She's an amazing Mum. Not enough credit goes to single Mothers who were abandoned by their spouse. She is a strong,solid woman who has raised a great son. The awkwardness between Mother and son is totally normal for a teen, it's just a phase they go through. You can tell that he really loves and appreciates his Mum.
She put her whole life and youth on hold for her child. That selfish papa ran and never looked back. Full blessings and respect to this woman and others
I saw a gorgeous Vietnamese woman in a Korean class who was sweet who left her Korean husband because he was an alcoholic. Her baby even once came to class, and he was the quietest and nicest baby. That father was an idiot.
I was raised by a single mom. All the anger that built up since the divorce bubbled to the surface when I was 17 and I said some things that also got me a slap to the face. Only now that I'm an adult, i realized how my mom worked so hard to keep it together with not much financial support from my dad. Kudos to all you single parents who try to do right by your children.
@@mc1069why would you say that?They were only 17, it’s valid for them to be frustrated at their situation. It’s not the moms fault but it’s not the kids fault either. Kids don’t understand the hardships their parents face until they’re older. It’s part of growing up. I’m sure you weren’t a total angel when you were a kid either. Let’s be more understanding…
@@mc1069 it's not their fault. The first person who really have an effect on divorce and people who have kids are the children. Parents and adults are suppose to be responsible for kids.
Filipinos dont get as much credit as they deserved. Filipinos who are working overseas works so hard and they are very adaptive, intelligent, skilled, kind and humble people. I have colleagues who are Filipinos and they are great! They deserve to have higher salaries and not to be looked down just bec of their color or diction. In every country even in North America or Europe not everyone are privileged. Same goes with Asean countries. Much respect to these Filipinos who give their best everyday and work so hard for their love ones.
international PARASITES, LOSERS keep coming and IF WE DON'T SHUT OUR DOORS TIGHT NOW & DO MASS DEPORTATION, married or not, have children or not OR WE WILL BECOME A 3RD WORLD SOON !
@@onelifeoneloveonedream1658 I never said that it’s only the Filipinos who works hard. Did I say that in my sentence? As you can see I said ASEAN COUNTRIES. Check the countries that falls under Asean countries.
I love how the son acknowledged his mom's struggles and that he wants to be successful cuz of her. I pray that their relationship gets better over time cuz they only both have each other. Nothing great than a mother's love.
Children should be taught to respect every race and culture by their parents so that no kid with foreign blood would emotionally suffer from discrimination...
@@DONTcareAnymore000 sadly, parents are not always the best teachers nor models. I taught a class of Thai 10 year olds who, despite being good kids, were all ignorant about racial discrimination. When a Pakistani teacher (darkskinned, traditionally-dressed) came into view one day, they burst into laughter in unison. Sternly, I cut that short with a question: why are you laughing? You could've heard a pin drop. They didn't know what to say. Suffice to say that they received a lesson on why they should never repeat the behavior ever in future. Fact is, the parents of the school specifically asked that we don't hire non-Caucasian looking teachers. But few had the teaching qualifications we needed.
@@jd-pw8yvThe same would happen in when teaching in China and South Korea. The best “qualifications” for a teacher seemed to be “White” in both, and in Korea, “female” due to their fear of male pedophiles. It was ridiculous. I did live in a Chinese city that was, at the time, more welcoming of non-White teachers, but I don’t know if it’s the same today as I’ve heard there has been an uptick in xenophobia since I left. I definitely had Black American friends with several years teaching experience that found it very difficult to find jobs when compared to no-experience White teachers in places like Beijing and Shanghai. Also, in Korea, you never wanted to admit you had ever been depressed on an application. It was a guarantee you wouldn’t be hired. Also, unless you’re well connected within the Korean educational complex when you lean into your 40’s, you’ll probably have a difficult time finding a job. Youth, as we all know, is highly valued in Korea. In fact, some schools prefer younger teachers because they are easier to manipulate whereas older, more experienced teachers know exactly what their schools can and cannot make them do per their contracts.
Hope this program heals their rift. I hope her son realizes how much she is working hard to give him a good life, and that they may not have much, but she has always provided for him. I hope she sees sometimes just her presence and attention is so much more impt than material stuff she can give him.
As a Korean man myself, if you abandon your children and family like this “father” did your not a real man. I don’t know if he’s living with shame or guilt now but he should. A lot of respect to this mother. She’s doing a great job. Hopefully her kids are proud of her
He even gaslighted her to help him look after his mom. She could have been better if she stayed in philipines. She need not face any racial descrimination and could have got better job.😢
I cried with Seongjae when he said he told his mother his honest mind and got slapped. I felt his pain, I know how hurtful it is cause I have very similar experiences with my parents. As a mom I understand the mom's perspective as well. I hope they can understand better each other and have a good relationship from now on
Very moving. Sons going through a lot I’m sure. He is thoughtful and loves his mom but is at that age there is much confusion and worries. Can’t imagine the societal pressure in South Korea while also being a minority while being raised by a single mom. Huge shout out to mom as well, she is a beast. I hope nothing but success and happiness for the two. From a Korean American living in US, FIGHTING!!!
@@Ironic_sans dude why are you bitter?😂😂😂 You’re pressed about about Filipino mothers sacrificing for the welfare of her children? You’re so fragile🤡 Fix yourself with superglue coz you’re weaker than a cheap glass
As a third person watching, I understand both their struggles that led to some challenges in their relationship. This is so raw and pure. I appreciate this kind of love between parents and children. And how strong is that lady..such an inspiration.
This made me cry. She's such a sweet mum, and her son's a good kid. They only have each other and are doing their very best to lead a happy life. What a good episode
It must have been hard for Seongjea being teased because his mother is deferent and a foreigner. No child should ever have to go through that. Because damage it causes is way too deep. I’m glad that he and his mother loves each other so much. It would be nice to hear their story in the future. Thank you for featuring them in your show. What a tear jerker and heartwarming story it really touched me.
Yes I do agree! No child should go through that kind of traumatic experience but very unfortunately, his father didn’t make his promise 😳👀😳very unfortunately, sad and painful and scary bitter memory from the past 😢
@@mightyobserver12 why are you writing it like that? Yes, he was incredibly selfish and irresponsible and did not fulfill the duties of loving husband and father.
You know she is a thoughtful person when she first apologized to her son as they are about to talk about his dad. You don't see that in most separated parents. Usually they talk bad about each other without considering the child's feelings.
I lost both parents at a really young age and was raised with my other siblings by my oldest brother who only turned 18 at the time and though my situation is much different than the family in the video, I can understand the awkwardness between the mom and the son. My brother worked 3rd shift every day of the week to provide for us and my family is quite dysfunctional in terms of communicating with one another but we can all appreciate and understand the struggles we all shared as children because we were all children who had to raise children. It is a unique perspective that I grew up with and I hope this family can grow stronger from their past! Lots of love.
The son is growing and going through phases, when he a bit older he would understand more, his mom is a superhero for him, feels sad thinking the struggles they have gone through, May God ease u guys always and give u strength and things that u need😊
He is a lucky coz her mother need to work 3 times a day in a different job to support him,but atleast once a week or twice a week give him time and go out a date with him,job is only there but time for your son is so precious..
I'd like to say that she's one tough Mama! Filipino moms are actually, tough! And she didn't age, she still looks 24 to me! Good job Mom! You're great, loving and you put family first despite the struggles! Keep it up! 🤩❤
this mom is seriously a superwoman....I`m getting emotional just seeing her work so hard to give her son a good life. I do understand her son too though as I have felt rejected by my mom as well when I expressed being bullied or feeling depressed. Why even to this day I have issues telling her some stuff that`s happening in my life:/ I can see both of their sides....I think the lack of proper communication which both haven`t really learned from anyone, is the issue.
Unfortunately, my Asian mum is also unsupportive of my mental health struggles and struggles in life in general. She's an abusive narcissist so she's never been supportive about that because she's an incredibly selfish thinking woman. There's unfortunately parents who exist like this too. Not all who are like this have good intentions. Like you, I've had to keep a lot of my personal life and problems to myself. Because not telling her protects myself from being hurt and violated by her. Also as a teen, when I confessed that I have anxiety, she said "you're crazy!". That was the pivotal traumatic point that made me realise she would never believe or be supportive of my problems and feelings.
As a daughter from a single filipino mother, she's the most hardworking and loving person I know ever since my father left us at 2012 everything changed for our family. She had to raise two children while working I'm grateful to have a caring & loving mother ❤️ through the years she stuck with us thick and thin facing the struggles we have to overcome As my mom says "keep on fighting, never give up" Sending my respects and love to single parents out there, your unconditional affection towards us will be forever a monument in our hearts ❤️❤️
I think once you're put in a situation of being a single parent, your leading motivation to stay alive and thrive is raising your kids to be healthy, happy and have better lives than you've had.
I cried most of the time while watching this video. The hardwork and sacrifice that a mother can do just to raise a family is truly unmeasurable. Ate Genevieve is a great mom despite of raising her son alone. I salute her🫡 His son grows well even though there are shortcomings between their relationship. Stay strong ate Gen and son. God bless!
Both sides are valid, the Mom really works so hard for the family, bills and rent is no joke, she's a solo parent so it should be really tough. Thr son got so emotional because he's been feeling alone since 5th grade, it must have been hard for him not having physical and moral support from his Mom, he's also still young he's probably at a sensitive phase right now and it's best to fix their relationship right now, communication is basic, but it's really hard to have a good one. It's hard but it's possible so hope all the best for them.
@@dolapokosebinu5274 How can parent wan closeness to their child if they never taught them emotional connection? All the child knows is working hard and being rewarded with money, as that’s what the parent modeled
Don’t give up….my wife is also a Filipina with 3 Korean kids….2 in college and we married in 2017….. their Korean father passed recently and I am hoping to show them a better life than they have lived till now…. God Bless you and your son
I 🫡 salute to mommy Genevieve for trying so so hard to give the world for his son. As a Filipina I am so proud of her for sacrificing a lot for her son it’s truly an strong empowered woman. Mabuhay ka ate. 💜💜
@@Repeuh read her comment, she is idolizing the Filipina's situation, praising her. Other Filipina might read her comment and get inspired to have mixed Korean babies with older Korean men that come to the Philippines as tourists.
What an amazing woman and mom who puts her whole life and youth for her beautiful son. Respect to this mom. I can also imagine how this boy felt when he was younger. Being "alone" at home while he was afraid. Having nobody to talk to and to play with etc. I wish them both lots of blessings too. And wish this boy lots of success. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
To all single mom outhere I'm so proud of you... Not easy but when we see our son smile all our sadness,hard days ,and painful we carry all throughout .... One day we say I made it as a mom ❤
It’s hard sometimes realizing that kids are not always trying to be disrespectful with their words. Sometimes, they are so full of emotions that it just spills out. Later, when everyone is calm again, then express to them a more appropriate way to convey their thoughts. A lot of the time they will come back and apologize for sounding disrespectful. Your a beautiful family and strong.❤🙏화이팅
They are both lucky to have each other. Ate Genevie is doing her best to be a mother and father figure by working and caring for her son. Seongjae, on the other hand, is mature for his age. Despite the burden of being teased and the bottled-up feelings he can't express to his mother, he developed into a wonderful person. He understands his mother since he has always trusted her. Their love is strong in their connection. They just don't know how to express it properly, but I'm glad they are now. Baby steps...hoping for their future happiness and continued prosperity.
Filipinos are extremely warm and kindhearted. This woman is a hero. I am an American and I could not have gone to South Korea at the age of 23 to start my life. And I've been doing business in Korea for many decades. God bless! You are a credit to single mothers everywhere.
I see myself in him whenever my mom would cling on me 😂. He looks so funny and cute when he can't express himself much through words yet he still does his best to be a good kid to his mom. I didn't know nonchalant kids like him would be this funny lmao. He's so lucky to have him as his mom ❤
It must been so hard for both of them. It's literally just them, and no one to rely on. I'm so glad their relationship is starting to heal again. I wish all the best for both of them.
Omg 😭 imagine the lengths a mother can do for her child, just selfless, pure love! I know the kid loves his mother but just embarrassed to show it just like any other teen. I wish and pray for the mom to have a long and healthy life and for the kid to heal from all the traumas he went through growing up. God bless you both! ❤
As a daughter of a Filipino mom in an immigrant household, I can't help but to see myself in this kid alot ♥️ Growing up with a mother who faced so much hardship and trauma as an immigrant has impacted us children, too. We face alot of emotional neglect, and sometimes inherit mental health issues. I am beyond impressed how they both are such good people, who only wants the best for eachother, and how her son became such a kindred person. He will grow up to understand one day, and his experience and feelings are so valid, he only wants to be heard and understood. I'm confident he will grow up to become a strong, intelligent, kind and talented guy, the way they both work so hard to make it. I cannot imagine how brutal it is to live in Korea as a foreigner facing so much discrimination and racism there. My heart goes out to them ❤️🔥 Filipinos are truly the warmest, hard-working kind people in the world, we have so much strength in our hearts 🇵🇭 Love from distant fam in Norway 🇳🇴
I can't imagine how hard it must have been living in a foreign land with the language barrier. I believed the son doesn't have the language issues, and he could easily pass as a Korean teen if he speaks well. Among teens in Korea, cheerful attitudes matter. If you don't have common topics, it will be hard to be friends with you whether you are a foreigner or not. Don't be locked yourself up in the VICTIM mindset. You can only feel that you are a victim all the time. Brush off harsh comment because they are not your problems. Learn some sports. You will make friends easy. Sending love. ❤
wooow ang galing, mahiyain po ung anak mo, sana po magkwento sya kung anong nangyari saknya sa school, parang open sya sayo, i hope mawala ung pagkamahiyain nya, i hope may mag sponsor ng bonding nyo kahit isang araw or dalawang araw man lang masyado kayong busy pareho, sana ngayon maglaan kayo ng oras para sa isat isa para maging close kayo, kc sa sobrang busy mo moomy parang nagiging stranger na sayo ung anak mo , sabi nga nya mahirap ka e approach kaya cguro tahimik lang sya pag nasa bahay sya kahit nandun ka din,hopefully maging open up na yung son mo sayo para mapakita nyo sa isat isa how much you treasure each other, love each other hug each other, ang sarap sa pakiramdam when you hug your son/mom
This lady is doing such important work. I'm glad that her son told her that he believes in her. Her son is a good kid. Wishing them both a healthy and joyful life.
I think the mother should know his son not only what she see outwardly but also his deepest thought and feeling. If it a daughter maybe its different story...they both need a long vacation I think! 😊😁💗
i just can't get enough with these story.. salute to you being a single mother in a foreign country is hard but you choose to raised your son because of love and to be a best version of himself.. A mother's love is irreplaceable but ofcourse having a lot of work we tend to lose time, but hoping even sometime you'll can find time for bond growing/adulting needs a parental guidance.. God Bless your family! 🙏🏻
Genevie, you are such a strong and great mother. So proud of you, kababayan! Not all moms are this responsible and can sacrifice this much, fighting fairly in life to give their kid a comfortable life. Wish you good health and prosperity
Genevie, you work so hard. Not sure if there are other parts of your life that the show isn't showing but it seems you also need time for yourself, and for both of you to do something together at least every other week outside the house, even a stroll in the park, beach, do thngs he like or start something new for you both.He needs to see that you can balance parenting, work, and still have time to enjoy somewhat. It doesn't take a lot of money to do that. You were raised in the Philippines and you know it doesn't take much to enjoy life for Filipinos so introduce him to that so he can learn to enjoy even the simple things in life. He will be a father someday so it's important for him to know how to introduce simple happiness in life to his family that we Filipinos are known to be good at
I cried a lot on this story. This is how Filipino mom show her love to their child. To the son, you will be successful someday. You're such a good boy.❤
Watched these more than ones, but still makes me cry. She is a great mom. Hope they get thru all the obstacle and be happy. God bless you both..great success for you Seongjae..🙏
Makes me cry how hard most single mothers have it and for every single parent out there who was put into unfortunate circumstances because of undutiful partners
I applaud her for her commitment! I notice that the son’s upbringing is different with the way he behaves! Maybe he is just shy but in the Philippines, the upbringing is more extrovert. Filipinos are mostly laid back, hospitable, friendly, and always cheerful. I have Korean friends and I can tell the difference when it comes to social interaction! They are less engaging!
I’m cutting onions 😢😢 I cannot stop my tears from falling. Ate girl you are my hero, you made ur son proud that he has an amazing mommy. Fighting !!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Aside from being a single mom, she has dreams too for herself and her family back home in The Philippines. That's why she's working hard and sacrificing a lot to give her son and probably loved ones in The Philippines a better life, her way of expressing love. For me I think true love is one that is sacrificial if not selfless. I pray that her son would come to realize and appreciate that what she is doing is out of nothing but pure love.
She's a woderful mother" she sacrificed a lot for her son. When time comes and his son will have its own family. He will realized what a great mother he has❤
Filipino mom build different. They can survive whatever obstacles they have to face. I hope they're children will think carefully and be thankful for there mother
God bless you both! May your maternal/child bonding continue to grow. Seonjae- you are great! You have suffered much as a child with the teasing, loneliness and lack of emotional support BUT you are correct! You believe in your mum! And truly so cos your mum is the only person who would sacrifice her life for you. Continue to love her more and I am confident you will become someone really successful! Mum- you are amazing!! 10/10. You did everything you could to keep your son and never thought of abandoning him! You made a lot of personal sacrifices too! Know that Seongjae loves you too and with time, he will appreciate you and love you more and more… God bless you both!! 🙏
i felt this video to the bone. like the son i grew distant with my mom, since for all my life till i was 10 she was abroad working for me and my brother, then suddenly i moved to a whole new country in a remote place. my mom worked all day and my brother, a teenager at that point hated hanging out with me, plus we lived in the countryside with my stepdad who worked in the oil field for months and i didn't get to see him much either, so i was pretty much alone. kids didn't call me names for being different but the teased me on things like my food, clothes and such that made me feel so out of my peers. i know my mom worked so hard but as a child and teen going through my own things it was hard to grasp and be fully appreciative when it felt like no one appreciated my existence and mentality. i always felt alone, and when i try to voice any of my opinions all i get is either a slap or getting nagged at. it didn't feel like i was my own person at all, and my mom didn't know me either as a person. luckily things are better between us now. my mom learned the mental strain she and our situation had on me, and tried for the first time to work hard as a mother there to love and listen and not just a mother providing, which i am so touched by. as i grew so did my mind and while it still hurts to think of those days, i have learned to just endure and be better.
I cried a lot in this episode. Being a single mom myself and working far from my sons made me more emotional. This supermom and son deserve all the happiness. Yes cheek kiss only to son 😊
This made me cry so hard. And it reminds me of my hardworking mother, and especially my eldest sister (who passed away 2 months ago) and her son. Now I miss her more and made me realized how sad it is for her only son. Kudos to all of our mothers!!!!!!
I know how she feels being a single parent myself. It is hard work but the love you feel from your child when they do the simplest things for you is surreal. My 17 yr old daughter went for her national id card recently as well. Lost my mother who was the backbone of my motivation always pushing me to do better and I felt empty. I wish her all the best and will pray her goals are met.
In life sometimes we don't always understand our parents. We even blame them for certain things, but when we go out to work & realize how tough life is out there. We gain a new appreciation of how much our parents are stronger than we imagine. So with age comes wisdom, i hope you will one day say thank you to mum to mum with understanding of how awesome mum is.
I've been crying so much! I'm a single mom but I have my family helping me. I can only imagine how hard it is for her. I hope Genevie realizes that the teenage years can be a bit awkward and it may hurt as a mother when their child is distant but Songjae knows how hard she's trying for both of them and I'm sure he loves her just as much. Songjea had been open about how hurt he was when they had that argument, It may have been years but it's not too late for her to say sorry. It's usually hard for parents to say sorry but I think that's what Songjae needs to hear from his mom. He also talked about his difficulties, feeling like a foreigner- they should continue this conversation to help him with this struggle. Praying for you both!
Hati seorang ibu itu persis seperti lautan. Di dalamnya tersimpan bermacam ragam hal yang berusaha disembunyikan supaya tidak muncul ke permukaan. Seorang ibu mungkin bisa memahami hati anaknya, tapi seorang anak biasanya sangat sulit untuk menyelami hati ibunya.
You are so lucky to have her, Songjae. ❤ I'm so sorry that you have an irresponsible father. And that you were bullied when you were young. Just remember that she did all those things to give you a comfortable life. ❤ Appreciate her more and don't leave her. Praying for both of you. ❤
What a great story. I could relay since I'm a single mother to my 2 daughters from Phil to US. I understand their struggles & pain. I salute the mom who remained strong, determined & resilient. Take time out once in a while for breaks together out of the busyness & struggles in life. To the mom, give your son a space sometimes because he's now a grown-up man. Trust him, bec you've raised him well. Most of all, don't ever forget to give time also to worship God on Sundays & to say your prayers always. If you remain faithful to the Lord, He will give you the desires of your heart. He will never leave you, nor forsake you & your son. Cheer up, there's more to life than just working & working.
❤ wow she's amazing. I really admire a mom doing her best to raise a son as she's working hard double time . God bless you ma'am , I am so proud of you being a co-Filipino. Keep it up. More blessings be upon you. ❤
I needed to see this and I got mixed emotions from it. Like Genevie, I'm a single Filipino mom with one son. Her son Sungjae is in the 11th grade in this video and my son has just started 11th grade. He is 17 years old. They also both wear glasses! We reside here in the Philippines with my family so I always had help in raising him. I worked as a virtual assistant for overseas clients from home for many years while he was growing up, so I had time to drop him off and pick him up from school during his elementary days. It was convenient because I never had to leave home. Seeing Geneview do everything to raise her son but at the expense of their rather casual relationship, I felt a bit sad for her but, I understand because it cannot be helped. Working multiple jobs was the only way for them to survive and I admire her for that. I hope someday that Sungjae will warm up to his mother because hers is a lonely life that was spent for their survival.
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She's an amazing Mum. Not enough credit goes to single Mothers who were abandoned by their spouse. She is a strong,solid woman who has raised a great son. The awkwardness between Mother and son is totally normal for a teen, it's just a phase they go through. You can tell that he really loves and appreciates his Mum.
we will get her DEPORTED
she is one of those from south asia ,south east asia, africa , middle east etc. once they are in, they look for ways to stay on forever
@@sunnyuutinn who is this zombie on human earth? Go and deport her now. Irritant of a human being.
Sounds like she was abusive. That's not cool.
@@ceeIocAbusive in what form? By slapping his son?
She put her whole life and youth on hold for her child. That selfish papa ran and never looked back. Full blessings and respect to this woman and others
I saw a gorgeous Vietnamese woman in a Korean class who was sweet who left her Korean husband because he was an alcoholic. Her baby even once came to class, and he was the quietest and nicest baby. That father was an idiot.
I was raised by a single mom. All the anger that built up since the divorce bubbled to the surface when I was 17 and I said some things that also got me a slap to the face. Only now that I'm an adult, i realized how my mom worked so hard to keep it together with not much financial support from my dad. Kudos to all you single parents who try to do right by your children.
@@mc1069why would you say that?They were only 17, it’s valid for them to be frustrated at their situation. It’s not the moms fault but it’s not the kids fault either. Kids don’t understand the hardships their parents face until they’re older. It’s part of growing up. I’m sure you weren’t a total angel when you were a kid either. Let’s be more understanding…
@@mc1069he or she realized his/her fault.
@@mc1069 it's not their fault. The first person who really have an effect on divorce and people who have kids are the children. Parents and adults are suppose to be responsible for kids.
@@mc1069 PUTANG INA MO
I hope you already apologize to your poor mom 😢
Filipinos dont get as much credit as they deserved. Filipinos who are working overseas works so hard and they are very adaptive, intelligent, skilled, kind and humble people. I have colleagues who are Filipinos and they are great! They deserve to have higher salaries and not to be looked down just bec of their color or diction. In every country even in North America or Europe not everyone are privileged. Same goes with Asean countries. Much respect to these Filipinos who give their best everyday and work so hard for their love ones.
WE WILL GET BOTH OF THEM DEPORTED
Other Asian races in South Korea work hard too not just Filipinos🙄🙄🙄
international PARASITES, LOSERS keep coming and IF WE DON'T SHUT OUR DOORS TIGHT NOW & DO MASS DEPORTATION, married or not, have children or not OR WE WILL BECOME A 3RD WORLD SOON !
@@onelifeoneloveonedream1658 I never said that it’s only the Filipinos who works hard. Did I say that in my sentence? As you can see I said ASEAN COUNTRIES. Check the countries that falls under Asean countries.
@onelifeoneloveonedream1658 just because other ASEAN countries weren't mentioned doesn't mean we undermine their hardwork 🙄🙄🙄🙄
I love how the son acknowledged his mom's struggles and that he wants to be successful cuz of her. I pray that their relationship gets better over time cuz they only both have each other. Nothing great than a mother's love.
Children should be taught to respect every race and culture by their parents so that no kid with foreign blood would emotionally suffer from discrimination...
unfortunately, racial violence exists in this world systematically and our adult parents knew it when they brought us into this world, or do they?
@@DONTcareAnymore000 sadly, parents are not always the best teachers nor models. I taught a class of Thai 10 year olds who, despite being good kids, were all ignorant about racial discrimination. When a Pakistani teacher (darkskinned, traditionally-dressed) came into view one day, they burst into laughter in unison. Sternly, I cut that short with a question: why are you laughing? You could've heard a pin drop. They didn't know what to say. Suffice to say that they received a lesson on why they should never repeat the behavior ever in future. Fact is, the parents of the school specifically asked that we don't hire non-Caucasian looking teachers. But few had the teaching qualifications we needed.
Yes shameless , they are all racist .during world war we Filipinos help Southkorean . I was disappointed ,i can believe that korean people are racist
@@jd-pw8yvThe same would happen in when teaching in China and South Korea. The best “qualifications” for a teacher seemed to be “White” in both, and in Korea, “female” due to their fear of male pedophiles. It was ridiculous. I did live in a Chinese city that was, at the time, more welcoming of non-White teachers, but I don’t know if it’s the same today as I’ve heard there has been an uptick in xenophobia since I left. I definitely had Black American friends with several years teaching experience that found it very difficult to find jobs when compared to no-experience White teachers in places like Beijing and Shanghai. Also, in Korea, you never wanted to admit you had ever been depressed on an application. It was a guarantee you wouldn’t be hired. Also, unless you’re well connected within the Korean educational complex when you lean into your 40’s, you’ll probably have a difficult time finding a job. Youth, as we all know, is highly valued in Korea. In fact, some schools prefer younger teachers because they are easier to manipulate whereas older, more experienced teachers know exactly what their schools can and cannot make them do per their contracts.
WE WILL GET BOTH OF THEM DEPORTED
Hope this program heals their rift. I hope her son realizes how much she is working hard to give him a good life, and that they may not have much, but she has always provided for him. I hope she sees sometimes just her presence and attention is so much more impt than material stuff she can give him.
@@Repeuh so true…but so unfair
As a Korean man myself, if you abandon your children and family like this “father” did your not a real man. I don’t know if he’s living with shame or guilt now but he should. A lot of respect to this mother. She’s doing a great job. Hopefully her kids are proud of her
Exactly what I was thinking, she’s such a strong woman and a good mother. I have no respect for any man who does that to their family
He even gaslighted her to help him look after his mom. She could have been better if she stayed in philipines. She need not face any racial descrimination and could have got better job.😢
He's so lucky to have a mother like her 🥺
I totally agree.
@@Repeuh if it's so, they should move to Philippines... I dont know why they are still staying in Korea
@@computerprogrammer7212 money problem
@@computerprogrammer7212Better job opportunity, better pay, better living conditions and the list goes on.
@@computerprogrammer7212u make it sound so easy as if she cant think for herself
I cried with Seongjae when he said he told his mother his honest mind and got slapped. I felt his pain, I know how hurtful it is cause I have very similar experiences with my parents. As a mom I understand the mom's perspective as well. I hope they can understand better each other and have a good relationship from now on
Very moving. Sons going through a lot I’m sure. He is thoughtful and loves his mom but is at that age there is much confusion and worries. Can’t imagine the societal pressure in South Korea while also being a minority while being raised by a single mom. Huge shout out to mom as well, she is a beast. I hope nothing but success and happiness for the two. From a Korean American living in US, FIGHTING!!!
Filipino moms will move the heavens and earth for the sake of their children.
Most moms all around the world would do that
And their children esp sons would still end up being an incel
@@alexgrae8226 what does that even mean ?
@@Ironic_sans dude why are you bitter?😂😂😂 You’re pressed about about Filipino mothers sacrificing for the welfare of her children? You’re so fragile🤡 Fix yourself with superglue coz you’re weaker than a cheap glass
@@Ironic_sans It means that without a father figure in the home, the boy will never learn how to be masculine.
As a third person watching, I understand both their struggles that led to some challenges in their relationship. This is so raw and pure. I appreciate this kind of love between parents and children. And how strong is that lady..such an inspiration.
This made me cry. She's such a sweet mum, and her son's a good kid. They only have each other and are doing their very best to lead a happy life. What a good episode
Very emotional mother-son life story. I wish them happiness.
It must have been hard for Seongjea being teased because his mother is deferent and a foreigner. No child should ever have to go through that. Because damage it causes is way too deep. I’m glad that he and his mother loves each other so much. It would be nice to hear their story in the future. Thank you for featuring them in your show. What a tear jerker and heartwarming story it really touched me.
Yes I do agree!
No child should go through that kind of traumatic experience but very unfortunately, his father didn’t make his promise 😳👀😳very unfortunately, sad and painful and scary bitter memory from the past 😢
That’s why having children is a big decision. Imagine if you were brown or black living in Korea. They will get bullied for sure.
BLaMe the irresponsibLE father
Racism in South Korea should be studied
@@mightyobserver12 why are you writing it like that? Yes, he was incredibly selfish and irresponsible and did not fulfill the duties of loving husband and father.
You know she is a thoughtful person when she first apologized to her son as they are about to talk about his dad. You don't see that in most separated parents. Usually they talk bad about each other without considering the child's feelings.
I lost both parents at a really young age and was raised with my other siblings by my oldest brother who only turned 18 at the time and though my situation is much different than the family in the video, I can understand the awkwardness between the mom and the son. My brother worked 3rd shift every day of the week to provide for us and my family is quite dysfunctional in terms of communicating with one another but we can all appreciate and understand the struggles we all shared as children because we were all children who had to raise children. It is a unique perspective that I grew up with and I hope this family can grow stronger from their past! Lots of love.
You raised a great son. “Mom, I believe in you.”
The son is growing and going through phases, when he a bit older he would understand more, his mom is a superhero for him, feels sad thinking the struggles they have gone through, May God ease u guys always and give u strength and things that u need😊
He is a lucky coz her mother need to work 3 times a day in a different job to support him,but atleast once a week or twice a week give him time and go out a date with him,job is only there but time for your son is so precious..
I'd like to say that she's one tough Mama! Filipino moms are actually, tough! And she didn't age, she still looks 24 to me! Good job Mom! You're great, loving and you put family first despite the struggles! Keep it up! 🤩❤
this mom is seriously a superwoman....I`m getting emotional just seeing her work so hard to give her son a good life. I do understand her son too though as I have felt rejected by my mom as well when I expressed being bullied or feeling depressed. Why even to this day I have issues telling her some stuff that`s happening in my life:/ I can see both of their sides....I think the lack of proper communication which both haven`t really learned from anyone, is the issue.
Unfortunately, my Asian mum is also unsupportive of my mental health struggles and struggles in life in general. She's an abusive narcissist so she's never been supportive about that because she's an incredibly selfish thinking woman. There's unfortunately parents who exist like this too. Not all who are like this have good intentions.
Like you, I've had to keep a lot of my personal life and problems to myself. Because not telling her protects myself from being hurt and violated by her. Also as a teen, when I confessed that I have anxiety, she said "you're crazy!". That was the pivotal traumatic point that made me realise she would never believe or be supportive of my problems and feelings.
Watched this before and rewatch it now. I cried again. Such a moving story of Gennie and her son.
She's been through a lot, doing everything for her son. Such an inspiration mom to everyone.
As a daughter from a single filipino mother, she's the most hardworking and loving person I know ever since my father left us at 2012 everything changed for our family. She had to raise two children while working I'm grateful to have a caring & loving mother ❤️ through the years she stuck with us thick and thin facing the struggles we have to overcome
As my mom says "keep on fighting, never give up"
Sending my respects and love to single parents out there, your unconditional affection towards us will be forever a monument in our hearts ❤️❤️
Mother's HUSTLE . There is no "try" it HAS TO BE DONE. Give your mom plenty of hugs and love. ❤
I think once you're put in a situation of being a single parent, your leading motivation to stay alive and thrive is raising your kids to be healthy, happy and have better lives than you've had.
어머니도 너무 대단하시구 성재도 씩씩하게 잘 큰 것 같아서 기특하네요. 모녀가 계속 행복하길.
I cried most of the time while watching this video. The hardwork and sacrifice that a mother can do just to raise a family is truly unmeasurable. Ate Genevieve is a great mom despite of raising her son alone. I salute her🫡 His son grows well even though there are shortcomings between their relationship. Stay strong ate Gen and son. God bless!
Both sides are valid, the Mom really works so hard for the family, bills and rent is no joke, she's a solo parent so it should be really tough.
Thr son got so emotional because he's been feeling alone since 5th grade, it must have been hard for him not having physical and moral support from his Mom, he's also still young he's probably at a sensitive phase right now and it's best to fix their relationship right now, communication is basic, but it's really hard to have a good one.
It's hard but it's possible so hope all the best for them.
Of course, he’s been feeling alone but isn’t that selfish? He needs to be close to his mum not just promising to reward her.
@@dolapokosebinu5274 kids need to be allowed to be selfish and discover themselves and the world.
@@dolapokosebinu5274 How can parent wan closeness to their child if they never taught them emotional connection? All the child knows is working hard and being rewarded with money, as that’s what the parent modeled
@@deusexmachina9776 I disagree, respectfully
@@dolapokosebinu5274 disgreaa with what exactly? psychology has proved people have behave in the way it was modelled to them
Don’t give up….my wife is also a Filipina with 3 Korean kids….2 in college and we married in 2017….. their Korean father passed recently and I am hoping to show them a better life than they have lived till now…. God Bless you and your son
아드님 어머니한테 싹싹하게 잘 해주세요….저렇게 똑똑하고 성실하신데😢😢 행복하시길 바랍니다
I 🫡 salute to mommy Genevieve for trying so so hard to give the world for his son. As a Filipina I am so proud of her for sacrificing a lot for her son it’s truly an strong empowered woman. Mabuhay ka ate. 💜💜
Are you still looking to marry a Korean foreigner?
@@Repeuh read her comment, she is idolizing the Filipina's situation, praising her. Other Filipina might read her comment and get inspired to have mixed Korean babies with older Korean men that come to the Philippines as tourists.
@@Paul-McBWtf are you saying
He's so lucky to have a strong mom. She can do anything for him.
Can’t blame anyone tho. Both were hurting. I’m glad they are making up slowly from the help of this program. Really happy for them.
What an amazing woman and mom who puts her whole life and youth for her beautiful son. Respect to this mom. I can also imagine how this boy felt when he was younger. Being "alone" at home while he was afraid. Having nobody to talk to and to play with etc. I wish them both lots of blessings too. And wish this boy lots of success. 🙏🏽🙏🏽
That son has so much attitude . You are lucky to have that kind of mother!
She's amazing, even making it easier for other Filipino overseas workers.
To all single mom outhere I'm so proud of you... Not easy but when we see our son smile all our sadness,hard days ,and painful we carry all throughout .... One day we say I made it as a mom ❤
From now on Songjae, be good to your Mom...and Mom too, no matter how busy u are, find time to be with your son, he needs it...❤️😊
It’s hard sometimes realizing that kids are not always trying to be disrespectful with their words. Sometimes, they are so full of emotions that it just spills out. Later, when everyone is calm again, then express to them a more appropriate way to convey their thoughts. A lot of the time they will come back and apologize for sounding disrespectful.
Your a beautiful family and strong.❤🙏화이팅
This was one of the most emotional episodes. Everybody cried, including myself. Gosh.
They are both lucky to have each other. Ate Genevie is doing her best to be a mother and father figure by working and caring for her son. Seongjae, on the other hand, is mature for his age. Despite the burden of being teased and the bottled-up feelings he can't express to his mother, he developed into a wonderful person. He understands his mother since he has always trusted her. Their love is strong in their connection. They just don't know how to express it properly, but I'm glad they are now. Baby steps...hoping for their future happiness and continued prosperity.
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He will always have a Filipino traits his last words says it all after all !!!❤❤❤ goodluck and blessed your mom. For a longer life
I felt every one of those tears. Seongjae, you and your mother are amazingly. Walk tall, walk proud.
Filipinos are extremely warm and kindhearted. This woman is a hero. I am an American and I could not have gone to South Korea at the age of 23 to start my life. And I've been doing business in Korea for many decades. God bless! You are a credit to single mothers everywhere.
Wishing them nothing but pure bliss and happiness ❤
I see myself in him whenever my mom would cling on me 😂. He looks so funny and cute when he can't express himself much through words yet he still does his best to be a good kid to his mom. I didn't know nonchalant kids like him would be this funny lmao. He's so lucky to have him as his mom ❤
It must been so hard for both of them. It's literally just them, and no one to rely on. I'm so glad their relationship is starting to heal again. I wish all the best for both of them.
Filipino mum are amazing. Hardworking!
Omg 😭 imagine the lengths a mother can do for her child, just selfless, pure love! I know the kid loves his mother but just embarrassed to show it just like any other teen. I wish and pray for the mom to have a long and healthy life and for the kid to heal from all the traumas he went through growing up. God bless you both! ❤
As a daughter of a Filipino mom in an immigrant household, I can't help but to see myself in this kid alot ♥️ Growing up with a mother who faced so much hardship and trauma as an immigrant has impacted us children, too. We face alot of emotional neglect, and sometimes inherit mental health issues. I am beyond impressed how they both are such good people, who only wants the best for eachother, and how her son became such a kindred person. He will grow up to understand one day, and his experience and feelings are so valid, he only wants to be heard and understood. I'm confident he will grow up to become a strong, intelligent, kind and talented guy, the way they both work so hard to make it. I cannot imagine how brutal it is to live in Korea as a foreigner facing so much discrimination and racism there. My heart goes out to them ❤️🔥 Filipinos are truly the warmest, hard-working kind people in the world, we have so much strength in our hearts 🇵🇭 Love from distant fam in Norway 🇳🇴
I can't imagine how hard it must have been living in a foreign land with the language barrier. I believed the son doesn't have the language issues, and he could easily pass as a Korean teen if he speaks well. Among teens in Korea, cheerful attitudes matter. If you don't have common topics, it will be hard to be friends with you whether you are a foreigner or not. Don't be locked yourself up in the VICTIM mindset. You can only feel that you are a victim all the time. Brush off harsh comment because they are not your problems. Learn some sports. You will make friends easy. Sending love. ❤
She's a real warrior and a champion as a Mom and I admire her. I wish her the best in life
What an amazing and inspirational woman.♥
wooow ang galing, mahiyain po ung anak mo, sana po magkwento sya kung anong nangyari saknya sa school, parang open sya sayo, i hope mawala ung pagkamahiyain nya, i hope may mag sponsor ng bonding nyo kahit isang araw or dalawang araw man lang masyado kayong busy pareho, sana ngayon maglaan kayo ng oras para sa isat isa para maging close kayo, kc sa sobrang busy mo moomy parang nagiging stranger na sayo ung anak mo , sabi nga nya mahirap ka e approach kaya cguro tahimik lang sya pag nasa bahay sya kahit nandun ka din,hopefully maging open up na yung son mo sayo para mapakita nyo sa isat isa how much you treasure each other, love each other hug each other, ang sarap sa pakiramdam when you hug your son/mom
This lady is doing such important work. I'm glad that her son told her that he believes in her. Her son is a good kid. Wishing them both a healthy and joyful life.
Such a touching story🥹 She’s such a har working mommy❤️ Bless them! They deserve the world.
I think the mother should know his son not only what she see outwardly but also his deepest thought and feeling. If it a daughter maybe its different story...they both need a long vacation I think! 😊😁💗
i just can't get enough with these story.. salute to you being a single mother in a foreign country is hard but you choose to raised your son because of love and to be a best version of himself.. A mother's love is irreplaceable but ofcourse having a lot of work we tend to lose time, but hoping even sometime you'll can find time for bond growing/adulting needs a parental guidance.. God Bless your family! 🙏🏻
Genevie, you are such a strong and great mother. So proud of you, kababayan! Not all moms are this responsible and can sacrifice this much, fighting fairly in life to give their kid a comfortable life. Wish you good health and prosperity
Crying so much at this. Stay strong mama and SeongJae!
Filipino mom is truly amazing and loving. I feel sorry for this strong mom 16 years in korea and raising her only korean son alone 😢😢
Genevie, you work so hard. Not sure if there are other parts of your life that the show isn't showing but it seems you also need time for yourself, and for both of you to do something together at least every other week outside the house, even a stroll in the park, beach, do thngs he like or start something new for you both.He needs to see that you can balance parenting, work, and still have time to enjoy somewhat. It doesn't take a lot of money to do that. You were raised in the Philippines and you know it doesn't take much to enjoy life for Filipinos so introduce him to that so he can learn to enjoy even the simple things in life. He will be a father someday so it's important for him to know how to introduce simple happiness in life to his family that we Filipinos are known to be good at
I cried a lot on this story. This is how Filipino mom show her love to their child. To the son, you will be successful someday. You're such a good boy.❤
your son is so blessed to have a mom like you, may God bless you.. :)
Watched these more than ones, but still makes me cry. She is a great mom. Hope they get thru all the obstacle and be happy. God bless you both..great success for you Seongjae..🙏
This made me cry a river. I miss my Mama so much. Kudos to all single moms!
Makes me cry how hard most single mothers have it and for every single parent out there who was put into unfortunate circumstances because of undutiful partners
I applaud her for her commitment! I notice that the son’s upbringing is different with the way he behaves! Maybe he is just shy but in the Philippines, the upbringing is more extrovert. Filipinos are mostly laid back, hospitable, friendly, and always cheerful. I have Korean friends and I can tell the difference when it comes to social interaction! They are less engaging!
I’m cutting onions 😢😢 I cannot stop my tears from falling. Ate girl you are my hero, you made ur son proud that he has an amazing mommy. Fighting !!👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Aside from being a single mom, she has dreams too for herself and her family back home in The Philippines. That's why she's working hard and sacrificing a lot to give her son and probably loved ones in The Philippines a better life, her way of expressing love. For me I think true love is one that is sacrificial if not selfless. I pray that her son would come to realize and appreciate that what she is doing is out of nothing but pure love.
She's a woderful mother" she sacrificed a lot for her son. When time comes and his son will have its own family. He will realized what a great mother he has❤
어머니 한국에서 하시는 일을 보니 필리핀에서도 고등교육을 잘 받으신 똑똑한 여성이신 것 같네요. 대단합니다. 항상 행복한 일 가득하시길 바랄게요.
Aww how sweet this is they both have grown n have to communicate more with each other ❤
I hope that they spend more time together (talk with each other everyday). Communication (with each other) is so important. God bless them both.
To all Fillipinos
You guys are super hardworking and you guys have such melodius voices
Its like you guys are born singers😂
I cried watching this. I pray she be happy always
I hope he will become close with her amazingly strong mother who raised him with unconditional love.
Filipino mom build different. They can survive whatever obstacles they have to face. I hope they're children will think carefully and be thankful for there mother
God bless you both! May your maternal/child bonding continue to grow.
Seonjae- you are great! You have suffered much as a child with the teasing, loneliness and lack of emotional support BUT you are correct! You believe in your mum! And truly so cos your mum is the only person who would sacrifice her life for you. Continue to love her more and I am confident you will become someone really successful!
Mum- you are amazing!! 10/10. You did everything you could to keep your son and never thought of abandoning him! You made a lot of personal sacrifices too! Know that Seongjae loves you too and with time, he will appreciate you and love you more and more… God bless you both!! 🙏
You are an inspiration Ms Genevieve... God bless you and your son...😊❤
i felt this video to the bone. like the son i grew distant with my mom, since for all my life till i was 10 she was abroad working for me and my brother, then suddenly i moved to a whole new country in a remote place. my mom worked all day and my brother, a teenager at that point hated hanging out with me, plus we lived in the countryside with my stepdad who worked in the oil field for months and i didn't get to see him much either, so i was pretty much alone. kids didn't call me names for being different but the teased me on things like my food, clothes and such that made me feel so out of my peers. i know my mom worked so hard but as a child and teen going through my own things it was hard to grasp and be fully appreciative when it felt like no one appreciated my existence and mentality. i always felt alone, and when i try to voice any of my opinions all i get is either a slap or getting nagged at. it didn't feel like i was my own person at all, and my mom didn't know me either as a person. luckily things are better between us now. my mom learned the mental strain she and our situation had on me, and tried for the first time to work hard as a mother there to love and listen and not just a mother providing, which i am so touched by. as i grew so did my mind and while it still hurts to think of those days, i have learned to just endure and be better.
I am half Filipino and just adopted my beautiful son from South Korea. This woman is amazing and so strong.
I cried a lot in this episode. Being a single mom myself and working far from my sons made me more emotional. This supermom and son deserve all the happiness. Yes cheek kiss only to son 😊
This made me cry so hard. And it reminds me of my hardworking mother, and especially my eldest sister (who passed away 2 months ago) and her son. Now I miss her more and made me realized how sad it is for her only son. Kudos to all of our mothers!!!!!!
I know how she feels being a single parent myself. It is hard work but the love you feel from your child when they do the simplest things for you is surreal. My 17 yr old daughter went for her national id card recently as well. Lost my mother who was the backbone of my motivation always pushing me to do better and I felt empty. I wish her all the best and will pray her goals are met.
In life sometimes we don't always understand our parents. We even blame them for certain things, but when we go out to work & realize how tough life is out there. We gain a new appreciation of how much our parents are stronger than we imagine. So with age comes wisdom, i hope you will one day say thank you to mum to mum with understanding of how awesome mum is.
I've been crying so much! I'm a single mom but I have my family helping me. I can only imagine how hard it is for her. I hope Genevie realizes that the teenage years can be a bit awkward and it may hurt as a mother when their child is distant but Songjae knows how hard she's trying for both of them and I'm sure he loves her just as much. Songjea had been open about how hurt he was when they had that argument, It may have been years but it's not too late for her to say sorry. It's usually hard for parents to say sorry but I think that's what Songjae needs to hear from his mom. He also talked about his difficulties, feeling like a foreigner- they should continue this conversation to help him with this struggle. Praying for you both!
Hati seorang ibu itu persis seperti lautan. Di dalamnya tersimpan bermacam ragam hal yang berusaha disembunyikan supaya tidak muncul ke permukaan. Seorang ibu mungkin bisa memahami hati anaknya, tapi seorang anak biasanya sangat sulit untuk menyelami hati ibunya.
I hope they're both doing well and happy right now 😭
Wow! I really like this wonderful story of Filipino mom who moved to South Korea raising her son alone.💜☺️
They both endured so much. My heart goes out to them.😢😢😢
You are so lucky to have her, Songjae. ❤ I'm so sorry that you have an irresponsible father. And that you were bullied when you were young. Just remember that she did all those things to give you a comfortable life. ❤ Appreciate her more and don't leave her. Praying for both of you. ❤
Hey kid....someday you will realize how great your mom is...
Pretty mom and handsome son:)❤ God bless you both:)❤
I remember the series "The Good Bad Mother" in this story.
What a great story. I could relay since I'm a single mother to my 2 daughters from Phil to US. I understand their struggles & pain. I salute the mom who remained strong, determined & resilient. Take time out once in a while for breaks together out of the busyness & struggles in life. To the mom, give your son a space sometimes because he's now a grown-up man. Trust him, bec you've raised him well. Most of all, don't ever forget to give time also to worship God on Sundays & to say your prayers always. If you remain faithful to the Lord, He will give you the desires of your heart. He will never leave you, nor forsake you & your son. Cheer up, there's more to life than just working & working.
❤ wow she's amazing. I really admire a mom doing her best to raise a son as she's working hard double time . God bless you ma'am , I am so proud of you being a co-Filipino. Keep it up. More blessings be upon you. ❤
I cried watching this .Congratulations, you are a brave woman in a foreign land.I hope your Son will realize that Filipina Moms are the best!!
I saw this video during pandemic. I cried a lot. I hope they are doing well. Please do a follow-up episode.
I needed to see this and I got mixed emotions from it. Like Genevie, I'm a single Filipino mom with one son. Her son Sungjae is in the 11th grade in this video and my son has just started 11th grade. He is 17 years old. They also both wear glasses! We reside here in the Philippines with my family so I always had help in raising him. I worked as a virtual assistant for overseas clients from home for many years while he was growing up, so I had time to drop him off and pick him up from school during his elementary days. It was convenient because I never had to leave home. Seeing Geneview do everything to raise her son but at the expense of their rather casual relationship, I felt a bit sad for her but, I understand because it cannot be helped. Working multiple jobs was the only way for them to survive and I admire her for that. I hope someday that Sungjae will warm up to his mother because hers is a lonely life that was spent for their survival.