So many things will kill your marriage. 1. Thinking you are right and know better all the time. 2. Listening to other women about being a boss baby. 3. Thinking you can have it all. 4. Not really listening to your husband. 5. Trying to force your husband to share his feelings or to cry. 6. Expecting your husband to read your mind. 7. Thinking his is your best friend instead of your partner and protector. 8. Expecting him to find what you feel is important to be top of his priorities. There are more, but this is just a quick list. Adding kids is a whole different list with A LOT more items.
"We're women, the home is our domain!" and "Don't tell me the home is my domain!" Also "We're going to gripe if you don't help, and we're going to gripe if you do." Also "Our constant contradictions and negativity are obviously going to push you away from us, then we're going to gripe and complain because you're distant from us." I know not everyone cooks anymore, but "Find a guy you like and respect, then treat him like you do" seems to be a pretty simple recipe.
Never understood why women do this. Yes my husband loads the dishwasher indeed totally different than me, so what? The result is the same: clean dishes.
A man doesn’t help out… a wife doesn’t help out…. a man and a wife do their share! Whether that is a 30/70, 50/50 or 10/90 share, it’s what you’ve agreed on and find fair. And yes, there are different ways to load a dishwasher and some are bad and some are good, depending on water consumption, electricity, getting everything clean, keeping nasty pieces of meat getting stuck in the washer etc. stop acting like people can’t do shores well or do them poorly! With that said, if a man does his share and does it well enough for it to be productive then I think he should get exactly as much praise as he gives his wife for doing her share and doing it productively, which I hope is plenty!!!
She should have learned that you are not mature enough to accept the fact that there are multiple ways to load a dishwasher that may be more efficient than yours? Wow, her loss.
Hello. Love is not based on physical touch. I have been with my so for 10 years and i have so much more sexual power then he does, i went though so much with loving him indifferent ways and showing my appreciation because h3 cant keep up with me.
Yes be grateful that your husband is so thin-skinned and lacks any self-confidence, that even the smallest critique of a trivial action is taken as demeaning. Heaven forbid that he ever consider that there may be alternative ways to complete a task that are more efficient than the way he is currently performing that task. Thank you for clearing that up.
First of all she's not talking about one comment. This is a pattern that some women do. Eventually being told this is wrong, that is wrong, it beats you down. I bet if it were the other way around you would be calling the guy misogynistic and controlling. Secondly, you're an idiot.
Whomever your husband is doenst realize the absolute purity of a soul you are. God bless you and your family.
He realizes!!
So many things will kill your marriage. 1. Thinking you are right and know better all the time. 2. Listening to other women about being a boss baby. 3. Thinking you can have it all. 4. Not really listening to your husband. 5. Trying to force your husband to share his feelings or to cry. 6. Expecting your husband to read your mind. 7. Thinking his is your best friend instead of your partner and protector. 8. Expecting him to find what you feel is important to be top of his priorities. There are more, but this is just a quick list. Adding kids is a whole different list with A LOT more items.
Your channel should be 100x bigger and all women should hear this
Thank You. We have almost 2 million followers collectively on every other platform. We are just starting to post more on RUclips.
"We're women, the home is our domain!" and "Don't tell me the home is my domain!" Also "We're going to gripe if you don't help, and we're going to gripe if you do." Also "Our constant contradictions and negativity are obviously going to push you away from us, then we're going to gripe and complain because you're distant from us." I know not everyone cooks anymore, but "Find a guy you like and respect, then treat him like you do" seems to be a pretty simple recipe.
Never understood why women do this. Yes my husband loads the dishwasher indeed totally different than me, so what? The result is the same: clean dishes.
Yes!!
In every pair, one loads the dishwasher like a scandinavian design engineer and the other like a raccoon on meth. It is ever thus.
😂
The best thing husbands and wives can do for each other is to set each other free.
Are they not free?
A man doesn’t help out… a wife doesn’t help out…. a man and a wife do their share! Whether that is a 30/70, 50/50 or 10/90 share, it’s what you’ve agreed on and find fair.
And yes, there are different ways to load a dishwasher and some are bad and some are good, depending on water consumption, electricity, getting everything clean, keeping nasty pieces of meat getting stuck in the washer etc.
stop acting like people can’t do shores well or do them poorly!
With that said, if a man does his share and does it well enough for it to be productive then I think he should get exactly as much praise as he gives his wife for doing her share and doing it productively, which I hope is plenty!!!
Yes
Well said.
One of the things my ex wife really should have learned when we were together lol.
She should have learned that you are not mature enough to accept the fact that there are multiple ways to load a dishwasher that may be more efficient than yours? Wow, her loss.
Wives are not to slapmouth their husbands, simple as that.
Bingo
Hello. Love is not based on physical touch. I have been with my so for 10 years and i have so much more sexual power then he does, i went though so much with loving him indifferent ways and showing my appreciation because h3 cant keep up with me.
Your short on respect is dead on you respect and give yourself to man he will die for you but must respect him
Thats a lot of assumptions. ☹️
Yes be grateful that your husband is so thin-skinned and lacks any self-confidence, that even the smallest critique of a trivial action is taken as demeaning. Heaven forbid that he ever consider that there may be alternative ways to complete a task that are more efficient than the way he is currently performing that task.
Thank you for clearing that up.
First of all she's not talking about one comment. This is a pattern that some women do. Eventually being told this is wrong, that is wrong, it beats you down. I bet if it were the other way around you would be calling the guy misogynistic and controlling. Secondly, you're an idiot.