@mariah3654 I'm sorry. I'm witnessing this and it is a very sad and disturbing dynamic to watch. At least you seem to be aware of what's happening. Learn to protect yourself and do whatever it takes to be mentally, emotionally, and psychologically safe. These people are destructive and their internal chaos will only damage the lives of those closest to them. Distance yourself for your own good and do everything you need to do to heal.🙏🏼
Thank you for helping me remove myself from people who were unable/unwilling to show up for others the way they want them to show up for them. It feels amazing to no longer pour from an empty cup.
Had to learn That sometimes it’s not worth it whatever it is So I’m learning to keep silent the conversation I’m good, and anything else that follows after realizing that I’m an option then I can walk alone
That's why I moved far away as possible. My so called family is hateful and toxic, cruel, play games with my mind etc. it's over 4 me. My mother and stepdad can play with other family members. I'm out.
My younger adult children and our relationship is this way. I don't doubt they have a love for me being their Mom...but they don't take up time with me, check on me daily and my daughter can be the most loving to her church family....I get static...im tired of the inequities in our relationship, tired of feeling so sad that there's always negative words bc of my begging.....ima hold my stuff closer, she dont want it and has only leftover, sometimes, for me, tired of it all. Thank you Bishop for this....half of my soul and breath just left me
To: princess crockett Take care of yourself and live your best life. AND be sure not to play being a victim. Self care 2024 is real. I have found that as I age and retire, transition routines that I am re-imagining who I am with new classes, making new friends. It seems you have obviously raised your family to be successful, contributing members of society, so do yourself a favor and love life on your terms now. Loving life, Barbara😊 they will probably look up and see you in a different light🎉 . By the way...do it with love, laughter and excitement for what God has in store for you new each day. What a great day in the morning it is each and every day. Move forward with a positive mindset ❤
I’m running into this problem all too often these days, canceling people out of my life some that have been there for years that will just not return even the smallest favors anymore. I do not deal with procrastinators any longer either Lord ive had enough of these people out with the old and with the new come on 2024 and beyond, I’m done with y’all
Wisdom here! I'm exhausted..Got rid of the Narcissist on Christmas...Last time he disrespect my ho.e n heart..It's been really nice alone here w Jesus..
Thank you so much for this message! I will replay this as many times as I need until it’s embedded in me as a daily reminder🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I am growing and going higher thanks to God, wanting to evolve and you Bishop! You have really made an impact since I discovered your videos almost two years ago now! Thanking God for you always! Love you for all that you do💜💜💜
You are amazing. You help me get through so many obstacles and help me to get a perspective on my life and I just want you to know .. I thank you and I appreciate you! 😊
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMEN! I CHOSE TO LET THEM GO!!!!!!!! IF I CAN HELP YOU, AND YOU CAN'T NEVER HELP ME, IT'S BYE BYE! I'M KEEPING IT MOV'IN! 💯 ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
You are speaking directly to me from.God right now! I'm not begging yet... but if it keeps going this way, I would end up begging, which I don't want to do. I watched your video about men who are brought up I Culture to deceive women and then leave them in limbo and I do feel this happening to me. I've stated my case as clearly as I can and can't do anymore than that. He is going through a transition and I feel I've been helping him come back to God. But now I'm not getting what I need emotionally.
He can transition and come back to God without any help from you. Don't be duped by him or yourself. Get free and stay free, refer him to professional counseling/clergy, whatever.
The best move is the 6 months rule: First 6 months of the year place all the energy inside me AND Second 6 months of year don’t _______ about ppl because they are not worth my time and energy… Ppl are soo wishy washy… just pray for them and leave them alone… just be happy for them… Amen
I am tired of feeling like if I choose me I am being selfish or following the ways of the world because I am a Christian. Tired of having to be strong all the time. Tired of toxic people coming in my life but I am the one who everyone labels as toxic and they get labled as the good ones, the Christian ones and I am the bad attacker. I need to choose me but sai reality is I don't know how to choose me.
Don’t chase them, Replace them 💅
It’s the timeliness of this message for me, how can I be begging for the very basic things in a relationship smhhh
Been there. Just leave.
Been there too feel so sorry girl. But leave him. And move on.❤ you deserve what you need.
SO TRUE!!!!!! DON'T GET TORE UP FOR NOBODY, BECAUSE PEOPLE COME AND GO PERIOD
This! I just cut off two people who mismanaged me and I feel amazing. They couldn’t meet my needs and that’s ok!
I made that decision 3 weeks ago it was hard but I had to let go
Good for you! Hope you stick with it!
You will be OK! Trust me, one day you will wake up thanking God that person is no longer in your life.
It's Really Not a crime to be Alone until you get what you Deserve 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️
AMEN AMEN AMEN, Sister 🎉
Right on time!!! 🎯🎯🎯 The ball is in your court and you gotta do what's best for your health!🙌❤️🔥💯
So hard when it's a sibling!
@mariah3654 I'm sorry. I'm witnessing this and it is a very sad and disturbing dynamic to watch. At least you seem to be aware of what's happening. Learn to protect yourself and do whatever it takes to be mentally, emotionally, and psychologically safe. These people are destructive and their internal chaos will only damage the lives of those closest to them. Distance yourself for your own good and do everything you need to do to heal.🙏🏼
Relationships are supposed to be reciprocal.. Don't allow yourself to be bred crumbed, future faked and/or used and abused. Choose you instead.
Amen 🙏🏾
I like DAT 💯 lol 🤭Amen 🙏 too😏
Amen
Amen.
THANK YOU
FACTS! AMEN! THAT'S RIGHT!
I'm in the situation right now. Need to distance myself from certain family members.
Same. It's hard.
Thank you for helping me remove myself from people who were unable/unwilling to show up for others the way they want them to show up for them. It feels amazing to no longer pour from an empty cup.
😊
YES.
I stand in agreement.
Took a while, but I stand by this philosophy nonetheless.
Bishop Blakes is the 💯truth AND 🙏🏿the light!
Listen and pay close attention to everything he says!
He doesn't lie.
Had to learn
That sometimes it’s not worth it whatever it is
So I’m learning to keep silent the conversation I’m good, and anything else that follows after realizing that I’m an option then I can walk alone
“…for your HEALTH” 💯💕
That's why I moved far away as possible. My so called family is hateful and toxic, cruel, play games with my mind etc. it's over 4 me. My mother and stepdad can play with other family members. I'm out.
Yessir I'm totally done ✅✅✅ THANK YOU PASTOR RC BLAKE'S 🙏🏽
I did stop, Bishop. I stopped that YEARS ago!! I'm free. 🙏🏼 ♥️
AMEN AMEN AMEN AMEN, SISTER, ME 2🎉😂❤🎉😂❤🎉😂❤🎉❤❤
@@KM-oy5yh ♥️♥️♥️🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
My younger adult children and our relationship is this way. I don't doubt they have a love for me being their Mom...but they don't take up time with me, check on me daily and my daughter can be the most loving to her church family....I get static...im tired of the inequities in our relationship, tired of feeling so sad that there's always negative words bc of my begging.....ima hold my stuff closer, she dont want it and has only leftover, sometimes, for me, tired of it all. Thank you Bishop for this....half of my soul and breath just left me
💜🌸💜🏵💜
To: princess crockett
Take care of yourself and live your best life. AND be sure not to play being a victim. Self care 2024 is real. I have found that as I age and retire, transition routines that I am re-imagining who I am with new classes, making new friends. It seems you have obviously raised your family to be successful, contributing members of society, so do yourself a favor and love life on your terms now. Loving life, Barbara😊 they will probably look up and see you in a different light🎉 . By the way...do it with love, laughter and excitement for what God has in store for you new each day. What a great day in the morning it is each and every day. Move forward with a positive mindset ❤
I don't know if you have any sons or not, but have that same expectation for them as well as your daughter(s)
@@onevenus6040 why would u make negative comments to an already hurting soul? U asssssssssume waaaaasay too much
Shut up@@onevenus6040
Thank you, Bishop!! Great advice!! That's so true!! We must move on!! 🙏🏾💙
Yes, they Just Don't Choose to give you want you Need , it's Manipulation and Control, Family is the Worst for this 😢
I’m running into this problem all too often these days, canceling people out of my life some that have been there for years that will just not return even the smallest favors anymore. I do not deal with procrastinators any longer either Lord ive had enough of these people out with the old and with the new come on 2024 and beyond, I’m done with y’all
❤Woowee. So timely. God's got me as I commit my ways to him! Glory be to God. He's working it all out.
Sho you right Bishop, a good word in season, "Blessed to be a Blessing!❤ Glory to God!😇🤗
Received.This word was confirmation for me🙌💪👌✔️
Amen* I'm almost 60 years young and I have learned to say no and leave it there.💕🙏
Let them go, with love PEACEFUL ✌️
Yes, my Narcissistic, mother is been like this to me my whole life.
Wisdom here! I'm exhausted..Got rid of the Narcissist on Christmas...Last time he disrespect my ho.e n heart..It's been really nice alone here w Jesus..
Thinking about it. Needed to hear!
I agree especially on the job !!!!
Always on point, man of God! God bless you. 😊
REAL TALK🎉
Thank you so much for this message! I will replay this as many times as I need until it’s embedded in me as a daily reminder🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 I am growing and going higher thanks to God, wanting to evolve and you Bishop! You have really made an impact since I discovered your videos almost two years ago now! Thanking God for you always! Love you for all that you do💜💜💜
Thank you, Bishop Blakes
Amen Bishop Blakes! That's when it's time to go!💯❤
Preach
Thank you for obeying God’s Word in you! This is the confirmation I needed!
Amen!!! This is so true
I’m allowing this message to resonate !!! 😊
Thank you for saying that ❤
Things are already better in the Mighty name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
I agree 💯
🥰Amen! Thank you Bishop RC. Blake. This speaks volume to me. I'm dealing with a situation now @my work place now with this scenario. Thank you Sir🙏💖💖
Thank u right on time..
SO MUCH FACTS 💯💯
Amen 🙏 thank you for this message! Soo true
You are amazing. You help me get through so many obstacles and help me to get a perspective on my life and I just want you to know .. I thank you and I appreciate you! 😊
Thank you.
Amen🙏🏽♥️bishop thank you
Yes,this is the TRUTH
“…best decision for your health.” 🍎🍌🍇❤
Truth
Great advice Bishop RC Blakes!
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAMEN! I CHOSE TO LET THEM GO!!!!!!!! IF I CAN HELP YOU, AND YOU CAN'T NEVER HELP ME, IT'S BYE BYE! I'M KEEPING IT MOV'IN! 💯 ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
AMEN AMEN 🙏
Well said❤
In other words, BOUNCE NOW!
❤ Amen 😊
This is right on time, Needed This, Time to Disconnect & Move🙏🏽 Thank you 🫶🏽
It's family and friends for me.
Holy Spirit timing right there. I needed this message today. Ty
Amen
Always such wisdom and spot on. Timely.
Amen! I choose to live and value myself
That's right love your life for Jesus 🌹
AMEN. IM TRIEDOF BEGGING FOR MARRIAGE AND HELP WITH TGE BILLS. 2024 TIME FOR A CHANGE🙏❤
Run………….Now…….
Absolutely 💯 ...pearls of wisdom
Amen! Needed this today 🎉
Amen Pastor 👏👏👏👏👏👏
Powerful
Truth Truth brother ✨️
So true Bishop RC 💯
Yes thank you for this positive message pastor
Facts❤
Amen, I needed to hear this today Pastor🙏
Thank Bishop for this word
A men a men love❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
✊️✊️👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
💯💯💯
Thank you. Great food for thought, sir❤❤❤
You are speaking directly to me from.God right now! I'm not begging yet... but if it keeps going this way, I would end up begging, which I don't want to do. I watched your video about men who are brought up I Culture to deceive women and then leave them in limbo and I do feel this happening to me. I've stated my case as clearly as I can and can't do anymore than that. He is going through a transition and I feel I've been helping him come back to God. But now I'm not getting what I need emotionally.
He can transition and come back to God without any help from you. Don't be duped by him or yourself. Get free and stay free, refer him to professional counseling/clergy, whatever.
That Part 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
The best move is the 6 months rule:
First 6 months of the year place all the energy inside me
AND
Second 6 months of year don’t _______ about ppl because they are not worth my time and energy…
Ppl are soo wishy washy… just pray for them and leave them alone… just be happy for them…
Amen
So sad and So true!!
YOU DON'T HAVE TO SAY IT TWICE....THE FIRST TIME THEY DIDN'T DELIVER... I'M OUT.... I'VE HAD MY TIME WASTED ENOUGH....MY TIME AND WORTH VALUABLE!
I needed to to hear this today
AMEN 🙏
Been there, done with that.
❤I'm smack n the middle of this w/family....My answer is no no no?? Never pay back loans, now another loan & still owe me??? Like I need help myself??
IN MY OWN SITUATION IM REPLACING THEM
Amen🙏☝️
True,I've already made my decision coz it seems that I was the one who was interested not him so I just decided to back off
Timely. Thanks.
Right on time….
Absolutely 😊
Great messages 😊🎉.
Thanks for sharing 👍🏾
So true. Bishop
I am tired of feeling like if I choose me I am being selfish or following the ways of the world because I am a Christian. Tired of having to be strong all the time. Tired of toxic people coming in my life but I am the one who everyone labels as toxic and they get labled as the good ones, the Christian ones and I am the bad attacker. I need to choose me but sai reality is I don't know how to choose me.
Facts