All of these stories are similar where a man is upset about something and EVERYBODY tells him it's no big deal and he's overreacting. Men get into relationships where they aren't entitled to feelings.
What bothers me even more is these men all 2nd guess everything they do, everything they say, take blame for what others do etc. It's like, bro, say what u gotta say, do what u gotta do, and stop apologizing for it. Stop being so easily gaslit
@@timmy1tap678 I think one of the major problems is that people think that men should suck it up , and accept anything from women. That they shouldforgive women and suck it up,that's frigging ridiculous.
@tweetsypeasy Agree. Nowadays, anytime a guy has any boundaries, or speaks up, he's gonna be called an a$$hole, controlling, insecure etc etc. I learned a long time ago not to care. It's so freeing, I wish more guys understood this
The one lesson every man needs to learn is if the ex re-enters the picture, BAIL. You don’t need more investigation. You don’t need more conversation. You already know everything you need to know. You don’t need to fight or plead for anything. He’s only back in the picture because she’s letting him back in the picture. She’s only letting him back in the picture because she wants him back in the picture. The end result is the same. Either you leave that mess with your self-respect and the W or you stay for the inevitable L.
so glad 2nd story op is divorcing that horrible man. If a home birth is so important to him, that should have been specified early on, not after she's already pregnant.
Why did you ring 911 on the day of your delivery to take you to the hospital or get a friend to take you to the hospital, the last option is call the Police. You husband and mother are not doctors .So let it not happen again .Probably stay with your mother or a friend till after your delivery.
So I was curious what a doula means: Doula: A non-medical professional who provides physical and emotional support to a person going through a health-related experience, such as childbirth, miscarriage, or dying. The word doula comes from the Greek word doulē, which means "female helper" or "maidservant". Research suggests that having a doula can lead to shorter labor, fewer epidurals, and fewer C-sections.
I find it funny that a husband is sooooo bad and his behavior is sooooo bad, but once the word divorce comes up, suddenly the wife will "fix it" and "talk things out".
Same goes for wives too. Cheating left, right and center and then suddenly they become an angel the moment divorce comes up "I don't know how it happened!" 😂 I will never understand how these men and women pull cheating off without contemplating the consequences. Who on earth would put up with cheating unless they are a door mat.
I always jokingly say that meeting/contacting anyone that you can't don't tell your partner about is ground-level cheating, so you might as well have slept w/them lol. "I didn't tell you because of how you'd react." Sooooooo.......it mattered more to "meet" him than think of your man's comfortability? Didn't even need the phone reveal; the party fiasco killed enough trust & dismissed enough feelings to kill the marriage.
I wouldn't take the lawyers advice about charging high legal fees then saying they will give it back... Money that's already in your hand is hard to give up there's too many cases about this stuff
The only reasonable explanation to ever have contact or interaction with an ex is if a child is a part of the equation. Anything else not acceptable. I don’t care if you knew them since the moment they were born you were around each other for years or decades it doesn’t matter. You had feelings for them. You possibly were intimate with them. In OP’s case they were engaged so they were in love with each other at one point (probably still). But all this to say an ex is an ex. They’re the past they should stay that way. It was only made worse that she was hiding it. Still bad even if she was telling him because that’s just unacceptable to have any interaction with an ex. Hope OP finds someone that will respect and love and honor him.
I strenuosly dislike it when they say you will meet a trustworthy women. Nope. There are none left. Fine by me. My life is so much better without them.
Judging by how he's talking about the court systems, I'm almost positive he's in America. This is one of the only countries on the planet where the spouse that's in a lower financial bracket than their significant other, automatically has an advantage over the other. Especially if that person is a female. And in most of those states, the spouse can cheat on their significant other and not be penalized for it. The way the courts favor women over men and most of these situations, is completely disgusting. One person should not favor the other during divorce or in family courts during child support proceedings. Someone's gender should not be a determining factor of anything. As far as story number two is concerned, there's no other alternative besides divorcing him. No woman should be forced into any situation that she does not want to be in. I don't even like my wife complaining about having a sore throat and will immediately tell her she needs to go to the doctor. This dude allowed his wife to almost die from going through 3 days of labor for his own selfish needs. I'm almost positive that there's a law against this and she could actually Go after him in the courts for pain and suffering. If she's a smart woman, she definitely will. Especially because that could be used in the family courts to keep him from having any rights to that child. Usually I'm all about fathers having their rights, but clearly this dude and his family need to be kept as far away from that child as possible. There's absolutely no excusing his behavior and the fact that the doula ignored the mother when she's supposed to be there for the mother, she should be going after her as well. She should be handing out lawsuits like Oprah Winfrey was handing out cars. You get a lawsuit. You get a lawsuit. Everybody gets a lawsuit!
In the second story' the mother should have the right to have the place of birth. It wud be better in the hospital to avoid complications and for the far better medical environment there.
Op is a menchild. Were there any explicit messages? From what I heard no. Meeting with an ex sure seems weird at first, but it depends whether or not they have been friends before and if the relationship ended on good terms. She should’ve talked to op about inviting him to the birthday before hand, but getting a divorce because of that crap is just unnecessary. Imo Op is in the wrong.
There was another post about a OP whose girlfriend brought her ex boyfriend over at OPs place and lied saying it was a friend. The worst part of it was that OP told the ex to leave and the ex looked at the girlfriend and asked do you want me to leave? The girlfriend hesitated and only told him to leave because it look like OP wanted to throw him out. Also, wouldn't you be suspicious that your SO is meeting up with their ex and lying saying they are going out with their girlfriends?
@@rogueshark23 That was 1 of the best. His pops laid some knowledge on him; told him she made her choice when she jumped to the friend's defense because only a woman in love does that for a man &, after OP kicked her out for a break, "Where do you think she went afterwards?"
All of these stories are similar where a man is upset about something and EVERYBODY tells him it's no big deal and he's overreacting. Men get into relationships where they aren't entitled to feelings.
It’s why we don’t share. No one cares.
@@thatoneguy9816 Exactly
What bothers me even more is these men all 2nd guess everything they do, everything they say, take blame for what others do etc. It's like, bro, say what u gotta say, do what u gotta do, and stop apologizing for it. Stop being so easily gaslit
@@timmy1tap678 I think one of the major problems is that people think that men should suck it up , and accept anything from women.
That they shouldforgive women and suck it up,that's frigging ridiculous.
@tweetsypeasy Agree. Nowadays, anytime a guy has any boundaries, or speaks up, he's gonna be called an a$$hole, controlling, insecure etc etc. I learned a long time ago not to care. It's so freeing, I wish more guys understood this
"You're jealous and controlling." Well, a divorce WOULD fix that problem for her.
Why on earth would you keep your ex in your life. They are ex for a reason. She's clearly not over her ex.
The one lesson every man needs to learn is if the ex re-enters the picture, BAIL.
You don’t need more investigation. You don’t need more conversation. You already know everything you need to know. You don’t need to fight or plead for anything.
He’s only back in the picture because she’s letting him back in the picture.
She’s only letting him back in the picture because she wants him back in the picture.
The end result is the same. Either you leave that mess with your self-respect and the W or you stay for the inevitable L.
so glad 2nd story op is divorcing that horrible man. If a home birth is so important to him, that should have been specified early on, not after she's already pregnant.
Never tolerate disrespect
Why did you ring 911 on the day of your delivery to take you to the hospital or get a friend to take you to the hospital, the last option is call the Police. You husband and mother are not doctors .So let it not happen again .Probably stay with your mother or a friend till after your delivery.
So I was curious what a doula means:
Doula: A non-medical professional who provides physical and emotional support to a person going through a health-related experience, such as childbirth, miscarriage, or dying. The word doula comes from the Greek word doulē, which means "female helper" or "maidservant". Research suggests that having a doula can lead to shorter labor, fewer epidurals, and fewer C-sections.
This story is sad
French
So am I the only one creeped out by the sister?
She's supporting him physically)) Sounds like they became lovers.
She's just being supportive 😊
9:23 WHATTTTTT!!!!!!
Ha, yes. Sounds like they became lovers))
I find it funny that a husband is sooooo bad and his behavior is sooooo bad, but once the word divorce comes up, suddenly the wife will "fix it" and "talk things out".
Same goes for wives too. Cheating left, right and center and then suddenly they become an angel the moment divorce comes up "I don't know how it happened!" 😂
I will never understand how these men and women pull cheating off without contemplating the consequences. Who on earth would put up with cheating unless they are a door mat.
Absolutely divorce her. She's cheating
"We, we, we,"
It's amazing how marriage is a "we" thing or a "him" thing when she nuked the marriage.
I always jokingly say that meeting/contacting anyone that you can't don't tell your partner about is ground-level cheating, so you might as well have slept w/them lol.
"I didn't tell you because of how you'd react."
Sooooooo.......it mattered more to "meet" him than think of your man's comfortability? Didn't even need the phone reveal; the party fiasco killed enough trust & dismissed enough feelings to kill the marriage.
I wouldn't take the lawyers advice about charging high legal fees then saying they will give it back...
Money that's already in your hand is hard to give up there's too many cases about this stuff
So lucky to have a sister like that.
@@MrPMAntunes No kidding and even offering to set him up with one of her friends.
I wish my sister was like that.
...you think this is real?
...you think this is real?
Of course he doesn't trust her. She's not trustworthy.
The only reasonable explanation to ever have contact or interaction with an ex is if a child is a part of the equation. Anything else not acceptable. I don’t care if you knew them since the moment they were born you were around each other for years or decades it doesn’t matter. You had feelings for them. You possibly were intimate with them. In OP’s case they were engaged so they were in love with each other at one point (probably still). But all this to say an ex is an ex. They’re the past they should stay that way. It was only made worse that she was hiding it. Still bad even if she was telling him because that’s just unacceptable to have any interaction with an ex. Hope OP finds someone that will respect and love and honor him.
I strenuosly dislike it when they say you will meet a trustworthy women. Nope. There are none left. Fine by me. My life is so much better without them.
Judging by how he's talking about the court systems, I'm almost positive he's in America. This is one of the only countries on the planet where the spouse that's in a lower financial bracket than their significant other, automatically has an advantage over the other. Especially if that person is a female. And in most of those states, the spouse can cheat on their significant other and not be penalized for it. The way the courts favor women over men and most of these situations, is completely disgusting. One person should not favor the other during divorce or in family courts during child support proceedings. Someone's gender should not be a determining factor of anything.
As far as story number two is concerned, there's no other alternative besides divorcing him. No woman should be forced into any situation that she does not want to be in. I don't even like my wife complaining about having a sore throat and will immediately tell her she needs to go to the doctor. This dude allowed his wife to almost die from going through 3 days of labor for his own selfish needs. I'm almost positive that there's a law against this and she could actually Go after him in the courts for pain and suffering. If she's a smart woman, she definitely will. Especially because that could be used in the family courts to keep him from having any rights to that child.
Usually I'm all about fathers having their rights, but clearly this dude and his family need to be kept as far away from that child as possible. There's absolutely no excusing his behavior and the fact that the doula ignored the mother when she's supposed to be there for the mother, she should be going after her as well. She should be handing out lawsuits like Oprah Winfrey was handing out cars.
You get a lawsuit. You get a lawsuit. Everybody gets a lawsuit!
Is it just me or does it sound kind of creepy when he said he broke down crying and his sister comforted him by kissing him all over?!
In the second story' the mother should have the right to have the place of birth. It wud be better in the hospital to avoid complications and for the far better medical environment there.
Obviously, written by sister bot.
Don’t go on and on with your stories.
Story 2 she was kidnapped 😂😂
Oh wow, that first main character is so poorly written. And on his special day, no less!
That's some bad phrasing on his sister comforting him unless they have *that* kind of relationship. Holy crap it sounded bad.
English isn't his first language. He mentioned living in a different country.
Op is a menchild. Were there any explicit messages? From what I heard no. Meeting with an ex sure seems weird at first, but it depends whether or not they have been friends before and if the relationship ended on good terms.
She should’ve talked to op about inviting him to the birthday before hand, but getting a divorce because of that crap is just unnecessary.
Imo Op is in the wrong.
There was another post about a OP whose girlfriend brought her ex boyfriend over at OPs place and lied saying it was a friend. The worst part of it was that OP told the ex to leave and the ex looked at the girlfriend and asked do you want me to leave? The girlfriend hesitated and only told him to leave because it look like OP wanted to throw him out. Also, wouldn't you be suspicious that your SO is meeting up with their ex and lying saying they are going out with their girlfriends?
@@rogueshark23 That was 1 of the best. His pops laid some knowledge on him; told him she made her choice when she jumped to the friend's defense because only a woman in love does that for a man &, after OP kicked her out for a break, "Where do you think she went afterwards?"
@@KidReason Yeah pretty much and I highly doubt this OPs STBXW even love and respect him in the first place.