How to Leave a Relationship When You Have No Money: Practical Steps | Clever Girl Finance

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  • Опубликовано: 6 фев 2025
  • If you’re ready to leave a relationship but are staying because you have no money, it can put you in a pretty bad situation. That said its important you are aware of your options to leave, so you don’t feel trapped when it’s time to go.
    In today’s video, we are going to go over how to leave a relationship when you have no money. #leavingarelationship
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Комментарии • 47

  • @chelseashurmantine8153
    @chelseashurmantine8153 Год назад +61

    I just did this. Trust yourself. You will be ok you will make it.

  • @adstix
    @adstix Год назад +72

    What a very terrible place to be!
    No money in a bad relationship!
    I wish anyone in that situation a miraculous way out!

    • @Clevergirlfinance
      @Clevergirlfinance  Год назад +5

      Thankfully, there is always a way out, when carefully planned.

    • @yobafox1jason556
      @yobafox1jason556 3 месяца назад +4

      I’m in this I’m terrified. Thank you. 🙏

    • @JacksJ007
      @JacksJ007 2 месяца назад +1

      SEND HELP!!!!!

    • @mysticalone335
      @mysticalone335 Месяц назад +1

      Please pray for me😢 I have mean narcissistic family and no friends that could help. I’m constantly busy with my children because they have no one else to take them to appointments and all the places they have to go. If I can ever get some constant money I could leave. Man I wish I could break away from this demon.

  • @tricialeone6651
    @tricialeone6651 Год назад +39

    What an important topic for women. Thank you for creating this content.

    • @Clevergirlfinance
      @Clevergirlfinance  Год назад

      Glad you enjoyed it!

    • @Sky-Child
      @Sky-Child Месяц назад

      I was just thinking this - such an incredibly valuable and important subject matter. Well done.

  • @RaennaJohnson
    @RaennaJohnson 2 месяца назад +8

    Thank you for this info. I'm not broke but I know it will be a bit of a struggle without the two incomes. I struggle with leaving this man even though I'm not happy. It's the same thing year after year. Stagnation and unfulfilled dreams. I don't know why this has been so hard for me when I have overcome bigger things than this smh.

    • @Clevergirlfinance
      @Clevergirlfinance  2 месяца назад +2

      Leaving a relationship, especially when there’s financial stability involved, is such a tough decision because it touches on so many layers. Be kind to yourself as you navigate this. It’s okay that this feels hard, even though you’ve overcome other challenges. Every struggle is different, and it doesn’t make you any less strong. Sometimes, taking even the smallest stepsn-can help you move closer to the life you truly want. You’ve got this, one step at a time.

    • @EddieWaldrop
      @EddieWaldrop 19 дней назад +2

      I’m in the exact same situation but I will send you prayers!

  • @allthingscloudy
    @allthingscloudy Год назад +6

    This is much needed content. Thank you for covering this type of subject. Would love a series on different types of financial or emotional abuse.

  • @rosedevarel7098
    @rosedevarel7098 5 месяцев назад +9

    Ive been trying to leave my nuclear family unit since I was 18 and Im 34 years old now . I dont like being around my mother or father. I love them but it is best to love them at a distance. Economically its been hard getting away from not only them, their communities, and the negative influence of a local employer (s). I called the police twice. Once on my dad for physical attack another for my mom emotional attacks. Ive been trying to save to leave but there is never enough money to leave. Even if I work two jobs their is always an expense that finds its way to take it away. Pray for me ya. Everyone deserves to be in a non controlled social-economic environment.

    • @mysticalone335
      @mysticalone335 Месяц назад +1

      You have my same story but it’s my children father ( husband)

  • @DomChic
    @DomChic Год назад +6

    I'm there... no abuse, no resentment, no infidelity... we just should not have married... I didn't know sooo many things about him. & I work part time - as a $ coach! But need full time work, have 2 kiddos, he would have to leave & I keep the house. Nothing is official yet, but this video is about me😔

    • @Clevergirlfinance
      @Clevergirlfinance  Год назад

      You've got this. Keep your head up, make your plans and take action.

  • @Gracie-hk7ng
    @Gracie-hk7ng 2 месяца назад +5

    I’m In this situation right now I just got paid today and I’m saving my money. Hopefully come may I have enough saved to leave and a car . Please someone pray for me and that I have wisdom to do the right thing 💔

    • @jenniferbaggett5775
      @jenniferbaggett5775 15 дней назад

      Best wishes. Consider staying in a shelter for a bit to help you save $$!

  • @Queenofthecrop420
    @Queenofthecrop420 Год назад +11

    He doesn't allow me to work so i cant leave...no vehicle no money and 2 young children...hes so verbally abusive...

    • @Clevergirlfinance
      @Clevergirlfinance  Год назад +3

      Do you have any people you can reach out to for support? We are so sorry you’re going through this. Please stay strong

    • @zainabhamid5441
      @zainabhamid5441 Год назад +9

      You can
      I left him with no money no job
      I was preparing myself for my plan b while living with him.
      I was upskiling myself continuously, and upgrading my resume.
      I keep myself alert about the market trend and left him.
      Directly applied to a job and got selected within a month due to updated knowledge.
      Only thing that helped me to Trust myself

    • @IndigoMasquerade
      @IndigoMasquerade 3 месяца назад

      @@zainabhamid5441 How did you do this?

    • @jenniferbaggett5775
      @jenniferbaggett5775 15 дней назад

      ​@zainabhamid5441 some details would be helpful....

  • @Ptpop
    @Ptpop 9 месяцев назад +6

    I’m a guy in this situation. My wife is the bread winner. I’ve been pursuing a career as an artist and now I am stuck. Art = $0. I have no idea what to do.

    • @BlackBeauty-yl8uq
      @BlackBeauty-yl8uq 8 месяцев назад +3

      Keep your head up. I am a wife in this situation but I not going to give up. A little progress is better than none. It’s hard for me to run with our son. But when I get enough money I’ll get me a a good lawyer because it takes more than me to fight a known narcissist

    • @jacquelynhaas8184
      @jacquelynhaas8184 5 месяцев назад +4

      Omg this is my exact situationas a woman!! I'm a struggling actress ans it's so hard when you have been forced to move to a house in the suburbs with no access to Theatre's to audition for, don't know how to drive, and overall no income . I'm so depressed and keep praying 🙏

    • @RaennaJohnson
      @RaennaJohnson 2 месяца назад +1

      @@jacquelynhaas8184 Keep praying and start fasting seeking clarity from God. You got this!!!! we all do

    • @Beanits
      @Beanits Месяц назад +1

      Exactly. I don't even know how to get back into the work force

    • @jacquelynhaas8184
      @jacquelynhaas8184 Месяц назад

      Omg thank you so much for responding to me !!!!! I needed to see this as i am recovering from another abusive episode 😢 God bless you ❤❤❤❤❤❤​@@RaennaJohnson

  • @IndigoMasquerade
    @IndigoMasquerade 6 месяцев назад +4

    I have a million side hustles and still don't get paid nearly enough to get out. I have a degree. Feels like I've been screaming for help for a decade now, and I'm still in this abusive marriage. I'm still in Hell.

    • @BlackBeauty-yl8uq
      @BlackBeauty-yl8uq 3 месяца назад

      Same.

    • @jenniferbaggett5775
      @jenniferbaggett5775 15 дней назад

      Kids? No? Either way...go to shelters for a bit. Stay there and save up your $. Move somewhere with a lower cost of living? Places in the Midwest with homes for rent under 1k..

  • @thiabrabson2533
    @thiabrabson2533 Год назад

    Excellent video content ‼️❣️

  • @MsKittie
    @MsKittie 2 месяца назад +1

    no family no friends, im disabled( blind) no formal education, or work history and 58 and I need to leave

    • @jenniferbaggett5775
      @jenniferbaggett5775 15 дней назад

      That's hard. Shelters really can help you get a start though.

  • @MyaThomas-iu5kx
    @MyaThomas-iu5kx 4 месяца назад

    I need the will power

  • @JacksJ007
    @JacksJ007 2 месяца назад +2

    using COUPONS IS NOT GOING To SAVE MY LIFE RIGHT NOW

    • @UnityLove-tj3qg
      @UnityLove-tj3qg Месяц назад

      Oh no, coupons??? Thanks for the warning. I'm getting off this right now. Good luck honey, you're not alone!

  • @yobafox1jason556
    @yobafox1jason556 3 месяца назад

    I need help with my resume. I got scammed by an online resume creator and she had hundreds of good reviews! So I’m worried about my job gap bc it’s so far kept me from finding work which only makes that gap longer. :/ bf drained every single cent and resource from me.

    • @jenniferbaggett5775
      @jenniferbaggett5775 15 дней назад

      How are you now?? I think there are FB and reddit groups to help there