why do people gossip?

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  • Опубликовано: 3 дек 2024
  • why do people target you? why do they have ill intentions for you? why do people tell lies about you?
    in this video, we are debunking girl drama- why it happens, how to tackle it, & how to bury it once and for all.
    not everyone is meant to be your friend, and worse, sometimes your enemies are the ones disguised as your friend.
    by the end of this video I hope you’ll get the clarity and the strength or inspiration you are looking for.
    let me know your thoughts or experiences in the comments ❤️
    03:35 why do girls start drama
    04:39 they either hate you or want to be you
    05:19 jealousy
    06:45 insecurity & external validation
    9:45 how to think
    12:53 telling lies will ruin you
    16:51 backstabbing friends
    21:08 how to deal with it
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    #girldrama #drama #pickme #girlssupportgirls #girlssupportinggirls #girlsattitude #girlpower #gossip #gossiping #backstabbing #fighting #disagreements #disagreement #bestfriend #exfriend #meangirls #fakefriends #fakefriend

Комментарии • 18

  • @juliadandar
    @juliadandar 23 дня назад +3

    just had some closure with a fake ex friend who always felt insecure around me and let her boyfriend gaslight me and shit on me for shit i did that they never talked about with me before. i had trauma with a girl doing this to me in high school and leaving me with no friends. the girl this time stole my apartment and friends that i shared with her. i was angry and defensive bc of my trauma and the issues i was going through which were so obvious, but they never gave me any empathy when i was always a good friend and they were not good friends or communicators. i have grown so much and put work in after the fight but they did not. im on another level now. cannot be friends with fake secret hater girls anymoreeee, manifesting real girlfriends now. this vid came at the perf time for me so thank youuu. love your channel

    • @xiaobaetv
      @xiaobaetv  23 дня назад +1

      thanks for sharing Julia 🥺 I’m sorry u had sm bad experiences- it takes time to find other healed girls who are at peace w themselves but we’ll meet them one day ❤️

    • @juliadandar
      @juliadandar 18 дней назад

      @ be my friend teehee, i’m a bad bitch too hahaha

  • @amiiermakes
    @amiiermakes 24 дня назад +1

    Omgggg yeahh… “I thought this was the relationship I manifested..” was the most relatable feeling!! I’m glad there are girls girls that are simple minded! Also love your videos and editing!!

    • @xiaobaetv
      @xiaobaetv  24 дня назад +1

      I’m glad you’re enjoying the edits! Ty 💕

  • @Tony-mo8uj
    @Tony-mo8uj 25 дней назад +1

    Damn the edits so fire

  • @itsmeyaya28
    @itsmeyaya28 22 дня назад +2

    this video is so underrated

  • @Akilola
    @Akilola 22 дня назад +1

    i used to work in retail and theres this senior staff whos in her 50s , shes treating me like crap like every single thing i do is wrong to her & even my other co worker asked me what did i do that she despise me so much? I said i genuinely have no idea 😂 … atleast now i know

    • @xiaobaetv
      @xiaobaetv  22 дня назад

      @@Akilola she’s either mad at u bc ur young & hot or she’s mad bc she’s spent her life and ended up in the same place as u 😭 it’s crazy I keep seeing tiktoks of girls w this same experience

  • @Korolev_igo
    @Korolev_igo 24 дня назад

    Hello Xiao thanks😊

  • @Nyxio_
    @Nyxio_ 22 дня назад +1

    Why did I listen to all of this when I am a guy? ╭ (๐_๐)╮Good and clear video btw and thanks for the book recommendation. x

    • @xiaobaetv
      @xiaobaetv  22 дня назад

      I appreciate u 😭🫶

  • @eufonioun
    @eufonioun 24 дня назад

    TRUE

  • @sundin2799
    @sundin2799 24 дня назад +1

    What do you think about a cousin who takes in his younger cousin’s ex gf (of 2 years) without asking him about it? Is it not weird??

    • @xiaobaetv
      @xiaobaetv  24 дня назад

      huh wdym “takes in” 😭😭😭😭 he weird n slimy for that

    • @sundin2799
      @sundin2799 8 дней назад

      @ 🤮