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  • Опубликовано: 11 сен 2024
  • left a lot out, but hope this cleared up your main questions. all love

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  • @heavenschneider7133
    @heavenschneider7133 5 лет назад +4565

    “At the end of the day, someone could have every single perfect trait in the world to you, but if someone doesn’t want to be with you, they’re missing the number one trait.”

    • @Cathlynn23
      @Cathlynn23 5 лет назад +111

      I didn't even realize but I really needed to hear this to get over someone once an for all.

    • @jordangentile7450
      @jordangentile7450 5 лет назад +36

      Gosh that hit me hard too

    • @shanelnumber5sounds657
      @shanelnumber5sounds657 5 лет назад +6

      Very well said!

    • @emmanouilchalkidis
      @emmanouilchalkidis 5 лет назад +24

      Gabbie is a good friend

    • @loraleilee2676
      @loraleilee2676 5 лет назад +16

      i needed to hear this, but from the bottom of my heart, i still can’t get over my person..

  • @kiersten.matchett1643
    @kiersten.matchett1643 5 лет назад +1498

    “you are so easily getting something i’ve worked so hard for”
    the realest thing

    • @chanelpourhomme
      @chanelpourhomme 5 лет назад +6

      itsKiersten broke my heart

    • @vic7410
      @vic7410 5 лет назад +4

      itsKiersten this hit home ⛈

    • @Emily-im1hu
      @Emily-im1hu 5 лет назад

      i felt that

    • @iniubongnkanga9390
      @iniubongnkanga9390 5 лет назад +1

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  • @maddycake100
    @maddycake100 4 года назад +2514

    who's here after Brad cheated, married Jake, then divorced Jake

    • @sweetdrogers2851
      @sweetdrogers2851 4 года назад +36

      The hunter conversation hurt lol I'm just getting caught up

    • @mucize31
      @mucize31 4 года назад +7

      Meee

    • @hailiepitt662
      @hailiepitt662 4 года назад +5

      Meeee bitchhh😤😌😂

    • @olivia._.wil19
      @olivia._.wil19 4 года назад +5

      i'll always be here

    • @beomchoo
      @beomchoo 4 года назад +27

      it sounds like you said brad married jake-

  • @shelbyclark3392
    @shelbyclark3392 3 года назад +712

    Who’s here after tana gave Bella so much hype in this vid about how good of a person she was and then Bella put out SFB

    • @nataliemarie8005
      @nataliemarie8005 3 года назад +30

      She really talked SO highly of Bella this made me sad

    • @rae7158
      @rae7158 3 года назад +5

      What is SFB

    • @shelbyclark3392
      @shelbyclark3392 3 года назад +4

      @@rae7158 stupid fckinh btch bellas song

    • @tiffanynicole8154
      @tiffanynicole8154 2 года назад

      @@rae7158 it means stupid effing btch, it’s the song bella made about tana

  • @xprincesszenax
    @xprincesszenax 5 лет назад +1738

    When Gabbie said “at the end of the day someone can have every perfect trait in the world to you but if they don’t want to be with you they’re missing the most important trait”. 🔥🔥🔥

    • @twistedbliss58
      @twistedbliss58 5 лет назад +7

      That's completely stupid. If someone doesn't want to be with you then they don't have to be. Not wanting to be with someone doesn't make someone a bad person.

    • @ValerieAbena
      @ValerieAbena 5 лет назад +49

      • oetori • yeah I don’t think it’s calling the other person bad. It’s just that loving you back is an important quality for the other person to have if you want something real with them

    • @snehas.9647
      @snehas.9647 5 лет назад +1

      Cole watch the video, she says it at 16:00

    • @newuser5773
      @newuser5773 5 лет назад +24

      • oetori • it doesn’t mean they’re a bad person, it just means u need to accept that they’re not perfect for you, no matter how perfect they are in every other aspect

    • @_hhannuhh
      @_hhannuhh 5 лет назад +6

      Holy shit this hit me hard. I needed to hear this.

  • @angelairwaves
    @angelairwaves 5 лет назад +1751

    To everyone asking the difference between Tana being open with Bella and her wanting Hunter to not date other girls-the difference is communication, consent, and respect. Tana and Bella know what their relationship is, Hunter left Tana in the dark while still playing with her feelings. If Hunter had come forward with the idea of an open relationship and been honest, maybe things would have been different. Tana isn’t a hypocrite, the key to relationships of all kinds is communication.

  • @tabithasmith9331
    @tabithasmith9331 5 лет назад +1270

    "if someone else makes him happy, I'm happy for him. But it's always going to be a product of why couldn't it be me." I. Fucking. Felt. That. And now I'm sad.

    • @tittykittycookie2382
      @tittykittycookie2382 5 лет назад +7

      Date better guys

    • @tabithasmith9331
      @tabithasmith9331 5 лет назад +29

      @@tittykittycookie2382 ~empathy~ I'm 26 and married with a kid. Everythings fine over here Dr Phil.

    • @ChloeTheJean
      @ChloeTheJean 5 лет назад +11

      Also "Every day I'm working on falling out of love". Fucking sobbing

    • @Forever_OctobersJ
      @Forever_OctobersJ 5 лет назад +2

      I felt it too. That was deep. I know what she is going through, I've been there.

    • @menamesgeordieboy5054
      @menamesgeordieboy5054 5 лет назад +1

      @@tabithasmith9331 👏👏👏👏👏🙌😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 your response

  • @iamagirl1996
    @iamagirl1996 5 лет назад +1988

    “I am dating a cute boy named brad”......that part made me sad

    • @iniubongnkanga9390
      @iniubongnkanga9390 5 лет назад +4

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    • @nyi1187
      @nyi1187 4 года назад +30

      didn’t age well at all

    • @mucize31
      @mucize31 4 года назад +20

      She is better without brad

    • @cassienicholson78
      @cassienicholson78 4 года назад +8

      yea bc he wasnt cute 😬🤭🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @alexslaughter636
      @alexslaughter636 3 года назад +2

      #bars

  • @abbyhouck6291
    @abbyhouck6291 5 лет назад +461

    Video starts at 0:00 you’re welcome

  • @azra7582
    @azra7582 5 лет назад +352

    when tana said :'' I ruined my whole life just to make yours better '' I felt that.

  • @robertocosta7638
    @robertocosta7638 5 лет назад +613

    Holy shit Tana,this is what we want. This is your best video ever. You were so raw and honest, I cried in the Hunter part. This is why I subscribed to you years ago in first place. Thank you so much for this.

    • @Izzy-lv6fi
      @Izzy-lv6fi 5 лет назад +2

      me too. this video has helped me realize the toxicity of a relationship I'm in. thank you so much Tana.

    • @estellebelaiche4029
      @estellebelaiche4029 5 лет назад

      agreed

  • @yuh5960
    @yuh5960 5 лет назад +2944

    This video perfectly shows that Tana is more intelligent than people claim her to be. She is more articulate than in her other videos and seems to share a side of her personality that nobody knew before. I liked her before but this video shows that she really is someone who thinks and overthinks a lot, it’s refreshing to see.

    • @peppapig-vw3zr
      @peppapig-vw3zr 5 лет назад +31

      I know right. I used to think she was like the stereotypical dumb bitch and then I watched more of her videos and saw that she is intelligent and not as dumb as people make her to be.

    • @kyliehahn1455
      @kyliehahn1455 5 лет назад +16

      Like honestly though, I only know Tana through Bella’s Instagram and then she popped up on my RUclips and I was like I don’t really want to because she seems like this you know “stereotypical” celebrity, but after watching this video, she is probably one of my favorite people ever. She is super intelligent and honestly one of the humbler (I don’t know if that’s the word for it) people.

    • @stacy4329
      @stacy4329 4 года назад +13

      She is definitely very articulate. Even in her old videos when she was like 15 she used words that I never even heard of. People underestimate her.

    • @roxie7919
      @roxie7919 4 года назад +4

      She’s so smart she can count past 21

    • @ohteehee6696
      @ohteehee6696 4 года назад +4

      Stacy I’ve been watching her old videos and everytime she says a new word I get so shook because I realize that she really is hella smart, smarter than people who even went through all of highschool tbh.

  • @alexisdeliberato
    @alexisdeliberato 5 лет назад +756

    the way she talks about Bella is everything

  • @Ally-kl7sm
    @Ally-kl7sm 5 лет назад +415

    Mad love for Tana because trying to fall out of love is the hardest thing ever

    • @zsofiapv
      @zsofiapv 5 лет назад +1

      that talk about hunter i felt on a level i dont want to admit

  • @sadieroberts9409
    @sadieroberts9409 5 лет назад +497

    “ you’re getting something so easy that I worked so hard for “ literally broke me. I dated a guy that I would’ve kissed the ground he walked on just to get cheated on and hurt. Don’t ever keep a guy like hunter in your life, I’m so young and so hurt over someone who doesn’t give me the time of day. Don’t wait for someone to love you. Just walk away.

  • @ronweasly4839
    @ronweasly4839 5 лет назад +1755

    Beeing forced to fall out of love is so hard and hurtful.

  • @FartunF
    @FartunF 5 лет назад +518

    4:34 - Bella
    12:20 - Hunter
    20:05 - Jay
    23:00 - Brad

  • @audreystrain9278
    @audreystrain9278 5 лет назад +512

    She looked and sounded so hurt while talking about Hunter. Tana ur an angel ily

    • @kimmyymmik
      @kimmyymmik 5 лет назад

      SpOoKy Scary Skeletons bitch where

  • @aliciadezayas5415
    @aliciadezayas5415 5 лет назад +3855

    _I will ruin my whole life_
    _Just to make yours perfect_
    I felt that sis

    • @maggierayy
      @maggierayy 5 лет назад

      Alicia De Zayas when did she say this?

    • @lifewithlinden1053
      @lifewithlinden1053 5 лет назад +9

      that’s my new insta caption 😂😂

    • @Amber.Renee66
      @Amber.Renee66 5 лет назад +2

      @@maggierayy did you not watch the video?

    • @aliciadezayas5415
      @aliciadezayas5415 5 лет назад +5

      @@maggierayy 15:31💜✨

    • @kaceelopez2883
      @kaceelopez2883 5 лет назад +5

      Alicia De Zayas made me tear up didn’t think tana could do that to me lol

  • @alexispotter3004
    @alexispotter3004 3 года назад +457

    LMAO whos watching this after Brad cheated, she married then divorced Jake, and her and Bella HAVE BEEF NOW?

  • @marinamarinamarinaa
    @marinamarinamarinaa 5 лет назад +327

    you and hunter's relationship sounds JUST like the most painful situationship i've ever been in that lasted about 5 years im cry

    • @Eileen_Lola
      @Eileen_Lola 5 лет назад

      Hunters a fucking dick. She should drop him completely because of the way he treated her. I’ve been there and it fucking sucks.

  • @TamaraTen
    @TamaraTen 5 лет назад +1057

    “At the end of the day someone can have every single perfect trait in the world, but if someone doesn’t wanna be with you they're missing the number one trait”
    i felt this 😢

  • @bellaryan7021
    @bellaryan7021 5 лет назад +305

    her eyes actually lit up when she started talking about brad awwww

    • @prettylethal1286
      @prettylethal1286 4 года назад

      But howhereyes lit up and the passion in her voice about bella

  • @lysxdp8073
    @lysxdp8073 4 года назад +631

    “I guess the good was so good that it made all the bad, worth it.” OUCH OUCH OUCH

  • @cgsaldana6663
    @cgsaldana6663 5 лет назад +301

    You explaining how you felt about hunter literally made me cry because it made me realize I am in the same position and it sucks. That feeling about the world speaking how good you guys are together but they act like they want you one second and they want you in private is painful. You’re so strong to speak out like this because some of us can only cry on our own without truly being open like you. I love you for this

    • @savannahlutz5349
      @savannahlutz5349 5 лет назад +3

      same, mine could hurt me badly and i would be so blinded and not care

  • @Flexiblefashion
    @Flexiblefashion 5 лет назад +475

    ok if i didn’t feel like tana was talking to me like i was her best friend before i definitely feel like *we’re besties now*

  • @starnowetner
    @starnowetner 5 лет назад +1670

    Hearing tana talk about hunter and sounding so broken and trying so hard to be okay reminds me of a situation I was in and I am so sorry tana you deserve all the happiness in the world

    • @jackieeg
      @jackieeg Год назад +2

      fast forward to her podcast when they admit they never dated… ya’ll are gullible af.

    • @bigbarbie5357
      @bigbarbie5357 Год назад +3

      Now listen to what tana said It lines up with them “not dating”

    • @SippinTeaaa
      @SippinTeaaa Год назад +3

      @@jackieeg she clearly said they weren’t dating…………

  • @nikkinikkinikki98
    @nikkinikkinikki98 5 лет назад +2425

    Bella 4:20
    Hunter 12:22
    Jay 20:05
    Brad 23:00

  • @nyveesankadota5165
    @nyveesankadota5165 5 лет назад +1776

    "Everyday I work on falling out of love with someone who made me feel like we would be together" I felt that...I know that pain

    • @Thriftwithdanielle
      @Thriftwithdanielle 5 лет назад +11

      Nyvee Sankadota going through the same thing. It hurts! ❤️

    • @noemarie8
      @noemarie8 5 лет назад +4

      Nyvee Sankadota same

    • @menahelsultan3389
      @menahelsultan3389 5 лет назад +5

      Nyvee Sankadota your profile picture makes me feel like you’re 9 years old

    • @nyveesankadota5165
      @nyveesankadota5165 5 лет назад +2

      @@menahelsultan3389 sorry you feel that way but I'm not I'm actually a junior in high school

    • @menahelsultan3389
      @menahelsultan3389 5 лет назад +2

      Nyvee Sankadota why you apologizing
      It’s ok
      It just looked like that because it was in a small part of the screen and because of the angle

  • @cayceschaeffer5054
    @cayceschaeffer5054 5 лет назад +554

    time stamps:
    4:30 - Bella
    12:20 - Hunter
    20:06 - Jay
    23:00 - Brad

  • @itsmeolive5356
    @itsmeolive5356 5 лет назад +4674

    "The good was so good it made all the bad seem worth it." 18 min

    • @culbertsonmadz7940
      @culbertsonmadz7940 5 лет назад +37

      Sara Wyatt this part got me

    • @bluesweater7706
      @bluesweater7706 5 лет назад +55

      That reminds me of the “After” books from Wattpad. It’s sounds like something Tessa would say.

    • @ziannirosales5334
      @ziannirosales5334 5 лет назад +9

      Sara Wyatt i would love that to be my senior quote

    • @darlingsaeran933
      @darlingsaeran933 5 лет назад +1

      Tana is inspirational

    • @perlazarif4840
      @perlazarif4840 5 лет назад

      I know right... that stabbed

  • @carriebrown679
    @carriebrown679 5 лет назад +5481

    Does anybody else want to color her couch??? 😋

  • @sophieeee173
    @sophieeee173 5 лет назад +296

    I honestly didn’t realise open relationships existed, thanks for educating us instead of getting angry we didn’t understand

    • @toohauteforyou
      @toohauteforyou 5 лет назад +7

      Did you not use the internet before today?

    • @isac6459
      @isac6459 5 лет назад

      I feel like I know who you’re referring to 😂

    • @SixtySecondYoga
      @SixtySecondYoga 5 лет назад +1

      sophie There are lots of videos on here about open and polyamorous relationships if you’re interested! Stevie Boebi’s videos are good.

  • @emmastar020
    @emmastar020 5 лет назад +712

    Is it just me or does tana seem more real and mature in this vid??

    • @v0rtecks
      @v0rtecks 5 лет назад +8

      yes, 100%

    • @neriahtiffani6042
      @neriahtiffani6042 5 лет назад

      Agreed

    • @Thelpsgeekgal124
      @Thelpsgeekgal124 5 лет назад

      i believe she’s always been like this, but the topic of love and her opening up is such a deep thing that she just showed more of that mature side of herself.

  • @Jess-oe4ov
    @Jess-oe4ov 5 лет назад +695

    No one can say that tana hasn’t grown into such a beautiful and open minded person.

    • @ThePerspirator666
      @ThePerspirator666 5 лет назад +5

      im honestly so proud of her

    • @joshuadavis5269
      @joshuadavis5269 5 лет назад

      Yes. Stealing a small indie brands design for her merch and filming a dead body and making fun of the dead person makes one very beautiful and open minded

    • @laurenwyant9547
      @laurenwyant9547 5 лет назад

      Joshua Davis savage 😂

    • @ThePerspirator666
      @ThePerspirator666 5 лет назад +1

      @@joshuadavis5269 everyone does really crappy things in their lives, she has grown and matured a lot and i am proud of her

    • @Jess-oe4ov
      @Jess-oe4ov 5 лет назад +1

      Joshua Davis there are plenty of known or “famous” people in the world who have done horrible things in their past but turned into great people that helped this world. I’m not saying that Tana hasn’t done bad things but everyone learns from their mistakes and she has become someone who can help this generation. Goodbye

  • @subliminalgod6012
    @subliminalgod6012 5 лет назад +1873

    Who’s watching this after Jake and Tana got married?

    • @pilaralurralde4494
      @pilaralurralde4494 5 лет назад +27

      More like divorced

    • @marcusmcg9083
      @marcusmcg9083 5 лет назад +1

      What does she say jays salty of her life ?

    • @serenabrown5505
      @serenabrown5505 5 лет назад

      me

    • @iniubongnkanga9390
      @iniubongnkanga9390 5 лет назад +2

      Keeping tab on your husband or partner isn't something i'd suggest you dive into, notwithstanding, if you need to clear any doubt concerning what secretly goes on in your relationship, he is quick to accomplish results without fail just like he did the last time when i hired him, so i have to make reference to him. He paid great attention to fact as a legit expert and aided me to catch a cheat and his fee is affordable. Contact (geniustracker) on whatsapp +1 (724) 330-3252 or you can text/call him on +1 (415)323-6758 and also write to Via Gmail (geniustracker701) thank me later...

    • @ellamarie7375
      @ellamarie7375 5 лет назад

      Subliminal God yep

  • @0PALLIONx
    @0PALLIONx 5 лет назад +188

    A quote to remember
    “ at the end of the day someone could have every single perfect trait in the world to you, but if someone doesn’t wanna be with you. You’re missing the number one trait, that is the number one trait. Is that they have to want to be with you as much as you want to be with them. “

  • @idk-ze7yv
    @idk-ze7yv 5 лет назад +415

    you’re honestly being so mature and real about this, and that’s really respectable

  • @rene755
    @rene755 5 лет назад +434

    Bella and Jay- Wild, happy, young spirited relationship
    Hunter- heartbreaking, toxic, life changing relationship
    Brad- innocent, schoolgirl, wholesome relationship

  • @prestonj.7687
    @prestonj.7687 5 лет назад +2136

    watching this after the brad breakup

    • @zenaghabban1173
      @zenaghabban1173 5 лет назад +3

      Same

    • @wallfl0werrz516
      @wallfl0werrz516 5 лет назад +2

      Wait what?

    • @zenaghabban1173
      @zenaghabban1173 5 лет назад +28

      @@wallfl0werrz516 he allegedly cheated on her and some people came on Twitter saying that he's known for talking to other girls while being with tana and pretending to be justin bieber due to his facial similarities with him and to also hook up with girls , it is a big deal , search up some drama and tea spilling channels and you'll see the whole story yourself

    • @kmm949
      @kmm949 5 лет назад

      ignore me same

    • @isabellaoliveira9180
      @isabellaoliveira9180 5 лет назад

      Me too

  • @beraxcce
    @beraxcce 5 лет назад +764

    The part about Hunter seriously hurt, I felt that so hard

    • @nikaletxO
      @nikaletxO 5 лет назад

      Beraxcce Xiii SAME

    • @starperson
      @starperson 5 лет назад +4

      yep. just went through that shit. it sucks major ass and the guy and I are strangers now. can barely look at each other. hopefully that doesn't happen to tana and hunter

    • @leticiamirabelax1905
      @leticiamirabelax1905 5 лет назад +1

      i had a hunter and i’m still hurt by it

  • @bluebe4201
    @bluebe4201 5 лет назад +501

    Tana talking about Bella is the purest thing. Bless you Tana

    • @baybabes3282
      @baybabes3282 5 лет назад +2

      Blue Be I know my heart was so happy!

  • @lilrocker091
    @lilrocker091 5 лет назад +247

    The way she talks about Bella like she could go on for hours and hours😍😩

  • @Έλενα-σ5κ
    @Έλενα-σ5κ 4 года назад +219

    Broke up with my "Hunter" a few weeks ago after 3 years, and I've come back to this video so many times... Oh sis do i feel it

    • @cecelove8419
      @cecelove8419 4 года назад +3

      Έλενα my “Hunter” and I broke up in August and I’m still here watching this video

  • @jasonvoorhees9117
    @jasonvoorhees9117 5 лет назад +515

    I’ve had a Hunter, I think we all have.

    • @JillianEK
      @JillianEK 5 лет назад +13

      Cc Xo just sitting here thinking this. And like my guy and I weren’t hooking up. He was my best friend my person my everything. And then he got a gf and decided to block me with no explanation. After years of reassuring me that it was him and I until the end. That he’d always choose me and still be my best friend. Love being lied to

    • @LilacLiiz
      @LilacLiiz 5 лет назад +3

      @@JillianEK oh no 😢.. At least it didnt go on and it would have broken you more 10 years from now... Chin up because makeup is not cheap and you just look more beautiful smiling ☺

    • @kathrynstewart5086
      @kathrynstewart5086 5 лет назад

      Same 😔😌😌

    • @emilyelizabeth3050
      @emilyelizabeth3050 5 лет назад

      Yup, definitely

    • @jessicamartinez-dk3fq
      @jessicamartinez-dk3fq 5 лет назад

      The hunter in my life got me pregnant and then left

  • @katesuzanna
    @katesuzanna 5 лет назад +4860

    the way tana explains her situation with hunter just breaks my heart.... i know exactly how she feels

    • @YouToo.333
      @YouToo.333 5 лет назад +5

      kate hiuser me too girl

    • @kelseythompson7552
      @kelseythompson7552 5 лет назад +22

      Yup. Had a guy that did this with best friend and I. Talk to us both behind our backs. Would hookup with us both. We had suspicions but he made us feel like he wanted us over the other. He talked to us about getting with us the whole time we talked to him but I remember asking him about full on dating and he was not about it. I met his family and everything but he still talked to multiple girls. Manipulative dudes out there.

    • @penink8854
      @penink8854 5 лет назад +2

      kate hiuser me too

    • @frankiiwuelfing635
      @frankiiwuelfing635 5 лет назад +2

      Same 😔

    • @kmm949
      @kmm949 5 лет назад +3

      kate hiuser felt that

  • @laurelspear4285
    @laurelspear4285 5 лет назад +758

    okay her eyebrows do look hella good now that she's started carving them out

  • @cheyennekrause000
    @cheyennekrause000 2 года назад +23

    Tana is so emotionaly in touch. She has a heart and a brain and she is very open. I love her sm

  • @lauryricher3069
    @lauryricher3069 5 лет назад +327

    The way tana talked about Hunter.... she seemed so sad it brokes my heart

    • @yourdad9048
      @yourdad9048 5 лет назад +1

      Laury richer breaks*

    • @briannalovse3089
      @briannalovse3089 5 лет назад +2

      Legit started crying when she was talking about Hunter

    • @PadmeAmidalaEdits
      @PadmeAmidalaEdits 5 лет назад +1

      Laury richer I no I felt like giving her hug poor tana .

  • @ajlamutevelic308
    @ajlamutevelic308 5 лет назад +131

    The hunter part hit me and I can’t stop crying.

  • @zg3869
    @zg3869 5 лет назад +781

    ugh yes i love being in other peoples business

  • @sunflowergin4664
    @sunflowergin4664 5 лет назад +1564

    Watching this after Bella says her and tana aren’t together anymore

    • @whosthatchick5150
      @whosthatchick5150 5 лет назад +12

      Sunflower Diaries saame.. it's sad

    • @sunflowergin4664
      @sunflowergin4664 5 лет назад +18

      Diti Surface on her twitter and on Bella’s twitter you late asf

    • @kristiskiti2282
      @kristiskiti2282 5 лет назад +29

      @Diti Surface Bella literally tweeted "tana and i arent together anymore please stop asking"

    • @sunflowergin4664
      @sunflowergin4664 5 лет назад +24

      @ I don’t care about RUclips drama.
      For someone who doesn’t care you seem to really care 🤷🏻‍♀️

    • @colleenmurphy9997
      @colleenmurphy9997 5 лет назад +30

      @@sunflowergin4664 why you so mad lmao

  • @maggiegott7791
    @maggiegott7791 5 лет назад +340

    The change in tanas voice when she talks about all the people and situations is so cute especially with brad

    • @ericamihelarakis5595
      @ericamihelarakis5595 5 лет назад

      Maggie Gott for real

    • @blueandlittle
      @blueandlittle 5 лет назад

      Maggie Gott Has

    • @thevernonposse
      @thevernonposse 4 года назад

      When she makes a serious video or an apology her voice changes kinda like When Someone is high on opiates It Sounds like she’s pushing her words out

  • @tp__1300
    @tp__1300 5 лет назад +214

    Never seen Tana so calm in a video, ly so much tho ❤

  • @reedsreel
    @reedsreel 5 лет назад +738

    I just really want to color in her couch like a coloring book

  • @hmarie.xO7
    @hmarie.xO7 5 лет назад +382

    Literally laying here at 3 am crying listening to Tana talk about Hunter. I feel this so deep.

    • @lemon-yu4bo
      @lemon-yu4bo 4 года назад +1

      Are u okay?

    • @madeleinebouchard2514
      @madeleinebouchard2514 4 года назад +1

      hmw_xoxo sameeee

    • @hmarie.xO7
      @hmarie.xO7 4 года назад

      @@lemon-yu4bo I didn't see this before, I apologize. Yes I'm okay lol just triggered something in me listening to her talk.

  • @LindaHicksLAH90
    @LindaHicksLAH90 5 лет назад +414

    When you talked about Hunter I just got this feeling like I wanted to give you a hug. The love you have for him and the pain in your voice and that look in your eyes. That broke my heart and you being so open and honest about everything at such a young age. You are very much right in that your early 20s and even then on is about exploring who we are and what we will and will not accept and put up with. Our hearts will break and our lives will change in so many amazing ways. You are truly a beautiful soul and I wish you all the best life has to offer. I am eight years older than you but you have taught me a lot about relationships in this short video and just being you. Thanks for being you! much love xoxo ♥♥

  • @helasprivateacc952
    @helasprivateacc952 5 лет назад +797

    I got me a hunter and i didn’t even know i had a hunter, but now i know. Thank you

  • @ReginaGabriela
    @ReginaGabriela 5 лет назад +434

    honestly cried when she described hunter. i felt that.

  • @mrock46453
    @mrock46453 5 лет назад +99

    tanas whole story with hunter absolutely breaks my heart because wOw i lived it big time

    • @iniubongnkanga9390
      @iniubongnkanga9390 5 лет назад

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  • @arwenmaurer9845
    @arwenmaurer9845 5 лет назад +237

    dude when tana was talking abt hunter you can litterlay hear the hurt in her voice😭 im litteraly crying. i love you.

    • @JinaChantil
      @JinaChantil 5 лет назад +6

      Arwen Maurer “litterlay” 😂😂😂

  • @evelynflynn8116
    @evelynflynn8116 5 лет назад +3339

    You didn’t owe anyone an explanation but thank you for being so honest and real tana

  • @jessicamora1722
    @jessicamora1722 5 лет назад +178

    When she started talking about hunter I literally heard Billie Eilish sing “call me friend, but keep me closer”

    • @cynthiam6004
      @cynthiam6004 5 лет назад

      jessica mora BRO YESSSS

    • @bryh9154
      @bryh9154 5 лет назад +3

      Probably one of the reasons why she loves billie sm :/

  • @jessicarowe7189
    @jessicarowe7189 4 года назад +35

    this is like listening to my best friends rant at a sleepover and i love it

  • @sup3rsuasion
    @sup3rsuasion 5 лет назад +297

    the hunter part got me... i needed to hear a lot of that.

  • @yowtf9588
    @yowtf9588 5 лет назад +670

    the hurt in her voice when she talked about hunter....

  • @kristianfields4412
    @kristianfields4412 5 лет назад +179

    imagine someone talking about you the way that tana talks about bella

    • @toyokorides
      @toyokorides 5 лет назад

      Kristian Fields lol i wish :’)

    • @pbower4378
      @pbower4378 5 лет назад +2

      Kristian Fields I hope one day someone does one day.

    • @LauraLaura-mv4xh
      @LauraLaura-mv4xh 5 лет назад +2

      all that I want is that. legit someone that accepts me how I am and doesn't try to change me. because I accept myself but I do not accept someone trying to change me. but in every single relationship people go with that kind of mentality like "I'm going to mold you" nah I rather be single

  • @winterpia7493
    @winterpia7493 5 лет назад +644

    I learned :
    • Tana is not gay nor straight she's just Tana & full of love ❤.
    • We all need a Bella
    • Sexuality isn't just "gay bi straight"
    • Tana is the best (I already knew that to)
    ❤❤

    • @angelicarios7910
      @angelicarios7910 5 лет назад +4

      Preach👏👏👏

    • @Lena.Jones13
      @Lena.Jones13 5 лет назад +5

      Very true you can love one girl (10yrs) in my case... Never been with a girl before or after... 100% in love w my man now.. Ppl ALWAYS wanted to call me bi but I never felt it.

    • @lgbtorion
      @lgbtorion 5 лет назад +13

      sexuality *is* literally just gay, bi or straight lmao. if you only like the same gender you're gay, if you only like the opposite gender then you're straight and if you like all genders then you're bi. it is literally that simple

    • @peytonh.42
      @peytonh.42 5 лет назад +10

      ares no there is pansexual (loving everyone), asexual (not interested in sexual experiences), demisexual (having to already being friends with the person you fall in love with), etc. It is not only gay, straight, and bi

    • @strawburryjamz2974
      @strawburryjamz2974 5 лет назад +6

      @@peytonh.42 there is also Heteroflixble which means you are mostly heterosexual but has gay tendencies

  • @laurajeano3585
    @laurajeano3585 5 лет назад +379

    I think we all have a Hunter in our live.. that one person who always gonna have a place in our heart, wether we’re in a new fulfilling relationship or even married, there is that one special person we’ll never forget

    • @heathermarler4580
      @heathermarler4580 5 лет назад +1

      me n this dude we were together for a year and a half. and i am the only one that held him down that long. he used to be known as a fuckboy but i had him more than anyone ever has before. and i miss him

    • @rosehehe581
      @rosehehe581 5 лет назад +2

      Yeah I had a "boyfriend" and we were off and on for awhile but then he wanted to be just friends and now he is dating someone else but I still love him with all of my heart, I would take a bullet for him bf or bff

    • @EssenceEtienne
      @EssenceEtienne 5 лет назад +2

      I’m hoping this isn’t true. I hope I’ll get over this

    • @prettyfunny7616
      @prettyfunny7616 5 лет назад +1

      Yep, first loves are hard to get over.

    • @csmmurphy425
      @csmmurphy425 5 лет назад

      the name I have for them are 'token dudes'

  • @drowsyfloof
    @drowsyfloof 5 лет назад +474

    I honestly feel like you and Bella are soulmates. Not the romanticized crap that people think soulmates are, but the kind of soulmate that is someone that just stays in your life forever. They’re someone you need by your side. Doesn’t even have to be one person, but Bella is definitely one of your soulmates.
    Edit: holy twat when someone you fuck w so much hearts your comment like whAt im a pEasAnt?

    • @HahahaThatsTrue
      @HahahaThatsTrue 5 лет назад +2

      Zyx Aomara Raizel people have many soul mates and she is probably one of them. Bella has helped her mature and open up sooooooo much

    • @xoxomars6832
      @xoxomars6832 5 лет назад

      William Rosario ma... MATURE??

  • @SKIRATE
    @SKIRATE 5 лет назад +259

    "I will drop everything in the world for you just to see you smile for 10 seconds" ... if that isn't the most relatable thing I've ever heard in my life I don't know what is

  • @phoebedaly9413
    @phoebedaly9413 5 лет назад +513

    Category: Comedy
    RUclips is drunk

    • @kikiadalis5811
      @kikiadalis5811 5 лет назад +2

      Phoebe Daly 😂👏🏻

    • @carlossibal5486
      @carlossibal5486 5 лет назад

      Phoebe Daly yes it is

    • @mustafaaahmed9608
      @mustafaaahmed9608 5 лет назад

      They are😃

    • @iniubongnkanga9390
      @iniubongnkanga9390 5 лет назад

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    • @rachelmichellep143
      @rachelmichellep143 4 года назад +3

      I may be wrong since I haven't made a video in forever but I think the video creator picks the category

  • @sofi8245
    @sofi8245 5 лет назад +335

    the hunter part is PAINFUL

  • @Sophie-lu4zj
    @Sophie-lu4zj 5 лет назад +1849

    I wish someone talked about me the way Tana talks about Bella

    • @klamb0129
      @klamb0129 5 лет назад +3

      I literally said that exact same thing while watching that😂😭

    • @chloezar468
      @chloezar468 5 лет назад +2

      i know right lmao

    • @NsLostTail
      @NsLostTail 5 лет назад +3

      Hopefully they'll get back together after Tana tweeted her.

    • @chiefsaintdaniel5102
      @chiefsaintdaniel5102 5 лет назад +3

      tana mongeau,bella,juju,snow tha product🙏🏾👼🏾THIS AIN'T HATE TEACHING THIS IS LOVE TEACHING I WOULDN'T TELL YOU THIS YA'LL IF I DIDN'T LOVE YA'LL🙏🏾😇
      🚫MEN SHALL NOT HAVE SEX WITH OTHER MEN AND NEITHER WOMAN SHALL NOT HAVE SEX WITH OTHER WOMEN AND ALSO MEN AND WOMEN SHALL NOT HAVE SEX WITH ANIMALS WHETHER IS A HORSE OR DOG🚫
      📖Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination. Neither shalt thou lie with any beast to defile thyself therewith: neither shall any woman stand before a beast to lie down thereto: it is confusion. Defile not ye yourselves in any of these things: for in all these the nations are defiled which I cast out before you:📖LEVITICUS 18:22-24
      🙏🏾👼🏾SHALUM FAMILY🙏🏾😇

  • @kristenwehrer5112
    @kristenwehrer5112 5 лет назад +269

    I have never seen her speak so openly and use her words so well, I'm definitely proud of you girl ❤

  • @andinelson2945
    @andinelson2945 4 года назад +64

    i don’t think i’ve ever related to anything more than when she was talking about hunter.

  • @teehee5115
    @teehee5115 5 лет назад +227

    When she started talking about hunter you can really see the pain in her eyes and voice 😭😭

  • @samburgerbun
    @samburgerbun 5 лет назад +1662

    Bella- 4:20
    Hunter- 12:22
    Jay- 20:07
    Brad- 23:00
    Yr welcome.

  • @emilywebb6678
    @emilywebb6678 5 лет назад +274

    This is why I love you so much Tana, you are one of the most genuine, honest, and kind hearted people on this platform. You deserve no hate because you are just so amazing and I will always look up to you as an inspiration ♥️

    • @annaphelan635
      @annaphelan635 5 лет назад

      Emily Webb um sorry is this a joke cause tana isn’t honest 😂

    • @colettebayliss3015
      @colettebayliss3015 5 лет назад

      girl where do I start... tana filmed an overdosed dead man and uploaded it on RUclips and literally yesterday got sued for stealing someone’s artwork

    • @bambi7563
      @bambi7563 5 лет назад +2

      Anna Phelan why do you and the other replyer gotta be hating ass bitches and bring negativity to such a positive comment. Clearly this video was honest and everyone literally everyone makes mistakes. And let me guess y'all are Christians with y'all judging asses smh..

  • @sophiaparenti6719
    @sophiaparenti6719 3 года назад +53

    well this hasn’t aged well...

  • @hsn2277
    @hsn2277 5 лет назад +5557

    hearing tana talk about the whole situation with hunter hits way too close to home, i’m balling my eyes out watching this video, i’ve been put in that same exact position one too many times, there is nothing more destroying in the entire world of feeling like you are not good enough for someone and them telling you, they are not ready for a relationship, just to watch them walk off and immediately be with someone else, heart wrenching, 100% my heart breaks for you tana, i hope you read this and know someone else knows exactly what you have gone through

    • @maeveandart18
      @maeveandart18 5 лет назад +52

      i feel this too, i went through the same thing as well. it seems like its very much a this generation thing of people being selfish enough to want the perks of being with you, but never fully claiming you because of the few bad things. sending u love

    • @hsn2277
      @hsn2277 5 лет назад +12

      maeveandart18 sending you love as well hon, i’ve been in an amazing relationship for the past year and a half and i’m moving forward and loving myself! i hope you can find that within yourself as well! all love xx

    • @helenapowers7849
      @helenapowers7849 5 лет назад +8

      me too. it hurts

    • @jadenelizabeth2623
      @jadenelizabeth2623 5 лет назад +10

      Broooo I felt that in my SOULLL💔

    • @elizabethryder6004
      @elizabethryder6004 5 лет назад +12

      You will find somebody who will be ready and want to be with you as much as you want to be with them and love you as much as you love them. I’m sorry you had to go through that.

  • @alexis-zn4qr
    @alexis-zn4qr 5 лет назад +605

    I think Tana just clarified my feelings for me and a lot of others... beautiful.

  • @Ashleynicole-fk5kx
    @Ashleynicole-fk5kx 5 лет назад +3141

    Bella 4:24
    Hunter 12:22
    Jay 20:04
    Brad 23:07
    Incase you were wondering :)

  • @ddogteethh
    @ddogteethh 5 лет назад +11

    I LOVE YOU! Hearing someone be so open and honest about being in a polyamorous/open relationship is so refreshing, because so many people sweep it under the rug and just shit on it. I adore you.

  • @iiz420
    @iiz420 5 лет назад +727

    The way you talk about Bella is the most beautiful thing ever oh my god

  • @ChicBeautyxo13
    @ChicBeautyxo13 5 лет назад +288

    The whole hunter part is so hard to watch because I’ve been in such a toxic relationship for the past year plus. I hope one day I figure my life out

    • @karisgreen1009
      @karisgreen1009 5 лет назад +2

      you got this queen, I hope you bring yourself peace n self love in 2019, and realise you're worth your weight in gold❤️

    • @Eileen_Lola
      @Eileen_Lola 5 лет назад

      Let me know if you ever want to talk!

  • @Pick6124
    @Pick6124 5 лет назад +210

    I actually liked that you never had a “proper” coming out video because it helps stop the whole “I am obligated to tell others that my sexual preference isn’t the same as theirs.” I thought it was pretty cool 😄

  • @deannarosee2
    @deannarosee2 3 года назад +47

    Who’s here after her beef with Bella on tik tok LOL

  • @CarsonLovesYou12
    @CarsonLovesYou12 5 лет назад +236

    I feel like I haven’t seen this “real” side of you without being loud and crazy in a long time. And I hope you create more videos like this in the near future. This is the tana that I love watching. I would love to be friends with THIS tana. You sound so smart and so genuine. I hate how heartbroken Hunter makes you. I can clearly hear the pain in your voice when you speak about him. I pray that your current relationship with Brad keeps you happy. Happiness is all that matters. Love you, sweet girl. ❤️

  • @jakebeauty
    @jakebeauty 5 лет назад +438

    I related to the Hunter part so hard why am I crying

  • @hannabo2799
    @hannabo2799 5 лет назад +185

    You can truly feel her pain when she talks about hunter.

  • @coupschi1208
    @coupschi1208 5 лет назад +579

    This is so sad to watch knowing that her and bella have broken up

    • @coupschi1208
      @coupschi1208 5 лет назад +7

      Alice Arthur they’ve been broken up for like a week or 2 now

    • @coupschi1208
      @coupschi1208 5 лет назад +2

      www.teenvogue.com/story/bella-thorne-tana-mongeau-broken-up/amp

    • @exh-hm2sm
      @exh-hm2sm 5 лет назад

      Kim Fileto yup

    • @iniubongnkanga9390
      @iniubongnkanga9390 5 лет назад

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  • @laurajeano3585
    @laurajeano3585 5 лет назад +822

    So sad how you can hear the cracks in your voice while talking about hunter..felt that so much

    • @dezzasmr
      @dezzasmr 5 лет назад

      Laura Jeano I was going to comment about this

  • @lolalocke2533
    @lolalocke2533 5 лет назад +446

    I feel like every girl has a hunter at one point in their life🤧💔

  • @morgansykes511
    @morgansykes511 5 лет назад +1757

    Intro: 0:00-4:19
    Bella: 4:20-12:20
    Hunter: 12:21-20:01
    Jay: 20:02-22:59
    Brad: 23:00-25:05
    Outro: 25:06-27:23
    ur welcome! ps love u tana

  • @jaylove8053
    @jaylove8053 5 лет назад +270

    Wow...after watching this I see I have a Hunter in my life right now.. thank you Tana

  • @nadia1808
    @nadia1808 5 лет назад +205

    wow, in this video, which really shows your vulnerable side, it really is clear that you are very mature. I just love your mindset and your outlook on life.... I wanted to hug you through the screen throughout the entire video.

  • @desposito22
    @desposito22 5 лет назад +157

    That shit with hunter hit home. There are so few people who you will go and sacrifice your own happiness for to see someone smile for 20seconds. Because its worth it to you in that moment.

  • @Emily-im1hu
    @Emily-im1hu 5 лет назад +195

    "the sad part is hunter didnt and doesnt" damn :(