The shame of raising my son, keeping him away from the public to embracing the truth & breaking free

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  • @LynnNgugi
    @LynnNgugi  Год назад +114

    Good morning team LNN,
    In a world where you can be anything, be kind
    What are your thoughts on today's episode with Rose?
    You can reach her via her email rs.atieno@gmail.com or through her social handles;
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    To share your story with us, send an email to info@LNN.digital or Lynn.ngugi@Lnn.digital for consideration
    Thank you so much for watching❤

    • @charitywanjohi884
      @charitywanjohi884 Год назад +7

      She Has A Positive Thought Of Other Parents With Such Kids. Thank You Lyn For Giving Them A Chance. She Is Truly A Rose Flower. She Would Probably Fit For Cerebral Palsy Respresentative Position.

    • @gladyscilonik9451
      @gladyscilonik9451 Год назад +9

      😭😭😭😭 I think she is giving my case but mine was worse because my son died

    • @charitywanjohi884
      @charitywanjohi884 Год назад +2

      @@gladyscilonik9451 😭😭😭😭my case too. That was 2020, he couldn’t make it n after passing on, the doctors remarks was that he would have been a cerebral palsy baby. Kip it hopeful Mum n May They Rest In Eternal Peace.

    • @FaithTheOrganizer
      @FaithTheOrganizer Год назад +6

      I am a July born. For my 40th birthday, and having followed your story, I can offer something. I don't know what.....But I am in. Thank you Lynn.

    • @rosekamenya6079
      @rosekamenya6079 Год назад +4

      Wow! What a coincidence! She's Rose and am Rose. I have a 16 year old son living with celebral palsy. It has not been easy but with the grace of God we are here. Family and close friends have been helpful. May our good be praised for his mercies abound in every situation.
      Big up Mama.

  • @Limitlesskkz2022
    @Limitlesskkz2022 Год назад +87

    You didn’t lose any friends. Your son allowed you to know who your friends really were. From one special needs mom to another, HUGS. ❤

  • @kawuuzigetrude5779
    @kawuuzigetrude5779 Год назад +37

    Lady, you're actually not alone. I am a victim too. Mine is a girl and taking care of her alone. She is now eight but still struggling. Thanks God for helping single mothers who have special children.

  • @beckyajando4312
    @beckyajando4312 Год назад +172

    I have a Cerebral Palsic daughter too and it's Rose who helped me come out and accept my daughter's condition. Thumbs up Rose. Christine says jambo to you and Elly

    • @Rose-wq7lj
      @Rose-wq7lj Год назад +4

      Rose I'm so grateful for you coming out to accept him but I didn't want to tell you this nothing impossible to even your son can be healed by God not the he is read Hebrews 11 v 6 Isaiah 53 v 4, 5 in New testament Jesus heals so many type of disease all things are possible through God

    • @etondepela797
      @etondepela797 Год назад +1

      Rose you re a fantastic mom..Elly darling ure the best .Greater is He that is in you than he that is in the world .Ure blessed .
      Rose God is alive He is not dead .fix your eyes on Him .Elly should be on vouge magazine hes a dresser ..l lv u both❤❤❤❤

  • @monicafadhili
    @monicafadhili Год назад +240

    Am a mother of 2 special boys ..one with Autism and the brother has CP, autism and epilepsy..it's very hard and expensive but God is faithful 🙏

  • @alicekamau1944
    @alicekamau1944 Год назад +19

    My son is 5.7 years with mild Autism,May God continue giving us strength to bring them up. Kudos to Parents with special kids

  • @CMGInfo-p4s
    @CMGInfo-p4s Год назад +27

    To all mums here with differently abled children just know you are wonderful parents. Keep keeping ladies God is with us.

  • @moulineakongo8355
    @moulineakongo8355 Год назад +54

    I served this lady in 2018/2019, she was so calm and very friendly you couldn't imagine what she had at hand,. Thumbs up min Elly. Much love from Diani ❤. I saw her post with Lynn and I was like, this is a must watch and here we are, congratulations rose a.k.a mama ellyboy

  • @eunice4977
    @eunice4977 Год назад +106

    I also have a cerebral pulsy boy and I love him so much and can't even imagine the Life without my son near me although I raise him as a single mom ❤

  • @miriamchepngeno1514
    @miriamchepngeno1514 Год назад +67

    I love her already. May God give all moms with special needs children the grace to push on❤️❤️

  • @kaytewairimu1333
    @kaytewairimu1333 Год назад +143

    I want to applaud Rose and every other special needs mama out there. For taking care of the kids and loving them unconditionally. I was a mama to a baby boy who had Cerebral palsy, epilepsy, and cortical visual impairment. Unfortunately I lost him late last year at only 1 year 8 months. And what I have come to learn through his loss is special needs children are a handful to take care of but I would pick that anyday anytime rather than having empty hands.

    • @lilychepkirui9947
      @lilychepkirui9947 Год назад

      Hugs mama,

    • @emillypesanai9855
      @emillypesanai9855 11 месяцев назад

      woow rather than empty hands ..thank you for those words. i have a special child too

  • @wilfridahshana3534
    @wilfridahshana3534 Год назад +29

    This is so inspirational, thanks Rose for sharing your story. My granddaughter had a similar situation at birth and brain damage due to negligence, and this is a first world country. She's now 6, doesn't walk but crawls around, she's in a wheelchair and goes to special needs school. We love her so much, and her parents are doing a wonderful job. It wasn't easy at first, but now things are better. Thanks, Lynn, for this episode 🙌

  • @wmusinya97
    @wmusinya97 Год назад +53

    I've watched and rewatched and Lilian came to my mind over and over again. Lilian is a young girl from my village who gave birth to a baby with CP, she wasn't even 18 years yet and ghosh! I can imagine this is all she has been going through as a young mother with a CP baby , I'm gonna reach out to her and tell her about Rose, and I'll be making an effort to keep in touch with her, she needs friends, I know how much stigma she has underwent through the village coz I've also heard some people talk trash about her innocent son. Parents with abled differently babies hugs and lots of love your way ♥️

    • @millicentmagoma8443
      @millicentmagoma8443 Год назад +2

      Waoh! Kindly do so.

    • @wmusinya97
      @wmusinya97 Год назад

      @@millicentmagoma8443 for sure I will aki, if raising her son is this expensive Gooood🤦her family background is a humble one, no stable income, how is Lilian surviving, wueeh, God come through for this parents

  • @gw7768
    @gw7768 Год назад +16

    When I see these stories I always am grateful to Kijabe hospital. They don't have the ambience and niceties of say private hospitals but they do the right thing. Well, I hope they still do the right thing.
    Kikuyu hospital used to be like Kijabe when it was a mission hospital. Until the missionaries left.....
    For a mother to have to endure this level of negligence and abuse in hospitals...(because a doctor asking her about the circumference and exercise and another telling her never to go back bla bla all of them without explaining is abuse) is insane.
    But who is God? Because in Kenya only God can salvage someone in this situation ...who is God? We live because he WILLS
    Lynn this lady's message is so loaded it needs various sessions
    1. Hospital abuse
    2. Trauma of single parents
    3. Raising special kids
    4. Raising mixed race kids
    5. Interracial dating and associated traumas
    6. Discrimination metted on mixed race kids
    7. Discrimination metted on single parent' kids
    ..and so many topics from her story alone...

  • @agnesnjeri8402
    @agnesnjeri8402 Год назад +190

    I always consider Rose and every mother out there who is raising cerebral palsy kids very strong and kind.. more Grace to all of such parents 🙏🏼

    • @juddykananu1630
      @juddykananu1630 Год назад +3

      We thank God i personaly am strong

    • @agnesnjeri8402
      @agnesnjeri8402 Год назад +1

      @@juddykananu1630 feel appreciated ❤️

    • @juddykananu1630
      @juddykananu1630 Год назад

      @@agnesnjeri8402 thanks alot

    • @EuniceMNzioki
      @EuniceMNzioki Год назад +1

      Thanks am strong God has his ways of strengthening his people

    • @agnesnjeri8402
      @agnesnjeri8402 Год назад

      @@EuniceMNzioki you're strong and blessed Mama😍may God bless you 🙏🏼

  • @sophiekenmon9975
    @sophiekenmon9975 Год назад +31

    You can't cure disability, nor can you pray it out! This is the acceptance and realization we all need. There are things which greatest cure is acceptance. This goes out to anyone parenting a special kid, anyone with an incurable health condition, God is aware, just accept it, and that's the beginning of healing.
    God bless mama Elly Boy.

    • @marychristiansen2990
      @marychristiansen2990 Год назад +13

      What God cannot do,does not exist...so yes,can be prayed for🙏

    • @AngelaImali
      @AngelaImali Год назад +8

      Nothing is imposible with God..

    • @FeliciaKiragu-jn7he
      @FeliciaKiragu-jn7he Год назад +1

      Thankyou for sharing so special thoughts

    • @blessingokpu2489
      @blessingokpu2489 Год назад +2

      What God can not do does not exist.

    • @MonteCarol555
      @MonteCarol555 Год назад +3

      One can pray bout a disability any disease & be healed nothing is impossible with God, nothing! He can do anything; the unimaginable we only need to pray according to His will & with faith in Him. My daughter hd vitiligo & i prayed & God healed her. He has done the unimaginable in my life which hs bn soo rough & i keep on keeping on as a single mum of 3 kids, one with autism, one in heaven.

  • @paulinemwaura1980
    @paulinemwaura1980 Год назад +44

    "Don't make disability woiye" I love that. It's painful to think that something preventable can change a child's life. We need more awareness for first-time moms. As an expectant mom I was determined to have a normal delivery I was very close-minded until a nurse told me about CP and opened my mind about CS. It's a pity Rose asked for the option and it was denied. I'm walking a journey with Dr. Shuma for my son who has sensory integration challenges and I can testify he is awesome. He has helped me to always see the good, and work on my mindset.

    • @paulinegichuki1074
      @paulinegichuki1074 Год назад +5

      Shuma of Agakhan Mombasa.
      He is an awesome doctor he also walked the journey of my son who had a club foot.
      Three months we were good.
      May God bless him

    • @catherinethube9786
      @catherinethube9786 Год назад +4

      My God..Rose and Lynn This is not easy but may God give you the strength to do wat you desire in your hearts.Lynn good job for listening to these ladies n mothers. I feel her pain especially on negligence in a hospital...pouring these to you is so therapeutic.

    • @SylviaWanyonyi340
      @SylviaWanyonyi340 Год назад

      I was also denied the CS option,my baby was forced to come out 😭😭😭😭😭

    • @ygpwnxd_xd752
      @ygpwnxd_xd752 Год назад +1

      Lynn just for my own information where’s the father of this beautiful baby.
      It’s not fair only mother had to go through all this pain N emotions . Nevertheless this child’s mother is very strong with positive thoughts 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @winnieopijah7670
      @winnieopijah7670 Год назад +1

      I had an emotional birth as a first time mum. When I went to sessions I discovered there are other children who had more worse conditions. This was my acceptance point.

  • @wow-xu6kc
    @wow-xu6kc Год назад +43

    For starters, Elly is so cute. Much love to this incredible mother.

  • @judahwillgofirst7964
    @judahwillgofirst7964 Год назад +5

    Rose, imagine God looked in the whole world with billions of people,and trusted you to raise an angel!! You are blessed and you are raising a blessing,,

  • @Bukachimy
    @Bukachimy Год назад +21

    Very nice conversation. I have learnt quite a lot. The only thing I wish to respectfully dispute is the idea that disability can't be cured. Okay, naturally it may never happen, but there exists the dimension of faith about which Jesus said, " All things are possible for them that believe." I pray that God will show his kindness to families that are carrying this heavy burden and heal their children in Jesus name, amen.

    • @pamelaomonode8805
      @pamelaomonode8805 Год назад +1

      Amen

    • @cadhis2000
      @cadhis2000 Год назад +1

      God heals! What He cannot do doesn’t exist, I have seen His hand in my life

  • @AngieBennett-p6r
    @AngieBennett-p6r Год назад +4

    That story at the end about Italy and Holland lifted my spirit. Grace to mama

  • @cakesweetykenya
    @cakesweetykenya Год назад +10

    Hello Lynn. I will donate the cake for the 7women and kids if the celebration happens between now and September while I'm still in Kenya.

  • @hanzahassan1282
    @hanzahassan1282 Год назад +28

    So touching and painful...I have a son who is 6 years.My son was born without any complication and grew up to 1year that's where the problem started and from the child that was walking to the child who can't even sit down alone .We started again from 0 but I thank God he wasn't affected in the left side of the brain so he goes to school like any other kid.He has paralysis on one side of the body and I can tell it isn't easy ...please I would like to share my story with you some day

  • @lucymbugua7427
    @lucymbugua7427 Год назад +19

    I remember when I gave birth to my son,and the doctor told me he has double thumbs on both hands,I cried 😩, I used to hide him, I didn't want people to see his hands, I'd buy many mittens to hide his hands,but I had to accept that he's unique and it doesn't hurt. It's very normal actually.
    May God bless all the moms raising CP babies,it's not easy.

  • @annnjoki7468
    @annnjoki7468 Год назад +10

    Hey.
    I totally relate with this story. I'm a mom to a child with cerebral palsy (metachromatic Leukodystrophy) It is true that the money to support the different children is dispensed depending on social status and they say that they must visit your home to decide whether you will receive the money or not. My daughter is 10yrs and has never received any of the money. She's on diapers 24/7, medication daily, non visual and on the wheelchair, therapy and special school. I was induced as a first time mom which I didn't know until later from online research.
    We call out to the government support in doing away with taxation for the caregivers as our children will never be independent enough to work to benefit from the disability tax exemption.

    • @rosemokogi2896
      @rosemokogi2896 Год назад

      I fully support. Doing away with taxes can help cushion many parents

    • @hellenmaina3045
      @hellenmaina3045 Год назад

      Hugs.May you never lack

    • @maricelamwangi6312
      @maricelamwangi6312 Год назад

      Yeah for sure they should do away with the tax for us aky

  • @mercymbula8653
    @mercymbula8653 Год назад +8

    My heart breaks for every parent with a disabled child, Sending 🫂. May God continue strengthening you 🙏.

  • @QNBreme
    @QNBreme Год назад +22

    Most scary moment. My son was very big at birth, head stuck, came out blue and not breathing. He was put on 02 and I left the hospital without him. Thank God, he’s now healthy🙏🏾. I can empathize with Mama Ellyboy❤

  • @lizyarjah5579
    @lizyarjah5579 Год назад +7

    As a mum with CP boy of 14 years old. It really takes God's grace.I sometimes go into my room to cry seeing my son with CP

    • @keremallll
      @keremallll Год назад

      Be easy on yourself mummy,. God is on your side

  • @lucynapwaro5725
    @lucynapwaro5725 Год назад +7

    Thank u for sharing this painful, emotional and beautiful story, l wish my sister could see this so that she should allow her son outside to enjoy fresh air , socialize with other kids , the society knows he is crippled but she hides him from people and he is 15 and no friends and they keep him indoors.

  • @kisuzaruthketty9378
    @kisuzaruthketty9378 Год назад +4

    She is a black beauty, love her smile. More Grace and power to you mama Eli❤❤❤❤

  • @LordMalemo
    @LordMalemo Год назад +25

    This is so inspiring, as CP father I can relate how draining it can be especially for single mothers. The caregiver need emotional support ans the kids need to been seen as normal and treated as such.

    • @monicah8442
      @monicah8442 Год назад +1

      Hello ..I can tell this work of care giving of special kids it's need a person who is emotionally to understand because it's too difficult...am working at kingdom of saudi Arabia and am doing care giving of one special girl she can't walk she can't stand only God to heal them 😢

  • @vonniemichaeltv1059
    @vonniemichaeltv1059 Год назад +8

    Big up to u mama, this happened to me with my second baby , but I thank God that Dr were so concerned why he was having breathing episodes , they did altrosound, mri and noticed he had brain stroke at birth , we started P.T and O.T as early at 2weeks old and I prayed to God and loved my baby , as we speak he is 16months , running and talking he has mild , like favouring his left hand , Dr said he will never walk but I told them there is God and one day he will proof that he is miracle worker and today they can proof, so mum be string there is God,
    One day @lynnngugi I will share my story to encourage people , much love from Australia

  • @wow-xu6kc
    @wow-xu6kc Год назад +5

    Oh Rose, u didnt cry alone. We all cried with u today. U are brave. Thx fr being there fr Ellyboy. All our love and prayers too.💞💝

  • @john_njonjo
    @john_njonjo Год назад +8

    Wow what a story and may God continue to strengthen all the parents handling children with special needs. My take away, learn to be kind no matter the situation

  • @charitymumbua4843
    @charitymumbua4843 Год назад +17

    I'm admiring the strength of this lady. My sister has a daughter who is turning 11 this year, I've seen my sister depressed, running mad twice because of her daughter. As madam Atieno has said, raising these kids is expensive. I also think the disability cards are not available at the coast because my sister has tried getting one but it's all been in vain. She is in malindi. Any support group from malindi for celebral palsy holla at me my sister needs your support. The only person who supported her fully was our mum, unfortunately she died in 2020. Lynn you are doing an amazing job. Salute 🙏🏽

    • @lucynjeru8473
      @lucynjeru8473 Год назад

      The card is useless coz all the money for the disabled goes into the pockets of few abled persons.very sad

  • @MyJOSE2013
    @MyJOSE2013 Год назад +3

    Dare love your son. Love conquers all. Show him love even in public hadi the talkers washikwe na wivuu! He is handsome. Tell him i love him dearly and I will pray for him.

  • @daisyachiro6779
    @daisyachiro6779 Год назад +17

    What a heartbreaking story it's not easy raising a special needs child but God has given Rose the strength to do it I wish her the best.

    • @traceyvaughns3298
      @traceyvaughns3298 Год назад +1

      Not easy at all. My cp son is 17 now. A lot of work. A lot of patience.

    • @monicah8442
      @monicah8442 Год назад

      ​@@traceyvaughns3298hugs 😢

  • @lavernfoster6018
    @lavernfoster6018 Год назад +4

    As a mom with a son with mild down syndrome listening you brings joy to my heart

  • @montsenglekonyana3101
    @montsenglekonyana3101 Год назад +5

    I am very much impressed that you accepted your adorable child as not a disabled child but a normal vhild. God loves you and I love God for rescuing you from committing suicide because he could be remaining without a mother. I love your acceptance. CONGRATULATIONS.!!You are now an inspiration to many❤

  • @Sisternice77
    @Sisternice77 Год назад +11

    Today’s show just told my story in so many ways! Purple strong 💜 Rose!

  • @Janetwachiye30
    @Janetwachiye30 Год назад +9

    Lynn you are great haki.
    The shows you hold are heavy and I appreciate you.
    I'm coming with my story to share soon
    I'm a mother of three, fought my battles and trusting God for bigger things.
    May God bless you Lynn and team at large

  • @patiencetsadzandara5013
    @patiencetsadzandara5013 Год назад +16

    Elly...one of our many epilepsy heroes. Here at FPE we are glad that we are a part of Elly's journey. We are proud of you Rose.

  • @wanjirugrace1426
    @wanjirugrace1426 Год назад +2

    This lady is the reason am Soo proud of my son. She has been a great help to many mums. Team tough cp caregivers kujeni.

  • @akinyiwambui
    @akinyiwambui Год назад +16

    Hearing Rose's story, gives me a lease of life and keeps me going with a passion for caregivers and their mental wellness. Family caregivers experience a lot and come into a role they are not prepared for at all. Please let us be supportive, of them. Rose, you are doing a great job. Caregivers go through various challenges in adjustment, trauma, and depression just to mention a few. On the other hand, caregivers are loving, have a heart for humanity, and are one of the most understanding people.

  • @melodywakwabubi9317
    @melodywakwabubi9317 Год назад +12

    She's a warrior Lynn, Elly is so handsome. I wonder why friends always want everything perfect. It's better to be alone than have judgemental friends. God does miracles.

    • @michaelrapando6658
      @michaelrapando6658 Год назад

      warrior for sleeping with the pale devil due to self hate to have biracial kids for fun but kikamramba

    • @theoffficialmercylobong3909
      @theoffficialmercylobong3909 Год назад

      @@michaelrapando6658 Ghai what did you just say do know her in person ama??so much bile on your comment woi be easy.....

    • @michaelrapando6658
      @michaelrapando6658 Год назад

      @@theoffficialmercylobong3909 nothing like bile but reality ya kulala na hao shetani weupe wanaobeba Kila aina ya magonjwa and are also recessive but African women worship them,kitawaramba for diluting melanin ,akufe na huko

    • @berinemalesi8293
      @berinemalesi8293 Год назад

      ​@@michaelrapando6658For the sake of an innocent little prince involved I pray you heal from your bitterness!!

  • @GraceDavidKabz
    @GraceDavidKabz Год назад +6

    Beautiful story.... She is a strong woman.....
    The story was so relatable for me..... Having to be introduced as " the mother of the child with a problem" is not easy.
    People should normalize keeping quiet when they have nothing good to say. There is a difference when asking about a person's condition to gain more knowledge about it and asking to confirm/prove the rumours you heard are true or not. Be kind and empathetic to people, people are going through alot.
    Having a child with a special needs takes a toll mentally, socially and financially.
    Keep strong 💪💪💪

  • @martharinebiseko1457
    @martharinebiseko1457 Год назад +12

    Always here to listen to these stories.
    Medical practice is tough!
    Hugs mum

  • @victoroloo5962
    @victoroloo5962 Год назад +5

    Rose is really oozing wisdom. Hugs to you and Elly. Very educative segment.

  • @dephnaomondi3973
    @dephnaomondi3973 Год назад +6

    Am so encouraged, I also undergoing this though my son is 9 months and it's not easy, it's a tough journey

  • @lineteafandi2750
    @lineteafandi2750 Год назад +4

    Oooooh lynn....... the stigma is real. My son was born with disability twenty years now and i can tell i still move houses. When i move to new neighbourhood people call me Mama wa yule mtoto haongei. It really breaks me.

  • @bellaolum9768
    @bellaolum9768 Год назад +9

    I am so glad that Rose has found love again ❤💕💕😘

  • @mercyotieno5561
    @mercyotieno5561 Год назад +2

    I am watching this and am just crying because my son is a cp and I can't remember the many times I break down and ask y me,my world stopped how about when convulsions come and you can't buy meds for ur child.....God give us strength @Rose I have learnt something from you.

  • @bakhitamassy
    @bakhitamassy Год назад +7

    Having a cp child made all my in laws turn against me😢😢😢😢, may God give you more strength mama

  • @kwambokakwamboka812
    @kwambokakwamboka812 Год назад +2

    That boy is very handsome. God's grace for you. You are such an awesome mom

  • @paulysutsiey649
    @paulysutsiey649 Год назад +4

    You might find the first hospital that messed her up was private. I will always prefer public hospital.

  • @dalvinvuguza7118
    @dalvinvuguza7118 Год назад +2

    Lynn si we hukuwa na roho poa aki🥰🥰alafu the lady is collected and calm nimependa ❤❤❤ Long live Elly ❤🎉🙏🙏

  • @cindymunda8306
    @cindymunda8306 Год назад +8

    Morning team Lynn.... Elly is very handsome and dressing on point❤keeping pushing Rose, ignore fake friends n spend more time on ur son. God bless you

  • @estherwaweru1708
    @estherwaweru1708 Год назад +1

    He is handsome, innocent. Adorable.may God give you strength always.much love

  • @Zumysblog
    @Zumysblog Год назад +6

    The world needs to hear your story Mama Elly! Elly is a very handsome boy and You have such a pure heart Rose, and if you ever feel the need to question your purpose in this journey called life remember this beautiful gift that God graced you with and know that Raising Elly is your Ikigai ❣️💚💯. Your story is very inspiring! I have witnessed God’s presence in your life and He’s taking you to greater heights.💝

  • @sarasordinarykitchen8643
    @sarasordinarykitchen8643 Год назад +1

    Dr.karenga is one of best paeditrician in mombasa❤

  • @AZoneeducationalconsultancy
    @AZoneeducationalconsultancy Год назад +40

    My daughter is epileptic to date. Reason, i was left to labour several hours after the water broke. The attending nurse recommended CS but the doctor on duty was too proud to act on the advice of a nurse.
    My advice to all ladies is that once the water breaks , if the cervix is not dilated, go for CS without wasting time.

    • @steshiahmruka1774
      @steshiahmruka1774 Год назад

      True

    • @vivianikanzuakhura9945
      @vivianikanzuakhura9945 Год назад

      Very true,me I go for CS for the sake of of my children

    • @Iam_Maureen
      @Iam_Maureen Год назад

      Very true, labour has caused us so much agony😢

    • @marynzomo7276
      @marynzomo7276 Год назад

      I could not dilate and one day just went by so I arranged for my emergency CS because weh

  • @Ndiko411
    @Ndiko411 Год назад +12

    Eli is so cute🥺🥺♥️Rose you're blessed....God never made a mistake when he gave you Eli Boy✨💯🤗 Whatever God cannot do doesn't exist ma'am...you're so blessed...am just crying 😭😭 thank you Lynn for changing people's lives and our lives too🙏if you're watching this and a follower of this channel....Never Give up 💯✨🙏

    • @mellonmanyonga-jordan791
      @mellonmanyonga-jordan791 Год назад +1

      Im pregnancy the right medical specialist is an obstetrician not a gynaecologist.

  • @marywaigwa4448
    @marywaigwa4448 Год назад +7

    Hugs to all single moms especially with special kids like Rose....it has never been easy but by God's grace we make it throught thick and thin.
    Love you Lynn❤❤❤❤ you are amzing🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤

  • @marykitaa1156
    @marykitaa1156 Год назад +1

    This is very encouraging, I too have a cerebral palsy son almost 17 years old God has been my helper I was too in darkness over the condition but I did accept I no longer see disability

  • @marymakanda6461
    @marymakanda6461 Год назад +10

    Your baby is so cute ❤️ don't mind what pple will say, this child is a blessing to you 🙏🏾

  • @maureenkea5585
    @maureenkea5585 Год назад +1

    I have a child a special need child he is epileptic, family and friends will abandon you but they forget GOD is the giver of health. I have learned to give my son the best that I can afford and I have never missed to give him epileptic meds and take him to doctor appointments. Take heart and know that u are so blessed. God knows u are the best candidate to carry HIS assignment.

  • @nosabathahappynessmzimkulu9779
    @nosabathahappynessmzimkulu9779 Год назад +4

    Rose you're a very strong and powerful woman. You've not only spoken on behalf of caregivers of children living with CP but for all caregivers of children living with disabilities. I love the idea for Ellie-boy's 7th birthday, you have a big heart.❤ Love you Lynn and your team from South Africa😘❤

  • @paulinegichuki1074
    @paulinegichuki1074 Год назад +1

    Lynn please look for or visit Doctor Shuma.
    The Joy and acceptability that doctor has done to parents especially mothers with kids with Disability is just great.
    That guy will take you step by step and until therapy becomes happy time for mama and toto.
    Long Live Doctor Shuma

  • @janetositu8079
    @janetositu8079 Год назад +4

    God😢I'm halfway listening to it but shedding my tears 😢it's well Atieno♥️God is still on the throne

  • @kagwivictoria4806
    @kagwivictoria4806 Год назад +1

    I live with my sick mom,whose her condition has led her to be bedridden for almost 3 yrs now ,It's tough,and sometimes it drains me up but I have asked God to give me strength to carry on.

  • @marykay2829
    @marykay2829 Год назад +5

    You're a warrior if you survived the storms you've been going through..#strength of a woman💪God above all🙏

  • @hildachirwa4828
    @hildachirwa4828 Год назад +1

    U are a superwoman madame I also have a boy with that condition he is 20 yrs now and I always call him Mama's boy we face a lot of challenges but Nani kama mama I always do what can makes him happy

  • @irenenjery3786
    @irenenjery3786 Год назад +17

    This episode has been so enlightening. I did not know so much can change at birth. God bless you Rose and may you be filled with more grace. We appreciate you for sharing.

  • @cynthiagachoka7736
    @cynthiagachoka7736 Год назад +2

    Thank you Lynn and Rose for this informative episode.
    All the best to the special children's parents.
    May God give them more love,energy and resources.

  • @edatatu2739
    @edatatu2739 Год назад +3

    Congratulations Rose for sharing your very touching story. Medical Trauma in this country is very real. Thanks for being so strong and using your pain to hdlp others. Thanks Lynn for hosting.

  • @hopethuo6291
    @hopethuo6291 Год назад +1

    This is really great work Rose, getting to serve Elly Boy. Keep going and also empowering other Caregivers outside here.
    Lynn Ngugi asante sana this is such an eye opener for people who think CP is all about sins and unfulfilled cultural rituals.

  • @jocelyncolasuonno2740
    @jocelyncolasuonno2740 Год назад +5

    What an inspiring story.Thanks Rose for sharing your story, it’s going to help a lot of parents with special needs children.

  • @morinekkm470
    @morinekkm470 Год назад +1

    We are in Holland we explore first.Italy baadaye...Thanks mama Elly for Good work

  • @emmykilel2933
    @emmykilel2933 Год назад +5

    Am realizing how much pain we as medical attendants; Nurses, Doctors et Al can cause. Rose please find it in your heart to forgive us. It's not easy but I thank God to see you coming out stronger and firm.May God give you the grace to nature Ellie....Such a handsome boy.Hugs mummy.God bless you even more 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏😢😥

  • @reefavor12
    @reefavor12 Год назад +1

    For a very long time congenital anomalies have remained undiagnosed and undocumented in our healthcare system. It's high time we take initiative to atleast capture the scope of the many unique yet potentially manageable cases that exists in our society. Thank you Mama Eli for using your voice to bring light to cp patients and their caregivers. To our government perhaps this was the sign you were waiting for. To Lynn thank you for using your platform to continue bringing us impactful stories.

  • @yvonnekwikiriza9107
    @yvonnekwikiriza9107 Год назад +17

    The strength this beautiful girl has is S.T.R.E.N.G.T.H..

  • @florencecayler8814
    @florencecayler8814 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you so much sister for the Story. I pray that through Elly your son, you will get peace and Joy as long as you live.
    I think this condition is 95% in Uganda

  • @edithlangat1284
    @edithlangat1284 Год назад +3

    My small sister has celebral palsy.. all you have talked about i have experienced as well,it's also been my dream to build a special unit/hospital/home for CP and also on therapy for the caregivers coz the toll it's put on my mum is too much

  • @marykay2829
    @marykay2829 Год назад +12

    At some point Rose look like Idah Odinga..very beautiful indeed..hugs

  • @rebeccabusingye9289
    @rebeccabusingye9289 Год назад +14

    You have preached to me. My son developed mental sickness at the age of 16, doctors told me that it's genetical and he will leave with it forever. I was moving dead and myself I started to develope mental issues like depression and I stopped working.
    I have learnt to accept what happened and live a happy life with my son.

  • @flozzy.Mtuweta
    @flozzy.Mtuweta Год назад +3

    How I wish my in law can watch this and see some light and move out of denial and shift blaming. Rose just like a 🌹, you an an amazing mom to Ellyboy. Lynn you are a 💎 gem, more grace to you

  • @ruthwaitherero7662
    @ruthwaitherero7662 Год назад +2

    I have a crlebral palsy nephew Ezra, born the same year with Elly
    I loved the show very informative.

  • @fundiqangule5135
    @fundiqangule5135 Год назад +5

    Good morning to you in the studio and before I hear anything I praise God for you my daughter Roseto raise this beautiful boy .It takes a strong woman of God and with integrity and love.Remember perseverance is a gift of the Spirit

  • @annngene1309
    @annngene1309 Год назад +3

    A very strong woman she is... Thanks for enlisting us on cp occurrence.❤

  • @patriciajacobs8993
    @patriciajacobs8993 Год назад +1

    Rose, God bless you and sincere thanks to Lynn for bringing Rose on your show.
    Rose, I shall be praying for you. I commend you for taking such wonderful care of Elly! I just want to remind you that there will not be CP in the home Jesus has gone to prepare for His children. I hope your story will teach onlookers a lesson about being kind to anyone who is facing the challenges of CP. Be blessed and remember there are people praying for you. Thanks again Lynn for the gentle way you conducted this interview with Rose! I am a Jamaican and spent 8 years in your wonderful country. I have many pleasant memories of Kenya.

  • @HildahWangui
    @HildahWangui Год назад +13

    This is an inspiring story ... For those parents who tend to hide there children due to disabilities... Those kids are blessing and testimonials gifts ❤

  • @gracemwangi8932
    @gracemwangi8932 Год назад +1

    Me with my 1 month baby at KNH and later died before my sight... 1 year ago it seems like yesterday 😭😭. Sorry mamaa. Remain strong for your son

  • @brendamukhongo
    @brendamukhongo Год назад +3

    Medics negligence in Kenya and Africa have caused many parents so much pain.. this issue must be adressed😢😢it is very annoying! Ive known Rose as a very close friend for over a year and i can sure Rose is such a strong and calm lady,shes such an inspiration to very kind.. Lyn thank you so much for giving her a platform to share her story🙏🙏 i miss you Rose and my Elly❤❤❤❤

  • @violainkenya1599
    @violainkenya1599 11 месяцев назад +1

    Big up to all these super mums taking care of special needs children

  • @susanwanjiru7173
    @susanwanjiru7173 Год назад +10

    The church is not able to cure illnesses but MY JESUS IS ABLE TO DO THAT.I KNOW HE IS ABLE TO CURE ALL DISEASES.

  • @a-zofcaregivingwithcarench9216

    Don't make disability look so sorrowful". Potent!💓💓💓

  • @gladodadishwavinya5826
    @gladodadishwavinya5826 Год назад +4

    Weuh i sometimes hate being a medic hearing of what people have gone through in the hands of trustees!
    My heart bleeds for all victims !

  • @margaretnabwire3718
    @margaretnabwire3718 Год назад +1

    You have a beautiful son. Very handsome. He is a survivor.

  • @flavianyende480
    @flavianyende480 Год назад +37

    This is sooo annoying.. Pure medical negligence in Africa has caused mom's lots of pain

  • @christinemuthoni3211
    @christinemuthoni3211 Год назад +2

    I concur with you as a parent with a child with special needs the moment you love them and accept them you no longer see their disabilities as a big issue God gives you extra strength to soldier on you have inspired me a great deal thank you.