones8605 Год назад +3

      Done of course good creation, research and narration.. thanks for your time and sharing your wisdoms. 🍻

    • @freddiestranger9783
      @freddiestranger9783 Год назад

      WHY ARE YOU VERSION OF "SIGMA MALES" WHITE??? I GUESS BROWN AND BLACK MEN CANNOT BE SIGMA MALES ACCORDING TO YOUR DEFINITION

    • @freddiestranger9783
      @freddiestranger9783 Год назад +2

      SORRY I AM SIGMA BUT I DO NOT PLUG INTO MUSIC OR PODCASTS

    • @senzanome7801
      @senzanome7801 Год назад

      One of the best and complete videos about the REAL Sigma.

    • @jpbart1390
      @jpbart1390 Год назад

      Neither do I@@freddiestranger9783.

  • @cheeseburger3072
    @cheeseburger3072 Год назад +166

    My coworkers don't understand why I don't want to "hang out" after work. I would rather go home and read or watch a documentary. I don't like drama, I don't like borish,rude, unintelligent or loud people. I am my own best friend.I prefer the company of animals over people.

    • @dagosegovia843
      @dagosegovia843 Год назад +2

      Yup

    • @markcrooks4943
      @markcrooks4943 11 месяцев назад +3

      That’s funny. I used to bring a book to work and go sit on the lawn by myself and read every day at lunch.
      When the guys started talking about some popular TV show that I had never seen. That really threw them.

    • @handsomemarco29
      @handsomemarco29 10 месяцев назад +6

      I thought I was the only person who thinks this way... My best company is my 16-year old cat

    • @kennygreen4393
      @kennygreen4393 8 месяцев назад +1

      You and me both.... Sometimes animals can be more reliable than most human beings around u

    • @albchu
      @albchu 8 месяцев назад

      *boorish. and cat ladies.

  • @DoubleplusUngoodthinkful
    @DoubleplusUngoodthinkful Год назад +219

    You will NEVER catch me with earphones in unless I am mowing the lawn. I need to be aware of everything around me, which means HEARING everything around me. Seeing people go out in public intentionally deaf and with an accompanying ignorance of their surroundings continually bemuses me. I see situational awareness as key to not getting dead.

    • @durellpowell3324
      @durellpowell3324 Год назад +9

      You seem scared and avoidant of death, some embrace death and relish it. What you fear and avoid befalls you.

    • @DoubleplusUngoodthinkful
      @DoubleplusUngoodthinkful Год назад +28

      @@durellpowell3324actually, it's quite the opposite. I am not scared of death at all. I welcome it when my time comes. I just really enjoy life and choose not to end it if it's within my power. Not being stupid does not mean being afraid of death. I'll die with dignity, not under a car or at the hands of a street thug or some other method by which stupid people often die.

    • @iraja333
      @iraja333 Год назад +6

      Sometimes you wonder am I weird. Whenever I enter a place I always look for quick exits then found out my wife same. It's awareness about safety and not everyone has lived in a bubble. There are worse things than death. Then it's also about awareness sharp senses so when blo ked even more silent etc than normal people so feels weird gets justified with logic I feel uncomfortable must be safety etc. Many reasons

    • @DoubleplusUngoodthinkful
      @DoubleplusUngoodthinkful Год назад +8

      @@iraja333 cops do this all the time. As a former cop, I was trained to do this at all times. When I enter a place, I always make note of the people there, their descriptions, and their clothing. I also scope out egress routes and cover, and I never sit with my back to the door. Nothing weird about it in my world.

    • @jamesnewberry1191
      @jamesnewberry1191 Год назад +2

      I agree !

  • @tomandhistruck
    @tomandhistruck Год назад +15

    I genuinely dislike how a fair amount of people mistake Sigmas as being a narcissist or sociopaths. It comes with the territory. :) I am good with this.

    • @NortheastSurvival911
      @NortheastSurvival911 11 месяцев назад +1

      Couldn't have said that better myself. So many people seem to think that being a signalman is being a narcissist.
      I am the sigma empath. It's not easy but it is what it is. I deal with it. I don't like narcissist at all. And anybody that seems to think this video is about narcissism either doesn't understand narcissism or they themselves are a narcissist and they fear the sigma man. And the narcissist should fear the sigma man.

    • @tomandhistruck
      @tomandhistruck 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@NortheastSurvival911 Well said, sir :)

    • @jonb9194
      @jonb9194 Месяц назад

      I genuinely like how a fair amount of people take me for a narcissist or sociopath. Anyone who assumes something like this I have no time for. I am good with this.

    • @ernesttrosman
      @ernesttrosman 23 дня назад

      If you truly need no one else… you are a psychopath by definition. I don’t see the negative connotation of being labeled a psychopath

  • @aivarsblums7704
    @aivarsblums7704 Год назад +150

    Basically, if you’re a “sigma” it just means you were raised with respect and integrity.

    • @victorsong8416
      @victorsong8416 Год назад +17

      No.
      Sigmas are born, not made.

    • @leroilapue15
      @leroilapue15 Год назад +13

      I wasn't raised with any of those traits they were just in me from birth, most of them didn't develop properly until I was older though, probably because I wasn't raised with any guidance etc

    • @jackcarpenters3759
      @jackcarpenters3759 Год назад +9

      no, i think sigma's were abused. but it is just a hunch.

    • @victorsong8416
      @victorsong8416 Год назад

      @@leroilapue15 It's possible, that your very early formative years play a role.
      However, in my case - according to my mother - my extremely high curiosity, disinclination to take part in group plays and activities, an extreme sense of fairness, and an unflappability/stoicism/calmness, manifested very early; she noticed already when I was about 3 to 4.
      She was a grade school teacher (grades 1 and 2), so she knew the general/usual behavior of very young children.
      I did not fit the "standard".

    • @jpbart1390
      @jpbart1390 Год назад +9

      I raised myself that way. My parents were shit.

  • @Robert-nz3te
    @Robert-nz3te Год назад +40

    Interesting I call this a man of honour, integrity, wisdom, humility , altruistic kindness. We need not people acceptance, approval or praise. Our greatest joy is a book and solitude.

    • @garycallihan4206
      @garycallihan4206 Год назад +4

      I enjoy reading books and not having to hear babble.

    • @tonyratliff198
      @tonyratliff198 11 месяцев назад

      Babble is a waste of time.

  • @younglove3362
    @younglove3362 Год назад +80

    The eye contact isn't to establish dominance or a contest. It's simply a matter of respect. Not all of us are offended by not having eye contact. On the contrary, some of us are disturbed when people talk and don't look you in the eye.

    • @kev8839
      @kev8839 Год назад

      You’re absolutely right. If someone can’t keep eye contact it’s obviously because they’re not an sigma or even an alpha for that matter. They’re just a wannabe.

    • @isitrachelorj3953
      @isitrachelorj3953 Год назад

      My wife calls this the dude "nod" that men give each other when respect is warranted- not very often, unfortunately.

    • @marka1712
      @marka1712 Год назад +2

      I agree. Eye contact and acknowledgment with a slight nod is a sign of respect and worthiness. If you hold it too long you’re either a douche or a poser, if you quickly avert your eyes or jerk in panic you’re a pussy or a fake. Either way it doesn’t bother me because they’re all nobodies and have no effect on my life whatsoever

    • @younglove3362
      @younglove3362 Год назад

      @@marka1712 you go extra with the name calling. It's not that serious. Some just don't know any better. But it's really not that serious lol

    • @marka1712
      @marka1712 Год назад

      @@younglove3362 it’s not name calling unless I’m saying it to a specific person. It’s a characterization or description of the type of person. Like I said it don’t bother me either way because they are all nobodies to me and are forgotten as soon as they leave my sight.

  • @TaburnokPoblete
    @TaburnokPoblete Год назад +19

    You are correct about most of the things here except Sigma Males do not care about what they wear (clothes or shoes) or how they keep their hair. When they are focusing on a task, how they look is secondary -- they can be unclean at times, but only because they are doing something important. They prefer function and comfort above anything else and do not care what others may think of their fashion choices.

  • @hernandezgerardo1343
    @hernandezgerardo1343 Год назад +36

    SIGMA DOES NOT CARE ABOUT OTHER PEOPLE THINKS ABOUT HE LOOKS

    • @carlosg3515
      @carlosg3515 Год назад +1

      He does, however, care about what he says and writes...

    • @Ike-Mi
      @Ike-Mi 7 месяцев назад +1

      being quasimoto does not neccesarily mean make you sigma

    • @ZanyJIntPictures
      @ZanyJIntPictures 2 месяца назад +1

      And he doesn't brag and try to draw attention to himself about how "Sigma," he is, because he claims to "identify," with Sigma traits, like a lot of the guys in this comment section...

    • @utualan
      @utualan Месяц назад

      You are clearly not a sigma.

    • @markm1565
      @markm1565 Месяц назад

      The sigma already knows how he looks and that's enough. If others are uncomfortable with what he is wearing he's unconcerned. He has no need to be validated by those around him. There's a satisfying energy that comes from self awareness, enjoying the conviviality of the social environment without letting the environment compromise who you are. The sigma knows you can never please everyone and although he enjoys a bit of attention like the next person, it's not a popularity contest or election campaign. 😂 He likes his uniqueness.

  • @jimmyarellano6835
    @jimmyarellano6835 Год назад +73

    Sigma character starts at early age of our life..Being sigma is innate in ourselves,not learned by watching RUclips..true Sigma males are Sigmas without trying hard to be one..Sigma personalities starts at childhood..

    • @georgehuffert1800
      @georgehuffert1800 Год назад +4

      You might be right I've always been this way and I'm 59 and none of theses things existed when I grew up

    • @Bullelk44M
      @Bullelk44M Год назад +3

      Thanks, I was about to write the same thing. This video is a poor explanation. You don't change your personality type unless your in the deceit business.

    • @carljj7942
      @carljj7942 10 месяцев назад +1

      Yes part of it is true. But the problem here is as a child or youth u dont understand why something is like it is. Often it takes time to know if u are a sigma or not. for instance I have a close friend that are Sigma and INTJ Architect personality and this started to come thrue more and more when he was older. I believe more that is a process and over time it become more rooted and the personality is formed by the lives lived in past time and future times connecting you to a deeper thoughts to present time. Trust the process.

    • @ZukileMjana
      @ZukileMjana 9 месяцев назад +1

      Since I was born growing up as a Sigma male it's natural to me

    • @carljj7942
      @carljj7942 9 месяцев назад

      @@doves9204 When tjej ser the video all relate to it 🫢😂

  • @steveverschneider5428
    @steveverschneider5428 Год назад +5

    You're either a sigma or you aren't. You can't fake what's ingrained into your very core.

  • @kimmolaine8069
    @kimmolaine8069 Год назад +75

    You either are a sigma or you're not. Your personality and past define that. I care about people but don't need them very much. I tend to be a leader often on projects. Not a boss, but holding it together and making sure everyone gets heard.

    • @FatManJackson
      @FatManJackson Год назад +11

      Why do you have to tell that to strangers on the internet, sigma?

    • @wingnutmcspazatron3957
      @wingnutmcspazatron3957 Год назад +2

      Oh shit we got some BSE here (Big Sigma Energy) get the fuck outta hete lmao

    • @FatManJackson
      @FatManJackson Год назад +3

      @@wingnutmcspazatron3957 hey, watch out! He has a Grim Reaper profile picture. That means he is serious business. Maybe even DEADLY.

    • @qua7771
      @qua7771 Год назад +3

      There seems to be a correlation between the INTJ (MBTI) personally, and the Sigma roll. The similarities are parallel. Pretending to be something you're not is a bad idea all around with no real benefit. Best to improve on who already are. Pretending to be something you're not makes you come off weird, and a bit queer.

    • @peterj.fallon4327
      @peterj.fallon4327 Год назад +1

      Same. I could’ve written that about myself

  • @steveblackbird
    @steveblackbird Год назад +17

    Headphones in public, no.. At home yes. They're something that distracts you from what's going on around you which is something I cannot do. Always vigilant and knowing what's going on around me.

    • @nicholasjones9461
      @nicholasjones9461 Год назад +2

      And one could be considered epileptic for spontaneously busting out hot dance moves

    • @mattgroom1
      @mattgroom1 6 месяцев назад +2

      You are the first person that I have seen in these comments in years that I will certainly consider a Sigma. Brains comes next. Own a business, problem solver, mentor, shoes are important...
      Everyone I see is a Beta, cappa...delta... whatever you wish to call yourselves, but a sigma is the most aware person in the room, they probably checked the corners as they entered as well.
      Matthew

  • @echospaw899
    @echospaw899 5 месяцев назад +5

    I was recently called 'sigma'. I was unfamiliar with the term, and what it was supposed to be in relation to me. After a little research and reading about this subject, I realize that they are right. Not that I was concerned about their opinion of me (I just enjoy learning things)... it was more or less humorous to me, because I honestly couldn't give a rip that someone who doesn't really know me, thinks I should.

  • @cataliniacob3606
    @cataliniacob3606 Год назад +304

    I am sorry but you cannot "be a sigma", one cannot pretend being something or someone else.

    • @wintermatherne2524
      @wintermatherne2524 Год назад +18

      You are correct.

    • @masterofpuppers7963
      @masterofpuppers7963 Год назад +62

      "I am sorry but"...
      YOU cannot be a sigma. This is true. Opening with an apology is a clear beta trait. Very submissive and approval-dependent.
      The rest of us are hard-wired this way.

    • @guyjones8605
      @guyjones8605 Год назад +13

      To be a sigma is not to be, but to become.. Purpous versus experiences, no lies will affect his judgment, because he always remember who they are..
      What we feel makes us think..
      And we think of that day when good feelings with someone will be the whole simple proof that purpous provides..
      And we benefit from as much we should gain by investing time and energy..
      I call that strategic liability.

    • @frank-hp4is
      @frank-hp4is Год назад +15

      I am not sorry to say I agree - These are mine inherent traits not adopted behaviors.

    • @frank-hp4is
      @frank-hp4is Год назад +2

      ​@@masterofpuppers7963indeed

  • @Peekarica
    @Peekarica 8 месяцев назад +4

    I always had a feeling that the sigma mode was always in me. I was always different then other men. I never cared about chasing a women, and I had lots of women friendships when I was younger. Taking care of and upgrading your own character is the most damn important thing in your life. If you can't take care of yourself and control your mind, you are just a feather in the wind then. Flying from sad place to happy place, happy place to sad place, etc.

    • @glebvoinykov5224
      @glebvoinykov5224 6 месяцев назад

      Totally agree man 🤝

    • @ahmetocal7582
      @ahmetocal7582 Месяц назад

      NGA

    • @fabu3050
      @fabu3050 Месяц назад

      the what now? "sigma mode"? just because you are gay and you dont want women doesnt mean you are a "sigma" i feel secondhand embarassment just from saying that word

  • @richard-em6zi
    @richard-em6zi 11 месяцев назад +8

    Not only does breaking eye contact keep from seeming controlling. It's to keep from being controlled. Because it works both ways

  • @markvenediktov6930
    @markvenediktov6930 Год назад +13

    It's a weird feeling because you always bound to be alone you'll never feel like you're part of something because the world around you and the people around you seem so different

  • @haakoflo
    @haakoflo Год назад +12

    If you spend your time wondering if you're a sigma, you're probably not a sigma, but an omega looking for a way to reationalize your lack of companionship, or "a place where Sigma's can bond together".
    That sounds more like coping.

    • @liftingisfun2350
      @liftingisfun2350 Год назад +6

      I guess anyone watching this video is wondering, making them Omega. Lol what a joke, classifying people like wolves. It's just insecurity driving video views and income for this guy lmao

    • @dethray1000
      @dethray1000 Год назад +1

      @@liftingisfun2350 yup-silly shallow nonsense

    • @zdueker
      @zdueker Год назад

      @@liftingisfun2350 I wouldn't say that. Everyone is curious about what makes them tick to some degree and there's something to be gleaned from the boisterous to the insane, even if it's nothing more than a warning of what not to become.

  • @lancecashell8598
    @lancecashell8598 11 месяцев назад +5

    A trend that I have noticed enough now that i am comfortable with publicly voicing after watching, studying the chats of and weighing up to people I know personally who , without a doubt embody the characteristics of the subject matter (Empaths, sigmas, INFPs etc) would never write self declaring comments on videos about their said characteristics let alone watch videos related to these traits and respond in modesty and infact in my real life experience people ive met who tend to self declare these types of traits usually turn out to be quite the opposite, both knowingly or unknowingly through cognitive dissodence, narcissism or straight up sociopathy. In saying this, I hope to god that Im actually tottally wrong about this and I have had just a one-in-a-million bad social run in my lifetime.

    • @ふわふわねこパン
      @ふわふわねこパン 10 месяцев назад +2

      You’re not alone. I have a close friend who constantly sends me videos that “defines him” as sigma males, empath, HSP(highly sensitive people) etc. But frm my interactions with him, I can highly sense some sort of narcissism going on. 😂 It’s hard to “wake them up” though. You can’t simply tell “you’re just narcissistic “ to a narcissist’s and hope they’ll accept it right away.

  • @evandroredfield4421
    @evandroredfield4421 Год назад +7

    Im a sigma man in Brazil. People see me as the odd one. They see me like this because I don't gossip, I don't waste time on sport, I study, I have a strong pereonality, I don't talk too much.
    That's what a real man is. Working on MYSELF and taking care of my life, minding my own business doesn't make me odd.
    But you know how things work.The vast majority of people are doomed down, waste theis life in drugs, alcohol, a shitty life and then call me odd because I like to study, call me nerd.
    It takes a high level of self love, which I have, I love myself 100%, to look around you and see everyone pointing their finger on you calling you weird and confidently keep doing what you are doing.
    It's also not hard to see that people are sick in the head.
    I will always follow my calling and whoever gets in my way Will be beaten down. That's my mantra.
    That makes me a sigma. I am the leader of my own life. Do what I want and I don't follow the crowd.

    • @theKingaurav
      @theKingaurav 10 месяцев назад +1

      Most of the traits are similar with the traits of an introvert guy but not all introverts are Sigma males 😅
      All the traits mentioned in the video actually represents me but I still feel I am not a true Sigma 😊

    • @keesjonkmans
      @keesjonkmans 10 месяцев назад +1

      🤓

    • @imoretullv243
      @imoretullv243 22 дня назад

      If you can't control a room, or approach anyone on the street, you are not Sigma. You are just an intorvert doing his own this.

    • @evandroredfield4421
      @evandroredfield4421 22 дня назад

      @@imoretullv243 people are a waste of time. I've just awknowledged this since I post this comment.
      And this sigma story ia bulshit. Nothing suck Alpha, beta sigma.
      All bulshit

  • @seangriffin7841
    @seangriffin7841 Год назад +2

    The fact is that a sigma male walks a line and lives by a code only he can define, someone once said that 97 percent of the the human race is asleep and the other 3 percent walk around in total astonishment, that would be your sigma males.

  • @Norego.Newzealand
    @Norego.Newzealand Год назад +3

    Sigmas dont always do things alone we just have our own ways and are aware of others intentions.

  • @computerrefurbishment9748
    @computerrefurbishment9748 Год назад +2

    They might sometimes answer calls or text messages. Sigmas are always in demand (strong, reliable, good listener, cool, calm, collected) but on their terms imo.

  • @jackcarpenters3759
    @jackcarpenters3759 Год назад +3

    I definitely walk faster than anyone else when i walk. Cause i have a goal, and i got to get there, and if not there yet i am impatient, this impatient stops when i arrive. so walk as fast as i can, cause waiting is wasted time. i don't wait for others to make way, i just move around them, way faster than relying on others. they are useless and in my way.

  • @jordi.lozano.v
    @jordi.lozano.v 2 месяца назад +1

    Pure sigma. Polite, professional, impeccable timing, and understated confidence. But ... if you want to f____ around, you will find out.

  • @raginald7mars408
    @raginald7mars408 Год назад +12

    A SIGMA
    does not waste
    1 nano Second
    on this

  • @mps9608
    @mps9608 Год назад +8

    I don’t care what I look like😂, I wear what I like. Don’t care what others think.

  • @adventureswithducky4088
    @adventureswithducky4088 7 месяцев назад +5

    A sigma male may also choose to walk slower than others, asserting his own pace. It will not be a leisurely sauntering, but rather a deliberate pace of their own choosing.

    • @traps.star_
      @traps.star_ Месяц назад

      💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀

  • @Mandibil
    @Mandibil Месяц назад

    Realising that it was not yourself that was anything "wrong" with for not fitting in, but almost everyone else, is when you understand that you are sigma

  • @guyjones8605
    @guyjones8605 Год назад +4

    Practicality is the main essence of all actions, decisions and relations he will invest.. often to provide and/or help..
    He understands that mindfulness has exponential usages, roles and legitimate validation benefits...

    • @frank-hp4is
      @frank-hp4is Год назад +1

      Well fucking said my man! I concur ardently.

  • @energyasylum997
    @energyasylum997 Год назад +3

    "Me being ME" has an EXACT name!! Right on!!!
    Stay safe, stay sane!✌

  • @Tardis216
    @Tardis216 Год назад +5

    [quote]Don't spot a sigma, BE a sigma [/quote] is silly advise. Being 'a sigma' is not something you should strive for: you are either a lone wolf or you are not. Pretending to be someone you are not is so wrong, it is a form of lying to yourself and to others and you will fall through sooner or later.
    edit. Better advise: Know thyself and behave accordingly (and don't harm anyone undeservedly).

    • @tbotalpha8133
      @tbotalpha8133 Год назад

      But the entire Sigma/Alpha/Beta/Omega/whatever hierarchy is not a dispassionate attempt to describe different kinds of men. It is a value system, built on fear, insecurity and elitism.
      The entire point is that men at the top of the hierarchy abuse the men lower down. And they deserve to do so, because they are higher in value than their lessers. No-one who trusts this stuff wants to be a Beta, because Betas get abused by everyone above them. No, all believers want to be Alphas or Sigmas - the elites at the top of the pile. The safest and most secure men, who get to abuse everyone else.
      No believer is ever going to look at themselves, and honestly conclude they're anything but an Alpha or Sigma. Because if they concluded that they were a Beta, that would mean accepting that they were of low value, and deserved abuse. No-one in their right mind would accept that. So if a believer doesn''t fit the criteria of Alpha or Sigma, they will naturally try to change themselves to fit, to escape their status as a Beta.
      This entire ideology is hostile to honest self-analysis and self-expression.

  • @masterofpuppers7963
    @masterofpuppers7963 Год назад +7

    I remember in high school my sister told me that one of her friends told her "Your brother doesn't dress like a boy. He dresses like a man."
    Another time in a group, someone mentioned that they'd never seen me wearing shorts. I told them "because we haven't gone swimming or boating yet. In all other situations, the Boss wears pants." "Oh, who are you Boss of?" "Anyone who takes note of my clothing choices over a long period of time, obviously. I've never had a conscious thought to what you decide to wear."
    And I genuinely appreciate the extroverts who hoover up all of the chaff. They clear a wide path for us. And also the introverts, who won't cling to you or others but if you just show a little genuine interest they will happily teach you all sorts of things they've learned. Very high hidden value.

  • @longstroker68
    @longstroker68 Год назад +5

    For me apperance is not too important, clothes, hair, shoes, what a load of bullshit.

  • @Janika-xj2bv
    @Janika-xj2bv Год назад +10

    The first sigma male to go to the Moon won't collect rocks like other astronauts, he'll sit quietly reading a book.

    • @haakoflo
      @haakoflo Год назад

      Nah, rocks are better. Books were written by other people.

    • @420kiwiwarrior
      @420kiwiwarrior Год назад +4

      Or maybe a sigma is smart enough to know we can't and have never been there lmao

    • @rickjason1786
      @rickjason1786 10 месяцев назад

      Funny

    • @fabu3050
      @fabu3050 Месяц назад

      if he reads a book while hes on another new planet then he is not a sigma he is just stupid

  • @nerifterafrnam4682
    @nerifterafrnam4682 Год назад +2

    It´s like being mesmerized from an astrology text................

  • @ChroniclerOfJudah
    @ChroniclerOfJudah Год назад +6

    I need to work on breaking the eye contact. I also notice that I track other people’s eyes and their micro body adjustments. I believe people feel judged when I’m speaking with them but I’m just giving them my full attention.

    • @younglove3362
      @younglove3362 Год назад +1

      Don't be sorry. Eye contact is a matter of respect. It shows that you have no fear. And if someone has a problem with it then they're testing you for dominance. I'm not scared to get my ass kicked so I don't back down when they start. Most of the time it's a fake alpha. Real alphas respect You for showing no fear or backing down. They also see the eye contact as a sign of respect. That's why I don't focus hard when making direct eye contact with someone. When I'm done, I move on to the next objective.
      P.S. Alphas don't have time to check if you're challenging them through eye contact. They're too busy maintaining their status amongst others trying to take their spot. That's why sigma's don't like being, or maintaining, alpha status. Despite the control and power that comes with it.

    • @Numantino312
      @Numantino312 Год назад

      am autistic. so eye contact came to me with difficulty. even now, it's like speaking a foreign language i'm not proficient at.

  • @hello2020
    @hello2020 8 месяцев назад +2

    Wonderful ! I possess all the Sigma qualities listed here. Today I realized I'm a sigma male 😄

    • @lemonsoda503
      @lemonsoda503 13 дней назад +1

      you are not sigma I AM THE SIGMA

  • @Dark_Sun_Gwyndolin
    @Dark_Sun_Gwyndolin Год назад +6

    That's inspiring, aspecially in my case where most pointed facts are true to me, and the situation that is around me right now generally... demands me to be one or just let go and be nobody, terrorised by idiotic people around me. Thany You m8 ! 👍

  • @davidezeagwu33
    @davidezeagwu33 Год назад +2

    This is definitely me… crazy fr

  • @What-kw6ox
    @What-kw6ox Год назад +8

    I come from a time where we didn’t classify ourselves. But most of it seems pretty standard behavior for many many people.

    • @dethray1000
      @dethray1000 Год назад

      yup--look at the comments--very shallow--these dudes who think they are all that--they aren't even close--more like a female who gossips

  • @WarnerElliott
    @WarnerElliott 3 месяца назад

    You got it right, except for the clothing. We wear clothing for comfort/ quality #1, functionality #2, and to show our individuality #3. We are not likely to wear conformist clothing.

  • @darkh2o716
    @darkh2o716 Год назад +5

    Apparently I am perhaps 90% Sigma. Given that I am a miner and outdoorsman solitude and reflection are important to me and I take comfort in the peace of my surroundings. Many people comment to me about my lone travels and way of being. Yet I am quite social and I enjoy engaging and chatting up with all kinds of people. You learn a great deal by engaging, listening, and understanding others. Regardless, no matter what kind of person you are do your best to be the best that you can be.

    • @dethray1000
      @dethray1000 Год назад

      nobody cares and the fact you had to tell us all this proves your not even close--your clueless

  • @markm1565
    @markm1565 Месяц назад

    Sometimes being a Sigma male, when your just quietly sitting at the bar minding your own business can make people around you feel nervous or resentful. It's odd to me how easily people can feel so threatened by someone merely enjoying themself and minding their own business. 🙂🤔

  • @7goldglamour777
    @7goldglamour777 Год назад +10

    Im a sigma frmale and this is so sexy to just hear about a sigma male. Now, if he acts like a man not a little boy, has high moral standards, lives in and speaks truth, and has common sense... I'm in love.♥️

    • @standardofexcellence
      @standardofexcellence Год назад +4

      We should talk, where have you been?

    • @jpowell2603
      @jpowell2603 Год назад +3

      ​@@standardofexcellence😂😂

    • @byronryan4216
      @byronryan4216 Год назад

      Golden glamour pleasures look no further than an ‘ Utopian romance ‘ amorous intrigue darling !
      I’m in love with the new tantalising tune “ don’t let me down “ - by the debonair Gus dapperton & the sultry songstress Benee collaboration. 🕺💃

    • @methprodigy
      @methprodigy Год назад +4

      @@standardofexcellence I don't think she falls in love often

    • @nicholaslawrence6926
      @nicholaslawrence6926 Год назад

      I'm a sigma male myself, and I love and respect sigma females.

  • @markm1565
    @markm1565 Месяц назад

    They're good at self-restraint and strategy in social pressure situations.

  • @ScrutinousOne
    @ScrutinousOne Год назад +4

    What *references* are you sourcing this material from?

    • @AnarchysSon
      @AnarchysSon Год назад +2

      Great question as I've never seen a single reference source for any of this Sigma stuff .. none. So, where does this info originate?? Pulled from a hat?!

  • @JuvilleSB
    @JuvilleSB Год назад

    Choices; quality quantity; fake , true; faithful, unfaithful

  • @sturost3769
    @sturost3769 Год назад +18

    Well done. It’s like you know me :)
    This classification of males was first described in, I believe 2010, but every video I’ve seen tells me I’ve been one for decades now. It’s been incredibly eye opening and liberating to learn all of this now. SO much about myself now makes sense.
    Keep it up! 👍🏻💪

    • @liftingisfun2350
      @liftingisfun2350 Год назад +4

      Do sigmas watch videos about sigmas?

    • @lukeskywalker1841
      @lukeskywalker1841 Год назад +1

      @@liftingisfun2350 they do, but i doubt they feel the need to comment seeking validation...

    • @PatrickGotHands
      @PatrickGotHands Год назад

      Lmao I cringed so bad reading this post what a loser

    • @liftingisfun2350
      @liftingisfun2350 Год назад +3

      @lukeskywalker1841 why would a "sigma" have any interest in learning about the characteristics of a sigma? Isn't that insecure behavior?

    • @qua7771
      @qua7771 Год назад

      ​@@liftingisfun2350The comment section is always priceless. The archetype is Grossly over glamorized. You cannot buy this kind of entertainment.

  • @Llucian6695
    @Llucian6695 5 месяцев назад +1

    I love black from my ❤, i hear just black most of the time😍

  • @DonNoDraper
    @DonNoDraper Год назад +3

    👌🔥💯 all of these are spot on gent

  • @ELXABER
    @ELXABER 2 месяца назад

    Sigmas aren't introverts or extroverts, they're all ambiverts who choose which to be to suit the situation or their mood. If you don't know your personality type, take an MBTI test online and play to your strengths.

  • @ViktorMudryiWise
    @ViktorMudryiWise Месяц назад +1

    What? You nailed. Nice. I love dark/black colors.

  • @arturom628
    @arturom628 Год назад +3

    Man... At this point is like if you are spying on me

    • @dethray1000
      @dethray1000 Год назад

      nobody cares and the fact you had to tell us all this proves your not even close--your clueless

  • @ViktorMudryiWise
    @ViktorMudryiWise Месяц назад +1

    No way, even the walk?!
    Come on, it cannot be real, you are describing ME. what the?!

  • @tacomajoe7676
    @tacomajoe7676 Год назад +2

    Now I wanna buy a new pair of shoes lol

  • @papastash3468
    @papastash3468 4 месяца назад

    Am i a sigma or gamma?
    1. I hate talking non sense to people and chose to stay at my house for months
    2. If im in a fight with somebody i smile and dont show any angry emotion and sucker punch them
    3. I always plan my next move if i wanna hurt you. If i cant catch you today then maybe tomorrow or next month
    4. I dislike getting orders from anybody
    5. Im thinking non stop and i dont know why.
    6. I have a very limited trusted friends in my whole life. Maybe less than 10 people and im 40 years old
    7. I dont want a boss thats why i went into business
    8. I always dont trust the new people i met.
    9. I dont forget the people who hurt me since i was a kid and still planning for revenge even after many years have passed.
    10. I remove people in my life easily If i dont like them without thinking that much.
    Im still in doubt if im a sigma or gamma. I just discovered these kind of breeds

  • @craigcrawford6749
    @craigcrawford6749 Год назад +3

    I love being a sigma. Fought it for a long time. Tried the traditional route. Now been in Asia 25 years, own my own company, live by myself, keep no company with asses. I have a great partner that doesn't live with me. We are fantastic together. My life is perfect in all ways. Gym daily, golf, travel, beautiful woman. Embrace your solitude if it's really you.

  • @seonghong784
    @seonghong784 10 месяцев назад +2

    Walk alone yes, eye contact dead on, laser focus on things of interest defiantly. Only things I would disagree with how they dress. While I agree that sigma do acknowledge that first impressions matter, the classy shoes, the professional wear, hair care, all of it is really going to depend on the sigma. Sigma are first and foremost their own person and identity because of high levels of self respect. Therefore, a sigma is going to dress in a way that they feel defines themselves and their own self identity or in a way that is in the direction of a personal objective. Sigma are comfortable of who they are internally but will find small, usually unnoticed ways, to externally express themselves, usually with small details in clothing or appearance. Some may dress very professional, others may dress in a way that expresses small bits of their core personality. It is usually over looked because these ways tend to be small, lesser known, or in ways that people tend not to read into, such as lesser known book quotes, paintings or artistic displays that don't draw too much attention but have deep meaning, or details that follow the sigma's core values and instincts.

  • @lovepeacebliss
    @lovepeacebliss 11 месяцев назад +2

    a super simple test to see if your a sigma: did you get the shot and/ or wear a mask? If so your a beta/omega/gamma. If you didnt, your a sigma or an alpha

  • @eltercalpar
    @eltercalpar Год назад +2

    Sigmas = Unvaccinated (pure blood) 😅

  • @markm1565
    @markm1565 Месяц назад

    True on nearly all counts for me. Definitely resonated. I guess, also, that Sigmas are individual operators and not stereotype facsimiles. Good video.

  • @madtheghost337
    @madtheghost337 Год назад +7

    As a certified lambda-psi-kappa male, I have to say, sigmas aren't too shabby. If you want to learn how to be a lambda-psi-kappa male (or female), let me know. My first lesson is always free.

  • @rodneycooperLMSCoach
    @rodneycooperLMSCoach Год назад

    In short sigma males understand the word "professionalism" in everything they do.

  • @rohitsinha8500
    @rohitsinha8500 Год назад +3

    I can see that thumbnails play a big role for getting veiws like all of your videos are great but the fake sigma one got the highest view because of it thumbnail , I hope you will put some crazy thumbnails which will bring more views... keep going good luck 👍

    • @mhpno7
      @mhpno7 Год назад +1

      True, it's sad. These videos deserve way more views.

  • @jeremycarpenter5550
    @jeremycarpenter5550 Год назад +1

    Yes i like being alone . I do all these things . I don't like drama either . I have very few friends because i can focus and have a deeper friendship with people.

  • @rinzler9775
    @rinzler9775 Год назад +5

    I got all these traits, but I don't care for these "boxes" they try and put people in. I remember I went out with a women who literally said "I only date alpha males", I asked her WTF was she talking about, and was she some sort of psycho. I also told her it was a rhetorical question.

    • @garycallihan4206
      @garycallihan4206 Год назад +1

      The woman was a psycho and embraces psychobabble. It reminds me of music decades ago, Talking Heads.

    • @JOHNSmith-pn6fj
      @JOHNSmith-pn6fj Год назад +1

      LOL. Yup a woman saying something like that is a major red flag.

    • @rinzler9775
      @rinzler9775 Год назад

      @@JOHNSmith-pn6fj at the time I knew nothing about this "Alpha, beta, etc" definitions being applied to humans - so it literally sounded psychotic.

  • @teastrainer3604
    @teastrainer3604 Год назад

    If I had my life to live again, I'd shun almost everyone I've associated with. Young people should heed that advice.

  • @ranjithtp6204
    @ranjithtp6204 Год назад +2

    Everything you said about Sigma is 100% right .

  • @zero5496
    @zero5496 Год назад +1

    let's put it in simple terms, they always have priorities, and those priorities will never involve you

  • @spaideman7850
    @spaideman7850 Год назад +3

    ok confirmed i'm a sigma male. i don't need all those superficial 'trend/fashion' item to upgrade my pride, i don't need stupid people's judgement or how they see me, nor shower them gifts to make me look good in their eyes. i don't play their silly games, ie. look and stare in each others eyes to look honest, or to praise them when they aren't much to be praised etc. However, the last point, hair doesn't fit, coz i've not much hair to groom :P

    • @keesjonkmans
      @keesjonkmans 10 месяцев назад

      ur profile picture is a green and purple spider

  • @captainpugwash6889
    @captainpugwash6889 4 месяца назад +1

    I do not agree regarding the vanity points. I don't give a toss about what others think about my appearance; there are more important things for a Sigma.

  • @richardmalig42
    @richardmalig42 Год назад +2

    Many points true.....especially hair n shoes.....spot on....thanks

  • @keithrodgers1030
    @keithrodgers1030 Год назад +2

    Already know I’am a Sigma. Focus on things don’t get distracted!!! Silence is golden.

  • @timeparty718
    @timeparty718 Год назад

    'Eye for detail' ... has always been important to me, that's where the truth can usually be found that others so often ignore to their loss or failure.

    • @dethray1000
      @dethray1000 Год назад +1

      control freaks pay attention to detail

  • @mind-numbingtasks1575
    @mind-numbingtasks1575 Год назад +3

    So then, you can be an Alpha or Beta in Sigmas' clothing. Maybe you can "identify" as a Sigma. Whether or not the Sigma exists or is universally considered to be a legitimate personality type, I don't believe it's learned behavior that can be adopted by others.

  • @ilkkak3065
    @ilkkak3065 7 месяцев назад

    When they walk "It's as if they've got a destination in mind". It's not if, they got destinaltion in mind. They know excatly the spot they're going no matter is it on the other side of lawn or world.

  • @Tzadokite
    @Tzadokite Год назад +1

    Interesting! However, instead of comparing to a "lone wolf" it will be more appropriate to compare to a "golden eagle" flying at 13000 to 16000 feet above the ground.

  • @TyfoiD75
    @TyfoiD75 Год назад +1

    ;) the only reason I have not made myself bald, yet, is that I hope to sprout gray/white hair eventually. Other than that... spot on.

  • @at9048
    @at9048 Год назад +1

    You can be make yourself a sigma, you either born a sigma or your not. Simple as that.

  • @gadgetman_nz4092
    @gadgetman_nz4092 3 месяца назад

    Stop talking about me. My customers reckoned they could cut off a leg when I was concentrating.

  • @daviddefranco5218
    @daviddefranco5218 Год назад +1

    Alphas and Sygmas are always lunch.
    I'm not inspired not threaten by my lunch.

  • @larryshunk9045
    @larryshunk9045 10 месяцев назад

    63 and I don't rush nothing. I walk at my speed. I take my time so I don't miss anything. Time is mine.

  • @oov55
    @oov55 8 месяцев назад

    I'm and Omega Man myself. My eyesight is quite good - so i don't have to squint to see things in the middle distance.
    I have friends - and normal relations with grown women.
    When people are panicking around me, for some reason - I try to notice that the Tsunami, Violent Criminal or Earthquake is probably something I should run away from.
    As an Omega Man, that speaks, thinks and turns up for work - i am in the unusual position of having a regular income. This means I can take part in the World.
    As a n Omega man, I have had no dramatic parts offered to me in some gritty Film or Advert. However, that might be, because i never audition for them - and am not an Actor.
    As an Omega Man, I often do the cooking for the Family - and put the kid's clothes in the washing machine. But, have to admit, I do daydream, while I'm doing it.
    I have a friend who is an Epsilon Man. He also has a regular job and a family - but - he did tell me that he lives next door to a mysterious Sigma male - who, one day, he caught masturbating into one of his plant pots.

  • @jeffms2
    @jeffms2 Год назад

    A sigma would NEVER sit alone in a coffee shop and read a book!! I promise you!

  • @c.glivingstone9832
    @c.glivingstone9832 3 месяца назад +1

    You're simply talking about a bloke comfortable in his own skin...who does not need validation from others. All the rest, about dress style, walking and eye contact etc is extrapolation and conjecture.

  • @superman842
    @superman842 11 месяцев назад

    Become one of them because. I been let down by family.,friends, work, relationships, everything around me but nothing could break me every pain turn to power to sapate me from there world and prove them wrong from there jujment. So in the end I realised I am the leader of my own world and they know they can't stop me from expanding because I don't let drama inter my world,

  • @wintermatherne2524
    @wintermatherne2524 Год назад +2

    What about guys like this but wear relaxed clothes with long hair and half shaven but have the security to not be bothered about it?

    • @rumm6481
      @rumm6481 Год назад +2

      Don't put to much into these videos. It's just one guy's opinion of a sigma, notice the using of actors in the videos? Most are not sigma's, they are "actors". And not to be simulated. Sigma men don't care what others think about his attire. Video is very miss leading, especially to impressionable young men. Go your own way, make your own rules, live your own life.

    • @frank-hp4is
      @frank-hp4is Год назад

      ..I am inclined at times toward a subdued presentation because I just don't care as you suggest...I support your hypothesis toward debate

    • @frank-hp4is
      @frank-hp4is Год назад

      ​@@rumm6481well said and agreed.

    • @williamosgood3565
      @williamosgood3565 Год назад

      I agree.

  • @Lissabon0
    @Lissabon0 7 месяцев назад

    Looks like in over 10 years the system pushed all men towards sigma males. The mold is forming. The question is will a true sigma fit in this mold

  • @MisanthropicTimeSlipperz
    @MisanthropicTimeSlipperz 11 месяцев назад

    Sometimes, people get intimidated by my Sigma attitude. I don't give a shit.

  • @BenPal-f8w
    @BenPal-f8w 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank You now I can recognize other true sigma males. Great video

    • @keesjonkmans
      @keesjonkmans 10 месяцев назад

      ur answer makes me cu m

  • @eternalskeptic
    @eternalskeptic 4 месяца назад +1

    In every single "Sigma Male" video here on YT I think you all are mistaking this so-called "Sigma Male" for what you're actually showing in the video, which are Lead Actors, from Hollywood movies and TV shows.

  • @Fred-23776
    @Fred-23776 4 месяца назад

    being a sigma all these characteristics comes natural to him

  • @michelnoel1601
    @michelnoel1601 10 месяцев назад

    Just wow!!!
    The term Sigma male isn’t used in French (my actual language) so this clip is 100% relating to who I am in a peculiar way which has blown my mind.
    I am a recognized INFJ and from now on, thank to you, even though I won’t tell anyone I now know Michel is the name sigma is the game.
    You got a subscriber at first a

  • @klv3160
    @klv3160 7 месяцев назад

    I've wondered if I'm a sigma. This is the first video that made me wonder if perhaps not. I'm bald. I couldn't care less about shoes. I rarely am seen not ready to go somewhere. I do prefer non-flashy clothes. But I would hardly call myself a classy dresser. I just dress the way I do to avoid drawing attention to myself.

  • @MrTahomatiq
    @MrTahomatiq Год назад +1

    It is like a description of myself :) ... well done amazing video :)

  • @anthonypesqueira7540
    @anthonypesqueira7540 Год назад

    The whole "clean clothes" trait is not true. As a sigma male, we really don't care how we appear. We're comfortable in any way. Work clothes? Some dirt stains? Totally unbothered.

  • @kosmatthew
    @kosmatthew 9 месяцев назад

    I don't wear headphones unless I am still sitting on chair watching something. I need to know what is going on around me.

  • @tomkat69pc
    @tomkat69pc Год назад

    talking about eye contact and showing al pacino when he plays a blind man - that's funny ..
    .