turning 27, why i quit law school / couple vlog
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- Опубликовано: 17 июл 2022
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had a very chill and amazing birthday thanks to david and friends.. feeling very grateful :')
and feeling a bit vulnerable talking about this topic but hopefully it helps at least one person out there who's feeling lost! you're not alone and i love you!!
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Hana, what you’re feeling is completely normal. I’m turning 30 soon and I’m also feeling lost but I’ve also accepted that I will eventually figure it out. Society has put so much pressure on us to be successful younger but we have so much to appreciate, be grateful for and plenty of years ahead of us to figure it out. People would look at me and think I have it all sorted cos I’m married (after being together 10 years), moved out and have a job but people don’t see how lost I am career wise. I just remind myself to be grateful for having a healthy family, quality friends, an amazing partner and I’m lucky to have the right foundation to slowly work on my myself and not have to worry. We’re always focused on what we don’t have and forget how much we actually do have. Don’t pressure yourself too much!! You’re doing amazing and you will look back one day and see how much you’ve achieved 🤗
I don’t understand the social pressure honestly. If you have a standard, good for you. Why would you make people to follow it? I don’t know why some people in my country actually believe that it’s a requirement to have your own house after you turned 30. It’s funny how new grads get paid around 1k/ month and the average apartment price is nearly 150k. And yet people go around and put even more pressure on others. I’m 21 and I’m starting over with a new major and to some people, I’m late. Not that I have to care about them but late for what. If my health is in a good condition, I would live to about 70. That means I still have time to improve myself and enjoy life. I’m speechless sometimes because the unwanted advices and attention of others to my own business. My father got married a little bit late when he was 40. And he actually got little savings before marriage but after 7 years together my parents bought a house with loans. Yeah he was unsuccessful according to social standards. But I respect and look up to my parents so much. And we’re happy. I truly think we should just focus on ourselves because at the end of the day you are the only one to know how you’re feeling and do you need a change. Hope we can be with our loved ones for as long as possible.
got emotional when you talked about law school Hana. I have a decent job and currently finishing up my grad program and I still feel lost... What keeps me going is my family, boyfriend, and friends tbh. Im grateful theyre here, supporting me through all my ups and downs. I will take one day at a time and conquer whatever I have to face. Stay strong Hana and to whoever reading this...
I've had a really bad day. Been crying all morning, still am . I totally relate to feeling lost and questioning what I'm doing with my life. Hana, your words were exactly what I needed to hear. Thank you for making me feel a little bit better. Cheers!
I’m 25 & only now finally found interest in something but the thought of going back to Uni scares me cause I previously didn’t have the best experience & sometimes feel like those I went to high school or uni with have surpassed me in life & that’s when I get sad & depressed but thank for the video ❤️
Hana-
Thanks for telling me I’m not alone! Recently turned 25 and reconsidering some life choices. Want to change my major, want to work in something new and days like today I feel like I’m super alone and nobody in the universe relates; but I’m happy to know that I’m not alone and we all go thru something similar.
Thank you for your videos, they are the many times the highlight of my day!
Wishing you and David always the best 🤍
I'm going through something similar of wanting to seek new careers so you're not alone. We will make it through our obstacles soon :)
How are you going now? I’m about to turn 23 and want to Change mine
27 is so young. Dont think that your old. Dont paronoid on being 27. Your life is far away to begain the real life.If you whant to get maried, having kids and to achieve your goals, your realy young to achieve everything possible in your wishes. Dont think about people that doenst know what they'r talking about. You are young, gorgeous. Enjoy the richeness of being young. Cause the day you will get my age, your going to tell your self (Why I dident do this and that and why I dident do what I whanted to do and have).
nothing but love and respect for you Hana! ❤️ you’ve impacted people’s lives in ways you can’t imagine. thanks for sharing a personal space of yours, we’re all lucky to be a part of your life.
I think most people never eventually end up doing what they have originally studied for. It's exciting to actually not know what you will do and want to do. It's scary at first, until you get into that flow of getting that first job and then the next job that is different, and then another different one and before you know it you're 70 and you tried everything :)
such a therapeutic vlog for me. I hope the things concerning you will soon disappear, thank you for opening up and for the comfort you give to some of us going to similar situations. will be rooting for you and your new little family!
Hana as always your content brings me so much comfort and joy!! ❤️ I turned 20 this year and I have always felt like a lot of people around me knew exactly which way they were heading with goals and dreams, however I am still not sure about how the future is going to look for me. Ive also been going thru a breakup which has been taking a toll on me as well. Your videos are always something I look forward to in these harder times.
Thankyou for making us feel like we are not alone. You are so deserving of all your succes. ❤️ Sending lots of love
Thank you for opening up on this vlog! :') I'm also 27 and have gone through a similar situation where I was lost and didn't end up using my degree! Your channel is truly my favorite and I look forward to your videos every week!
y'all got that real type of love! always here to support you two!
Girl I’m also 27, just recently graduated with
ALSO a Communications major and working at Trader Joe’s. No idea what I’m going to do yet, but I’m trying and moving forward. You got this and to all those out there, you got this! It is the little things and direction your moving that matters. ❤️☺️
gorl im turing 27 soon and i'm getting married when i thought i would be single at 45 acting like the eccentric imo that i feel i am in my heart lmaoooo. it's okay to be at a different place than you thought when you were younger! i see you have an amazing support system and a blossoming career so life will totally be doable no matter what happens. love your vlogs!
Hana,
Thanks for sharing. I’m going through a lot of mental insecurities as well at this time, and this video was really reassuring that someone I admire is just like me - and if we’re all struggling but surviving together, then that’s a testament to the strength we have and the hope we hold for our futures. Cheering you and David on always!!!
Hi Hana,
I Just turned 22 last friday, so I kinda feel you. I'm thinking about what I want to achieve in the next few years and what my Life will look like then (having maybe an awesome girlfriend, maybe obtained my Bachelor). And still I Sometimes have regrets or thinking that I could do more...
But seeing you every few weeks enjoying life the way you do just makes me happy calm and just living for the next weeks or maybe months.
So thank you Hana for living like this, like you felt the best and to give me peace for a Moment 🙏🏽❤️
Love you and what you're doing🥰✨
Thank you for the content you make and being you ❤️ I'm so happy to have discovered your channel
always rooting for you Hana! Happy 27th!💕
Aww I love this. Your not alone hana. Im turning 28 this year. I have not watched any of your video but this video pop on my yt suggestion. I just recently graduated for nursing school. Its kinda late for my fam opinion but who cares as long as I graduate lol. Im still lost right now but thats how life is, we have to find ourselves while living the best and enjoyed it:)
I just graduated and im just so glad you shared this because i was just talking to friends last night about how lost I was feeling and unsure of what I’m doing next. You two are so hardworking and thank you for sharing and being transparent 💕 we love you and david so much
Hi Hana! I definitely know how you’re feeling and I have been lost many times and maybe I still actually am. I’m about to turn 30 this coming fall year. And I went to a 4 year school majoring in Human Development and Family Relations. But right when I graduated I didn’t have any jobs planned and moved to New York right after and worked as a sales representative for a month, but I quit that job. And then now as a full time editor for a foodie RUclipsr for 5 years. But it’s something I love to do and enjoy it. Anyways lol I most definitely enjoy watching your channel and will always continue to watch! ❤️
Definitely know how feeling lost is, going through the same thing right now. Recently quit the job I was at and trying to figure out what my passions are!
It’s nice to hear from Hana and others through the comments that are feeling the same way! I’m 24, my birthday isn’t til Feb but I feel the age of 25 coming right around the corner and it makes me so anxious and stressed. I graduated college last year and I currently have a random job (not career related). Been thinking about going back to school for a masters even if I come out with debt 🥴 but not totally sure what degree field to go for…
Great vlog, more of these day to day, its not boring for us :)
I’m 22 and am taking a gap year. I want to go the dental route but I have no motivation to study for the DAT. For most of my college years I lost motivation to go to medical school but being a dentist was a really cool career that I found interest in. But at the moment I’m struggling to stay on track with life. This video was really refreshing and relatable. Thanks Hana ❤️
Hana. I really enjoyed this vlog because you were personal with us.
I’m 28 , lost my mom a year ago jobless for 9 months so far and still single .. life doesn’t work as we want it to do all the time unfortunately , at this point i just don’t want to think about anything .. since i tried everything i could .. it’s up to God
I'm very lost right now. I'm majoring in Modern Languages because I wanted to be a translator, but now that I have had experience in the field, I realized I didn't want to do that for the rest of my life... Now I don't know what to do. I don't know if the skills I have will help me get a job somewhere else...
Hi ! As always I truly enjoyed the video and the chill vibes lol
Don't feel like you need to rush anything !! Time does its thing and, even though you had a different idea about what your 20s and 30s were going to look like some years ago, remember that what matters is how you perceive things CURRENTLY
Just stick to this :) Also you don't realise it but you've achieved so much ! You have a degree, you created an amazing community on social media and are an amazing creator ! You have a great boyfriend, family and friends ! You also built a body you're proud of, healthy eating habits and you adopted a cuuute dog and moved in with your bf ! Sometimes it's hard to take a step back and realise how far you've come. But trust me you did !
I absolutely love your content and you motivate me to start creatine, too !
On a side note, I was wondering what gear you guys use for your videos ? Which phone, camera, tripod, lenses ? (to vlog, for IG, for facecam vids)
Love you guys and take care !!
I’m about to be 30 and it still hasn’t hit me yet that I’m about to be dirty 30 like looking back on everything I feel like I haven’t accomplished anything really. I still want to travel get married and have a family everything. But I’m so scared still or nervous on taking big steps everybody I went to school with either is married or at a uni but I know everybody is different and it will take me awhile to fully get passed everything and just do. I love you guys videos 🥰 happy birthday 🎉 and I hope you had a good one.
where is your tv stand from?? Looks so chic!!
NOOOO, the way david was holding the knife 😭
Thank you for sharing your experience Hana... I also am feeling very lost even though I have just graduated from university a few months ago. I did some internships, but they didn't turn out the way I wanted to, so now at 23 I'm unemployed again, and I feel bad for being a burden on my family.
I just feel like I've wasted 5 years of my life not working since I turned 18 and all throughout university, and I don't really know how to get rid of this feeling of anxiety, impatience and insecurity.
If anyone can help, share your thoughts! Thanks
Just wanna say that I resonated with this video so much! I also went to UCSD for a comm major and have been working at law firms pretty much since I graduated. Currently studying for the LSAT (and lowkey crying about it lol) and planning to go to law school at the same age that you started. Thanks for providing a different perspective. Just wondering what was the point during law school where you're like "I'm done. Thanks bye"?
Same i wanna cry each time i think of having to do the lsat
I graduated long ago, but the point I knew it wasn't for me was when I got back some horrendous grades. This was either the end of first year or sometime in second year. I remember the moment. I was in McDonalds checking for when the grades would be posted. When I saw them it felt like my heart was squeezed and I just wanted to cry.
What did you end up doing after quitting law school?
How did you navigate life after quiting law school? What did you do to find out “what you truly wanted to do”
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nice vlog
Bruh I’m 27 and feel like I’m literally 22 too 🥲
Hana,
What’s the name of the Korean song that plays around 0:40
선을 그어 주던가
Running out of time to figure it out. Tick tock.
Did David say “Feliz Navidad” when they were singing you hbd LOL!? I think he meant to say cumpleaños feliz.
lollllllllllll
David's Toes for free?!
girl, UCSD for communications??? that is a waste of money to go to that school just to study that major
No one asked!
Hi Hana - came upon you on IG, clicked on your link and saw the link into this video. At least you left before you got into too much debt or too much BS. I went through all three years, then never sat for the bar. Your courage is amazing and your fans are all here for you! Just subscribed to here and IG and look forward to your stories!!
Ray
I did the same, but I took the bar once. I'm ashamed I didn't study as hard as I could have. A 6/10 in effort
@@BryanKWong-dk2uy no shame bro. You did the thing. All good.