Letting Dad Go - Timothy Olweny

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  • Опубликовано: 3 окт 2024

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  • @normanmirex899
    @normanmirex899 4 года назад +27

    Your Dad was my father's wedding best man. Eng. Washington Olweny was a man of few words and his legacy lives on. May he continue to rest in peace. Blessings.

  • @jakayathochungongowo1163
    @jakayathochungongowo1163 5 месяцев назад +1

    He prepared you for life without him, that was my late dad

  • @okeropatrick9696
    @okeropatrick9696 4 года назад +7

    Dr. Olweny i don't know what i can say to you. But in this life i look up to yu. I wouldn't be what i am today if yu never extended your hand. Just Like your dad who always inject wisdom into young people like us. I remember Mzee Olweny used to call me Kijana. N he told me one day when he gave us some work n we didn't do as he wanted n told me Kijana you know i will punish you but yu will still do that job. N he said, wewe ni kijana n you are to do something the best way possible. I really Miss Mzee Olweny. N to the Olweny's Family, i will always be greatful to you always.

  • @chkioko
    @chkioko 4 года назад +21

    You're a great son and a fantastic storyteller Timo! This was a great and emotional tribute! Thanks for sharing this!

  • @sophiawatiri6014
    @sophiawatiri6014 4 года назад +3

    The medical system in our country is very questionable n rotten to think a Professional doctor would ask you such a question during a matter of life and death is very disgusting. Thank you for sharing your story.May your dad continue resting in peace. Still coming to terms with the loss of my mum 7 months ago. Healing is a process.

  • @JaneWaweru
    @JaneWaweru 4 года назад +3

    I can feel the friendship you had with your dad from the story

  • @njambikiburio7836
    @njambikiburio7836 2 года назад +1

    Bless your hear Doc.Olweny.You are a true son.Taking care of an ill parent is the best gift you can give them for taking care of your when they had the strength.I took of my mum and as she now rests in peace,my heart is at peace knowing that I did my best as daughter.She died knowing that she was valued.

  • @faithrutto7299
    @faithrutto7299 4 года назад +16

    I get inspired all the time I watch engage talks. They give me a reason to push on

  • @motosana1
    @motosana1 3 года назад +1

    I met my dad at his funeral service..I had refused to view his body so it was really meeting his photo and coffin. Long story short - I still grieve a man I never met.

  • @paul_ndavi
    @paul_ndavi 2 года назад +2

    Stories of this life that we live!.......thanks Engage Talk for making it a reality.

  • @dorothyotieno6214
    @dorothyotieno6214 4 года назад +7

    You tell this story so beautifully.....I think u should monetize this talent

  • @washingtonochieng4881
    @washingtonochieng4881 3 года назад +3

    He wanted to be my MP back in 2007......May he rest in peace

  • @bentaorega5921
    @bentaorega5921 4 года назад +2

    Well spoken Dr. Olweny. The senior Olweny was a man with a golden heart and a father par excellence. He remains for some of us the yard stick for an ideal parent, loving without restraint and guiding without ego. God bless his soul and God bless your family too

  • @monicakay8973
    @monicakay8973 4 года назад +2

    "It was the right thing to do,but it wasn't easy". Pole sana. Seeing a loved one slowly get near the end must be hard

  • @chikaabtwn2244
    @chikaabtwn2244 2 года назад +1

    Thats me and my dad we were best of friends and I couldn't sign the do not resuscitate, we need to have this discussions early.:(

  • @jeanekumbo2122
    @jeanekumbo2122 3 года назад +1

    My sincere condolences, Timothy. This is a very good tribute foe your father. God bless you. 🙏

  • @shirleyodongo6439
    @shirleyodongo6439 3 года назад +1

    This was heartwrenching...so sorry for your loss.

  • @chania80
    @chania80 4 года назад +1

    So sorry for your loss. The callousness of some members of the medical profession is beyond heartbreaking. May mzee rest in peace. You did great representing your dad, as a son in the medical profession. Well told.

  • @jessieserro4602
    @jessieserro4602 4 года назад +2

    Very inspirational tribute to your dad
    I lost my dad one month ago and it is not easy to let a loved one go

  • @09Dorcas
    @09Dorcas 4 года назад +9

    so sorry for your loss.It's evident your bond with your dad was strong.It's never easy letting your loved ones go no matter what.Oh! your flawless narration and good command of English is quite impressive.

    • @Gakara2009
      @Gakara2009 4 года назад +1

      I love the command of the Language

    • @kitykate5497
      @kitykate5497 4 года назад +2

      So sorry.
      Modern medicine can extend death as opposed to life. Unfortunately we don't like to have the discussion with our loved ones while we are well as to how far they should go when we are sick. Hence life is prolonged/Death extended leaving our loved ones emotionally and financially drained.

  • @carolinecongo1179
    @carolinecongo1179 4 года назад +2

    So sad 😔 Reminds me of my mother's experience with Aesophogus cancer in 1988,and my two sisters in 2015 to the same cancer. can relate.

  • @kwambydee187
    @kwambydee187 4 года назад +4

    This is raw and very emotional and nerve wrecking.I lost my only brother 3 weeks ago after 5 days in a coma. May his soul rest in peace.
    May the death of your father which is a brave inspiration of braving on the transition of a family member.
    It is hard to see loved ones transition.
    May God continue healing your hearts.

    • @esthermasanyangila2383
      @esthermasanyangila2383 4 года назад +1

      May your heart be healed too Counsel. Peace, grace and more comfort to you and to the entire family.

  • @maeyrieh5893
    @maeyrieh5893 4 года назад +2

    Thank you for sharing your story...... So bold, and that's some awesome bond between father and child...May his soul rest in peace, may healing be your portion........I share in all these emotions... Only that i did not have a chance to walk with mine through his journey.... This is the 12th yr, I have cried like everything has just happened....But to think i am not alone in this, is kinda comforting.........

  • @janek1448
    @janek1448 4 года назад +2

    I commend you....not sure with the kind of relationship you had feels like it's the same one i have with my dad....i will never have the courage to talk about him the way you have.....Good keep my old man for me....He is the only reason am alive apart from my children..

  • @dorothyjonyo1877
    @dorothyjonyo1877 4 года назад

    Tim you did a great job you are great Doc.You made mum and the entire family to cope.God bless you

  • @doranamara3317
    @doranamara3317 3 года назад

    God comfort you sir. Your story reminds me of the my sweet dad. RIP

  • @rosemaryonyango3173
    @rosemaryonyango3173 4 года назад

    Well put county mate. Mr. Washington Olweny was a legend. Rich legacy he left behind. Too bad his burial was marred with issues which wasn't deserving. Awuoro

  • @joykibaara9373
    @joykibaara9373 4 года назад +2

    This is so emotional and inspiring. May your dad’s soul continue resting in peace❣️

  • @marykimani3264
    @marykimani3264 4 года назад

    So emotional. This reminds me of my dad. It was so painful. May he continue resting in peace

  • @christinenamenyaegessa4318
    @christinenamenyaegessa4318 4 года назад +1

    Thanks for sharing!Receive grace to continue being strong. This reminds me of my dad 'Baba' who went to be with the Lord in 2016.

  • @nazlinkahinga6501
    @nazlinkahinga6501 4 года назад

    This pain of losing a dad is the worst pain i am in....it leads to depression

  • @emilybosibori6659
    @emilybosibori6659 4 года назад

    Just given mW fresh memories of loosing my dad 3 months ago.may he rip.

  • @idawairimu7093
    @idawairimu7093 2 года назад

    Waaa I've learned a lot.. You are so eloquent polished narrator.. Thanks for sharing

  • @ericpaul7004
    @ericpaul7004 4 года назад

    My dad died in Nov 3, 2018 after a road accident. I cry to date, I have never garnered the strength

  • @perpetualwahu1451
    @perpetualwahu1451 4 года назад

    So emotional and heartfelt yet you told the story so calmly sorry for your loss

  • @mahindalkke9650
    @mahindalkke9650 4 года назад

    My story it's the same . I lost mom and dad my of cancer. It's very painfull after losing someone whom you care about. It's only God can bring calmness i our lifes.

  • @nankwama4109
    @nankwama4109 4 года назад

    This is one of those, all time favorite, well put.

  • @baulitious1710
    @baulitious1710 4 года назад

    So sorry for your loss.

  • @carolineomondi5361
    @carolineomondi5361 4 года назад

    I can relate. Just lost my Dad. May God continue to heal your heart. So glad I came across this.

  • @chrisogonas
    @chrisogonas 4 года назад +1

    Wow, that was a tough one, but a story well told. Great stories, Engage Team!

  • @beatricethumbi6915
    @beatricethumbi6915 4 года назад

    This was heartfelt.your dad's Legacy lives on..

  • @mimaessy1228
    @mimaessy1228 4 года назад

    DG was such a goodhearted person, with few words ...His legacy lives on( like father like son u r) ..thanks Daktari for sharing his last journey ..#Evans sunrise medical center

  • @catherinemwirigi8405
    @catherinemwirigi8405 4 года назад

    An emotional talk. May your Dad continue resting in peace.

  • @patriciaodera-ojwang9039
    @patriciaodera-ojwang9039 4 года назад

    Thank you Daktari for this and sorry for your experience. May you find peace. Learning to live without my dad who rested 2 months ago.

  • @benedictyegon3317
    @benedictyegon3317 2 года назад

    This is powerful. Yoooh

  • @lornathesewist
    @lornathesewist 4 года назад +1

    Beautiful tribute

    • @wanguikamau5428
      @wanguikamau5428 4 года назад

      That was a brave talk.. Am sure your dad and grandmum are proud of you..

  • @tushyranx5860
    @tushyranx5860 4 года назад

    Pain of losing a loved one

  • @acholi9034
    @acholi9034 2 года назад

    May all the departed Rest in peace

  • @fatimakachale6741
    @fatimakachale6741 4 года назад

    Thank you👏👏👏
    May his soul continue resting in peace.

  • @rosemaryngesa
    @rosemaryngesa 4 года назад +3

    I felt the same when I lost my sister in 2019 May , went through the same experience of signing that document , having a doctor tell you ....how far do you want to go....I'm still traumatized till now , I grieve for my sister , she fought but didn't succeed. At times I feel I let her down .
    It's so painful to talk about it but watching this , gives me hope that one day I will talk about my experience. Pole daktari .

  • @reine924
    @reine924 4 года назад

    I'm in tears. Pole sana Daktari.

  • @maggiemuturi1828
    @maggiemuturi1828 4 года назад

    This must be Olweny ....Old Nakuru Family I knew. Timothy that story touched me.

  • @dianamwangi8171
    @dianamwangi8171 4 года назад

    I am so sorry for the terrible experience you had.

  • @Kimenyi
    @Kimenyi 4 года назад

    Very deep and meaningful, Timo. A wonderful, heartfelt, and courageous tribute to Baba. Thanks for sharing.

  • @maryapolot4754
    @maryapolot4754 4 года назад

    I'm watching this video for the 5th time...

  • @angelawanjiru5343
    @angelawanjiru5343 4 года назад

    May his soul rest in peace Baba, till we meet again.is sad to see your loved one resting my sister in law pass away till now aim still in pain 10 month,
    LORD sometime l feel its a bad dream..

  • @Ik9009-ik
    @Ik9009-ik 4 года назад

    Wah that was very painful for Mzee Pole Daktari a really emotional tribute

  • @fabriziammanuli1672
    @fabriziammanuli1672 3 года назад

    God's comfort upon you n entire family..

  • @mercywanyama5791
    @mercywanyama5791 4 года назад +1

    I lost my mum to Lung cancer. She was misdiagnosed for more than 2 years in this so called 5 star hospitals. A month to her diagnosis, she insisted on being admitted till they find out what was really the problem. They then started her on chemo which was toxic to her. After two months we decided to take her for treatment in India where she passed away after eight months unfortunately the cancer was in its final stage.These so called top hospitals are useless. The greed and ignorance that is there is heartbreaking.

  • @phyllismbugua4186
    @phyllismbugua4186 4 года назад +1

    Pole sana.

  • @godsfiercegirl1293
    @godsfiercegirl1293 4 года назад

    Very educative.

  • @bellaolum9515
    @bellaolum9515 4 года назад

    This was hard to watch - I kept breaking down, having lost my dad in 2015!!

  • @njerigitau5340
    @njerigitau5340 4 года назад +2

    Am confused. I lost my dad 8 months ago in one of these '5 star hospitals' - after operation headless, the script/fashion is amazingly similar. I stop grieving. Then I start again. Am told if I don't understand death, I may not understand life. But the similarity in the dying 'fashion' in these establishments confuses my understanding. It is not well.

  • @ZippyKazi-Carzy
    @ZippyKazi-Carzy 4 года назад

    it s well.... what a story

  • @phineadoyo9819
    @phineadoyo9819 4 года назад

    This is a hard one to watch.But very helpful

  • @euginiaatieno3670
    @euginiaatieno3670 4 года назад +3

    I know how it feels to lose a dad...
    Sorry..

    • @jonneswamalwa8325
      @jonneswamalwa8325 4 года назад +1

      Euginia Atieno May God just give strength to whoever has lost his or.her.family members.especially the nuclear family It is unbearable pain untold sorrow

    • @jonneswamalwa8325
      @jonneswamalwa8325 4 года назад

      Euginia Atieno May God just give strength to whoever has lost his or.her.family members.especially the nuclear family It is unbearable pain untold sorrow

    • @euginiaatieno3670
      @euginiaatieno3670 4 года назад

      @@jonneswamalwa8325 Amen

  • @gracenjeri3897
    @gracenjeri3897 4 года назад

    My neighbor in Kiamunyi... sorry for your Loss

  • @Chings001
    @Chings001 4 года назад

    So sorry for your ordeal.
    I'm surprised that a Pet Scan was not done prior to surgery. In India almost all cancer cases have a Pet Scan done prior to any treatment.

  • @georgesiddondo4684
    @georgesiddondo4684 4 года назад

    Baba rests in eternal peace.

  • @missrosa4857
    @missrosa4857 4 года назад +9

    The attitude some doctors have gives the impression that they are in it for money, no heart or compassion! Medics at times forget that the handling of patients family is equally important in managing any illness.

    • @okakafelix3644
      @okakafelix3644 4 года назад +5

      We mistakenly assume that doctors are called to the profession. Unfortunately, the skewed nature of our academic system chooses doctors not on basis of their compassion rather their grades.
      Everything boils down to the individual doctor..their character especially.

    • @awuorochuodho6394
      @awuorochuodho6394 4 года назад

      In today's Kenya, so many of the 'doctors' are not really doing it as a calling but as a way of making money. The horror stories that people give is just heart wrenching.

    • @njerigitau5340
      @njerigitau5340 4 года назад

      Yep. Been there & family left with a bill that resembles a serial number. But of importance is the payment - the dead and the grief you take some place else. They don't treat grief and compassion wastes their time.

  • @naomimoraa7882
    @naomimoraa7882 4 года назад

    ♥️

  • @tetralinktaylorassociates8392
    @tetralinktaylorassociates8392 4 года назад +1

    OMG. Did you say that you are also a doctor and a medical doctor for that?

    • @carolm4691
      @carolm4691 4 года назад +1

      Yeap, kuna doctors wa vitabu... Wale huongezea masomo wanaitwa doctor.

  • @mw4383
    @mw4383 4 года назад

    My neighbours in kiamunyi

  • @kakikarei
    @kakikarei 4 года назад

    🙏🏾