I needed this, thank you. I stream as a virtual avatar and even though I avoid any sexual themes, I've ran into weirdos who felt entitled to be toxic to me because they donated. I would never do this prior to the rise of vtubers because every woman knows, growing up in gaming circles is a hell of a ride. It sucks as an indie, but I have blocked and deleted rude ass chatters despite donating to me. I have a career in real life that pays all my bills. A few measly dollars is nothing. The weird men on twitch DEFINITELY target smaller streamers because they know indies are naive. I straight up told someone to get therapy. I've never not watched someone because they had a partner. In fact I think it makes them a better person if they're able to keep relationship in real life. The whole lying about not having a bf is such a guy mindset, like some biological shit or drive to possess a woman.
Thank u for this comment 💕 I’m glad I was able to reach you. You will definitely grow much faster if you delete the weirdos and focus on bringing good energy to the stream❤️ best of luck
Appreciate the insight. I used to be in a space where there's plenty of hustler creatives and e girls and I subconsciously held back in talking to or DMing anybody. It was hard to find out who genuinely wanted to be friends or if I'm just getting hustled. They were good for networks but not for friends. I suppose it's a similar experience from the other side, to a lesser extent lol
What you explained is basically every entertainment industry ever. Kpop idols have to also pretend that they are single and that they like interacting with their fanbase whom they've never met. Not trying to compare the two but there are similarities. Maybe you regret it or maybe you don't, but your current financial livelihood is a result of the this field. There are pros and cons to every job, but it's good you made this video for future young streamers that may be looking to get into this field. Best of luck
Thank u for the comment 💕 I do think it’s different w kpop idols bc their fans are young girls mostly and they have to stay single to avoid scandals But for egirls the reason you have to stay single is to appear “available” to adult men if that makes sense
@@xiaobaetv Thanks for the reply. I also think these young girls that are kpop fans also have a perceived notion that these idols are available so it's in the idols' best interest to stay/appear single. Different animal, same beast. Lonely single adult men can definitely be nastier so I do feel for the negative experiences the egirls go through. But at the same time, the premise of the industry is to (largely) attract these men. I hope your perception of men won't be too affected by your experience. The egirl industry is basically a job design to gather all the worse men from across the world. It's like if I only date girls in Miami/LA and just assume all girls are gold diggers and will upgrade their partner at any chance they get
@@eldrkzdrgn 😭 I don’t get many comments like this so thank you this means a lot to me I feel understood ❤️ I am aware there are a lot of men that are proper and good people but most of the ones that are chronically online and interacting with egirls… aren’t those people 😂
Holy crap, you probably ace every presentation, so detailed, so thought out, so demure. Shark tank time? 😮 very nice video, some new prospective from a different viewpoint. Updated: us men are animals online, noted 😂 Lmafo bro didn't send the 2k and still yapping, some crazy tea So what's the next? what business are you cooking up 🤔 I watched all 26 minutes of this video reply to me now! 😂
@@xiaobaetv i don't know how to say it discreetly and not sound rude, but since we are here, you were cashing in off of those people (a portion of your demographic) whose partners you are now advising to evaluate their life choices. it's like telling them they should have let you starve. just me? okay.
@@xiaobaetv it isn't me who's saying it though? in the video, you are telling the partner to "leave" the person who pays, thereby discouraging the person to pay. hence, eyebrow raised.
@@niwdlab14 oh okay I think u misunderstood - that part of the vid is addressed to girls (non e girls) who are dating twitch viewers who pay egirls. Hope that helps 💕
I needed this, thank you. I stream as a virtual avatar and even though I avoid any sexual themes, I've ran into weirdos who felt entitled to be toxic to me because they donated. I would never do this prior to the rise of vtubers because every woman knows, growing up in gaming circles is a hell of a ride. It sucks as an indie, but I have blocked and deleted rude ass chatters despite donating to me. I have a career in real life that pays all my bills. A few measly dollars is nothing. The weird men on twitch DEFINITELY target smaller streamers because they know indies are naive. I straight up told someone to get therapy.
I've never not watched someone because they had a partner. In fact I think it makes them a better person if they're able to keep relationship in real life. The whole lying about not having a bf is such a guy mindset, like some biological shit or drive to possess a woman.
Thank u for this comment 💕 I’m glad I was able to reach you.
You will definitely grow much faster if you delete the weirdos and focus on bringing good energy to the stream❤️ best of luck
Quite interesting to listen to this perspective. I did have some assumptions about this industry which got confirmed, so I am satisfied XD
glad we r on the same wavelength 🥹👍
Appreciate the insight. I used to be in a space where there's plenty of hustler creatives and e girls and I subconsciously held back in talking to or DMing anybody. It was hard to find out who genuinely wanted to be friends or if I'm just getting hustled. They were good for networks but not for friends. I suppose it's a similar experience from the other side, to a lesser extent lol
@@Ferniture4 tbh this space is the worst place for friends. None of my friendships even w girls were genuine here
What you explained is basically every entertainment industry ever. Kpop idols have to also pretend that they are single and that they like interacting with their fanbase whom they've never met. Not trying to compare the two but there are similarities. Maybe you regret it or maybe you don't, but your current financial livelihood is a result of the this field. There are pros and cons to every job, but it's good you made this video for future young streamers that may be looking to get into this field. Best of luck
Thank u for the comment 💕 I do think it’s different w kpop idols bc their fans are young girls mostly and they have to stay single to avoid scandals
But for egirls the reason you have to stay single is to appear “available” to adult men if that makes sense
@@xiaobaetv Thanks for the reply. I also think these young girls that are kpop fans also have a perceived notion that these idols are available so it's in the idols' best interest to stay/appear single. Different animal, same beast.
Lonely single adult men can definitely be nastier so I do feel for the negative experiences the egirls go through. But at the same time, the premise of the industry is to (largely) attract these men. I hope your perception of men won't be too affected by your experience. The egirl industry is basically a job design to gather all the worse men from across the world. It's like if I only date girls in Miami/LA and just assume all girls are gold diggers and will upgrade their partner at any chance they get
@@eldrkzdrgn 😭 I don’t get many comments like this so thank you this means a lot to me I feel understood ❤️ I am aware there are a lot of men that are proper and good people but most of the ones that are chronically online and interacting with egirls… aren’t those people 😂
Cool video! Looking forward to the progress of this channel!
@@CrystalDragonBeats thank you 💕
Thank you so much for this honest video ❤
Tysm for listening 🫶
Very good listen
Ty for listening 🫶
Good information. Good share.
Appreciate it! 🙏
you told it just how it is lol. good video.
Thank u for listening ❤️
I'm in influencer manager, and the community is so toxic. Don't...
U get it 😂🤝
Holy crap, you probably ace every presentation, so detailed, so thought out, so demure. Shark tank time? 😮 very nice video, some new prospective from a different viewpoint.
Updated: us men are animals online, noted 😂
Lmafo bro didn't send the 2k and still yapping, some crazy tea
So what's the next? what business are you cooking up 🤔
I watched all 26 minutes of this video reply to me now! 😂
24:50 agree with the statement, but can't help raise an eyebrow at the situation since it's coming from someone who used to farm this very system.
@@niwdlab14 I don’t understand what ur raising an eyebrow about it makes perfect sense to me
@@xiaobaetv i don't know how to say it discreetly and not sound rude, but since we are here, you were cashing in off of those people (a portion of your demographic) whose partners you are now advising to evaluate their life choices. it's like telling them they should have let you starve. just me? okay.
@@niwdlab14 that’s like saying u worked at FedEx and hated it so u don’t deserve to get paid for working there
@@xiaobaetv it isn't me who's saying it though? in the video, you are telling the partner to "leave" the person who pays, thereby discouraging the person to pay. hence, eyebrow raised.
@@niwdlab14 oh okay I think u misunderstood - that part of the vid is addressed to girls (non e girls) who are dating twitch viewers who pay egirls. Hope that helps 💕
I will never understand the logic behind "I donated her money, so now she HAS TO talk to me"
@@beegbraining and then they call u a gold digger LMFAO
@@xiaobaetv FOR REAL
* voluntarily gives money away to a woman online who has an audience *
* gets ignored *
“Wow, what a gold digger”
I feel bad that women have to deal with guys that are animals. Doesn't anyone care to be nice anymore and push their own feelings aside?
I’m surprised the comments are so nice 😭🫶 thank u for listening
Hello Xiao bueatiful thanks😊
wtf is this comment section
@@retroscorpioz help