Must Female Converts Immediately Divorce Their Non-Muslim Husbands? With Sheikha Fatima Barkatulla

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  • Опубликовано: 5 фев 2025

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  • @BloggingTheology
    @BloggingTheology  6 месяцев назад +77

    Fatima Barkatulla is an award-winning British Islamic scholar, broadcaster, and author. With a rich Islamic education she studied Arabic in Egypt and graduated from both the Ebrahim College seminary and AlSalam Institute with Shahadah Alimiyyah. She has authored the groundbreaking book 'Khadijah, Islam’s First Lady.' Currently pursuing postgraduate studies in English Law at King’s College London after completing her Master's degree in Islamic Law at SOAS, University of London, she is renowned for her contributions to Islamic discourse in the West.

    • @عبدالله-ع4ض6خ
      @عبدالله-ع4ض6خ 6 месяцев назад +2

      ما شاء الله لا قوة إلا بالله العلي العظيم

    • @remove122
      @remove122 6 месяцев назад +3

      @@BloggingTheology guess she didn’t learn much if she s promoting a cult

    • @fardowsa6658
      @fardowsa6658 6 месяцев назад +5

      @@remove122lol another hater with nothing better to do with their time but hate. Nice.

    • @thamergazzaz3309
      @thamergazzaz3309 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@BloggingTheology Paul- I respect you, all of your audience, and guests. Miss Fatima must be a great person. She is (still) studying and understanding the #realislam
      Don’t mean to undermine her or anybody. However, I honestly was just disappointed. My apologies and respect

    • @dorothygleeson1090
      @dorothygleeson1090 6 месяцев назад

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Safia91
    @Safia91 6 месяцев назад +218

    I thank Allah that he guided me to Islam before marriage. I can't imagine the hardship those sisters are going through. May Allah make it easy for all of us

    • @muslimresponse103
      @muslimresponse103 6 месяцев назад +9

      🤲🏻 ameen.

    • @salaamalaikumX
      @salaamalaikumX 6 месяцев назад +7

      Amen. May Allah bless them greatly

    • @ahmedsalah3462
      @ahmedsalah3462 6 месяцев назад +3

      Ameen

    • @dorothygleeson1090
      @dorothygleeson1090 6 месяцев назад +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @QamruddinKhan-hf4dn
      @QamruddinKhan-hf4dn 6 месяцев назад

      Also mentions hardship of purposal from perverts in Instagram fb 😂😂 many sisters are writing in their account that please leave us alone, no dms from brothers i am married 😂😂😂

  • @coha348
    @coha348 6 месяцев назад +241

    I converted to Islam 8years before my wife followed me. We have two kids. The family stayed together and now we are a happy practicing Muslim family Alhamdulillah. Allah is with the patient. I cant imagine what I would have lost if I had given up before.

    • @rj_olive7
      @rj_olive7 6 месяцев назад +3

      Dear, please consider the following if you believe God of Abraham. Read it full if you love God of Abraham.
      Jesus is God because of the follwing reasons.
      Is God so foolish to not know before asking Jesus that whether Jesus asked people to worship Him and His Mother, Mary.
      Doesn't God know that making Jesus the Messiah would cause people to worship Him as God.
      Doesn't God know that by making someone resemble Jesus to be crucified would further worsen people worshipping Jesus as God. So God is forcing people to worship Jesus as God.
      Why would non Arabic speakers use the word in their local language to refer to God?
      Is it impossible for God to take human form?
      Has anyone seen Archangel Gabriel visit the self proclaimed Arab prophet? Has anyone seen the self proclaimed prophet perform miracles? Did the Torah, Psalms or Gospels prophesy such an Arab prophet from Arabia? What was the religion of the self proclaimed prophet religion at the time of his birth? If God wanted to send a prophet, He would have chosen from the People of the Book and not a person born in a family practicing polytheism. Also as per the scripture believed to be recieved by the self proclaimed prophet, God doesn't know that Christians don't worship Mary, Mother of Jesus as God and mistakes Jesus mother as Moses sister.

    • @akhan8456
      @akhan8456 6 месяцев назад +16

      @@rj_olive7 The One and Only One True God, The God of Abraham, Jacob, David, Solomon, Moses and Jesus and Finally Muhammad, is The Witness and Authority Who sent all these prophets with scriptures and completed the religion of Allah, Islam or submission to The Only True God with Muhammad and the Final revelation Qur'an, which is preserved till the day of judgement. Go and take the challenge of Quran and destroy Islam If you can! Can you? If yes don't waste your time present something like One Chapter like the Quran. Easy and simple.

    • @MuslimIndia-g7h
      @MuslimIndia-g7h 6 месяцев назад +11

      Masha Allah,May Allah bless you and your family ❤

    • @nutzhazel
      @nutzhazel 6 месяцев назад +15

      ​@@rj_olive7Abraham broke idols and destroyed polytheism, he definitely not an idol worshipper or a polytheist.

    • @a.e.2990
      @a.e.2990 6 месяцев назад +2

      Kissing and praying to black stones is ok though.

  • @CineRanter
    @CineRanter 6 месяцев назад +43

    This exact question has been on my mind for quite some time

  • @TheRockeyAllen
    @TheRockeyAllen 6 месяцев назад +52

    Even if one is NOT strong enough upon accepting Islam to give up a relationship they value, they should still continue their journey in Islam, as it is better to be a sinful believer, than it is to be a disbeliever.
    The religion of one's spouse should not deter anyone from accepting the truth. The truth is the truth, irrespective of how one feels about it. And Islam is the truth.

    • @Cyntdarling
      @Cyntdarling 6 месяцев назад

      Complete utter Nonsense lol damn cult

    • @kb4432
      @kb4432 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@TheRockeyAllen I understand where your coming from but we have to look at the wisdom behind this. As stated in hadith, women were created from the rib of Adam. The rib is a weak bone, so our Beloved prophet (SAW) said "treat the women kindly". Allah created us and he doesn't try us more than we can bear. If a new muslimah finds herself in this situation then if the non muslim husband is loving but shows resistance to her Islam, then something has to give. The heartache would be too much, and in reality there's a good chance she will go on and reject Islam because of the difficulties. It's for the same reason why muslim women are only allowed to marry muslim men when considering marrying.

    • @TheRockeyAllen
      @TheRockeyAllen 5 месяцев назад +1

      @@kb4432 I don't disagree, but it's better to privately become Muslim than to outright deny the truth even after knowing it's the truth. It's easier said than done, but it's the reality some of us have to face

    • @kb4432
      @kb4432 5 месяцев назад

      @@TheRockeyAllen I know of a lady in a similar position. She first came on muslim lantern's channel as someone asking questions just out of curiosity. Her background was Christianity and she was a very well respected and happy person in her church and local community. Islam was then explained to her by brother Ali. The next time she called, she stated that she was absolutely convinced about Islam and she believed it from the bottom of her heart but she said her husband always hated muslims and Islam in the extreme. She'd been married for over 30 years with grown up children. In the end, she didn't do shahada and I felt the anguish in her voice. It was really hurting her. Can't imagine living like that. She hadn't told her husband BTW but she really wanted him to join her but knew he wouldnt because of his extreme views. I'll never forget it.
      Thanks anyway for your interesting perspective. May Allah bless you and make your path easy

    • @TheRockeyAllen
      @TheRockeyAllen 5 месяцев назад +2

      @@kb4432 May Allah guide the sister, her husband and all of whom they love, towards the truth of Islam
      And may Allah bless you and us all with the best of this life and the absolute best of the life after

  • @Khanraine
    @Khanraine 6 месяцев назад +59

    Salam brothers and sisters from Bangladesh ❤.
    It's 5.00 am here.😊

    • @ShehuStebe
      @ShehuStebe 6 месяцев назад +3

      Wa aleikum al salam.

    • @mib5116
      @mib5116 6 месяцев назад +3

      Wa laykum as salam

    • @jwoodard621
      @jwoodard621 12 дней назад +1

      Salaam from uk nearly 4pm😊

  • @sarbast99
    @sarbast99 6 месяцев назад +15

    A very vital issue. A highly intelligent Lady Scholar. A wonderful interviewer. Thank you & be blessed Insha-Allah.

  • @halqigularip
    @halqigularip 6 месяцев назад +17

    Many Selam from Uyghur Muslims

    • @randomness8819
      @randomness8819 6 месяцев назад

      a heart felt salam to you my loves!

  • @ashfaquei.k.426
    @ashfaquei.k.426 6 месяцев назад +10

    Ya Muqallib al-quloob thabbit qalbi 'ala deenik
    يَا مُقَلِّبَ الْقُلُوبِ ثَبِّتْ قَلْبِى عَلَى دِينِكَ
    “O Controller of hearts, make my heart firm in Your religion.”

    • @ashfaquei.k.426
      @ashfaquei.k.426 6 месяцев назад

      It was reported that Rasulullah salla Allahu ‘alayhi wa sallam used to say {Subhaanal-Malikil-Quddus} 3 times.
      while elongating the words in the third time?
      Subhaanal-Malikil-Quddus,
      Subhaanal-Malikil-Quddus,
      Subhaanal-Malikil-Qudduuuuuuuus
      (or Subhaaaaanal-Malikil-Quddus).
      Sunan an-Nasa’i 1729

  • @abed7922
    @abed7922 6 месяцев назад +5

    I’m born and raised Muslim(Alhamdulilah) from Eastern Africa. I lived most of my life in North American country. I must tell you that I admire our newly reverts courage and I truly learn from them and I sometimes find some missing pieces to complete my little knowledge about Islam.
    Iman Shafi’i once said there are three ways of learning. Through school, traveling(forgot the 3rd).
    We are ONE ummah with ONE vision but we do all have are own culture which we all value. And I believe there should a well informed scholar on cultural sensitivities that addresses issues in line with the community he or she is with.
    Allah doesn’t burden his creation with what they can’t bear.
    And I hope some imams don’t traumatize with a misplaced suggestion to our new Muslims without consulting other scholars.
    Wabillahi tawfiq.

  • @szlyar
    @szlyar 6 месяцев назад +6

    This is such an understated discussion, and the approach is eye opening.
    Very, very important to give room to grow for new Muslim brothers and sisters.

    • @FatimaBarkatulla
      @FatimaBarkatulla 6 месяцев назад

      Indeed and to help bring entire families to Islam.

  • @حسينلعرباوي
    @حسينلعرباوي 6 месяцев назад +9

    This is a very sensitive topic and it's rarely discussed, thank you brother and sister,jazakomallah.

  • @bernadettetormey4452
    @bernadettetormey4452 6 месяцев назад +18

    Salaams, brother Paul, and thank you. I am very much looking forward to hearing this. The timing is quite wonderful ❤

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 6 месяцев назад

      *They must divorce their kuffar husbands end of story! Their marriage automatically breaks as soon as 1 of them accepts Islam!*
      *But AhlulKitab (jew/christian) wives are halal & valid only for Muslim men! Meaning if a Muslim has a jewish or christian wife, their marriage is valid unless & until she becomes a Non Kitabi disbeliever such as an atheist, hindu, buddhist, agnostic etc.*

    • @nizamknight
      @nizamknight 6 месяцев назад +4

      @@muhammadsalafiahlulhadith calm yourself

  • @ZZ-ls5hv
    @ZZ-ls5hv 6 месяцев назад +30

    Salam from Kuala Lumpur to both of you... Indeed an important topic especially for lawyers dealing with Muslim family matters...

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 6 месяцев назад

      *Yes they must divorce their kuffar husbands end of story! Their marriage automatically breaks as soon as 1 of them accepts Islam!*
      *Yes AhlulKitab (jew/christian) wives are halal & valid only for Muslim men! Meaning if a Muslim has a jewish or christian wife, their marriage is valid unless & until she becomes a Non Kitabi disbeliever such as an atheist, hindu, buddhist, agnostic etc.*

  • @fmvrpv3509
    @fmvrpv3509 Месяц назад +1

    Love this research ❤ A New ilm

  • @Okenyyahya
    @Okenyyahya 6 месяцев назад +3

    This is a wonderful discussion and the level of explanation is so superb with someone who has proven her self an authority in the field mashallah

  • @naafas1
    @naafas1 6 месяцев назад +21

    Al.hamdu lillah, and then kudos to you Paul. It's nice seeing a Muslim sister who is learned. And from listening to her, it appears that she is upon the manhaj of the Salafus saalih. Paul, may Allah bless and guide you bro...👍🏽

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 6 месяцев назад +4

      *They must divorce their kuffar husbands end of story! Their marriage automatically breaks as soon as 1 of them accepts Islam!*
      *But AhlulKitab (jew/christian) wives are halal & valid only for Muslim men! Meaning if a Muslim has a jewish or christian wife, their marriage is valid unless & until she becomes a Non Kitabi disbeliever such as an atheist, hindu, buddhist, agnostic etc.*

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 6 месяцев назад

      *_NO WE DON'T NEED SUCH WESTERNIZED & WEST INFATUATED JAAHIL MUSLIMAHS LIKE YASMIN MOGAHED, DALIA MOGAHED, NIGHAT HASHMI, FARHAT HASHMI ETC. because lecturing & freemixing & WORKING WITH NONMAHRAMS ARE ALL HARAM IN THE ISLAMIC SHARIAH! There is no concept of female public dawah in Islam! Allah never sent a SINGLE female "prophetess"!! EVERY PROPHET AND MESSENGER was strictly a man because public dawah to mixed audience is only HALAL for MEN AND HARAM FOR WOMEN! PROPHETﷺ'S WIVES NEVER DELIVERED ANY FRIDAY KHUTBAHS FROM PULPITS OR ANY GENERAL DAWAH LECTURE FROM TOP OF MOUNTAINS LIKE PROPHET MUHAMMAD SALLALLAHUALAIHIWASALLAM!_*

    • @abuhijjra
      @abuhijjra 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@naafas1 if she was in the manhaj of the Salaf she would have spoken more about proofs and evidence, more about the saying of scholars of the past and why they held their positions on the subject. She also would have named the contemporary scholars, but she did not, as if she was trying to hide their identity. She did not go to one Islamic school which is known for the people of Ahlu Sunnah, and the manhaj of the Salaf. She’s clearly a shaikha by way of what the people say, not the Ulema.

    • @naafas1
      @naafas1 6 месяцев назад

      @abuhijjra if you knew the manhaj of the salaf, you would've heard it in her speech.

    • @abuhijjra
      @abuhijjra 6 месяцев назад

      @@naafas1 I for sure know it because I live by it to the best of my ability. I live with the people of Ahlu Sunnah wal Jummah, that are true scholars of the manhaj. This woman has not studied with them, so she does not have their manners or knowledge. Scholars from the Salafi manhaj would not be on a video show or wear a niqab half covering her face. I know of real Shaikha from Ahlu Sunnah and she is not like them. Who do you compare her to, and what’s your knowledge of who is upon the manhaj of the Salaf?

  • @kennethmoore-cq7bj
    @kennethmoore-cq7bj 6 месяцев назад +16

    Important conversation,very impressive woman.

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 6 месяцев назад

      *They must divorce their kuffar husbands end of story! Their marriage automatically breaks as soon as 1 of them accepts Islam!*
      *But AhlulKitab (jew/christian) wives are halal & valid only for Muslim men! Meaning if a Muslim has a jewish or christian wife, their marriage is valid unless & until she becomes a Non Kitabi disbeliever such as an atheist, hindu, buddhist, agnostic etc.*

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 6 месяцев назад

      *_NO WE DON'T NEED SUCH WESTERNIZED & WEST INFATUATED JAAHIL MUSLIMAHS LIKE YASMIN MOGAHED, DALIA MOGAHED, NIGHAT HASHMI, FARHAT HASHMI ETC. because lecturing & freemixing & WORKING WITH NONMAHRAMS ARE ALL HARAM IN THE ISLAMIC SHARIAH! There is no concept of female public dawah in Islam! Allah never sent a SINGLE female "prophetess"!! EVERY PROPHET AND MESSENGER was strictly a man because public dawah to mixed audience is only HALAL for MEN AND HARAM FOR WOMEN! PROPHETﷺ'S WIVES NEVER DELIVERED ANY FRIDAY KHUTBAHS FROM PULPITS OR ANY GENERAL DAWAH LECTURE FROM TOP OF MOUNTAINS LIKE PROPHET MUHAMMAD SALLALLAHUALAIHIWASALLAM!_*

    • @KnightofPower
      @KnightofPower 2 месяца назад

      @@muhammadsalafiahlulhadithMan, you’re coming off so ignorant.
      The only question is if you’re genuinely a Salafi or pretending to be one and acting obnoxiously to make Salafis look bad. Because commenting this way on a nuanced discussion of fiqh is actually pretty against the way of the Salaf, when they had productive differences of opinion on matters of fiqh.

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 2 месяца назад

      @KnightofPower U jaahil explain what i said is wrong?

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 2 месяца назад

      @KnightofPower There is no question that a Muslim woman cannot live with her mushrik/disbeliever husband! She must leave him cuz their marriage automatically becomes void as soon as she accepts Islam!

  • @UmmSulaiman1
    @UmmSulaiman1 6 месяцев назад +4

    Very interesting topic with great Speakers as usual!
    Love this channel ❤

  • @ihafidh
    @ihafidh 6 месяцев назад +1

    Great research that is very relevant! Jazaki Allah khair sheikha Fatima. This is a great resource for Imams, researchers and students of knowledge.

    • @FatimaBarkatulla
      @FatimaBarkatulla 6 месяцев назад

      Jazakallahu khairan for the feedback and encouragement.

  • @nadzk2378
    @nadzk2378 6 месяцев назад +5

    Very interesting topic and very important too Jazakallah

  • @82medical
    @82medical 6 месяцев назад +18

    33:05 the answer.

  • @abdurrazzak2970
    @abdurrazzak2970 6 месяцев назад +5

    May Allah Bless and Reward Both of Both of you in this Life and in the Hereafter.

  • @jwoodard621
    @jwoodard621 12 дней назад

    SubhanAllah i needed to see and here this ❤JZK😊

  • @muslimresponse103
    @muslimresponse103 6 месяцев назад +39

    very important topic! unfortunately today we see born ‘cultural muslims’ marrying kufar men. may Allah ﷻ protect us 🤲🏻 ameen.

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 6 месяцев назад +4

      *They must divorce their kuffar husbands end of story! Their marriage automatically breaks as soon as 1 of them accepts Islam!*
      *But AhlulKitab (jew/christian) wives are halal & valid only for Muslim men! Meaning if a Muslim has a jewish or christian wife, their marriage is valid unless & until she becomes a Non Kitabi disbeliever such as an atheist, hindu, buddhist, agnostic etc.*

    • @muslimresponse103
      @muslimresponse103 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@muhammadsalafiahlulhadith yes I know Alhamdulillah

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@muslimresponse103 ALHUMDULILLAH

    • @nurcanyamac
      @nurcanyamac 6 месяцев назад +2

      ​@@muhammadsalafiahlulhadith fakat bir Hristiyan İsa'yı tanrı olarak görüyorsa böyle bir şeyin mümkün olamayacağını biliyorum.

    • @kb4432
      @kb4432 6 месяцев назад +2

      It's becoming an epidemic in some communities

  • @me78723
    @me78723 6 месяцев назад +8

    Sub han Allah , great talk Alhamdu Lillah . This is much needed.

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 6 месяцев назад +1

      *They must divorce their kuffar husbands end of story! Their marriage automatically breaks as soon as 1 of them accepts Islam!*
      *But AhlulKitab (jew/christian) wives are halal & valid only for Muslim men! Meaning if a Muslim has a jewish or christian wife, their marriage is valid unless & until she becomes a Non Kitabi disbeliever such as an atheist, hindu, buddhist, agnostic etc.*

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 6 месяцев назад

      *_NO WE DON'T NEED SUCH WESTERNIZED & WEST INFATUATED JAAHIL MUSLIMAHS LIKE YASMIN MOGAHED, DALIA MOGAHED, NIGHAT HASHMI, FARHAT HASHMI ETC. because lecturing & freemixing & WORKING WITH NONMAHRAMS ARE ALL HARAM IN THE ISLAMIC SHARIAH! There is no concept of female public dawah in Islam! Allah never sent a SINGLE female "prophetess"!! EVERY PROPHET AND MESSENGER was strictly a man because public dawah to mixed audience is only HALAL for MEN AND HARAM FOR WOMEN! PROPHETﷺ'S WIVES NEVER DELIVERED ANY FRIDAY KHUTBAHS FROM PULPITS OR ANY GENERAL DAWAH LECTURE FROM TOP OF MOUNTAINS LIKE PROPHET MUHAMMAD SALLALLAHUALAIHIWASALLAM!_*

  • @Peaceful-Space
    @Peaceful-Space 6 месяцев назад +3

    AWWWWW SHE IS ONE OF MY FAVOURITE SISTERS!!!

  • @midosaleh9298
    @midosaleh9298 6 месяцев назад +1

    May Allah reward you both paradise.

  • @Itsn1te
    @Itsn1te 6 месяцев назад +26

    There’s an answer that only needs to be explained, not debated.

    • @davepugh2519
      @davepugh2519 6 месяцев назад +5

      And that's the problem with religion.

    • @Itsn1te
      @Itsn1te 6 месяцев назад +6

      @@davepugh2519 it is OK Dave you having Confort in your life comes through the fact that you don’t believe in any religion probably so don’t try to hurt other people because of your dissatisfaction with religion

    • @davepugh2519
      @davepugh2519 6 месяцев назад +3

      @@Itsn1te I'll stop criricising religion when religions stop trying to take away other people's rights.

    • @disuser-lp3qv1tm8f
      @disuser-lp3qv1tm8f 6 месяцев назад

      ​​@@davepugh2519 The zionist child-killers who have brainwashed you are the ones who are taking peoples' rights, including yours. Think about that for a little while and then continue your anachronistic inquisition.

    • @jojos9788
      @jojos9788 6 месяцев назад +5

      @@davepugh2519 have your rights bro. Nobody's dictating your life

  • @PenangNorthamRd.
    @PenangNorthamRd. 6 месяцев назад +2

    Salam from Penang. This is very good 👍

  • @zainiabdullah621
    @zainiabdullah621 6 месяцев назад +42

    We need more Muslimah like her ! 👍 As long as she's not fostered by or under the US Rand Corporation Project for 'moderate neo-liberal' Islam network.
    Wallaahu A'lam.

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 6 месяцев назад

      *_NO WE DON'T NEED SUCH WESTERNIZED & WEST INFATUATED JAAHIL MUSLIMAHS LIKE YASMIN MOGAHED, DALIA MOGAHED, NIGHAT HASHMI, FARHAT HASHMI ETC. because lecturing & freemixing & WORKING WITH NONMAHRAMS ARE ALL HARAM IN THE ISLAMIC SHARIAH! There is no concept of female public dawah in Islam! Allah never sent a SINGLE female "prophetess"!! EVERY PROPHET AND MESSENGER was strictly a man because public dawah to mixed audience is only HALAL for MEN AND HARAM FOR WOMEN! PROPHETﷺ'S WIVES NEVER DELIVERED ANY FRIDAY KHUTBAHS FROM PULPITS OR ANY GENERAL DAWAH LECTURE FROM TOP OF MOUNTAINS LIKE PROPHET MUHAMMAD SALLALLAHUALAIHIWASALLAM!_*

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 6 месяцев назад

      *Yes AhlulKitab wives are valid only for Muslim men! Meaning if a Muslim has a jewish or christian wife, their marriage is valid unless & until she becomes a Non Kitabi disbeliever such as an atheist, hindu, buddhist, agnostic etc.*

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 6 месяцев назад +2

      *They must divorce their kuffar husbands end of story! Their marriage automatically breaks as soon as 1 of them accepts Islam!*
      *But AhlulKitab (jew/christian) wives are halal & valid only for Muslim men! Meaning if a Muslim has a jewish or christian wife, their marriage is valid unless & until she becomes a Non Kitabi disbeliever such as an atheist, hindu, buddhist, agnostic etc.*

    • @abdullahimohammad9513
      @abdullahimohammad9513 6 месяцев назад +2

      ​​ @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith You're very right brother. You don't just bring nuances if there are clear Quranic verses and authentic Hadiths on issues regardless of the opinions of scholars.

    • @remove122
      @remove122 6 месяцев назад

      @@zainiabdullah621 ya brainwashed

  • @marya1316-v4b
    @marya1316-v4b 6 месяцев назад +4

    People love to welcome individual western women into Islam because it is seen as a vindication over the stereotype of the oppressed Muslim woman. This is why the focus is on HER and not her children or husband. She is symbolic. The other issue is that we have to look at the modern context of the family in the West. We are in such a dire state that we should do everything we can to keep couples who are willing to work together, together. It is certainly not ideal for a Muslim woman to be married to a non-believing man; but given the fragility of marriage nowadays, it makes sense, as sister Fatima says to give them a grace period. We used to stress out about our teenagers having boyfriends and girlfriends but in today's climate we are just thankful they are attracted to the opposite sex. Crazy times.

  • @AshK1999
    @AshK1999 6 месяцев назад +12

    Thank you! With so many reverts l, male and female, we his question is coming up more and more

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 6 месяцев назад

      *They must divorce their kuffar husbands end of story! Their marriage automatically breaks as soon as 1 of them accepts Islam!*
      *But AhlulKitab (jew/christian) wives are halal & valid only for Muslim men! Meaning if a Muslim has a jewish or christian wife, their marriage is valid unless & until she becomes a Non Kitabi disbeliever such as an atheist, hindu, buddhist, agnostic etc.*

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 6 месяцев назад

      *_NO WE DON'T NEED SUCH WESTERNIZED & WEST INFATUATED JAAHIL MUSLIMAHS LIKE YASMIN MOGAHED, DALIA MOGAHED, NIGHAT HASHMI, FARHAT HASHMI ETC. because lecturing & freemixing & WORKING WITH NONMAHRAMS ARE ALL HARAM IN THE ISLAMIC SHARIAH! There is no concept of female public dawah in Islam! Allah never sent a SINGLE female "prophetess"!! EVERY PROPHET AND MESSENGER was strictly a man because public dawah to mixed audience is only HALAL for MEN AND HARAM FOR WOMEN! PROPHETﷺ'S WIVES NEVER DELIVERED ANY FRIDAY KHUTBAHS FROM PULPITS OR ANY GENERAL DAWAH LECTURE FROM TOP OF MOUNTAINS LIKE PROPHET MUHAMMAD SALLALLAHUALAIHIWASALLAM!_*

  • @quixoticmelancholic7141
    @quixoticmelancholic7141 6 месяцев назад +1

    Wonderful insight about dealing with converts only as individuals. Every effort should be made to show, reassure, and invite the family . Given how much ignorance/ misinformation there is about Islam and Muslims, it just makes sense that this must be part of the support provided to new sisters/brothers in faith.

    • @FatimaBarkatulla
      @FatimaBarkatulla 6 месяцев назад +1

      Absolutely. At the moment this is what is missing. The mosque gets excited to witness a Shahadah and doesn’t always enquire about the family or invite the family to the mosque to introduce them and include them.

  • @GurlssXv
    @GurlssXv 5 месяцев назад +1

    Come on friends, let's subscribe to this channel, come on until it reaches a million. May Allah always bless you, my brother.❤

  • @abdirashidahmed2725
    @abdirashidahmed2725 5 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you !

  • @Seagate1981
    @Seagate1981 6 месяцев назад +6

    JazakaAllah Khair..

  • @akhtarmehjabeen
    @akhtarmehjabeen 6 месяцев назад +2

    Very informative session....

  • @zohaib.meraj_16
    @zohaib.meraj_16 6 месяцев назад +3

    May Allah reward you guys ❤

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 6 месяцев назад +2

    For a woman that is from a Christian family and marriage to enter Islam in these days and times, is a sign of her sense of strong conviction.

  • @kalijasin
    @kalijasin 6 месяцев назад +3

    Good discussion 😊

  • @funtimesforever7709
    @funtimesforever7709 6 месяцев назад +7

    They get onto the subject in question at around 15:10

    • @lamortexotique
      @lamortexotique 6 месяцев назад +2

      Thanks a lot! 10 mins in and she’s talking about random unrelated things and wasting time. Hope this is going to be worth it. Let’s see.

  • @trinitytotawheed
    @trinitytotawheed 6 месяцев назад +6

    Thank you for this Paul 🙏🏽 I’ve waited for a long time to get a teaching on this. I’ve been in this situation and Alhamdulillah I can say I’ve taken the right path w my marriage. But having kids too, it’s not being easy as a mother. The wait is important if you know for sure your husband will convert; in my case. And I still ask Allah ﷻ to make way for my marriage, to open the door for it In sha Allah. So it’s not in my hands. Abstaining is not easy, especially for husbands. But it’s not impossible. May Allah ﷻ make it easy for us reverts.

    • @alinapanoiu913
      @alinapanoiu913 6 месяцев назад +1

      Insha'Allah 🤲

    • @jazzmhevlogzz2870
      @jazzmhevlogzz2870 3 месяца назад +1

      Same here, everyday my heart is heavy..they hate me...they feel our family was broken...

    • @trinitytotawheed
      @trinitytotawheed 3 месяца назад

      @ oh my friend. That’s hard. I can imagine your pain. May Allah ﷻ make it easy for you and continue to pray for a miracle in their lives, that Allah ﷻ will guide them too

  • @osmantokul2034
    @osmantokul2034 6 месяцев назад +2

    Very good question

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 6 месяцев назад +2

    One of the most important signs that we advise people to pay attention to is that this mufti or scholar should be someone who became famous for his sincerity and knowledge among the academic elite and specialised circles, not only among ordinary people. Rather scholars and specialists should testify to his understanding and skill, and they should acknowledge that he is well versed and his views are well-founded. Here we will quote as evidence what the scholars of hadith have said about ways of proving that a narrator is of good character. Ibn al-Salaah said: His sound character may be proven when two other scholars state that he is of good character, or because it is widely known. If a person is widely known to be of good character among the scholars of hadith or other scholars, and he was widely praised for his trustworthiness and honesty, there is no need for a statement from specific people testifying to his good character. This is the correct view according to the madhhab of ash-Shaafa‘i (may Allah have mercy on him), and it is the principle that is adopted in the field of usool al-fiqh.
    End quote from Muqaddimat Ibn as-Salaah (p. 105)

  • @shamidreesshahveerjafryzai9036
    @shamidreesshahveerjafryzai9036 6 месяцев назад

    Brother assalamualaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barkatu brother your Tableeg excellent mind-blowing beautiful lajawaab I like it I am Abdul shaid Shaikh from Ahmedabad City Gujarat India I am Indian muslim

  • @ahmedhassan3016
    @ahmedhassan3016 6 месяцев назад +2

    Slms very good talk

  • @quixoticmelancholic7141
    @quixoticmelancholic7141 6 месяцев назад +1

    Sort of glad you didn’t come to Houston- I would have felt real regret to have missed meeting you🙂.

  • @citycentregreen
    @citycentregreen 6 месяцев назад +4

    MashaAllah great talk

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 6 месяцев назад

      *They must divorce their kuffar husbands end of story! Their marriage automatically breaks as soon as 1 of them accepts Islam!*
      *But AhlulKitab (jew/christian) wives are halal & valid only for Muslim men! Meaning if a Muslim has a jewish or christian wife, their marriage is valid unless & until she becomes a Non Kitabi disbeliever such as an atheist, hindu, buddhist, agnostic etc.*

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 6 месяцев назад

      *_NO WE DON'T NEED SUCH WESTERNIZED & WEST INFATUATED JAAHIL MUSLIMAHS LIKE YASMIN MOGAHED, DALIA MOGAHED, NIGHAT HASHMI, FARHAT HASHMI ETC. because lecturing & freemixing & WORKING WITH NONMAHRAMS ARE ALL HARAM IN THE ISLAMIC SHARIAH! There is no concept of female public dawah in Islam! Allah never sent a SINGLE female "prophetess"!! EVERY PROPHET AND MESSENGER was strictly a man because public dawah to mixed audience is only HALAL for MEN AND HARAM FOR WOMEN! PROPHETﷺ'S WIVES NEVER DELIVERED ANY FRIDAY KHUTBAHS FROM PULPITS OR ANY GENERAL DAWAH LECTURE FROM TOP OF MOUNTAINS LIKE PROPHET MUHAMMAD SALLALLAHUALAIHIWASALLAM!_*

  • @MuhammadNawaz-xw2fu
    @MuhammadNawaz-xw2fu 6 месяцев назад

    SISTER FATIMA BARKATULLAH PLEASE TELL TO THE WORLD ANY MIRACLE THAT YOU GOT IN ISLAM

  • @waqasbashir3539
    @waqasbashir3539 6 месяцев назад +2

    Sir, I'm waiting for your visit in leicester.

  • @farahmay8052
    @farahmay8052 6 месяцев назад +1

    Is this about the answering the question or talking about their travels ?

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 6 месяцев назад +2

    True scholars of Ahlu Sunnah, when they answer a question or speak on a subject, don’t leave the people in a state of ambiguity. They don’t waste much time talking about unfounded opinions from unknown people. The true Ulema, informs the people the qualified positions of the topic and leave them with the strongest opinion based on the Quran and Sunnah.

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 6 месяцев назад +4

    Imam Muhammad Ibn Saalih Al-Uthaymeen [may Allah have mercy upon him] said:
    The scholars are three types: the scholar of the religion, the scholar of the state (government), and the scholar of the Ummah. The scholar of the religion is the one who propagates the religion of Islam, issues religious verdicts based on the religion of Islam, knowledge, and what the Shariah establishes, and does not care whether it agrees with the desires of the people or not. The scholar of the state (or government) is the one who looks at what the state (or government) wants and issues a religious verdict based on what the state wants, even if that involves distorting Allah’s Book and the Sunnah of His Messenger. As for the scholar of the Ummah (or the people), he is the one who looks at what pleases the people. If he sees that the people are on something, he issues a religious verdict based on what pleases them, then he attempts to distort the texts of the Qur’an and Sunnah to make it agree with the desires of the people. We ask Allah to make us and you from the scholars of the religion who act upon it”.

  • @akhan8456
    @akhan8456 6 месяцев назад +23

    If I correctly remember, the female revert will immediately separate from the non Muslim husband and If within (three months/or three menstural cycles) the non Muslim husband does not come to Islam then their marriage is completely dissolved, however If he reverts withing three months then they don't need to make a new contract of marriage (Nikah). However, If the husband revertes after three months, then they will be making a New Contract (Nikah)

    • @Sunda_Dutch
      @Sunda_Dutch 6 месяцев назад +7

      Correct

    • @ibrahimelmasry-z3k
      @ibrahimelmasry-z3k 6 месяцев назад +2

      Your words are not true. They are the words of ignorant sheikhs. If you read the Qur’an, you will find something different. The Qur’an allowed the marriage of a Muslim woman to the People of the Book. It allowed the wife who converted to Islam to remain the wife of her non-Muslim husband.

    • @sidahmed789
      @sidahmed789 6 месяцев назад +14

      @@ibrahimelmasry-z3kback it up, you can’t tell him "you said something wrong and without proof" and then say something without the actual proof

    • @akhan8456
      @akhan8456 6 месяцев назад

      @@ibrahimelmasry-z3k Give me the verse of Quran

    • @akhan8456
      @akhan8456 6 месяцев назад

      At least quote the chapter and verse No. I will post it here

  • @mohamedsh9435
    @mohamedsh9435 6 месяцев назад +2

    Masha Allaah, beautiful
    Sister jasaaka Allaah

  • @me78723
    @me78723 6 месяцев назад +11

    24 Min ive never heard of this in my life

  • @najmaansari5217
    @najmaansari5217 5 месяцев назад +1

    Ihr 27mins. Very insightful comments re causes for decline of religion

  • @knucklehead4787
    @knucklehead4787 6 месяцев назад +2

    Interesting topic

  • @Okenyyahya
    @Okenyyahya 6 месяцев назад +2

    It's not easy when a woman converts to Islam to continue living in marriage with a non Muslim husband but it looks feasible when the man converts he can still keep his non Muslim wife
    The problem is Islam is a way of life and there is likely to be some complications if both can not observe the culture together....

  • @AmmarahSajid1994
    @AmmarahSajid1994 6 месяцев назад +1

    As an American watching I find it very interesting how brits view the states.

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 6 месяцев назад +3

    Al-Shawkaani (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
    The words of Allah, “They are not lawful (wives) for the disbelievers nor are the disbelievers lawful (husbands) for them” explain the reason why it is forbidden to send them back. This indicates that a believing woman is not permissible for a kaafir and that if the woman becomes Muslim she must leave her husband. End quote.
    Fath al-Qadeer, 5/301

  • @sheriefkhandalwai9347
    @sheriefkhandalwai9347 6 месяцев назад +4

    What scholars says is their opinion

    • @bacinthezahab7818
      @bacinthezahab7818 4 месяца назад

      I beleive the key word is "scholars"
      Unless u don't go to doctors when u're sick , I don't know about u but i don't think if i needed a medical intervention i can operate on myself

  • @abuhanaaaan
    @abuhanaaaan 6 месяцев назад +1

    Jaxakumullaahu khairan

  • @pushpanusair1201
    @pushpanusair1201 6 месяцев назад +7

    Phoarah was not Muslim yet his wife will go to Paraside

    • @appu1sundaram
      @appu1sundaram 6 месяцев назад

      That's true. But their sharia was not the same as what we have now. Islam doesn't allow a. Muslim woman to marry or stay married to a non Muslim man period.

    • @abed7922
      @abed7922 6 месяцев назад

      I had that in mind all along too.

    • @appu1sundaram
      @appu1sundaram 6 месяцев назад +2

      @@abed7922 That was a different time and a different sharia altogether. Monotheism was the message of all prophets but sharia was different. It was allowed then but it is prohibited for the ummah of our Prophet saw. Prophet saw himself took his daughter Zainab RA away from her husband as soon as the commandment came down. They lived separately until her husband eventually embraced Islam. She could have married someone else but she didn't. She waited as a single mother. Allah guided her husband and the family was whole again.

    • @kb4432
      @kb4432 5 месяцев назад

      @@pushpanusair1201 He literally tortured and confined her. Got her martyred because she didn't renounce Allah. One of the most Evil men

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 6 месяцев назад +3

    SOAS is not an Islamic university. It's dangerous to combine studies of the Islamic sciences and secular. It is also dangerous for Muslim students of knowledge to study Islamic sciences at secular universities. Question, what's the benefit of studying secular law after studying Islamic law? Students of knowledge that have studied secular comparable subjects to Islamic sciences are troubled and innovators in the Deen, see Yasir Qahdhi.

    • @osmansaid4601
      @osmansaid4601 6 месяцев назад

      You have inferiority complex.Do you think islam is weak if you learn secular university you will loose your religion

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 6 месяцев назад +3

    The Standing Committee for Issuing Fatwas was asked about a Christian woman who was elderly, as was her husband. She became Muslim but he did not, and there was no sexual relationship between them. Is it permissible for her to stay with him or should the marriage be annulled?
    They replied:
    If a Christian woman becomes Muslim and she is the wife of a Christian man, the marriage contract is annulled. Based on that, it is not permissible for her to stay with him even if they are old and have no sexual relationship. End quote.
    Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa’imah, 19/16-17

  • @moizahmed4705
    @moizahmed4705 6 месяцев назад +13

    Qur'an has addressed this issue:
    *You who believe, test the believing women when they come to you as emigrants- God knows best about their faith- and if you are sure of their belief, do not send them back to the disbelievers: they are not lawful wives for them, nor are the disbelievers their lawful husbands. Give the disbelievers whatever bride-gifts they have paid- if you choose to marry them, there is no blame on you once you have paid their bride-gifts- and do not yourselves hold on to marriage ties with disbelieving women. Ask for repayment of the bride-gifts you have paid, and let the disbelievers do the same. This is God’s judgement: He judges between you, God is all knowing and wise. [Qur'an 60:10]*

    • @Yoyo-dx8wz
      @Yoyo-dx8wz 6 месяцев назад

      ​@user-jt8vj1vm6y this verse won't go in heads of jahil/ignorant 🤡

    • @IrfanAli-so5hh
      @IrfanAli-so5hh 6 месяцев назад +4

      ​@user-jt8vj1vm6yyou pointed a accuracy of the Qur'an and say it's a mistake.
      Woe to you for your ignorance and arrogance

    • @panduvandal
      @panduvandal 6 месяцев назад

      What are you trying to point out​@user-jt8vj1vm6y

    • @al-farsi6018
      @al-farsi6018 6 месяцев назад

      @user-jt8vj1vm6yYa Murtad, you have left a 100+ comments on this Muslim channel and presumably more on other ones. Your life is despair and agony which is why you cling to distorting and deceiving others in the same way your mind has been distorted and deceived.

    • @moizahmed4705
      @moizahmed4705 6 месяцев назад +4

      @user-jt8vj1vm6y
      Obviously we can't know for certain if someone is a believer; we can only judge by what is apparent for only God knows what is hidden. If he/she recites the Shahadah and claims believes in all the six articles of Faith then they are a believer by the Law.

  • @MuhammadTariq-381
    @MuhammadTariq-381 6 месяцев назад

    وعليڪم السلام و رحمت الله و برڪاتہ سائين منھنجا پال ماشاءالله ❤

  • @abdullateef8212
    @abdullateef8212 6 месяцев назад +1

    WHEN are you going to Address the TOPIC???

  • @Crystal_Rayhanah
    @Crystal_Rayhanah 6 месяцев назад +4

    She speaks very slowly with many pauses, making it difficult and uncomfortable to listen and learn from her. It feels as if she is struggling to speak...

    • @hirasheikh6201
      @hirasheikh6201 5 месяцев назад

      Some people talk slower but you're using RUclips, just speed em up 😉

    • @Crystal_Rayhanah
      @Crystal_Rayhanah 5 месяцев назад

      @@hirasheikh6201 Speeding up the video might make it faster, but it won’t make it clearer. When someone speaks slowly with lots of pauses, it can break the flow and make it hard to stay focused. It’s not just about how fast they talk; it’s about how easy it is to understand them. If the delivery feels awkward or unclear, you might lose interest, no matter the speed😉

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 6 месяцев назад

    Another sign of the scholars is that they are very religiously committed and have a good attitude, and they are also keen to follow the example of the righteous of the early generations, namely the Sahaabah and Taabi‘een, and the leading scholars. So in general they do not drift away from their path, and every fatwa or word that they utter they attribute to one of the earlier leading scholars such as Abu Bakr, ‘Umar, Sufyaan, al-Awzaa‘i, Abu Haneefah, Maalik, ash-Shaafa‘i, Ahmad, al-Ghazaali, al-‘Izz ibn ‘Abd as-Salaam, an-Nawawi, Ibn Taymiyah, Ibn al-Qayyim, Ibn Katheer, Ibn Hajar and other scholars of Islam concerning whose prominence in knowledge, devotion and sincerity the Muslims do not differ.

  • @Dilrabo_Bobojonova
    @Dilrabo_Bobojonova 6 месяцев назад +1

    Thank u so much

  • @xzibit2781
    @xzibit2781 6 месяцев назад

    Assalam alaykum, Insha Allah I am ready to help revert muslims to learn Arabic and Quran while accommodating them in my modest place in Tunisia. You are welcome. May Allah bless you all.

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 6 месяцев назад +3

    You can’t innovate In the matters of Deen to accommodate people’s situation. Allaah is the one that guides the hearts. If it is meant for a married woman to become Muslim she will enter Islam. If a woman does not enter to Islam, it was not decreed for her, no matter what her reason is. Sounds like a Christian concept to change the law to accommodate the people.

    • @abuhijjra
      @abuhijjra 6 месяцев назад

      @user-jt8vj1vm6y O you who believe! When believing women come to you as emigrants, examine them, Allah knows best as to their Faith, then if you ascertain that they are true believers, send them not back to the disbelievers, they are not lawful (wives) for the disbelievers nor are the disbelievers lawful (husbands) for them. But give the disbelievers that (amount of money) which they have spent [as their Mahr] to them. And there will be no sin on you to marry them if you have paid their Mahr to them. Likewise hold not the disbelieving women as wives, and ask for (the return of) that which you have spent (as Mahr) and let them (the disbelievers, etc.) ask back for that which they have spent. That is the Judgement of Allah. He judges between you. And Allah is All-Knowing, All-Wise.

    • @abuhijjra
      @abuhijjra 6 месяцев назад

      @user-jt8vj1vm6y وَلَا تَنكِحُوا الْمُشْرِكَاتِ حَتَّىٰ يُؤْمِنَّ وَلَأَمَةٌ مُّؤْمِنَةٌ خَيْرٌ مِّن مُّشْرِكَةٍ وَلَوْ أَعْجَبَتْكُمْ وَلَا تُنكِحُوا الْمُشْرِكِينَ حَتَّىٰ يُؤْمِنُوا وَلَعَبْدٌ مُّؤْمِنٌ خَيْرٌ مِّن مُّشْرِكٍ وَلَوْ أَعْجَبَكُمْ أُولَٰئِكَ يَدْعُونَ إِلَى النَّارِ وَاللَّهُ يَدْعُو إِلَى الْجَنَّةِ وَالْمَغْفِرَةِ بِإِذْنِهِ وَيُبَيِّنُ آيَاتِهِ لِلنَّاسِ لَعَلَّهُمْ يَتَذَكَّرُونَ
      And do not marry Al-Mushrikat (idolatresses, etc.) till they believe (worship Allah Alone). And indeed a slave woman who believes is better than a (free) Mushrikah (idolatress, etc.), even though she pleases you. And give not (your daughters) in marriage to Al-Mushrikun till they believe (in Allah Alone) and verily, a believing slave is better than a (free) Mushrik (idolater, etc.), even though he pleases you. Those (Al-Mushrikun) invite you to the Fire, but Allah invites (you) to Paradise and Forgiveness by His Leave, and makes His Ayat (proofs, evidences, verses, lessons, signs, revelations, etc.) clear to mankind that they may remember.

  • @cooldesertknight9013
    @cooldesertknight9013 6 месяцев назад +1

    Salaam to all.
    I don't have 2+hrs !!
    Any "summary-video" coming?
    Jazakum'Allah Khair, all.

    • @Rare-Jewels99
      @Rare-Jewels99 3 месяца назад

      With so much depth to such situations, i think summary video would not be possible without it missing vital information/details

  • @ShaikhaInk
    @ShaikhaInk 6 месяцев назад +4

    JazakomAllah khair
    I just want to remind all my sisters about niqab, if you wear niqab you shouldn’t show your eye brows , niqab is explained well in tafsir of Quran , I see many sisters revert and few born Muslims into this trend of half niqab
    May Allah guide us and teach us the right way to practice our beautiful religion

    • @ShaikhaInk
      @ShaikhaInk 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@ABC-wi6vt it is a trend, it is not in Quran or Sunnah and we did not see this past years, it just came recent years, May Allah guide us all, what’s the proof that imam Malik RahimahoAllah allowed that? In fact Imam Malik is strict more on this, and even if any scholar allow anything we have to see what Quran tells us , the opinions should not go against Quran and Sunnah, we are Muslims not blind followers like other religions
      Read tafsir of surah nur verse 24

    • @ShaikhaInk
      @ShaikhaInk 6 месяцев назад

      @@ABC-wi6vt trying to be smarter than you? What is this statement come from? … Muslims don’t have this , there’s no I’m better than you thing! …read your first comment where you said : “In the Maliki madhhab what is required is covering the bottom of the face”…..
      That’s why I asked evidence and told you in fact they are more strict.
      Again, as I said it’s a trend because our parents few years ago did not wear this way, this is all trend it just came recently and one after another is followed , sisters must be told so they can know or go and learn, some of them just seeing online anything they copy it, telling them in private if that can be done is better, but because they come in public we should point out in public as it’s a duty of every Muslim to help each other in righteousness. The meaning of trend is not an insult

    • @ShaikhaInk
      @ShaikhaInk 6 месяцев назад

      @@ABC-wi6vt Yt keeps deleting my comments,
      Saying I’m trying to be smarter than you, I’m not playing that game, Islam is not about I’m better than you , you sound to be well informed about Islam I’m surprised you using this kind of statement!
      Read yout first comment and you will know why I asked for evidence, I don’t do : I’m better than u thing …Alhamdulilah
      The word trend is not an insult, it simply means it came up and everyone is just jumping doing the same , as Muslims we should not follow anything that just popped up, we should follow Quran and sunnah. As a Muslim I pointed it out and I did this before and will do anytime I see any sister comes in public this way, I’m doing it because Allah said we should help each other in righteousness not in sins and transgression. 5.2

  • @ilmoyaqeen2928
    @ilmoyaqeen2928 6 месяцев назад

    Islam is peace

  • @najmaansari5217
    @najmaansari5217 5 месяцев назад +1

    Interesting from 33 mins onwards

  • @C4llme_Ryna
    @C4llme_Ryna 6 месяцев назад +2

    The question is can you, as a Muslim woman, live by what Allah has ordained and His messenger has brought with a man who does not believe in your beliefs, even to the extent of associating partners with God or even opposing Him. Will you be left unaccounted for when you know it is not permissible for you to do so? What about the spiritual condition of your children? You might say that they have their own decisions to make, but is that true?
    A child is born on fitrah, it is his parents who make him a Jew, Christian or Majusi, you remember this hadith ?
    In our country a Muslim woman marrying a disbeliever is the biggest disaster in their life.
    Alhamdulillah, our government has banned interfaith marriages, because they cause great problems for individuals, society and the state.
    Wallahu a'lam, baarakallahu fiik.

  • @harharharharharharharharha240
    @harharharharharharharharha240 6 месяцев назад +3

    I am guessing it is the same thing with male converts who are in relationships with women who aren’t of the people of the book or Muslim

  • @thewisetzar5363
    @thewisetzar5363 6 месяцев назад +4

    Husband must revert within a timeframe before the Muslim woman must leave him

    • @Peaches10608
      @Peaches10608 6 месяцев назад +1

      What happens to the children

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 6 месяцев назад +4

      ​@Peaches10608 children should be with the Muslim parent following Islam

    • @Peaches10608
      @Peaches10608 6 месяцев назад +5

      @@muhammadsalafiahlulhadith that's going to cause a mess because any father is going to fight for custody too. lookup statistics on single mother homes... Children literally need their father

    • @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith
      @muhammadsalafiahlulhadith 6 месяцев назад +3

      @Peaches10608 Doesn't matter! Islam comes first! Not custody or money or whatever!

  • @jocelynburrell445
    @jocelynburrell445 6 месяцев назад +1

    So yes we in 1975 gave up decent men to marry Into the as we thought The Islam sent only a Man who marry In the faith told never would a believer fornicate unheard of sex out side is unlawful so sex would be unlawful

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 6 месяцев назад +8

    Sometimes these long explanations of an Islamic matter does more to confuse the common people than bring clarity. Also for many common people it opens doors for them to follow their desires rather than the evidence or truth. There is an Islamic principle that we should take the stricter of fatawah because it provides the greatest protection of our Deen, and keeps us further away from doubtful matters and sins.

  • @AdamSahr-cj4kf
    @AdamSahr-cj4kf 6 месяцев назад +9

    Should a non-Muslim divorce her alcoholic, drug-addicted, racist, or unfaithful husband? If the answer is yes to any of the above, why shouldn't a Muslim woman divorce a husband who is unfaithful to his creator?!

    • @Peaches10608
      @Peaches10608 6 месяцев назад +1

      You've simplified it as if divorce doesn't affect the lives of the children. I suggest you read up statistics on single mother homes. Also you're completely neglecting the fact that she may be financially dependent on her husband and if they have young children divorce may not even be feasible. Women are not like men where they can divorce andlive completely independently if the previously.

    • @AdamSahr-cj4kf
      @AdamSahr-cj4kf 6 месяцев назад +1

      @@Peaches10608 Should men fail to fight their enemies lest they die and leave orphans behind?! Men do what they must, for their land, their Lord, or their honour. Women may not see it like that...

  • @MegaAli213
    @MegaAli213 6 месяцев назад

    Reliance of the Traveler by Shaykh Nuh Ha Mim Keller !!!!

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 6 месяцев назад +2

    O you who believe! When believing women come to you as emigrants, examine them, Allah knows best as to their Faith, then if you ascertain that they are true believers, send them not back to the disbelievers, they are not lawful (wives) for the disbelievers nor are the disbelievers lawful (husbands) for them. But give the disbelievers that (amount of money) which they have spent [as their Mahr] to them. And there will be no sin on you to marry them if you have paid their Mahr to them. Likewise hold not the disbelieving women as wives, and ask for (the return of) that which you have spent (as Mahr) and let them (the disbelievers, etc.) ask back for that which they have spent. That is the Judgement of Allah. He judges between you. And Allah is All-Knowing, All-Wise.

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 6 месяцев назад +1

    Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allah have mercy on him) said: What is indicated by the ruling of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) is that the marriage is suspended. If he becomes Muslim before the end of her ‘iddah, then she is still his wife, but if her ‘iddah ends, then she may marry whomever she wants, or if she likes she may wait for him, then if he becomes Muslim, she is still his wife without any need for a new marriage contract. End quote.
    Zaad al-Ma‘aad, 5/137

    • @FatimaBarkatulla
      @FatimaBarkatulla 6 месяцев назад +3

      Yes and he expands on it in Ahkam ahl-Adh-Dhimmah

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 6 месяцев назад +2

    I don’t see the point in mentioning Tunisia and their position on this matter or modern day innovations of governments. The time could have been used to talk about some proofs and evidences.

  • @Yoyo-dx8wz
    @Yoyo-dx8wz 6 месяцев назад

    Sheikh Us Islam Ibn Qudamah is correct may Allah have mercy on him.

  • @najmulhasan5317
    @najmulhasan5317 6 месяцев назад

    Masha Allah 🤲🏻

  • @faizakaply9656
    @faizakaply9656 6 месяцев назад

    the cover photo of this video is the dome of Masjid Putra in Putrajaya, Malaysia

  • @RichBoy-nk8xx
    @RichBoy-nk8xx 6 месяцев назад

    WASPADALAH TERHADAP DAJJAL
    Dajjal adalah Pembawa fitnah dan pembawa kebohongan yang menyembunyikan kebenaran dengan kepalsuan untuk menyesatkan umat manusia kedalam alam maut/alam barzah yang terkutuk itu.
    》Artinya: Manusia pembawa fitnah dan pembawa kebohongan kepada umat manusia yang meniadakan semua kitab-kitab yang terdahulu (Alkitab) dan menggantinya dengan kitab kepalsuan.
    Ketahuilah bahwa, Tuhan Yesus telah berfirman didalam Matius 5:17 dikatakan: "Janganlah kamu menyangka, bahwa Aku datang untuk meniadakan hukum Taurat atau kitab para nabi. Aku datang bukan untuk meniadakannya, melainkan untuk menggenapinya."
    》Artinya: Allah yang bukan manusia itu datang kedunia dalam rupa manusia melalui pengantara firman-Nya sebagai wujud dan rupa Allah yang dapat dilihat oleh mata manusia yaitu Tuhan Yesus, bukan untuk meniadakan hukum Taurat dan kitab para nabi. Melainkan Allah datang kedunia dalam rupa manusia yaitu Tuhan Yesus untuk menggenapi hukum Taurat dan kitabnya para nabi, supaya setiap orang yang percaya kepada-Nya tidak binasa, melainkan beroleh hidup yang kekal. Makanya Tuhan Yesus dengan tegas berkata didalam Matius 5:18 dikatakan: "Sesungguhnya selama belum lenyap langit dan bumi ini, satu iota atau satu titik pun tidak akan ditiadakan dari hukum Taurat, sebelum semuanya terjadi." Supaya jangan sampai ada satu orang pun didunia ini yang berani meniadakan hukum Taurat dan mengganti kitab-kitab yang terdahulu itu (Alkitab) dengan kitab kepalsuan. Itulah sebabnya kitab Perjanjian Lama dan kitab Perjanjian Baru itu disatukan menjadi satu kitab yaitu Alkitab. Karena kitab Perjanjian lama itu adalah pondasi iman dan kitab Perjanjian Baru itu adalah bangunan iman yang dibangun diatas pondasi iman dengan sempurna. Tetapi kenapa ada manusia buta huruf yang berasal dari bangsa Arab yaitu Muhammad, mengaku-ngaku sebagai nabi terkhir dari semua nabi-nabi bangsa Israel. Hanya demi untuk meniadakan hukum Taurat dan meniadakan kitabnya para nabi dan menggantinya dengan kitab kepalsuan yang berasal dari mahluk goib (jibril) didalam gua Hira yang gelap..??
    Maka waspadalah, karena didalam 2 Petrus 2:4 telah dikatakan: Sebab jikalau Allah tidak menyayangkan malaikat-malaikat yang berbuat dosa tetapi melemparkan mereka ke dalam neraka dan dengan demikian menyerahkannya ke dalam gua-gua yang gelap untuk menyimpan mereka sampai hari penghakiman.
    》Artinya: Allah Sang Pencipta menyimpan semua malaikat-malaikat yang berbuat dosa (setan-setan) didalam gua-gua yang gelap sampai hari penghakiman tiba. Maka jika ada manusia yang mengaku mendapatkan wahyu didalam gua-gua yang gelap itu, dapat dipastikan 100% itu adalah wahyu dari malaikat yang berdosa (wahyu dari setan). Dan dipastikan pula 100% isi wahyu dari setan itu pasti bertentangan dan bertolak belakang dengan isi dari semua kitab-kitab yang terdahulu (wahyu yang dari setan itu pasti bertentangan dan bertolak dengan isi Alkitab yang berasal dari Allah Sang Pencipta). Dan bahkan Tuhan yang disembah oleh manusia pembawa wahyu dari gua-gua yang gelap itu, dipastikan 100% berbeda dengan Tuhan yang disembah oleh nabi-nabi Israel yang ada didalam kitab-kitab yang terdahulu itu (Alkitab).
    Contohnya: nabi Muhammad yang menyampaikan wahyu yang ia terima dari mahluk goib (Jibril) didalam gua Hira itu, hanya menyembah tuhannya negeri Mekkah saja (An Naml 91). Sedangkan semua nabi-nabi Israel yang ada didalam kitab-kitab yang terdahulu itu (Alkitab), hanya menyembah Allah Israel saja (Ulangan 6:13-15), sebab semua allah-allah diluar bangsa Israel itu adalah berhala (1 Tawarikh 16:26).
    》Artinya: Semua nabi-nabi Israel itu hanya menyembah Allah Israel saja dan tidak pernah menyembah tuhannya negeri Mekkah. Sedangkan nabi Muhammad hanya menyembah tuhannya negeri Mekkah saja dan tidak pernah menyembah Allah Israel yang disembah oleh nabi-nabi bangsa Israel itu. Itulah sebabnya umat Yahudi dan umat Kristen itu tidak pernah mengakui kenabian Muhammad. Karena Muhammad itu seorang manusia buta huruf yang menolak Allah Israel yang disembah oleh para nabi Israel dan menolak semua kitab-kitab yang terdahulu (Alkitab) yang ditulis oleh para nabi dan para rasul.
    Saya menyampaikan semua kebenaran ini bukan untuk menghujad agama mana pun, melainkan saya hanya menyampaikan kebenaran ini berdasarkan kebenaran firman Tuhan yang tertulis didalam Alkitab. Supaya setiap orang yang mencari kebenaran tidak tersesat dengan rupa-rupa pengajaran yang sesat, sebab satu-satunya jalan dan kebenaran dan hidup, hanya ada pada Tuhan Allah Kita Yesus Kristus Sang Juru Selamat umat manusia yang pernah turun kedunia dalam rupa manusia (Yohanes 14:6). Maka silahkan tentukan pilihan hidup kalian selagi masih ada waktu, sebab hidup ini adalah pilihan, bukan paksaan. Dan perlu kita harus ketahui bahwa semua agama didunia ini mengajarkan kebaikan, tetapi tidak semua agama didunia ini membawa umat manusia itu kedalam keselamatan hidup yang kekal. Karena untuk mendapatkan keselamatan hidup yang kekal itu, tidak cukup hanya dengan perbuatan baik saja, melainkan kita harus beriman dan percaya kepada Tuhan Sang Juru Selamat Allah Kita, yang pernah turun kedunia dalam rupa manusia yaitu Tuhan Yesus Kristus (Titus 3:4-7 dan Efesus 2:8-10).
    - Didalam 2 Timotius 3:16 dikatakan: "Segala tulisan yang di ilhamkan Allah memang bermanfaat untuk mengajar, untuk menyatakan kesalahan, untuk memperbaiki kelakuan dan untuk mendidik orang dalam kebenaran."
    - Didalam Amsal 1:7 dikatakan: "Takut akan TUHAN adalah permulaan pengetahuan, tetapi orang bodoh menghina hikmat dan didikan."
    - Didalam Amsal 4:11 dikatakan: Aku mengajarkan jalan hikmat kepadamu, aku memimpin engkau di jalan yang lurus.
    CATATAN.
    Didalam 2 Yohanes 1:7 dikatakan: "Sebab banyak penyesat telah muncul dan pergi ke seluruh dunia, yang tidak mengaku, bahwa Yesus Kristus telah datang sebagai manusia. Itu adalah si penyesat dan antikristus."
    》Artinya: Waspadalah terhadap ajaran nabi-nabi palsu dan guru-guru palsu yang tidak mengaku bahwa Tuhan Sang Pencipta itu pernah turun kedunia dalam rupa manusia melalui pengantara firman-Nya yaitu Tuhan Allah Kita Yesus Kristus, maka ia adalah sipenyesat dan antikristus. Sebab barang siapa yang menyangkal baik Bapa mau pun Anak, maka ia adalah sipenyesat dan antikristus (Dajjal) seperti yang tertulis didalam 1 Yohanes 2:22.
    Karena makna dari Dajjal itu adalah pembawa fitnah yaitu manusia pembohong yang menyembunyikan kebenaran dengan kepalsuan.
    Maka dapat kita simpulkan bahwa Dajjal adalah manusia pembohong yang meniadakan kitab-kitab yang terdahulu (Alkitab) dan menggantinya dengan kitab kepalsuan.
    Untuk itu waspadalah saudaraku, sebab didalam Galatia 1:6-8 telah dikatakan: "Aku heran, bahwa kamu begitu lekas berbalik dari pada Dia, yang oleh kasih karunia Kristus telah memanggil kamu, dan mengikuti suatu injil lain, yang sebenarnya bukan Injil. Hanya ada orang yang mengacaukan kamu dan yang bermaksud untuk memutarbalikkan Injil Kristus. Tetapi sekalipun kami atau seorang malaikat dari surga yang memberitakan kepada kamu suatu injil yang berbeda dengan Injil yang telah kami beritakan kepadamu, terkutuklah dia."
    Ketahuilah bahwa daging unta, pelanduk, kelinci, babi dan seafood itu adalah makanan yang diharamkan didalam perjanjian yang lama (Imamat 11:1-10). Tetapi umat muslim menghalalkan daging unta, pelanduk, kelinci dan seafood itu atas perintah dari manusia yang berasal dari air mani, yaitu: Muhammad yang mendapatkan wahyu dari mahluk goib didalam gua hira yang gelap. Sedangkan umat kristen menghalalkan semua makanan itu atas perintah dari Tuhan secara langsung, yaitu: pada saat Allah itu turun kedunia dalam rupa manusia (Tuhan Yesus) untuk mengadakan perjanjian yang baru kepada umat manusia (Matius 15:11-20). Itulah sebabnya semua makanan itu menjadi halal karena perintah itu langsung dari Tuhan, bukan perintah dari manusia biasa yang berasal dari air mani seperti perintah dari Muhammad yang buta huruf itu.
    Umat muslim juga harus perlu mengetahui, bahwa didalam Alkitab dikatakan: Allah sendiri yang memimpin dan membawa umat manusia itu kejalan yang lurus (Amsal 4:11). Itulah sebabnya Allah Israel itu turun kedunia dalam rupa manusia melalui pengantara firman-Nya (Tuhan Yesus), karena Allah yaitu Tuhan Yesus adalah satu-satunya Jalan dan Kebenaran dan Hidup (Yohanes 14:6).
    Sedangkan Allah SWT didalam Al'quran itu, masih mencari petunjuk jalan yang lurus (Al Fatihah 6). Itulah sebabnya semua umat muslim itu selalu berdoa setiap hari sampai menjelang hari kematiannya, dengan memohon supaya ditunjuki jalan yang lurus. Tetapi Allah SWT tidak dapat menunjukkan jalan yang lurus itu, sebab Allah SWT sendiri pun tidak mengetahui dimana jalan yang lurus itu. Terbukti satu-satunya nabi yang diutus oleh Allah SWT yaitu nabi Muhammad, terpenjara didalam alam maut/alam barzah yang terkutuk itu sampai hari penghakiman tiba. Sedangkan semua nabi-nabi Israel yang diutus oleh Allah Israel itu, sudah dipindahkan oleh Allah Israel (Tuhan Yesus) dari dalam alam maut/alam barzah yang terkutuk itu kedalam surga (Matius 27:51-53). Itulah sebabnya didalam Yesaya 2:22 dikatakan: Jangan berharap pada manusia, sebab ia tidak lebih dari pada embusan nafas, dan sebagai apakah ia dapat dianggap?.
    》Artinya: Allah Israel telah mengingatkan umat manusia, supaya jangan pernah berharap kepada manusia seperti kepada nabi dan rasul-Nya. Karena nabi dan rasul itu hanyalah manusia biasa saja dan bukan Tuhan Juru Selamat, sebab satu-satunya Tuhan Jurus Selamat manusia hanyalah Allah Israel yang pernah turun kedunia dalam rupa manusia yaitu Tuhan Yesus. Itulah sebabnya semua nabi dan semua rasul dan semua umat kristen hanya menaruh harapan kepada Tuhan Sang Pencipta saja dan tidak pernah menaruh harapan kepada manusia yang berasal dari air mani. Tetapi kenapa umat muslim itu menaruh pengharapan kepada manusia yaitu kepada Muhammad yang buta huruf itu dan mengharapkan doa syafaatnya untuk bisa masuk kedalam surga.?
    SALAM SATU TUHAN.

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 6 месяцев назад +2

    Organized innovations, how nice SICNA
    “The Nation of Mislam.”

  • @doaadoaa8850
    @doaadoaa8850 6 месяцев назад +1

    Prophet Mohammed’s (PBUH) daughter zeinab was in the same situation and her father refused she be with her husband only unless he reverts or they end parts…. So no you cannot live with a husband who is a non believer. between a woman and a man the third is the shaytan. The prophet made it clear through his daughter’s example.

    • @FatimaBarkatulla
      @FatimaBarkatulla 6 месяцев назад

      Zainab RA remained married to her husband, but separated. When her husband (Abul-Aas bin Rabee’ah) embraced Islam later on, their marriage resumed without a new marriage contract behind made. Hence their marriage was ‘suspended’, and resumed upon his conversion to Islam.

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 6 месяцев назад

    The sign of the scholar and faqeeh who is qualified to issue fatwas is that he is able to use as evidence the verses of the Qur’an and the hadiths of the Prophet (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him), distinguishing what is sound from what is not, what abrogates and what is abrogated, what is specific in meaning and what is general in meaning, and who understands the meaning and the context of revelation. That is because the true scholar is the one who gives precedence to the Holy Qur’an in his list of priorities, because it is the source of knowledge and fiqh, and is the basis of sharee‘ah and rulings.

  • @faizaanjum2262
    @faizaanjum2262 6 месяцев назад

    The Bollywood actors who Sheikha mentions at almost 01:08:00 who converted to Islam to divorce his wife and marry his coactor is Dharmendra. This coactor who he eventually married in Hema Malini. She is now into politics and has been Member of Parliament from 2004 representing right wing party BJP. She can often be seen spewing venom against Muslim. Also criticising the shariah laws which she herself took advantage of😂.
    BJP is the ruling party now, n been against AIMPLB, which is inclusion of personal laws of Muslims in constitution. They have been heavily compaigning to replace it with UNIFORM CIVIL CODE, was also a promised in last elections.
    This clearly indicates how people like Hema Malini are bigots.

  • @alberxenos
    @alberxenos 6 месяцев назад +1

    السَّلاَمُ عَلَيْكُمْ وَرَحْمَةُ اللهِ وَبَرَكَاتُهُ
    Assalamu’alaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh

  • @abuhijjra
    @abuhijjra 6 месяцев назад +3

    ICNA should be called SICKNA

  • @nikjulianamusa8690
    @nikjulianamusa8690 6 месяцев назад

    Muslims watching other people convert actually helps to increase their faith in their religion..