Moving On, No Looking Back || Father Knows Something Podcast

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  • @heathermizer2111
    @heathermizer2111 7 месяцев назад +142

    Story 3
    “I can’t tell when he’s lying” HONEY!!!! ARE HIS LIPS MOVING!?!?

    • @daynaluna_
      @daynaluna_ 7 месяцев назад +2

      Your comment made me choke on the soda I was drinking 🤣

  • @KAM84112
    @KAM84112 7 месяцев назад +122

    Story 3 has me mind blown… 🤯 how are you continuing to take this guy back… RUN! And don’t freaking look bad. 90 days? Absolutely not. I would be asking for rest of your life to be free from him.

    • @NashiDragneelMiaThomas
      @NashiDragneelMiaThomas 7 месяцев назад +12

      After the first time when he texted that paragraph.... Wouldn't even have taken me a day to breakup. This story has steam coming out of my ears, I literally had to skip it 😭
      I can't even feel bad for her.

  • @mndyD9
    @mndyD9 7 месяцев назад +28

    Story 2 & 3, don’t be THAT girl, leave and chalk it up as a lesson. Don’t be the fool who takes back a piece of shit. And especially for story 3, OP for the love of god it’s taking more energy to catch this loser cheating than it would to break up, kick him out and not expose your poor kids to that! Run girl! Sending both OPs lots of love & strength ❤❤❤❤

  • @surramott5862
    @surramott5862 7 месяцев назад +42

    Story 2
    LEAVE. You are valid in your feelings and if you can’t trust someone and the people you surround yourself with then leave them behind. What he did when u broke up isn’t your business sure…BUT doesn’t give him a right to lie to you over and over

    • @gingergirl8149
      @gingergirl8149 7 месяцев назад

      Yeah I agree. This relationship is doing more harm than good. Get out.

  • @ms.tinygiant
    @ms.tinygiant 7 месяцев назад +24

    Story 3 sounds like my ex and not going to lie.. I would NOT want him around my children or even want to have children with that man. Run while you can. People like him can also turn abusive. There is no limit for what a human Iike that can do and how far they can go. Seriously gives me ptsd hearing this story. Respect and love yourself, get out while you can. There are great partners out there I can promise you that. Never settle for bullsh*t like this one.

  • @ivylovesrunning
    @ivylovesrunning 7 месяцев назад +42

    Story 1: Take the job and live your life. Honestly, you will be happier. There is someone who will be a better fit. Not every person will be right. Good luck! Enjoy your job. Stay at your mom's house and save your money. Save as much as you can, even put some aside for a house deposit.
    Story 2: OP, run! Your mental health is not worth ruining for this relationship. You've lost all trust in him. You're driving yourself crazy. Please seek therapy and leave the relationship.

  • @carmen.a.mendiola
    @carmen.a.mendiola 7 месяцев назад +32

    Story 2 and 3: if there's no trust, there's nothing. No matter how hard they try to make you trust and believe, and no matter how many truths they say, this is the point choose your own peace of mind

  • @bonniewolf8662
    @bonniewolf8662 7 месяцев назад +32

    Why is Jerry's "bad girl" always "Bonnie"?! LOL 😂

    • @lolabnic
      @lolabnic 7 месяцев назад +2

      maybe bonnie and clyde?😅

  • @lisramirez4546
    @lisramirez4546 7 месяцев назад +7

    Im so grateful for this podcast, it was just what i needed, verbatim what Morgan said I texted and broke up with my boyfriend, after 4 years i couldn't do anymore i wish i could post a screenshot lol

  • @kayleighmcgrath2454
    @kayleighmcgrath2454 7 месяцев назад +8

    Hey, Hey! Our votes DO count. Yay, Jerry! I think this is the perfect theme for those who are struggling through Valentine’s Day. For me, personally, I’m spending my romantic holiday with my 5yo daughter, (Alice), 2yo crazy son, (Jack) and a 💩-load of Alice’s lil’ friends who are getting mentally prepared to destroy my house. My husband will be making himself scarce, as usual.) Your time is coming, my dear Morgan. I never thought I’d be “this Mom”, either. But, I’ll say, it is everything. Anyhoo, time to bust out my crochet, sit back and give this episode a listen! Happy Valentines! You guys are the best. ❤❤❤

  • @isla2922
    @isla2922 7 месяцев назад +11

    i love this pod but am really disappointed you guys still get sponsored by better help. get that cheque and all but there’s so much online about how bad of an organisation they are.

  • @tutsdgn4809
    @tutsdgn4809 7 месяцев назад +5

    Story 3 I really hope you will leave this man. Stay strong, you will get through this. If you stay you only hurt yourself and your children

  • @hopefederico8678
    @hopefederico8678 7 месяцев назад +6

    The first one is so interesting to me. My boyfriend and I are long distance. He lives in Germany I live in NY. We met two years ago while studying abroad in london. and for two years from across the ocean, we make the effort together. I cant imagine a world where we would live only an HOUR AWAY and he wouldn’t be willing to sacrifice some time to live in the middle.

    • @alexshaw8167
      @alexshaw8167 5 месяцев назад

      Thanks for this comment. My partner lives an hour away and I’ve been travelling to HIM for 5 years, he very rarely comes to my house and only does for special occasions.

  • @ivylovesrunning
    @ivylovesrunning 7 месяцев назад +8

    Story 4: Drop out of the wedding! She is being a prick! (RUclips doesn't like t*@t or tw**t) She is being a terrible "friend," and she's allowing her other friends to exclude your friend and you. London is hella expensive! She's excluding you and putting you down. Take your other friend and go do something fun on her hen weekend. On her wedding day, do something fun, take pictures, and post them on Instagram. (I'm petty that way. 😂) She is NO longer your friend, babes.

  • @kayleighmcgrath2454
    @kayleighmcgrath2454 7 месяцев назад +9

    (35:57 ) Sorry, commenting AGAIN. If your OP reads this, here is my 39yo womanly/ fellow Mama advice to her:
    RUN, don’t walk! It’s so hard when you are in it. You are only 34? 35? There is SO much life left for you to live. And while this guy seems like the only person in the world to right now, trust me when I insist that he is not! He will never change. The fact that he has no respect for YOU or your sweet babies really has nothing to do with you. It’s HIM. He is who he is and you don’t have the power to change him. You don’t have to live like this. Your boys don’t have to live like this. I’m assuming it’s probably very confusing for them. Also, it HAS to be taking up so much of your mental and emotional energy. You are wasting those emotions on a broken, amoral individual with absolutely no self-awareness when you COULD be spending that time enjoying your children while they are children AND finding a MAN who is actually worth your time and attention. You deserve better. Get rid of him. It’s like-nerd alert!-in Lord of the Rings (last film) when Frodo is sooo close to throwing in the Ring that has been causing him so much pain. He is struggling to do so and Sam says, “Just let it go!” This is an addiction. And it’s not this guy who you are addicted to. It’s fear of being alone. Don’t let that fear lead you down this Misery Path. It’s so unnecessary. Heartache sucks, but it is temporary and you’ll be SO happy when you get over hump of heart break. You’ll also look back with a clear perspective and a “sober mind” and wonder why you ever let yourself stay in this so long!
    Sending you the biggest hugs from Idaho! You’ve got this.
    Just let it go. ❤

  • @gingergirl8149
    @gingergirl8149 7 месяцев назад +3

    Story 1: My now husband, then boyfriend, moved to another state to be with me. I wasn't willing to sacrifice the career I worked so hard for. He respected my hard work so much that he never even asked me to leave it behind. Even now he says, I can get work doing anything anywhere but I can't get another you. In short: If he prioritized you and your happiness, he would. It goes both ways, but my husband never questioned the decision and now has a job he loves and is very successful in.

  • @novedization
    @novedization 7 месяцев назад +13

    I live a rural area and my commute is normally 45 minutes. We currently had to shift to one vehicle and I drive just over an hour each way to get to work. But I love listening to THT and FKS every morning. It gets my brain, active and thinking, while being entertaining. Love you guys!❤

  • @torishlanta4034
    @torishlanta4034 7 месяцев назад +14

    I’ve never been this early for a video. I needed this today.

    • @savyjsumm
      @savyjsumm 7 месяцев назад

      I feel that it’s like a virtual gift

  • @LindzChannel
    @LindzChannel 7 месяцев назад +2

    The third story is insane, like what the hell is wrong with this lady? This guy is inviting strangers to come have sex in HER home where her kids live! That is dangerous!! This man is homeless and you're providing him a free bed and brothel. Three months in and he's already cheating and you're around for 2.5 years?!! GET HIM OUT

  • @megantiffany
    @megantiffany 7 месяцев назад +5

    Justin’s advice on the last story about being direct when breaking up is so crucial. I agree 1000%. People hear what they want to hear, and letting them down gently or dancing around the subject will not be clear for them. I’ve been broken up with in that way and if it seems that there’s any chance or open door, then I’m convinced I just need to put more effort in to save the relationship. Being adamant that there is no relationship to save and it is fully over will definitely be best for everyone in the long run.

  • @cydiiwidii20
    @cydiiwidii20 7 месяцев назад +4

    Story 5
    I had an ex threaten to unalive himself if I left. I left then had the police do a wellness check on him. That was all the comfort I needed to know he was just manipulating me.

    • @dezzyhartley3009
      @dezzyhartley3009 7 месяцев назад +1

      I had one do the exact same thing to me. He was put on a 72 hour hold and I got calls of him threatening me and telling me it was all my fault. It took a long time to realize it was all manipulative nonsense.

  • @kayshlenay
    @kayshlenay 7 месяцев назад +7

    Me when I see fks uploaded: 💃

  • @ccmmenter
    @ccmmenter 7 месяцев назад +2

    i love jerry but he was way too harsh on story 2. the guy has all the fault in the situation. first he cheats, then lies to his gf when trying to better things with her. i say - GURL, RUN !! it's not like she's insecure, she has given him a second chance (that im not sure if he even deserves) having only ONE condition and he breaks it.

  • @jamier.hayden4636
    @jamier.hayden4636 7 месяцев назад +4

    My sister, the bride, paid for most of my stuff because I was low income and she wanted me their

  • @mirrojas
    @mirrojas 7 месяцев назад +2

    Story 4 I think it’s important to understand, especially in female friendships, when we find ourselves needing to prove to our bad friends that we’re worthy & how even other girls in the group will be flying monkeys. I gave my young daughter the book “Real Friends” & it’s a perfect story to teach young girls that friends don’t make you feel like that.

  • @ashleeladybug
    @ashleeladybug 7 месяцев назад +9

    New episode = made my day

  • @Belidonne
    @Belidonne 7 месяцев назад +3

    Whaaaaat??? North Carolina??? How did I just now find out that you're doing a live show in NC 😭 I would've gotten tickets if I knew!!

  • @amberrosemack2001
    @amberrosemack2001 7 месяцев назад

    I love you guys and watch every video i will say just as an educational statement: polyamery is NEVER a solution for a cheating partner. Polyamery only works with trust, communication and always respect for your partner. You should never consider adding others into your relationship if there is unresolved trust or unhealthy relationship dynamics. I huge component of poly or non monogamous relationships is aftercare and checking in with your primary partner to validate and understand how they are feeling. I love Jerry and I know he means well because hes an accepting person but i just wanted to let you know so you can better help your write ins 😊

  • @KitCat898
    @KitCat898 7 месяцев назад +4

    I’m so early!!! Yay! I’m going to be working late and nothing passes the time like listening to FKS.

  • @jennyj8729
    @jennyj8729 7 месяцев назад +1

    That first story is wild…. If you love eachother then you compromise. My boyfriend of 3 years drove 3 hours one way to go on a first date with me, if he wanted to he would.

  • @danielleharris5208
    @danielleharris5208 7 месяцев назад +2

    I hope the guy in story 3 hasn’t done anything to her kids.

  • @salinabydonie
    @salinabydonie 7 месяцев назад +1

    1:01:56 onward, yesss!!! Thank you, Justin! If anyone listening takes anything away from this episode (or FKS/THT in general), it should be that! If you have kids with someone who doesn't want them 1000% or someone pressures you to have them and you're not 1000% sure, then you end up writing in about how your relationship isn't working, but then you also have to worry about kids, and you'll never be able to fully separate from that person unless they or you become a deadbeat parent.

  • @jazzyj6368
    @jazzyj6368 7 месяцев назад +1

    Story 3: Morgan nailed it. Health safety!!!! And he’s teaching yr kids how to treat a woman.

  • @AG-cz7bs
    @AG-cz7bs 7 месяцев назад +1

    Story 3: you are showing your boys that is is ok to treat women like he does, and If you do run it will show them that you won’t put up with that and that they should respect and treat women well.

  • @reneeallred5082
    @reneeallred5082 7 месяцев назад +1

    I love you guys so much. Great advice. Great episode

  • @gingergirl8149
    @gingergirl8149 7 месяцев назад

    Story 3.... Im so sorry you are going through that. But it's time honey, kick him out. Why do you think so little of yourself to tolerate this? You are nobody's option at a buffet. You are the steak dinner. You deserve more. He will never change, time to move on for you and your children's sake.

  • @Makdaddyd
    @Makdaddyd 7 месяцев назад +2

    Just got merch for THT and would love some FKS merch 🫶

  • @mocotojam6767
    @mocotojam6767 7 месяцев назад +3

    Just in time for me to pack! Here's to another great week!

  • @danielapizarro14
    @danielapizarro14 7 месяцев назад +1

    I cant even feel sorry for story 3 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @jamiejane2238
    @jamiejane2238 7 месяцев назад

    same situation as story 1 but different in I said I can not handle this anymore so we move to apartment to townhouse still my drive longer around 37km (one-way)but his is around 26km (one-way) however I’m adjusted myself cuz I see my dad drive 60km (one-way) to work and back home everyday for 20yrs so I think I can do it to. Not everyone will find perfect solution but depends on u still happy about it or not my bf before we move he stand on his feet and will not drive 62km(one-way) to see me even we want to live with each other. So, it depends on how you feel in these day I feel normal about driving because it became my routine and prep me to start my day better.
    p.s. I live in Bangkok and that is no way we gonna find perfect solution because high rent and most of it’s apartments that not allow pet (I’ve 4 cats) so we need to move around rural area since home,townhomes build outside city mostly drive very long (20-60km per way) so that’s why I yhink I can do that cuz it normal in society.

  • @Attovskb
    @Attovskb 7 месяцев назад

    Story 3 is so messed up. That woman is beyond selfish allowing that man around her kids. He’s a piece of shit and should’ve been gone after the first time she caught him cheating.
    She can’t see beyond her own wants that she causing so much mental damage to her kids, showing how a man is allowed to treat a partner.
    Girl stand up and leave him, or stop confronting him and accept that he won’t change. If you keep taking him back, you become the problem.

  • @caitlinsiemens1534
    @caitlinsiemens1534 7 месяцев назад

    Story 3. This guy needs a therapist. That girl needs to gtfo. I believe in her, come on girl. It hasn’t worked out MANY times and he doesn’t care about you or else he wouldn’t do this to you and lie about it

  • @skyduncan5125
    @skyduncan5125 4 месяца назад

    Story 3-Dude sounds like a sex addict. I'm so sad for this woman that she had to deal with this and her family and kids had to go through this. He needs help.

  • @hayleyunverzagt1857
    @hayleyunverzagt1857 7 месяцев назад

    Completely disagree with Jerry on the story where the boyfriend wouldn’t tell her who he fooled around with. Those were her terms and he is a liar.

  • @zulu32656
    @zulu32656 7 месяцев назад

    Story 3: In the kindest way I can say it…Stop being foolish! He’s just not that into you.

  • @muvhusomamafha
    @muvhusomamafha 7 месяцев назад

    All the way from Pretoria South Africa ,I like your content 💯

  • @kiaragarcia1580
    @kiaragarcia1580 7 месяцев назад +2

    perfect timing for my drive home😎

  • @BrendaColin-v7g
    @BrendaColin-v7g 7 месяцев назад

    Story 3: wtf? Why is she even asking. At this point it’s your fault girl for taking a cheater back. He will cheat with men and women… can’t be safe around anyone

    • @BrendaColin-v7g
      @BrendaColin-v7g 7 месяцев назад

      She needs therapy. Because why is she even considering this again

  • @TippiTappi
    @TippiTappi 7 месяцев назад

    #3 ask yourself what are you really accomplishing by essentially putting him on time out with you physically, when he has already proven over and over again that he WILL seek it out elsewhere? That does absolutely nothing but show him you will keep letting him back in to do it again. You deserve so much better and you CAN find better.
    Also, the kids were not discussed a lot in all of this but they should be a huge factor in how you proceed. What message are they getting from seeing this on again off again relationship? Kids are far more perceptive than we give them credit for. I think your focus should be on yourself and your family first. And allow them to have a voice in what their home life looks like. They deserve to feel comfortable in their own home and it sounds like this guy is not allowing them to have that.

  • @larissakraszewski7703
    @larissakraszewski7703 7 месяцев назад

    Lmao I drive 45 mins everyday to and from my fiances job. In the morning at 5am and then in the afternoon to pick her up. That man in the first story is trash and he doesn't love her. She should say byeeeee

  • @aschisel
    @aschisel 7 месяцев назад

    story 1
    I work 45 minutes from home in a different city. I love it. I only have to work in office 3 days a week, but for those 3 days a week, I am in the car driving for 1.5-2 hours depending on traffic and weather. Do I look forward to the day that I live closer, absolutely. But it was the perfect job at the perfect time, so I had to make the decision. Also, I have my husband and a toddler, and my husband supports where I work.

  • @YouAreBeautiful1119
    @YouAreBeautiful1119 7 месяцев назад

    I love just sitting there with the most disappointed look on his face in story 3. He seems so tired of some people and their BS in how they treat others, as he should!

  • @tiffmitch702
    @tiffmitch702 4 месяца назад

    Time stamps are always off 🫠🧐

  • @lyndseyowens270
    @lyndseyowens270 7 месяцев назад

    Love FKS & THT so much! Shout out to Justin for the tunes, it’s the highlight for me 😊

  • @JessicaKishi
    @JessicaKishi 7 месяцев назад

    Story 1: im curious to know how many people think an hr to work is a long 😂

  • @lisislobo6801
    @lisislobo6801 7 месяцев назад

    3RD STORY IS SAVAGE

  • @hellobell123
    @hellobell123 7 месяцев назад

    On this note: leave book recommendations for women! Plssss

  • @paulamarshall3810
    @paulamarshall3810 7 месяцев назад

    Morgan, I love your blanket ❤ where did you get it from?

  • @averyrothberg7908
    @averyrothberg7908 7 месяцев назад

    Noooo Jerry you NEED to come to the Charlotte show!!!

  • @toshagayle1
    @toshagayle1 7 месяцев назад

    Are there Patreon stories this week?

  • @ciablatta
    @ciablatta 7 месяцев назад

    I needed this topic. ❤ thank you

  • @stephjovi
    @stephjovi 7 месяцев назад +1

    Has the write in even looked at a job in his town? She makes it seem one sided that she`s willing to compromise but she took the job in her town knowing where he knows and lives so it`s not like she compromised.

  • @kaylacouponsdaily8719
    @kaylacouponsdaily8719 7 месяцев назад

    Ayyyeee see you the 15 🎉

  • @bayliemiller8940
    @bayliemiller8940 7 месяцев назад

    I really needed to hear this tonight

  • @joyous1011
    @joyous1011 7 месяцев назад

    Story 2 she needs to break-up with him. If SHEEE cant move on and forgive (not forget) then it will never work. She wont know " if its worth it" until she tries unfortunately thats life.

  • @vannabananaz
    @vannabananaz 7 месяцев назад

    1:01:38 Jerry’s lil pfffff 😂😭

  • @dalalal-shemary3358
    @dalalal-shemary3358 7 месяцев назад

    YAYYYY

  • @kassiematson9921
    @kassiematson9921 7 месяцев назад

    i feel like Morgan is pregnant and the new name is gonna be “Grandpa knows something”🫢