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I absolutely agree! And I can make you a promise. You'll never find a human being, that will meet you at the door, with the enthusiasm of someone who has just won the lottery. Consistently. Genuinely. Unabashedly. Blessings on your journey.
Yes, ohhhh that bugs me, they get all defensive & turn it back on you, soooo frustrating. Makes you feel like your going crazy, then they just walk away, thought forgotten onto the next thing & your there just smoldering.
It’s interesting though because it’s reversed for my 10 year old son. When he’s lying, he’s really chill and maybe eventually kinda gives up and gets a little upset or smirks. When he’s telling the truth and we confront him, he gets really upset. He expresses that he feels so offended when he’s being accused, but is truly being honest.
I've been dating a guy for only 2 months and he told me he loved me the other day. I was suspicious based on a number of possible lies, so I created a Tinder account and found him on there in 5 minutes. His profile said "I'm stocked in toilet paper, come quarantine with me." YUCK. Our intuition is normally right when it comes to liars :/
I am so sorry your new boyfriend lied to you. Am older and my family is from back east. They raised me to be honest, responsible. Cannot count the number of people I have encountered in my adult life who lie. It really still amazes me that people lie all the time, about their feelings and intentions? Does anymore nowadays know what having a conscious is and to do the right thing? Really frustrating especially when it comes to dating, people say whatever they want to get whatever they want. After all, it's all about "me". These are mature adults who should know better. In business, work, people are accountable. We are all being judged for our behaviors and actions. Like I said, truly sorry. You had to create a fake account to catch him in his lying. I do believe in "Karma", what goes around, comes around. God and Angel's above are watching over you to help you avoid more pain from that guy.
OMG you're so lucky you got out at the beginning. He was definitely not a keeper. Yuck was a gross tagline anyway. I think he needs all that dunny paper as he's full of it.
I feel sorry for people when they put me in a position to watch them lie. I don’t even bother calling them out any more. I just say “ok” and disappear from their lives if I can.
@@MaryJane-zt3pn Just find some evidence! I was confused as you in the last month. "Am I paranoid or this sixth sense is trying to tell me something that I'm unable to see?". Guess what, I found evidence and proofs. He was texting other girls, put like on every picture of them (especially sexy photos) and so on. So just look for some evidence, if there are any. Good luck!
As the only girl raised by a single dad with four brothers, I'm a pro at spotting all of these. They truly use them all. 😂 If you pay attention you can spot the lies easily. A guy who lies to you isn't worth your time. Better to be alone until you find someone who values you enough to never lie to you.
I was with a guy this past year who kept saying he loved me constantly and even backed his words with actions. However i knew i was through when i caught him in a lie. He had looked into my eyes and straight lied to my face.
The worst thing my ex did. He still had his bumble acc. and I saw that he changed his pictures and bio. A week later I told him we should talk.. he dragged the talk, told me I am being obsessive and begging him.. and then HE brought up the talk after I ignored him. So when I told him that I saw his profile, he got so defensive so mad and told me I have been stalking him on bumble for a long time and that he changed his profile on purpose. He believed his own lie so much he raised his voice to the max and literally made me the bad guy. Adios boy😑
I was with a complete liar! He demonstrated all these signs! Thank goodness I listened to my intuition and got out! Thanks for adding humor to this! Good stuff!
Spot on !!!! My last relationship the guy showed more than 10 of those behaviors at the same time🤦🏼♀️ . Glad he’s gone but a little too late for the pain to stop
This is one area where I find anger swells and intimidation occurs. Lying is a nasty business. It is controlled and deliberate and never done only once. Liars get angry when challenged.
Good point, Leah. That's why I feel like any follow-up to this video would definitely require some finesse in what to do when you catch him lying. Sometimes, it's better to just walk away altogether 👌🏽
Definitely agree with it! Because you compel them to tell something they feel shamed to tell and they can choose telling truth or cheating. Then they choose cheating & accept they’re cheater.... hard to accept that! It’s like we force them to cheat🤯. Is that why they got so 😡?
Whenever I told him I spotted his lies, he kept telling me I was difficult like I was the problem. Lol. He was a liar but wasn't good at it. I always talked to him in a calm manner but he always got mad.
Was in a ldr we are now married when we first met we had a rough start by being in a realtionship was a widow since 2007 we have been married for almost 4 years now he is the best thing that has happened to me enjoying your videos
Online dates are mostly false. Dont fall for it. They hook you with words and you ignore your gut when you see them because he was nice online. It is a trap!
This is all so true,it is like watching my ex husband over and over again and i could not stop laughing at Ryan watching this video(he looked so funny)
Ryan Patrick yeppppp then when you tell their wife to tell them “so much for your “open marriage” they block you! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Big coward. Has the balls to do that but not to hear from me about the crud
Ladies - use your intuition. If you get any red flags. Just stop responding. Use law of attraction to get what you want. It is rough out there. I know because I am in the dating world. Hard to find an authentic man who is loyal nowadays.
been eating donuts lately, normally I can resist, I thought today that something is bothering me more than I realize! I know what it is now, but my point is that my intuition knew it before I did, like my spirit knew it, does that make sense? maybe its just me
And my personal favorite - he gives too many details: "Well, I stopped by the General Store and had to wait for a parking space so I cleaned my fingernails and trimmed a hangnail while watching a youtube video because I was hungry so I ate some chips that I got at the store last time when Leonard was there even though he had a cold but Mary was working tonight and I looked for orange sherbert but didn't find any..."
My ex-husband showed all of these signs I just wasn't paying attention at the time. I've been single for 18 months, and I don't care if my man would look just don't touch. Because women are beautiful. Just look don't touch LOL. Thank you for all your wisdom you are the best. I love your Channel🙂
My ex husband lied all the time but was very good at it as he was in the British Army. His best giveaways were pointing, being defensive and whites of eyes when cornered. However I learned how to smell the BS a mile off! Thanks for doing this video. I’m sure it will help lots of women out there 🙏🏽
Ryan, PERFECTION!! Great info to use in dating AND as a parent! Haha! I was married to an unfaithful husband and he used so many of these during my discovery phase. Lots of wise info! So grateful!
This video confirmed what i already knew: My Ex has lied a lot! Although it is very sad, I still had to laugh: Your black&white examples are so funny! Back to the topic: Just feel your gut, it's telling you the truth. Greetings from Germany, guys are lying here as well (as hell).
A lot of interactions are on line. One of my red flags is: What we say to each other is just between us. We don’t need to tell anyone else. ( Bet he’s married or dating other women). Second, he tells you an accomplishment of his, but then says: But nobody knows this (including any acquaintances you have in common), ie., “I didn’t tell anyone in my family I joined the Marines. I was in for two years and nobody, including Aunt Susie (the acquaintance), knew about it.” Finally, don’t trust apologies. Trust patterns. Great video with excellent body language info.
Ryan, I love your body language, as you illustrate these signs of lying. As a big sister to 4 brothers, I bet you are the youngest and that you learned to use your cuteness to get away with tons of stuff!
@@datingcoachryanpatrick Wouldn't have guessed that! Parents are always hardest on the oldest. I know, as I am one too. Bet you still got away with things. I did, because my mother was naive enough to believe my excuses.
I really appreciate these videos Ryan - after several relationships and several endings I created, I'm appreciative of the short, clear messages with examples so I can look for what I'm learning about myself in relationships. Thank you and keep them coming!
I’ve been married for 10 years and YES! This is sooo true! But we’re still married bc we love each other and no one else would want to be married to either of us in the first place 😂😂😂❤❤❤
Integrity. Character. Moral Compass. If a person is raised by strong parents with strong values. These ideals carry through in our adult lives. My parents were from back east, more afraid of their wrath. I knew right from wrong. My parents were happily married 61 years. No longer alive. My life has not always been easy. Husband died. Raised disabled daughter. I always thought back to my parents, their strengths. If you do what is right, do not lie, you will never have to cover up your lies or actions later.
When will they learn. If I even think you're lying...I will re-ask that question much later...and most of the time you WONT remember your lie. And the thing about about repeating the question and wiping the mouth....omg....SO TRUE!
I'm really seeing all the things I missed in all my failed relationships thanks maybe I can have a chance for either finding someone real or stop wasting time with fakes
I dated a guy for a year. He did everything you said & i later found out he was sleeping with his ex wife the whole time.. So happy he's outta my life!!
Thank you Ryan I just had someone I was getting to know during this quarantine via text and FaceTime. I had this feeling he was lying to try to get me to like him. I think he knew I could see right through him therefore he ghosted and I’m 💯 okay with that. Bye 👋 Pinocchio.
Hey Ryan! you are a good actor & comedian! You make me laugh from the top to end...i was thinking of maybe uve got some experiences in the past because u are good telling the truth in here. Thanksmuch!
@Marly M : Hi dear u did the right thing . you and quickly analysed the situation and saved yourself from a toxic relationship . I wish u get your Prince charming very soon . wish u happiness and best wishes for your journey ahead.💜😇🙏
@Marly M : I don't know why good men always end up friendzoned and these losers get chance to sweep you of ur feet . u deserve a better person just focus on ur life ahead and grow in life u will eventually find ur true love . Just don't giveup hope , keep trying till u succeed.
I sometimes hear men on ED commercials say their " significant other" is now happy. That term reminds me of one of my ex- boyfriends who was from China and his father, who was taken out into the street and they hung a sign around his neck and shot him. So, as the oldest son, he went into the kitchen wall took out gold, etc., and gave everything to his mother for the younger children. He said his father also, had 3 concubines. So when I hear the term " significant other" I assume the man has ' others' that he's involved with and this " significant other" is probably one of his favorites.
How about when he gets a text, he announces “oh it’s mom” or “oh it’s just so and so from work” . Why? Who cares? Did I ask? Nope! Offering up info that wasn’t asked for is a red flag to me. I don’t say a thing or even flinch when he gets a text. After being lied to from the start, I’m hoping that he IS talking to someone else so I can exit this thing much easier
Yes! Got a great one called "Dating Hacks For Divorced Women" coming out next Monday May 25th! Not sure if you're divorced or not, but I definitely focus on the older demographic in that video 😉 Feel free to check out my channel too. I even have a couple vids on LDRs, yes 🙂
There were more then 5....thank you for giving me confirmation ...and courage to leave this toxic relationship I've found myself in. 😔 dating is so difficult ...
So men are naturally born liars? How do you know all these things? LoL. Kidding aside, got so many lessons in this video. Very helpful. Wish women had the capability of reading between the lines and seeing through a man's behavior accurately.
You are a very good actor of the examples physically. I must say... it's perfect. Thank you. Now I know I am not just going crazy... something is cooking... or not...
Glad you think so, Lizette! Just wanted the group to have a baseline of deceptive behavior to help everyone make a careful and calculated decision if the guy is worth you time or not 😉
Haha your so on point I'm conected to a a person who is definitely been found out on few of the things you mentioned and when I told him he was a lie he got angry and made no sense at all
What if he just stands there looking at u with no expression or a idc whatever expression and doesn’t say anything? or walks away from u and waits to change the conversation?
My favorite is when they tell you...why would I do that when I have you? You're all that I ever wanted and is all sweet and nice and then when I show the proof...he blows up and gets enraged and starts screaming and degrading me calls me every name in the book etc. And then blames it on me...🙄
You are spot on and your delivery is very entertaining. I will give anybody the benefit of the doubt until when the BS starts and I will pull the plug! It’s hard nowadays to find a honest and loyal guy as there’s so many dating apps and I guess men feel like they have a lot of choice!! It’s sad really as the reality is that the chances of experiencing true love are next to none.
Ryan, dont know if ull get this, but so glad i found ur videos. Ur easier 2 understand than Matt Boggs. So grateful 4 u just putting the truth out there & 4 being so direct & easy 2 understand.
I think it's also important not to jump straight to hostility ans accusatory tones that lead others to feel insecure and attacked and lie as a knee-jerk defense mechanism. For example, if you ask him in a super harsh, judgey tone about his past relationships, he'll probably lie even if there's nothing fishy going on just because he doesn't feel safe being honest. It goes both ways and I think assuming malicious intent in your partner is a pretty surefire way to kill a relationship.
I do alot of these when I'm being accused of something I didn't do so ....... The whites of the eyes, the getting mad right off the bat, overselling the lie..... The reason is because I am Pissed for being accused by someone that should know me well enough to know I wouldn't dare doing what I'm being accused of, and I oversell it because I don't want them to think I'm lieing and want to clear it up for my own anxiety and sanity. The rest tho are pretty bang on that I've noticed in others lieing.
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I've given up. I'm getting a dog.
Make it a rescue. They show so much more gratitude and love then a dog you'd raise from puppy up. I'm on my second one.
Lol I saw a meme. If you love something set it free. If you hate something set it free. People suck. Get a dog.
I absolutely agree! And I can make you a promise.
You'll never find a human being, that will meet you at the door, with the enthusiasm of someone who has just won the lottery.
Consistently. Genuinely. Unabashedly.
Blessings on your journey.
They are definitely more faithful. Sometimes cleaner too!😂😂
Thank God I’m excellent at reading body language, I don’t miss a nuance AND I’m psychic! They don’t stand a chance!!!🤦♀️😂
The overly defensive part is usually all you need to tell someone is lying. Men just really get angry when you catch them 🤥.
Love ur emogi
Yes, ohhhh that bugs me, they get all defensive & turn it back on you, soooo frustrating. Makes you feel like your going crazy, then they just walk away, thought forgotten onto the next thing & your there just smoldering.
It’s interesting though because it’s reversed for my 10 year old son. When he’s lying, he’s really chill and maybe eventually kinda gives up and gets a little upset or smirks. When he’s telling the truth and we confront him, he gets really upset. He expresses that he feels so offended when he’s being accused, but is truly being honest.
Narcissist get angry
Yeah, but if they are anything like me, I despise when I am accused of something I haven't done. It literally drives me insane.
Trust your intuition if you feel like he's lying to you, there's probably a good reason why you are feeling that way!
That is true❤
I agreed to what you say ❤️
ALWAYS, U JUST KNOW! IF U HAVE 2 ASK- U PROBABLY ALRED HAVE THE ANSWER
I've been dating a guy for only 2 months and he told me he loved me the other day. I was suspicious based on a number of possible lies, so I created a Tinder account and found him on there in 5 minutes. His profile said "I'm stocked in toilet paper, come quarantine with me." YUCK. Our intuition is normally right when it comes to liars :/
JMarie580 You pulled a smart move there!
I am so sorry your new boyfriend lied to you. Am older and my family is from back east. They raised me to be honest, responsible.
Cannot count the number of people I have encountered in my adult life who lie.
It really still amazes me that people lie all the time, about their feelings and intentions? Does anymore nowadays know what having a conscious is and to do the right thing? Really frustrating especially when it comes to dating, people say whatever they want to get whatever they want. After all, it's all about "me". These are mature adults who should know better. In business, work, people are accountable. We are all being judged for our behaviors and actions. Like I said, truly sorry. You had to create a fake account to catch him in his lying. I do believe in "Karma", what goes around, comes around. God and Angel's above are watching over you to help you avoid more pain from that guy.
OMG you're so lucky you got out at the beginning. He was definitely not a keeper. Yuck was a gross tagline anyway. I think he needs all that dunny paper as he's full of it.
A Berryman Bad idea. If he’s a narcissist, that would be exposing him, which can provoke a rage attack.
He's the loser honey
I feel sorry for people when they put me in a position to watch them lie. I don’t even bother calling them out any more. I just say “ok” and disappear from their lives if I can.
So me... No time for drama
That's the best way to handle it ✨
Yup. I'm outta there.
Yes! That's so true!
Ditto
Your gut always knows.
Follow it!
Indeed! 👌🏽
Especially when you've know him 20+ yrs.
@@snooooopycomehome yeah
Is it my gut? Or paranoia from passed betrayal in other relationships? I have a hard time knowing between the two if I don’t have any evidence...
@@MaryJane-zt3pn Just find some evidence! I was confused as you in the last month. "Am I paranoid or this sixth sense is trying to tell me something that I'm unable to see?". Guess what, I found evidence and proofs. He was texting other girls, put like on every picture of them (especially sexy photos) and so on. So just look for some evidence, if there are any. Good luck!
Honey, if his lips are moving...he's lying. There ya go.
Oh yeah
Lol absolutely
🤣🤣
🤣
My ass
I started watching these vids and ended up depressed. Is there any guy that is worth it nowadays?
Sadly, no there isn't.
Tell me about it. I'm starting thing about going solo for eternity and enjoy life.
Honestly no
Hard to find
Don’t think so, unless it’s a guy who lives on island who has no phone and internet ... guys nowadays have a lot of options
Stupid is knowing the truth seeing the truth but still believing the lie.
And staying in that relationship, most likely, especially if it's a chronic problem with him. 👍🏽
Yes. However, I really love Misa Misa from Death Note. Which represents that characteristic.
love this !
Lol! No lie!
Yes! Women make tooo many excuses. Watch the actions not just the words.
As the only girl raised by a single dad with four brothers, I'm a pro at spotting all of these. They truly use them all. 😂 If you pay attention you can spot the lies easily. A guy who lies to you isn't worth your time. Better to be alone until you find someone who values you enough to never lie to you.
This is just exhausting honestly why can’t people just be real n keep it moving
Facts
I am too. I am also alone. I keep it real and don't waste anymore time with liars and people who hurt and deceive.
Because men are emotional toddlers and hate being told they can't have what they want - "But I WANT a wife and a side piece!!!" 👶😭😭😫😫
I have dealt with guys that look you straight in the eyes lie
I was with a guy this past year who kept saying he loved me constantly and even backed his words with actions. However i knew i was through when i caught him in a lie. He had looked into my eyes and straight lied to my face.
All men can look you straight in your eyes, smiling even, and lie without flinching one time!
Me too... I watched my ex look his mom in the eyes and lie right to her. Dang!
yeah, if the person is looking to hard into the eyes than it might be a sign too, cause i do that sometimes...
I'm just tired of it all.
It can be pretty tiring 😕
@@datingcoachryanpatrick tell me about it. First, he makes no time and sucks at communicating. I've done all I could. Maybe he's not the one for me
Me too :(
The worst thing my ex did. He still had his bumble acc. and I saw that he changed his pictures and bio. A week later I told him we should talk.. he dragged the talk, told me I am being obsessive and begging him.. and then HE brought up the talk after I ignored him. So when I told him that I saw his profile, he got so defensive so mad and told me I have been stalking him on bumble for a long time and that he changed his profile on purpose. He believed his own lie so much he raised his voice to the max and literally made me the bad guy.
Adios boy😑
Been there as well it was crazy
Same!
that sucks really 💔
Lying partners: imma get away with this lie!
Ryan: I’m about to end this mans whole career.
Me: *PLEASE DO* 😃😃😃
LMAO amaaazing!! 👏👏
Ryan Patrick Thanks!
Took about 3 minutes of scrolling through old texts with my bff but it was worth it!
So right!!!
I was with a complete liar! He demonstrated all these signs! Thank goodness I listened to my intuition and got out! Thanks for adding humor to this! Good stuff!
Spot on !!!! My last relationship the guy showed more than 10 of those behaviors at the same time🤦🏼♀️ . Glad he’s gone but a little too late for the pain to stop
And the Oscar goes to... RYAN PATRICK for.. 😅😅😅👍👍
Dude your impressions are spot on!! 😆
Haha YAY I'M A WINNER! 🏆 Thanks Zee! 🙂 That sweat scene was no joke! 😆
@@datingcoachryanpatrick hahah 😆😅
This is one area where I find anger swells and intimidation occurs. Lying is a nasty business. It is controlled and deliberate and never done only once. Liars get angry when challenged.
Good point, Leah. That's why I feel like any follow-up to this video would definitely require some finesse in what to do when you catch him lying. Sometimes, it's better to just walk away altogether 👌🏽
Don't forget that sometimes people also get angry when falsely accused. Getting defensive or angry doesn't always mean lying.
Yep! Its like how Dare you excuse me! ..P..lease
Definitely agree with it! Because you compel them to tell something they feel shamed to tell and they can choose telling truth or cheating. Then they choose cheating & accept they’re cheater.... hard to accept that! It’s like we force them to cheat🤯. Is that why they got so 😡?
Yeah, every guy lies. To get in your pants or to get something from you it's a control thing alot of times.
Or if the only time he wants to do something for you or cares about how you feel because he wants something out of you
Or to avoid confrontation or discussion
Or to avoid hurting your feelings
Caught my boyfriend in a lie. Didn't really piss me off until he told me he didn't lie.lol
My psychopath ex would NOT blink when he lied. We need to understand a strong non-blink eye contact also can mean lying.
Whenever I told him I spotted his lies, he kept telling me I was difficult like I was the problem. Lol. He was a liar but wasn't good at it. I always talked to him in a calm manner but he always got mad.
@The_Dreidreamer, They try to turn the tables on you every time and never give a direct answer to a question!
I don't know about you guys but Ryan Patrick expressions as he's explaining it, is priceless! He had me floored.
Was in a ldr we are now married when we first met we had a rough start by being in a realtionship was a widow since 2007 we have been married for almost 4 years now he is the best thing that has happened to me enjoying your videos
Awesome!!! 🙌🏽
OMG my ex used to “wipe away the lie” all the time. Excellent video.
I always knew when my ex was ready to lie because it always started off with honey. And tone was very defensive.
I’m an acting coach. U r a good actor by the way
Why thank you, Zoe! 😁
This is impossible for online daters. Or long distance relationships.
Online dates are mostly false.
Dont fall for it.
They hook you with words and you ignore your gut when you see them because he was nice online.
It is a trap!
Definitely not meant to be for those situations. Keep this video handy for the upcoming months when we'll all get to see more of each other 😉
Certainly worth taking precautions, at least 👍🏽
There should be vids on: 'how to avoid online scammers'. And other vids on online relationships.
Follow your gut feeling - if he seems too good to be true, he's probably fake.
I’m butt hurt hearing these but I also can’t stop laughing cause the accuracy of it alllll!! 😩🤣🤣
You are hilarious with the scenarios.
Hehe thanks! 😊
@@datingcoachryanpatrick My pleasure.
poor guys.with you, they have no way out!!!😂
LOL IKR! 🤣🤣🤣
Haha just a walking lie detector over here 😎
Ryan Patrick Yah no kidding 😁
Ryan Patrick actually is it bad that I came to this video to test my “friend” who may have been using my bff?
This is all so true,it is like watching my ex husband over and over again and i could not stop laughing at Ryan watching this video(he looked so funny)
Another one: they never want to get together when you’ve already started calling them out. they only wanna Snapchat you
Or text
Yup! It's like "...she's on to meee 😬😓"
Ryan Patrick yeppppp then when you tell their wife to tell them “so much for your “open marriage” they block you! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Big coward. Has the balls to do that but not to hear from me about the crud
Haha yes they disappear
I love how you make an example to each one, even if they’re sometimes a bit exaggerated xD
Lol
Recognizing deception is always good to know.
Ladies - use your intuition. If you get any red flags. Just stop responding. Use law of attraction to get what you want. It is rough out there. I know because I am in the dating world. Hard to find an authentic man who is loyal nowadays.
been eating donuts lately, normally I can resist, I thought today that something is bothering me more than I realize! I know what it is now, but my point is that my intuition knew it before I did, like my spirit knew it, does that make sense? maybe its just me
And my personal favorite - he gives too many details: "Well, I stopped by the General Store and had to wait for a parking space so I cleaned my fingernails and trimmed a hangnail while watching a youtube video because I was hungry so I ate some chips that I got at the store last time when Leonard was there even though he had a cold but Mary was working tonight and I looked for orange sherbert but didn't find any..."
Lol 😂 that's so true mine does that
Omg yes
Lol same!
😂😂😂😂
LOL 😆
My ex-husband showed all of these signs I just wasn't paying attention at the time. I've been single for 18 months, and I don't care if my man would look just don't touch. Because women are beautiful. Just look don't touch LOL. Thank you for all your wisdom you are the best. I love your Channel🙂
This literally had me laughing out loud driving down the road..
My ex husband lied all the time but was very good at it as he was in the British Army. His best giveaways were pointing, being defensive and whites of eyes when cornered. However I learned how to smell the BS a mile off! Thanks for doing this video. I’m sure it will help lots of women out there 🙏🏽
Ryan's got serious acting skills!
Ryan, PERFECTION!! Great info to use in dating AND as a parent! Haha! I was married to an unfaithful husband and he used so many of these during my discovery phase. Lots of wise info! So grateful!
Beautiful! Thank you so much for checking it out, Michele! 🙂
This video confirmed what i already knew: My Ex has lied a lot! Although it is very sad, I still had to laugh: Your black&white examples are so funny! Back to the topic: Just feel your gut, it's telling you the truth. Greetings from Germany, guys are lying here as well (as hell).
Hey from Kanada. Good site eh?
Everytime I watch ur video's, I start doubting my boyfriend..
That whites of the eyes close-up has me cracking up! 🤣🤣🤣 Can’t get any more guilty-looking than that! 🤥🤥🤥🤣🤣🤣
He'll look possessed, seriously 🤣
Hahaha! 🤣
I laughed so hard on that 😂😂😂
@@datingcoachryanpatrick 😁😄😆😂
A lot of interactions are on line. One of my red flags is: What we say to each other is just between us. We don’t need to tell anyone else. ( Bet he’s married or dating other women). Second, he tells you an accomplishment of his, but then says: But nobody knows this (including any acquaintances you have in common), ie., “I didn’t tell anyone in my family I joined the Marines. I was in for two years and nobody, including Aunt Susie (the acquaintance), knew about it.” Finally, don’t trust apologies. Trust patterns. Great video with excellent body language info.
Hilarious, Ryan, I howled through the whole video! We are blessed with your great lessons and entertaining delivery. Thank you for being you!
Ryan, I love your body language, as you illustrate these signs of lying. As a big sister to 4 brothers, I bet you are the youngest and that you learned to use your cuteness to get away with tons of stuff!
LOL thanks Wildwoman! 😆 I'm actually the oldest and didn't get a way with a damn thing growing up! 🤣🤣
@@datingcoachryanpatrick Wouldn't have guessed that! Parents are always hardest on the oldest. I know, as I am one too. Bet you still got away with things. I did, because my mother was naive enough to believe my excuses.
Their voice will also get higher, it's not always lower 😕 my first boyfriend did a lot of these too me.
True
And sometimes faster rate of speech
We live the same life my boyfriend screams at me and I start screaming too because he’s screaming
I have never heard most of these before. And I was living with a pathalogical lier for two years.Thank you!
I really appreciate these videos Ryan - after several relationships and several endings I created, I'm appreciative of the short, clear messages with examples so I can look for what I'm learning about myself in relationships.
Thank you and keep them coming!
I’ve been married for 10 years and YES! This is sooo true! But we’re still married bc we love each other and no one else would want to be married to either of us in the first place 😂😂😂❤❤❤
Marriage is a labor of love and mistakes are made bc we are only human💜💜🕊️🕊️🕊️✝️
Definitely, lying there was a total of 13 of the things have read out! Knew it already .
When i brought something up his eyes widened and a look of fear flashed across his face. That's how i could tell.
I am sick of lying guy🤮
Just say NEXT! 👉👉👉
Integrity. Character. Moral Compass. If a person is raised by strong parents with strong values. These ideals carry through in our adult lives. My parents were from back east, more afraid of their wrath. I knew right from wrong. My parents were happily married 61 years. No longer alive. My life has not always been easy. Husband died. Raised disabled daughter. I always thought back to my parents, their strengths. If you do what is right, do not lie, you will never have to cover up your lies or actions later.
A Liar always shows his dishonesty ,most of the time the lie changes it starts out one way and changes quite rapidly,Sctatch a lie find a thief......
When will they learn. If I even think you're lying...I will re-ask that question much later...and most of the time you WONT remember your lie. And the thing about about repeating the question and wiping the mouth....omg....SO TRUE!
When he says that's the only number in his call list that got deleted by "mistake".
I'm really seeing all the things I missed in all my failed relationships thanks maybe I can have a chance for either finding someone real or stop wasting time with fakes
Omg. I was laughing all the way through. .thnx ill keep all this in my head.
I dated a guy for a year. He did everything you said & i later found out he was sleeping with his ex wife the whole time.. So happy he's outta my life!!
You are such a great actor. I laughed so hard when you talked about the guy sweating a lot. :-D
You just made me laugh so hard because nearly all of those were what my ex-husband used to do.
Thank you Ryan I just had someone I was getting to know during this quarantine via text and FaceTime. I had this feeling he was lying to try to get me to like him. I think he knew I could see right through him therefore he ghosted and I’m 💯 okay with that. Bye 👋 Pinocchio.
Haha yep NEXT! 👉👉👉
Hey Ryan! you are a good actor & comedian! You make me laugh from the top to end...i was thinking of maybe uve got some experiences in the past because u are good telling the truth in here. Thanksmuch!
@Marly M : Hi dear u did the right thing . you and quickly analysed the situation and saved yourself from a toxic relationship . I wish u get your Prince charming very soon . wish u happiness and best wishes for your journey ahead.💜😇🙏
@Marly M : I don't know why good men always end up friendzoned and these losers get chance to sweep you of ur feet . u deserve a better person just focus on ur life ahead and grow in life u will eventually find ur true love . Just don't giveup hope , keep trying till u succeed.
Omg, this is gold! My ex (narc) ticks all these boxes!
Love your channel. I take all your advice. Helped me out.
Thanks! Good to see you on the comment thread again, Tonika! 🙂
I recently met someone online and told him I deleted my account off Zoosk and all I got for a response was ok. RED FLAGS POPPED UP ALL OVER THE PLACE
#4 omggggg dated a guy who lied and his stories never added up smh 🤦🏽♀️
I sometimes hear men on ED commercials say their
" significant other" is now happy. That term reminds me of
one of my ex- boyfriends who was from China and his father, who was taken out into the street and they hung a sign around his neck and shot him.
So, as the oldest son, he went into the kitchen wall took out gold, etc., and gave everything to his mother for the younger children. He said his father also, had 3 concubines. So when I hear the term " significant other" I assume the man has
' others' that he's involved with and this " significant other" is probably one of his favorites.
I wish I’d known this before I entered into the dating world. Thank you.
Hopefully it helps you now moving forward Andreiona! 😉
How about when he gets a text, he announces “oh it’s mom” or “oh it’s just so and so from work” . Why? Who cares? Did I ask? Nope! Offering up info that wasn’t asked for is a red flag to me. I don’t say a thing or even flinch when he gets a text. After being lied to from the start, I’m hoping that he IS talking to someone else so I can exit this thing much easier
i will definitely look out for these signs!!! SO SO useful! THANK YOU
Just remember five or MORE, Sam! 😉
You're hilarious 😂
I loved the "if someone's pointing one finger at you, they've got three fingers pointing right back at themselves".💯
This is GREAT , and actully hilarious, it helps us realize how much humour is involved with dating
Oh a BOATLOAD of humor indeed! 🤣🤣
Mine was a Narcissist who lied with each breath and consistently played the blame game all the while 🤥 lying non stop!
I'm in my 50's and about to get back out there. Any videos for us older daters? Ldr?
Caaaarreeefull they are waiting to pounce. Keep your senses.
Yes! Got a great one called "Dating Hacks For Divorced Women" coming out next Monday May 25th! Not sure if you're divorced or not, but I definitely focus on the older demographic in that video 😉 Feel free to check out my channel too. I even have a couple vids on LDRs, yes 🙂
Who is Linnae? 🤔
@@datingcoachryanpatrick no idea....
@@datingcoachryanpatrick thank you so much. I absolutely love your videos, Ryan!!!! Much love to you!
I learned a lot from your videos.and i realize how dump i am before.but now i think im gonna be wiser.
I’m always learning something new from your channel! Thank you for the tips & advice!
Happy to help, Emily! 🙌🏽
There is no way a cheater can get away now with all you say😂love you
I wish I had heard this a few years ago. It would have helped avoid a lot of heart ache.
my sister "wants to Netflix and chill that can't be right" .... lol that's gold
This video helps a lot. Thank you so much! Stay safe and big hugs to you and special lady.
You too, Tonika! Thanks for all you support! 😀
@@datingcoachryanpatrick My pleasure.😁
There were more then 5....thank you for giving me confirmation ...and courage to leave this toxic relationship I've found myself in. 😔 dating is so difficult ...
So men are naturally born liars? How do you know all these things? LoL. Kidding aside, got so many lessons in this video. Very helpful. Wish women had the capability of reading between the lines and seeing through a man's behavior accurately.
You are a very good actor of the examples physically. I must say... it's perfect. Thank you. Now I know I am not just going crazy... something is cooking... or not...
Glad you think so, Lizette! Just wanted the group to have a baseline of deceptive behavior to help everyone make a careful and calculated decision if the guy is worth you time or not 😉
Lol we have our 'tells.' 😬 Got a really good education on it from my police interrogator family member. Glad you found it helpful, Miya! 🤓
Haha your so on point I'm conected to a a person who is definitely been found out on few of the things you mentioned and when I told him he was a lie he got angry and made no sense at all
What if he just stands there looking at u with no expression or a idc whatever expression and doesn’t say anything? or walks away from u and waits to change the conversation?
My favorite is when they tell you...why would I do that when I have you? You're all that I ever wanted and is all sweet and nice and then when I show the proof...he blows up and gets enraged and starts screaming and degrading me calls me every name in the book etc. And then blames it on me...🙄
When body language dosent match what he says😆
You are spot on and your delivery is very entertaining. I will give anybody the benefit of the doubt until when the BS starts and I will pull the plug! It’s hard nowadays to find a honest and loyal guy as there’s so many dating apps and I guess men feel like they have a lot of choice!! It’s sad really as the reality is that the chances of experiencing true love are next to none.
I always suspected that Joel Osteen was lying. He blinks nonstop!
OMG 😱
Ryan, dont know if ull get this, but so glad i found ur videos. Ur easier 2 understand than Matt Boggs. So grateful 4 u just putting the truth out there & 4 being so direct & easy 2 understand.
"Bud Bundy"
Spot on! Wow
I think it's also important not to jump straight to hostility ans accusatory tones that lead others to feel insecure and attacked and lie as a knee-jerk defense mechanism. For example, if you ask him in a super harsh, judgey tone about his past relationships, he'll probably lie even if there's nothing fishy going on just because he doesn't feel safe being honest. It goes both ways and I think assuming malicious intent in your partner is a pretty surefire way to kill a relationship.
You so cheer me up Ryan. Another great video. 😘😘😘
I try, Maria! 😉 Thanks!
I do alot of these when I'm being accused of something I didn't do so ....... The whites of the eyes, the getting mad right off the bat, overselling the lie..... The reason is because I am Pissed for being accused by someone that should know me well enough to know I wouldn't dare doing what I'm being accused of, and I oversell it because I don't want them to think I'm lieing and want to clear it up for my own anxiety and sanity. The rest tho are pretty bang on that I've noticed in others lieing.
Who else had to shutoff the video because the were triggered???🙋🏾♀️
I did
Me too