This is Jayjeezy I’m the one being interviewed . Thank u all for your kind words and support.I am thankful and grateful for this opportunity to be on SWU.I took the chance and flew out to LA myself to be interviewed.I’m still trying to do n be better and get my life together and get my cdl. I’m still trying to understand and find myself and my purpose. I’m still trying to figure out how to be a man. I doubt anyone will want me at this point but it’s cool I’m humbled and am grateful that people out here support me.I really want to get my cdl and change my life and still working towards that. I’m still seeing women until this day and it’s all I know now and believe ill never be wanted by any real woman. the fetish and the perversions have overpowered me to where I feel utterly confused.I became infatuated with sex workers and it’s an irresistible feeling. I just feel lost but I’m trying to become the better man and the better version of myself and wanted to open up despite the ridicule and mockery. Thank u mark for giving me to chance to speak and thank u to everyone who volunteered to hear me out I really appreciate it.
Regardless bro. We love you and accept you for who you are. Keep staying positive! Get that CDL and make that life changing money! Life is going to turn around for you soon brother. But mean while, kinda back away from these internet sluts. Keep your money, and build yourself 👌🏾🔥
I was watching then I came across your comment. I stopped the video at 3 minutes and I don’t want to watch it. I want to give you advice as a 49 year old woman the best I can. First off you can get a cdl but know it is a lonely job. You will then have money and be in situations to buy all the ass you want. Get you a local job driving an apartment of your own. Be a part of society. Society needs healthy young people. Get a hold of this addiction now because you will grown old alone and possibly even groulish. You can be or do anything you want to. Seek and remove this spirit of jezebel and perverse spirit off of you. Yes you will find a woman that will want you one day and out grow all of the wild fetish you think you are accustomed to you will no longer even have a taste for them.
Hope you get your cdl mane. I suggest you get your passport if you don’t already have one and get out of this matrix for a week or two. It’ll do you some good
I went to school with him, it’s true he was bullied a lot. For no reason too he’s a cool dude. Started trying to rap and saw him handing out mixtapes once in the hood and I bought one and bumped it for a while. You can turn anything around Jay!
I know Jay, he isn’t a defeated man, he is just misunderstood and judged off appearances. He’s a good guy who continues to try and understand things. He jokes around us and try to pick our brain about certain situations. I got his autograph just so he know I’m a friend and fan of the man he is becoming. Always love Jay
I think he could have a pretty decent podcast career himself. Although he’s not the most articulate person ever, he has a way with words and his voice is like a radio hosts dream.
There are CEOs, senior executives, entertainers, lawyers, and basically folks from all walks of life dealing with the same emotional turmoil that he's talking about. They may just be dealing with it in nicer places. His honesty is just at a level that most of us rarely encounter. Thank you SWU and @Jayjezzy for this episode. Praying for a breakthrough for this young man.
I knew a few girls that used to do this stuff and they said the types of people they saw the most were police offers, firemen and business men, there are of course weirdos involved but the majority was actually law enforcement according to her, this was many years back, doubt much has changed...
Not everybody alot of ppl no longer let it bring them down from the past if they were bullied in school or whatever most ppl grow out of it and get. Into bigger greater things🙏
Great guy. Genuine soul. Very articulate. I pray that this man has nothing but love, happiness, and success. I know what it's like to be misunderstood feeling like you have nobody.
When he becomes a professional truck driver I hope he has the same and better sense of hyper-vigilence about his safety. I hope he can find a woman who can treat him respectfully and appreciate him. He is smart to decide to get a profession/career in truck driving. Wish him all the best!
Im not surprised he showed up on here, ive followed jayjeezy n have seen his Instagram of him promoting and pursuing his music. A real dedicated guy, cant hate. I show my respect cause he still strives and faces barriers he conquers himself. Hope he makes it in his life we are all trying to make it by. Show jayjeezy some love, cant knock a brother for trying.
He’s a beautiful soul ..life is full of short straws . I hear a thoughtfulness and a kindness along with transparency and self awareness. I pray he succeeds with trucking and maybe will heal in time .what he wants isn’t complicated… it’s love and being treated genuinely.
I agree. He spent a lot of time talking with his head down , and on the rare occasion he’d look up, he’d look back down immediately like he did something wrong or something.
Doing that doesn't help his case, he needs to change his clothes maybe, cut his hair, even go to the gym for a damn hour can make you feel better about yourself but some people are too addicted to this shit to get out, truly a sad situation..
Definitely don't get the feel of defeat from him. Just a regular honest and self aware chill dude. He sees things for what it is, doesn't mean he's "defeated"
Not everyone in this life will use and manipulate you Jay. You seem like a kind and genuine person. Get that CDL and start traveling. Good luck and god bless man.
I'd like to see updates on this chap, seems as if he is trying to make a difference in his life. Hopefully things will work out for him. Lovely about how he speaks about the importance of women. Nice to see in 2022
Yes, it is! A lot of of people think tricks do what they do because they hate women and want to hurt them. I’ve been in the business, and the more people I got to know, the more I understood there are a lot of lonely people out there, trying to connect with someone however they can. There are certainly entitled people with a negative attitude toward women, which no one should have to deal with, but not all of them. There are some really good people, anywhere you go. I appreciate him saying you’ve got to respect that working girls need to make a living, and what he said about all of us having come from a woman was spot on. There are people who think they did it on their own, and don’t see our essential interconnectedness.
It's amazing how open and honest some people can be. With a few different life choices this could be just about anyone. The loneliness is haunting as is the amount of second-guessing Jayjeezy must go through. I imagine that since he can't share this stuff with his friends or family it just make you want to explode. Thanks for sharing and being such a great interviewer Mark.
Jayjeezy, your voice is absolutely amazing. I could listen to you talk all day long. You have the most soothing, calm, beautiful voice I've heard. I really hope someone discovers you and hires you as a radio host, or a book reader or something so you can use that very special gift you've got. And share it with the world because that's a rare thing you've got there. I'm sure that many other people will agree with me. I hope this gives you the right exposure necessary for the ball to start running. I wish you all the best, lots of love all the way from Norway.
What exactly did you notice about his eye coordination? I'm just curious. ...I think I know what you mean, and I've sort of noticed this aspect of people, but never thought about it the way you described it.
@@onefarenheit I think it's both an inability to make much eye contact and, at the same time, a need to check the listener's face for his/her reaction to what's been said.
Seems like he a good person.. just haven’t had a great start for something new! I believe if he wants a better life he will eventually get it.. I wish you lots of luck !
If most of us had JayJeezy's honesty, we too could have an interesting interview. JayJeezy just has a truth about him that makes him seem like he can honestly work through the issues he is facing through self-reflection. I admire anyone willing to work on themselves and each and every one of us could benefit from being this honest with ourselves. Thank you for being an open book and stick with the CDL journey!
These interviews are always very touching in many different ways. We need stuff like this to show people the REALITY of this sicc and twisted world. Much love bro keep the realness coming
He needs to accept himself and stop seeking acceptance from women, a female can never truly love a man the way he desires, that is what your mother is for.
At some point something or someone has shattered this guys self confidence and as it now shows he’s on a carousel. It’s a shame I hope he meets someone genuine that can restore his view on relationship. He needs to fall in love, mixing in different circles would help. Move. Work. Fall in love. Seems like a nice guy.
So true. His self esteem is so shattered. He needs a nice young lady that truly sincere & wants him for him. He needs a true chance for genuine love!!!
I appreciate your interview and want to thank JayJeezy for sharing with us his story and the misunderstandings surrounding this facet of american life. I learned something and will be forever grateful for this experience. Thank you again to both of you.. Marc your work should be in a book... every single human you have given a voice to had and needed to be heard.
Handsome, verbally articulate, peculiar and aware.. Wow, all the bast to you young man. I pray you continue to find yourself and grow in every area you desire..
I've never seen a man come across as so defeated and sad. He is a good soul, who needs someone who is a genuine as he is to date, and have a relationship with.;and watching further into his interview it's very eye opening into why so many men unfortunately are messed up emotionally because they are dealing with the wrong types of women ..
@@modalsoul6511 WRONG. If no one was ever around to show them how (victims) then you can’t say HE HAS TO WANT TO CHANGE ETC ETC, it doesn’t work like that. My friend LITERALLY posted the same thing, that’s defeating someone even LOWER past their point of defeat, you can’t diminish them.
@@GabrielXDrums I’m not diminishing him …he’s not appealing to the opposite gender, he’s awkward , and physically unattractive, he has to pick a struggle….. example if you want a quality woman cannot be 1 SHORT 2 BROKE 3 UNATTRACTIVE You can’t be all 3 , ya gotta make some changes …that’s too many struggles .
@@robama5878 right on brother , he said he wants to be a truck driver… that’ll fix his income … I don’t know how tall he is but he definitely needs some better clothing, and he needs better hygiene…. haircut , get rid of most of not all of that facial hair and he may even need to work on his speech and overall self esteem ( I struggle with my self esteem now )
During the beginning of the pandemic, I was introduced into something called “findom”. It was even more prevalent during the pandemic because everyone was stuck inside, the same as OnlyFans. What I quickly realized is that the majority of men who part-took in this kink really thought that they had no other options. Only about 5%-10% of the men that gave me money were secure in their overall life. The rest truly didn’t think they were deserving of a relationship, unless it was them being subservient and a “punch bag”. It was so difficult to continue once I realized there was SO much more to their kinks and fetishes than “just liking it”. It’s something that you grow to be accustomed to because the experiences you’ve gone through. I really wish women would speak more life into the men in their lives. I couldn’t imagine the men in my family going through this self-depreciating things. Some of these fetishes help them process their traumas, but unfortunately a lot of them just continue in them because that’s all they know/ think they deserve.
I've had fulfilling experiences with women all my life, but it's not something that I do and I'm done with. It's a constant desire. My last relationship lasted 2.5 years and it was the happiest I've been in the past 10 years. She dumped me mid-Covid and me having aged past 30. Ever since then I feel like dating and relationships is the most miserable experience to the point where I'm genuinely considering paying to have my needs met. I really don't have the time or patience to get my entire life together. I still have needs that are way past due. I have no problems with commitment and taking the steps to form a relationship with a woman, but since turning 30, it's been constant rejection for any and every tiny reason. I have a good job, I have a car, I have goals, and I'm decently attractive to boot. I might not be the most motivated person in the world, but I'm trying to do the right things. Despite all of this, it's constant rejection. It's constantly trying to say or do the right thing and always being seen as a non-option. I started a new career 5 years ago and I'm thriving in my career. But when it comes to women, it's a crapshoot. Can barely even get a text back from a woman. The only women that seem to be attracted to me usually have some sort of drug problem and are highly promiscuous. I mean, dear god, if I find a loyal woman in this life, it'll be too soon. I never understood the findom thing, but hey, to each their own.
Wow....never seen an interview like this before, but he seems to be a very intelligent young man. That's why you can't always judge a book by it's cover. He's very honest about his life. Very articulate and opened about his life and the things he wants to improve upon, Everyone should be this way. We're all human and we all have vices. Great interview.
This was a really good IMPORTANT interview! He's not a bad guy and I KNOW 1st hand about being bullied but in my case, I picked up a STONE and hit my bully point BLANK in the FACE and watched his face crack open! I LOVED that shyt! 🤣 Anyway, all he need is 1 or 2 good MALE friends to get him on the right track . I wish him true happiness in this GAME of life!
Interesting you said MALE friends. I agree. A couple solid guys to have some brotherhood. As nasty as it sounds, he’s better off hiring hookers here and there. Stay well clear of women for a “relationship “ they are mostly manipulative users. I wish him luck.
I've never really thought about how dangerous it can be for the johns. I hope you can find a few friends who can respect your insight and honesty instead of taking advantage of your kindness, Jay. The world might be a little better if we could all be so truthful. Good luck getting your CDL!
He truly never considered or knew what addictive behavior looks like. Its not harmful but the frequency steals time and quality of life from you. Although is 3 times a week, imagine the additional time of fantasizing, planning, coordinating, etc. Its a lot more to life and possibly better coping mechanisms. Much love Jay 🙏🏾
Jay, I really appreciate your honesty and truth on this particular topic. Many men would never open up about this topic and continue to stay private or afraid to get looked at a certain way. Hope you truly experience true love and happiness. God bless you and all of your endeavors. 💯
Jay is on the right path, he stopped drinking and smoking for the opportunity of a CDL. He has the youth and capability to find a nice girl, he just has to keep trying and growing to better himself. I wish he would do therapy, he would benefit.
Man I watch all these interviews but I'm crying tears down my face within the first two mins. This guy just needs love and a friend ❤ I'd be his friend ❤
Such an intelligent and intense young man. I am praying for you my young friend. I wish that he finds all of the beauty in this world 🌎 that he deserves.
It makes me think of all the people I saw get bullied growing up. 😔 I got bullied myself but idk I just always had this bulletproof spirit… I never really truly let shit get me down growing up, and I similarly didn’t really have friends, just acquaintances. But there were kids who got bullied so much more and you could tell they didn’t have the hope/faith I did… and I just hope they found their strength and have attained happiness and success in life since. Shit breaks a person down and it fucking sucks. I remember teachers never said or did shit about it. Shame on them.
Bro you gotta stop chasing that lust it's a never ending dark whole that will suck the life right out of you literally its a insatiable itch you can never satisfy trust 💯
I’m sorry you were bullied. I was also bullied for many years. It almost destroyed my soul. I wish nothing but the best for you. Please don’t give up, keep your head to the 🌌 sky
I didn’t know he had all these so called friends. He needs another video to explain his childhood a little deeper. He’s so smart and intelligent. Talented and will driven. I’m so proud of him. I’m that friend that show him tough love and love him whole heartily. He call I come. I’m not going sit and pity him. I’m going to encourage him. Ask him where are we going Jay. What’s your next plan. He has so much against him but he doesn’t let it stop him. But he needs another video please. ❤
Ninety percent of these comments made me proud. Young Man keep ya head up, and always believe in you. The world is cruel, don’t ever let it change you.
I would love to show this man good people! Be a good friend, he can't even look at you Mark. I could show him friends that look at the personality not profit.
His voice and overall demeanor remind me of the late, great, Michael Clarke Duncan's role in *The Green Mile* . There's so much sadness + melancholy in his eyes. I hope the Universal Forces pour nothing but GOOD things on Jay, and I fervently hope his dreams become reality!
What I respect about dude is that he know who he is. A lot of men with a wife/girlfriend don’t know that the relationship is purely transactional. At least he knows that
If that’s you’re experiencing I feel bad for u but good relationships aren’t transactional at all. If you think like that everything is a transaction you and you’re parents relationship was a transaction, you and you’re friends etc that’s gonna lead you down a dark soulless path and might end you up where he is at
All relationships are not transactional. That's a huge generalization and huge false assumption. The only type of relationships that would be only transactional are superficial ones and ones that are based on nothing but materialism and nonreal love.... Genuine relationships are way more than that
My man said we aren't all gangsters. This totally resonates with me because I grew up in a rough environment myself, and you are subject to guilt by association. People assume that all black men who grow up in the hood are thugs, but that isn't the case. He is totally correct, women are the only one's people think are afraid of violence, but men are too. Some of us didn't grow up with fathers, uncle, siblings who were in the streets banging, we just lived in poor neighborhoods because our parents had no money. We get exposed to the vile side of life from an early age, and it creates a certain type of person.
Kids can be so cruel at a young age. And I’m one that has bullied someone… I didn’t realize it until I was older. I feel so bad about it now smh. I hope this guy has a great life moving forward. 🙏🏾
I hate bullies I was bullied as a kid too but I grew up to be a beast in my late thirties and finally calmed down from what happened to me as a child smh
People in the comments talking about he “got dealt a bad hand”. There’s nothing wrong with bro. Nothing a haircut, the gym, and a little therapy can’t fix. Some of y’all acting like bro disfigured or missing arms or legs. Bro smart and introspective and has more self awareness than most people.
@@modalsoul6511 of course…not doubt ima upgrade my boi quickly and help him start feeling better about making making decisions/ live a little more in life but more than anything my dude need someone to listen without any criticism and feedback for a moment…that’s all he really want
Thankyou Jayjeezy for being so open. I hope you don't mind me saying but has anyone ever said that you might have Aspergers syndrome. One of the biggest things for people with aspergers is social anxiety, and knowing boundaries. It just made me think. I hope that the right woman finds you. There will always be people who will try and scam those who appear vulnerable. It's ok to have fetishes, and I can understand why, because of your past experiences with women that you feel safer buying sex than trying to get into a relationship with someone.
He’s such a lovely guy but yet still so defeated by his traumas. Someone willing to be his mentor and help him grow his confidence???, make friends and show him that the world is his oyster and opportunities are there to be had 🙏🏾
This is so relatable, and harrowing. Lust, and the addiction you (can) develop to it, will make meaningful relationships virtually impossible to imagine/pursue/sustain.
You and your story truly touched my heart. You are one of the good ones believe that. You are young, keep an open mind and the right one will come into your life when you least except it. You deserve love because you have love in your heart.
He seems like such a good dude that has been done dirty by woman in his past. Hope he finds a real one that shows him how good being in love can be. Wish him all the best!
He reminds me a LOT of an ex situation-ship I had. He said a lot of the same things like it’s hard to stay with one person, he was heartbroken so much he didn’t want love anymore, etc. (had mommy issues) He would be loving one minute, kisses and love, but pushing me away the next. I didn’t want or need anything from him except HIM. No matter how sad it is, men with this mindset cannot be changed until they are ready to. I hope they overcome falling victim to the flesh and addiction ❤️ but at least he’s being honest
This is Jayjeezy I’m the one being interviewed . Thank u all for your kind words and support.I am thankful and grateful for this opportunity to be on SWU.I took the chance and flew out to LA myself to be interviewed.I’m still trying to do n be better and get my life together and get my cdl. I’m still trying to understand and find myself and my purpose. I’m still trying to figure out how to be a man. I doubt anyone will want me at this point but it’s cool I’m humbled and am grateful that people out here support me.I really want to get my cdl and change my life and still working towards that. I’m still seeing women until this day and it’s all I know now and believe ill never be wanted by any real woman. the fetish and the perversions have overpowered me to where I feel utterly confused.I became infatuated with sex workers and it’s an irresistible feeling. I just feel lost but I’m trying to become the better man and the better version of myself and wanted to open up despite the ridicule and mockery. Thank u mark for giving me to chance to speak and thank u to everyone who volunteered to hear me out I really appreciate it.
Regardless bro. We love you and accept you for who you are. Keep staying positive! Get that CDL and make that life changing money! Life is going to turn around for you soon brother. But mean while, kinda back away from these internet sluts. Keep your money, and build yourself 👌🏾🔥
I was watching then I came across your comment. I stopped the video at 3 minutes and I don’t want to watch it. I want to give you advice as a 49 year old woman the best I can. First off you can get a cdl but know it is a lonely job. You will then have money and be in situations to buy all the ass you want. Get you a local job driving an apartment of your own. Be a part of society. Society needs healthy young people. Get a hold of this addiction now because you will grown old alone and possibly even groulish. You can be or do anything you want to. Seek and remove this spirit of jezebel and perverse spirit off of you. Yes you will find a woman that will want you one day and out grow all of the wild fetish you think you are accustomed to you will no longer even have a taste for them.
I wish you the best and any other young soul that feels lost or alone the best. All you are searching for is already inside of you.
Hope you get your cdl mane. I suggest you get your passport if you don’t already have one and get out of this matrix for a week or two. It’ll do you some good
I wish you the best! Don’t give up and keep trying to make it. 🙏🏾
I went to school with him, it’s true he was bullied a lot. For no reason too he’s a cool dude. Started trying to rap and saw him handing out mixtapes once in the hood and I bought one and bumped it for a while. You can turn anything around Jay!
love this
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@@rn4965 😂😂🤣
Why weren’t you his friend?
@@loulousworld92 why should he be friends with him,? Were you friends with everyone in your school
I know Jay, he isn’t a defeated man, he is just misunderstood and judged off appearances. He’s a good guy who continues to try and understand things. He jokes around us and try to pick our brain about certain situations. I got his autograph just so he know I’m a friend and fan of the man he is becoming. Always love Jay
dude jay has only ever been the man to bring positivity w him love jay
Where can I find him?
Judged off appearance????? What do you mean by that?
@@btgm5397 you know wtf he meant man. Cut it out.
So why he gotta be judged off his appearance an not judged off his personality you just straight up calling him ugly
Man this guy is honest af… a lot of men go through this shit but never in a million years would they be as open to the degree this guy is
Facts
💯 I was shocked when he said he just gets his n*
Nigga lied about bein 26 tht boy like 36
I think he could have a pretty decent podcast career himself. Although he’s not the most articulate person ever, he has a way with words and his voice is like a radio hosts dream.
@@Jay-hp6pu he isn't articulate because he probably doesn't conversate alot
There are CEOs, senior executives, entertainers, lawyers, and basically folks from all walks of life dealing with the same emotional turmoil that he's talking about. They may just be dealing with it in nicer places. His honesty is just at a level that most of us rarely encounter. Thank you SWU and @Jayjezzy for this episode. Praying for a breakthrough for this young man.
I knew a few girls that used to do this stuff and they said the types of people they saw the most were police offers, firemen and business men, there are of course weirdos involved but the majority was actually law enforcement according to her, this was many years back, doubt much has changed...
Me too!
I totally agree!!!
Yep, like Bill Maher, heard he was a big time john.
Get your cdl brother. I got mines at 26 and it changed my life. I’ve been to 44 states and now have lived in 4 states with no regrets.
Something just destroys me inside when I hear about people getting picked on/made fun of
He has a nice deep voice
I'm so sorry to hear he was bullied that always has a lasting effect on people.
Not everybody alot of ppl no longer let it bring them down from the past if they were bullied in school or whatever most ppl grow out of it and get. Into bigger greater things🙏
Always is a bit of an exaggeration
Great guy. Genuine soul. Very articulate. I pray that this man has nothing but love, happiness, and success. I know what it's like to be misunderstood feeling like you have nobody.
“We’re not all gangstas, some of us are just lame.” FACTS.
😂😂😂😂
Should make a t shirt 👕 out of it
😂😂😂😂💯
Nothing wrong with acting like a gangsta
Me rn
I know jay pretty well. He’s a good guy with shitty cards dealt to him. I hope only good comes to him
What kind of cards
No pun Intended
How can we help him ?
@@four4four636 7 - 2 offsuit
Why you say shitty cards dealt ?
This young man is well spoken & I think he just needs "his chance"... I wish him all the luck in the world...
well spoken?
@@jeezusASV I feel like he belongs on a shrimp'n boat for some reason.
I, too, want him to win! He’s so young!
@@jeezusASV YES
@@msdemeanour both y’all trippin
He has a perfect narrating voice.
Exactly. You can hear the innocence and kindness
Deff not innocent 😇
He could definitely be a voice narrator, I would love to meet Jayjeezy off camera to see how he interacts with the public, Jayjeezy is very intriguing
Lol yes he does
100%
When he becomes a professional truck driver I hope he has the same and better sense of hyper-vigilence about his safety. I hope he can find a woman who can treat him respectfully and appreciate him. He is smart to decide to get a profession/career in truck driving. Wish him all the best!
And there are all the lot lizards that will become available to him at truck stops
@@OTMhzmt especially in the south lol
@@OTMhzmt that was my first thought when I heard him say cdl. I was like Shid that’s just gon make his addiction grow
@@thereformedrayray he doesn't even think he's addicted smh
@@thereformedrayray yeah this dude is a few noches away from being a sexual predator.
Im not surprised he showed up on here, ive followed jayjeezy n have seen his Instagram of him promoting and pursuing his music. A real dedicated guy, cant hate. I show my respect cause he still strives and faces barriers he conquers himself. Hope he makes it in his life we are all trying to make it by. Show jayjeezy some love, cant knock a brother for trying.
What’s his @
@@butterflyjaeheart what is it
So many fans of this guy saying awesome things for him. I don't even know him and I pray he finds his way
So transparent and honest -- quite a good guy. All the best to him.
I can tell he’s a cool ass guy he was misunderstood growing up
Dude is really intelligent, well spoken & honest. Respect, I wish him the best!
He’s a beautiful soul ..life is full of short straws . I hear a thoughtfulness and a kindness along with transparency and self awareness. I pray he succeeds with trucking and maybe will heal in time .what he wants isn’t complicated… it’s love and being treated genuinely.
Talk about a beautiful comment, I'm fighting the urge to cry right now after reading it, but it not a painful, it feels good to cry
@@t-man5196 grow a pair
You can just tell by his demeanor, how defeated he feels
I agree. He spent a lot of time talking with his head down , and on the rare occasion he’d look up, he’d look back down immediately like he did something wrong or something.
Right. Slick makes me wanna cry 🥺
Shut up
Doing that doesn't help his case, he needs to change his clothes maybe, cut his hair, even go to the gym for a damn hour can make you feel better about yourself but some people are too addicted to this shit to get out, truly a sad situation..
Definitely don't get the feel of defeat from him. Just a regular honest and self aware chill dude. He sees things for what it is, doesn't mean he's "defeated"
Not everyone in this life will use and manipulate you Jay. You seem like a kind and genuine person. Get that CDL and start traveling. Good luck and god bless man.
He seems like a good man, hope he stays safe out there.
I'd like to see updates on this chap, seems as if he is trying to make a difference in his life. Hopefully things will work out for him. Lovely about how he speaks about the importance of women. Nice to see in 2022
He does trucking rn
He posts on his instagram and Snapchat daily so that would be your best bet
Yes, it is! A lot of of people think tricks do what they do because they hate women and want to hurt them. I’ve been in the business, and the more people I got to know, the more I understood there are a lot of lonely people out there, trying to connect with someone however they can. There are certainly entitled people with a negative attitude toward women, which no one should have to deal with, but not all of them. There are some really good people, anywhere you go. I appreciate him saying you’ve got to respect that working girls need to make a living, and what he said about all of us having come from a woman was spot on. There are people who think they did it on their own, and don’t see our essential interconnectedness.
"Chap" ? 🤔
It's amazing how open and honest some people can be. With a few different life choices this could be just about anyone. The loneliness is haunting as is the amount of second-guessing Jayjeezy must go through. I imagine that since he can't share this stuff with his friends or family it just make you want to explode. Thanks for sharing and being such a great interviewer Mark.
Jay is a cool guy, but he will pretty much share everything with everyone all the time.
Jayjeezy, your voice is absolutely amazing.
I could listen to you talk all day long.
You have the most soothing, calm, beautiful voice I've heard.
I really hope someone discovers you and hires you as a radio host, or a book reader or something so you can use that very special gift you've got. And share it with the world because that's a rare thing you've got there.
I'm sure that many other people will agree with me. I hope this gives you the right exposure necessary for the ball to start running.
I wish you all the best, lots of love all the way from Norway.
He can get into movies with that voice of his.
Tampa
Most definitely! He can do voice overs in huge Hollywood movies!
Someone just have to get him in touch with the people who can help him use his gift.
I love this encouragement
So true thought the same
No lie detected, this man is boldly honest.. respect 💯 ✊🏾
You can tell how anxious and fast his mind is going with his eye coordination.. 🥺💚 he really seems like a great genuine man.
I suffer from the same thing, what is this???
What exactly did you notice about his eye coordination? I'm just curious. ...I think I know what you mean, and I've sort of noticed this aspect of people, but never thought about it the way you described it.
@@onefarenheit rapid eye movement from side to side when asked a question, that’s how I would describe it
@@onefarenheit I think it's both an inability to make much eye contact and, at the same time, a need to check the listener's face for his/her reaction to what's been said.
Seems like he a good person.. just haven’t had a great start for something new! I believe if he wants a better life he will eventually get it.. I wish you lots of luck !
I really enjoy listening to him. He's so honest and transparent about what he's into.
Jay is actually a really smart man. I wish him all the best. He sees his shortcomings and knows he needs to change. Good luck bro
Homie needs a voice over gig asap. My boy could really be something. Intelligent, articulate, self aware.
He really could take Morgan freeman.
If most of us had JayJeezy's honesty, we too could have an interesting interview. JayJeezy just has a truth about him that makes him seem like he can honestly work through the issues he is facing through self-reflection. I admire anyone willing to work on themselves and each and every one of us could benefit from being this honest with ourselves. Thank you for being an open book and stick with the CDL journey!
These interviews are always very touching in many different ways. We need stuff like this to show people the REALITY of this sicc and twisted world. Much love bro keep the realness coming
He is worthy of Love, but I feel He doesn't believe anyone will truly love Him for who he is.
He needs to accept himself and stop seeking acceptance from women, a female can never truly love a man the way he desires, that is what your mother is for.
At some point something or someone has shattered this guys self confidence and as it now shows he’s on a carousel. It’s a shame I hope he meets someone genuine that can restore his view on relationship. He needs to fall in love, mixing in different circles would help. Move. Work. Fall in love. Seems like a nice guy.
So true. His self esteem is so shattered. He needs a nice young lady that truly sincere & wants him for him. He needs a true chance for genuine love!!!
He’s a working man. Smarten up, do some exercise and stop feeling like your only place is with drug addicts and low loaves. Because he isn’t.
jayjeezy tampa
Even if he meets a nice woman he won’t change ..he likes prostitutes
@@castgod jayjeezy iceberg
I appreciate your interview and want to thank JayJeezy for sharing with us his story and the misunderstandings surrounding this facet of american life. I learned something and will be forever grateful for this experience. Thank you again to both of you.. Marc your work should be in a book... every single human you have given a voice to had and needed to be heard.
Handsome, verbally articulate, peculiar and aware.. Wow, all the bast to you young man. I pray you continue to find yourself and grow in every area you desire..
I would love on him and show him some good people still exist. I hate it when people bully people just because someone is different.
@@OTMhzmt fax his dms open
Be safe sis
You should reach out to him!❤️
🙄 no you wouldn’t. Lol I swear people are only nice on the internet but wouldn’t even bat an eye if they walked by him
Okay auntie 🙂
I came here just for jay man. Ive known him for a while and i support him and will continue to do so
I've never seen a man come across as so defeated and sad. He is a good soul, who needs someone who is a genuine as he is to date, and have a relationship with.;and watching further into his interview it's very eye opening into why so many men unfortunately are messed up emotionally because they are dealing with the wrong types of women ..
He may be dealing with some of the wrong women …. But he REALLY needs to clean himself up Also.
#ACCOUNTABILITY
@@modalsoul6511 WRONG.
If no one was ever around to show them how (victims) then you can’t say HE HAS TO WANT TO CHANGE ETC ETC, it doesn’t work like that.
My friend LITERALLY posted the same thing, that’s defeating someone even LOWER past their point of defeat, you can’t diminish them.
@@GabrielXDrums I’m not diminishing him …he’s not appealing to the opposite gender, he’s awkward , and physically unattractive, he has to pick a struggle….. example if you want a quality woman cannot be
1 SHORT
2 BROKE
3 UNATTRACTIVE
You can’t be all 3 , ya gotta make some changes …that’s too many struggles .
@@modalsoul6511 completely agree. There has to be a point where u gotta dig deep and change your own turmoil
@@robama5878 right on brother , he said he wants to be a truck driver… that’ll fix his income … I don’t know how tall he is but he definitely needs some better clothing, and he needs better hygiene…. haircut , get rid of most of not all of that facial hair and he may even need to work on his speech and overall self esteem ( I struggle with my self esteem now )
During the beginning of the pandemic, I was introduced into something called “findom”. It was even more prevalent during the pandemic because everyone was stuck inside, the same as OnlyFans.
What I quickly realized is that the majority of men who part-took in this kink really thought that they had no other options. Only about 5%-10% of the men that gave me money were secure in their overall life. The rest truly didn’t think they were deserving of a relationship, unless it was them being subservient and a “punch bag”.
It was so difficult to continue once I realized there was SO much more to their kinks and fetishes than “just liking it”. It’s something that you grow to be accustomed to because the experiences you’ve gone through. I really wish women would speak more life into the men in their lives. I couldn’t imagine the men in my family going through this self-depreciating things.
Some of these fetishes help them process their traumas, but unfortunately a lot of them just continue in them because that’s all they know/ think they deserve.
You’re a bad person.
You should write a book! I've never commented but I agree and this is a very undiscussed topic!
Do men give women that same grace. No not really
“I couldn’t imagine the men in my family going through this” 💔💔💯
I've had fulfilling experiences with women all my life, but it's not something that I do and I'm done with. It's a constant desire. My last relationship lasted 2.5 years and it was the happiest I've been in the past 10 years. She dumped me mid-Covid and me having aged past 30. Ever since then I feel like dating and relationships is the most miserable experience to the point where I'm genuinely considering paying to have my needs met. I really don't have the time or patience to get my entire life together. I still have needs that are way past due. I have no problems with commitment and taking the steps to form a relationship with a woman, but since turning 30, it's been constant rejection for any and every tiny reason. I have a good job, I have a car, I have goals, and I'm decently attractive to boot. I might not be the most motivated person in the world, but I'm trying to do the right things. Despite all of this, it's constant rejection. It's constantly trying to say or do the right thing and always being seen as a non-option. I started a new career 5 years ago and I'm thriving in my career. But when it comes to women, it's a crapshoot. Can barely even get a text back from a woman. The only women that seem to be attracted to me usually have some sort of drug problem and are highly promiscuous. I mean, dear god, if I find a loyal woman in this life, it'll be too soon.
I never understood the findom thing, but hey, to each their own.
Wow....never seen an interview like this before, but he seems to be a very intelligent young man. That's why you can't always judge a book by it's cover. He's very honest about his life. Very articulate and opened about his life and the things he wants to improve upon, Everyone should be this way. We're all human and we all have vices. Great interview.
This was a really good IMPORTANT interview! He's not a bad guy and I KNOW 1st hand about being bullied but in my case, I picked up a STONE and hit my bully point BLANK in the FACE and watched his face crack open! I LOVED that shyt! 🤣
Anyway, all he need is 1 or 2 good MALE friends to get him on the right track . I wish him true happiness in this GAME of life!
😂😂 now this story is my story I hate bullies.
Interesting you said MALE friends. I agree. A couple solid guys to have some brotherhood.
As nasty as it sounds, he’s better off hiring hookers here and there. Stay well clear of women for a “relationship “ they are mostly manipulative users.
I wish him luck.
That is attempted murder
@@OTMhzmt 🤣🤣
@@OTMhzmt shutup
He could definitely be a voice narrator, I would love to meet Jayjeezy off camera to see how he interacts with the public, Jayjeezy is very intriguing
he makes music
In his eyes I see his inner child and it makes me sad ppl treat him like that I wish I could give him a hug
I genuinely wish him the best.
Give him some love d asss instead of fake wish
I've never really thought about how dangerous it can be for the johns. I hope you can find a few friends who can respect your insight and honesty instead of taking advantage of your kindness, Jay. The world might be a little better if we could all be so truthful. Good luck getting your CDL!
He truly never considered or knew what addictive behavior looks like. Its not harmful but the frequency steals time and quality of life from you. Although is 3 times a week, imagine the additional time of fantasizing, planning, coordinating, etc. Its a lot more to life and possibly better coping mechanisms. Much love Jay 🙏🏾
Better coping mechanisms like what for instance?
@c chrizzy exercise...writing...dancing...obviously unlikely in his circumstance. Im just answering your question
Brilliant comment 🙏🏽
Jay, I really appreciate your honesty and truth on this particular topic. Many men would never open up about this topic and continue to stay private or afraid to get looked at a certain way. Hope you truly experience true love and happiness. God bless you and all of your endeavors. 💯
I’m friends with Jayjeezy and he is a nice guy
Jay is on the right path, he stopped drinking and smoking for the opportunity of a CDL. He has the youth and capability to find a nice girl, he just has to keep trying and growing to better himself. I wish he would do therapy, he would benefit.
This one of the dopest interviews ever. I loved his rawness and honesty about it.
Man I watch all these interviews but I'm crying tears down my face within the first two mins. This guy just needs love and a friend ❤ I'd be his friend ❤
I'm disgusted and repulsed
@@mannygonzalez2401 by what... do tell me... I love to hear others misery
You a real one Andrew
I don’t think he wants a friend. He wants sex. And willing to pay for it because he’s obsessed with women and getting a nut
Get that CDL my brother 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I agree but if does not get it together there will be a lot of missed deliveries . Them Lot Lizards will turn him out , real talk !!!!!
@@davidevans2611exactly what I was about to say got to be about business
@@davidevans2611i forgot about the lot lizard’s
He has so much potential, May God keep blessing you brother.
Such an intelligent and intense young man. I am praying for you my young friend. I wish that he finds all of the beauty in this world 🌎 that he deserves.
I sure wish good things to happen for Jayjeezy, including the truck driving gig and someone who honestly loves him for who he is.
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It makes me think of all the people I saw get bullied growing up. 😔 I got bullied myself but idk I just always had this bulletproof spirit… I never really truly let shit get me down growing up, and I similarly didn’t really have friends, just acquaintances. But there were kids who got bullied so much more and you could tell they didn’t have the hope/faith I did… and I just hope they found their strength and have attained happiness and success in life since.
Shit breaks a person down and it fucking sucks. I remember teachers never said or did shit about it. Shame on them.
Bro you gotta stop chasing that lust it's a never ending dark whole that will suck the life right out of you literally its a insatiable itch you can never satisfy trust 💯
Yeah it’s called human nature & you can only try to control it not stop it! That’s kinda fruitless 😂
Wish you the best! Thank you for sharing your story!! 🙏🏽❤️
What bout me I’ve been trying to stop tricking off too
I’m sorry you were bullied. I was also bullied for many years. It almost destroyed my soul. I wish nothing but the best for you. Please don’t give up, keep your head to the 🌌 sky
This man is so brilliant. He’s obviously neurodivergent so he’s definitely much more intelligent than others see.
this!❤
You nailed it but i wouldn’t say brilliant
How can you tell he’s neurodivergent?
@@apocalypsgoddess1 can’t look in someone’s eyes and speaking in a Flat voice
Exactly. Definitely Neurodivergent. All he needs is someone to understand him.
You speak (your) truth. Being honest and vulnerable, while risky to yourself, helps thousands of people on so many levels. Good luck!
I didn’t know he had all these so called friends. He needs another video to explain his childhood a little deeper. He’s so smart and intelligent. Talented and will driven. I’m so proud of him. I’m that friend that show him tough love and love him whole heartily. He call I come. I’m not going sit and pity him. I’m going to encourage him. Ask him where are we going Jay. What’s your next plan. He has so much against him but he doesn’t let it stop him. But he needs another video please. ❤
You mean in the comments? these are online friends.
Ninety percent of these comments made me proud.
Young Man keep ya head up, and always believe in you. The world is cruel, don’t ever let it change you.
This dude needs a confidence boost. Seems hella chill and like a genuine guy
u can tell he's chill by the contempt he has when talking about women
Get your cdl's bro I got mines @ 21 going 20 yrs strong best decision I ever made ........it'll be good for you 💯
Me too makes 19 on 11/3
21 years now for me 👍🏿
You really young! Good for you
I would love to show this man good people! Be a good friend, he can't even look at you Mark. I could show him friends that look at the personality not profit.
His voice and overall demeanor remind me of the late, great, Michael Clarke Duncan's role in *The Green Mile* . There's so much sadness + melancholy in his eyes. I hope the Universal Forces pour nothing but GOOD things on Jay, and I fervently hope his dreams become reality!
Man when bro get that CDL he might take it to another level. If they send him to Memphis or Dallas he gonna go crazy
What I respect about dude is that he know who he is. A lot of men with a wife/girlfriend don’t know that the relationship is purely transactional. At least he knows that
If that’s you’re experiencing I feel bad for u but good relationships aren’t transactional at all. If you think like that everything is a transaction you and you’re parents relationship was a transaction, you and you’re friends etc that’s gonna lead you down a dark soulless path and might end you up where he is at
All relationships are not transactional. That's a huge generalization and huge false assumption. The only type of relationships that would be only transactional are superficial ones and ones that are based on nothing but materialism and nonreal love.... Genuine relationships are way more than that
Stay off the internet for a bit my G
him paying is the only way he can get it ,he's ugly and slow
@@karries6342 relationships are transactional.
Jayzee you remind me of myself I was bullied as a child I can tell the bullying you experience is still effecting you today. I relate
Seems like a nice guy. Hope he finds the peace and happiness he’s looking for in this lifetime. He’s still so young.
My man said we aren't all gangsters. This totally resonates with me because I grew up in a rough environment myself, and you are subject to guilt by association. People assume that all black men who grow up in the hood are thugs, but that isn't the case. He is totally correct, women are the only one's people think are afraid of violence, but men are too. Some of us didn't grow up with fathers, uncle, siblings who were in the streets banging, we just lived in poor neighborhoods because our parents had no money. We get exposed to the vile side of life from an early age, and it creates a certain type of person.
Bro bout to be on them lot lizards
I know some will disagree, but actually he is better off doing that rather than being involved in a long term relationship. Women are a piece of work.
I’ve known bro over social media for a couple of years. Genuinely a nice guy. Wish you the best JayJeezy. Tampa bay till I pass away 💯
He seems like a good guy . I know guys like him. A lot of them suffer with depression.
Kids can be so cruel at a young age. And I’m one that has bullied someone… I didn’t realize it until I was older. I feel so bad about it now smh. I hope this guy has a great life moving forward. 🙏🏾
I hope you have the same pain you gave your victims
I hate bullies I was bullied as a kid too but I grew up to be a beast in my late thirties and finally calmed down from what happened to me as a child smh
I was bullied too and it is always in the back of my mind … like even now. You are young my dear boy.. your whole life awaits! You are so worthy !
People in the comments talking about he “got dealt a bad hand”. There’s nothing wrong with bro. Nothing a haircut, the gym, and a little therapy can’t fix. Some of y’all acting like bro disfigured or missing arms or legs. Bro smart and introspective and has more self awareness than most people.
"Bro" dips his dick in anything he can find.
Mom died at 2 lol
He really seems like a good guy 🙏🏽🙏🏽
He a cool dude wit a lot of book smarts but no street smarts…..if he had a real ass friend just one he woulda been something fr fr
Would you give him a chance if he approached you at Walmart?…….please be honest.
@@modalsoul6511 of course…not doubt ima upgrade my boi quickly and help him start feeling better about making making decisions/ live a little more in life but more than anything my dude need someone to listen without any criticism and feedback for a moment…that’s all he really want
@@eboneyhickson9873 cut it out 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂, you wouldn’t give him 1 minute of your ear 👂🏻 time and you know it so stop the cap 🧢
@@modalsoul6511 she gave you her answer and you didn’t accept it. Damned if you do, damned if you don’t.
What an amazing and beautiful rich voice.
He could a good career in voice overs.
Thankyou Jayjeezy for being so open. I hope you don't mind me saying but has anyone ever said that you might have Aspergers syndrome. One of the biggest things for people with aspergers is social anxiety, and knowing boundaries. It just made me think. I hope that the right woman finds you. There will always be people who will try and scam those who appear vulnerable. It's ok to have fetishes, and I can understand why, because of your past experiences with women that you feel safer buying sex than trying to get into a relationship with someone.
He’s such a lovely guy but yet still so defeated by his traumas. Someone willing to be his mentor and help him grow his confidence???, make friends and show him that the world is his oyster and opportunities are there to be had 🙏🏾
This is so relatable, and harrowing. Lust, and the addiction you (can) develop to it, will make meaningful relationships virtually impossible to imagine/pursue/sustain.
Jay is a very smart man . I pray he gets on the right path.
You and your story truly touched my heart. You are one of the good ones believe that. You are young, keep an open mind and the right one will come into your life when you least except it. You deserve love because you have love in your heart.
He seems like such a good dude that has been done dirty by woman in his past. Hope he finds a real one that shows him how good being in love can be. Wish him all the best!
You seem like a bright honest articulate young man ! Thanks for sharing your story !
*This really is a gut wrenching interview. I feel for this brother.*
He reminds me a LOT of an ex situation-ship I had. He said a lot of the same things like it’s hard to stay with one person, he was heartbroken so much he didn’t want love anymore, etc. (had mommy issues) He would be loving one minute, kisses and love, but pushing me away the next. I didn’t want or need anything from him except HIM. No matter how sad it is, men with this mindset cannot be changed until they are ready to. I hope they overcome falling victim to the flesh and addiction ❤️ but at least he’s being honest
I hope he gets the truck driving job he’s looking for. Something good for him.
This nigga gonna have the time of his life once he gets his cdl and hits that road 😂😂😂
Deadass!!! He even said “it ain’t tricking if u got it” 🤣🤣🤣
He has a nice voice and demeanor. He just needs confidence in himself and he’ll be fine. He seems wise beyond his years
"relieve myself of my perversions" I totally feel that.
He seems very lonely and genuine, like he needs a hug…😢
Yes, my heart goes out to him.
Truly hope this man finds happiness & love not only outwards but love himself too.
this guy should be a voice actor he could be very successful his voice is very unique
he raps
Soooo many comments citing the same exact recommendation 🤔
@@parismanning what's his rap name if you don't mind me asking
@@lionelmcmullen7067 jayjeezy
Man this guy seems like a good dude that is just on an unfortunate path. I hope he finds something positive to fill that void in his near future.
He is like me. A normal person that has been morphed as a result of bullying and mistreatment