yeah that hit me hard too... My ex also cheated on me and I felt the same. You wanted it to work, you still wanted it to work but you couldn't imagine it working after something like that happening to you.
Tana, and anyone whose been cheated on/mistreated by a relationship partner: Don’t you dare feel embarrassed. Their behavior isn’t a reflection of you...it’s a reflection of their character. Period. PERIOD!
my boyfriend of three years just fessed up to cheating on me throughout the whole relationship. to say i needed this video and the comfort it brought me would be the understatement of the millennium. you’ll get through this, tana. i’ll get through this. i am right there with you and going through the same emotions as you. i love you, sis. now, lets rise. sending you positivity and prayers and love.
Tana has shown over and over how thoughtful and introspective she is. Her intrapersonal smarts are off the charts. This hurts, do your best to keep your head up Tana.
10:42 where Tana said “I expect everyone to hurt me and I feel like I was finally at a place where I believed he wouldn’t” ... that hit me hard. This is what made me cry. You are loved and this is not your fault.
i find it so heart warming that even after tana was cheated on, her main concern of this video was to be a good example to her fans. tana is so so so so strong and the last person this sort of thing should happen to.
"He pretty much wanted all or nothing". That's how narcissists trick you into thinking their intentions are real. It's sad cause I went through the same thing.
Tana I just got cheated on for the first time and instantly came here I need to bounce back and boss up like you did I’m so hurt it’s so painful but I know I will get better and do better
It DOES get better, it’s been about a month or two and I feel completely different from how I did when I posted this comment. It still hurts but it gets easier and you start thinking about it a lot less. It’s one of the worst feelings ever but it will only make you stronger.
All girls get cheated on. Not all get caught. Value yourself and never place stock on what any boy or man thinks of you. Women are the most beautiful and greatest resource in this world. We need you to be strong. To stay strong. Be more selective and play hard to get. Everything hard in life is worth doing, worth having.
*you got cheated on and thats NOT* *ok.* *you got cheated on and thats NOT* *ok.* *you got cheated on and thats NOT* *ok.* *you got cheated on and thats NOT* *ok.*
When she said “i still love him...” “i still want it to work” and he voice cracked... oh honey i felt that.... everyone understands to some degree and im so sorry you’re going through that. We love you tana ❤️
when she cried my heart literally broke, been watching her for years back when she was in her room with the photos on the wall. never seen her like this, not even with tanacon. this is something completely new and raw. i really respect her for showing this side.
paintaeing same, she’s grown so much over the years and to try and go 100% back into a monogamous relationship again only to have it end like this breaks my heart for her
I loved brad but I was worried he’d do something like this. She’s been through so much recently, this is the last thing she needs, a twat like him crushing her down completely
@@anaihuitron1202 Mistake : an action or judgment that is misguided or wrong. "OR wrong". Is the main focus here. It is, by definition, a mistake. It being a choice has no bearing on that. Try not to think with a one track mind.
you lived without brad for over 20 years. and you will continue life. because you were okay before knowing him, and you will be okay after knowing him.
i was in a relationship for over 2 years n i was madly in love with this guy.. n then one day i find myself going to the ER to get stitches bc he hit me. it’s so crazy how people can switch up on u but u jus gotta keep ur head up and surround yourself with good people.
I know this video is old, but one quote I learned from my mom about getting through a breakup or a heartbreak. You didn’t fall in love overnight, and you won’t fall out overnight. Keep your head held high.
my thoughts during this video: 1) hair and skincare goals 2) this is actually a really mature reaction to the shitty situation 3) this sucks so much and you deserve better
sugarydelight right?!? I was amazed. I had to leave her a long comment with some advice because i was so impressed. She finally sees the huge impact she has on young girls and wants to set a good example for them.
Jake didn’t pick her up, he’s a “charismatic” person who knew what words to say to someone when they are down, she fell for him even tho it was all for clout at first and now she’s hurt again. Why is that kind of behaviour being praised
when you are heartbroken and dont fully give yourself to get over that pain, especially being cheated on, and you just jump into someone else to help you fill that void and distract you, you end up looking past a lot of the shitty things that they do. i think she was still heartbroken and jake was who was there when ahe was at her lowest, so she just refused to see every thing that was really going on :(
I was actually surprised by this because he seemed so obsessed with you.... but now looking back it seems more like he was excited to be with someone semi-famous and get clout from being with you. This sucks and you didn't deserve this.
I knew from the beginning that he will make some shit and feel it I didn't like him and I was right to think that, that's sad to think that every person that Tana dated weren't worth it (apart Bella they were so perfect together i was so sad for their break up they were the perfect couple 😭😭)
Cheating is a choice. If he didn’t want to cheat he wouldn’t have. We must have more self control and respect not only for ourselves but for our relationship, our partner.
If you choose to get back with him every single time you look at him you’ll just think about the text... and the lies.... and everything will start adding up when he talks... just be strong. you’re amazing.
This is such a lesson. She wanted to be open with brad but stayed monogamous bc he wanted it and got hurt. She wanted to be monogamous with jake but accepted the fact that he didnt want to and got hurt again. Communicate with the people around you and dont settle for anyone PERIOD
Daniel ASMR actually his career was already starting out before he met her cause of the Justin beiber look alike, and the whole prank of eating a burrito backwards but ya it kinda made him a little more popular
Marcus Pimentel true but either way that in my opinion means he got his fame from someone else it started as a justin beiber lookalike or whatever so that came from him being “someone else” he never really done anything that made “him” famous like him not tana or justin beiber so someone else gave him fame either way
Marcus Pimentel people knew him because he looks like someone else. He was just the ”Justin Bieber Look Alike” before Tana, Tana made people acknowledge him as Brad and not some random look alike
Don't have your happiness depend upon another person at all! Be your ones closest person, the love of your life.. a relationship can give you a lot of positive experiences, but it should be a nice extra - never a mean to complete you - fill emotional voids ect. That is what creates toxicity..
Talisha Bonny that exact phrase from her hit me the hardest because I’ve felt that exact way every time I finally feel like I’m gaining trust in someone to not hurt me they do 💔💔💔💔
Felt the same way . I have such a hard time opening up and when I finally do and try to work on my trust issues it seems like I always get proved right. You can’t trust anyone 😢... that shit hit so close to home .
Marisa Kristina it’s not your relationship, this is very surface level understanding of cheating. Sometimes it’s not that easy and people deserve a second chance.
It's not ok to cheat. No one deserves it. Don't stoop to there level. Your embarrassed? He is the one who cheated, he chose to do that, you didn't. If anything he should be embarrassed with himself. Girl you got this! It happen to me The guy I loved kept telling me how embarrassed I was, at the time I had no idea what he was talking about. Untill recently i found out myself there was someone else. Embarrassed? I'm ashamed of him. I waited a year a fucking year and the last month I finally get ready to see him he shagged someone else. She's had his baby and he recently marryed her so good luck to them.
i come back to this video every single time i go through a breakup since this video was uploaded. this video is the only piece of media i’ve seen that completely and utterly represents the way i feel after every breakup
Chloe Grace yeah definitely! Saying it’s not a choice kinda makes it seem like an excuse. It is both I would say. A choice people make and it a mistake. So sad.
I get what you mean but it’s sort of like... a mistake within a choice, if that even makes sense... cuz when people make those sort of choices, most don’t even know what they’re doing because they’re in a really dark place. So in a way yes it’s a choice cuz one could cope a different way but like... in a way you’re not fully thinking clear...
Thank you for being so vulnerable. I really needed to hear this. I love you so much tana you’re so smart and thoughtful in ways the media never acknowledges
guys who start saying they’re going to marry u two weeks in are not to be trusted 🤦🏼♀️ edit: wow this actually blew up and the queen herself liked it 😭 thx yall
Her and Jake have met and known each other for two years. So she’s been a “Jake Pauler” before their relationship so yeah...she had his merch.. It’s just cute that they turned out dating not too long after.
im going through a breakup right now and immediately came to watch this video, i love you so much tana and i love u no matter what and you always help me find my happy place and make me realize my self-worth🖤🖤
I’ve been cheated on in every relationship I’ve been in, and every time it happens I come back to this video. Thank you for this tana, it helps so many people more than you know
the amount of comments of girls going through similar situations right now is so heartbreaking. nobody deserves to get taken advantage of and i hope ALL OF YOU remember that. never let anyone make you forget your worth/beauty because it happens to the best of us unfortunately, i can assure you it’s not about being “good enough” and it does not mean you’re any less. it just means you deserve MORE. ❤️
Susan Mason it’s okay to feel the way you do, but just remember it’s not gonna last forever. heartbreak is temporary pain and the best revenge is to be great on your own. you have so much beauty and strength that whoever did this to you didn’t deserve. everything happens for a reason, this will only make you stronger. sending u so much love ❤️❤️
@Susan Mason I am so deeply sorry and cannot even imagine how you feel. 10 years is a long time but i hope you find strength to heal. May God bless you and provide you with all you need to survive! If your ex cannot even treat a woman as brilliant as yourself properly he certainly does not deserve your dog. I hope and pray you will get your dog back love! You are so strong for opening up about your feelings! Please, please stay strong and i truly am deeply sorry that someone could hurt you like that but trust me they will get what they deserve. God and i know things WILL get better so i know you will find courage to keep moving. I pray your health gets better and your fiancial situation is resolved. You CAN do this! This relationship will NOT ruin you but strengthen you! SO much love beautiful i hope you stay strong and once again May God Truly Bless You beautiful!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@Susan Mason You are INCREDIBLY COURAGEOUS for coming this far despite your past. I also suffer from anxiety, depression and PTSD and understand how it can be a living hell to go through but can't even begin to imagine exactly how you feel❤ God definitely has a plan for you in this world and i know you will stay long enough to see it ❤ I am so terribly sorry for your loss and may your brother's soul rest in peace❤ I hope you keep your strength and continue to heal and live a very peaceful life because i know your journey isn't over yet but perhaps just beginning ❤❤ I am so sorry that people ignore you but you definitely mean something to someone now or in the near future and i certainly know you have positively impacted my life!❤❤ I understand it must hurt and wish i could take your pain away😭❤ If by lost your bestfriend you mean you both are not friends anymore then you should remember the good times you had together and know that this has happened for a reason and i am sure something truly amazing is coming your way❤❤ Don't listen to trolls because at the end of the day that is all they are -trolls. The fact you are getting therapy shows how much of a brilliantly strong person you are and i know you will recover and heal in your own time and peacefully❤❤❤ May God continue to bless you and keep you strong because i certainly know your here on this earth for a reason❤❤❤ Just know you are never alone and are always being cared for even though it might not seem like it❤❤❤ STAY STRONG BEAUTIFUL!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ This a Bible passage that could possibly help you understand why life is so hard even though this passage may be hard to understand❤❤: John 12:25 - "Anyone who loves their life will lose it, while anyone who hates their life in this world will keep it for eternal life." GOD AND I LOVE YOU PLEASE STAY STRONG❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
I decided to watch this video so I could find inspiration to NOT go back to my ex. I miss him so god damn much but he never changes and there is always someone else. I hope I can be strong. :(
Kahlan Murray Same, my boyfriend lies so much hes was meeting random girls from facebook and sexting them this shit hurts but i still love and care for him but i left, and now i miss him like crazy
@@mizzcrazygal yeah it's been 3 months since I broke up with my ex. I forgot how it felt to not have to worry about "not being good enough". It was so exhausting having to worry about who he was gonna cheat on me with next, because it was inevitable🤦🏻♀️. I'm in suuuuuuch a better head space and I love MYSELF now. I do not miss him anymore lol. Guys who cheat are dumbasses and we don't need em!
I got cheated on too. Nothing physical but emotional cheating and Snapchat, multiple times. It hurts so much and I feel like it’s my fault. I’m trying to realize my self worth because I kept forgiving him and trying to see the best in him. I want to know why he would do me like that even when I all did was love him. I wanted it to work so bad too. Watching u bounce back is inspiring me.
As much as Tana swears, is loud, outgoing and what not, she still has a very good heart for people who are around her. Unfortunately, nobody is like that with her.
Same here because once you've been in that situation and you start to feel stupid for judging girls that give their exes one too many chances...but then it happens to you and before you know it you're contemplating his mistakes, making them ok in your head, and on the verge of taking him back. So this should be a lesson ladies, heal yourselves mentally and emotionally before jumping into relationships. Also, anything can happen to anyone so try no to judge someone's situation. But all love to Tana ❤❤
OMG when you said "god gave me Brad I feel like I needed him and I still feel like I need him" man I felt that to my core 😭. I completely know what that feels like and it hurts so fucking much.
I don't know anything about you, but I stumbled upon this and I'm so glad I did. The fact that you're thinking about how you can be an example for young humans to stick up for themselves when you're hurting is inspiring and so fucking sweet. I already love you.
Girl, you are so amazing. I know it hurts. I've been through it before. You've got this. You deserve so much better. A great person will find you, but until then, live your life, sweetheart. Don't let this get you down. You're going to bounce back. You are so much more than a relationship.
Oh my God I did not know she put them on Apple Music I literally have been trying forever to get her music without having to buy the album you are amazing for posting this
I'm so sorry. I separated from my 15yr relationship last Dec due to being cheated on. It hurts so bad! And causes you to feel stupid because you trusted them. Everyone had to decide this on their own as every relationship & it's break down is different. I'd be asking myself tho, if he was really wanting a monogamous relationship with you (after all he's the one that cheated) or if he was really using that as a control measure in your relationship to gain or exploit the situation. Please consider this question when making your choice to try again or not with him. Stay strong! Xx
those tears are real. tana, you've grown so much these past couple of years, and your mistakes have gifted you compassion. you will come out of this stronger and wiser. sending love!
Brad literally has the word loyalty tattooed on his arm 🙄 LIKE imagine being a cheater with loyalty tattooed on your body. I love you Tana you deserve so much better than someone who would do that to you. ❤️
Idk why I always come back to this relationship. Tana just dropped new lore on Cancelled that Brad jumped out of the car into on coming traffic at cochella, got taken to the mental hospital, and that's how Tana was able to find out Brad was texting other girls. It's wild to watch her fly him out, take him to the Vercace Mansion, give him a lifestyle he's never had and he basically thought he will just get another bitch. I feel like he had to be thinking this won't be the last time he'll be living it up like this, and he's just going to be out in L.A. now. He fumbled the bag 😂 Like if you were just there to use her, you could have at least not been texting other bitches. Just so clear what kind of guy he is. He thought he deserved to be in these circles, living this kind of life style. Tana has built an empire off of sharing her life, being relatable, being that girly bestie type of energy, and I hate seeing over the years her fall into relationships with LECHESSSS! FAME SUCKER! omg like get a life!!! But this was 20, young relationships often come with bullshit. I'm just happy to see Tana in a new, happy relationship, more mature, and he's not trying to become and influencer. I'm watching these old vloggs and I'm like Tana!!! your love is in HAWaIIIIiiiiii!!!
i just watched this video, and about a month ago i was in the exact same state that you are in this video. you're right it will be okay. i lost myself in a man that i was deeply in love with, and he changed me extremely. i lost so many friends because of him, i changed myself almost entirely for him because that's what he wanted. and im finally at the point to where im almost over it. thank you, i needed to see this a lot sooner than i did, but everything happens for a reason and i will stand be that until the day i die. some people are chapters in your life, and the real ones are characters that are with you throughout the whole story. I love you so much tana, i've been watching your videos since i was about 14 and im now 19. ik you don't know me, but i will be here for you no matter what. im a great shoulder to cry on and listener, and we could even smoke together (honestly that's on my bucket list so i would looooove that lol) if you ever wanna talk just look me up on insta. again thank you and i love you so much.
I’m so frustrated that he was so dead set on a monogamous relationship and then cheated. Like it could’ve been so easy to define it as an open relationship and avoided all of this. Men, dude. They’re str8 wild. It’ll be okay, bb
I found out my ex husband cheated on me with over 20 people. It was hard. I know this was years ago, but, its calming and reassuring that things will be okay, i mean, look at where you are now. Love you tana
"I just wanted it to work." Literally broke my heart.... sending you love.
Same I loved themmm😭😭😭😭💕💕💕
Me too. :*(
“i just wanted it to work.” my heart man... I’m crying ..
yeah that hit me hard too... My ex also cheated on me and I felt the same. You wanted it to work, you still wanted it to work but you couldn't imagine it working after something like that happening to you.
sami xx 😭😭
bitch fuck me up, lowkey feel for her. I think I'm legit going to die of heart break because I love her so much I can't bare to see her in pain
“I just wanted it to work”
Awww, Tana. Honey. You deserve so much better.
Tahlia Sandor when did she say that
Juliya Davis 6:29
@@mistayah7537 thanks i couldn't find it again lol
no, she doesn't
@@iphgfqweio shes married now to someone who treats her well so obviously she does 💋
Tana, and anyone whose been cheated on/mistreated by a relationship partner:
Don’t you dare feel embarrassed. Their behavior isn’t a reflection of you...it’s a reflection of their character. Period. PERIOD!
WORD!
thank you 💚
PeriodTTT
PREACH👏👏
Lorien Cox Agreed 100%. Understanding that is a huge step in the road to recovery
Girl, you’re not even 21 yet, you’re beautiful, and you’re making bank. You got this.
I Love Nooder facts 💯 Chase the fucking bag tana !
FACTS!
Yes those are facts
Yes 💯
She looks older than me shit I’m 24 this year whattt
"I'm not the person who sits on the floor crying about exes,I'm gonna leave that to Trisha" LMAOO
intr0verg *sits and cries on the floor*
I died when she said that 😂😂
Leave it
Haahahahahhaah oh shit
you don't miss brad. You miss the idea of him. you got this sis. Nothing lasts forever and this feeling definitely won't.
Genesis Guzman this is 👌🏻
♥️
Aaliyah J yes I do !!!💗
U are so right
that’s not true at all, if she spends every minute with someone she’s gonna miss them not just “the idea of them”
Tana wearing Jake Paul merch in this video is EVERYTHING
Lol
Suzy Avalos icon
AND NOW THEY'RE MARRIED TFFFF
Suzy Avalos LMAO
where
“I expect everyone to hurt me and I was finally in a place where I believed he wouldn’t”
ouch my heart
i read this literally as she said it
When Tana started crying and said "I just wanted it to work" that fucking hurt my heart so much
same ugh
ikr i tbh i really loved them together 😭
my boyfriend of three years just fessed up to cheating on me throughout the whole relationship. to say i needed this video and the comfort it brought me would be the understatement of the millennium.
you’ll get through this, tana. i’ll get through this. i am right there with you and going through the same emotions as you.
i love you, sis. now, lets rise.
sending you positivity and prayers and love.
I rarely comment on these things but I just wanted to say even though idk you, I love you and you deserve better than that❤
Going through something similar. Looking for someone to talk to. Lmk please
I just got cheated on. Came to this video for help. I am with you girl. Hope things are so much better now for you
Lauren T999 you as well, and its honestly fine. if he cant see me for the great person I am and wont accept me as is then just fuck him tbh
Nikki would love to talk! do you have a snapchat?
Tana has shown over and over how thoughtful and introspective she is. Her intrapersonal smarts are off the charts. This hurts, do your best to keep your head up Tana.
10:42 where Tana said “I expect everyone to hurt me and I feel like I was finally at a place where I believed he wouldn’t” ... that hit me hard. This is what made me cry. You are loved and this is not your fault.
me fucking too
Desiree Barrios i literally felt that so hard..
Same
🖤😔
Awwwwwwwww For Both Of You. ☹️😢😥
i find it so heart warming that even after tana was cheated on, her main concern of this video was to be a good example to her fans. tana is so so so so strong and the last person this sort of thing should happen to.
abby drake i feel like you should take her with a grain of salt. tana fucked another guy quick asl.
@@PvPUnRated I think you should fuck off
"He pretty much wanted all or nothing". That's how narcissists trick you into thinking their intentions are real. It's sad cause I went through the same thing.
Divya B yeah your so right
I honestly think this tana is such a good version of her... savage tana is cool but love honest tana always
Mom. Tana Paul. Love. 🚬🚬🍻😥😜😍😘🇺🇸me. KJ TJ
this has to be straight up the most real representation of what it feels like to be cheated on... stay strong sis
I feel like this should be called “I got cheated on but IM ok” because it’s not ok that you got cheated on. YOU deserve better
YES
PERIOD
Shelly Gates PERIOD! PERIOD!
Hope Morrow PERIOOODDDDDD
Yes.
Tana I just got cheated on for the first time and instantly came here I need to bounce back and boss up like you did I’m so hurt it’s so painful but I know I will get better and do better
Taylor Dauwer same 💔 it really sucks but what can you do.... hope you are doing better girl❤️
It DOES get better, it’s been about a month or two and I feel completely different from how I did when I posted this comment. It still hurts but it gets easier and you start thinking about it a lot less. It’s one of the worst feelings ever but it will only make you stronger.
U will baby 😘😘😘😘😎
All girls get cheated on. Not all get caught. Value yourself and never place stock on what any boy or man thinks of you. Women are the most beautiful and greatest resource in this world. We need you to be strong. To stay strong. Be more selective and play hard to get. Everything hard in life is worth doing, worth having.
Girl I just got cheated on I’m broken I feel this man I feel it
*you got cheated on and thats NOT* *ok.*
*you got cheated on and thats NOT* *ok.*
*you got cheated on and thats NOT* *ok.*
*you got cheated on and thats NOT* *ok.*
Who cheated on her
no shit dickhead.
Camila Aguila her ex .
Was I the only one that didn’t know that they hooked up
Genesis H thanks
When she said “i still love him...” “i still want it to work” and he voice cracked... oh honey i felt that.... everyone understands to some degree and im so sorry you’re going through that. We love you tana ❤️
RebelZany Gaming it actually made me tear up
Full disclosure I totally cried with her. Whether you got out of a relationship two days ago or two years ago you feel that. Everyone feels that
What’s the time stamp I wanna cry
Arya Jade 6:30 😭
when she cried my heart literally broke, been watching her for years back when she was in her room with the photos on the wall. never seen her like this, not even with tanacon. this is something completely new and raw. i really respect her for showing this side.
paintaeing me tooo
😪
paintaeing same, she’s grown so much over the years and to try and go 100% back into a monogamous relationship again only to have it end like this breaks my heart for her
I loved brad but I was worried he’d do something like this. She’s been through so much recently, this is the last thing she needs, a twat like him crushing her down completely
paintaeing me to
This isthe Real Tana
Shes only human
Before you go hate on Jana just realize that Jake picked her up when she was down and made her feel worthy
Hell yeah
YES THANK YOU. AMEN
Ikr, Jake fixed her, helped her! Jana is such a good match!
like the trash she is
Yessssssssss
Ik this videos is supposed to be sad
But she looks so gorgeous talking in the beginning
ewwww
Her hair looked gr9
He didn't make a "mistake" he made a CHOICE. multiple times...
That doesnt mean it's not a mistake. If you decide to speed and then crash your car. Yeah it's a choice, but it's also still a mistake.
If he cheated it’s not a choice it’s a MISTAKE… my opinion
@@avineh3864 it can be both. But its never not a choice. So your opinion is wrong. Just my opinion, based in facts. 🤔😊
Vi Jack uhh he did it MULTIPLE times.....?
@@anaihuitron1202 Mistake : an action or judgment that is misguided or wrong.
"OR wrong". Is the main focus here. It is, by definition, a mistake. It being a choice has no bearing
on that. Try not to think with a one track mind.
you lived without brad for over 20 years. and you will continue life. because you were okay before knowing him, and you will be okay after knowing him.
Five Nine im gonna need you to comfort me through my life dang that was so inspirational
hi i kno this is for tana but imma say a thank u as well cuz this is Good Advice 💘
this helped me a lot . thank you
be my therapist please
But she has knowledge of him now, you can’t just ignore someone you think about most of the time
i was in a relationship for over 2 years n i was madly in love with this guy.. n then one day i find myself going to the ER to get stitches bc he hit me. it’s so crazy how people can switch up on u but u jus gotta keep ur head up and surround yourself with good people.
I know this video is old, but one quote I learned from my mom about getting through a breakup or a heartbreak.
You didn’t fall in love overnight, and you won’t fall out overnight. Keep your head held high.
My stomach sunk and my heart broke. Whoever has been cheated on felt this.
I have been cheated on before
Where she says "I just lay in bed..alone, and I just wanna go back" 😪
my thoughts during this video:
1) hair and skincare goals
2) this is actually a really mature reaction to the shitty situation
3) this sucks so much and you deserve better
sugarydelight right?!? I was amazed. I had to leave her a long comment with some advice because i was so impressed. She finally sees the huge impact she has on young girls and wants to set a good example for them.
sugarydelight YES!!!
Yes, yes, and yes. 💛
YES!!!
you can’t lie and act like this wasn’t needed, tho. she needed something to humble herself.
"I'm gonna go be really sad now and thats ok! That's what life is! Feeling emotion." Greatest thing ever said
Jake didn’t pick her up, he’s a “charismatic” person who knew what words to say to someone when they are down, she fell for him even tho it was all for clout at first and now she’s hurt again. Why is that kind of behaviour being praised
Carmen Shen exactly
Carmen Shen right !
when you are heartbroken and dont fully give yourself to get over that pain, especially being cheated on, and you just jump into someone else to help you fill that void and distract you, you end up looking past a lot of the shitty things that they do. i think she was still heartbroken and jake was who was there when ahe was at her lowest, so she just refused to see every thing that was really going on :(
Ikr
I was actually surprised by this because he seemed so obsessed with you.... but now looking back it seems more like he was excited to be with someone semi-famous and get clout from being with you. This sucks and you didn't deserve this.
sadie winters exactly. I knew it was gonna spiral down on his end. He was just a little too obsessed too quick.
I knew from the beginning that he will make some shit and feel it I didn't like him and I was right to think that, that's sad to think that every person that Tana dated weren't worth it (apart Bella they were so perfect together i was so sad for their break up they were the perfect couple 😭😭)
“semi-famous” 💀😂
Can someone pls tell me what clout is ? I've been seeing it everywhere no idea what it is :( yesh I am behind
Eighteen Globe like get popularity
Its so triggering that he didnt want an open relationship but cheated
RIGHT?! like wtfff
Sarbear he wanted to be able to cheat, but didnt want to be cheated on - typical hypocrite
BITCH TEAAAAAAA this is hot tea im gettin burned 😭
Sarbear that's the true teaaaa
He didn’t want her with different guys 🙄🙄🙄🙄
"it just feels so empty " ... damn i felt that
ANDD NOW SHE IS ENGAGED WITH JAKE. Girl I love you
ANDD NOW SHE IS MARRIED TO JAKE
@@srikruthigannavarapu4977 she's not really married but ok...
AND NOW THEYRE DIVORCED AND JAKE BASICALLY CHEATED ON HER W HIS EX
Cheating is a choice. If he didn’t want to cheat he wouldn’t have. We must have more self control and respect not only for ourselves but for our relationship, our partner.
Gloria M couldn’t have said it better 🙌🏼🙌🏼
LoveIsaLosingGame PREACH 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
11257
NO ONE ASKED!!!!
If you choose to get back with him every single time you look at him you’ll just think about the text... and the lies.... and everything will start adding up when he talks... just be strong. you’re amazing.
This is such a lesson. She wanted to be open with brad but stayed monogamous bc he wanted it and got hurt. She wanted to be monogamous with jake but accepted the fact that he didnt want to and got hurt again. Communicate with the people around you and dont settle for anyone PERIOD
Imagine handing someone a career and they do you like that
Daniel ASMR actually his career was already starting out before he met her cause of the Justin beiber look alike, and the whole prank of eating a burrito backwards but ya it kinda made him a little more popular
Marcus Pimentel true but either way that in my opinion means he got his fame from someone else it started as a justin beiber lookalike or whatever so that came from him being “someone else” he never really done anything that made “him” famous like him not tana or justin beiber so someone else gave him fame either way
Marcus Pimentel people knew him because he looks like someone else. He was just the ”Justin Bieber Look Alike” before Tana, Tana made people acknowledge him as Brad and not some random look alike
Daniel ASMR faxxxxxxxxxxxx
Lol hey I love your channel!
cheating is a choice, not a mistake. get yourself a king or queen, not a confused boy
R Smith yessssss truuuu
You can make wrong choices and those are considered mistakes but i get what you mean
^^this!!
Yesssssss 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Don't have your happiness depend upon another person at all! Be your ones closest person, the love of your life.. a relationship can give you a lot of positive experiences, but it should be a nice extra - never a mean to complete you - fill emotional voids ect. That is what creates toxicity..
I cried watching how genuinely hurt you are. Your words are spot on and you have the biggest heart. Hang in there honey
My boyfriend dumped me yesterday and this video honestly helped me so much. Thank you tana!
I'm sorry there is somebody out there for you. You deserve the best 💖
*"I expect everyone to hurt me and I was finally in a place where i thought he wouldn't"* 💔💔
Talisha Bonny that exact phrase from her hit me the hardest because I’ve felt that exact way every time I finally feel like I’m gaining trust in someone to not hurt me they do 💔💔💔💔
Felt the same way . I have such a hard time opening up and when I finally do and try to work on my trust issues it seems like I always get proved right. You can’t trust anyone 😢... that shit hit so close to home .
Never take him back, once he starts disrespecting you he'll never the respect for you.
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DanxGames He means if she'll come back after this he knows he can do whatever tf he wants with no respect or regard to her feelings
Marisa Kristina it’s not your relationship, this is very surface level understanding of cheating. Sometimes it’s not that easy and people deserve a second chance.
@@Jacob_JRW nobody deserves a second chance that's the dumbest thing I've ever heard.
Cheaters dont deserve a second chance if they couldn't be loyal the first time what makes you think they'll be loyal the second chance. They wont be
You should edit the title: I got cheated on, but I’m okay
Because cheating is a choice, it’s never okay
👏i👏agree👏100👏percent👏
I know this is old but the title the title isn't saying that cheating is ok. She was saying that SHE is ok
It's not ok to cheat.
No one deserves it.
Don't stoop to there level.
Your embarrassed?
He is the one who cheated, he chose to do that, you didn't.
If anything he should be embarrassed with himself.
Girl you got this!
It happen to me
The guy I loved kept telling me how embarrassed I was, at the time I had no idea what he was talking about.
Untill recently i found out myself there was someone else.
Embarrassed? I'm ashamed of him.
I waited a year a fucking year and the last month I finally get ready to see him he shagged someone else.
She's had his baby and he recently marryed her so good luck to them.
their*
you're *
married*
“Crying on floors im gonna leave that to Trisha”
Ellis has
“Im not a photo and a bunch of words I’m a person”
That hurts and reminded me of what being famous really is
You know you truly loved and cared for someone when you blame yourself after they treat you like shit. Know your worth, trust carefully
I have watched this video too much but I can’t get over how she put this in the category “humor” like a reason why I love her❤️
“i just wanted it to work”
i felt that....... on sO many levels it’s not even funny . i love tana
Rip
The girl with the unexpectedly long name that has nothing to do with her profile pic hit too close to home
kindofkenzie • I felt that on so many levels too oh my god.
yeahhhhh I just lost it
me tooo
“I feel like Trisha Paytas”
HAHAHAHA ME WHEN I HAVE A BREAKDOWN
Sammeeee
Meeew
i come back to this video every single time i go through a breakup since this video was uploaded. this video is the only piece of media i’ve seen that completely and utterly represents the way i feel after every breakup
Sooo who's watching this again after watching her wedding video and Jake's *possible* cheating aligations....
i just watched her wedding video lol
Me😂
Charlotte Holliday do you see the jake Paul March?
he didn't cheat jesus christ
Aren’t him and Tana in an open relationship?
in my opinion, cheating isn’t a mistake. it’s a choice.
Chloe Grace yeah definitely! Saying it’s not a choice kinda makes it seem like an excuse. It is both I would say. A choice people make and it a mistake. So sad.
oh most definitely a choice. nobody just accidentally or mistakenly flirts with other girls/ hooks up with them or whatever happened.
I get what you mean but it’s sort of like... a mistake within a choice, if that even makes sense... cuz when people make those sort of choices, most don’t even know what they’re doing because they’re in a really dark place. So in a way yes it’s a choice cuz one could cope a different way but like... in a way you’re not fully thinking clear...
Choices can be mistakes
PERIODT
Moral of the story : never trust someone who oddly looks like Justin Bieber
I strongly agree mate
He’s also from Canada so ya. Pos. Poor tana
But he kinda looks like Leonardo DiCaprio
Erica Begley what are you on 💀
Allyson Bower hey us canadians are generally nice people lol
Thank you for being so vulnerable. I really needed to hear this. I love you so much tana you’re so smart and thoughtful in ways the media never acknowledges
And now she’s married to a millionaire. YOU GO GIRL 😛🙌
pretty sure she is one lol
not anymore!
😂
guys who start saying they’re going to marry u two weeks in are not to be trusted 🤦🏼♀️
edit: wow this actually blew up and the queen herself liked it 😭 thx yall
My friend dated a guy like this and he cheated on her lol. He bought her a promise ring two weeks after dating
I legit dated two guys like that (i learned my lesson at the end smh) 0/10 wouldn’t recommend
one time i was with a guy like this and we went to colorado with his friends and they fuxking left me there🤷🏼♀️my husband is nice tho❤️
Cause it’s the guilt talking
can vouch for this 🙋🏻♀️
i knew you couldn’t trust a man named BRAD.
Skitz HAHAHA
honestly same sis.
Literally! My sisters ex was called Brad and he cheated on her with 11 people in total and racked up thousands of pounds of debt in her name!! 😤
You LOVED brad ... but then liberty mutual calls
My ex Brad was a cheating narcissistic piece of shit...
ok but the PIPING HOT TEA is....you're wearing a jake paul shirt in this video......so like.....i need a timeline or something bc i am confusion....
Courtney DUDE!!!
ya
SAME. ALSO WE HAVE THE SAME NAME ;)
Courtney hi confusion I’m confused
Her and Jake have met and known each other for two years. So she’s been a “Jake Pauler” before their relationship so yeah...she had his merch.. It’s just cute that they turned out dating not too long after.
im going through a breakup right now and immediately came to watch this video, i love you so much tana and i love u no matter what and you always help me find my happy place and make me realize my self-worth🖤🖤
It’s just tana and her ringworm now. Couple goals
Kaylie 24 ...bro 😂💀
If only we could all have ringworm in our life 💀
Didnt have to do her like that 😂💀💀
Kaylie 24 I genuinely hope she sees this and laughs
Oh my god😂
The way you're crying here, makes me realize you were really crying in Shane's tanacon vids.
Her face doesn't move as much now.
EXACTLY. a lot of people think her crying is fake but that’s just how she cries 😂
@@camicat111 Its just cause of botox 😂
Been knew
Lauren Grace i was just watching those fr
I’ve been cheated on in every relationship I’ve been in, and every time it happens I come back to this video. Thank you for this tana, it helps so many people more than you know
This is how many hugs you need
👇🏾
It’s not okay that you got cheated on. You got cheated on and YOU will be okay, but cheating is NOT and never will be okay.
Period
I won’t bash or attack him. BUT I will unfollow him on every single platform he’s on. He does not deserve the career you gave him.
Sydney W and thats PERIOD
YES.
Stan THIS
Girl said “rUiN My LiFe” n Brad took it literally
I love how she describes everything she felt perfectly and didn’t say a thing bad about him she is honestly a really sweet genuine person
the amount of comments of girls going through similar situations right now is so heartbreaking. nobody deserves to get taken advantage of and i hope ALL OF YOU remember that. never let anyone make you forget your worth/beauty because it happens to the best of us unfortunately, i can assure you it’s not about being “good enough” and it does not mean you’re any less. it just means you deserve MORE. ❤️
@Susan Mason No you are worth SO MUCH and whoever broke your heart wasnt worth it in the first place hun xxxxxx stay strong gorgeous xxxxx❤❤❤❤❤❤
Skylar Brittany i needed this 😭❤️
Susan Mason it’s okay to feel the way you do, but just remember it’s not gonna last forever. heartbreak is temporary pain and the best revenge is to be great on your own. you have so much beauty and strength that whoever did this to you didn’t deserve. everything happens for a reason, this will only make you stronger. sending u so much love ❤️❤️
@Susan Mason I am so deeply sorry and cannot even imagine how you feel. 10 years is a long time but i hope you find strength to heal. May God bless you and provide you with all you need to survive! If your ex cannot even treat a woman as brilliant as yourself properly he certainly does not deserve your dog. I hope and pray you will get your dog back love! You are so strong for opening up about your feelings! Please, please stay strong and i truly am deeply sorry that someone could hurt you like that but trust me they will get what they deserve. God and i know things WILL get better so i know you will find courage to keep moving. I pray your health gets better and your fiancial situation is resolved. You CAN do this! This relationship will NOT ruin you but strengthen you! SO much love beautiful i hope you stay strong and once again May God Truly Bless You beautiful!!! ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
@Susan Mason You are INCREDIBLY COURAGEOUS for coming this far despite your past. I also suffer from anxiety, depression and PTSD and understand how it can be a living hell to go through but can't even begin to imagine exactly how you feel❤ God definitely has a plan for you in this world and i know you will stay long enough to see it ❤ I am so terribly sorry for your loss and may your brother's soul rest in peace❤ I hope you keep your strength and continue to heal and live a very peaceful life because i know your journey isn't over yet but perhaps just beginning ❤❤ I am so sorry that people ignore you but you definitely mean something to someone now or in the near future and i certainly know you have positively impacted my life!❤❤ I understand it must hurt and wish i could take your pain away😭❤ If by lost your bestfriend you mean you both are not friends anymore then you should remember the good times you had together and know that this has happened for a reason and i am sure something truly amazing is coming your way❤❤ Don't listen to trolls because at the end of the day that is all they are -trolls. The fact you are getting therapy shows how much of a brilliantly strong person you are and i know you will recover and heal in your own time and peacefully❤❤❤ May God continue to bless you and keep you strong because i certainly know your here on this earth for a reason❤❤❤ Just know you are never alone and are always being cared for even though it might not seem like it❤❤❤ STAY STRONG BEAUTIFUL!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ This a Bible passage that could possibly help you understand why life is so hard even though this passage may be hard to understand❤❤: John 12:25 - "Anyone who loves their life will lose it, while anyone who hates their life in this world will keep it for eternal life." GOD AND I LOVE YOU PLEASE STAY STRONG❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Cheating is a choice, not a mistake. It takes so much more calculation than that.
Kacie 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Exactly. They have a conversation, they flirt, and they plan out when and where it’s going to happen. Nothing about cheating is a “mistake”
i think she was trying to not bash him
It’s a choice AND a mistake ;-;
Kacie you are correct because they would have planned so you “wouldn’t
Find out”
I decided to watch this video so I could find inspiration to NOT go back to my ex. I miss him so god damn much but he never changes and there is always someone else. I hope I can be strong. :(
Kahlan Murray you got this girl !
I know you might not feel like it now, but you deserve sooo much more love and respect!! Stay strong gal ❤️
Kahlan Murray Same, my boyfriend lies so much hes was meeting random girls from facebook and sexting them this shit hurts but i still love and care for him but i left, and now i miss him like crazy
Tim Tam this just happened to me.... i wasted a whole year on this man. I really thought he was the one for me. We can do it❤️
@@mizzcrazygal yeah it's been 3 months since I broke up with my ex. I forgot how it felt to not have to worry about "not being good enough". It was so exhausting having to worry about who he was gonna cheat on me with next, because it was inevitable🤦🏻♀️. I'm in suuuuuuch a better head space and I love MYSELF now. I do not miss him anymore lol. Guys who cheat are dumbasses and we don't need em!
this was such an iconic turning point
Tana looks so pretty in the intro like damn sis
Siobhan Malcolm right! I was LIVING for the intro!!!
Same ladies
Siobhan Malcolm what’s new
Ikr I think her hair looked like a darker blonde and I think she should make that a fr thing lmao
She snapped
this is how many people want you to NOT get back together with Brad
👇🏼
edit: wow thank u so much for 5.1 k
Lol
Wow I was the 1.7K.
I’m 2k
i was the 2k and its only been 10 minutes
john paul she should make her own decisions
I got cheated on too. Nothing physical but emotional cheating and Snapchat, multiple times. It hurts so much and I feel like it’s my fault. I’m trying to realize my self worth because I kept forgiving him and trying to see the best in him. I want to know why he would do me like that even when I all did was love him. I wanted it to work so bad too. Watching u bounce back is inspiring me.
This is actually the saddest breakup video I have ever watched. These are such real emotions. Damn.
As much as Tana swears, is loud, outgoing and what not, she still has a very good heart for people who are around her. Unfortunately, nobody is like that with her.
true I feel like she is such a sweetheart
It hit me and hurted when she said "I just wanted it to work" and she started crying🤧
Same here because once you've been in that situation and you start to feel stupid for judging girls that give their exes one too many chances...but then it happens to you and before you know it you're contemplating his mistakes, making them ok in your head, and on the verge of taking him back. So this should be a lesson ladies, heal yourselves mentally and emotionally before jumping into relationships. Also, anything can happen to anyone so try no to judge someone's situation. But all love to Tana ❤❤
Right, just looking at her while she said it broke my heart 😔
when she said "that's what life is sometimes getting hurt by people you love" i felt that
OMG when you said "god gave me Brad I feel like I needed him and I still feel like I need him" man I felt that to my core 😭. I completely know what that feels like and it hurts so fucking much.
he really took the “ruin my life” seriously
Right!!! 🤦♀️🤦♀️😤🙄
I-
Chelsea Lynn I’m so dead 💀
ouch :(
Yikes
tana, don’t worry about the “bounce back”. the tana we “know and love” includes this side, too.
Zach and Abby Vlogs love this comment so much.
This is so sweet and so accurate
i love this ur exactly right
Zach and Abby Vlogs respect this comment for real
agreed
I don't know anything about you, but I stumbled upon this and I'm so glad I did. The fact that you're thinking about how you can be an example for young humans to stick up for themselves when you're hurting is inspiring and so fucking sweet. I already love you.
Girl, you are so amazing. I know it hurts. I've been through it before. You've got this. You deserve so much better. A great person will find you, but until then, live your life, sweetheart. Don't let this get you down. You're going to bounce back. You are so much more than a relationship.
Beyoncé put Lemonade on all streaming platforms because she wasn’t sure if Tana used Apple Music and Spotify and knew she needed it
Oh my God I did not know she put them on Apple Music I literally have been trying forever to get her music without having to buy the album you are amazing for posting this
Phoebe Dowling THANKYOU FOR LETTING ME KNOW THIS
Point? She got him back anyway
how would beyonce know???
Gus Elliott dont be stupid
I’m sorry but I’ve never seen tana look as pretty as the intro to this...Whaaaa boy missing out :// x
Hamie ikr she’s so amazing and beautiful he made the wrong decision but she deserves better anyway
RIGHT she looked sooooo good
dude yes I was looking for a comment about this!! she looks so pretty
I was literally thinking the same thing,
IKR goals
I'm so sorry. I separated from my 15yr relationship last Dec due to being cheated on. It hurts so bad! And causes you to feel stupid because you trusted them. Everyone had to decide this on their own as every relationship & it's break down is different.
I'd be asking myself tho, if he was really wanting a monogamous relationship with you (after all he's the one that cheated) or if he was really using that as a control measure in your relationship to gain or exploit the situation. Please consider this question when making your choice to try again or not with him. Stay strong! Xx
five months later...
*changes her RUclips to Tana Paul*
what a goddamn glow up
those tears are real. tana, you've grown so much these past couple of years, and your mistakes have gifted you compassion. you will come out of this stronger and wiser.
sending love!
Brad literally has the word loyalty tattooed on his arm 🙄 LIKE imagine being a cheater with loyalty tattooed on your body. I love you Tana you deserve so much better than someone who would do that to you. ❤️
I bet that's just him projecting
Brad honestly ain’t shit
Idk why I always come back to this relationship. Tana just dropped new lore on Cancelled that Brad jumped out of the car into on coming traffic at cochella, got taken to the mental hospital, and that's how Tana was able to find out Brad was texting other girls. It's wild to watch her fly him out, take him to the Vercace Mansion, give him a lifestyle he's never had and he basically thought he will just get another bitch. I feel like he had to be thinking this won't be the last time he'll be living it up like this, and he's just going to be out in L.A. now. He fumbled the bag 😂 Like if you were just there to use her, you could have at least not been texting other bitches. Just so clear what kind of guy he is. He thought he deserved to be in these circles, living this kind of life style. Tana has built an empire off of sharing her life, being relatable, being that girly bestie type of energy, and I hate seeing over the years her fall into relationships with LECHESSSS! FAME SUCKER! omg like get a life!!! But this was 20, young relationships often come with bullshit. I'm just happy to see Tana in a new, happy relationship, more mature, and he's not trying to become and influencer. I'm watching these old vloggs and I'm like Tana!!! your love is in HAWaIIIIiiiiii!!!
i just watched this video, and about a month ago i was in the exact same state that you are in this video. you're right it will be okay. i lost myself in a man that i was deeply in love with, and he changed me extremely. i lost so many friends because of him, i changed myself almost entirely for him because that's what he wanted. and im finally at the point to where im almost over it. thank you, i needed to see this a lot sooner than i did, but everything happens for a reason and i will stand be that until the day i die. some people are chapters in your life, and the real ones are characters that are with you throughout the whole story. I love you so much tana, i've been watching your videos since i was about 14 and im now 19. ik you don't know me, but i will be here for you no matter what. im a great shoulder to cry on and listener, and we could even smoke together (honestly that's on my bucket list so i would looooove that lol) if you ever wanna talk just look me up on insta. again thank you and i love you so much.
someone needs to balance these cheating men, they're all 2's dating 10's.
Genesis Calleja SAY THIS LOUDER FOR THE HOES IN THE BACKKKK
@@alexiamenjivar4785 THIS
Genesis Calleja buddy is literally known for looking identical to Justin bieber I’m sure he’s higher then a 2
@@cadd9199 its a joke.
Cadd his mental capacity is a 2.
I’m so frustrated that he was so dead set on a monogamous relationship and then cheated. Like it could’ve been so easy to define it as an open relationship and avoided all of this. Men, dude. They’re str8 wild. It’ll be okay, bb
Haley Popish boys* Men don’t do this bs
Haley Popish 100% agree
That's hard Facts
Haley Popish if I’m honest, the guys that push monogamy soo hard like he did generally cheat or have already cheated
trinflynn true
I found out my ex husband cheated on me with over 20 people. It was hard. I know this was years ago, but, its calming and reassuring that things will be okay, i mean, look at where you are now. Love you tana
"I'm not a photo and a bunch of words I'm a person"
I FELT THAT
dam she rlly wore a shirt that said “loyalty” .
Ava B it’s Jake Paul’s merch. Representing her friend is so strong
Ava B she went there 🤣
Ava B
Oh yah sis she did that lol
Ava B ur pfp makes everything 100 times better