Let's be fair. Dr Malik is surely one of the best and most informative physicians openly discussing a great many topics that most would never touch upon, and in such a genuine and non-judgmental way. This is just a wonderful channel! Thank You, Dr Malik, for putting your clear voice out there!
I think she misrepresents many of these topics by conflating Ejaculation, Sex and Relationships. For example, during her Prostate cancer vids, she mixes up sex with ejaculation. Sex is with a partner. Very very few sex partners can maintain 21x per month outside the honeymoon period. Masturbation - you might make that in a week easy when you are younger. And the research shows this, married men have a higher incidence of prostate cancer, but the research is very taboo and hard to find online. This is another topic where sex vs masturbation is conflated. Edging is largely a self controlled, masturbatory tactic, and not for half hour with a partner - but >2 hrs solo when you get good at it.
For me, the best method of controlling ejaculation is frequent intercourse. I had a girlfriend several years ago and we would have intercourse several times a week, sometimes two or three times a day. After getting used to "getting it" this often I was able to hold my ejaculate for 30 to 40 minutes, enough time so that she would have 2 or 3 orgasms before I had one. It took a lot of practice!! I sure do miss that woman!!😊
@@user-jo5fz8iw3b umm.. No. It doesn't seem to work that way. The real thing is so much more exciting than the hand it seems masterbating does not have the same effect. At least, in my experience anyway.
Doc, you haven't mentioned the BEST edging technique. In oral edging, for instance, this is when the receiver instructs the giver to "Stop!" just before orgasm. The giver ceases the stimulus, momentarily, and then resumes. As this is done repeatedly, the receiver enters a state of semi-orgasmic ecstasy, usually quite vocal, which should be to the delight of the giver who should also be greatly enjoying the teasing element of the technique. But here's the real fun part. On one of those cycles when the receiver says, "Stop," the giver defies the instruction and plays on through, so to speak, bringing the receiver to an enormously powerful climax. The cumulative pre-orgasmic tensioning, abruptly released via the element of surprise, produces such a rush of pleasure that the receiver will vocalize with reckless abandon and/or experience the sensation of nearly losing consciousness. (I recommend vocalizing into a pillow, for privacy.) Yes, it's THAT powerful.
Ive tried that and u get asked " whats wrong" i say nothing then starts again i say stop she says whats wrong then i try and explain what im trying to achieve she then looses interest
Absolutely LOVE edging! Orgasms are so much more pleasurable and explosive. I highly recommend this technique to anyone who is suffering from premature ejaculation. Awesome video!
Been edging 20+years. I edged twice last night before she got hers at around 15 minutes. Stop/start method is what I do. 10-15 seconds and mask it by adjusting/changing position, kissing, or something similar. I might edge 1-3 times depending on how long it takes for her to finish. It builds the intensity of the bedroom fun for both of us.
As a guy I can honestly say Dr. Malik has lots of information that you cannot learn on your own. This is medically based sexual education. Thank You for these Amazing videos!
1- Edging is the practice of orgasm control to delay climax during sexual activity. 2- Edging can be done by oneself or with a partner and can be incorporated into many different kinds of sex. 3- The pros of edging include potentially increased pleasure, enhancing connection with one's partner, being a learning process, allowing for greater control, and helping with premature ejaculation. 4- The data on how well edging works is limited, but the stop-start method has been found to help with premature ejaculation. 5- Preventing climax can be achieved by increasing the length of the sexual excitation phase through abdominal breathing, focusing on moderate intensity, and enjoying the journey rather than just the end result. 6- Trying to distract oneself from sexual stimuli during edging is not recommended. 7- A study of 36 couples found that the stop-start method helped extend the intra-ejaculatory latency time up to seven minutes.
Edging is the act of leaning to the left or right edge while in a kayak or canoe and holding it for a pierod of time. You might have stollen our word, but where getting it back.
Dr, Malik deserves the Nobel Prize in Medicine. Her videos are replete with useful, practical information, and she is incredibly articulate in disseminating her encyclopedic knowledge of all things urologic. What a gift she is to humankind!
I’ve been edging for over 20 years. I can allow myself to almost come but then stop, contract my PC muscles (perineum) while pushing a finger on the perineum. This allows me to carry on indefinitely. 😊
Thats called retrograde ejaculation simply by not allowing seminal fluid to come out of your body and instead of that it comes back to the bladder and released with the urine when you urinate
In my very late teens(18-19) I recall listening to Dr. Ruth discuss this very subject on her Radio program way back in the 1980's. She mentioned it's roots in the Kama Sutra. Those ancient texts cover advice on how to control or extend the male orgasm. Picked up a copy for myself at a Book store and started practicing and using the diet advice it gave in there. Now in my late 50's it still amazes me how often this same information keeps getting re-presented in new formats.
Dr. Malik thank you, I've been edging for decades and absolutely love it!!! Bringing more pleasure for both of us is definitely beneficial. Happy New Year to you and keep the videos coming 👍🏾
One thing I learned is how much the prostate swells when you're very close. On the perineum area you can feel something there and rubbing it can eventually trigger one. I practiced this by rubbing my legs together slowly one time when I was on the edge and words can't describe the build up that I felt. Basically my legs started shaking uncontrollably and the "point of no return" feeling lasted like 20 seconds as it went higher and higher in pleasure until I had to let go because it was too much. I never tried prostate toys but I had no idea I could have a prostate O by rubbing externally, it was much more intense and full body than the usual way
Yoga exercises like leg stretching, deep squat, glute bridge, planks etc., are the only things which helped me with pre ejaculation. After doing these for a while, now I can keep thrusting for half an hour without ejaculating by simply pushing my abs down towards the anus & squeezing my glutes at the same time. So the bottom line is to build power in your abs & glutes, and you will become master in the bedroom.
What I found worked really well for my partner and myself was the 'Rule of 10' Basically to gently thrust for nine times, then on the tenth to firmly push right in, and back to nine gentle thrusts, and so on. Could keep going for a long time using that method, highly recommend it 👍
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Great topic. Edging is fun. It's been around certain communities for a looong time. Keep it fun, keep stimulating in the start-stop, change it up. Enjoy it in a safe, secure place with the person you are absolutely crazy in love with.
Agree, I thought the ejaculation/orgasm is the best. But if you know how to edge, you keep pleasuring yourself not 5seconds only during the orgasm. They best one is if your GF is part of it. She also gets fun while making you pleased.
This is kind of a hoot. I'm part of a large community of guys who edge all the time and love it. Just about 100% live alone. I've been edging for decades. Now I have graduated into gooning, a whole different ball.
As a Male physician specialized in dermatology & venereal diseases I can surely appreciate Dr Malik´s contribution with these useful & interesting videos
The problem with edging is that it often aggravate the female because she was "on her way" but when we stop she loses it. And when she loses it she often gives up and just wants to get it over with.
I'm 60 and have a slow urine flow and difficulty emptying my bladder. If I edge for an hour I have an orgasm like an 18 yo and then piss like a race horse and can empty my bladder. I first learned about it when I was 18 in a Penthouse Magzine story called Time Lag Orgasm. It involved 2 girls that teased a man for an hour until he had the ultimate orgasm. I feel blessed I read it and have been practicing it 42 years with only positive results.
You ae so awesome. Your positive attitude and nonjudgemental tempermant towards these subjects is literally heartwarming. Rational people do exist. Humanity might have a chance after all. 😁😁😂😂
Great topic. This is a big practice in the BDSM community. We use it as a component of power exchange, where top edges the bottom. It was nice to hear you chime in on the medical aspects of it. Keep posting great videos like this!
Don't take this edging too far. It sometimes ends up with very late ejaculation duration s and that is very hard to reverse or let's say lessen, if somehow it becomes a standard or habit.
My wife and I have been edging for a number of years. But, not every time. I found that I can stay before the point of 'no return' for up to 40 minutes. Experts that teach this suggest that during the short 'cool-down'/slow-down period, that gently massaging the testicles will ileviate 'blue balls'. This does work.
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Dear Dr. Rena, In the thumbnail picture of you at the beginning of this presentation, I can’t tell if you are reaching the edge, at the edge or well into the festivities. I’m guessing the latter. Anyhow, thanks for sharing this little window into your personal pleasures. This picture is worth a thousand words, as they say.
My wife says she learned to surf the wave. She is very MO and learned to hook all those together and what we call Surfing the Wave. Took several years but we got the rhythm.
One thing you didn't mention, and you rarely hear from anyone is: ejaculation ≠ orgasm. Men can ejaculate with literally no feeling of orgasm. Edging can increase orgasm significantly and make it so the orgasm precedes ejaculation by a significant amount of time.
Edging is not new. I've practiced it most of my adult life. With a partner (PIV), 15 - 30 minutes is good. 20 - 25 is a bit better. Whatever time it takes so she reaches orgasm is the absolute best. So often, an additional vibratory toy helps her reach orgasm (We nicknamed one of these toys our 'Buddy'). 'Buddy' always helps finish things off. 'Buddy' is fun to keep around. 🎉✨🎊💓
Love Dr. Rena. She's spot on with everything and explains things well with a flowing calm and cool demeanor. Not to mention her thourough knowledge of pleasure is VERY VERY atractive. Thinking her husband is an extremely lucky guy!
Additionally, edging is useful for those times when you just want sex to last longer than 10 minutes. Occasionally, it is really nice to last over 30-40 minutes. Especially, when you haven't had a chance to be together for a long time. Downside for me, ejaculation is "the beginning of the end" for that night.
Yes fourplay one gets close to the eruption and return to fourplay then got back to smash manytimes back and fourth back and forth and back and forth back and forth and then finally viola both partners are exhausted with smiles on their faces oh joy
I have been practicing edging for many years now and it has been working wonders for me. Thanks to mastering edging I can go over an hour doing different positions......
Hiya Rena, Thanks for the very informative videos 📹 . I love watching them 👍 I've been edging for years and have found that it's really helped with my ejaculation control. Therefore, am lasting much longer, which is great! The benefits definitely outweigh the cons 😉
I’m happy to see an edging video, it’s pretty popular in modern culture almost as recognizable a trend as no nut November which I was also glad to see addressed.. I’m curious about a scientific explanation and or warnings if needed about another form of edging, or I guess a entirely different experience, which is called “semen retention” it begins with edging and orgasm control, then it becomes about training yourself to feel an orgasm in full but retain semen and prevent the ejaculation from happening, this is a full climax orgasm but using the muscles of the penis to clench or hold back the semen, at first this is right at the exit of the urethra but with practice this “pinch” happens deeper, under the testicles even, with the muscles contracting. I’m curious as to any possible dangers or prostate damage etc. I’ve had almost a year go by without ejaculating, orgasming but retaining my semen, I had a normal sex life both with partners and without but had no nocturnal emissions and when I didn’t “retain semen” I still produced a healthy amount of semen upon ejaculation, so the year I spent without “spilling a seed” as it were, was entirely due to the physical discipline and control. I’m very curious to see this from the perspectives of professionals.
When you use the clench technique the sperm ends up in your bladder (it's called a retrograde orgasm), which might cause issues if you do it for years. Look into orgasm techniques that don't trigger a retrograde orgasm. Urban Tantra is a good read for both men and women.
You body doesn't need to release amen to stay healthy, sex or not, master bastion or not. It will simply reabsorb out and make a new batch. You can have blue balls and if you can manage to endure the discomfort and pain, it goes away and you'll be fine.
@@aaronautry1981 You make a good point. I had always thought blue balls were some kind of urban myth until my uncle was stricken with a bad case. He ended up in the ER and had a male nurse take care of him. He was embarrassed as all get out but fortunately learned his lesson and now cleans out his pipes on a daily basis.
Coming from a "culturally", almost naturally sex educational country, I can say that these video's are awesome. I love the fact that these RUclips video's also reach a public having difficulty finding proper sexual education. Worldwide! Brilliant 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🌷
A man went to the doctors with a problem of premature ejaculation. The doctor suggested that during sex when he thought he was about to ejaculate he should shock himself. So he went to a store and bought himself a starting pistol with the purpose of shocking himself. Two days later he was back at the doctors to explain his misfortune. The night before, during sex, he and his wife were in the 69 position when he felt he was going to ejaculate, so he fired the starting pistol. He said “The wife crapped up my nose, bit 3 inches off my penis, and our neighbour came out of the wardrobe and surrendered himself.” Apart from that little joke, thank you Rena. I wish you were my doctor.
Most men will focus on ejaculation. The "point of no return" is when sperm has moved from the testicles and combines with seminal fluid. Once the cocktail is shaken, you can't put the ingredients back. You have to make that process last as long as possible by keeping your muscles relaxed which is counterintuitive, especially when you are thrusting away. You can also put some pressure on the underside of the scrotum preventing the sperm from moving north. It's best to set up a date night with your hand to try it. Pay attention to your body and what's going on with your prostrate before ejaculation. It is the epicenter of the male orgasm.
From personal experience dehydration, tenderness of the area and an overly sensitive urethra are possible downsides. A couple of times ive even had a spongey lump form in the middle of the shaft. Very sensitive like a pinched nerve. Glad that went away on its own.
Interesting to find it now has a name! I've been doing it for decades. For me it's simply about staying in the place of arousal. It's so enjoyable to be there why rush "finishing". I see it mostly seems to be discussed in power and control terms which makes me sad for young women today. Extending pleasure doesn't have to be about power or control. It can just be about joy and fun.
Finally a commenter points it out. The orgasm often is less intense after a very long time of edging, but the time spent is better than any orgasm.....some state of ecstasy can only be achieved by it.
@@nilsfrederking62 Keep your edge going. You'll enter a realm of "gooning," a state of constant stimulus, which becomes trance-like and numbing. It offers the immediate of pleasure, with the pot of gold anytime you choose in the future.
this is probably gonna make me sound like a weirdo but I have been edging for a while and it has the plus of no mess of cleaning up, pain is a factor after day 4 and after day four you may have an insane mess to clean up when you finally do let it out depending on frequency. At that point the pain of bending down for me has been indescribable, very similar to when you dry heave for a puke and it pulls on your nut somehow. What I mean by big mess after or on day 4 is that if you ejaculate but hold it and do it repeatedly for that long as in pulsate from climax (while holding it) you will build it up (if you do it all day every day) and it will all come out at the same time with a seemingly impossible amount. probably not healthy but I tend to have so much free time from health problems anyway so how bad could it be
At 7:20 she says edging lasting 30 minutes or more is okay as long as it doesn’t interfere with your daily life. I was edging ‘towards’ 1 hour and was released from my job as I was late for work. Back to the 2 minute quicky now.
Anyone that says you can’t hurt yourself edging either does not have a penis or has just never experienced it. I once foolishly tried to stop mid-ejaculation. I was successful, but it was one of the most painful things I’ve ever experienced. I swear my vas deferens freaking exploded. It hurt for a while after. Honestly, I think I’ve developed a form of PTSD from it. I’m so scared of it happening that I will never try edging again. Maybe I already had something going on down there that made it hurts so bad, who knows. I have had epididymitis, which was THE most painful thing I have ever experienced. I remember sitting down the wrong way in a movie theater once after I was diagnosed with it, and I swear it felt like my testicle just exploded. I started tearing up badly and had to leave the theater because I thought I was going to throw up. Who knows, maybe something like that was going on, but I’m still never going to edge again.
I do edging either to fight sleep during study or to soothe numbness at refract period. I take Ibuprofen or use a cold/heat pack if swelling is painful. Happy New Year, Dr. Rena.
@@hoibsh21 Nope. To be honest with you, I don’t, because I’m not sexually attracted to Indian women. In fact, I actually consider myself asexual to everyone, but I’m only sexually attracted to white girls! I’ve felt that way almost my entire life and I’m 20 years old in case you were curious! :)
Edging is part of Left-Handed-Tantric Ritual. It decouples ejaculation from orgasm. Helps sustain orgasmic consciousness for hours. Can give a perfect understanding of samadhi or state of complete absorption with divine.
I used the "stop technique" in the past then finally was able to not stop but just not move as vigorously which also worked but as time went on I found my body started delaying orgasm on its own, even when I wasn't trying, making anything quick very difficult. To remedy that I just started trying to reach orgasm as quickly as possible, which was probably about in the 10 - 15 minute time frame which is about normal time I think. I would say be careful using these techniques as the body tends to "learn" some behaviors and establishing new "normals". Of course this may not happen to everyone but it did to me.
Dr. Malik must be an amazing partner. She is very knowledgeable, she would definitely be interested in helping her partner, she is able to talk about anything with no taboos. And she is smiling and very attractive.
So, even if someone feels the need for edging in a relationship to prolong the intimacy that person should still keep his/her mind on the act of intimacy in the moment - not go off, to say, thinking about getting his/her taxes done to keep from finishing the moment too early. Right?
I haven't found it to increase orgasm intensity. If you edge more than about 4 times in a session, it can reduce orgasmic intensity. The purpose is to prolong the session, not increase intensity I think.
I frequently edge. I don’t come for 3 maybe 4 days. I start edging three times for two days. On the third day I edge for a good 30 minutes. Giving myself enough time to relax and start again. When I do finish it thick and watery too. Shoots out for a bit then dribbles. Best O of my life sometimes.
But what if I'm extending orgasm by continuing stimulation after ejaculation? It's intensely pleasurable and takes some getting used to but now I'm able to do it each time by bracing myself for the excruciating pleasure. My wife can take it longer than I can when she orgasms by my tongue. Is this harmful?
What effect does edging have on the prostate gland? Does it increase the risk of prostatitis, BPH, or prostate cancer? Can edging increase symptoms of urinary dribble perhaps via prostate involvement?
I take a med for BPH, and when I "edge" during sex, it increases the urge to pee, so instead of ejaculating, I have to pee, instead. That's been my experience.
Edging is better than Firefoxing or chroming, it is the new internet explorering. Chroming can leave your brain damaged while firefoxing has it's risks if you let go from height.
I personally like firefoxing. Don't get me wrong, edging is great. Chroming on the other hand is dangerous & addictive (I'm currently 3 years clean from chroming).
Careful edging, My max was 7 days, both manual and with my fiancé, When I finally did It dumped all my serotonin and I was massively depressed. Hit me like a ton of bricks the second I released.
Dr. Malik - Can Diabetes cause permanent ED that can't be even be corrected with Viagra or Cialis? If so, is the only solution a prosthetic or injections?
I learned edging as a landscaper. This gives a whole new perspective, though I don't know how my clients will react to me doing THIS in their yard.
No that is hedging
Definitely sounds illegal... @@FrankThePlank925
@@FrankThePlank925Still better than wedging...
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Having sex on a regular basis helps keep your memory alive.
I wish you all a great 2017.
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Why am I watching this 💀
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@@leumas8536so you basically said that you edged to this video?!
Because it can be a fun and enjoyable and useful practice
@@gavinspencer2308 then get your whole family and start practicing
Heres why. You looked up edging because you thought it would be funny. Or. You were in a VERY WEIRD STRING OF VODEOS and got to this
Let's be fair. Dr Malik is surely one of the best and most informative physicians openly discussing a great many topics that most would never touch upon, and in such a genuine and non-judgmental way. This is just a wonderful channel! Thank You, Dr Malik, for putting your clear voice out there!
I think she misrepresents many of these topics by conflating Ejaculation, Sex and Relationships. For example, during her Prostate cancer vids, she mixes up sex with ejaculation. Sex is with a partner. Very very few sex partners can maintain 21x per month outside the honeymoon period. Masturbation - you might make that in a week easy when you are younger. And the research shows this, married men have a higher incidence of prostate cancer, but the research is very taboo and hard to find online. This is another topic where sex vs masturbation is conflated. Edging is largely a self controlled, masturbatory tactic, and not for half hour with a partner - but >2 hrs solo when you get good at it.
I agree 100%. I just started watching. She has a way of concisely and clearly conveying the information in an informative and collegial manner.
Agreed
Sounds like there is no discussion or thought. She is just reading. I’d love to hear her opinions or thoughts or experiences, but no.
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For me, the best method of controlling ejaculation is frequent intercourse. I had a girlfriend several years ago and we would have intercourse several times a week, sometimes two or three times a day. After getting used to "getting it" this often I was able to hold my ejaculate for 30 to 40 minutes, enough time so that she would have 2 or 3 orgasms before I had one. It took a lot of practice!! I sure do miss that woman!!😊
Sound like you had a lot of fun. Practice does make perfect 🥰
I agree a 100%, I have that right now With my fiancee I have it every day . Some times 2 or 3 times a day,20 to 30 min. For me. Going on 3 months now.
Sooo true, soo if women want men to last longer, they have to pitch in and help more with more sex !!👍😉
@@user-jo5fz8iw3b umm.. No. It doesn't seem to work that way. The real thing is so much more exciting than the hand it seems masterbating does not have the same effect. At least, in my experience anyway.
@@sdthrutheroof9161 i agree bcause ive been jacking off for many years sometimes a few times a day and it still doesnt work
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Currently on a 3 year edge...
It's over for u
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Bro's gonna cause another biblical flood. At least I'll know it's you when it happens.
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Doc, you haven't mentioned the BEST edging technique. In oral edging, for instance, this is when the receiver instructs the giver to "Stop!" just before orgasm. The giver ceases the stimulus, momentarily, and then resumes. As this is done repeatedly, the receiver enters a state of semi-orgasmic ecstasy, usually quite vocal, which should be to the delight of the giver who should also be greatly enjoying the teasing element of the technique.
But here's the real fun part. On one of those cycles when the receiver says, "Stop," the giver defies the instruction and plays on through, so to speak, bringing the receiver to an enormously powerful climax. The cumulative pre-orgasmic tensioning, abruptly released via the element of surprise, produces such a rush of pleasure that the receiver will vocalize with reckless abandon and/or experience the sensation of nearly losing consciousness. (I recommend vocalizing into a pillow, for privacy.) Yes, it's THAT powerful.
Whoa that's quite a Mouth-Full! ♡♡
Wow thanks for sharing
Dangerously amazing , that climax is like no other
@@ramrod0209 😄
Ive tried that and u get asked " whats wrong" i say nothing then starts again i say stop she says whats wrong then i try and explain what im trying to achieve she then looses interest
Absolutely LOVE edging! Orgasms are so much more pleasurable and explosive. I highly recommend this technique to anyone who is suffering from premature ejaculation. Awesome video!
Wife back door not allowed ect
@@RebeccaWood-zi5yiBut it's not Tuesday though
Erm what the sigma
Been edging 20+years. I edged twice last night before she got hers at around 15 minutes. Stop/start method is what I do. 10-15 seconds and mask it by adjusting/changing position, kissing, or something similar. I might edge 1-3 times depending on how long it takes for her to finish. It builds the intensity of the bedroom fun for both of us.
no blue balls?
@@tausif3k never. You still get your nut. It's just prolonged. Edging helps to increase stamina.
@@Shreadington especially the powerful release
She lets you edge? She's not too...greedy?
@@ItsYaBoi888 that's why I mentioned masking or disguising it with some other stimulus. She really doesn't know it's happening. Know what I mean 😁
Everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you're climbing it.
As a guy I can honestly say Dr. Malik has lots of information that you cannot learn on your own. This is medically based sexual education. Thank You for these Amazing videos!
Wife back door not allowed ect
1- Edging is the practice of orgasm control to delay climax during sexual activity.
2- Edging can be done by oneself or with a partner and can be incorporated into many different kinds of sex.
3- The pros of edging include potentially increased pleasure, enhancing connection with one's partner, being a learning process, allowing for greater control, and helping with premature ejaculation.
4- The data on how well edging works is limited, but the stop-start method has been found to help with premature ejaculation.
5- Preventing climax can be achieved by increasing the length of the sexual excitation phase through abdominal breathing, focusing on moderate intensity, and enjoying the journey rather than just the end result.
6- Trying to distract oneself from sexual stimuli during edging is not recommended.
7- A study of 36 couples found that the stop-start method helped extend the intra-ejaculatory latency time up to seven minutes.
Edging is the act of leaning to the left or right edge while in a kayak or canoe and holding it for a pierod of time. You might have stollen our word, but where getting it back.
Great, except when you're hired to service someone you aren't particularly attracted to, it just prolongs the torture to the giver 😮😢
What the sigma
Dr, Malik deserves the Nobel Prize in Medicine. Her videos are replete with useful, practical information, and she is incredibly articulate in disseminating her encyclopedic knowledge of all things urologic. What a gift she is to humankind!
or she just read some books...
Tbh she doesn't know that much honestly. She gives out very very basic information.
Do they have a Nobel prize for sexology?
@@yads6564 nobel prize for witches?
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No
I’ve been edging for over 20 years. I can allow myself to almost come but then stop, contract my PC muscles (perineum) while pushing a finger on the perineum. This allows me to carry on indefinitely. 😊
Orgasm is the contraction of pc muscle,, so in theory u gotta relax ur pc muscle not contract,,
U r contracting during sex or during masturbation?
Ever hurt yourself?
How exactly please ?
Thats called retrograde ejaculation simply by not allowing seminal fluid to come out of your body and instead of that it comes back to the bladder and released with the urine when you urinate
@AhmedMohammed-pg9si pee is stored in the balls
In my very late teens(18-19) I recall listening to Dr. Ruth discuss this very subject on her Radio program way back in the 1980's. She mentioned it's roots in the Kama Sutra. Those ancient texts cover advice on how to control or extend the male orgasm. Picked up a copy for myself at a Book store and started practicing and using the diet advice it gave in there. Now in my late 50's it still amazes me how often this same information keeps getting re-presented in new formats.
Ahh yes! The ancient art of bulshido
Dr. Malik thank you, I've been edging for decades and absolutely love it!!!
Bringing more pleasure for both of us is definitely beneficial.
Happy New Year to you and keep the videos coming 👍🏾
Same here
For decades?! I can only edge for 2 or 3 hours! 😉😀
What brand of weedeaters do you use for edging Stihl weed eaters are the best for edging your lawn.
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Naw what the fuck
Older women taught me a lot of this when I was younger. Thank God for that.
One thing I learned is how much the prostate swells when you're very close. On the perineum area you can feel something there and rubbing it can eventually trigger one. I practiced this by rubbing my legs together slowly one time when I was on the edge and words can't describe the build up that I felt. Basically my legs started shaking uncontrollably and the "point of no return" feeling lasted like 20 seconds as it went higher and higher in pleasure until I had to let go because it was too much. I never tried prostate toys but I had no idea I could have a prostate O by rubbing externally, it was much more intense and full body than the usual way
Imagine edging to the point where it's interfering with your daily life! That sounds incredible!
i have this problem. Now I'm on a registry...
Yoga exercises like leg stretching, deep squat, glute bridge, planks etc., are the only things which helped me with pre ejaculation. After doing these for a while, now I can keep thrusting for half an hour without ejaculating by simply pushing my abs down towards the anus & squeezing my glutes at the same time. So the bottom line is to build power in your abs & glutes, and you will become master in the bedroom.
can you explain what abs is? sorry for askinh?
Abdominal muscles.
@@metalgearsolidsnake6978 abs is Anti-lock Braking Systems
What I found worked really well for my partner and myself was the 'Rule of 10' Basically to gently thrust for nine times, then on the tenth to firmly push right in, and back to nine gentle thrusts, and so on. Could keep going for a long time using that method, highly recommend it 👍
This sounds like a good tip thanks 👌
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@@LoneLee2022 Well, if you can see them.... 😂
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Great topic. Edging is fun. It's been around certain communities for a looong time. Keep it fun, keep stimulating in the start-stop, change it up. Enjoy it in a safe, secure place with the person you are absolutely crazy in love with.
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Agree, I thought the ejaculation/orgasm is the best. But if you know how to edge, you keep pleasuring yourself not 5seconds only during the orgasm. They best one is if your GF is part of it. She also gets fun while making you pleased.
This is kind of a hoot. I'm part of a large community of guys who edge all the time and love it. Just about 100% live alone. I've been edging for decades. Now I have graduated into gooning, a whole different ball.
As a Male physician specialized in dermatology & venereal diseases I can surely appreciate Dr Malik´s contribution with these useful & interesting videos
The problem with edging is that it often aggravate the female because she was "on her way" but when we stop she loses it. And when she loses it she often gives up and just wants to get it over with.
I'm 60 and have a slow urine flow and difficulty emptying my bladder. If I edge for an hour I have an orgasm like an 18 yo and then piss like a race horse and can empty my bladder. I first learned about it when I was 18 in a Penthouse Magzine story called Time Lag Orgasm. It involved 2 girls that teased a man for an hour until he had the ultimate orgasm. I feel blessed I read it and have been practicing it 42 years with only positive results.
That is awesome.
A 60 year edge! Dam
You ae so awesome. Your positive attitude and nonjudgemental tempermant towards these subjects is literally heartwarming. Rational people do exist. Humanity might have a chance after all. 😁😁😂😂
Great topic. This is a big practice in the BDSM community. We use it as a component of power exchange, where top edges the bottom. It was nice to hear you chime in on the medical aspects of it. Keep posting great videos like this!
O denial is pretty incredible. Certainly a more simplified act , but inadvertently results in some edging.
Why your picture look like BTK ?
BDSM? Sounds like a railroad. What is it?
@@socalpal8416 Yes, it's a railroad
@@91364Steve thanks......I'll let my parents know. they were curious too.
Don't take this edging too far. It sometimes ends up with very late ejaculation duration s and that is very hard to reverse or let's say lessen, if somehow it becomes a standard or habit.
This woman is a natural treasure
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Agreed this is a wonderful doctor. It's unfortunate so many doctors will not talk about this today.
This is exactly how the doctors should talk. With all the knowledge about a topic!!
Wow! What a urology genius we got here. Thanks a lot prof. Can’t get enough of your lectures. 💪💪💪
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My wife and I have been edging for a number of years. But, not every time. I found that I can stay before the point of 'no return' for up to 40 minutes. Experts that teach this suggest that during the short 'cool-down'/slow-down period, that gently massaging the testicles will ileviate 'blue balls'. This does work.
I am always edging when watching this kind of videos
Most of those videos are with men explaining. It makes sense for you
So informative and it feels open and no judgements. Thank you!
Will be judged
God still judges
Public comment. It is important to building your immune system and blood count and ph levels + exercise daily and eating healthy foods and nutrition daily and get sleep and sun light daily. Avoid stress. Positive thinking gives Positive results base on how you procieve life. Always remember your health is your wealth and happiness.
Dear Dr. Rena, In the thumbnail picture of you at the beginning of this presentation, I can’t tell if you are reaching the edge, at the edge or well into the festivities. I’m guessing the latter. Anyhow, thanks for sharing this little window into your personal pleasures. This picture is worth a thousand words, as they say.
My wife says she learned to surf the wave. She is very MO and learned to hook all those together and what we call Surfing the Wave. Took several years but we got the rhythm.
One thing you didn't mention, and you rarely hear from anyone is: ejaculation ≠ orgasm. Men can ejaculate with literally no feeling of orgasm. Edging can increase orgasm significantly and make it so the orgasm precedes ejaculation by a significant amount of time.
Edging to a edging video is next level edging ...
As a therapist, people often ask me what the most important thing is for satisfying sex. I tell them: communication!
To me, it sounds a lot like Tantra... being in the moment rather than trying to reach some point of conclusion
I spend 22 hours edging and 2 hours tipping my landlord everyday. Now read that again in Sungondese.
"What's sugondese?"
there, go for the joke
@@kaelandin Ligma balls! That's the joke right?
I really thought this was a dupont method. Lol
I see,the Royce Dupont awakening has begun,we were few,now there will be many of the few.
Now replace the word "kia sonata" with "beethoven wrote chinese". Thank me later.
Edging is not new. I've practiced it most of my adult life. With a partner (PIV), 15 - 30 minutes is good. 20 - 25 is a bit better. Whatever time it takes so she reaches orgasm is the absolute best. So often, an additional vibratory toy helps her reach orgasm (We nicknamed one of these toys our 'Buddy'). 'Buddy' always helps finish things off. 'Buddy' is fun to keep around. 🎉✨🎊💓
I like the name "Buddy". Sounds friendly and inclusive. 😊
@@resourcefulqueen all good and fun till buddy because bunny
Love Dr. Rena. She's spot on with everything and explains things well with a flowing calm and cool demeanor. Not to mention her thourough knowledge of pleasure is VERY VERY atractive. Thinking her husband is an extremely lucky guy!
Additionally, edging is useful for those times when you just want sex to last longer than 10 minutes. Occasionally, it is really nice to last over 30-40 minutes. Especially, when you haven't had a chance to be together for a long time. Downside for me, ejaculation is "the beginning of the end" for that night.
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Bravo! We’ve been waiting years for you to do this video. Great job. Thanks for the info.
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Edging is life
I edged to this video
Never goon
Yes fourplay one gets close to the eruption and return to fourplay then got back to smash manytimes back and fourth back and forth and back and forth back and forth and then finally viola both partners are exhausted with smiles on their faces oh joy
Not trying to be mean, just informative. It's foreplay
4play 🤔
Five play is even better...😂
It’s “foreplay”, as in be”fore”, not the number 4. Fyi.
@@danielgomessilva8966 lmaoooo
I'm going to talk to my doctor and see if edging is right for me.😊
I have been practicing edging for many years now and it has been working wonders for me. Thanks to mastering edging I can go over an hour doing different positions......
Hiya Rena,
Thanks for the very informative videos 📹 . I love watching them 👍
I've been edging for years and have found that it's really helped with my ejaculation control. Therefore, am lasting much longer, which is great!
The benefits definitely outweigh the cons 😉
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I’m happy to see an edging video, it’s pretty popular in modern culture almost as recognizable a trend as no nut November which I was also glad to see addressed.. I’m curious about a scientific explanation and or warnings if needed about another form of edging, or I guess a entirely different experience, which is called “semen retention” it begins with edging and orgasm control, then it becomes about training yourself to feel an orgasm in full but retain semen and prevent the ejaculation from happening, this is a full climax orgasm but using the muscles of the penis to clench or hold back the semen, at first this is right at the exit of the urethra but with practice this “pinch” happens deeper, under the testicles even, with the muscles contracting. I’m curious as to any possible dangers or prostate damage etc. I’ve had almost a year go by without ejaculating, orgasming but retaining my semen, I had a normal sex life both with partners and without but had no nocturnal emissions and when I didn’t “retain semen” I still produced a healthy amount of semen upon ejaculation, so the year I spent without “spilling a seed” as it were, was entirely due to the physical discipline and control. I’m very curious to see this from the perspectives of professionals.
When you use the clench technique the sperm ends up in your bladder (it's called a retrograde orgasm), which might cause issues if you do it for years. Look into orgasm techniques that don't trigger a retrograde orgasm. Urban Tantra is a good read for both men and women.
Keeping semen in your body long term is definitely not healthy. It's a normal body function for a reason
You body doesn't need to release amen to stay healthy, sex or not, master bastion or not. It will simply reabsorb out and make a new batch. You can have blue balls and if you can manage to endure the discomfort and pain, it goes away and you'll be fine.
@@aaronautry1981 You make a good point. I had always thought blue balls were some kind of urban myth until my uncle was stricken with a bad case. He ended up in the ER and had a male nurse take care of him. He was embarrassed as all get out but fortunately learned his lesson and now cleans out his pipes on a daily basis.
@@MikeNaples best way. i keep my pipes clean.
Coming from a "culturally", almost naturally sex educational country, I can say that these video's are awesome.
I love the fact that these RUclips video's also reach a public having difficulty finding proper sexual education. Worldwide!
Brilliant 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🌷
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A man went to the doctors with a problem of premature ejaculation. The doctor suggested that during sex when he thought he was about to ejaculate he should shock himself. So he went to a store and bought himself a starting pistol with the purpose of shocking himself.
Two days later he was back at the doctors to explain his misfortune. The night before, during sex, he and his wife were in the 69 position when he felt he was going to ejaculate, so he fired the starting pistol.
He said “The wife crapped up my nose, bit 3 inches off my penis, and our neighbour came out of the wardrobe and surrendered himself.”
Apart from that little joke, thank you Rena. I wish you were my doctor.
Most men will focus on ejaculation. The "point of no return" is when sperm has moved from the testicles and combines with seminal fluid. Once the cocktail is shaken, you can't put the ingredients back. You have to make that process last as long as possible by keeping your muscles relaxed which is counterintuitive, especially when you are thrusting away. You can also put some pressure on the underside of the scrotum preventing the sperm from moving north. It's best to set up a date night with your hand to try it. Pay attention to your body and what's going on with your prostrate before ejaculation. It is the epicenter of the male orgasm.
On my 10 year edge right now.
From personal experience dehydration, tenderness of the area and an overly sensitive urethra are possible downsides.
A couple of times ive even had a spongey lump form in the middle of the shaft. Very sensitive like a pinched nerve. Glad that went away on its own.
Interesting to find it now has a name! I've been doing it for decades. For me it's simply about staying in the place of arousal. It's so enjoyable to be there why rush "finishing". I see it mostly seems to be discussed in power and control terms which makes me sad for young women today. Extending pleasure doesn't have to be about power or control. It can just be about joy and fun.
Finally a commenter points it out. The orgasm often is less intense after a very long time of edging, but the time spent is better than any orgasm.....some state of ecstasy can only be achieved by it.
@@nilsfrederking62 Keep your edge going. You'll enter a realm of "gooning," a state of constant stimulus, which becomes trance-like and numbing. It offers the immediate of pleasure, with the pot of gold anytime you choose in the future.
Definitely a way to have really strong ejaculation. Staying hard for an hour or more makes everything more sensitive. Every touch is magnified.
After longer time the sensitivity declines, up to the point where an orgasm cannot be reached even if wanted.
this is probably gonna make me sound like a weirdo but I have been edging for a while and it has the plus of no mess of cleaning up, pain is a factor after day 4 and after day four you may have an insane mess to clean up when you finally do let it out depending on frequency. At that point the pain of bending down for me has been indescribable, very similar to when you dry heave for a puke and it pulls on your nut somehow. What I mean by big mess after or on day 4 is that if you ejaculate but hold it and do it repeatedly for that long as in pulsate from climax (while holding it) you will build it up (if you do it all day every day) and it will all come out at the same time with a seemingly impossible amount. probably not healthy but I tend to have so much free time from health problems anyway so how bad could it be
At 7:20 she says edging lasting 30 minutes or more is okay as long as it doesn’t interfere with your daily life. I was edging ‘towards’ 1 hour and was released from my job as I was late for work. Back to the 2 minute quicky now.
Great video. I personally love edging no other way to live.
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so informative. I have been watching and learning and now subscribed. Thank you for your concern and content
Anyone that says you can’t hurt yourself edging either does not have a penis or has just never experienced it. I once foolishly tried to stop mid-ejaculation. I was successful, but it was one of the most painful things I’ve ever experienced. I swear my vas deferens freaking exploded. It hurt for a while after. Honestly, I think I’ve developed a form of PTSD from it. I’m so scared of it happening that I will never try edging again. Maybe I already had something going on down there that made it hurts so bad, who knows. I have had epididymitis, which was THE most painful thing I have ever experienced. I remember sitting down the wrong way in a movie theater once after I was diagnosed with it, and I swear it felt like my testicle just exploded. I started tearing up badly and had to leave the theater because I thought I was going to throw up. Who knows, maybe something like that was going on, but I’m still never going to edge again.
Doctor, Can self-edging CAUSE premature ejaculation when doing it a lot? If yes, how can it be fixed?
I do edging either to fight sleep during study or to soothe numbness at refract period. I take Ibuprofen or use a cold/heat pack if swelling is painful. Happy New Year, Dr. Rena.
I love to edge for hours at a time. Feels amazing.
I only know, that Chris Griffin is a Quahog Edging Champion.
Chris is one of the funniest characters in the new season.
I know I breathe faster whenever I see Dr. Rena Malik.
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Weirdo 😑
@@amirdemalwilliams I know you do 2.
@@hoibsh21 Nope. To be honest with you, I don’t, because I’m not sexually attracted to Indian women. In fact, I actually consider myself asexual to everyone, but I’m only sexually attracted to white girls! I’ve felt that way almost my entire life and I’m 20 years old in case you were curious! :)
@@amirdemalwilliams I seen some beautiful Indian women, yeaaazzzz!
Great video Doc thanks ❤ ever happy new year
Edging is part of Left-Handed-Tantric Ritual. It decouples ejaculation from orgasm. Helps sustain orgasmic consciousness for hours. Can give a perfect understanding of samadhi or state of complete absorption with divine.
Wow! This is true it can be practiced with left hand itself ..
I used the "stop technique" in the past then finally was able to not stop but just not move as vigorously which also worked but as time went on I found my body started delaying orgasm on its own, even when I wasn't trying, making anything quick very difficult. To remedy that I just started trying to reach orgasm as quickly as possible, which was probably about in the 10 - 15 minute time frame which is about normal time I think. I would say be careful using these techniques as the body tends to "learn" some behaviors and establishing new "normals". Of course this may not happen to everyone but it did to me.
Dr. Malik must be an amazing partner. She is very knowledgeable, she would definitely be interested in helping her partner, she is able to talk about anything with no taboos. And she is smiling and very attractive.
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So, even if someone feels the need for edging in a relationship to prolong the intimacy that person should still keep his/her mind on the act of intimacy in the moment - not go off, to say, thinking about getting his/her taxes done to keep from finishing the moment too early. Right?
Never knew there was a word for this. In my experience, best way to delay orgasm, is to have your baby cry!
Thank you Rena, I did not know this and am glad I have no issues yet. Nice to know this now. 👍
if my edge streak got ruined, then it would slowly cause chaos for the great nations in this world.
I haven't found it to increase orgasm intensity. If you edge more than about 4 times in a session, it can reduce orgasmic intensity. The purpose is to prolong the session, not increase intensity I think.
I frequently edge. I don’t come for 3 maybe 4 days. I start edging three times for two days. On the third day I edge for a good 30 minutes. Giving myself enough time to relax and start again. When I do finish it thick and watery too. Shoots out for a bit then dribbles. Best O of my life sometimes.
Great content as usual. Can you please put English subtitle (cc) on your videos? Can be helpful for audience from other countries. Thank you!
Love doing this. Can go for 20-30 mins straight, my girl will get about 5 -7 by the time I get my first.
The summit is what drives us, but the climb itself is what matters. Conrad Anker
But what if I'm extending orgasm by continuing stimulation after ejaculation? It's intensely pleasurable and takes some getting used to but now I'm able to do it each time by bracing myself for the excruciating pleasure. My wife can take it longer than I can when she orgasms by my tongue. Is this harmful?
I experienced a guy doing this to me. However, he moved his hips in a way that prevented me from climaxing. I call this method "abuse".
What effect does edging have on the prostate gland? Does it increase the risk of prostatitis, BPH, or prostate cancer? Can edging increase symptoms of urinary dribble perhaps via prostate involvement?
I take a med for BPH, and when I "edge" during sex, it increases the urge to pee, so instead of ejaculating, I have to pee, instead. That's been my experience.
@@albertchin1050 I read an article that edging can cause prostatic congestion and issues related to that. I don't know why she didn't talk about it.
@@jaya7905 IKR? Especially when you consider that the prostate is the gland that supplies the seminal fluid. 🤔
Read up on Pelvic floor Dysfunction before concluding it's prostate related.
Watching this while on my 3 years edging streak
Deeply appreciate the information you share on your channel... namaste 🕉️
@Nicegram--Me--RenaMalik_MD Right Back at you, have a wonderful New Year☮️🕉️
Thank you for this video and the last question what i had in mind which i never got a proper answer. But u explained it in a simple short line. 👍🏻👍🏻
Yeah, so I guess she felt obligated to put "cons" in there but, really, her video was like--PRO: Ice cream is a delicious treat; CON: It's kinda cold.
Edging is better than Firefoxing or chroming, it is the new internet explorering. Chroming can leave your brain damaged while firefoxing has it's risks if you let go from height.
I personally like firefoxing. Don't get me wrong, edging is great. Chroming on the other hand is dangerous & addictive (I'm currently 3 years clean from chroming).
Single with no sex life or partner. So I do what feels great to me 😎.
You do what you have to do!👍🏼😉🚀🇺🇸👈🏼
By choice, I hope.
@@neoreign One can only hope!🚀👍🏼
Yes by choice.
Watching this on Microsoft Edge for more pleasure.
You explain very well many important topic about sexuality!
Omg I love your videos....
After 45 minutes my wife is done even if I'm not. I've learned thats the cut off! She prefers 10 minutes, me I think all day is great.
Careful edging, My max was 7 days, both manual and with my fiancé, When I finally did It dumped all my serotonin and I was massively depressed. Hit me like a ton of bricks the second I released.
Never thought I’d get lectured by a doctor about gooning
Dr. Malik - Can Diabetes cause permanent ED that can't be even be corrected with Viagra or Cialis? If so, is the only solution a prosthetic or injections?
Edging + rimming = heaven
yes it is