....And I'm over here sweating at 24...thinking I'm supposed to know it all. I do care about life and perhaps that's why I feel the way I do, but watching this gives me a little sigh of relief.
He wasn’t talking about knowing it all though. Don’t worry, if you’re on here looking at this, that shows you care and you will become better and better. You’re on the right path.
@@Hope4Life26I’m turning 24 literally the day after I’ve written this comment. But yeah I’m completely clueless and have no idea what i want to strive to be. I went to college for years studying sport and fitness but honestly I’m not sure this is the venture I want. I’m so lost right now
Right. This is how people give their power away to people they don’t even know. The internet isn’t God and doesn’t decided when you’ll reach your potential. I enjoy watching Jordan Peterson but he doesn’t know everything either.
Hey man, you're doing such an amazing gift to yourself! Don't let fear and negative emotions destroy your wonderful way to change..Trust Jesus Christ and you'll see the difference..;) After all, we all are in His Hands, so we try to do our part and believe me, He, (in ways we can't even imagine) is going to do the part that we cannot do;) So be strong my dear!! The best days are yet to come💪🎉🚀❤️
@@yoxxedit’s never too young to start taking life seriously and work hard on your goals . The more you enjoy now the more you will work later . I know its hard to accept but if you give 10 years of dedication now you will have a much smoother life going forward and vice versa .
Turning 30 this year and finally got into the career I wanted and worked for all my 20’s. I don’t live in a great area or have a lot of money or friends, but I have a car, I pay my bills and can still go on vacation once a year. I don’t have any friends though, but I have an awesome boyfriend and a cat. I think getting divorced at 22 and having to move back in with my parents helped, life gave me a swift kick in the ass and I decided to get a job I didn’t like until I could get my job now. Your 20’s are not just for having fun and fucking off. You set yourself up now, and you’ll be much better off later, trust me!
I’m grateful to know my sisters love me, have my back and vice versa. I don’t want to hurt them and despite our rough patches, they are probably the best people for me.
I am 53, worked all life had to many responsibilities , I even work 2 jobs now, took risks , did my own thing , failed at own thing most of the time, before it just started to give semblance of living 6 years ago 😂😂😂😂 Circumstances , which part of world you are born, all matter, my advise is to keep soldiering on, there is this feeling of being deprived , just throw stones at that feeling, and keep moving, changing for if you do not its over anyway
I wasnt cluess i suffered depression the last 10 years that is what i have been doing. Started my new life at 30 and discovered how life is beautiful and i am full of hope. New jobs means i am also doing stupid things but i know where i wanto to be and i work hard to achive it.
When I was 25, I was running the streets partying, bar hopping and clubbing. I wasn't trying to hear nothing about God, Goals & Healthy Relationships. I was immature and wasting my youth away because I wanted to and I didn't care about life at all compared to now because I care about my health. Now in my mid-30's, I'm back on track with my life in general. If I can go back in time, I would undo alot of the poor choices that I made when I was a young man. 💯 I'm not a victim nor looking for sympathy, I'm owning up to myself and my shortcomings. 💪🏽😎
May Allah bless you. I would suggest you to look into Islam if you haven't already. Here is a verse from the Qur'an: وَوَجَدَكَ ضَالًّا فَهَدَىٰ "And He found you lost and guided you."
I thought I was depressed for years but I was just living in a cycle that was always going to make me depressed, addicted to weed, gambling and bad food, you start looking after yourself physically and what you eat and you will be able to tackle the next steps in terms of focusing on a career because you’ve got the other stuff together so can focus solely on your future, 28 and only got it together in the last 2 years, never been better now, the early you start the more you’ll thank yourself later, trust me.
That's what people think of me. I'm 31, no job, can't drive, live alone, no friends or family. I'm poorly, have an illness called ulcerative colitis and have surgery every few months. I'm never well long enough to learn anything as I'm always in hospital for 2/3/4 months at a time. Get home, try heal, get ill again. I'm so stuck I don't know what to do. I'm all alone and living in agony, boredom, and with a desire to achieve more. My body isn't letting me. I have open wounds as I type this that won't heal, they've been open for 6 months. Trapped in bed just bleeding away waiting for the next hospital trip.
I'm so sorry for you.❤ You can make small changes out from bed everyday. First: Try Anthony Williams (Medical Medium) food for your ulcerative colitis. Secondly: Try to make some money online, since you can lie in bed and work. Learn to code, learn social media (Social Media Manager), learn to be a virtual assistant. Thirdly: Read books, Repeat this and believe in you!❤
I was actually in the same trajectory as you. Work at Walmart at age 23, team lead at age 26. But left Walmart for a government job at age 27. Sometimes I wonder if I should stay at Walmart or not. But the job I have now is good
Yeah go on put pressure in yourselves everyone has there own pace i am broke when i was 20-35 noe in 37 but i have my construxtion company 7 cars a house and 10 lots😊
I tell you what most think at this age group 1. Finishing college if they havent done so 2. Buying a first house 3. Getting a JOB, and not staying at a lowercase "job" 4. Getting married and starting a family the right way.
I was employed at 24 then got fired from that job 5 months after my 25th birthday and it took me another 5 months to get a new job. Don’t feel bad for being unemployed at 24 you will get a job again.
Also I was a graduate of my certificate program at 24 but not my degree program and news flash I’m still not done with the degree program at where I sit now at 30.
@@Mayank_Bais hey update I’m 31 now and decided maybe I’m good with the education I have, plus I’ve been working for a while on starting a business now. I’m looking for a pathway to a more stable life.
I graduated at 27 years old and now i got a job. Not a rich man, but i make enough to get a car and a place with roomies that get along pretty well. Started to save so I can one day get married and build a family. Never give up bro you got this. We got this. Just take a small step at a time.
All my time at Uni I stressed out about this, especially because it took me waaay longer to finish than expected. Now at 27 I started my job and it feels like all the time was worth it and I made a huge leap that I only noticed now. Life is still a struggle but the growth is real and it goes on and on.
I am 28 now, and I can relate this video very well As i am in my late 20s now I am still figuring out myself with my life. I had thought that by 25 I would have a stable job and have a long rerm relationship but even now also i am not having both. I realize that there is no such thing as perfect age to settle down in career and have a stable relationship. Each and everyones journey is different. The only difference which I feel now unlike when I was 22 is that I have become more mature and now I view things at a different angle as compared to before. Now I am more choosy about the people with whom I vibe and with certain choices I make
I am 22 😢it means what I am interested now will disappear at 28 as I want eating I want adventures I want travel beautiful places but financially not able but I am anticipating to be well at 28 but no need as I would change my interest like you
@@GAMEISON-CR7 Never let age stop you from achieving what u want and what you wish to do. Yes in 20s we generally wish to explore life as much as possible as we have less responsibilities but that should never stop no matter whether u cross 30, 40 or even more. Age is just a number to feel young and energetic.
It's true that ages 20-24 are 'clueless ages'. I experience this first hand, It's like you're completely blind in a cave, you gotta trust your instincts to get out of the cave to achieve your goals and freedom
I threw a decade of my life away to drugs (16-26). At 26 I got clean off of everything and over the past year have worked so hard to make up for lost time. I’ll be 27 in two months and I’m still going, still working hard to make up for lost time. I have this goal to be where I need to be, where I should be by 30. It does feel like a sacrifice, but I wish I’d made it sooner.
omg same drugs amd corn I even had a Psychosis ..etc I stooped decided to stop at the firat part of my 26 which is the first 6 months now Iam clean for around 4-5 months And god I used to be crazy and could not know it back then becouse of the drugs Iam clean and now I know my direction in life ❤
It's not too late ❤️ I don't know what your situation is, but really honing in on what you want to change and making habits to support it have been helpful for me. If you mess up one day, it's okay, just try again tomorrow. Remember that you are more than what you are struggling with.
Everyone's got time behind them that they can't go back to. Doesn't mean it's wasted if all that fight made you as strong as you are today. You already won a massive fight getting sober. That's an experience that can help inspire others, it has value, strength and hope in it. Things take as long as they do
I feel like an old infant. 34 years old I’m a bartender. I make great money but I don’t see me doing this n my forties. Just had a baby which I’m so proud of. But god help me find my way cuz I feel so behind.
Dude you are doing great. Bartenders are awesome and tkmeless. Also You can do any job in the world. Best part is you can start over at any time any age. Life is not supposed to keep going upwards. Its full of ups and downs. We live we fail we learn we try new things. You make a living and your kid is blessed more than the majority of the world. Keep going and good luck with ur new fanily.
I'm 28 almost 29. Dude believe me, _ Have fun. _ Go to the gym 4x a week. _ Find a nice supportive girlfriend. _ Build your professional network. _ Invest in the stock market immediately to build your retirement. _ Travel the world. Do this and you will be on the top of the world. All the best.
@@flom1951I'm 21, bro. And I know I'm just being negative or exaggerated, but sometimes I feel like the time is running through my fingers. It's overwhelming
@@jorgecastrejon469get of social media and TikTok. You feel like this because of outside influence. If you didn’t have TikTok or social media your thoughts would be very different
at 20 I made a promise to myself that at 30 i will have the knoweldge and the skills to be stable for my whole life , i invest time in getting financial knowledge, getting social skills that arent just partying, and being grounded in my faith,improving my daily routine to get as much health benefits as possible like managing sleep quality,food quality,managing my A.D.D etc...
People forget that it's not just the age; your body is physically changing your energy in your 30s, which is not the same in your early 20s. You'll deal with all the consequences of your bad choices in your 20s.
@@vishnuhari023 toxic work environment. Unsupportive seniors. So, yeah make peace where you're right now. Because you never know what' on the other side of the prism. Enjoy the process. Btw are you preparing for some competitive exams?
Watching this makes me lose the last bit of confidence I have as a 27 year old still in college. I made bad decisions, but I am trying hard. Stop judging me!
Lots of people MUCH older then you who made h7ge life and career changes and flourished. Never forget that. For christ sake a man by the name of Albert Woodfox spent 43 years in solitary confinement for a murder he did not commit in the worst prison in the U.S and spenr his time helping fellow inmates and fighting for civil liberties and came out of prison as an old man looking forward to a future. All YOU have to do is achieve something fractional of what he did to make a half decent life for yourself!
KOKO. Keep on Keeping On. I retrained through online college aged 46. I now have a job and a more stable future. I wish i was 27 again with those options available to me.
I’m 23 (24 in December) and I feel so lost now, I had to quit my job because I couldn’t stand working with a S3xual harasser, many girls quit because of him and we’ve reported him plenty of times but he has my boss wrapped around his finger, I wouldn’t be surprised if she had a crush on him considering how she invites him to her home even though she literally has a husband. I’m looking for a new job but it’s very difficult to find one, It just feels like everything is over
It looks like your boss has something with that sexual harasser? Anyways I think local people have more job opportunities than foreigner. I am a 24 year old international student. I am still struggling to settle down in the country.
I feel you random person across the world , I am 23 24 in April and I am lost , we got to keep trying I don’t know bout you but me personally I always get held back by bad habits so working on that
Document everything. Whatever you remember try to get dates and times. Save about 3-4 months worth of shit and go sue. Even throw in some recordings and shit…then go see a lawyer. Even though you quit, still see if you can write some shit down or instead…get others to record for you while they’re still there…then throw your documents in. That’s the best thing I can think of.
I’m 25 and been working a dead end job in my town that I’ve never left. I’m trying to decide between choosing a career and getting serious or traveling around doing odd jobs. I think for most people that would be an easy decision but I feel the need to live an adventurous life, I just worry it might be too late now.
"I'm 25, and at this age, I've come to realize the meaning of 'my life.' I have a goal. I wake up in the morning, make my bed, and regain my motivation, in part thanks to you, Dr. ❤️"
Thats because Society believes that you have to figure out your Life in your 20s and 30 is too late. These People are usually average People with average Goals that can be achieved in 20s.
@@havoxmedia No it’s not. It’s only over for him if he allows what you just said to sink in. You can come up at any age. You’re not helping but spreading more negativity, fear and doubt. This is why people fail. We put limitations on others when we haven’t even stepped a mile in their shoes. Some people bloom later in life but as long as they get there that’s all that matters. Lift him up and encourage him that as long as he’s breathing he has another chance.
It’s not over for you. It’s only over when YOU say it’s over. Don’t let white noise drag you down. If no one’s encouraging you or tryna lift you up, they’re just white noise. I don’t care what anyone says, 34 is still YOUNG. 20’s and 30’s is still young in my opinion, 40’s can make you feel young if you take good care of your body. You’re 34…so the hell what. Work to become the exception. You got this! Ignore all the bullshit and get busy. You’ll make it.
I’m 30 and I somewhat relate to this video in the way that I haven’t 100% discovered a good career path but I’ve definitely got it narrowed down to: aviation, coffee, or IT. So I hope the fact that I have my options narrowed down makes me not look like an old infant. Also the fact that I don’t go out partying every night and blowing all my earnings like I did when I was younger. Don’t get me wrong, I still occasionally go out for beers and alcohol. I just don’t go every single night.
This is me now. 25. Almost 26. Part-time retail the past couple of years, lost. But recently accepted into a full-time chemical job. I dont know if it's something i see myself still doing at 30, but it's a proper job with decent pay. The sacrifice here would be doing a tougher job but im being more of a competent adult by doing so.
Im 28 but i look younger (at least people say that), i try not to think about it too much. Age is a number, and aging is different for everybody. It can be troublesome to take life too seriously, and end up making you age faster
It’s absurd that one human beings’ opinion has the power to change the perspective of how people view themselves. Everyone’s path is unique and different. Success is Relative. Bottom line.
Yea, everyone’s path is different but there are still truths to life, something this world had forgotten about, such as what Kermit is saying in the video. The fact that people have different life experiences does not mean that being irresponsible and an idiot is ever a good thing.
In reality success is relative but from a societal perspective, there are unspoken truths most of us abide by which, if you don't want to be a societal outcast, you have to follow. What Peterson is saying here is definitely one of those truths.
Mheen am 27, from Nairobi Kenya, planning to launch my tech startup by the end of this month. I have been getting myself in shape ever since I was 22 spiritually, mentally, physically, cognitively but I still feel I haven't achieved much, men it's hard it's really hard battling your own mind, I don't regret anything at all because I haven't wasted the time but men sometimes I still feel like I haven't achieved anything, had a breakup and I just got a rejection from my crush, I don't know men it's soul crushing and the thing is I just can't give up I can't see any other way. It's hard to sustain a relationship now especially with the startup but men the loneliness it's crazy
He'd label me as an old infant but the one thing I take pride in is treating others around me with dignity and respect. I feel like this type of opinion is meant to get us old infants in the work force to make our masters money.... It doesn't matter how I live my life as long as I have a love and respect for myself and for others I dont have a problem with work...but employment. Nobody pays anything for me i dont use anyone.
@@mllermusic3979just turned 30 let me tell you the change in body happens like in a snap I thought the change will be slowly good that I invested in my health
In my life I have realised that age dont mean a thing ; you can be broke and clueless at 30 ; and a year later have everything figured out ; or have everything figured out at 30 and lose everything at 31 and go on to become homeless; we are temporary custodians in this world material possessions shouldn't define us
Im 25 and im literally having a mid life crisis almost every single day i wake up. I make $1200 a day I own my own restaurant have a 6 pack but im still not satisfied at all because theres ppl my age doing better living a better lifestyle than me. Im ashamed im not good enough..
This is where I have to disagree with Jordan here. First off 25 and 30 are still in the same age group pretty much. You see a lot of age groupings put 25-34 as one age group. Secondly age does not equate to life stage. Everyone develops differently and there is no blueprint for where you should be at 25 vs 30 or any age for that matter. Thirdly, early 30s by most people's definition is still a young adult. Whenever you see a young adult age range, it typically goes up to 34/35. Sometimes 39. Sure it sometimes only goes up to 24/25. But going by that definition, 25 would not exactly be "young adulthood" either. So really 25 and 30 are basically around the same range. Finally, last time I checked, 25 to 30 was 5 years, not 10 years.
I'm still in my 20's although late 20's but i can tell you, No your wrong, That is a huge misconception and scientific studies show we barely stop devoloping at age 30 and 45 is entering middle age, and , 30's is the time of confidence and getting serious, Now if you said 45 then sure you might have a point, but MANY people became successful in life AFTER 30 , some of the biggest company owners we know today were not in their 20's @@AFEEF93
I have no job till now. I am 29 yrs old. So succesfully entered in life of darkness. So I will be dark soon. All credits goes to my mad decisions.😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hey there, I’m the same as you at 29. Never had a job and my mental wealth was an absolute joke since I was a child, the idea of driving a car fills me with dread and anxiety. I’m starting volunteer work soon with a homeless charity and I’m gonna be doing that until college courses start back up again here next year to try understand work ethic and force myself to have a normal sleep cycle. I’m currently doing a 3 month component module course online to get a minor award which will give me 15 credits towards achieving a major in college. My first driving lesson will be in a few days and I feel like I’m burning when I think about it but I’ll tell you what man.. I’d rather die in a car wreck than allow my life to continue being one. It’s gonna be hard for us but we have to try. No matter what we have to try.
Ok listen dawg. Is really not that bad . Let’s say your parents own a house . Eventually will be your house and you’re a house owner. You rent it. I lost my family at 17 I rent the house and live with friends. Work here and there just to know people . I have been working for people or in my own business. All this bullshit about old infants are just crap. Fearmongoring gets views and attention
@@Psicologia_InterdisciplinariaPeterson is a right-wing modism like Shapiro was before became the joke he is today, a grown up man who likes to fight kids in college, but runs when against other adults.
So I use to work at a hospital at 25 as a technician and when your 25 the doctors see you ok your a kid like he said I left that job position at 30 Never to return cause now ppl who have their doctor degrees see you as dumb. “Your 30!” Is all I got I’m in school rn tryin to get my degree and work on my own and I’m happy he is 100% right ppl start to perceive you as you have don’t nothing even tho you know you have
Do you choose your sacrifice though or does life hand it to you, you dont always choose the cards you get... play the cards youve been dealt and thank God everyday for what you have ❤
He doesnt say you cant make it at 30, you can. Dont misunderstand him. You can absolutely make it at 30, but guess what! You'll have to work with 20 year olds beside you. That's the point of his argument. And you dont want to be that person. I am one of those old infants out there...unfortunately! You can work yeah, sure! But nobody wants you! No one is thrilled about you. And when you do a mistake, well, it's not enough, you'll sure hear something like "30 and still doesnt know how to do well".
Actually I don't really care what people think at this point. If I'm an old infant it's not because I haven't tried. Not everyone's life is the same, some people face obstacles that maybe others don't have
I planned milestones in my 20s. So Gradute college ✅ Start my career ✅ Have a social life & travel ❎ (covid) Get married ✅ Have child/children ❎ Divorced ✅ Got promotions ✅ Plan for my 30s - Raising kids & family ❎ Hence, No plans ✅
That’s why 30+ year old making the same dumb decisions they made in their twenties makes me roll my eyes. It’s especially bad when they say I was young and dumb but they were 32 when they made the dumb decision.
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....And I'm over here sweating at 24...thinking I'm supposed to know it all. I do care about life and perhaps that's why I feel the way I do, but watching this gives me a little sigh of relief.
You got six years.
@@rhymeswithtyme Well luckily it didn’t take six years to finally figure out what I’m actually passionate about. Now soon I plan to make it happen.
He wasn’t talking about knowing it all though. Don’t worry, if you’re on here looking at this, that shows you care and you will become better and better. You’re on the right path.
@@mannydeeproductions Thankyou! I really appreciate it!
@@Hope4Life26I’m turning 24 literally the day after I’ve written this comment.
But yeah I’m completely clueless and have no idea what i want to strive to be. I went to college for years studying sport and fitness but honestly I’m not sure this is the venture I want.
I’m so lost right now
It’s a lot of people thst still don’t have everything together even at 30 my advice don’t let the internet fuck your state of mind up
JP didn't say you gotta have EVERYTHING together by 30; He just said you can't be FULLY Useless at 30
JP is not against being not made up in life by 30, He is against not starting the journey until you are 30
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Jordan has a point here, life moves pretty fast you know
Right. This is how people give their power away to people they don’t even know. The internet isn’t God and doesn’t decided when you’ll reach your potential. I enjoy watching Jordan Peterson but he doesn’t know everything either.
Im days away from 30s and wasted my 20s.Im back in school trying to come back to God and afraid of not changing by 31. Please pray for me
Good luck to you, plenty of people are in the same boat as you. We all make it eventually, and it's amazing when we do.
Hey man, you're doing such an amazing gift to yourself! Don't let fear and negative emotions destroy your wonderful way to change..Trust Jesus Christ and you'll see the difference..;)
After all, we all are in His Hands, so we try to do our part and believe me, He, (in ways we can't even imagine) is going to do the part that we cannot do;)
So be strong my dear!! The best days are yet to come💪🎉🚀❤️
Just turned 25 rip
Clueless as when u were 24?
I’m turning 25 soon but this video said we’re still young :)
@@yoxxedit’s never too young to start taking life seriously and work hard on your goals . The more you enjoy now the more you will work later . I know its hard to accept but if you give 10 years of dedication now you will have a much smoother life going forward and vice versa .
That was 3 years ago
Turning 30 this year and finally got into the career I wanted and worked for all my 20’s. I don’t live in a great area or have a lot of money or friends, but I have a car, I pay my bills and can still go on vacation once a year. I don’t have any friends though, but I have an awesome boyfriend and a cat. I think getting divorced at 22 and having to move back in with my parents helped, life gave me a swift kick in the ass and I decided to get a job I didn’t like until I could get my job now. Your 20’s are not just for having fun and fucking off. You set yourself up now, and you’ll be much better off later, trust me!
@@jackiea9246 I believe you! Thankyou for sharing your perspective.
What Job are you working?
Divorced at 22. I feel for u, cz nobody should go through that, that young!
Thank you for your advice
I’m grateful to know my sisters love me, have my back and vice versa. I don’t want to hurt them and despite our rough patches, they are probably the best people for me.
"The sacrifice is inevitable"
im speechless
this hurts so much, especially if you care about your life and everybody in it.
I am 53, worked all life had to many responsibilities , I even work 2 jobs now, took risks , did my own thing , failed at own thing most of the time, before it just started to give semblance of living 6 years ago
😂😂😂😂
Circumstances , which part of world you are born, all matter, my advise is to keep soldiering on, there is this feeling of being deprived , just throw stones at that feeling, and keep moving, changing for if you do not its over anyway
I wasnt cluess i suffered depression the last 10 years that is what i have been doing. Started my new life at 30 and discovered how life is beautiful and i am full of hope. New jobs means i am also doing stupid things but i know where i wanto to be and i work hard to achive it.
Exactly! If you have a plan, you are officially a Man with a Plan! Goodluck champs
Suffered depression my whole life
When I was 25, I was running the streets partying, bar hopping and clubbing. I wasn't trying to hear nothing about God, Goals & Healthy Relationships. I was immature and wasting my youth away because I wanted to and I didn't care about life at all compared to now because I care about my health. Now in my mid-30's, I'm back on track with my life in general. If I can go back in time, I would undo alot of the poor choices that I made when I was a young man. 💯 I'm not a victim nor looking for sympathy, I'm owning up to myself and my shortcomings. 💪🏽😎
Trying to achieve that mind set young
What do you want to undo
@@tanay1343 I had to undo that toxic mindset of choosing the streets before my life in general. 💯
@@Mrfacts00000 Everyone has their time to learn. So don't worry, just take your time to self reflect, learn from your past and grow. 💯
May Allah bless you. I would suggest you to look into Islam if you haven't already. Here is a verse from the Qur'an: وَوَجَدَكَ ضَالًّا فَهَدَىٰ
"And He found you lost and guided you."
I thought I was depressed for years but I was just living in a cycle that was always going to make me depressed, addicted to weed, gambling and bad food, you start looking after yourself physically and what you eat and you will be able to tackle the next steps in terms of focusing on a career because you’ve got the other stuff together so can focus solely on your future, 28 and only got it together in the last 2 years, never been better now, the early you start the more you’ll thank yourself later, trust me.
That's what people think of me. I'm 31, no job, can't drive, live alone, no friends or family.
I'm poorly, have an illness called ulcerative colitis and have surgery every few months. I'm never well long enough to learn anything as I'm always in hospital for 2/3/4 months at a time. Get home, try heal, get ill again. I'm so stuck I don't know what to do. I'm all alone and living in agony, boredom, and with a desire to achieve more. My body isn't letting me. I have open wounds as I type this that won't heal, they've been open for 6 months. Trapped in bed just bleeding away waiting for the next hospital trip.
What is your biggest regret
I'm so sorry for you.❤ You can make small changes out from bed everyday. First: Try Anthony Williams (Medical Medium) food for your ulcerative colitis. Secondly: Try to make some money online, since you can lie in bed and work. Learn to code, learn social media (Social Media Manager), learn to be a virtual assistant. Thirdly: Read books, Repeat this and believe in you!❤
@tanay1343 My biggest regret is.....taking love for granted and not doing better to keep it.
@@rufusistmeineinundal Right coding!
what language did you learn first?
@@weeeeee374 taking love for granted is what I'm doing now....I need to change!
This is EXTREMELY painful to watch, it's so true!
Brutal honesty always works lol! 😭🤷🏽♀️
this dude is jobless and become a mentor at age 55 thanks to golden age of media make the old loser shine
No it’s not. It’s actually boomer cuckservative no creativity talking
Not really
I wanted to hear more but the video cuts off.
Started working at Walmart at 18 and became a manager at 19 then a team lead at 21-25 and currently a forklift driver at 27!!
@@soundbar-l6v $22.50
Go for store manager. They said they will start paying 400k soon
I was actually in the same trajectory as you. Work at Walmart at age 23, team lead at age 26. But left Walmart for a government job at age 27. Sometimes I wonder if I should stay at Walmart or not. But the job I have now is good
@cjc4426 The job I have pays a dollar more then I was as a teamlead, getting away from a toxic company is the best decision we both have ever made!
@@soundbar-l6v 22.50
Yeah go on put pressure in yourselves everyone has there own pace i am broke when i was 20-35 noe in 37 but i have my construxtion company 7 cars a house and 10 lots😊
I tell you what most think at this age group
1. Finishing college if they havent done so
2. Buying a first house
3. Getting a JOB, and not staying at a lowercase "job"
4. Getting married and starting a family the right way.
something normal no?
how it feels like being unemployed, ungraduate at 24. There is no achievement no direction but hey its my responsibility to get into stable life by 35
I was employed at 24 then got fired from that job 5 months after my 25th birthday and it took me another 5 months to get a new job. Don’t feel bad for being unemployed at 24 you will get a job again.
Also I was a graduate of my certificate program at 24 but not my degree program and news flash I’m still not done with the degree program at where I sit now at 30.
@@Mayank_Bais hey update I’m 31 now and decided maybe I’m good with the education I have, plus I’ve been working for a while on starting a business now. I’m looking for a pathway to a more stable life.
I graduated at 27 years old and now i got a job. Not a rich man, but i make enough to get a car and a place with roomies that get along pretty well. Started to save so I can one day get married and build a family.
Never give up bro you got this. We got this. Just take a small step at a time.
@@sgisc2887 hopefully you keep that job so you can afford car shit. Cars are pricey.
All my time at Uni I stressed out about this, especially because it took me waaay longer to finish than expected. Now at 27 I started my job and it feels like all the time was worth it and I made a huge leap that I only noticed now. Life is still a struggle but the growth is real and it goes on and on.
I am 28 now, and I can relate this video very well As i am in my late 20s now I am still figuring out myself with my life. I had thought that by 25 I would have a stable job and have a long rerm relationship but even now also i am not having both. I realize that there is no such thing as perfect age to settle down in career and have a stable relationship. Each and everyones journey is different. The only difference which I feel now unlike when I was 22 is that I have become more mature and now I view things at a different angle as compared to before. Now I am more choosy about the people with whom I vibe and with certain choices I make
I am 22 😢it means what I am interested now will disappear at 28 as I want eating I want adventures I want travel beautiful places but financially not able but I am anticipating to be well at 28 but no need as I would change my interest like you
@@GAMEISON-CR7 Never let age stop you from achieving what u want and what you wish to do. Yes in 20s we generally wish to explore life as much as possible as we have less responsibilities but that should never stop no matter whether u cross 30, 40 or even more. Age is just a number to feel young and energetic.
It's true that ages 20-24 are 'clueless ages'. I experience this first hand, It's like you're completely blind in a cave, you gotta trust your instincts to get out of the cave to achieve your goals and freedom
I threw a decade of my life away to drugs (16-26). At 26 I got clean off of everything and over the past year have worked so hard to make up for lost time. I’ll be 27 in two months and I’m still going, still working hard to make up for lost time. I have this goal to be where I need to be, where I should be by 30. It does feel like a sacrifice, but I wish I’d made it sooner.
omg same drugs amd corn I even had a Psychosis ..etc I stooped decided to stop at the firat part of my 26 which is the first 6 months now Iam clean for around 4-5 months And god I used to be crazy and could not know it back then becouse of the drugs Iam clean and now I know my direction in life ❤
This made me feel sadder but it’s what I needed to hear
It's not too late ❤️ I don't know what your situation is, but really honing in on what you want to change and making habits to support it have been helpful for me. If you mess up one day, it's okay, just try again tomorrow. Remember that you are more than what you are struggling with.
My twenties and early thirties I was either locked up or strung out on drugs. I am now 38 and I am sober but, damn.. I wasted my life
Everyone's got time behind them that they can't go back to. Doesn't mean it's wasted if all that fight made you as strong as you are today.
You already won a massive fight getting sober. That's an experience that can help inspire others, it has value, strength and hope in it.
Things take as long as they do
Youre alive, its a miracle, think how much peopke like you couldnt have your luck?
I feel like an old infant. 34 years old I’m a bartender. I make great money but I don’t see me doing this n my forties. Just had a baby which I’m so proud of. But god help me find my way cuz I feel so behind.
Dude you are doing great. Bartenders are awesome and tkmeless. Also You can do any job in the world. Best part is you can start over at any time any age. Life is not supposed to keep going upwards. Its full of ups and downs. We live we fail we learn we try new things. You make a living and your kid is blessed more than the majority of the world. Keep going and good luck with ur new fanily.
If you are doing well don’t worry about it, you are doing everything correctly.
Behind on what
You do know that the finish line is death for all of us
You said you make great money so I don’t see what’s wrong? bar tender is a really cool job tbh
@@marvin60000maybe it is not fulfilling that’s what he meant
Maybe the worst curse parents can lay on a child to say he is full of potential.
i'm 22 and i am stressing, i know it's a young age but if you want to make your life good then better start now
I'm 28 almost 29.
Dude believe me,
_ Have fun.
_ Go to the gym 4x a week.
_ Find a nice supportive girlfriend.
_ Build your professional network.
_ Invest in the stock market immediately to build your retirement.
_ Travel the world.
Do this and you will be on the top of the world.
All the best.
@@flom1951I'm 21, bro. And I know I'm just being negative or exaggerated, but sometimes I feel like the time is running through my fingers. It's overwhelming
@@jorgecastrejon469 I feel you
@@jorgecastrejon469get of social media and TikTok. You feel like this because of outside influence. If you didn’t have TikTok or social media your thoughts would be very different
It’s over dude. Just LDAR and no stress
at 20 I made a promise to myself that at 30 i will have the knoweldge and the skills to be stable for my whole life , i invest time in getting financial knowledge, getting social skills that arent just partying, and being grounded in my faith,improving my daily routine to get as much health benefits as possible like managing sleep quality,food quality,managing my A.D.D etc...
People forget that it's not just the age; your body is physically changing your energy in your 30s, which is not the same in your early 20s. You'll deal with all the consequences of your bad choices in your 20s.
that last line is pretty heavy to me personally
Just turned 26 and still jobless, fucked up😢
Going to be 26 in few days. And i secured a govt job and then after 3months I resigned and again I've become jobless.
@AMBITIOUS001 why bro, what happened?,
@@vishnuhari023 toxic work environment. Unsupportive seniors. So, yeah make peace where you're right now. Because you never know what' on the other side of the prism. Enjoy the process. Btw are you preparing for some competitive exams?
Ownership of your life, responsibility, struggle will make you tough ❤ be strong
Watching this makes me lose the last bit of confidence I have as a 27 year old still in college. I made bad decisions, but I am trying hard. Stop judging me!
Lots of people MUCH older then you who made h7ge life and career changes and flourished. Never forget that.
For christ sake a man by the name of Albert Woodfox spent 43 years in solitary confinement for a murder he did not commit in the worst prison in the U.S and spenr his time helping fellow inmates and fighting for civil liberties and came out of prison as an old man looking forward to a future.
All YOU have to do is achieve something fractional of what he did to make a half decent life for yourself!
I’m not judging, I wish you good luck. Please be kind to yourself, you are going through some shit and deserve compassion.
KOKO. Keep on Keeping On. I retrained through online college aged 46. I now have a job and a more stable future. I wish i was 27 again with those options available to me.
Relax. You're 27 back in education. I went back age 31 and turned things around.
Same
I’m 23 (24 in December) and I feel so lost now, I had to quit my job because I couldn’t stand working with a S3xual harasser, many girls quit because of him and we’ve reported him plenty of times but he has my boss wrapped around his finger, I wouldn’t be surprised if she had a crush on him considering how she invites him to her home even though she literally has a husband. I’m looking for a new job but it’s very difficult to find one, It just feels like everything is over
It looks like your boss has something with that sexual harasser? Anyways I think local people have more job opportunities than foreigner. I am a 24 year old international student. I am still struggling to settle down in the country.
That's f'ed up. Hope you find a better situation in life
I feel you random person across the world , I am 23 24 in April and I am lost , we got to keep trying I don’t know bout you but me personally I always get held back by bad habits so working on that
Document everything. Whatever you remember try to get dates and times. Save about 3-4 months worth of shit and go sue. Even throw in some recordings and shit…then go see a lawyer. Even though you quit, still see if you can write some shit down or instead…get others to record for you while they’re still there…then throw your documents in. That’s the best thing I can think of.
I am 31, I can feel this
I’m 25 and been working a dead end job in my town that I’ve never left. I’m trying to decide between choosing a career and getting serious or traveling around doing odd jobs. I think for most people that would be an easy decision but I feel the need to live an adventurous life, I just worry it might be too late now.
"I'm 25, and at this age, I've come to realize the meaning of 'my life.' I have a goal. I wake up in the morning, make my bed, and regain my motivation, in part thanks to you, Dr. ❤️"
I’m becoming this. I can’t seem to find the damn brakes to this roller coaster.
Do the future authoring exercise at selfauthoring.com
i feel like i should be acting like 30 year at 19. im scared to not get to where i want in life but i’m still young and want to live
You should
From a recent graduate aged 25, I advice you to do so. You might thank yourself later.
Ask yourself what you're doing with your time, and see if you're spending your time optimally. If not, work on moving in that direction.
Thats because Society believes that you have to figure out your Life in your 20s and 30 is too late. These People are usually average People with average Goals that can be achieved in 20s.
I'm 34 and just as clueless as 24
It’s over for you bro
@@havoxmedia No it’s not. It’s only over for him if he allows what you just said to sink in. You can come up at any age. You’re not helping but spreading more negativity, fear and doubt. This is why people fail. We put limitations on others when we haven’t even stepped a mile in their shoes. Some people bloom later in life but as long as they get there that’s all that matters. Lift him up and encourage him that as long as he’s breathing he has another chance.
It’s not over for you. It’s only over when YOU say it’s over. Don’t let white noise drag you down. If no one’s encouraging you or tryna lift you up, they’re just white noise. I don’t care what anyone says, 34 is still YOUNG. 20’s and 30’s is still young in my opinion, 40’s can make you feel young if you take good care of your body. You’re 34…so the hell what. Work to become the exception. You got this! Ignore all the bullshit and get busy. You’ll make it.
@@havoxmediathat is so negative smh
It’s over for u but good thing I’m 23 in the best shape I’m also will be making some money online it’s good thing I’m doing good
I’m 30 and I somewhat relate to this video in the way that I haven’t 100% discovered a good career path but I’ve definitely got it narrowed down to: aviation, coffee, or IT. So I hope the fact that I have my options narrowed down makes me not look like an old infant. Also the fact that I don’t go out partying every night and blowing all my earnings like I did when I was younger. Don’t get me wrong, I still occasionally go out for beers and alcohol. I just don’t go every single night.
This is me now. 25. Almost 26. Part-time retail the past couple of years, lost. But recently accepted into a full-time chemical job. I dont know if it's something i see myself still doing at 30, but it's a proper job with decent pay. The sacrifice here would be doing a tougher job but im being more of a competent adult by doing so.
30 is still considered young tho the maturity of a 30 year old isn’t that far apart from a 25 or 27 year old
30 is certainly not young bud. But certainly not old. Don't comfort yourself lil broski
A lot of life lessons and growth between 25 and 30...it's a very crucial time gap and most people will have grown alot during those years.
@@OsmarGonzalez-i7lIts most about the gap 25-30, 30 is just a number after 29, not a final sentence.
@@TigerPaint92Exactly, its about the gap, not a specific number.
Im 28 but i look younger (at least people say that), i try not to think about it too much. Age is a number, and aging is different for everybody. It can be troublesome to take life too seriously, and end up making you age faster
It’s absurd that one human beings’ opinion has the power to change the perspective of how people view themselves. Everyone’s path is unique and different. Success is Relative. Bottom line.
Yea, everyone’s path is different but there are still truths to life, something this world had forgotten about, such as what Kermit is saying in the video. The fact that people have different life experiences does not mean that being irresponsible and an idiot is ever a good thing.
Agreed
In reality success is relative but from a societal perspective, there are unspoken truths most of us abide by which, if you don't want to be a societal outcast, you have to follow.
What Peterson is saying here is definitely one of those truths.
It’s never too late to reset but it does get harder as you age
Mheen am 27, from Nairobi Kenya, planning to launch my tech startup by the end of this month. I have been getting myself in shape ever since I was 22 spiritually, mentally, physically, cognitively but I still feel I haven't achieved much, men it's hard it's really hard battling your own mind, I don't regret anything at all because I haven't wasted the time but men sometimes I still feel like I haven't achieved anything, had a breakup and I just got a rejection from my crush, I don't know men it's soul crushing and the thing is I just can't give up I can't see any other way. It's hard to sustain a relationship now especially with the startup but men the loneliness it's crazy
True. Decided to get back into community college at 31. Im surrounded by kids and baby faced girls. Dating seems almost impossible
If your under 30 you need to listen to this man hes a national treasure. I wished l heard this when l was young.
He'd label me as an old infant but the one thing I take pride in is treating others around me with dignity and respect.
I feel like this type of opinion is meant to get us old infants in the work force to make our masters money....
It doesn't matter how I live my life as long as I have a love and respect for myself and for others
I dont have a problem with work...but employment.
Nobody pays anything for me i dont use anyone.
Hes a right-wing thinker, what do you think? 😂
Ayy, I made it in the bodcast haha. Can't wait for the fight day
27 and I'm still an idiot.....humbly.
Very true
yeah I still live with my mom
I am 25 today too 😭😭
I'm 26 this week.
Really don't like getting nearer to 30 lol
@@mllermusic3979just turned 30 let me tell you the change in body happens like in a snap I thought the change will be slowly good that I invested in my health
@@mllermusic3979oh I can confirm this 😅
Time to do smth, same here
25 here I feel the same
People need to understand that they have to grow up before everyone else does and leaves them behind
im 25, just got my masters and i can’t shake the feeling of being behind all my peers. thank god for jordan peterson
Talking about a masters over here you’re not behind shit dude you’re ahead of 70% of the country🤣 I can’t even afford community college lol
Age between 25-27 is a decision making
More like 25-30…to me I’m of the belief that they are the most important 5 years of your life
In my life I have realised that age dont mean a thing ; you can be broke and clueless at 30 ; and a year later have everything figured out ; or have everything figured out at 30 and lose everything at 31 and go on to become homeless; we are temporary custodians in this world material possessions shouldn't define us
Yeah. Things in life are caothic. It's not a straight line
Beautiful and so true.
I'm 17 and worried about my future. Life hasn't really begun for me yet
Professor Jewrdan Peterson is great.
I am 21 just had a break up and failed at engineering feeling lost and miserable
I want to rise and take responsibility but I am so confused
Im 25 and im literally having a mid life crisis almost every single day i wake up. I make $1200 a day I own my own restaurant have a 6 pack but im still not satisfied at all because theres ppl my age doing better living a better lifestyle than me. Im ashamed im not good enough..
25 i got hm 8 years experience in my field pays went up about a dollar a year hopefully i bag this position in higher management by 26
you work in dead end job
@@criticalthinker-ys7vt alota broke mfs always have something to say lol it blows my mind
This is where I have to disagree with Jordan here. First off 25 and 30 are still in the same age group pretty much. You see a lot of age groupings put 25-34 as one age group.
Secondly age does not equate to life stage. Everyone develops differently and there is no blueprint for where you should be at 25 vs 30 or any age for that matter.
Thirdly, early 30s by most people's definition is still a young adult. Whenever you see a young adult age range, it typically goes up to 34/35. Sometimes 39. Sure it sometimes only goes up to 24/25. But going by that definition, 25 would not exactly be "young adulthood" either. So really 25 and 30 are basically around the same range.
Finally, last time I checked, 25 to 30 was 5 years, not 10 years.
If you ain't got it by 30 then you're in trouble pimp.
@@AFEEF93 Tell me you’re mentally deficient without telling me you’re mentally deficient.
@@obvioushieidude7668 oh I'll show you mentally deficient. Wait till you see my Lego set!
@@AFEEF93nah fam you nuts
I'm still in my 20's although late 20's but i can tell you, No your wrong, That is a huge misconception and scientific studies show we barely stop devoloping at age 30 and 45 is entering middle age, and , 30's is the time of confidence and getting serious, Now if you said 45 then sure you might have a point, but MANY people became successful in life AFTER 30 , some of the biggest company owners we know today were not in their 20's @@AFEEF93
You don't get to choose the sacrifice. Sometimes, it just isn't in the cards for you to succeed at anything.
If it’s real and the sacrifice is big enough it’s possible
I have no job till now. I am 29 yrs old. So succesfully entered in life of darkness. So I will be dark soon. All credits goes to my mad decisions.😂😂😂😂😂😂
Hey there, I’m the same as you at 29. Never had a job and my mental wealth was an absolute joke since I was a child, the idea of driving a car fills me with dread and anxiety. I’m starting volunteer work soon with a homeless charity and I’m gonna be doing that until college courses start back up again here next year to try understand work ethic and force myself to have a normal sleep cycle. I’m currently doing a 3 month component module course online to get a minor award which will give me 15 credits towards achieving a major in college. My first driving lesson will be in a few days and I feel like I’m burning when I think about it but I’ll tell you what man.. I’d rather die in a car wreck than allow my life to continue being one. It’s gonna be hard for us but we have to try. No matter what we have to try.
@@thespiderfrommars2840Same age, ending that engienering degree... Man i Hope it's worth all that s...t
@@thespiderfrommars2840i needed a DECADE for a degree because of f..g depression
Ok listen dawg. Is really not that bad . Let’s say your parents own a house . Eventually will be your house and you’re a house owner. You rent it. I lost my family at 17 I rent the house and live with friends. Work here and there just to know people . I have been working for people or in my own business. All this bullshit about old infants are just crap. Fearmongoring gets views and attention
@@Psicologia_InterdisciplinariaPeterson is a right-wing modism like Shapiro was before became the joke he is today, a grown up man who likes to fight kids in college, but runs when against other adults.
All good points.
im 20 and genuinely feel so behind even though on paper I seem to have things figured out
He looks good here must be 20yrs ago.Hes so blunt its so funny.
So I use to work at a hospital at 25 as a technician and when your 25 the doctors see you ok your a kid like he said I left that job position at 30
Never to return cause now ppl who have their doctor degrees see you as dumb. “Your 30!” Is all I got I’m in school rn tryin to get my degree and work on my own and I’m happy he is 100% right ppl start to perceive you as you have don’t nothing even tho you know you have
25 and 30 are in the same age group.
@@obvioushieidude7668yeah but at 25 you’re seen as a young dumb kid, at 30 you’re more likely to be seen as just a loser if your life is a mess
I’m 23 and it’s all over
This is all completely horrifying for me as i inch closer to 30 (25 at the moment)
I feel you. Also 25 no job no experience etcetera etcetera
same #
Don’t listen to economically conservative scammers. Just ldar
🌠AT LEAST YOU GET TO CHOOSE IT🌠
24. Job search is hopeless and I think I have above average accolades. Hope I can make it 30.
Do you choose your sacrifice though or does life hand it to you, you dont always choose the cards you get... play the cards youve been dealt and thank God everyday for what you have ❤
Im 25 now and iam afraid to death for my 30
Bro dont Say that you need to be afraid from thé next day to death
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
25 has been rough man
This phenomenon is slowly getting common even in as young of guys as me being 18 years and 7 months old.😐
the sacrifice is my life at a job i do to have a home and some comforts
This is too deep to be a short we need the full clip
Proud old infant of 32 here.
True, but it’s never to late to start everyone’s development and timeline is different.
I’m 28 it’s super late now
@AshleyFireGold thanks for sharing. I guess I’m just to engrossed with social media feeding me perfection.
He doesnt say you cant make it at 30, you can. Dont misunderstand him. You can absolutely make it at 30, but guess what! You'll have to work with 20 year olds beside you. That's the point of his argument. And you dont want to be that person. I am one of those old infants out there...unfortunately! You can work yeah, sure! But nobody wants you! No one is thrilled about you. And when you do a mistake, well, it's not enough, you'll sure hear something like "30 and still doesnt know how to do well".
I’m 22 stressed out, because i want success so bad.
I accept that
Actually I don't really care what people think at this point. If I'm an old infant it's not because I haven't tried. Not everyone's life is the same, some people face obstacles that maybe others don't have
24 here also thinking about changing careers from architecture
Ím 27. Almost an old infant 😢
As a real success personality my advice is seriously do not be useless at 30 above! Otherwise you are going to be regret !
Me at 31 still trying to figure out life 🥲
Looking at this video while I’m 21, I’m scared to grow old
I’m trying Jordan, I’m trying! I give up….
please share the link to full video.
Im 30 and still dont have anything figured out
I planned milestones in my 20s. So
Gradute college ✅
Start my career ✅
Have a social life & travel ❎ (covid)
Get married ✅
Have child/children ❎
Divorced ✅
Got promotions ✅
Plan for my 30s - Raising kids & family ❎
Hence, No plans ✅
He’s right my sacrifice is going to be my life I don’t know if I want to live anymore
That’s why 30+ year old making the same dumb decisions they made in their twenties makes me roll my eyes. It’s especially bad when they say I was young and dumb but they were 32 when they made the dumb decision.
How old are you? I am sure you are less than 30s
@@salhimoussa4930 How are you sure I’m less than 30??? That’s a very weird assumption. I’m 31. How old are you?