1st vs 3rd Pregnancy | Dude Dad
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- Heidi and I had a blast thinking about what made our and first and third pregnancies so different! Do any of these pregnancy scenarios look familiar to you?! How does your 3rd pregnancy look different than your 1st?
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The best part of this video is the middle child isn't even mentioned 🤣🤣🤣 the only way to truly rep the middle children. #theForgottenOnes
Middle child check in😆..true story #theForgottenOnes😭
Lol
Trust me they aren’t forgotten, I’m the oldest of three and my middle bro is the most attention attracted
So true
So, I'm the oldest of three and father of 3 and I can confirm that the middle child is often ignored. But, that's because middle children often ignores every instruction ever given and forget what they were supposed to do. And, when you finally yell at them after asking nicely 400 times they act like you are an inconvenience and just yell all the time. So, you don't even bother and end up focusing on the two who actually listen. Plus the middle child usually asks for attention in the most inappropriate way at the most inappropriate time. "Hey Dad, you look super busy carrying all those groceries in by yourself. So, I'm going to take this time to follow you (not carrying a single thing) and tell you an 'awesome' joke I just made up." So, while this is true, it's because the middle child brings it on himself.
And to back up Chase, yes this is a real life thing for me. And, yes he is my mom's favorite. LOL
As the father of 4 sons, I don't have a pregnancy story, but my philosophy of how you change: Let's say that the child is sitting in the high chair at the table with a piece of cheese pizza. The slice falls to the floor with the cheese side down. With Child #1, you pick up the piece, throw it away and get a second piece. With Child #2, you pick it up, brush it off and give it back. With Child #3, you pick it up and hand it back while passing by. and With Child #4, you tell them to get down and get it themselves.......
Well, we bought our first born a small car vacuum cleaner for her first Christmas. Now she is 5 and a week ago I got scolded for vacuuming. It's HER job. Her brother claims to cut the grass when he will be big enough to reach to the grass cutter handle. I'm just waiting for the smallest to be big enough to bring me ice coffee from the fridge. What can I say, I love my kids :)
When your first child eats a worm,you rush them to the hospital. When your second eats a worm, you watch them for a bit, and when your third eats a worm, you think if it counts as a snack.
LOL! I only had one but she is now in the beginning of her 2nd pregnancy and I already see exactly what you all are talking about!!! They live with us and it’s so fun watching all 3 of them (mom, dad and our grandson) grow as a family! Can’t wait to see how they all change and grow with the new addition!!
As a fourth born, this is true. People always want to claim the youngest are the most doted on, but by the time #4 hits, mom and dad are understandably too tired to care.
Dad of 4 boys here all under the age of 9. As my city sister likes to call these farm raised children - Feral - and bless her heart they really are.
The "too many clothes, make her take them back" is the most relatable
we went thru baby clothes so fast, 1/2 we had to throw away on day 1, my kid was 9lbs 10oz
not gonna give a like its at 69
Came here just to say this!
Our kids are in college now. I am still traumatized by the generous, kind - - - and absolutely too much hand-me down clothes. Managing them was like a second job. And also to not hurt anybody's feelings.
"I just want this baby to come out in April..... that's my plan." That's the best plan. 😂
i like how regardless of the situation they would agree and high five each other. that shows teamwork.
you and the mrs will have a happy life together.
it's almost impossible not to break up by the third child if you can't be a team :)
@@chistovmaxim shs
I love how she announces the third pregnancy with “hey mr handsy”
😂😂😂
Best line! 😂😂😂
When my water broke with our 3rd kid I literally told my husband to stop on our way to the hospital, at Buffalo Wild Wings because they won’t let me eat once we’re there. He’s all but your in labor?! I was all eh, we got time.
When I started pushing I told him to hold my water and give me 10 minutes and I’ll have this baby out.
It’s so different between your first and third kid lol
True!
When my water broke for my 3rd, I was still at work. I finished up a memo, went home, took a shower, arranged for the older 2 kids to go to the grandparents, grabbed some dinner and wandered over to the clinic. They didn’t believe me when I said my water broke.
It was my 3rd kid. I knew what was what by then. 😂
Yep, I was starving with the first two, by the third time, we stopped and got breakfast on the way to the hospital 😂
Halfway through my third pregnancy,and this couldn't be more accurate. Congrats on your three beautiful children!
Incredibly accurate but this was me on the second pregnancy haha
I just delivered my 3rd 3 weeks ago and I gotta say, every one of those is so accurate 😂
We just had our 3rd in the floor right beside the bed! My oldest son(7) was at his grandparents’ when we called to tell him he had a new sister, he said, “I might come and take a look at her tomorrow.”
I have my children on the side of the bed too 💜 there’s nothing better than pushing out your baby then snuggling in your own bed. I wish every mama could experience that joy!
Oh my. No I'm old school. Had my kids in a nice sterile hospital which had a good supply of pain meds.
Lol! We have 4 and my oldest, by the time his youngest sister was born, said with a bored expression at the hospital, “she looks like the other two. When can I go home?”
"my water just broke but let's finish this episode" lmao
My mom went into labor with me during a NFL football game, with about half the game left. She stayed, watched the game, drove from the stadium to my grandma's house, had dinner, then went to the hospital.
Yeah my 3rd I was watching Archer went to bed for a bit got up called a friend to look after the other kids, had breakfast, helped the 3 year old go potty, call a cab, chatter out the front for a bit and then had a baby within 10 min of arriving at hospital.
@@terryvalentine2877 Wait, can you really be like that while in labour?
@@billcipherproductions1789 Yep. She was using the game clock to time her contractions. Said she had to squeeze the bench a few times, when they hit, but otherwise, fairly normal.
Me: Writing times down in the middle of a surgery
Nurse: Is this info regarding the patient?
Me: Nope, just timing my contractions.
Surgeon: You're in labor?!
Me: Yeah, but it just started like 40 min ago.
Surgeon: Do you need to go down to ER? Do you need to sit down? What do you need?!
Me: For you to finish this surgery please so I can go pee!
Lol. 23 hours later baby #3 made her debut.
So cute and funny when she goes into labor with the first baby and he screams, "I need my mom!"
I had 97 hours of labor, all back labor. He was spoiled by the nurses. When they finally got the baby out he disappeared before I was sewed up! That took 1.5 hours!!!! I didnt see him for two days. He ran home and hid out in his old room at mom and dads. I divorced him when she was ten. What a moron!
@@queenbee3647 OMG 97 hours! I had like 4 hours laboring before my water broke and our baby was born 26 mins later we barely made it and it was my first baby. I had back labor too but I couldn’t imagine 97 hours! My husband pushed on my back and it helped a lot
As a mom of four, I can attest this to be true! By baby #4 I was actively doing squats, going up/down stairs, and vacuuming every day a week before EDD to get that adorable little bugger out! 😂
So relatable! We planned everything for our 1st down to the last detail (none of which happened According to plan). Our 5th didn’t even have a name picked out until I was 10cm and ready to push. 🤷♀️
Very true😂
We spent weeks choosing our 1st babies name. With the 3rd we just spent an hour. I also made myself and my husband sandwiches for the labour.
No matter what Heidi wears or how she does her hair she still looks amazing
omg we are on baby #5. give me the epidural, and a big Mac when I'm done. lmao
No shit my wife made me go and get her a big mac right after the little fucker popped out. I had exactly what she wanted written down.
My favorite, "hey mister handsy here" *yeets test*
Can we talk about despite the situation they are still wholesome
Yes, they are genuinely funny without being vulgar or gross. I love it.
The running joke with the creamer gets me everytime
Please explain. I must have missed it....
Again, as a nurse midwife of 30 years.....this is spot on!! I love my first time moms....but give me a good multip any day!!
My water broke with my second one night. Didn't think that was truly what it was. Went to sleep. Sat up the next morning and it gushed like it had the first time. Thought, yeah, it probably broke. Called the doc. They said go to the hospital. We went and ate waffle house then took my daughter to the sitter. Then went to the hospital. The doctor was freaking out cause it was over 18 hours since it broke.
My baby was fine.
With our 2nd child, my wife's water broke at 2 in the morning. I asked her if she had contractions yet and she replied not yet, so we went back to sleep. About 20 minutes later, her 1st contraction started, so we got up from bed, got dressed, got the bag, got in the car and left for the hospital. No fuss, no hurry. Daughter arrived just after 8... . . She was beautiful with pitch black hair..
Expecting our first baby now, a girl, in October. But I related to a lot of the "3rd baby" tropes, especially the birthing plan of, "I just want the baby to come out of me."
Congratulations:)) I hope everything goes well!!🤍
congrats!!
Good Luck! Best of wishes!
Congrats!!!
I'm like in the middle between first and third baby🤣 I'm pregnant with my first
Lmao when my water broke the first time (no contractions mind you) we didn’t know what to do, so we called my OBGYN to ask 🤣 we went to the hospital after that lol 🤣🤦🏼♀️ I think it’s just a case of brain.exe stopped working because you’re in panic and disbelieve the first time lol
So I'm a dude and had to look up what that acronym stands for. Now I understand why you didn't spell it out and Google thinks I'm having a baby.
Lol my first pregnancy was like the videos. My second was like her 3rd pregnancy. I was like, eh she can come out now. It's very hard being pregnant and chasing another child around. 😕
Wait when they are out... :)
@@mserzysko oh I know now. My 2nd is now 11 months and mobile!
@@anneliseromine1161 I got 5 year old, 4 year old and a half year old. All with cold currently. Best of all: MOM! HE TOOK MY STICK. We are in the forest honey: there are other sticks, just pick one. BUT HIS IS BETTER! ... Heap of fun ;)
Ya i can relate! I laughed so hard at the truth of this video Lmao. I homeschool an 8 yr old and have toddler twins while expecting my 4th right now. Dont take ANYMORE baby clothes!!😂😂
“Let’s finish this episode” this is why youngest are the way they are, parents are just really laid back with them 😂😂😂
I went back to sleep with my third and almost had her in the car on the way to the hospital 😂 another 10 minutes and she would’ve been a car baby!
So true. I'm the baby and my parents were - sometimes a bit too relaxed - but I am independent, happily married, have the least amount of debt, and hanging out with family is really just a lot of fun, instead of baggage and drama.
On a unrelated note....I went on a rare outing to Target today. I kept thinking I would run into Taylor with his adorable wig. I wish I had!
That would be amazing! 😅
About to enter third trimester of my first pregnancy, and this video was helpful in that I know not to freak out and overthink certain things! (And to stop and get some grub on the way to the hospital!)
Better idea: Fire any doctor that doesn't let you eat during labor! It's a terrible policy based on poor research.
@stephanicrandall7797 Don't I know it 😭 This was over a year ago now, but neither the nurses nor the midwife on staff (as wonderful as they were) would let me eat solids once I got my epidural. I was allowed to eat during the 18 or so hours prior. But after the epidural, I got stuck with clear liquids... broth and tea and ice pops and whatnot.
Oh yeah I wasn't allowed to eat after I got the epidural either. Clear liquids only. I don't mind that as much because there is more research as to why, but it's when they don't allow women to eat during labor at all that is just bonkers!
@stephanicrandall7797 It really is! Labor is hard and we need to keep our energy up!
In love with the wholesomeness of this channel! 😁❤️
As a doula who is also expecting my third this is too funny
Had the reverse situation with the diapers. Ended up getting cloth ones for our second baby because we just could not afford to keep up with disposable diapers on 2 kids. Honestly, cloth diapers are pretty great after the baby is a month old. I recommend them.
I did the same as you
I survived only first six months with cloth diapers,cause I had to live next to the sink,changing like 6-8times per day
Then I tried disposable and felt like a free bird🤣🤣🤣
I use cloth diapers on our first born and I love it so far! 🥰
In India before much of commercialization ,cloth diaper is what everyone used.
I have both cloth and disposable! Feels nice to have the cloth ones as a "back up", incase i run out of disposables, and in this day and age, the disposables may run out or low in supermarkets at some point -.- I use the cloth ones like if i change a diaper close to bedtime, for swimming or pretty much just for shorter periods. I don't feel like cleaning poop from it, so :D
Can we talk about why the thing the doc is rubbing her stomach with is a TV remot😂
Omg thanks so much for all the likes
I didn’t even notice 😂
One this was awesome “we already have one of those”lol this was such awesome video
As the oldest I made the point to my younger sister after she had her third kid that now she fully understood that I was the one they really wanted and the extra kids were just so I wouldn't grow up an only child.
Love this video! Funny thing, when we found out we were pregnant with our third was around the time this video came out, and it's so true, the difference between first and third!!🤣🤣
Me, pre-parenting: *gets up at 3am to shave my legs before overdue pregnancy is induced*
Me, going hard on the parenting: *last shaved my legs during the Obama administration*
Hahaha
Haha yes. I think I waxed one time this year.. or was that last year? I don't remember exactly, 2 toddlers, pregnant with #3 😝
It's the end of my second pregnancy and everything is applicable already, no need to wait for the 3rd one. Haven't laughed like that in a while)))) Thank you guys!!!
My wife's water broke on our first pregnancy in the middle of the night. I woke up to an empty bed at like 4 am and found her in the spare room just folding laundry like nothing was happening. I asked her if we should go to the hospital and she was like "I guess". Either she was the most chill first pregnancy ever or she was scared to actually go to the hospital and do it.
I am curious. Did your wife have a very mild "break?" On my first, my son was already well down and blocked leakage. When my water "broke " it was a mild trickle. I didn't know that as soon as your water breaks you are "on the clock" and I didn't tell ANYONE for about 9 hours because my husband was on his way to work and I didn't want to disturb him, and we had an appointment that afternoon anyway, so I figured it can wait. Boy, was I wrong!
I waited too! I had heard horror stories of how long women were just waiting around before they’d be admitted so I decided to wait!
I do love Wingstop. Shout out Rozay
I'm gonna be a first time mom and this is definitely some insight on what to expect 😂
My first, I read everything and was obessed with having everything ready.
My third, the day of giving birth I was like, "Wait. Did I get everything ready? Eh it'll work out." Lol
This is one of my favorite episodes because it is so true. You guys nailed it on this one
I come from a family of 3 kids and this is literally exactly how it happened. I’m the oldest and all the home videos of me in the whom are my parents acting exactly like the first couple in the vid and when my sister (the youngest) was born it was exactly like the other couple 😂
I love the affection you give to your beautiful wife keep up the good work ❤ stay funny, God bless !!!
These two are great! 4 boys later & yes... this is all pretty true!
LMAO this is soooo accurate. Now, let me tell you about seven.....
I have 3 kids, it's not even funny how accurate this is. Dead on.
You two got that s#@% right! Been there. Done that. Retired!
So so true. We've got 4 children and yeah. It's true
This is the most relatable video I've ever seen (and we've only had 2 kids)
I love the cat just sitting there at the end
Watched their other skits, but this is the one that had me subscribe. With three kids, I can confirm this is accurate. Teared up with laughter so much that my husband had to watch this too. 😂
This is so cute, love how they high five each other every time
I've watched at least three times already and only just noticed the remote control ultrasound wand lol
When baby #4 came along, my older sis and I were 8 and 9. We learned to change cloth diapers, and helped put them on and off the clothesline and folded and put away. Didn't take away too much from our playtime either. Jus sayin. Can be done ! I did constantly worry I'd stick him w a pin, and I did turn away from the changing table ( in our bathroom ) once to get a wet washcloth to wipe him with, and he rolled off the table ( he had barely started rolling over around this time ) , thank and Praise God, he landed on the packed diaper bag on the floor and was fine. I learned my lesson ( NEVER turn away w baby on a surface ! ) ( and continue to worry and pray over my now 32 yr old brother , who has 3 kids of his own now ;) ). Oh yeah, and my mom had shown us how to place our hands so that if anyone got stuck with the pin, it was us. And nowadays they have ones w just velcro or something too. All sorts fancy new cloth diapering collections/systems available.
I was 7 when baby brother came along. I got out of the cloth diaper bit (temporarily) by accidentally flushing one. The drill for dirty diapers was 1) gently shake poo into toilet 2) hold diaper firmly and flush to get clingers 3) definitely *do not let go of diaper* . . .
....and after they are born, you want the first one to always eat healthy. One of the third child's first words is "Pizza" and he chants it.
This video is EPIC!!
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100%... hands down THE funniest
😂😅😂 video
the two of you have produced!
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You two are the cutest people on planet earth.
Imagine doing an ultrasound with a remote.
0:23 "We're gonna be outnumbered."
I've actually gotten more specific with my birthing plan with each consecutive pregnancy, because I know what I'm doing and what I want.
I still only have one kid, but this was like watching my own quick devolution from a “crunchy” to “silky” mom 😂
I love you guys. Great collab! I’m taking notes for when I get to that stage lol!
My parents had 8. I’m the 6th. I wonder what they were like by me. I know how they were with the youngest 😂
Burnt out. (Same count with my parents)
My mom was #7. They let HER name #8. 🤣🤣
@@llamasugar5478 Hey! My first was allowed to name his little baby brother (baby nr 2) too, because we couldn't decide, lol.
Your relationship makes me happy. Thank you for the laughs 😆
I'm 30 weeks pregnant with my third... this is all 100% true.
Pregnant with my first. Somehow I’m emotionally already on the #3rd. And I think it’s because I know that being so exhausted now in my first trimester it’ll only get worse. I ain’t even trying cloth diapers. Whatever makes life easier. Also, you guys are hilarious
I am currently living this video.
My grandmother told me a story of a woman who had eighteen kids. Her water broke while she was working in the garden. So she announced to her family that dinner was going to be a little late.
My mom, who had nine, told me that by the end, the kids just pretty much fall out. I can attest to that because that's the story with my fourth. I never had any more but my mom told me I was just warming up!
Hahaha yip. Though im TTC my third.. but my 1st and 2nd polar opposites. Second time round way easier! Even labour lol
I'm a grandma of two plus 2 very special nephews. I have photos of the first borns that look like God himself lay those babies on the blanket and took their picture. I Do Not Even Have A Picture of the second borns on the wall, lol. The second borns are 6 and 8 years old.
😂😂😂 we are expecting baby no 3, and this is so relatable
So true... but you forgot to show the clip where you get snipped at the same hospital while your wife is in recovery after having the third baby!!
Love this! Thank you. You guys are great.
Absolutely accurate.
You guys are such professionals!
It's the baby clothes in a trash bag and paper bag for me. It's so stinking accurate I had to come back and find this video when we found out about our #4
My aunt is a ultra hippy- like dosent have plastic in her home and uses all natural everything. Been vegan or vegetarian my entire life-
Her first pregnancy she had crazy cravings but mostly stayed true to her vegetarian diet and had a natural birth at home.
By her third she was asking my uncle to get her Sonic at 2am and ate chicken nuggets daily.
I was the third baby. This explains a lot.
I'm the oldest thus the most thought of one lol. Guy handled it better than me I would panic just on the alert.
high five is golden
Totally relatable.
You should make whole movie compering reaction with 1st baby and 3rd
Smooshing a remote control around in lube is hilarious :)
Gotta say, it was adorable 😍
So so much bad advice! 😂 so bad it’s good! The “let’s finish this episode first!” and then “The wings to kick in labor!” So good!
I thought I was going into labour with my second last night - I cried for 30 minutes, was swearing at my husband and panting, waddling around the house…
Turns out I had the poops and I had to apologise this morning. This made me laugh so hard, especially the first going into labour part 🤷🏻♀️🤰🏻
So accurate and hilarious!!!😂😂😂
I understand now why I have so many flaws unlike my big sister who is perfect in every way (intelligence, beauty, sociability etc…)
Haha!
Seriously though, when I was in labor, all i wanted was ONE little reese's peanut butter cup! They dont let you eat ANYTHING. Instead, they offered me a popsicle, which is obviously not on the same comfort food level. With my 4th baby, we stopped at McDonalds on the way there 🤣 no rush..
I hate that doctors still do this. They don't use general anaesthesia during labor anymore, so eating while in labor won't cause a medical issue in any way. You'd think that with modern science and medicine, they wouldn't be using an 80 year old, redundant medical practice.
Lol we are expecting our third baby and the truth portrayed in this video is beyond accurate 😂😂😂 love you guys!!!
Only have two but it’s a world of difference.
Thanks team. I watch these to escape.
Very true
I want this baby out of me by April. That's the plan LOL
"We're gonna be outnumbered!"😂😂😂
*I'm not ready! I'm not ready! Im not ready yet!!!!!!!!!* hahahahaha! Omg that was hilarious!
That lady is hilarious! She’s great 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
It's scary how accurate this is
The baby clothes bit hit way too close to home, "MAKE HER TAKE THEM BACK, CHASE HER DOWN!!"
This is all so true made me laugh so hard. I had first time dads for both my kids, so the second one I just pretended we had to plan and worry, and agreed with everything he wanted saying good idea. Lol