Manifesting My Future Man | FULL EPISODE
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- Опубликовано: 23 сен 2024
- ANNA IS SINGLE but not quite ready to mingle. It has been a whirlwind of emotions recently which we go into great depths on Patreon, if you did want to get all the gossip! Today we go through some of the qualities Anna will be looking for in a future man, learning from all her past mistakes... We also talk about her imminent life abroad in DUBAI but Mandi isn't too happy about it obviously!
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Anna was so ready to let go I love that she knows her worth and finally had the courage to stop settling. It will hurt and she will cry but she will be stronger and find the heart that is meant to love her💕 I pray Mandi finds the strength to do the same one day
Didn’t expect to cry first thing in the morning lol😂😢
right same xd
Mandi is so intelligent. The way she she speaks about how men think and why they do things and love is so deep
I m so happy Anna let go. She chose peace over lifelong stress
Finally an episode for us brokies
I know 😂
Wow Anna. First 6 mins and I’m sobbing. These are happy tears for I’ve always thought like you’re saying, the people that love you bring you peace, so no matter how it’s ended all that matters is that you’re free to find that ONE. However it is still raw and early, so feel all your feels because it is mourning that will help you to grow. Sending so much love and hugs to you both ❤❤❤
One thing to keep in mind for the next relationship, don’t be scared. If they show with their actions not just say things so you’ll know immediately if it’s genuine.
A guy would wife up a girl in 6 months if he really loved her- sorry I don’t think he truly loved Anna at all
I’ve been watching you guys for well over two years now, before it was visual I listened to this podcast. I subscribed to Patreon as soon as you launched it, although I never use the chat. And I’m here crying with you now, watching you come to such a mature conclusion. We have seen you guys go through such a journey. I’m so so sorry about your dad’s brother. You’re right, these things really make you think and in these times it is clear who shows up for you❤️
Similar thing happened to me in a past relationship. Things weren’t going well and we decided to take two weeks without seeing each other (still talk) to get back to a friendly and nice vibe as we’d been arguing loads. This was my idea as I felt something needed to change. Overnight I stopped hearing from him and my number was blocked. The grief, shock and complete confusion I felt about the situation was unreal and took a long time to get over. This was a man who didn’t want to take a break and was crying to me about how much he loved and cared about me. Sadly some men are just cowards and need us to do their dirty work for them. 7 years later I still haven’t heard from him and I’m grateful that he stayed away. Big love to you both, these experiences only make us stronger and help recognise what we want and need from a relationship ❤
How long was you with him before the blocking situation? Sorry this happened to you. I can definitely relate on men ghosting & being cowards.
i feel like the switch up is the “warrior” instinct in some men to just put on a brave face, they’re def crying on their own.
there’s honestly some men who are comfy showing their sadness but a lot resort to a cold/indifferent sort of defence mechanism. it’s a lack of emotional maturity
Lmaooo I’m a man and I can assure you 100% most Men don’t cry about you 😂
@@HS-xt2su i’m talking specifically about my exes, some have switched up right after the breakup and acted like they barely knew me. some were open enough to actually say they were upset. so i don’t know why you feel your gender holds weight here….lmfao
can't afford to be a patreon girlie rn but im so happy for anna!
We're all on a journey to nowhere is so poetic
Positive nihilism vibes
I manifested my dream man 😊 I did the same as Anna, I wrote it all down. Forgot about it and a few years passed by. Then when I least expected it and dipped my toe in the dating water he was there! And all the time I was looking for him in the past he was actually in relationship 😂. My whole list about my dream man came true ! Even down to career and their family relationships, wild. I still think it’s crazy until this day. Your day is coming Anna ❤
Anna is looking her best!! Can’t stop looking at her 😍 beautiful ladies ❤️❤️❤️
This is so real and raw and relatable! So rare for today’s content. Keep it up Anna and Mandi ❤ wish you guys so much success!
I’m confused about Mandi’s situation. Hasn’t she been with Gingerbeard for longer? Isn’t she worried that he also has no intentions of proposing? She should have taken a lesson from Anna’s situation and left him too
This episode literally made me cry. I am so proud of you Anna and I’m praying for your healing, for both of you 💗
I love them but has Mandi forgot all the times Gingerbeard would threaten to not let her use the room sometimes?
He’s obviously feeling the emotions but putting on a brave face to you
That’s not obvious at all. Men like can easily switch off.
So sorry for the loss of your uncle, sending all my love to you both and your family xxx 🩷🩷🩷
The U.K. is so small, I didn’t expect to meet my soulmate there and I was right. Moving to Dubai is the best decision you’ll make xx
my ex was the same as anna, we were together for 2 years and i always wanted more. then i broke up with him 4 weeks ago and i feel a lot better!!
stay strong sis
Proud of you girls 🎀
Anna there is a quote in a book I read a long time ago; ''do not allow the faults of others to make you punish the ones with no fault'' hearing you say youre scared to love someone fully because of how cowsl*ck treated u made me think of that. the next man could genuinely be the one for you and the best thing about you Anna is ur softness. you can let a man hurt u, let him make u cry, but u should never NEVER let someone take ur softness. like ur dad said we are on a road to nowhere and you cannot let your road become hard. love, be empathetic, cry, be soft and open ur heart. that man was ur past don't let his actions affect ur future. - long time listener
also; men are liars. they sit and will tell u they don't give a fuck but I promise u in a couple weeks/months he will come back and say he misses u. please Anna, for urself, for ur future don't take him back when he apologises this time. ''Don't ever let a man tell you he doesnt want you twice.''
im crying ive been watching this podcast since it was that old studio and the camera quality was horrible 🤣im so excited for this new era im so so so so excited u guys don't understand. sisters in the cities this time
I’m literally crying I’m soo sorry 💔💔
He sounds like a sociopath if can switch like that
Anna! Patreon subscriber and if you haven’t already, I think you should look into Dismissive Avoidant personality’s. He may or may not be a DA but maybe that would help give you some answers. Agree with Mandi, if he was with for 3 years he loved you but he could just be really good at suppressing his emotions and therefore make you think he never cared
I’m sorry that you’re both going through a hard time. We all love you both so much for your truth and honesty.
You’re both beautiful girls and you’ll find the right people, YOUR people😊
Thank you for always keeping it real. Your podcast keeps me smiling🩷
Anna I’m so proud of you
Doesn’t make sense to have major updates only on Patreon
Y’all got me crying my eyes out first thing in the morning
Just joined Patreon, updated till the most recent vid and now this ! Lovely timinggggggg x
Great episode ❤ Anna healing is inspiring!! And yes men that you have described are out there!
FUUUUUUUCK! I CANNOT BELIEVE MY EYES/EARS THIS MORNING 😶 shocked is an understatement!!! I no Anna gonna kick some ass and level up BIG TIME! GWAAAAN ANNA 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
When was he completely invested? He was always being rude to Anna
Only just seen what’s happened with your ex. I’m so sorry you’re going through this but Well done you sweetheart for walking away. 👑👑
I waited for 20x years. They never change. Well done you for knowing your worth 👑👑👑👑
Omg I'm crying 😢 Thank you for being so vulnerable...I am sure that was hard to share. I'm so emotional now, but so glad you shared ❤
He does care, he's just pretending not to. Dont let that traumatize you, thats just how guys love to put up a front. In fact wouldn't be surprised if he comes back begging in a couple of months. The key is to NOT take him back!
Such a good episode. I went through a rough breakup, it really is hard mourning the life you thought you'd have. Sending hugs and strength! Everything that's meant for you will be yours
You guys made me cry. I love you guys so much. I hope Anna gets the man she deserves. She's such a strong girl and inspiring so much of us to level up. Looking forward to you Dubai journey
I know the feeling of snapping at your parents, this made me tear up 😢 I’m
In the same position as Anna. I’m done being a ride or die. I stayed till the last moment but when it got hard for him he left instead
Of fighting
Omg Anna no shade but I’m so glad I’m going though this with you, I just broke up with my bf of 2 years and he’s just acted like we wasn’t even together etc and I needed to have someone to be able to I guess relate to at this time and it’s so comforting knowing my fave podcaster will understand exactly how I’m feeling at this time and if you can be this strong and power though so can I ❤
He’s not over you babe. Men are just able to act like they are. It taken them longer to process feelings. It’ll bite him on the arse in a few weeks/months. By then you’ll be shining 👑👑💕💕💕💕
Anna.. your glowing! Something different about you, you look free and I’m so happy for you
I’m at work crying 😭 I love you both so much and pray for Anna’s peace
Omg this is scary I’ve just gone through the EXACT same situation but I’m now 6 weeks post break up. Anna, trust me it’s going to be so hard but you will thank him in the long run for showing his true colours. These narcissistic men may love you in ways, and it may feel like true love to you and others around you, but they will always love themselves more and we deserve more than that 💪🏻 stay strong and live your best single life now I think you’re going to thrive in Dubai ❤
I’m soo proud of you xxx
Love this episode! Been listening to y’all from the first episode & it never seemed like your ex was the one Anna. You’ll definitely find someone who loves you & appreciates you!
For recording the podcast from Dubai together, you guys can always record via Zoom/Skype with split screen so you won’t have to always prerecord
Anna I’m so proud of you for making this decision. Don’t beat yourself up that you didn’t leave the first time because you’re coming away with new perspective and it makes you who you are today.
You’ll probably find living alone difficult to adjust to at first but I’m sure once you get settled you will absolutely love it.
You’re a beautiful, kind and smart woman so I’m sure there’s someone better out there for you.
I’ve had that experience in the past where your partner switches up on you out of the blue so I understand how confusing and hurtful it is. Just remember it’s everything to do with them and nothing to do with you.
Also you may not be a fan but I would recommend listening to The Smallest Man Who Ever Lived by Taylor Swift as it’s a good break up song for someone who leaves you feeling confused.
Sending lots of love and all the best luck in Dubai x
the comment on the frames really made me feel sad, mandi put the pictures up!!!! If a man is willing to hide his real feelings in order to get his friends approval or joke about the pictures i.e the relationship then is he worth your love in private if hes doing up laughter in public? If ur man is surrounded by clowns, hes the circus
This was a great episode. Everything will work out. I don’t understand the Dubai thing but it’s probably because I’m American.
Anna, I really hope you’re ok and thinking of you during this hard time. You have done what’s right for you and will be more and more grateful for this outcome as time goes on.
I think with men once they’re done, they’re DONE. It’s scary how they can change emotions literally overnight. Leaves it hard for us to trust how they feel. When you meet the right one, he’ll never give you any doubt. Xx
aw I seriously love you guys man. this was a very healing listen/watch for me
Mandi why did you impression of a guy sound so fresh 28:08 LOOOOOL
Pool side not by the foul side !!!😂😂
If Anna moves to dubai, how will we get these podcasts that I look forward to every week :(
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Omg Anna I’m so proud of you for not settling ! But what’s going to happen to the podcast 😢!
Anna you sill find your king you deserve the best ❤
Mandi looks so pretty crying lol
YES ANNNAAAA!!!! 🔥🔥🔥
Looking forward to the Dubai vlogs and watching single Anna dating 🎉
Oprah got that line from Maya Angelou ❤
Damn we deserve to be able to know what happened. I dont understand why you’ll only talk about everything on patreon and give us crumbs.. I’m so happy you left cowslick though and Mandi… UR NEXT PLZ
No for real at this point might as well just do patreon if your doing this half assed
Very true. The authenticity of the podcast has changed because of their boyfriends- they no longer are raw and only care about money
@@GymnastBARBIEPatreon is for the loyal listeners and literally costs cheaper than a coffee .
You don’t deserve to know anything about anyone’s life that they don’t wish to share with you, whether they are in the public eye or not. You don’t know these girls, you just watch them online, their lives are ultimately their own to share with us whatever they want and whatever they don’t want is completely valid. Parasocial relationships are insane.
@@GymnastBARBIEthat was such a lame statement
I’m like cowlick. I can be really in love with you and it can switch off suddenly. It means I loved the idea of you and not really you when I think about it
Sending much love to you both ❤❤❤
Both my exes were genuinely not able to feel the emotion of love
Loveee you guys!! Going through a break up to & Annas bad b mindset makes me feel better. Also, not to wish any bad on Mandi & GB, but how sick would it be if Mandi was mpving to dubai with you!!
We are so proud of you Anna he was never the one lol
We love you Anna😭❤️
Unfortunately, I don't think he's switched up overnight. Maybe in what he has said to you, but not in his behavior. I've been watching you guys for over a year now and the arguments you and Cowslick have were very telling that he would 'switch up' like this, because it's not about what he says to you, but what his actions say. I'm obviously not in your relationship, but there have been several signs at least that I've seen as a listener just in the things you have argued over that you have shared with us, and also including why you broke up the first time. Fortunately though -- the bright side -- is that human beings are actually less unpredictable than you think. Personality is actually pretty stable over time and someone's actions are highly telling of not just past behavior, but future behavior. So when you get back into the dating scene, focus less on what they are saying to you and more on their actions. Look for a man with integrity, and a man with real integrity will not have to tell you that he means what he says, but you will see and feel it in how he acts without a doubt.
mands i can take u seriously crying 😮😅😂
Anna, he either never cared or he has someone else in my opinion
You guys need to date white men! What you described can’t be found in Middle Eastern Mediterranean men
Some men don’t have the emotion of love. Scary but true.
i am not shocked at all i had a feeling few weeks ago he will leave her wow crazy
Mandi come on it’s your turn now
in my culture/religion you pretty much meet someone for marriage and it happens pretty quick. Can someone tell me what does it mean when people are saying it’s not the right time or we’ll do it next year? Etc. apart from money and no interest in marriage, what are people waiting for? Surely, you know you want to be with someone after years and years being together. I genuinely don’t know why you would invest time on someone with no end goal.
I agree with the comments, starting to say something and then saying “I’m not going to go over it again” is frustrating to hear as a subscriber. We are just as invested into your lives, so either don’t mention it at all or you can mention it after some time as you’ve given the patreon subscribers the exclusive
Dont mention it though 😂 its her LIFE she can mention what she wants on HER podcast. Bore off honestly
And your barely invested if u wont pay four quid babes
Ppl need to touch grass and not be SO fixated on their lives 😂
@@AA-qb7ni yeah I am that’s why I subscribed
@@JDWGS2919 yeah and I can comment if I want babe so bore off my comment
He’s distracted by somebody else and that’s why he’s done a 360
Mandy looks so hot 🔥 you look great, girl! And I love your hairstyle! Good things are coming for you, girls ❤
I Just wanted to jump through the screen and give you girls a cuddle! Not nice seeing you cry ❤
Omg does this mean nomore podcasts
No I think they said they’ll meet once a month and prerecord ❤
Okay, because I've got into a routine of watching them daily!
Omg what happened btwn Anna and Her ex
Oprah didn’t say that 😂
You swore that you loved me but where were the clues?
I died on the altar waiting for the proof
And I'm just getting color back into my face
I'm just mad as hell cause I loved this place For sooooo long, cows lick!!
Maybe he didn't want kids, knew he couldn't give them to you and loved you enough to let you move on?
No he was a coward, he could have easily communicated his feelings but refused to
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The stories you guys tell sound like they happened years ago and you’re just catching us up I’ve noticed it for a while. For example this video you say you’ve broken up but then you said you haven’t been touched by a man for years…? Just something I noticed
Haven’t been touched by another man other than the guy she just broke up with 🤨 this was just recorded last week…
If you follow their lives and the podcast/patreon it does all make sense 😊
Makes me so happy to see women fail in dating, when yall have ALL the power
It’s like being given a 10 million bucks at 18 and still having to work all your life
Men have way fewer opportunities in dating
But it seems we make much better choices
14:54 hard to say without context but it sounds like something hurt his feelings/ ego and he got cold I dnoo
It was about marriage cuz of the fertility test
28:14 lmaoo facts😂
Men deal with everything completely different to women. It sounds like Cowslick is genuinely in some sort of denial and it doesn’t seem like the reality of losing you has hit him yet. Anna, watch and wait, he will come crashing down and you will be in a place where you don’t even care. Let go and let God ♥️❤️🩹
I always knew you deserved better, from all the videos I’ve watched and all the drama. You deserve proper love and you deserve peace. No doubt the man you’ll end up marrying will be one very special and lucky man, and everything will come in due time. 🤍🤍🥲
Wait does this mean it’s the end of Sisters In The City? 🥲
Pool side not by the foul side !!!😂😂