How to Establish if Your Relationship is a Priority | Relationship Theory
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- Опубликовано: 21 июл 2024
- Do you struggle with fulfilling the expectations of your partner and your responsibilities in other life areas? In this episode of Relationship Theory, Lisa and Tom Bilyeu sit down and share how they managed to make their relationship the number one priority while achieving success in other life areas.. After watching this episode, you’ll know why knowing your value system is the key to balancing work with your relationship and how Tom is able to manage both his business and his relationship successfully. They explain why knowing your partner´s expectations is essential for a lasting relationship and why communication in relationships can be learned even if it doesn´t come naturally to you, and much more.
NOTES:
Why knowing your value system is the key to balancing work with your relationship. [00:39]
How Tom is able to manage both his business and his relationship successfully. [3:15]
Why knowing your partner´s expectations is essential for a lasting relationship. [4:36]
Tom´s highest priority is Lisa, yet he went on a business trip when she needed him most; here´s why. [7:23]
Avoid this mistake if your partner makes a decision you don´t like. [9:45]
Why communication in relationships can be learned even if it doesn´t come naturally to you. [10:50]
The rules Lisa and Tom set up that allows Tom to go hard in his business while being there for Lisa when she needs him. [11:44]
QUOTES:
“I said every reason why I needed you, and you told me every reason why you had to go, and we came to the conclusion, that you going was the right thing, and then in exchange when you came back, I needed two full days of your time. We did it like a negotiation.” [6:38]
“If it´s urgent you call three times: Call number one and you don´t answer means that you´re busy. Call number two and you don´t answer means that you´re really busy. Call number three means you better answer whether you´re with the president of the united states because I need you.” [12:50]
“I know now that if I need you, I have the power to get your attention.” [16:10]
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How do you show your partner they are a priority in your life?
@Relationship Theory - are these new videos or ones from the archive?
It’s beautiful to see two people with a desire to grow together and support each other being the best version of themselves. Inspiring ❤️
Ignore the negativity and the doubts people have on you. *Keep moving forward.*
*I am cheering for your success.* ✋
Her husband happens to be a communicator.
Both are amazing at it! Inspiring.
Got excited every time you guys upload a video 🥰 thank you for sharing this with us
My favorite episode BY FAR. Wow thank you thank you thank you for this! 🙏🏼👏🏼
I’ve been dealing with gut microbiome challenges too since 2019.
GAPS diet has helped! (It incorporates a lot of bone broth, organ meats, fermented foods, and eliminates grains, starchy vegetables like potatoes etc. and all refined sugar.) Time consuming but worth it. Hope you feel better Lisa!
I really enjoyed that story about the dog and toy mouse. Just shows the importance of communicating with your partner and the importance of not getting angry or freak out on your partner if it's a "false alarm." Not a lot of people would react that way. These two are such goals!
Thank you for this video ❤️
I love your honesgty and vulnerability. Thank you for the informative videos
Thanks for the video. 😃
Today I watched, and I'm inspired to do more
So helpful 🙏🏻💖🌷
I love this conversation. I hope some day that I can have a relationship like this someday.
*"Everything in life is easier when you don't concern yourself with what other people are doing."*
The chances of you seeing this comment is pretty low, but if you did, *I hope you have an amazing day.* 🖤
You guys are so adorable together!
Fantastic!
Thankyou ❤️
What about when you have a long term relationship, but still live apart, and have children from past relationship. Is it wrong that I struggle to make the relationship my priority? I make time, but it never seems to be enough.
My partner is sensitive to noise, light or movement when it comes to sleep. He expressed his desire to sleep apart when we will finally move in together.... Although I understand his arguments and his sleep needs, especially that I really see a big difference in his mood when he sleeps well, I cannot help but feeling lonely, unloved and sad when I think about this. How to compromise in this situation so nobody end up being frustrated ?
I dated someone who snored terribly. Most nights he would tucked me in and lay with me for a while or if I fell asleep and eventually go to the other room to sleep. Or alternatively wake him up in the morning by crawling into bed with him. It's not ideal of course but it's I'd try to put yourself in his shoes when you are struggling and think about how hard it is to function when you haven't slept. I hope you work it out.
That cat toy story 🤣💕🤣🤣
I like that you both have knowledge in relationship building, however sometimes your stories are so personal it comes off as "let's talk about our relationship in business" versus "let's talk about our relationship." Moreover, I hear all these really important nuggets like "if your at the verbal spat that's not good and if you don't know why you started arguing in the first place then that's really not good" - This is more general, accessible, and adaptable to a broader audience that might be looking for building communication around relationships that don't center business.
Fyi I listen to your videos Tom because I respect you as a man on this Earth. You're not special. But I like to see your journey
I think they are a great couple with great advice. But I can't help like feeling that Tom brings Lisa down a bit by keeping bringing up her health issues and how they are an inconvenience for him. Maybe it seems like this because myself have a health issue and that's how I would feel if it was brought up like this...
Yeah, sounds like your projecting
So this is SPECIFICALLY FOR 2 people relationships with the only goal of self love
Relationships are NOT JUST 2 PPL and you rarely talk about family. My family plays more a role on my relationship than I do. And same on her. Her brother could take a lot of time from her to deal with his shit. Or we gotta schedule kid meet ups.
My relationship problem is that we don't have time for each other, and that greed for time drives a lot of our behaviour. It burns a type of pain that I can distract myself with time based activities OR I have to realize my son is another year older, I can't put "this" task off
Well they don't have children, but the tools are the same. You have to set your own boundaries with family and not allow them to take time away from your priority. But that is something that you all have to do together Nmand agree on or everyone else will continue to take advantage of you.
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She's a blessing to you. The other was shi
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