The Narcissist’s Curse: Why Their Relationships Always Fail

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  • Опубликовано: 6 янв 2025

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  • @mariahernadez9702
    @mariahernadez9702 19 дней назад +10

    Wow! This is deep knowledge, it makes so much sense to me. He was so out of character with me towards the end of our 7 yrs relationship. Hitting things, breaking things, calling me out of my name, calling me a cheater, and giving me the silent treatment because I decided to do me. Then he’d cry & confuse me when I decided to go away & break up with him asking me to let him be in my life & not be bothered for his extra relationships. I had to go to save my life ❤️ he was emotionally lazy for sure!

  • @yvonnegilliam1664
    @yvonnegilliam1664 19 дней назад +7

    Omg I have prayed for God to give me a revelation into this person who was so cruel and how they could do such things and still claim they are Gods children.
    This has opened my eyes and been the answers to my prayer. Thank you so

  • @NarcissistHex-nf9eq
    @NarcissistHex-nf9eq 20 дней назад +32

    We may be cursed but we can break the curses, through God all things are possible.

    • @molebohengkolisang3405
      @molebohengkolisang3405 19 дней назад +8

      Are you a narcissist ?? If so you are not beyond God's decision,

    • @ParalegalSolutions-b3y
      @ParalegalSolutions-b3y 19 дней назад +5

      You obviously not paying attention to the video. If you are a narc you are cursed

    • @NarcissistHex-nf9eq
      @NarcissistHex-nf9eq 19 дней назад +9

      @@ParalegalSolutions-b3y perhaps but all curses can be broken through God.

    • @ParalegalSolutions-b3y
      @ParalegalSolutions-b3y 19 дней назад +4

      @NarcissistHex-nf9eq I agree

    • @2009sonshine
      @2009sonshine 19 дней назад +7

      Anyone can be forgiven by God if they repent sincerely. I think the issue at hand is that genuine narcissists will NEVER admit to doing anything wrong therefore they will not repent therefore they are not forgiven. I see people claiming to be “self aware narcissists” which is a contradiction in itself. They may have some narcissistic tendencies which we all do. Some more than others. But if you are watching these videos about narcissists regularly and seeing yourself in the information described- IMPO- you’re not an NPD. I know many, was raised and abused by one, worked for many, and was married to someone with NpD and he would not watch these videos let alone identify himself as one publicly or even to himself. They cannot and will not admit weakness, they have no flaws/sins. It’s part of the disorder.

  • @debbiebeattie3200
    @debbiebeattie3200 19 дней назад +9

    I was in a relationship and did not understand. I could not understand why I had a Black Cloud over me in our relationship. I can see They carried the curse.
    When I left my world is full of the Rainbow and sunshine.

    • @deb2319
      @deb2319 19 дней назад

      That's Right! Growing Up with two neglectful pair-rents who barely could pay the rent...you just described how i felt most of my childhood and young adult life. Well Said. Be Happier- Follow Your Heart!

  • @IzabelaWaniek-i1x
    @IzabelaWaniek-i1x 19 дней назад +5

    Narcisism is the absence of love as dr Carter names it and where there is no love, there is fear, drama, trauma and destruction.

  • @boy_with_apfel
    @boy_with_apfel 19 дней назад +8

    You just saved my life, at least for a while longer. Thank you

  • @chloemichelle8299
    @chloemichelle8299 18 дней назад +4

    I’m just SO GLAD that I am not with him and that he and I are apart. I don’t care if he’s single or married or whatever. Godspeed! The greatest thing is that we are not a couple.

  • @brigitte2217
    @brigitte2217 19 дней назад +12

    They are able to destroy good heart's 😢love from Germany

    • @Ry-n8j4l
      @Ry-n8j4l 19 дней назад +1

      @@brigitte2217 [🇩🇪❤️] 🎤I was never rooted to a place. I was rooted in ideas. I'm [🙅🏽‍♂️🚯🚟] attached to things. I would still feel happy [inside] myself. In that respect, I am a revolutionary. 🎤 [🇺🇲]
      -John Kluge, Radio Mogul
      🎶Smile Back by Mac Miller [🇩🇪❤️][🇺🇲]
      🎶Reservoir Dogs by Jay-Z, Sauce Money, and The LOX [et.al]
      [🇦🇲❤️] 🎤I'm such a memory hoarder.🎤[🇺🇲]
      -Kimberly Noel Kardashian aka Skims

  • @dorlistorres8034
    @dorlistorres8034 18 дней назад +5

    💯 on point. It's disgusting how these people can jump from person to person destroying lives

    • @wyattbrule12688
      @wyattbrule12688 13 дней назад +1

      I generally agree with you, however, there is a reason people attract narcissists into their vineyards. Until we figure that out, we’re going to end up victimized again. Time to do some introspective analysis on ourselves and figure out who to let into our lives.

  • @saturdayschild8535
    @saturdayschild8535 19 дней назад +13

    There is plenty of legacy left by Cain. We are still fighting his evil descendants. His kids built cities, allied with fallen angels, and were (are) very wicked. His descendants filled the earth with evil. His legacy is evil and wickedness. He’s still cursed but God is always desiring that people wake up and return to Him.

  • @JudithMacdonald-u3b
    @JudithMacdonald-u3b 19 дней назад +12

    GOD won’t violate anyone’s free will so a person must turn to GOD for change in sincerity

  • @elainebmack
    @elainebmack 19 дней назад +8

    This sounds exactly like the character of Jacob Marley's ghost from Charles Dickens's, "A Christmas Carol". Because of his love of money and lack of love and care for his fellow man, Jacob Marley's spirit is doomed to wander unhappily for all eternity. The lead character, Ebenezer Scrooge, is doomed to follow the same path unless he changes his ways, but he must look at himself honestly and admit his failings. If a narcissist can do that, they have a chance of redemption.

  • @kat-75
    @kat-75 20 дней назад +10

    I think they are unsaved

  • @MetamorphosisButterfly
    @MetamorphosisButterfly 19 дней назад +6

    Looking like a boss Kevin!

  • @JudithMacdonald-u3b
    @JudithMacdonald-u3b 19 дней назад +12

    Repentance towards GOD can break the curse IF a person is willing

  • @alisabondar
    @alisabondar 19 дней назад +6

    He didn’t jump into another relationship, although he was getting supply. But it really is incredible how much and how quickly he has forgotten. I think it’s because emotions help us remember, and they live too much in their logic so they forget

  • @maddieglen2
    @maddieglen2 18 дней назад +5

    Statistically only 2% of narcissist actually take accountability on an ongoing basis and seek recovery. Consider that in the US alone there are at least 30 million people with personality disorder and consider how few actually pursue mental health. No, no use discernment, narcissist don’t want to recover.

  • @monaj33
    @monaj33 19 дней назад +4

    The empath goes from cursed to blessed..the narc from blessed to curse ..they do it to themselves it's crazy..the haaate themselves and everyone who lives them

  • @rosieb471
    @rosieb471 11 дней назад

    I have to say this … I think you’re the best, Kevin when it comes to knowledge and how to impart it on Narcissism .

  • @Truthteller1s
    @Truthteller1s 19 дней назад +3

    Wow! I love all your videos but this one might be my favorite. So profound. I've never heard it explained this way before.

  • @SMR8554
    @SMR8554 19 дней назад +4

    TMH knows the heart

  • @infantrycaptain9224
    @infantrycaptain9224 19 дней назад +6

    Spot on!

  • @mararamitchpeace
    @mararamitchpeace 19 дней назад +3

    Omg! Imma watch this a million times! ❤

    • @Ry-n8j4l
      @Ry-n8j4l 19 дней назад +1

      [❤][❤️][❤️][❤️][❤️]

  • @kathyjudson6754
    @kathyjudson6754 19 дней назад +3

    This is outstanding !!

  • @samsunga6927
    @samsunga6927 8 дней назад

    Thank you. You have really got me considering whether they can change. My suspicion is they cannot in and of themselves.

  • @cleaningtim
    @cleaningtim 17 дней назад +1

    I found this video very enlightening in religious terms. I have always wondered and asked God why he lets them get away with their evil treatment of others. This video helped to answer that question for me and that he actually does not let them get away with their evil ways. Thank you for sharing this information!

  • @wyattbrule12688
    @wyattbrule12688 13 дней назад

    This is one of the greatest videos on the topic of narcissistic personalities and relationships I have seen yet. Excellent job, sir.

  • @SteveLohbeck
    @SteveLohbeck 19 дней назад +5

    my female narc has been sleeping on the sofa for months

    • @2009sonshine
      @2009sonshine 19 дней назад +1

      My ex husband did that to me 6 months into our marriage! Covert Narcissist! She is punishing you because you wounded her fragile ego in some way. I guarantee you she’s cheating on you- if this is your partner- I’m assuming. Get out of the relationship. They only get colder - ice cold!!! You deserve to held, loved and cherished.

  • @ericacatherineleins4559
    @ericacatherineleins4559 19 дней назад +2

    I love this guy!! Cool,calm and a total bad ass!!!!!

  • @tiffanyjohnson1676
    @tiffanyjohnson1676 19 дней назад +1

    Kevin is good with the Narc topic. The vineyard imagery analogy is spot on and beautiful. Ty 🫡

  • @Flyfenix-l3u
    @Flyfenix-l3u 7 дней назад

    My lord - so well described, it was By finding Your channel that I breaked the code. 1 Year ago.

  • @nick8252
    @nick8252 19 дней назад +1

    Keep sharing bible verses with us! Makes everything you say so much deeper and powerful! ❤🙏
    My personal notes...
    3:20
    6:50
    11:00
    12:10*
    16:30**
    19:40

    • @kennethrogers3687
      @kennethrogers3687 18 дней назад

      Evolved from apes. DNA evidence doesn't lie. Learn science. Evolution of the apes on the planet of the apes. Directly related to chimps, great apes and bigfoot. So you know. Later

  • @ReginaldRuff
    @ReginaldRuff 18 дней назад +1

    This message was Profound!!!!!!

  • @Simon-d8n
    @Simon-d8n 20 дней назад +2

    Effort. 6:13 6:14 6:14 6:14 That’s important. Point 6:23 6:24

  • @Simon-d8n
    @Simon-d8n 20 дней назад +2

    7:25 7:26 7:26 Very important 7:30 7:31

  • @Tea-Flowers
    @Tea-Flowers 18 дней назад

    Excellent information!!!!
    Thank you for sharing, Kevin.

  • @rainwaterfallsapothecaryay8102
    @rainwaterfallsapothecaryay8102 9 дней назад

    💐 Emotional laziness 👍

  • @zwijdenes1376
    @zwijdenes1376 19 дней назад

    Hello royals
    When i was still uncontious about narcisism i did feel the pain of the narcs curse.
    I listend to bruce springsteens song: adam raised a cain. And understood the drama but still could not get to the bottem of the story.
    But thanks to divine intervention the vail has lifted from my eyes.
    And i know whats been explained in this video is true.
    Its indeed painfull to set your boundaries because it is the oposite of who you want to be, but it is nessasery because you need your own life force to get by and stay healty.
    Narcs are energie vampires keep them out.
    The trap for me is to not shut myself of completly to other people, but many are unaware of these insites and talking about the newest car or footballclub feels a bit strange when you got a lot more to say!

  • @brendarewan7441
    @brendarewan7441 19 дней назад +4

    Abel is a symbol of obedience to God’s commandments. Cain is symbol of disobedience to God.

  • @lovelocked5385
    @lovelocked5385 19 дней назад +4

    They don't choose God. God is Love. So they are without

  • @CariP_916
    @CariP_916 19 дней назад +3

    Your posturing and energy at times comes across as narcissistic, although your points are valid. Perhaps it's the throne

    • @NarcissistHex-nf9eq
      @NarcissistHex-nf9eq 19 дней назад +2

      It takes a narcissist to know a narcissist, as a self-aware diagnosed narcissist ,I'd be lying if I said I never thought that too, lol

    • @MonaLisa-gt2cx
      @MonaLisa-gt2cx 19 дней назад +3

      @CariP - 😂😂😂I thought it was just a high back chair❤❤❤

  • @RUBYHOLLISBROWNrj
    @RUBYHOLLISBROWNrj 13 дней назад

    Abaddon and Azrael..........awesome makes me weakj!

  • @LeslieGonzalez-t5z
    @LeslieGonzalez-t5z 20 дней назад +2

    True

  • @georginal5322
    @georginal5322 18 дней назад

    The one I know had a relationship 12 years with a woman who I think also was a narcissist. After that he had 1-2 years relationships

  • @samanthaq3422
    @samanthaq3422 19 дней назад +2

    How to chase away incubus demon🎉🎉🎉

  • @stellameacher3075
    @stellameacher3075 18 дней назад

    Not interested in people who judge they were hurt bad in childhood

  • @soul-syclassic-productions3202
    @soul-syclassic-productions3202 16 дней назад

    Brilliant

  • @Denise-mx6pw
    @Denise-mx6pw 18 дней назад +1

    Cain vs Abel .....and ...Esau/Edom vs Jacob/Israel..... EVIL vs GOOD, These are a representation of the TARES vs WHEAT, and the Seed of the Serpent, and the Seed of the Woman.

  • @2009sonshine
    @2009sonshine 19 дней назад

    Cains offering was not received because blood is required for the forgiveness of sins. Cain gave produce that he grew- Abel sacrificed an animal and shed its blood. It is believed that God had instructed them as to the sacrifice that was required hence the fact that Abel knew what to correctly offer and Cain intentionally disobeyed. 4:13 We are forgiven today because of Christs blood shed for the forgiveness of our sins.

  • @brendarewan7441
    @brendarewan7441 19 дней назад

    Cain left an evil and cursed legacy.

  • @stellameacher3075
    @stellameacher3075 18 дней назад

    Why were kane 😊😊and able so screwed up to start with?

    • @americawaters4257
      @americawaters4257 15 дней назад +1

      They were born after the curse. Outside of the garden.

  • @stellameacher3075
    @stellameacher3075 18 дней назад

    The y
    Y need love

  • @Proudchristian1975
    @Proudchristian1975 20 дней назад +12

    I disagree God can change anyone for example...
    Philippians 4:13
    "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."

    • @NarcissistHex-nf9eq
      @NarcissistHex-nf9eq 20 дней назад +3

      Amen, I have changed through Christ and now I’m helping others.

    • @Ry-n8j4l
      @Ry-n8j4l 19 дней назад +1

      Amen [😇]

    • @annechang6459
      @annechang6459 19 дней назад +9

      Narcissists will never change. A lot of them don't believe in God. I am married to one and he can't see his faults because he is perfect, much better than anybody else.

    • @NarcissistHex-nf9eq
      @NarcissistHex-nf9eq 19 дней назад +1

      @@annechang6459 So, yeah it's hard to get a narcissist to see what they actually are, it took me several of my family members telling me I'm a narcissist. And then when I finally had therapy the therapist said the same thing, and then at the time I just figured how could that many people be wrong? This sparked my path to healing and change, however this has not been easy and I hope you realize that it's extremely rare that this happens.

    • @molebohengkolisang3405
      @molebohengkolisang3405 19 дней назад +3

      So according to you is it pleasing to God for narcissists to treat others so bad as they do ???And God still says it's okay

  • @beckysafe7990
    @beckysafe7990 18 дней назад +1

    Why do you say they’re cursed & cannot change?? Jesus can break that curse when there’s repentance & they’ll be able
    To recieve
    I just received a word that God was going to break the curse of what stress and anxiety has done to me/my body for the last 20 yrs when I repented of allowing those evil spirits to gain hold of me!

    • @sandyberger-r9j
      @sandyberger-r9j 18 дней назад +5

      While I agree that Jesus could break that curse, he can only do so if the person repents. Here lies the problem: narcissistic people do no wrong (in their mindset). It’s others who are at fault, but they’re never to blame. Also, a narcissist is not able to accept that someone/God is in control. Narcissists want to control everything themselves. My ex husband and my narcissistic in-laws are 100% atheists, who ridicule religion. They have been to church because „appearances“, but there is nothing in their hearts.

  • @MonochromaticBlues
    @MonochromaticBlues 18 дней назад +2

    I was with you until you start mocking people who call the police….some people really go through abuse smfh

  • @paulad.4578
    @paulad.4578 19 дней назад

    I think that your interpretation of the Cain and Abel story may be a little one-sided. I once heard a Rabbi discussing that story, and he pointed out that Cain was the one with the original idea, and Abel thought, that's a good idea. Abel then improved upon it, and Cain saw what he had done. Abel also wasn't entirely in the right because he took someone else's idea and moved forward with it. Imagine if Abel had looked at his brother and said, "Hey, I know where this went south. Why don't we work together and put forth our offering together?" Had he done that, the likelihood of murder would probably not have been in the picture. Does that mean that Cain was in his rights to kill his brother? Of course not! But, Abel should have brought his brother into the picture as well.

    • @dr.parakletos7765
      @dr.parakletos7765 17 дней назад

      Why listen to a rabbi whose religion has denied the Truth for two thousand years?

  • @brightpage1020
    @brightpage1020 19 дней назад

    Do we really need to label them? Name call? Discuss their curses by God? Make them responsible for managing our feelings? Come on, can’t we grow up?

    • @WomanOfValor...
      @WomanOfValor... 19 дней назад +3

      All these spirits has name. You have to call them out for they to know they can't hide anymore.