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- Опубликовано: 14 авг 2024
- To say Malaika Kimani has gone through it all would be an understatement. Nothing prepared her for the day her son would ask her, “Who is my father”
On this episode of LNS, she walks Lynn Ngugi through her life in the hands of toxic bosses, family and the night that changed her life forever
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Good morning team LNN
What message do you have for Malaika Kimani?
You can support her here www.youtube.com/@MalaikaKNorway
Stay tuned for the part 2 tomorrow at 10am
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Thank you so much for watching:) We appreciate you
Imagine God will give her direction, The same God who allowed this happen, will give her grace to speak to her son
Thank you @Lynn Ngungi for giving me platform to share my story I believe someone will be encouraged 👏
Mama you are strong and never gave up on your son you are one of a kind
Indeed you are strong woman may God bless you so much with your son
@@MalaikaKNorway I envy your courage I follow you silently keep up
Malaika,I can never thank you enough for what you did for my daughter when she came to Norway..you are her second mother..God bless you always
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Angels still exist
@Eva Nyaga thank you so much 👏 I will always help others where i can
@@MalaikaKNorway hi mama I want to talk to you
@@MalaikaKNorway please how may i talk to you?
She is conquered alot, God hasn't finished yet 🙏 with you.may your son gain strength to magnify His Glory. 😊
That part of the woman who was supposed to help her abort, turning out to be dead, made me say, 'Look at God!' What a story! God wanted that boy to live, and he's destined for greatness.
Andrew Kibe says women age like milk or avocado but this lady of today is aging like fine wine. She looks better than before.
"you were not a kawoman you were a child" gotta love Lynn!❤
NEVER minimize TRUTH. The Power of truth is the beginning of HEALING.❤
Well said:)
The truth in this statement
Am alone here......truth test.....
True and when you know the truth you free
My son is 17.i got him with one night stand but he never accepted me because of our poor family background.. and he know his father.....and don't have interest with him.....he is happily married but my son every time I talk about his father he don't take attention .....❤mum we okay without that man
She is more fluent in Norwegian, than English. You can hear it from her accent and grammar. Learning a new language as an adult is not easy. Another survivor lady. You go gal. Jesus is still on the throne
Lynn i wish that womans name could be mention because she is a devil not a human and this men who live with such wemen and say nothing or do nothing god will deal with them because the house helps go through alot
Am also wondering why take someone to work for u and not give her food.
QC quality control
@@roseowino3769 I support,she should be rotting in jail.
You mean fluent in kikuyu? That's a kikuyu accent and not rorwegian
My daily fears😢😢😢 I want a very close relationship with my son 💙 😢 😪 when he is old enough ill open up to him. Ajue what happened. I work 24 7 because of him . He is my next of kin. I just love that soul with everything that I can afford. Mungu nitie nguvu
❤❤ You are doing well mama
This brought me to tears! I’m touched by how graceful Lynn always is to her guest. True compassion. Oh and the hilarious moments! My mother always treated our house helps like her own children and fed them well, nothing was denied mpaka ile mafuta tunajipaka ndio wanajipaka. Took them to sewing school in the afternoon and gave them a chance to start their own businesses and one that was with us for many years, my Mum walked her down the isle becoz that’s the only parent that lady had come to know! In my life I have reaped the good seeds my Mum planted and am very thankful to God for that. Be kind.
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Mama steve wherever she is, she is probably fasting and praying for bondages to be broken 😂😂😂😂 forgetting she is paying for her evil deeds
😂😂😂😂😂 weee hiyo ni Kali sana
And God is just amazing coz ,the Bible tells us if we humble ourselves and repent, imagine He will forgive us,,what ana amazing God we have,,and see what He has done for this gorgeous lady,wah hii dunia ina mwenyewe.
Hilarious he he
Manze alikuwa boss from hell..weuh!
Haki tena. Malipo ni hapa hapa duniani.
Malaika's story is so encouraging
I went through a gang rape at 17 and It made me go through a lot mostly with my self esteem but right now I'm 23 and so strong ...I really love myself...I know I'll tell my story someday when time is right...I have healed and ready to share.. I've never shared it to my family
More grace to you, I hope the criminals are in prison.
Sending hugs and love to you ma'
God have mercy
@@teejayangel6638 not really...I was 17 ..the police asked for my ID ..which I didn't not have. ..they wanted to involved my parent at that moment my dad and it was so shameful that I ran ...
Hugs 💕
I love the way she mixes swa, eng, and mathigio and the story is flowing....na ndege alipanda ,,,GOD is good,,, am watching till the end😂
It's sad that a grown woman who has her child can find it okay to mistreat another woman's child. She didn't have to keep the househelp if she couldn't treat her like a human being. I thank God who has always watched over this young woman. Your light will always shine no matter what.
People are hurt less out here, I can relate 💔
So sad. What an evil woman
Imagine... and we complain about saudi
Halafu ata hamlipi. Saitan
Yaani, I am so shocked....
You guys are looking lovely. Thank you to all mothers who go through the most just to see their children make it in life.
Today wanjiku I own my own company in Nairobi I work hard to feed my child I have gone through alot with my child for me my child has multiple mental problems I thank God every day
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@@gracy644 may God's Grace continue abiding with you, 🙏
I'm happy that she is telling the story while laughing, she has completely healed. Glory to Jesus!
Amen
Amen🙏🏻 😢
What exactly is funny about being raped to be smiling when telling that awful story ! Just to show you are strong or healed ! You don't have to cry but smiling is a little bit too much and look fake .
@@mariealphonse7613 you have a problem
Nothing hurts most than a 'stolen childhood trauma' Gal i bless God for Blessing you abundantly. God is the father to the fatherless
This girl is a vibe 🥰🥰 she has been through a lot but she is indeed a survivor.. waiting for part two 😊
This story is a good reason for parents never to send their children out to be servants. Smh
Sometimes they have no choice.
Especially under age
Things men do and women are asked to keep quiet or shamed for talking about rape, to their children, i am happy she said it as it is and it freed her and her son, They will both be able to move on without blaming and the son will know what women go through, silently, let this be the beginning of women opening up to this atrocities in our society done by men in suits 😢
i met here personally in 2012, she is a nice soul, very understanding, a good listener and down to earth God bless you siz i will never forget you.❤❤❤
I relate your story to mine.. I was also raped and got pregnant with twins.. My aunt forced me to this man against my wish... My plan was just to get the baby and leave it for the father.. After I got the twins, I tried to run for my life, but after 3 months Was raped again and got pregnant.. I had to stay and deliver the baby again, after 1 month nilitoroka, I had no connection with these children.. I think then I was also going through depression.. I chose to leave the babies witj the father than kill them, because I had suicidal thoughts and also thoughts of doing away with the babies.. I reunited with the boys last yr, they are 21 (twins) and 20 yrs respectively.. I am now in Europe, their dad who raped me died... They are in universities... The connection is still at 60%
hang in there may you find peace
God will perfect everything at the right time,just trust Him,,hugs dear
Don't worry. You needed to put yourself together. One day they'll understand. One step at a time.
Hugs aki. Glad you received. Bigup
Hugs mami .I wish you all luck
Have cried😭😭 and laughed in some instances. Its how she is narrating the story you can for sure tell it has been a journey😢. She's a superlady and her son is destined for greatness.
Eagerly waiting for part 2 because I already feel humbled. Never disperse anyone, all power belongs to God Almighty and he can bless anybody, totally anybody he created.
😂😂
This is so painful and I hope the kid will be gentle and will understand his mom 😢
Sending love to this amazing lady❤❤
GM team LNN
True
True😢😢😢
yaani lynn this lady is living my nightmare. I concieved my son as a result of a rape, and the older he gets the more scared I become, because yooooo he is gonna ask these questions someday. I have spoken widely about my ordeal and it has healed me. so resorted to writing letters to him, so that when he is old enough and starts asking questions I will just give him the letters to read.
Hugs
We are many out there God knows but mostly these people now the have life from that stragle
Brilliant you! A well planned answer to your child
Hugs 🤗 dear.lots of hugs 🤗
Shame on that beast of a woman who subjected you to all that, she is the one who set you in a risky environment at night, very selfish woman, I hope she watch this story and feel ashamed of herself. She will have to pay for that pain she inflicted on you and her generation.
All things work together for good for those who love the Lord and are called according His purposes. Romans 8:28
What a handsome young man yo have there. You past does not define your future, you are a strong woman
I wasn't expecting to cry. Even though I've gone through hardships, I commend her resilience and strength to fight for herself and child.
Such a heartwarming story Malaika should now go to Metha ya Kagoni Sasa atoe hiiyo story na kikuyu😂 she is very brave and open in giving details....despite all she went through...
Lynn you're a good listener ❤. You've given her time to narrate her story and I'm happy she didn't cry. Truly she has healed, be glorified God.
When I hear of housegirl abuse I get angry. Here r Kenyans screaming about Saudi Arabia when we have devils literally right here in Kenya pretending to employ housegirls. Very few girls or casuals even get paid 8k with the economy we have. And those women when you see them out there you cannot even suspect what they are capable of.
On single parents and absent dad's/mums, the biggest issue is the narratives out there. As Malaika says, in Africa we don't talk. When we talk, we talk in the negative. Today, single mothers are castigated left right and centre and laughed at whilst single dads are celebrated for being 'heros'. No one questions the situation of the single mother on how it comes about. It's generalized bs and stereotypes. We have to change the narrative and start, as she rightly says, talking to the children and telling them the truth. Further, the immediate family must also support that child. And we have to refuse the so called statistics abt psychological studies with regards to effects of single parenting on children. There are kids who have succeeded despite their backgrounds. In fact there is alot of successful young men brought up in single parent households. How come there is no statistics supporting this narrative? We also have brats and psychos who have ground up with both parents. No one says anything abt this.
Children are children despite how many parents they have. All they need is truth and love.
People die on bad marriages for fear of the trauma they might experience being called single mothers. What bs is all that?! We must reconcile and leave child abuse (including making kids think they have a gap for lack of a parent) behind. It's gone on for far too long. If a child with one parent is traumatized, what about a child with no parent? When do we plan to wake up? It's about messaging and care for children. Psychology and statistics or none. God is greater than all these science bs. That's why kids can still make it despite their backgrounds.
Meanwhile...Kenyans hospitals...only God can help us. How do you not help when the babies head is already visible on account of a bill?? Not what's wrong with us?
Saudi Arabians are not this bad.
Be the difference you want to see. Complaining will not help.
That’s why I always say to my African people White people did this to us they know who did it we are the problem before complaining about other peoples we have to start fixing our self this is happening everywhere in Africa we are so bad that’s why Africa is suffering what time is the most is a woman woman some women are very bad. Forget they have children too. what goes around comes around when does children won’t be nothing what happened? I did this. I did that why my children are suffering. What you did that’s why
The complain about white people when we get to USA or Europe everybody’s happy more than where you come from where you are born in Africa you prefer other country than your own country. What is this doesn’t sound right but is the truth😭😭😭
I know Malaika Kiwani personally... she was in south africa 🇿🇦 for sometime. We were attending the church of alleluia ministry.
Her story is so encouranging. Her journey seems unbearable but Glory to God you made it through . May God bless you more.
For real I have out loud today .her story was sad but the way she is explaining it makes me imagine those days when she says jashetani ka Mombasa 🥰🥰🙏Her story shows us how God is faithful to us&there is a God if another Chance 🙏 congratulations to this beautiful & courageous mum for winning the hard Battle 🙏🙏I tap my blessings too
That lady was jealous because she had seen a brighter future in you.
She couldn't imagine.
Thank Lynn.
And thanks brighter malaika
"For the plans I have for you are to prosper you and not to hurt you".Says the lord.
How does she tell her story without crying woi, she's definitely healed from all she went through. God is faithful. God bless her more and blessings to you our dear Lynn
I just love how real and honest she is easy ...pure happiness, Alafu lynn I love how you don't interrupt even in situations you already know what she want to say ,you give people the ability to tell their story........I enjoy those "kohona" na kuhetuka moment😅
I'm so angry on her behalf that she was enslaved by people who look like her, treated her so bad, hell her own sister mistreated her so bad and the hell she went through homelessness. May all those who have done her her wrong writhe eternally, she didn't deserve such horror. She has persevered so much survived harrowing ordeals.
I hope she has healed because her trauma is so layered. That Stockholm syndrome kept her from ever knowing front and back.
I'm happy she has found peace and is in a place where she can speak on things and laugh in places.
Her story is like no other,, imagine being abused in several compromising environments but at the same time when she gets to good environments FAVOR locates her,,it's GOD actually I feel inspired
This situation needs alot of wisdom on how to tackle it. I may not have conceived my son out of a negative situation, however, I was in a very toxic relationship that made me leave. I decided to let my son have a relationship with his dad but in a way it affects me because he keeps asking why we don't live together as before, he is 6 years and still wondering how to make him understand that I cannot reconcile with his dad ever.
People don't understand that a mother's instinct is to protect the child from harm and rejection. They just judge.....take our time, handle the situation the best way God teaches you.
I went through the same with my little girl and like you I decided to let the father have a relationship with her. I keep telling her that we both love her very much and we'll always be there for her regardless and she's a very lucky girl cos love is coming from all corners. I have also told her when she'll turn 10yrs we will sit down and talk. On her 10th birthday she brought up the topic but I told her she's still too young for the topic and let's wait when she'll turn 18yrs, she'll be big enough to handle grown up talk.
@@louiseoluoch ❤thank you 💝
@@louiseoluoch this is the route I have taken. She is 7. We agreed yesterday that when she gets to grade 8 we will talk about it. But she negotiated it to grade 4. We’ll see how it goes.
The way she is telling her painful stories with laughter...,huyu amepona kabisa kabisa😂😂😂😂
This is painful secret that many are dealing with may God's grace be sufficient team LNN👏
Sorry it JULIUS NJOGU NJUNGUNA
I have no words to describe this lady for sure. Her testimony is real and painful at the same time assurance that God is real and how you start doesn't determine your future. I hope this lady who did all to her will see this and know God is God. Your story means a lot.🙏
She is so strong,,,,,,Tena sana,,,,,,it can only be God ju hiyo life yake ni God alimpreserve for us to know God is real and no matter what We go through God is still real.Lots of love from here❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Why treat another human being (a child) worse than an animal😢 Pole sana Jane. You are such a strong and beautiful person. In and out
I am sure that woman is paying for such deeds wherever she is. Through her children and grandchildren. This is too much for sure 😭😭.
So sad.
I first heard Malaika Kimani at KDM sometimes back, I felt like she has a story to tell and only a woman would be this patient and understanding to listen up,fast forward, Lynn, thanks.
Let’s not forget Lyn’s look! She never disappoints, everything is on poin.. from the hair, dress, shoes.. you look Amazing lyn
Thank you so much:)
She is so real aki.I love her already.i can listen to her all day
She's a comedian too....amenichekeshaa sana ati "matatu zinaruka mtoto anaskia kutokea kwa mdomo"
God's plan is unstoppable! He's been so good to you Jane.
Me and my Ariana ipo siku our story will change too my baby!🙏💪💪
Hang in there ❤
It will for sure, just trust the Lord
Poverty stings oh my God I can only imagine how she struggled to make a living may God see us all through 😢. Thanks Malaika indeed you and your son are God's angels ❤thanks Lyn for giving her a platform to welcome those going through the same 😊
This was so painful n at the same time very hilarious,,,,I've never laghed this hard while crying at the same time. Jane is such a vibe.Lynn thanks fr airing this story.More love Jane
@Faith. Me too. Hilarious while crying, sounds like a movie. The hospital part and when she worked like a donkey for her other madam, was so heart breaking
So spontaneous causes one to laugh in the midst of tears
Jane sorry is not enough for what you went through,may God face continue to shine upon you. I hope your son gets to understand you, heal from within and know that God is the Father to the fatherless and the author of destiny.
QC means Quality Control.
anytime a child is involed i get emotional.. not even my own parent would touch/beat my son
I lived in Norway for years! Lovely country.. immediately I saw the mountains ( fjords) ...when the video started I recognized this gorgeous Country
From Pain to Paradise. You are a living testimony dear lady. We love you Lynn ❤❤❤❤❤
Phew Malaika! What a Gorgeous, Resilient Woman❤. More grace to her.
How she accurately travels back in time to detail her story bit by bit just shows how much she lived it all; the good, the bad and the ugly.
Heartbreaking yes, but Hilariously told ...to a wonderful listener , Lynn!
Healing looks like this to me.
Wishing you and your son the best life can offer!
If this happened in Kenya then there is no need to blame Saudi Arabia people....the woman was a witch
Everyone has a story 😢 .May wisdom,love and healing be granted in abundance
Noo hiyo ni uchawi 😢
@@nancymukami4239 uchawi gani?
This story is sad 🥲🥲 but the interviewee is very humorous 🤣🤣🤣. QC is quality control
God decided that pregnancy can't be terminated 🙏🙏your son is a miracle
Listen! Never ever eeeeeever despise anybody ,Lord jesus❤.
We are crying and laughing at the same time, your story is so educative and encouraging
How can you treat a child like that? That woman was inhumane, hopefully she would be able to watch and see what the Lord has done. May God continue strengthening you, give you peace that surpasses all the understanding. When God decides to lift you up and open doors ,no one can stop it. Mami you are blessed beyond ❤❤
That owner is crazy! Clean and paint walls every Saturday? Madness!! Thank God for your success!
This is a painful secret that a lot of women are dealing with…! Hopefully kids will be gentle to their moms 😢. Sending Hugs to all victims.
Using Jeff koinange's voice ....what a story!what a lady!what a host!what a show ..I 😭I😀I cried some more and laughed again what a life.Gods hand has been with her all through the lows as well as highs. May God keep her.
When the jigsaw parts are falling in place, you may not understand the picture until it's fully drawn. 🙏🙏🙏
She's articulate and very honest about it all.Thank you Lyn for giving her a dignified platform .God bless you 🙏
This is beyond sad. I don't quite understand the Kenyan Criminal Justice Law. I'm just wondering - there must be a way of taking that evil lady and her family to court for child, mistreatment, psychological/ physical trauma, abuse and torture. Even the rapist needs to be found and charged. Listening to this story is painful. Any lawyers watching this should reach out to this lady for legal advice etc
The Lord defends the weak and poor. Pharaoh must acknowledge the lord"s doing. The battle is over.. where will pharaoh hide except to come over for repentance or perish.
What a coincidence for me today, as I'm watching this I'm on the waiting bench , waiting for my main boss because his son (toxic ) insulted me in Saturday that I go to hell I'm piece of shit , simply because I complained of working overtime without a token yet it was a weekend, I worked almost to 4pm
Dear Winnie,
You are an incredible person❤❤Don’t let those words get to you🙏Love and light
@@LynnNgugi thank you ❤️❤️
Hugs sweetie..
Be deaf to haters
Hugs mamaa, never give attention to bullies and toxic beings, take care ❤️
Hugs hugs may God almighty give you strength you shall one day employee their kids❤
Love her, she's been through a lot. Please go to Metha ya Kagoni too. Lynn thanks for giving her the space to tell her story
What an evil woman her employer was! I hope she's watching and she regrets deeply, and I hope life paid her back a thousand fold!
I hope that woman will watch this video to see how God can remove someone from Grass to grace
Malaika's story is like a movie based on real life!
An amazing soul.
God bless you abundantly
That boy is destined for greatness
I can't wait for part 2.when God choose you and open your door believe me nobody can close it.
Lynn's show just beautiful ❤❤❤❤❤
Huwa ananifurahisha vile huongea story yake genuinely, she never sugar coat, i can spend the whole day listening to her .. Glory to God malaika
Her story is so touching for someone who has passed through it
Quality Controller(QC)☺️
@@mercymyles2020 what do you mean
Such a strong woman. Huyu ndio mwanake bomba sasa.
QC- quality control 😊. God truly does Wonders.
😢I have a similar story but I have never had the guts to share with my child because she's judgemental and although I connected her to her biological father,,he outrightly rejected her...am in a new family where she is so loved but...at times she throws tantrums at me and it hurts my heart so so much ...one day I hope to have a serious conversation with her...
Kudos sis for unpacking
May God give you the grace mami. Many hugs 🤗🤗
I was rejected too after finding out my dad 15yrs later bt now i known the reason as to why my mum never wanted me to meet my dad , hope she understands😢😢
It's unfortunate situation many single mother's have to face
Sometimes you'll not have right words to express yourself. Since she's grown up, I would advise you to use a different technique such as sharing with her the link of this show for her to watch. I may also use it for my son.
Let that one day be very very soon
Don't allow her to torment you.she is going through things that will only stop when u tell her the truth
Malaika you are a strong and beautiful woman! Your story just goes to show that despite the sinful world we live in, God is really taking care of us and indeed he has brought you from far! Most importantly, when God says he will wipe all our tears, he has for you because as you narrate your story, your joy comes through despite all the hardship you endured from childhood. QC is Quality Control and indeed it appears you were performing quality control in your job! May God continue to bless you and your son, and watch over you all your days!
This lady is a gem
God bless her and open more doors in her life
I love the humor in her story ❤ What doesn’t kill you makes you very strong girl. Kudos mrembo 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
Aaaah am sorry for this young lady. It's sad that there are women employers who are as cruel as her former employer. I pray the former employer sees this interview , learns a lesson and repents
They will repent else no peace for them.
Actually this mama Steve should be exposed. A devil woman
The best gift you can give your child is truthfulness. Reveal the truth about his conception and for his peace and closure. I believe in walking any journey with my kids aboard. At times we forget that they can tell when things are heading south.
I say, if Satan knew how many people would be encouraged and inspired by Job's story, he would have left Job alone..the flood gates of hell opened wide open on this women,but God raised up a standard for this woman..Glory to God!!
Her story is sooo sad, but when she said my skin was not getting kaputt, I had to laugh. God bless her, God bless you Lynn
As I watch this am uncontrollably crying. This is more than suffering!! Am glad that God wiped your tears. Glory to God.
Lynn, I rarely make comments but this one ,I will. I just love her story though I learnt about her thru media. She is one in a million.
Lynn the story of Jane is very touching I have cried and laughed in equal measure. I know where she comes from and kudos to her for where she has reached, her journey has been tough but the grace of God has taken her through. May she serve God and remember no situation is permanent. Eagerly waiting for part two.
My dear sister....what a story! Lost for words.
Hugs from Ug
My gut feeling is that you shall find the dad to Yr son. Yr son is a photocopy of his dad
Najua hii sio story si ya kucheka but her humor has really cracked me up. 😂😂😂😂😂😂 God bless her and bless you Lynn as well. Nothing lasts forever 🙏❤️
What a story!!!! You tear and laugh at the same time. Lord forgive my complaining... people have gone through rough life out here...no words
Malaika your journey has been a tough one full of God's Grace, your son is ordained for purpose, i have my sister who lives in Germany, she can't speak English anymore, it's not easy to live in a foreign country speaking their language and still speak fluently, you have done well, you are a star shinning to give light to those in darkness, yangu story nitaleta Lynn, from mathare ile ya kitambo haikua na choo to UK with my two boys 🛐🛐🇬🇧
My God this story 😭😭😭
Sometimes you think you went through a lot then you hear someone's else story. Powerful!
True watching and listening to her story jst left my eyes teary like how can someone go through all that alone.I can't even imagine it one bit.God have mercy on us🙏.
God when you bless me with riches let me not oppress other people 😢😢