My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
The problem with the first tip is that it is completely ineffective if the narcissist is a parental figure or someone who holds power over you that can change your life for the worse since they will most likely take your efforts at setting boundaries as an attack on them. This tip is more effective for narcissists who don't fall into those power imbalances.
@@PhaniARVV I'd probably recommend if able to limit your interactions with them. Instead of setting boundaries with them, set boundaries for yourself in which you will only allow yourself to interact with them under certain conditions. Or if you have support only interact with them with someone else that's with you. Be assertive but not defensive (grey rock it up) because narcissists will try to find a way to get a rise out of you. Stay strong because at the end of the day their words and put-downs don't matter, you matter.
I had created huge physical distance with my narcissist family. It changed my life. Now they are trying to sow doubt in my happy love life... they just don't give up.
@@ankitanandy6076 Don't even look back then. They are not worth ruining your life. Narcissists deserve to be alone to see what it is really like to harm others
It’s my father and sister (I have no mother) who are the narcissists 50 years I have been subject to it I had to break off contact Believe me, it has been awful- they are my only family and I have no partner or children, but now I don’t have to be punished by them. I feel much safer mentally- I still feel alone but it’s better than what I had - nothing actually
Yesterday my dad called me stupid and when I called him out for it later that day, he got mad and told me I overreact to silly things. He said “Pity, you’ve spent so much money on therapy and you’ve done nothing. You’re a grown woman and act like a kid.” What an asshole he is, every little argument with him triggers all my traumatic experiences as a child. I freaking hate him sometimes. I especially hate how unfair this is to me, growing up he messed me up to the point that I’ll never fully recover from all that and he KEEPS DOING IT. I deserve so much love and it makes me so sad that all I get is treatment like this.
He only says those things because he knows that you will get upset. If you can take a breath in the moment when he says things like that to you and respond with neutrality or grey rock him, he'll eventually stop. I know it's hard and it will be difficult at first, but you have to take your power back by not giving him emotional reactions to those types of comments. I dealt with this for 33 years with my dad and it took years of practice for me to not SHOW that he's triggering me. It helped when I started picturing him as a 5 year old little boy, now I just think "wow, you're so insecure that you go way too far to try to get me to feel bad, poor thing". I also had to stop talking to him about anything at all, specifically all of my personal business. He knows nothing about my work, my relationship or any of my plans that I'm working on to build my future. If you're still a minor, living at home, it might be hard to establish clear boundaries at first, but try to journal about what things you will and will not talk to him about and read your lists every day until you really drill it into your mind so you can show up different with him. ❤
I hope you are able to set limits on how much time is spent on him. If you don't set limits they'll take you for caregiving duties later,which is Hell on yourself. They don't change and tell him to stop gaslighting you. Good luck 🍀
Psy, I have something to tell you. This channel is like a place for me to relax 😌 get knowledge, cute anime, and soft voices. I always smile when I watch it, not gonna lie. 😊 I really love Psych2go ❤️
This is the sweetest thing new wanted to hear. That's actually what we are striving for to be a community a place people can come back to when they feel a bit disconnected.
Best thing to do is escape. If it is not possible then be evil to them (TO THEM ONLY) and don't show any remorse. If you do then you are already doomed. They are not worth losing yourself. If they call you evil, don't be ashamed. Its not what you are if you are showing an evil behavior just to them and not everybody else.
@Psych2go Ikr, next time I deal with one of those people thats what I'm gonna do. I speak from experience as I just ended a fake friendship 1 month ago. It was a friendship of 2 years, I was manipulated with tons of gaslighting, guilt tripping, victimization, drama, etc... In the end I have been replaced by someone else like a robot. This person called me evil many times and I felt with so much guilt. Next time I won't be ashamed of it. Lets say I am embrace the dark side but not fully indulge in it, more like being grey. I hope you understand what I mean
@@aleleotta350 That might good in one hand, but in another hand, they might use that to spread informations about you being violent and aggressive to others. from experience. just as i drew boundaries with a narcissist ex "friend" she spread rumors about me being arrogant or whatsoever to our common friends, and used anything that i told her to ruin my image. she ruined my friendships, as they believed her and didn't come to me to ask me if what she said is true or not, but i moved on from all of them. so yeah, just be careful what you tell to a narcissist, be wise with your words to put them in their place, and don't let your emotions control you, if that happens though, take a deep breah and walk out. i sincerely hope you heal from your wounds and never meet any narcissist in your life anymore.
@mariamben1812 Yours is an interesting point as it is a spot where nobody wants to get. First of all, if they believe her and not you then they were not your true friends (in my opinion), secondly it would be wise to look for leverage that way the narcissist can't fully ruin you because you got something that may damage the other. Narcissists always act like they always got leverage against you so why not have some leverage on them. Man, just thinking about these kinds of people makes me sick.
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
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I wish i saw this video when i needed it the most. My ex was a narcissist and whenever we would argue, he would turn the tables and make it seem that it was my fault and would ALWAYS blame fore things. In the process i would always end up saying sorry, even if it wasnt my fault. He never took responsibility for his own actions and denied the truth aswel. Many more other things too.
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
Yeah tried that "gray rocking" method, but both parents blame me for not communicating with them despite them being a family. For example: "Why don't you call John some time, he's your FATHER!! He haven't heard from you for over a YEAR!" This makes me even more anxious to the point of turning off my phone and ignoring their messages - I really hate having to say that I don't want to see them, that it drains me and just one phone call keeps me down for a week :( It's like they are sucking out all my energy :( I don't want to be a "bad son" but I also don't want to be down and depressed all the time. Of course, they would never accept visiting a family therapist - they think it's purely my problem.
WOW! Psychtogo! a youtube channel dedicated to mental health and psychology! I sure hope they are respectful and don’t spread ableist rhetoric about people with npd!
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
I did this one year ago. I've been in some long argument with a friend of mine that even if we confronted each other about stuff (I always been the one seeking confront to set things right) and yet he would go back onto subject that has been solved just to have the "hook" of "I was right back then". This whole argument went on for a long and exhausting year, than at some point I realized that the only way possible was to LET GO. He had a perception of me and there was nothing I could do to tell him that his perception he had of me as an enemy had nothing to do with who was confronting him... but he wouldn't listen. I applied every step listed in this video and in the long run it's working just fine, despite making us be less closer friend than we're used to, but probably for the best. It wasn't very easy, but if anyone of you happen to experience something like this as well, if you TRIED everything to make it come down to reasoning with no result, DON'T be afraid to take distances from such toxic behaviours for your own sake an peace. You matter.
how awful is to live with someone like this person who doesn't matter if he /she makes mistakes or not because always always its your fault you are the guilty one , ohh that is horrible imagine it so horrible how about live and feel it , ask lord to keep us toooo far from toxic people, remember you derserve the best❤❤
Timestamps 1). Set boundaries 0:44 2). Be firm 1:34 3). Gray rocking 2:14 4). Understand narcissism 3:11 5). It's not about you 3:52 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Both my parents can never admit they are wrong and always blame others. Specially my dad. When I was a kid I felt like everything was wrong with me, and that my accomplishments can’t make up for the little mistakes, since the accomplishments were expected. Nowadays I recognize I am easily triggered by what what my parents say, and I can’t recognize if what they say is actually right since doing that would feel humiliating. Not other people though.
What happens if the narcissist follows you when you leave or if they keep violating your boundaries? Or worse yet, what if the narcissist does something terrible to get your attention?
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A toxic friend from junior year of high school was practically a narcissist. The friends group for some reason still hung out with him so I stayed away from all of them when senior year came along. Shortly after graduation is when I snapped at him with reverse psychology. I was so relieved to never see him again after that.
i /was/ a narcissist myself, (thats a whole different and personal story) and dealing with a narcissistic person myself right now. its tough trying to watch this video and seeing myself in this “narcissist” position. even though i came to help myself, it felt like it worsened my problem.
GOOD MORNING MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY, I CAN RELATE 💯 PERCENT TO THIS TOPIC, BECAUSE I DELL WITH MY PARENT MOTHER ON A DAYLY BASIS PLEASE KEEP ME IN YOUR PRAYERS, HAVE A BLESSED DAY TEE OG NEED LOVE TO 💯🙏💪💙✌️😜
Well hope she doesn´t cross your boundries 😌. That what matters for me. But if you don´t care that much as me about boundries. It is most important that the friendship works/worked for you ❤
As someone who's recently ended ties with my best friend due to how toxic they were being, that loyalty and sweetness is just there to keep you around, not because they care. Leave as soon as you can
GOOD MORNING MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY, I CAN RELATE TO THIS TOPIC, BECAUSE, I ASK THESE QUESTIONS, I'LL NEVER GET A ANSWER. BACK , FROM MY PARENT, IF MY PARENT HEARD ME AT ALL 10 OUT OF 10 , MY PARENT DOESN'T HEAR ME AT ALL, HAVE A BLESSED DAY, I LOVE YOU ALL. TEE, OG NEED LOVE TO, PLEASE KEEP ME IN YOUR PRAYERS 💯🙏💪💙✌️🤪
I genuinely think my brother is one. He makes everything abt himself, is so HORRIBLE to everyone but can't see that he's in the wrong, mocked me about losing my best friend when he knew i was heartbroken and he tells me that I'M the problem in the house. None of this in a jokey way. But then i wonder am i the narcissist and I just can't see it 😭
What should I do if my reviewer at work is a narcissist? My coworkers successfully avoided getting assigned to work with him but I couldn’t since I joined the firm late. His boss who is the chief of the department doesn’t understand me when I complained to him about the guy, by responding “everyone is different. Try to build trust with him.” It’s been taking tolls on my mental health, putting up with subtle and seemingly unintentional attempts to gain the upper hand, establish dominance, ruin my reputation. My boss wants to talk about how I’m doing in three months and he said he might consider giving me a different role. I love this job and the pay is good. I love working with other coworkers but I can’t even stand him even for a day. Should I quit my job and move on now or wait to have that career discussion with my boss in three months?
You only 3 steps Step one move on! Step two get comfortable being uncomfortable. Aka become independent no matter what. Regardless of your comfort. Step three freedom. I said it was 3 steps. I never said it was easy.
Okay~ what am I suppose to do if the department's supervisor is a narcissist and he constantly ignores that he mustn't give me anymore orders since he got promoted but rather has to communicate that with my boss?
I’ve succeeded in doing this. Me and my wife are not seeing her nacrissistic mother anymore. But what do you do when the wife keeps pressuring you to try to reinitiate and try to fix things? It’s only been a couple months and it’s been some of the most peaceful in our marriage.
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
There’s a Ted talk on domestic violence that was made 7 years ago. I wonder if maybe you guys have anything else to add to it or about the victims pov.
I am actually about to move home, knowing it may cost me my life. Alot of threats have been made, 2 buddies are dead. I now what I am walkong into, and all of it is because of a few really narcisistic people...some of which are drug dealers. But I am done man. "I will learn to be peaceful, but I keep my knife at my side I will pray for compassion But if war comes to my door you know I will be blastin'" ya what I get for falling in love...
@@damnablethief Sounds horrible.Mate, I don't know where you are or what you are going thru but all i say is survive.Survive and get the hell out of that shithole, that place does not desever someone like you .
How can we leave when we are practically family. I am really tired of that person, drained my whole positive energy, I feel dull and want to cry all the time. That person makes me feel unwanted and when being called out, plays a victim card making me feel guilty.
family isn't an excuse for abuse, I know you might or might not have heard the saying "blood is thicker than water" but the full saying is "the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb"
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
Nothing is more narcissistic than placing that title on someone. It automatically absolves you from any fault you might have had in the relationship to those listening to you.
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
HEY GOOD MORNING MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY, I JUST WANTED TO STOP BY TO SAY THAT I LOVE, EVERYONE , YES THIS TOPIC IS MY PARNT, HAVE A BLESSED DAY, TEE ,OG NEED LOVE TO 💯🙏💪💙✌️😜
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
Does anyone have any tips on how I can escape my narcissistic and abusive mother? I am almost 13, so I'm not old enough for a job. My family who have their own house are on my mothers side. My father lives with us, and won't get a job to get his own place. On top of all this, my mother is borderline trans phobic to me. Making snarky comments like "wannabe boy" and other stuff. All of this has really made a toll on me. Please help.
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
I know this is probs gonna be dangerous advice but coming from someone who is still currently stuck with her narc mother at age 21, pls get out while you have the chance, being a runaway is better than putting up with lifelong lies, betrayal, and sabotage, you don't necessarily have to runaway to get out tho (unless you really need to and you have no other way), you can try reaching out to CPS or the cops or some authority figure to help you even if it's someone within the medical community
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
@@eepy_shylo there's a reason why stigmatism much like stereotypes even exist in the first place, I'm not saying all of you are the same but the vast majority (which is most) are
@@Anonymissus yes i get why you might think that, but it is a MENTAL ILLNESS, so what do you expect from a mentally ill person?? also, the fact that a person has npd does NOT make them a bad person. yes, people with npd MAY be bad people, but them having npd has nothing to do with that.
@@eepy_shylo yes I agree with you, I'm just saying in general why stigmatism and stereotypes exist (that applies to other stuff besides mental illness tho) and yes I agree (I'm not saying all people with NPD are bad or that all bad people have NPD just to clear that up), it's just that I can't stand the ones who use their NPD as an excuse to continuously harm others and blame it on their diagnosis instead of taking accountability for their issues (I should've been a bit more clear in my first comment)
Everyone saying leave… SHUT UP Most children in America deal with narcissistic parents (mostly mothers) and are minors that can’t escape You acting like we are incompetent and can simply “leave” is not helpful Anyone out there with narcissistic parents IT WILL END ONE DAY AND YOU ARE SO STRONG
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
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My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
very thankful for the video, but I just realised I've been doing all of these w/o any guidance or advice, just from my experience. since I've been living with someone narcissistic for years.
@@tims9434 ah actually I commented the first comment before watching and then wanted to add the other info so instead of editing I just replied myself. haha, does it seem weird or strange?
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
Guys... narcissistic abuse isnt real. Theres nothing that sets apart abuse from a narcissist compared to a non-narcissist. They can be abusive, but it isnt its own type of abuse. Its like saying if someone with autism is abusive then its autistic abuse.
the difference here is that there's usually a spiritual component when it comes to narcissism (most are usually possessed not all tho, it's not normal for a human's eyes to turn completely black unless they are possessed, I'm talking when there iris and white of the eye turn black, that's not just pupil expansion) which is being abused by a demon using a person's body (you may not believe in the spiritual but I do) but even then I agree with you, anyone can be abusive narc or no narc
@@Anonymissus As someone who most likely has NPD, aka most likely IS a narcissist, i dont get where you're getting the possession from??? People with NPD arent just possessed????
@@Echodoesstuff62333 I didn't say you all were but most are (ofc some who have it aren't) also as for the last part of your comment I already talked about this in my previous comment, it's not normal for the white of the eyes to go black not to mention I've seen some with NPD who's face the best in how to describe it is morph when they cause pain to another person (their mouth makes the most wicked grin I've ever seen, a big sadistic smile from ear to ear, now yes people without NPD can also be possessed I'm not denying that but I'm not gonna sit here and deny what I saw either)
@@Echodoesstuff62333 it's only possessed people's eyes who I see turn black, unpossessed people's eyes don't do that and yeah I've been accused of being schizophrenic before (the secular world isn't gonna admit to the spiritual existing), besides I'm not the only person who has seen signs of demonic possession other people have as well even if it's just a few, all I'm saying is the moment more people start seeing this stuff they're gonna (by they're I mean the medical community and government) try and sweep it under the rug, remember when others thought "aliens" existed and back then the government was covering it up? (now it's made public also as for why I put aliens in quotes is because I believe those things to be either fallen angels and/or demons, just not sure which one, possibly both) anyways thanks for your concern I suppose but i don't have nothing else to say here
Best advice..Leave and don't look back.Never take them back!
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
Timestamp! (I'm back)
-0:45 Set boundaries
-1:35 Be firm
-2:15 Gray rocking
-3:11 Understand narcissism
-3:53 It's not about you
Boundaries do not work with a true narcissist. Tune in to Dr Ramani for how to survive narcissistic abuse
@@Cioroiu-Mihai
in particular
if you "leave" them in
The way
that Judith Harper left...
ALAN Harper.
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Thx
@@RocketeerGxPod :)
step 5: leave (if you're able to ofc, I know some of us aren't able to do so as of rn)
Step 1: leave
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This isn't always possible when it's family!
Not that easy if you didn't realise yet
@@tims9434 I’ve left 2 long-time jobs over it & moved once. It’s difficult, but possible.
@@ARLimon74 While it's tough it's not impossible
Summary of video: leave , if you can't then distance yourself from them .
The problem with the first tip is that it is completely ineffective if the narcissist is a parental figure or someone who holds power over you that can change your life for the worse since they will most likely take your efforts at setting boundaries as an attack on them.
This tip is more effective for narcissists who don't fall into those power imbalances.
This is something important to point out. It's definitely harder to draw boundaries with someone who you have to see often.
@@Psych2go Then what should we do if the narcissist is a parent or a family member.
@@PhaniARVV I'd probably recommend if able to limit your interactions with them.
Instead of setting boundaries with them, set boundaries for yourself in which you will only allow yourself to interact with them under certain conditions. Or if you have support only interact with them with someone else that's with you.
Be assertive but not defensive (grey rock it up) because narcissists will try to find a way to get a rise out of you.
Stay strong because at the end of the day their words and put-downs don't matter, you matter.
@@Psych2goOh, boo I thought this was how to survive as Narcissist
@@Exsol300 grey rock only works in the short term though (in some situations and in some cases grey rocking can actually enrage some narcs)
I had created huge physical distance with my narcissist family. It changed my life. Now they are trying to sow doubt in my happy love life... they just don't give up.
@@ankitanandy6076 Don't even look back then. They are not worth ruining your life. Narcissists deserve to be alone to see what it is really like to harm others
@@aleleotta350 yup, bit tough coz its a family member, but yeah, no plans going back ever.
@@ankitanandy6076 I feel you, just hope the best for you
It’s my father and sister (I have no mother) who are the narcissists
50 years I have been subject to it
I had to break off contact
Believe me, it has been awful- they are my only family and I have no partner or children, but now I don’t have to be punished by them. I feel much safer mentally- I still feel alone but it’s better than what I had - nothing actually
@@hollybolly1 you said what I just thought of, "safer mentally", I understand the situation.
As I'm breathing heavily and holding back tears, this literary couldn't have come at a better time 😮💨
Hang in there! ❤
Yesterday my dad called me stupid and when I called him out for it later that day, he got mad and told me I overreact to silly things. He said “Pity, you’ve spent so much money on therapy and you’ve done nothing. You’re a grown woman and act like a kid.” What an asshole he is, every little argument with him triggers all my traumatic experiences as a child. I freaking hate him sometimes. I especially hate how unfair this is to me, growing up he messed me up to the point that I’ll never fully recover from all that and he KEEPS DOING IT. I deserve so much love and it makes me so sad that all I get is treatment like this.
😒It's best to keep a distance from a Narcissist. Limit your contact from him. It's healthier for your peace of mind.💆🧘
@@sekenamcmurren2217 I plan to, it’s too late for anything else. Thank you 🙏
He only says those things because he knows that you will get upset. If you can take a breath in the moment when he says things like that to you and respond with neutrality or grey rock him, he'll eventually stop. I know it's hard and it will be difficult at first, but you have to take your power back by not giving him emotional reactions to those types of comments. I dealt with this for 33 years with my dad and it took years of practice for me to not SHOW that he's triggering me. It helped when I started picturing him as a 5 year old little boy, now I just think "wow, you're so insecure that you go way too far to try to get me to feel bad, poor thing". I also had to stop talking to him about anything at all, specifically all of my personal business. He knows nothing about my work, my relationship or any of my plans that I'm working on to build my future. If you're still a minor, living at home, it might be hard to establish clear boundaries at first, but try to journal about what things you will and will not talk to him about and read your lists every day until you really drill it into your mind so you can show up different with him. ❤
I hope you are able to set limits on how much time is spent on him. If you don't set limits they'll take you for caregiving duties later,which is Hell on yourself. They don't change and tell him to stop gaslighting you. Good luck 🍀
@@Spiralclarity Thank you, I know how important setting limits is and I intend to prioritize myself regardless of how selfish society says that is.
Psy, I have something to tell you. This channel is like a place for me to relax 😌 get knowledge, cute anime, and soft voices. I always smile when I watch it, not gonna lie. 😊 I really love Psych2go ❤️
This is the sweetest thing new wanted to hear. That's actually what we are striving for to be a community a place people can come back to when they feel a bit disconnected.
Best thing to do is escape. If it is not possible then be evil to them (TO THEM ONLY) and don't show any remorse. If you do then you are already doomed. They are not worth losing yourself. If they call you evil, don't be ashamed. Its not what you are if you are showing an evil behavior just to them and not everybody else.
That is an interesting approach. To give your perpetrator a taste of their own medicine.
@Psych2go Ikr, next time I deal with one of those people thats what I'm gonna do. I speak from experience as I just ended a fake friendship 1 month ago. It was a friendship of 2 years, I was manipulated with tons of gaslighting, guilt tripping, victimization, drama, etc... In the end I have been replaced by someone else like a robot. This person called me evil many times and I felt with so much guilt. Next time I won't be ashamed of it. Lets say I am embrace the dark side but not fully indulge in it, more like being grey. I hope you understand what I mean
@@aleleotta350 That might good in one hand, but in another hand, they might use that to spread informations about you being violent and aggressive to others. from experience. just as i drew boundaries with a narcissist ex "friend" she spread rumors about me being arrogant or whatsoever to our common friends, and used anything that i told her to ruin my image. she ruined my friendships, as they believed her and didn't come to me to ask me if what she said is true or not, but i moved on from all of them. so yeah, just be careful what you tell to a narcissist, be wise with your words to put them in their place, and don't let your emotions control you, if that happens though, take a deep breah and walk out. i sincerely hope you heal from your wounds and never meet any narcissist in your life anymore.
@mariamben1812 Yours is an interesting point as it is a spot where nobody wants to get. First of all, if they believe her and not you then they were not your true friends (in my opinion), secondly it would be wise to look for leverage that way the narcissist can't fully ruin you because you got something that may damage the other. Narcissists always act like they always got leverage against you so why not have some leverage on them. Man, just thinking about these kinds of people makes me sick.
@mariamben1812 Btw thanks and I hope you live well too without any narcissists
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really loved him so much I can’t stop thinking about him, I’ve tried my very best to get him back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of him, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss him and just can’t stop thinking about him
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back.
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him?
His name is Father Obah Eze, and he is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
he is father obah eze, he has great powers, he can help you.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked him up now online. impressive
Wow I just looked Father Obah Eze on the net he’s very legit thanks once again ❤
I wish i saw this video when i needed it the most. My ex was a narcissist and whenever we would argue, he would turn the tables and make it seem that it was my fault and would ALWAYS blame fore things. In the process i would always end up saying sorry, even if it wasnt my fault. He never took responsibility for his own actions and denied the truth aswel. Many more other things too.
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
WE GETTING OUTTA THE PSYCHIATRIST OFFICE WITH THIS ONE 🔥
Yeah tried that "gray rocking" method, but both parents blame me for not communicating with them despite them being a family. For example: "Why don't you call John some time, he's your FATHER!! He haven't heard from you for over a YEAR!"
This makes me even more anxious to the point of turning off my phone and ignoring their messages - I really hate having to say that I don't want to see them, that it drains me and just one phone call keeps me down for a week :( It's like they are sucking out all my energy :( I don't want to be a "bad son" but I also don't want to be down and depressed all the time. Of course, they would never accept visiting a family therapist - they think it's purely my problem.
Same
this is great! if its someone that isnt your parent.
Exactly.
WOW! Psychtogo! a youtube channel dedicated to mental health and psychology! I sure hope they are respectful and don’t spread ableist rhetoric about people with npd!
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EXACTLY😭😭
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
This is exactly what I need now, thanks a lot!
Wish I knew this earlier in my life, but now I can confirm what's been said in this video :)
It kills me when they put me down
I did this one year ago. I've been in some long argument with a friend of mine that even if we confronted each other about stuff (I always been the one seeking confront to set things right) and yet he would go back onto subject that has been solved just to have the "hook" of "I was right back then". This whole argument went on for a long and exhausting year, than at some point I realized that the only way possible was to LET GO. He had a perception of me and there was nothing I could do to tell him that his perception he had of me as an enemy had nothing to do with who was confronting him... but he wouldn't listen.
I applied every step listed in this video and in the long run it's working just fine, despite making us be less closer friend than we're used to, but probably for the best.
It wasn't very easy, but if anyone of you happen to experience something like this as well, if you TRIED everything to make it come down to reasoning with no result, DON'T be afraid to take distances from such toxic behaviours for your own sake an peace.
You matter.
how awful is to live with someone like this person who doesn't matter if he /she makes mistakes or not because always always its your fault you are the guilty one , ohh that is horrible imagine it so horrible how about live and feel it , ask lord to keep us toooo far from toxic people, remember you derserve the best❤❤
Gray rock is the best solution for me
Timestamps
1). Set boundaries 0:44
2). Be firm 1:34
3). Gray rocking 2:14
4). Understand narcissism 3:11
5). It's not about you 3:52
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
I JUST WANT TO SAY THANK YOU MUCH, I LOVE YOU ALL TEE OG NEED LOVE TO, HAVE A BLESSED DAY 💯🙏
All of this info is acurate😊
Both my parents can never admit they are wrong and always blame others. Specially my dad. When I was a kid I felt like everything was wrong with me, and that my accomplishments can’t make up for the little mistakes, since the accomplishments were expected. Nowadays I recognize I am easily triggered by what what my parents say, and I can’t recognize if what they say is actually right since doing that would feel humiliating. Not other people though.
What happens if the narcissist follows you when you leave or if they keep violating your boundaries? Or worse yet, what if the narcissist does something terrible to get your attention?
DAMN this Channel never stops posting💀☠️☠️☠️
Is this a compliment or nah?
FR💀
perfect timing ig
God bless everyone that works at your website I can tell you from experience that you have saved my life I am alive today because of your awesomeness play I just want to tell you thank you my ex was a narcissist and my new boyfriend is a narcissist and I didn't realize that ahead of time but I am dealing with it and healing and reclaiming my soul
I dont have the money to move out and im a student, i cannot cope here anymore I'm losing my mind 😢😅
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Me too man, I'm miserable. I'm locked up in the house all the time and she never let's me handle with my friends other the like once or twice a year.🫤
@@AutumnGodwin-jm9ks your mum ?
A toxic friend from junior year of high school was practically a narcissist. The friends group for some reason still hung out with him so I stayed away from all of them when senior year came along. Shortly after graduation is when I snapped at him with reverse psychology. I was so relieved to never see him again after that.
this really helps:)
- not to be that person but I'm probably fourth
Bro how can I protect myself from myself?
Watching this to know what tricks people will use against me
i /was/ a narcissist myself, (thats a whole different and personal story) and dealing with a narcissistic person myself right now. its tough trying to watch this video and seeing myself in this “narcissist” position. even though i came to help myself, it felt like it worsened my problem.
Thank you.
I echo that with NPD traits! Make a fast exit plan, safety is the most important!
Great video.
Thanks so much
GOOD MORNING MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY, I CAN RELATE 💯 PERCENT TO THIS TOPIC, BECAUSE I DELL WITH MY PARENT MOTHER ON A DAYLY BASIS PLEASE KEEP ME IN YOUR PRAYERS, HAVE A BLESSED DAY TEE OG NEED LOVE TO 💯🙏💪💙✌️😜
I LOVE YOU TODAY AND FOREVER 💯🙏💪💙✌️
Could you please talk about maladaptive Day dreaming
my childhood best friend is kind of selfish and narcissistic but she’s so loyal and sweet though😭
Maybe she's not narcissistic
Maybe her loyalty & sweetness is just a part of her manipulation tactics. Leave
Well hope she doesn´t cross your boundries 😌. That what matters for me. But if you don´t care that much as me about boundries. It is most important that the friendship works/worked for you ❤
@@iee-eu9djMost likely
As someone who's recently ended ties with my best friend due to how toxic they were being, that loyalty and sweetness is just there to keep you around, not because they care. Leave as soon as you can
Thank you 👍🏻✨
GOOD MORNING MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY, I CAN RELATE TO THIS TOPIC, BECAUSE, I ASK THESE QUESTIONS, I'LL NEVER GET A ANSWER. BACK , FROM MY PARENT, IF MY PARENT HEARD ME AT ALL 10 OUT OF 10 , MY PARENT DOESN'T HEAR ME AT ALL, HAVE A BLESSED DAY, I LOVE YOU ALL. TEE, OG NEED LOVE TO, PLEASE KEEP ME IN YOUR PRAYERS 💯🙏💪💙✌️🤪
I LOVE YOU TODAY AND FOREVER👍
I already have and it works 😅
but what if im the narcissist?
Did you reflect on yourself to discover it?
I genuinely think my brother is one. He makes everything abt himself, is so HORRIBLE to everyone but can't see that he's in the wrong, mocked me about losing my best friend when he knew i was heartbroken and he tells me that I'M the problem in the house. None of this in a jokey way. But then i wonder am i the narcissist and I just can't see it 😭
What should I do if my reviewer at work is a narcissist? My coworkers successfully avoided getting assigned to work with him but I couldn’t since I joined the firm late. His boss who is the chief of the department doesn’t understand me when I complained to him about the guy, by responding “everyone is different. Try to build trust with him.” It’s been taking tolls on my mental health, putting up with subtle and seemingly unintentional attempts to gain the upper hand, establish dominance, ruin my reputation. My boss wants to talk about how I’m doing in three months and he said he might consider giving me a different role. I love this job and the pay is good. I love working with other coworkers but I can’t even stand him even for a day. Should I quit my job and move on now or wait to have that career discussion with my boss in three months?
Get a new employer
You only 3 steps
Step one move on!
Step two get comfortable being uncomfortable. Aka become independent no matter what. Regardless of your comfort.
Step three freedom.
I said it was 3 steps.
I never said it was easy.
Okay~ what am I suppose to do if the department's supervisor is a narcissist and he constantly ignores that he mustn't give me anymore orders since he got promoted but rather has to communicate that with my boss?
I’ve succeeded in doing this. Me and my wife are not seeing her nacrissistic mother anymore.
But what do you do when the wife keeps pressuring you to try to reinitiate and try to fix things?
It’s only been a couple months and it’s been some of the most peaceful in our marriage.
That explanation of the origin of grey rocking... that's one reason many people subconciuosly gain weight
Me, someone with npd, watching this: 😨
REAL i h4te psych 2 go sm like they're a MENTAL HEALTH based channel, the least they could do is not stereotype people with npd
@@eepy_shylo LITERALLY
❤ this video will save my life and the future 🎉
Wow 😮
Hey does anybody know any toxic narcissist that I can trauma bond with apparently I'm a sucker for that kind of s***
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
litellary first point is to set boundries 🤭 exactly hell yeah protect your boundries everyone 😎
Dad is a narc; so I have nothing to do with him!
How to survive being with a narcissist?
Be an even bigger narcissist
This is me fr
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Why does this channel know everything that happens to me 💀
There’s a Ted talk on domestic violence that was made 7 years ago. I wonder if maybe you guys have anything else to add to it or about the victims pov.
I’m first, hello!
i’m so frickin sorry to say, people will hate me for this, but i’m…
@@0451bloc_sillygoob :( ok but what’s ur MBTI)
You mean how to deal with me
I am actually about to move home, knowing it may cost me my life. Alot of threats have been made, 2 buddies are dead. I now what I am walkong into, and all of it is because of a few really narcisistic people...some of which are drug dealers. But I am done man. "I will learn to be peaceful, but I keep my knife at my side
I will pray for compassion
But if war comes to my door you know I will be blastin'" ya what I get for falling in love...
hope you make it buddy
@@Sunshine-sl3kr i think the scariest part is guns. I hate guns, yet i need one. So stupid.
@@damnablethief You an american ? Same especially when they are wielded by idiots and unstables.Fortunatly it isn't that much of problem here in asia.
@@damnablethief Sounds horrible.Mate, I don't know where you are or what you are going thru but all i say is survive.Survive and get the hell out of that shithole, that place does not desever someone like you .
2:31 God damn that rock is too cute for me. I want to be just like him 🥺🥺🥺✨✨🪨
How can we leave when we are practically family. I am really tired of that person, drained my whole positive energy, I feel dull and want to cry all the time. That person makes me feel unwanted and when being called out, plays a victim card making me feel guilty.
family isn't an excuse for abuse, I know you might or might not have heard the saying "blood is thicker than water" but the full saying is "the blood of the covenant is thicker than the water of the womb"
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
chat how do i deal with a narcissist father who also abuses his family (im the oldest daughter)
Nothing is more narcissistic than placing that title on someone. It automatically absolves you from any fault you might have had in the relationship to those listening to you.
My so called best friend was like this... I'm so glad i cut ties
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
HEY GOOD MORNING MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY, I JUST WANTED TO STOP BY TO SAY THAT I LOVE, EVERYONE , YES THIS TOPIC IS MY PARNT, HAVE A BLESSED DAY, TEE ,OG NEED LOVE TO 💯🙏💪💙✌️😜
I LOVE YOU TODAY AND FOREVER 🙏💪💙✌️
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
Does anyone have any tips on how I can escape my narcissistic and abusive mother? I am almost 13, so I'm not old enough for a job. My family who have their own house are on my mothers side. My father lives with us, and won't get a job to get his own place. On top of all this, my mother is borderline trans phobic to me. Making snarky comments like "wannabe boy" and other stuff. All of this has really made a toll on me. Please help.
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
Ok but what if the narc is your mother and your to young to leave otherwise you'd be a runaway?
I know this is probs gonna be dangerous advice but coming from someone who is still currently stuck with her narc mother at age 21, pls get out while you have the chance, being a runaway is better than putting up with lifelong lies, betrayal, and sabotage, you don't necessarily have to runaway to get out tho (unless you really need to and you have no other way), you can try reaching out to CPS or the cops or some authority figure to help you even if it's someone within the medical community
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
wow!! a MENTAL HEALTH awareness channel! i hope they dont further stigmatize and stereotype people with npd!!
@@eepy_shylo there's a reason why stigmatism much like stereotypes even exist in the first place, I'm not saying all of you are the same but the vast majority (which is most) are
@@eepy_shylo ask God to help you and to see inside of yourself before it's too late
@@Anonymissus i am aethiest, so no thanks.
@@Anonymissus yes i get why you might think that, but it is a MENTAL ILLNESS, so what do you expect from a mentally ill person?? also, the fact that a person has npd does NOT make them a bad person. yes, people with npd MAY be bad people, but them having npd has nothing to do with that.
@@eepy_shylo yes I agree with you, I'm just saying in general why stigmatism and stereotypes exist (that applies to other stuff besides mental illness tho) and yes I agree (I'm not saying all people with NPD are bad or that all bad people have NPD just to clear that up), it's just that I can't stand the ones who use their NPD as an excuse to continuously harm others and blame it on their diagnosis instead of taking accountability for their issues (I should've been a bit more clear in my first comment)
Everyone saying leave…
SHUT UP
Most children in America deal with narcissistic parents (mostly mothers) and are minors that can’t escape
You acting like we are incompetent and can simply “leave” is not helpful
Anyone out there with narcissistic parents IT WILL END ONE DAY AND YOU ARE SO STRONG
It never ends. In my case, my mom still got to me until the day she died.
Please leave or you might not be ok
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
HEY GOOD MORNING MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY I JUST WANTED TO STOP BY TO SAY THAT I LOVE YOU ALL TEE OG NEED LOVE TO,💯🙏💪💙✌️😜
HEY GOOD AFTERNOON MY FRIENDS AND FAMILY, I JUST WANTED TO STOP BY TO ASK HOW , I HAVE TO SAY YES, TO THE QUESTION, THIS TOPIC IS MY PARNT/MOTHER, SHE TOLD ME THAT SHE WISH SHE NEVER HAD ME, OKAY PARENT, I LOVE YOU TO PARENT, WHEN I THINK ABOUT IT, I JUST WANT TO BALL UP AND DIE, HAVE A BLESSED DAY, TEE ,OG NEED LOVE TO, 💯🙏💪💙✌️🤪
best way to deal with a narcissist is not to deal with them at all.
My brother
Why am I like this :(
But hey, atleast I'm trying:)
are you saying ur a narcissist?
@@eepy_shylo yes, I think so :(
@@Redhood-b9g me too :( it sucks man, but remember, its not your fault dude and it doesn't make you any worse of a person :D
@@eepy_shylo Thanks bro :)
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
nuh uh you wont survive
I thought the guide is for narcissist to surivive 😂😂😂
Lol
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
Iam a narcissist?
I'm early🎉
I LOVE YOU ALL TEE,OG NEED LOVE TO 💨🙏💪💙✌️🤪
❤
why is psych2go always on time? they always know what topic needs to be discussed for me at the moment ◡̈
very thankful for the video, but I just realised I've been doing all of these w/o any guidance or advice, just from my experience. since I've been living with someone narcissistic for years.
Why reply to yourself?
@@tims9434 ah actually I commented the first comment before watching and then wanted to add the other info so instead of editing I just replied myself. haha, does it seem weird or strange?
Will u oven make a *discord* community?
Definitely ! 👍 💯🙏
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
I know who is a narcissis! Her name is Jastrid, she is my classmate in always talk trash about me.
Narcissis sounds like a cool name i'm having it for myself
Tbh I’d Say Don’t Speak Don’t Let Their Words Get To You And End The Conversation
my lord why do these videos always come when I am dealing with this topoc
Ugh...I will never recover
My mother- the worst.
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
Is seem not good well
What if I am one😈
OH MY GODDDD STOP STIGMATIZING MENTAL ILLNESES FFS
and just let the people get hurt by narcissistic people? no thanks.
but I do agree that the part about not giving them advice is straight up wrong.
My husband is a narcissist and he cheated on me💔 a few months ago... I found out and tried to reconcile but he lied and left me right before Christmas. It was two days before we were due to take a two week trip to see my family as I moved to another country for him. I haven't seen him in four months; I think it's been almost two since we talked. I'm a mess and he's dating the woman we both work together with (my coworker 😭💔 who he had an affair with, it's like she doesn't even exist. I just had to know more so I decided to try this investigator privately. I checked a message that was posted in a group, at first I thought it wasn't going to work. I'm still in awe of all the information they were able to help me extract from my husbands phone without his knowledge and text messages. the deleted messages, chats, videos, calls. The story was revealed to me. These tests were a huge help because I worked on my papers for myself and now I can stay with my son and have a good job. Don't let your narcissistic partner not abuse you. Hey guys contact him on Instagram renatahacks3432 for all kinds of help and cyber recovery follow him on Instagram @renatahacks3432
Guys... narcissistic abuse isnt real. Theres nothing that sets apart abuse from a narcissist compared to a non-narcissist. They can be abusive, but it isnt its own type of abuse. Its like saying if someone with autism is abusive then its autistic abuse.
the difference here is that there's usually a spiritual component when it comes to narcissism (most are usually possessed not all tho, it's not normal for a human's eyes to turn completely black unless they are possessed, I'm talking when there iris and white of the eye turn black, that's not just pupil expansion) which is being abused by a demon using a person's body (you may not believe in the spiritual but I do) but even then I agree with you, anyone can be abusive narc or no narc
@@Anonymissus As someone who most likely has NPD, aka most likely IS a narcissist, i dont get where you're getting the possession from??? People with NPD arent just possessed????
@@Echodoesstuff62333 I didn't say you all were but most are (ofc some who have it aren't) also as for the last part of your comment I already talked about this in my previous comment, it's not normal for the white of the eyes to go black not to mention I've seen some with NPD who's face the best in how to describe it is morph when they cause pain to another person (their mouth makes the most wicked grin I've ever seen, a big sadistic smile from ear to ear, now yes people without NPD can also be possessed I'm not denying that but I'm not gonna sit here and deny what I saw either)
@@Anonymissus i.. i think if you're seeing people's eyes turn black for no reason (other than possession) you might.. wanna get that checked out..?
@@Echodoesstuff62333 it's only possessed people's eyes who I see turn black, unpossessed people's eyes don't do that and yeah I've been accused of being schizophrenic before (the secular world isn't gonna admit to the spiritual existing), besides I'm not the only person who has seen signs of demonic possession other people have as well even if it's just a few, all I'm saying is the moment more people start seeing this stuff they're gonna (by they're I mean the medical community and government) try and sweep it under the rug, remember when others thought "aliens" existed and back then the government was covering it up? (now it's made public also as for why I put aliens in quotes is because I believe those things to be either fallen angels and/or demons, just not sure which one, possibly both) anyways thanks for your concern I suppose but i don't have nothing else to say here
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