Apart from the dumb murdered comment, this is a really beautiful thread, full of people with respect and understanding. These beautiful people had the courage to end their otherwise endless pain. We cannot judge them for that. Here’s to Anthony and Jim 🍻 Much love from Oz 🇦🇺
Barry Pilkinton a shocking news is he did not show up for breakfast especially if someone goes to breakfast every day and is expected to be there sometimes The O'Jays that people question that's because did not sure what to really expect and hope for the best
Barry Pilkinton If you notice, her first sentence is “New details in the stunning death” not “stunning details” like the title would like us to believe.
That guy was a prick. Everybody who knew him wanted nothing to do with him. A whole to do about nothin’. And - YES - if you believe in heaven and hell, it - SORRY - gotta believe he is in the latter ( as a suicide).
@@ingenerchik He was much loved......Just as Robin Williams was.....and he faced the same demons. The only people who didn't like Anthony found him too real for their fakeness.
In a world where so many celebs use their influence to spread hate & discontent it is a shame to lose such a light to the world. He shared his love of travel, his love of food, and brought people together. He will be missed.
I’m so sad that Anthony didn’t want to be here anymore. I just want to know why. He had so much to give and we lived him like an old friend. RIP. Jody Stewart.
People who have reconciled themselves to taking their own life often appear happy and at peace with themselves in the final days leading up to the act. It has to do with knowing that the the seemingly endless struggle with depression and hopelessness are coming to an end. Anyone who has never felt that level of emotional pain will never completely get it.
I personally witnessed this with my brother. He had been so miserable and dark and that last night he was light and even cheerful. I didn't know and couldn't know he'd made his decision. I wish I had. I have no idea if I could have stopped him or talked him out of it but I would certainly have tried. Still hurts 18 years later. Please, anyone out there, if you've hit that moment where suicide seems your only option, talk to someone. Anyone.
Wow. For your information I did try to help him in his life and so did everyone close to him. I knew him. You did not. The one thing on which we do agree is that I need to be happy his pain and suffering are over. And I am. While I wish he were still here I do understand and respect his decision entirely. Many people don't think so but it does take a lot of guts to do what he did. Farewell Jim. This world didn't deserve you.
I feel you Jack. My youngest has attempted suicide twice. Institutions, trips to the ER at 2 am, no one can understand how helpless you are when an adult loved one decides they just want "outta here". I was lucky enough to have him move in with me. We're fortunate that he and I have always enjoyed an open, judgement free relationship. He's much better the last couple years, some people are too smart and to sensitive to cope. Developing a life strategy in which you don't feel like shit, despondent and overwhelmed every waking moment, is a lot harder than most people can ever truly understand.
I have had my trials with depression and anxiety. My "Black Dreadfuls" will be with me always, and I have learned to be on constant watch. It is heartbreaking to think that someone who gave so much of himself to other people should, at a critical moment, believe himself to be better off dead. Depression is a terrible monster.
anyone could have done this......people can access the " tweets " /smart phones and pretend to be YOU ! I am 100% sure he was suicided. Unfortunately, the local fools damaged the crime scene and he was cremated.....Case closed.
Double Moon I understand. In depression we must always choose life. Suicide is a permanent outcome to a temporary situation. I'm so happy and grateful to have failed.
I'm still in disbelief and wonder till this day what really happened. His energy was always good and welcoming. RIP Bourdain 🙏 you will always be respected and never forgotten.
Motivated and Medicated - you need Jesus the spiritual warfare is real - the fight is supernatural, you need prayer , these demons are killing everyone because they can - because we fail to understand what we are up against. How do you fight something if you don’t know what it is. I’m speaking from my own experience-as soon as I understood this, I was delivered. The spirit of heaviness, bible says to put on the garment of praise, rebuke the devil and he will flee for you. Put on the amour of God - he is faithful to recuse and heal. The demons are real, but God is mighty, and more powerful.
No offense, but if someone wants to kill themselves, they're going to do it. Plenty of suicide victims show no outward signs of depression. Sometimes it's just going to happen.
Dane Potmo - so this may help someone out there. I was suicidal, had the spirit of depression(bible calls it spirit of heaviness) a I don’t know how I got there. I came across teachings and scriptures that talk about demonic spirits who enter you. Demons are persons without bodies. So they inhibit humans. Jesus was casting our demons where he went. I have always been a social person. For the last 5 odd years I had been struggling with severe depression, isolating myself, functioning where I had to - and then withdrawing from life. I searched and came across a pastor by the name of Derek Prince who talked about how we get negative thoughts - if you start talking to yourself it’s more likely than not you have a demonic spirit - long story short, o got prayer, rebuked the spirit of depression- and the spirit of death (suicide) oh they are real. Finally understood that the war on me is spiritual. As God delivered I no longer have suicidal thoughts or depression. I’m light but I have to fight my own mind constantly relying on Jesus and rebuking negative thoughts in the instance they come up , which these days it’s easy for me to do. Imagine what spirits enter everyone even those who believe in God - their entry points can be anything from an idol, to reading tarot cards - it’s that easy and if you don’t stand in God word - how are u going to fight against something you can’t even identity- the struggle is real, but knowledge is power. I pray that someone hears this and is blessed and freed, because all things are possible through Jesus. Also check out Mark Heman RUclips - I hope this helps someone and that you get relief, and freedom from the bondage of whatever demon you are carrying around. God has a prescription for you. Seek and you shall find.
I think most people have suicidal thoughts occasionally. I went to see a psychiatrist once about it and he said there’s a difference between fantasising about suicide because your hurting so much from a break up or whatever it is, and then people who are genuinely suicidal as in they can follow through with it. Personally I just think it’s the ones who can’t take anymore depression and are actually brave enough to leave. I don’t have the courage to hurt myself. Sometimes depression is so bad it just feels better to get the fk out of here. Obviously Anthony had had enough of this life. And that’s okay. It was his suffering, no one else’s. So no one can judge.
it just didn't seem like he had any real problems,or was unhappy.i mean a hit show awards for that show.but he did also have some honest political opinions about a lot of the places he visited,but i guess looks are misleading!
several of his shows were very critical of rich elites and usa policy & propaganda - seemed to me he was playing around with 'the line' & crossed over a few times.. there was reason to 'suicide' the guy..
I feel bad for people who cannot just accept the truth. Anthony suffered from depression all his life. he spoke about it many many times. But there are people in this world who make a conspiracy out of EVERYTHING. Their hatred of Hillary overrides everything in their life. They have surrendered their intellectual sovereignty to Donald Trump and just believe that everything out of his mouth is the truth when in fact the exact opposite is true. He lies about everything. Hillary did not kill Anthony or anyone else and this conspiracy theory has to be just about the most ridiculous and stupid thing I have ever heard and anyone who believes that crap is really not too smart.
produce86 yes and this was reported on the very first day of his death so it's not new this is old information so why don't you get off your soapbox because someone needs the wood
I'm going to miss Anthony Bourdain, I remember watching him when he was on the Travel Channel. He was always so real and honest. He struggled with drugs and alcohol and was imperfect but that is exactly what made him special, because he was utterly human. He showed us food, but he also showed us what its like to be human, and that means being imperfect, yet he always showed he had a great big heart. In many episodes he showed just how much he cared about others. Though I never knew you in real life, I will miss you my friend. The world has lost a special person.
I've been backpacking around the world since May of 2016. I'm in Indonesia now. Anthony Bourdain and his tv show _Parts Unknown_ is a big reason why. I'm very sad for him and his daughter.
A few years ago I was suicidal and obviously very depressed and broke down and called the suicidal hot line, know what? I was put on hold !!!!!!!!!!!!!! It actually cracked me up and helped me , but it could of gone the other way, too. I hung up and talked to family and eventually was ok...but how many others aren't???? DON'T PUT PEOPLE ON HOLD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NOT A GOOD THING !!
Good for you that you have such a good sense of humor! As someone who has been chroinically depressed for years (on meds for it), I know that it's frequently been my sense of humor that has kept me alive.
My heart goes out to his family, especially his wife and daughter. Loved his show, but especially liked that he was so honest, even about his personal struggles with alcohol and depression. Rest in Peace Anthony...
This is why ppl who suffer from depression need professional help! This is no joke. Everyone goes thru the occasional blues which is normal. But they snap out of it. Depressed ppl have a lingering gloom which doesn’t go away. That’s the difference. Living a extravagant life isn’t going to change that.
Would for me. Money =happiness and sleepytime and video games all day long. Also I could go on great dates with women, expensive dates and NEVER CALL THEM AGAIN hahahaha
rissa usd hey idiot he said it in a interview himself that he suffered from depression so no I’m not speaking from a imaginary place. So don’t comment on my comment saying shit.
Most of the time when people are suicidal they act normal and happy. As soon as they made up their mind that they gonna do it , it actually gives them peace and relief. Also, look at his eyes, in almost every picture they look dead..you can see how unhappy he was. Rip Anthony
Leave him alone. You don’t know how far gone you have to be to go through with it. Money and fame mean nothing. He was a person. Like you and me. Life hurts.
well, he is dead and cremated so, we are not bothering him, at all. I expect his daughter is not reading this and that his estranged wife is also, not into public opinions. His money is going to them as they are the next of kin. Case closed.
I’ve been depressed at times and so I believe I can see when people are depressed and people say certain things too! I do have someone to help me. It took me 15 years to find him but I have a professional that I see and I’m not afraid to say it and also he is the best in my opinion. I’ve been through a lot in my life so many others wish it hadn’t taken 15 years to find him.
They're killing these idols they've created for us, left and right... calling it suicide in hopes that people in our celebrity-obsessed culture follow suit. It's working nicely for them. Suicide rates have TRIPLED just since 1999, and that's based on 2016 numbers... there will be new reports soon showing even more increases. Don't fall for it.
It could be that his life was threaten but people can commit suicide because they are going to be killed by someone else if they do not do it, so they will take their lives if someone is threatening them however I have seen the depression so many times in others, so it’s hard to prove why he isn’t here anymore!!!
I think they surprised Bourdain. He doesn't show the signs of a man who has to go kill himself or be killed (like Chris Cornell, for example). I think that's the difference between the celebs that have agreed to their suicide long in advance, and the ones that have no idea it's coming.
I am devastated. My father used to watch "No Reservations", "The Layover", and "Parts Unknown", and I'd watch it with him. It was one of the few ways we bonded together. He inspired my dad to travel more, and has inspired me to travel as I get older. It's funny, because another person that me and my dad mutually enjoyed was George Michael, and he died on Christmas of 2016. I'm only 19, and all my favorite celebrities are dying. I feel old already.
chadgrov Oh, I understand, sir. But circumstances being what they are, with my favorite celebrities passing away, I feel like I'm experiencing something people older than me go through. If that makes any sense.
Anthony Bourdain was awesome to watch. His words speak of a depression and sadness that I know all too well. Pray he is with The Lord and happy again. Miss him.
I remember another episode where Anthony authentically revealed his anger and showed what a difficult person he was to work with and please. Anger is a veil of depression. Depression is primarily chemical. Low Magnesium, Vitamin D, B vitamins... All of which are depleted by alchohol consumption. Alcoholism is a self medication for depression. Many depressions stem from not feeling cared for (not worthy) or safe at an early age. PTSD therapy is a potential solution. Currently, I find EMDR an effective therapy with medically assisted withdrawal Rx.
There were a lot more red flags than shown here. He made the following statement several times on camera: “By the end of the day I often feel like hanging myself in the shower and today is no exception.”
NEW: I will never eat like this again in my life He was seeing a therapist and said he’s depressed most of the time These are signs of severe depression.
Rest in peace my friend. You will forever be a legend. I wish you hadnt felt like there was no point in living because you were so worth fighting for. You were an amazing person.
Danny451 Fuentes such ignorant and cherry picked ideals you have about God who you've never personally experienced. Except for the part where you were created and felt love that you will never feel again after your cynical life is over and you're separated from the love of God for an eternity. Those silly fairy tales as you so pointed out were in fact done to prove the foolishness of man. You proved that point quite well like the talking ass did. You know, when you try to pull your goofy points from some atheism video you watched or if God forbid you are some former preacher who said screw God and I've met a few of those there is one thing that never has happened in your pathetic, joke of a fake existence. You've never actually experienced God, an actual relationship with your creator. Because here is the thing. No matter how much you think you're educated or beyond such things, when you have you know it. When God shows up in your life time after time after time and does the impossible that only HE could, you know it is nothing to scoff at. It isn't happenstance or chance or a joke or bullcrap. I've cursed God and turned my back on HIM and when I came back He was there. As a matter of fact the only way to know there is "no God" is to in fact be God. There is no other way to know beyond a shadow of a doubt (well there is a belief system that admits the word God doesn't exist but that is the goofiest thing ever and they're saying no argument can exist) but you do know because you argue so vehemently against Him. You may as well argue the Easter bunny is fake because in essence your argument is almost as silly to constantly fight against. But in the end, like I said, you really do not know and that hits you in your gut and your heart some where to be so sure of something you're so unsure of. To have no point to exist and have this incredibly intricate universe that just exploded and decided to "be" is the most idiodic idea and thought man ever possessed. The narcissism to believe that nothing cared about you so much yet you should fall in line and be this decent human being for nothing... What a waste of a good time. If that was the case I'd just run a drug empire, do whatever I pleased, screw whoever I wanted, kill at will. Why honestly care about my actions? Oh wait, I've done some of those things. But why stop? Because I wanted to be a decent human being to other blobs of random cellular entities? Screw that, there is no point. Anyway I'm done. I see you "good people" laugh at something you have no real concept of when I wouldn't even waste my time If I still believed like you all. I'd just be a nihilist... What a sad sad way to "live" if I were in your shoes. So stop pretending to be condescending to the Jesus freaks. It makes you a sad and pathetic individual, a joke. God have mercy on your pathetic and my pathetic soul.
Danny451 Fuentes God does those things because He is God and He is the Creator. It's His will, not Danny's will, not Aaron's. I can question it all I please but that will never get me all the answers. God is the only real love I've ever experienced that never let me down. Every single other person on this earth has, but not God, ever. I know why he had imperfect people write the Word, because that is who I identify with, screw ups. I'm one and I need a savior. I was raised in an exceptional household and told God to go hang. Funny thing was he already had. Now it's nothing but simple exchange. "Thank you" and "help my pathetic human life". That's generally enough when tree going gets rough or tuff or great and stuff. Anyway my point is that God still loves you and me even when we think He isn't real or its all a sick joke and we're the stupid punchline. Or maybe your life's perfect and it's just waiting for a moment to fall out from under you and knock your dick in the metaphorical dirt. Either way there is someone there when no body else is. I'm living proof of that and I say all this because I give a crap and I'm not prefect and want ever pretend to be something I am not and can never be. Take care, all of you... I miss Bourdain already and if I don't see any of you in the end that I flamed and blasted to hell and back then I'll see you on that "otherside" the bad one ;)
Tony had a flair for words, a self made man that was eloquent beyond his years, he spoke from the heart and told his stories and a description of his journeys in those far flung places. His food descriptions utilized few words but with an understandable content that would fill a book. Like a poet in full bloom he made life an interesting journey and the explorations of cultures along with their various foods opened the eyes of many. In the end chose HIS final destination at HIS time and place. In short, like Sinatra's song he did it his way. As a conservative we didn't have or share the same political ideas, but nonetheless I had a deep respect for him and his approach to life after so much struggle and pain, and how to find its real meaning. RIP Now Tony!
Even his own mother didn't have a clue, she just said today that she couldn't understand why he woukd take his life, he had it all, money, fame, a loving beautiful girlfriend, he was so "happy".......
Elydia Alvarez his girlfriend was seen hanging around another guy so take out that part and she is now saying that they were in a no borders relationship and since there is no indicator that he had a side girl as well we can assume that she was just cheating
I feel many of my generation are in despair over getting old: health issues, just the loss of youth. We felt we were avoiding old age with phrases like "40 is the new 20" with many of us looking younger than our years. But the big 50 hits you with health issues and sagging skin. You start thinking your life is "same BS, different day". Soon you start thinking as you get older your health is definitely not going to improve. Everything becomes depressing, especially when people around your age die of "natural causes". My own chronic pain issues with advanced arthritis in nearly all my joints, including my spine and my once sharp mind turning to mush is very depressing.
Abudi yusuf-Cry out to your creator. And start reading the book of Romans. Paul's letter to us. The believers. Ask Him to help you understand. You will read about God's plan for you.... God loves you and sent His son to die for you, so that you can have life eternal with him! There is One that loves you like no other. It is sad that Anthony didn't have that hope.
Please get some help from a therapist and/or psychiatrist. There are even online therapists now, so if there aren't any where you live or it's too expensive there that is an option. I understand not wanting to tell anyone, it is quite possible people won't understand, but there are a lot of us out here who do understand. I had to try for 3 years to get out from under suicidal thoughts, so getting better is possible, and you can do it too.
He was such an inspiration to travel and get out into the world. I used to watch his show religiously and could have never thought he would have done something like this but in weird way he humanizes people who you think have it all. We all struggle even people who you think can run from their problems.
K Vjqxzz bs with the alcohol...I highly don’t believe it was alcohol...something fucked him over and I think that lil druggy bitch girlfriend knows some shit
Depression and depressants have literally nothing to do with one another. Depressant means something that slows your breathing. Depression is a mental illness.
Suicide no, murdered yes. He spoke out and made enemies who decided to snuff him out. Same with Chris Cornell, Robin Williams, Prince, Joan Rivers, Marilyn Monroe, etc
Simple as this I did not know him But I loved him. My daughter and I watched all his shows It was like he was part of my home. I wanted so badly to invite this dude for dinner Ask him tons of questions About his life, food, let him try my sunday tomato sauce FUCK!!!!!! I am going to miss him. Like so many others :(
You watch too much TV then. That's really pathetic. Chances are, he hated you. Are you white? Could you be overweight? Have you ever left a review on Yelp? GOD FORBID you abstain from eating the dead carcasses of animals that have lived their lives IN HELL and died miserable, violent, painful deaths. You have to have been a very specific set of characteristics to have been OK with Bourdain... and he didn't mind saying so... The man was an arrogant creep. He didn't deserve to be sacrificed, but the world has not lost much of anything... and think of all the time you'll have to spend with your family instead of looking at this pompous ass through your TV screen! Though you'll probably just find another... because his controllers WILL have another for you...
People just do not understand what these struggles are like everyday, day after day. You push the thoughts back in your head, but they are always there.
If you think life can't get any better and you've experienced all you wanted to, you could be wrong. And if turns you're right and life won't get better, that doesn't mean it won't be still good. Just saying...
It doesn't matter what we say or do another person has taken their life. Money fame good food can't bring you happiness we think it does and we try to think why someone would take there own life when they have it all but we don't see what goes on behind close doors. People hurt in different ways everyday we have to open our eyes and if you think that any person is hurt and think they will hurt them self help them try to help even if they push you away help them. By them pushing you away if just another way of saying help me more you might not understand but you will figure it out. Suicide is real and people have to be more aware of it learning about it.
This guy was my hero . Open not blind to the world. But this man was going to announce big. And for people instantly claiming he just desperate. Makes me wanna react in a bit of a black matter . You may be right about that. But with a touch of tony .
I know depression. A lot of people think depression comes from without. They think it comes from bad times and bad feelings. They think a particular bad event can start one's spiral down into that dark place. That's why they are always so shocked when someone like Anthony Bordain does this. They are are right yet so wrong. Imagine a beautiful sunny day in a familiar place with familiar people you love. Even that can be a trigger. If you've ever been depressed, you understand that statement. Depression can come from insecurities. It can come finding new love and the fear that it will be lost. It can come from a loss of a loved one. It can even come from being happy and feeling you don't deserve it. It is an unreasonable feeling of hopelessness. When I get depressed, I think of the people I love. The people that depend on me. The pain it would cause them if I'm gone. Thinking in this way takes me out of the selfish and into the selfless. I think about specific events with specific people and what they would want of me even if they're gone. And then I can breath again. The best thing you can do for someone suffering from depression is to let them know that you care. Let them know that you need them. Let them know that you love them. Talk about those special moments you've experienced. That funny line that made you laugh uncontrollably from that obscure move they made you sit through. That unexpected and most beautiful sunset you ever saw while walking together that was peaking through the concrete and glass towers of NYC. That special breakfast consisting of toast, a cup of coffee, and love before that big interview. Good memories. You must also never forget to make new memories. It is most important to give someone who suffers from depression your time. No I don't mean time spent texting or even on the phone all though that's important too. I mean go and see them as often as you can.
Depression doesn't need alcohol to start it down the road. Alcohol can definitely be a problem because it is a downer. Depression can be caused by brain chemicals. Depression can run in families, also. IT IS A DEADLY ILLNESS.
Ian, for a lot it DOES come from bad times, bad luck, tragedies, losing a house or a job etc. Not everyone just has biological depression. The louses in life can trigger depression in normal people too
Ian Campbell thank you for your explanation. Many celebrities walk around with happy face yet sad and depressed on the inside and when the unexpected happens, someone is blamed like in Anthony’s case,it’s the Clintons. People are going through a lot with everything happening around the world and instead of opening up and learning more,we tend to point fingers which is sad. Thanks once again for the insight.
Stoner Page stunning stunning stunning stunning amazing that things are different the matter where you are it could be anybody talking about it we don't know sometimes our families don't even know I sauce in our families now. Stunning
elchasai you must be one of those Trump supporters which are not like the most smartest Big Mouth anyway try to educate yourself and go around the world and see all the people who have different languages and try to understand what they are saying good luck and have a wonderful day I remember this in about you or if not about me it's about the man that's what the problem is but Trump supporters has issues about everybody else but not the subject itself get a life enjoy.
I miss this damn young. He meant so much to me as I was a young restaurant worker (10 year old at my uncles 15 years ago) love Mr. Bourdain, idk if I'm sad or mad still till this day but I understand each and everyday more.
Suddenly not eating is indeed a sign. Call, knock on the door, keep reasonable sense afloat. I barely escaped that sign if not for constant reminder that i still matter, that I'm still needed, that I'm still loved. Keep being there, never leave that person unattached, unsocialized for more than a day. That's how much dedication and caring should be put on someone who suffers depression. And it's a lifetime sickness that needs a lifetime cure. Not that hard to prevent and cure, but very difficult to find the right person, the right situation, the right life, the right love, as a cure. The key is consistency and amount of interaction to the cure, to the loveone that shows how the depress, the suicidal still matters. It seems impossible, but that's the cure, the only certain cure to a debilitating sickness of overwhelming sadness and loneliness.
The importance of taking depression so seriously and not stigmatizing it. Kate Spade too. Thousands go through and are afraid of going to doctors because of what people will say or think yet most of them are very accomplished.
“Kate suffered from depression and anxiety for many years,” he (her husband) said in a statement to PEOPLE. “She was actively seeking help and working closely with her doctors to treat her disease."
If anyone seeks mental health help they can never get life insurance even if there was never a suicide attempt. I know because of a family member. Also w New laws that person can never own a gun. I'm talking normal depression like when someone dies u grieve. They don't put patients in dif categories sadly the insurance companies treat everyone the same whether it's severe mental problems or just normal depression. & BTW psychiatry isn't proven also some drugs make people suicidal as a side effect!
I suffer from depression and suicidal thoughts sometimes. I have health insurance. My husband pays for it and I have my own. We work really hard on those days in which I feel really depressed, but so far we have a beautiful son and I have kept on studying and living in several countries...learning 4 languages BUT you need to be open about it with your friends. family and have their support.
I think what leads to depression and suicide is too much information, good processing which in turns too much wisdom. I wish we all stay young and innocent.
Depression is no joke. I'm so sad. The woman who said Anthony was such a light to the world, was so right. I've always loved him and sensed his goodness. A whole lot of people don't understand that depression isn't mere sadness. It's a brain problem and it sucks. Sticking around can be a serious challenge at times, and people who over-simplify and say, suicide is a selfish act, don't know what they're talking about as all kinds of things can and do go terribly wrong with the brain. And sometimes, a brain reacts very badly to a new medication, or a medication that use to work, doesn't any more. All kinds of reasons. Depression often drives people to addiction, another complex issue that often goes hand in hand with depression, which Anthony also experienced. Anyrhing, just to feel ok, if only for a while. But self medicating is so not the answer. It only makes things a thousand times worse. Science is making great strides with brain trouble, but for many, they haven't seen the benefits or gotten the help they so desperately need. For all us who've lost loved ones to suicide (ufortunately, there are too many of us), and/or with family histories of depression, those of us who suffer, sometimes only occssionally, and other times, all too often, we know the stigma and the ignorance that is still too widespread among people who just don't get it, I say, hang in there, push yourself to exercise, eat right, take cool showers, practice slow deep breathing and meditation, and share what you are feeling. RIP Anthony B. 💔
Fame is not all it's cracked up to be. I saw a documentary on Davy Jones at the height of his fame. He was staying at a hotel in a city he was unfamiliar with. Just him, no family, no friends, he went down to the duck pond and fed the ducks. You could just tell he was lonely and depressed. Susan Boyle also found out the depressing aspect of being on the road, Donny Osmond could relate to Susan's feeling so cold about a unfamiliar hotel room in an unfamiliar city. Elton John would also go into a pretty deep depression after feeling good after having pleased an audience because all of a sudden they were just gone and he was all by himself. I think it was Led Zeppelin where the drummer quite at the height of their fame because he missed his wife and kids and didn't want to have to go out on the road anymore. The fear of losing one's popularity, being away from family and friends and familiar places, can lead to too much of an emotional roller coaster ride and make it very hard to stay on an even emotional level.
What exactly are the stunning new details? This nonsense. If you don't have a story; you don't have a story. Don't make it up and pretend you have new information.
It just goes to show,a successful career, money in your bank account and what we on the outside envy his lifestyle doesn't show what unhappiness and darkness that's he was hiding all the time, I for one was shocked and very sad,RIP my friend, you brought a lot of humility and warmth to a lot of people.
brian poland thanks for the input. I’m working very hard, and staying busy as much as I can. Depression has always been a part of me so it’s really not easy to shake off completely.
It breaks my heart how society is not reporting what needs to be reported and spoken upon and that the side effects of legal prescription drugs with side effects of suicidal thoughts? I don't get it and this is why I no longer am on any prescription drugs and they gave me the thoughts also but I prayed and God answered! I have been prescription medication & drug free since 2010 and so glad to be alive! You do not know what people are going through until you have walked in their shoes! - Valerie Cheers Brown
"it's so upsetting to feel that someone is such a light to the world and they feel the need to leave" this hit me right in the feeling R. I. P ANTHONY
He was murdered.
@@NinjaSushi2 how do you know?
They don’t leave because it’s something they *want. It’s more a *need, because they can’t take anymore. They don’t do it to hurt people
Apart from the dumb murdered comment, this is a really beautiful thread, full of people with respect and understanding. These beautiful people had the courage to end their otherwise endless pain. We cannot judge them for that. Here’s to Anthony and Jim 🍻
Much love from Oz 🇦🇺
@@atonement7232 so we should praise people for taking themselves out?
So the shocking new details are that he didn’t show up for breakfast? Click bait
Eric Pratt because he was dead, he didn't make dinner tonite either. WTF, fake news ABC.
If I ever miss a meal you better call the cops! Not so sure about Anthony...
Exactly 👍
Barry Pilkinton a shocking news is he did not show up for breakfast especially if someone goes to breakfast every day and is expected to be there sometimes The O'Jays that people question that's because did not sure what to really expect and hope for the best
Barry Pilkinton
If you notice, her first sentence is “New details in the stunning death” not “stunning details” like the title would like us to believe.
Millions are still missing this wonderful gentle soul
Boo hoo
He was murdered.
Stunning new details: He skipped dinner that night. Holy Shit.
AND BREAKFAST
Rest in hell anthony
@@saaelusep4775 what the hell is this for
That guy was a prick. Everybody who knew him wanted nothing to do with him. A whole to do about nothin’. And - YES - if you believe in heaven and hell, it - SORRY - gotta believe he is in the latter ( as a suicide).
@@ingenerchik He was much loved......Just as Robin Williams was.....and he faced the same demons. The only people who didn't like Anthony found him too real for their fakeness.
Where are the stunning new details?
He missed dinner and next days breakfast, ostensibly because he was preparing or had already died. #Shocking #Clickbait #Sensationalist-Profiteering
Yeah - I skipped breakfast this morning. Better alert the media.
It's that he enjoyed food
The disgusting fake news media. Vultures swooping in around Tony's dead corpse.
Life after death is it super natural
In a world where so many celebs use their influence to spread hate & discontent it is a shame to lose such a light to the world. He shared his love of travel, his love of food, and brought people together. He will be missed.
I’m so sad that Anthony didn’t want to be here anymore. I just want to know why. He had so much to give and we lived him like an old friend. RIP. Jody Stewart.
He was murdered.
@@NinjaSushi2 how?
@@NinjaSushi2 he wasn’t murdered fool 🙄
curious how everyone that talked about pedophilia committed suicide
People who have reconciled themselves to taking their own life often appear happy and at peace with themselves in the final days leading up to the act. It has to do with knowing that the the seemingly endless struggle with depression and hopelessness are coming to an end. Anyone who has never felt that level of emotional pain will never completely get it.
Amen man
True
I personally witnessed this with my brother. He had been so miserable and dark and that last night he was light and even cheerful. I didn't know and couldn't know he'd made his decision. I wish I had. I have no idea if I could have stopped him or talked him out of it but I would certainly have tried. Still hurts 18 years later. Please, anyone out there, if you've hit that moment where suicide seems your only option, talk to someone. Anyone.
Wow. For your information I did try to help him in his life and so did everyone close to him. I knew him. You did not. The one thing on which we do agree is that I need to be happy his pain and suffering are over. And I am. While I wish he were still here I do understand and respect his decision entirely. Many people don't think so but it does take a lot of guts to do what he did. Farewell Jim. This world didn't deserve you.
I feel you Jack. My youngest has attempted suicide twice. Institutions, trips to the ER at 2 am, no one can understand how helpless you are when an adult loved one decides they just want "outta here". I was lucky enough to have him move in with me. We're fortunate that he and I have always enjoyed an open, judgement free relationship. He's much better the last couple years, some people are too smart and to sensitive to cope. Developing a life strategy in which you don't feel like shit, despondent and overwhelmed every waking moment, is a lot harder than most people can ever truly understand.
I have had my trials with depression and anxiety. My "Black Dreadfuls" will be with me always, and I have learned to be on constant watch. It is heartbreaking to think that someone who gave so much of himself to other people should, at a critical moment, believe himself to be better off dead. Depression is a terrible monster.
That is what happens to pieces of shits with nothing but hate in there hearts... all the bitches should watch n learn.
what about his tweets?? No mention of that.. RIP Anthony.. Hopefully the real truth comes out.
anyone could have done this......people can access the " tweets " /smart phones and pretend to be YOU ! I am 100% sure he was suicided. Unfortunately, the local fools damaged the crime scene and he was cremated.....Case closed.
Stan Rogers I can you never watched his shows.
I hope the truth does!
What were his last tweets?
People don't understand depression, its shameful and silence sometimes. You keep your hurt to yourself.
nah, it was murder
Clickbait after someone died. Not cool
Generating money on dead celebrities ? Wow. New thing for sure.
Of course anything to do with George Stepanopoles !! A true evil fraud !!
USA THE GREAT most people care
MSM continues to sink to new lows.
Drew ö
Depression has been a lifelong battle for me as well. I get what he did. I'm sorry for his daughter.
Double Moon I understand. In depression we must always choose life. Suicide is a permanent outcome to a temporary situation. I'm so happy and grateful to have failed.
@@t.hanson4312you can outsmart everything except pain…
I'm still in disbelief and wonder till this day what really happened. His energy was always good and welcoming. RIP Bourdain 🙏 you will always be respected and never forgotten.
Exactly, what really happened, I get the feeling he knew too much and might not have taken his own life.
I used to party with him and Qaddafi back in the 90s
you need more than a Hotline to stop suicide. family, friends, trust, love, loyalty , commitment and much more is needed.
Motivated and Medicated exactly. Ppl are mean disrespectful and I'm tired of being let down by everyone
Motivated and Medicated - you need Jesus the spiritual warfare is real - the fight is supernatural, you need prayer , these demons are killing everyone because they can - because we fail to understand what we are up against. How do you fight something if you don’t know what it is. I’m speaking from my own experience-as soon as I understood this, I was delivered. The spirit of heaviness, bible says to put on the garment of praise, rebuke the devil and he will flee for you. Put on the amour of God - he is faithful to recuse and heal. The demons are real, but God is mighty, and more powerful.
The hot lines staffed by teenage volunteers can't help older people.
No offense, but if someone wants to kill themselves, they're going to do it. Plenty of suicide victims show no outward signs of depression. Sometimes it's just going to happen.
Dane Potmo - so this may help someone out there. I was suicidal, had the spirit of depression(bible calls it spirit of heaviness) a I don’t know how I got there. I came across teachings and scriptures that talk about demonic spirits who enter you. Demons are persons without bodies. So they inhibit humans. Jesus was casting our demons where he went. I have always been a social person. For the last 5 odd years I had been struggling with severe depression, isolating myself, functioning where I had to - and then withdrawing from life. I searched and came across a pastor by the name of Derek Prince who talked about how we get negative thoughts - if you start talking to yourself it’s more likely than not you have a demonic spirit - long story short, o got prayer, rebuked the spirit of depression- and the spirit of death (suicide) oh they are real. Finally understood that the war on me is spiritual. As God delivered I no longer have suicidal thoughts or depression. I’m light but I have to fight my own mind constantly relying on Jesus and rebuking negative thoughts in the instance they come up , which these days it’s easy for me to do. Imagine what spirits enter everyone even those who believe in God - their entry points can be anything from an idol, to reading tarot cards - it’s that easy and if you don’t stand in God word - how are u going to fight against something you can’t even identity- the struggle is real, but knowledge is power. I pray that someone hears this and is blessed and freed, because all things are possible through Jesus. Also check out Mark Heman RUclips - I hope this helps someone and that you get relief, and freedom from the bondage of whatever demon you are carrying around. God has a prescription for you. Seek and you shall find.
just another indicator that proves everyone is going through a struggle we know nothing about.
this is the smartest comment here
Stevo Canuck he's tired everyone deserves to be treated equally the same Anthony Bourdain was a martyr
I think most people have suicidal thoughts occasionally. I went to see a psychiatrist once about it and he said there’s a difference between fantasising about suicide because your hurting so much from a break up or whatever it is, and then people who are genuinely suicidal as in they can follow through with it. Personally I just think it’s the ones who can’t take anymore depression and are actually brave enough to leave. I don’t have the courage to hurt myself. Sometimes depression is so bad it just feels better to get the fk out of here. Obviously Anthony had had enough of this life. And that’s okay. It was his suffering, no one else’s. So no one can judge.
i don't know' i still dont't believe it was suicide!
it just didn't seem like he had any real problems,or was unhappy.i mean a hit show awards for that show.but he did also have some honest political opinions about a lot of the places he visited,but i guess looks are misleading!
melvin miller nope it was not suicide I will keep on saying it's not suicide until they look over it again
melvin miller he also said he wanted to tell the world the truth about the hollywood/political industry.
several of his shows were very critical of rich elites and usa policy & propaganda - seemed to me he was playing around with 'the line' & crossed over a few times.. there was reason to 'suicide' the guy..
I feel bad for people who cannot just accept the truth. Anthony suffered from depression all his life. he spoke about it many many times. But there are people in this world who make a conspiracy out of EVERYTHING. Their hatred of Hillary overrides everything in their life. They have surrendered their intellectual sovereignty to Donald Trump and just believe that everything out of his mouth is the truth when in fact the exact opposite is true. He lies about everything. Hillary did not kill Anthony or anyone else and this conspiracy theory has to be just about the most ridiculous and stupid thing I have ever heard and anyone who believes that crap is really not too smart.
No other celebrity deaths have saddened me so much, RIP Anthony Bourdain, thank you for many many hours of learning experiences through your eyes.
Jea H right up there with Tom Petty for sure
Not since Elvis died have I felt such a loss of light in the world. RIP Anthony
The stunning old details ...thanks so much.
4GUESTS 😂👌🏻
He skipped dinner and didn’t show up for breakfast. Not a usual behavior according to his friends. Maybe you should pay attention.
produce86 yes and this was reported on the very first day of his death so it's not new this is old information so why don't you get off your soapbox because someone needs the wood
He skipped not ONE but TWO meals!!! Because he was fucking dead!!! So how many meals has he skipped by now about 50?
Right? Lol
Legend Icon Visionary Genius ~ RIP ANTHONY BOURDAIN U will be missed
suicide is the last act of courage someone can ever make, and an act no one can really understand until you been on that path.
I feel for his young daughter and his mother.
I'm going to miss Anthony Bourdain, I remember watching him when he was on the Travel Channel. He was always so real and honest. He struggled with drugs and alcohol and was imperfect but that is exactly what made him special, because he was utterly human. He showed us food, but he also showed us what its like to be human, and that means being imperfect, yet he always showed he had a great big heart. In many episodes he showed just how much he cared about others. Though I never knew you in real life, I will miss you my friend. The world has lost a special person.
What a shame he was such good man who loved his daughter very much.. coming from experience depression is very painful living day by day.
I've been backpacking around the world since May of 2016. I'm in Indonesia now. Anthony Bourdain and his tv show _Parts Unknown_ is a big reason why. I'm very sad for him and his daughter.
What new details just trying to get you to click is all I was ridiculous I didn't learn anything new
Capt Zoom What great new details, he skipped dinner and breakfast....
Exactly
My thoughts exactly! He skipped two meals! Wow! What a revalation! Click bait.
Capt Zoom amen! I was thinking the same thing!😡
TheTuellfamily does that make sense?
A few years ago I was suicidal and obviously very depressed and broke down and called the suicidal hot line, know what? I was put on hold !!!!!!!!!!!!!! It actually cracked me up and helped me , but it could of gone the other way, too. I hung up and talked to family and eventually was ok...but how many others aren't???? DON'T PUT PEOPLE ON HOLD !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! NOT A GOOD THING !!
Good for you that you have such a good sense of humor! As someone who has been chroinically depressed for years (on meds for it), I know that it's frequently been my sense of humor that has kept me alive.
It's not there to be a friend trust me.. just another head fuck like everything else.
strange details indeed!
Bizarre even
So sad to hear. I noticed he looked sad and drinking looked buzzed. I can understand how sadness effects us.
Same as Kurt Kobain.. took his own life.
@@humbertoflores2545 And Robin Williams.....
They had to edit out the auto erotic asphyxiation part.
I still miss Anthony Bourdain and his stories .
My heart goes out to his family, especially his wife and daughter. Loved his show, but especially liked that he was so honest, even about his personal struggles with alcohol and depression. Rest in Peace Anthony...
This is why ppl who suffer from depression need professional help! This is no joke. Everyone goes thru the occasional blues which is normal. But they snap out of it. Depressed ppl have a lingering gloom which doesn’t go away. That’s the difference. Living a extravagant life isn’t going to change that.
SAMMY’S WORLD cmon you really believe their concocted "official story" ? Get a life pls...
Would for me. Money =happiness and sleepytime and video games all day long. Also I could go on great dates with women, expensive dates and NEVER CALL THEM AGAIN hahahaha
rissa usd hey idiot he said it in a interview himself that he suffered from depression so no I’m not speaking from a imaginary place. So don’t comment on my comment saying shit.
SAMMY’S WORLD crying
SAMMY’S WORLD .. Money can't buy love and happiness
Every time I watch his episodes, it makes want to eat a bowl of noodles with a beer. RIP Anthony.
Most of the time when people are suicidal they act normal and happy. As soon as they made up their mind that they gonna do it , it actually gives them peace and relief. Also, look at his eyes, in almost every picture they look dead..you can see how unhappy he was. Rip Anthony
Leave him alone. You don’t know how far gone you have to be to go through with it. Money and fame mean nothing. He was a person. Like you and me. Life hurts.
well, he is dead and cremated so, we are not bothering him, at all. I expect his daughter is not reading this and that his estranged wife is also, not into public opinions. His money is going to them as they are the next of kin. Case closed.
I’ve been depressed at times and so I believe I can see when people are depressed and people say certain things too! I do have someone to help me. It took me 15 years to find him but I have a professional that I see and I’m not afraid to say it and also he is the best in my opinion. I’ve been through a lot in my life so many others wish it hadn’t taken 15 years to find him.
They're killing these idols they've created for us, left and right... calling it suicide in hopes that people in our celebrity-obsessed culture follow suit.
It's working nicely for them.
Suicide rates have TRIPLED just since 1999, and that's based on 2016 numbers... there will be new reports soon showing even more increases.
Don't fall for it.
It could be that his life was threaten but people can commit suicide because they are going to be killed by someone else if they do not do it, so they will take their lives if someone is threatening them however I have seen the depression so many times in others, so it’s hard to prove why he isn’t here anymore!!!
I think they surprised Bourdain. He doesn't show the signs of a man who has to go kill himself or be killed (like Chris Cornell, for example).
I think that's the difference between the celebs that have agreed to their suicide long in advance, and the ones that have no idea it's coming.
Betsy McGee this isn’t completely true
He was murdered.
The Jetlag alone he endured for CNN would deeply impact anyone's well being.
He was murdered.
Rip Mr bourdain I watched you for almost 13 years and every show I travelled with you blessings to the family and friends......
I am devastated. My father used to watch "No Reservations", "The Layover", and "Parts Unknown", and I'd watch it with him. It was one of the few ways we bonded together. He inspired my dad to travel more, and has inspired me to travel as I get older.
It's funny, because another person that me and my dad mutually enjoyed was George Michael, and he died on Christmas of 2016.
I'm only 19, and all my favorite celebrities are dying. I feel old already.
Madeline Stevenson try being 34. You're a child.
chadgrov Oh, I understand, sir. But circumstances being what they are, with my favorite celebrities passing away, I feel like I'm experiencing something people older than me go through. If that makes any sense.
chadgrov why would you attack her, how is she in control of her age? that is a bizarre response
thank you for sharing Madeline, this has really hit a lot of us very hard.
elchasai It's a really devastating thing to hear, isn't it? Thank you for standing up for me.
What a tragedy. He’s so intelligent, well spoken and a great human being.
ABC News is doing clickbait. Definately removing them from any of my watch list.
Anthony Bourdain was awesome to watch. His words speak of a depression and sadness that I know all too well. Pray he is with The Lord and happy again. Miss him.
I’m still in complete shock and pain. I followed Tony for 18 years and was looking forward to many more. So, so, so sad.
what i find stunning is that there's nothing stunning in this report
cheap clickbait to the power of 1000
I remember another episode where Anthony authentically revealed his anger and showed what a difficult person he was to work with and please. Anger is a veil of depression. Depression is primarily chemical. Low Magnesium, Vitamin D, B vitamins... All of which are depleted by alchohol consumption. Alcoholism is a self medication for depression.
Many depressions stem from not feeling cared for (not worthy) or safe at an early age. PTSD therapy is a potential solution. Currently, I find EMDR an effective therapy with medically assisted withdrawal Rx.
Depression is anger turned inwards.
You're on the wrong channel. Do you think we're kindergarten kids here for the ride? Get fucking real. Jeez!
There were a lot more red flags than shown here. He made the following statement several times on camera:
“By the end of the day I often feel like hanging myself in the shower and today is no exception.”
NEW: I will never eat like this again in my life
He was seeing a therapist and said he’s depressed most of the time
These are signs of severe depression.
Rest in peace my friend. You will forever be a legend. I wish you hadnt felt like there was no point in living because you were so worth fighting for. You were an amazing person.
no RIP in hell. Read the bible, its not a fairy tale as many foolish atheists claim!
Eric
You are so dumb. Just STFU.
He was murdered.
Danny451 Fuentes such ignorant and cherry picked ideals you have about God who you've never personally experienced. Except for the part where you were created and felt love that you will never feel again after your cynical life is over and you're separated from the love of God for an eternity. Those silly fairy tales as you so pointed out were in fact done to prove the foolishness of man. You proved that point quite well like the talking ass did. You know, when you try to pull your goofy points from some atheism video you watched or if God forbid you are some former preacher who said screw God and I've met a few of those there is one thing that never has happened in your pathetic, joke of a fake existence. You've never actually experienced God, an actual relationship with your creator. Because here is the thing. No matter how much you think you're educated or beyond such things, when you have you know it. When God shows up in your life time after time after time and does the impossible that only HE could, you know it is nothing to scoff at. It isn't happenstance or chance or a joke or bullcrap. I've cursed God and turned my back on HIM and when I came back He was there. As a matter of fact the only way to know there is "no God" is to in fact be God. There is no other way to know beyond a shadow of a doubt (well there is a belief system that admits the word God doesn't exist but that is the goofiest thing ever and they're saying no argument can exist) but you do know because you argue so vehemently against Him. You may as well argue the Easter bunny is fake because in essence your argument is almost as silly to constantly fight against. But in the end, like I said, you really do not know and that hits you in your gut and your heart some where to be so sure of something you're so unsure of. To have no point to exist and have this incredibly intricate universe that just exploded and decided to "be" is the most idiodic idea and thought man ever possessed. The narcissism to believe that nothing cared about you so much yet you should fall in line and be this decent human being for nothing... What a waste of a good time. If that was the case I'd just run a drug empire, do whatever I pleased, screw whoever I wanted, kill at will. Why honestly care about my actions? Oh wait, I've done some of those things. But why stop? Because I wanted to be a decent human being to other blobs of random cellular entities? Screw that, there is no point. Anyway I'm done. I see you "good people" laugh at something you have no real concept of when I wouldn't even waste my time If I still believed like you all. I'd just be a nihilist... What a sad sad way to "live" if I were in your shoes. So stop pretending to be condescending to the Jesus freaks. It makes you a sad and pathetic individual, a joke. God have mercy on your pathetic and my pathetic soul.
Danny451 Fuentes God does those things because He is God and He is the Creator. It's His will, not Danny's will, not Aaron's. I can question it all I please but that will never get me all the answers. God is the only real love I've ever experienced that never let me down. Every single other person on this earth has, but not God, ever. I know why he had imperfect people write the Word, because that is who I identify with, screw ups. I'm one and I need a savior. I was raised in an exceptional household and told God to go hang. Funny thing was he already had. Now it's nothing but simple exchange. "Thank you" and "help my pathetic human life". That's generally enough when tree going gets rough or tuff or great and stuff. Anyway my point is that God still loves you and me even when we think He isn't real or its all a sick joke and we're the stupid punchline. Or maybe your life's perfect and it's just waiting for a moment to fall out from under you and knock your dick in the metaphorical dirt. Either way there is someone there when no body else is. I'm living proof of that and I say all this because I give a crap and I'm not prefect and want ever pretend to be something I am not and can never be. Take care, all of you... I miss Bourdain already and if I don't see any of you in the end that I flamed and blasted to hell and back then I'll see you on that "otherside" the bad one ;)
my heart is so much broken over his demise. He's the big bro I wish I had.
Tony had a flair for words, a self made man that was eloquent beyond his years, he spoke from the heart and told his stories and a description of his journeys in those far flung places. His food descriptions utilized few words but with an understandable content that would fill a book. Like a poet in full bloom he made life an interesting journey and the explorations of cultures along with their various foods opened the eyes of many. In the end chose HIS final destination at HIS time and place. In short, like Sinatra's song he did it his way. As a conservative we didn't have or share the same political ideas, but nonetheless I had a deep respect for him and his approach to life after so much struggle and pain, and how to find its real meaning. RIP Now Tony!
"Man does not live by bread alone..."
ordinary chap I thought of that too
Even his own mother didn't have a clue, she just said today that she couldn't understand why he woukd take his life, he had it all, money, fame, a loving beautiful girlfriend, he was so "happy".......
Elydia Alvarez his girlfriend was seen hanging around another guy so take out that part and she is now saying that they were in a no borders relationship and since there is no indicator that he had a side girl as well we can assume that she was just cheating
I feel many of my generation are in despair over getting old: health issues, just the loss of youth. We felt we were avoiding old age with phrases like "40 is the new 20" with many of us looking younger than our years. But the big 50 hits you with health issues and sagging skin. You start thinking your life is "same BS, different day". Soon you start thinking as you get older your health is definitely not going to improve. Everything becomes depressing, especially when people around your age die of "natural causes". My own chronic pain issues with advanced arthritis in nearly all my joints, including my spine and my once sharp mind turning to mush is very depressing.
I was so sad when I heard this. I loved him because he was so honest about himself.
FLAG THIS VIDEO FOR FALSE TITLE !!!!
Depression is real. I act happy all the time in front of loved ones, but when I'm alone in my room my heart is in sorrow.
Betty Santoro thank you
Abudi yusuf-Cry out to your creator. And start reading the book of Romans. Paul's letter to us. The believers. Ask Him to help you understand. You will read about God's plan for you.... God loves you and sent His son to die for you, so that you can have life eternal with him! There is One that loves you like no other. It is sad that Anthony didn't have that hope.
Please get some help from a therapist and/or psychiatrist. There are even online therapists now, so if there aren't any where you live or it's too expensive there that is an option. I understand not wanting to tell anyone, it is quite possible people won't understand, but there are a lot of us out here who do understand. I had to try for 3 years to get out from under suicidal thoughts, so getting better is possible, and you can do it too.
Mark Benton thank you.
abdi yusuf RUclips have excellent selfhelp vid. Excercising is a must as meditation, yoga and God.
Avoid toxic ppl as well! 💕👍
He was such an inspiration to travel and get out into the world. I used to watch his show religiously and could have never thought he would have done something like this but in weird way he humanizes people who you think have it all. We all struggle even people who you think can run from their problems.
I'll miss him for the rest of my life. His life was the most idyllic life I could have ever dreamed to have.
You guys spelled his name wrong in the title
They did and in this case they have no excuse
alcohol is a depressant of the central nervous system and should never be taken by those who are prone to depression
K Vjqxzz bs with the alcohol...I highly don’t believe it was alcohol...something fucked him over and I think that lil druggy bitch girlfriend knows some shit
Depression and depressants have literally nothing to do with one another. Depressant means something that slows your breathing. Depression is a mental illness.
K Vjqxzz is
Matt F Regardless, booze can make people moody and bring out stuff that they normally bury in order to get through their day.
Thank you for saying that SO true! The person that I knew who killed themselves, did so after drinking. All it did was make him more depressed....
Such a beautiful man so sad...
Suicide no, murdered yes. He spoke out and made enemies who decided to snuff him out. Same with Chris Cornell, Robin Williams, Prince, Joan Rivers, Marilyn Monroe, etc
*Anthony's legend will live on for many years*
Simple as this I did not know him But I loved him. My daughter and I watched all his shows It was like he was part of my home. I wanted so badly to invite this dude for dinner Ask him tons of questions About his life, food, let him try my sunday tomato sauce FUCK!!!!!! I am going to miss him. Like so many others :(
Tony Soprano you mean Sunday gravy
NOONE IS PERFect
No one is perfect
You watch too much TV then. That's really pathetic.
Chances are, he hated you.
Are you white? Could you be overweight? Have you ever left a review on Yelp? GOD FORBID you abstain from eating the dead carcasses of animals that have lived their lives IN HELL and died miserable, violent, painful deaths.
You have to have been a very specific set of characteristics to have been OK with Bourdain... and he didn't mind saying so...
The man was an arrogant creep. He didn't deserve to be sacrificed, but the world has not lost much of anything... and think of all the time you'll have to spend with your family instead of looking at this pompous ass through your TV screen!
Though you'll probably just find another... because his controllers WILL have another for you...
Tony Soprano me too.
Anthony passed 6 months ago, but I am crying now. Anthony brought joy to my life. I miss him.
SHUT UP
People just do not understand what these struggles are like everyday, day after day. You push the thoughts back in your head, but they are always there.
Stil hurting over this.
We all miss you, Chef.
Love you, always.
Deidre Muhammad worst haiku ever.
If you think life can't get any better and you've experienced all you wanted to, you could be wrong. And if turns you're right and life won't get better, that doesn't mean it won't be still good. Just saying...
Why does nobody care that he was killed for telling the truth
i still refuse to accept that he is gone ...
I miss his shows
It doesn't matter what we say or do another person has taken their life. Money fame good food can't bring you happiness we think it does and we try to think why someone would take there own life when they have it all but we don't see what goes on behind close doors. People hurt in different ways everyday we have to open our eyes and if you think that any person is hurt and think they will hurt them self help them try to help even if they push you away help them. By them pushing you away if just another way of saying help me more you might not understand but you will figure it out. Suicide is real and people have to be more aware of it learning about it.
Everybody that wanna die soon. Please do it this friday at 8 pm yall. All at once this way it van never be a conspiracy . Or can it?
Don't say that. I told people and no one cared which pushes one even more to the edge.
Tom Deheide what the hell is wrong with you
This guy was my hero . Open not blind to the world. But this man was going to announce big. And for people instantly claiming he just desperate. Makes me wanna react in a bit of a black matter . You may be right about that. But with a touch of tony .
sadly suicide leads to hell. repent to Jesus and call for help
I know depression. A lot of people think depression comes from without. They think it comes from bad times and bad feelings. They think a particular bad event can start one's spiral down into that dark place. That's why they are always so shocked when someone like Anthony Bordain does this. They are are right yet so wrong. Imagine a beautiful sunny day in a familiar place with familiar people you love. Even that can be a trigger. If you've ever been depressed, you understand that statement. Depression can come from insecurities. It can come finding new love and the fear that it will be lost. It can come from a loss of a loved one. It can even come from being happy and feeling you don't deserve it. It is an unreasonable feeling of hopelessness. When I get depressed, I think of the people I love. The people that depend on me. The pain it would cause them if I'm gone. Thinking in this way takes me out of the selfish and into the selfless. I think about specific events with specific people and what they would want of me even if they're gone. And then I can breath again. The best thing you can do for someone suffering from depression is to let them know that you care. Let them know that you need them. Let them know that you love them. Talk about those special moments you've experienced. That funny line that made you laugh uncontrollably from that obscure move they made you sit through. That unexpected and most beautiful sunset you ever saw while walking together that was peaking through the concrete and glass towers of NYC. That special breakfast consisting of toast, a cup of coffee, and love before that big interview. Good memories. You must also never forget to make new memories. It is most important to give someone who suffers from depression your time. No I don't mean time spent texting or even on the phone all though that's important too. I mean go and see them as often as you can.
" It is an unreasonable feeling of hopelessness " + alcohol = unreasonable death.
Depression doesn't need alcohol to start it down the road. Alcohol can definitely be a problem because it is a downer. Depression can be caused by brain chemicals. Depression can run in families, also. IT IS A DEADLY ILLNESS.
Ian, for a lot it DOES come from bad times, bad luck, tragedies, losing a house or a job etc. Not everyone just has biological depression. The louses in life can trigger depression in normal people too
Cre8tiv, you make it sound like I suggested depression doesn't come from bad times. Read my message again.
Ian Campbell thank you for your explanation. Many celebrities walk around with happy face yet sad and depressed on the inside and when the unexpected happens, someone is blamed like in Anthony’s case,it’s the Clintons. People are going through a lot with everything happening around the world and instead of opening up and learning more,we tend to point fingers which is sad. Thanks once again for the insight.
He took his own life? I Don't think so. Remember Cambodia and what Anthony said about Henry kissingers involvement?
He was such a joy for so many people. But to know he was suffering. Miss him so much
Just lost 3 min of my life... thank you for the “ stunning” details 😩
Using the word stunning was a bit much.
Stoner Page stunning stunning stunning stunning amazing that things are different the matter where you are it could be anybody talking about it we don't know sometimes our families don't even know I sauce in our families now. Stunning
nicholas8nj, What language is that?
elchasai you must be one of those Trump supporters which are not like the most smartest Big Mouth anyway try to educate yourself and go around the world and see all the people who have different languages and try to understand what they are saying good luck and have a wonderful day I remember this in about you or if not about me it's about the man that's what the problem is but Trump supporters has issues about everybody else but not the subject itself get a life enjoy.
Stoner Page it was a stunning day does that sound remarkable also
your english makes no sense nicholas. I am not a Trump supporter at all. You are very unclear in what you are saying.
I miss this damn young. He meant so much to me as I was a young restaurant worker (10 year old at my uncles 15 years ago) love Mr. Bourdain, idk if I'm sad or mad still till this day but I understand each and everyday more.
SAD TOO HEAR .LOVE WATCHING HIM AT TIMES ON TV ALL THE PLACES HE TRAVEL TOO
RIP Legend
sadly in hell no rip
Eric Stop stating that suicide is a sin. When people are known that suicide is a sin, they often refuse to talk about suicidal tendencies.
Ivan 199800 How you laughin when you're the joke?
SERIOUSLY A HANDSOME POETIC LEGEND FOR SURE. LOVE YOU ANTHONY !
Ivan 199800 Laugh at your own self, coward.
Suddenly not eating is indeed a sign. Call, knock on the door, keep reasonable sense afloat. I barely escaped that sign if not for constant reminder that i still matter, that I'm still needed, that I'm still loved. Keep being there, never leave that person unattached, unsocialized for more than a day. That's how much dedication and caring should be put on someone who suffers depression. And it's a lifetime sickness that needs a lifetime cure. Not that hard to prevent and cure, but very difficult to find the right person, the right situation, the right life, the right love, as a cure. The key is consistency and amount of interaction to the cure, to the loveone that shows how the depress, the suicidal still matters. It seems impossible, but that's the cure, the only certain cure to a debilitating sickness of overwhelming sadness and loneliness.
Incredible details we have here on the final moments.
"Dead guy skipped meals"
Fascinating.
Anthony was like Sunday dinner and happy times. Everyone loved him and we will always miss him.
The importance of taking depression so seriously and not stigmatizing it. Kate Spade too. Thousands go through and are afraid of going to doctors because of what people will say or think yet most of them are very accomplished.
“Kate suffered from depression and anxiety for many years,” he (her husband) said in a statement to PEOPLE. “She was actively seeking help and working closely with her doctors to treat her disease."
Nina Vaughn-didanielli I don't believe Kate Spade killed herself her husband was acting kind of weird to me
If anyone seeks mental health help they can never get life insurance even if there was never a suicide attempt. I know because of a family member. Also w New laws that person can never own a gun. I'm talking normal depression like when someone dies u grieve. They don't put patients in dif categories sadly the insurance companies treat everyone the same whether it's severe mental problems or just normal depression. & BTW psychiatry isn't proven also some drugs make people suicidal as a side effect!
I suffer from depression and suicidal thoughts sometimes. I have health insurance. My husband pays for it and I have my own. We work really hard on those days in which I feel really depressed, but so far we have a beautiful son and I have kept on studying and living in several countries...learning 4 languages BUT you need to be open about it with your friends. family and have their support.
Very sad 💔
I think what leads to depression and suicide is too much information, good processing which in turns too much wisdom. I wish we all stay young and innocent.
I've been clickbaited by ABC, I don't fking be(lie)ve it.
Depression is no joke. I'm so sad. The woman who said Anthony was such a light to the world, was so right. I've always loved him and sensed his goodness.
A whole lot of people don't understand that depression isn't mere sadness. It's a brain problem and it sucks.
Sticking around can be a serious challenge at times, and people who over-simplify and say, suicide is a selfish act, don't know what they're talking about as all kinds of things can and do go terribly wrong with the brain. And sometimes, a brain reacts very badly to a new medication, or a medication that use to work, doesn't any more. All kinds of reasons.
Depression often drives people to addiction, another complex issue that often goes hand in hand with depression, which Anthony also experienced. Anyrhing, just to feel ok, if only for a while. But self medicating is so not the answer. It only makes things a thousand times worse.
Science is making great strides with brain trouble, but for many, they haven't seen the benefits or gotten the help they so desperately need.
For all us who've lost loved ones to suicide (ufortunately, there are too many of us), and/or with family histories of depression, those of us who suffer, sometimes only occssionally, and other times, all too often, we know the stigma and the ignorance that is still too widespread among people who just don't get it, I say, hang in there, push yourself to exercise, eat right, take cool showers, practice slow deep breathing and meditation, and share what you are feeling.
RIP Anthony B. 💔
Fame is not all it's cracked up to be. I saw a documentary on Davy Jones at the height of his fame. He was staying at a hotel in a city he was unfamiliar with. Just him, no family, no friends, he went down to the duck pond and fed the ducks. You could just tell he was lonely and depressed. Susan Boyle also found out the depressing aspect of being on the road, Donny Osmond could relate to Susan's feeling so cold about a unfamiliar hotel room in an unfamiliar city. Elton John would also go into a pretty deep depression after feeling good after having pleased an audience because all of a sudden they were just gone and he was all by himself.
I think it was Led Zeppelin where the drummer quite at the height of their fame because he missed his wife and kids and didn't want to have to go out on the road anymore. The fear of losing one's popularity, being away from family and friends and familiar places, can lead to too much of an emotional roller coaster ride and make it very hard to stay on an even emotional level.
Stanley Lucas
he's one of my favorite chef,traveller,& a blogger
What exactly are the stunning new details? This nonsense. If you don't have a story; you don't have a story. Don't make it up and pretend you have new information.
Rest in peace big man, you achieved so much in your life.
Uhh.. he skipped the meals because he was dead.
I’ve been watching his show and in all episodes he seems Alone and depressed. Mental illness can be noticed if you pay attention. Love the guy.
People dont notice that details
It just goes to show,a successful career, money in your bank account and what we on the outside envy his lifestyle doesn't show what unhappiness and darkness that's he was hiding all the time,
I for one was shocked and very sad,RIP my friend, you brought a lot of humility and warmth to a lot of people.
I’m poor and depressed, I hope there’s a way out.
iPhone 7 not alone.
I'm right there with you
The only way out is hard work and determination stop being a baby and get off your ass and do something about it
fuck off brian poland
brian poland thanks for the input. I’m working very hard, and staying busy as much as I can. Depression has always been a part of me so it’s really not easy to shake off completely.
I didn’t hear or see any stunning revelation
It breaks my heart how society is not reporting what needs to be reported and spoken upon and that the side effects of legal prescription drugs with side effects of suicidal thoughts? I don't get it and this is why I no longer am on any prescription drugs and they gave me the thoughts also but I prayed and God answered! I have been prescription medication & drug free since 2010 and so glad to be alive! You do not know what people are going through until you have walked in their shoes! - Valerie Cheers Brown
Did I miss the stunning new details? They regurgitated old news and through in some overshared, nonconsequential tidbits from interviews. Misnomer.