My husband saved me as bro on his phone, abandoned me with triplets and made me go through hell |LNN

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  • Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024
  • Today, Joy is only 26 raising triplets on her own. But she loves her kids and does not regret having them in her life. However, she regrets not having listened to her gut feeling when her husband started behaving funny, saved her as a bro on his phone, and disclosed last minute he had a son in a previous relationship and that Joy had nothing to worry about.
    A year later she is raising her triplets alone. What went wrong and how exactly did her mother-in-law put her through hell?
    She gets to take us through her story on today's episode of Tales of Wanjiku where we are also privileged to be joined by Family Lawyer Susan Kagwe who will offer us some tips on how to fully navigate such situations
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  • @LynnNgugi
    @LynnNgugi  2 года назад +235

    Good morning team LNN:)
    What message do you have for Joy?
    You can reach her on +254727727265 or +254728585132
    You can also reach Susan on +254722734228 or skagwe36@gmail.com
    To share your story with us, drop an a summary of your story to info@Lnn.digital or lynn.ngugi@Lnn.digital
    Thank you so much for watching. We appreciate your love and support:)

    • @pauline.joshua_
      @pauline.joshua_ 2 года назад +13

      Lynn Ngugi one day I would like you to come at Tana River, I really would like to share my story😍

    • @rachelkennah8903
      @rachelkennah8903 2 года назад +9

      It is well sizz,,,God is for you and your little angels are your blessings,,God will always be with you ,stay strong 🎀😇🙏

    • @cathrine7583
      @cathrine7583 2 года назад +3

      What a good job for our God

    • @evelynenjoroge9222
      @evelynenjoroge9222 2 года назад +4

      Joy, God has good plans for you and babies

    • @jfgj5408
      @jfgj5408 2 года назад +11

      Mungu atakusaidia Lin I love your show mamamia ,nakungalia nikiwa italii but Mimi ni mkenya niliwachwa na 3 boys ,fast Born Ako 20 second 18 was tatu Ako Ako 15, single mothers we a bless hatimalizi vibaya,wanaume wale wanawacha watoto wao hawatabarikia ata uowe nani ,it will never be well with weekend men

  • @habbibtymonah6912
    @habbibtymonah6912 2 года назад +114

    Ile gari ya maridadi ipewe huyu dem kama unakubaliana na mm gonga like tukisonga mbele

  • @serahrandal9881
    @serahrandal9881 2 года назад +496

    Oh my cousin!!!!…Look at how far you and the triplets have come!!Look at how big they are now!!isnt God great!!!! I have just remembered the day your mum in law handed over the triplets to us(i have never seen such a cold heartless mother)…my heart seriously dropped!!i panicked!the babies were so weak and sickly!!i remember there was one who couldn’t even breathe properly but what mattered to you at that particular moment is that you had your kids back!!♥️and look at you at you now!!the babies have recovered.you are such a fighter baby girl!♥️May God watch and provide for you and the baby girls.And for you LYNN!!!You see the way you meet people at the hour of their needs..May God always meet you at the hour of your need too…And may all the tears you cry always be a loan to God!!May they always return to you as your answered prayers🙏you are a very rayer gem♥️

    • @stellamkadi
      @stellamkadi 2 года назад +14

      Serah you too are blessed for being there for her may the Lord always provide for you

    • @tripletsfoundationfpb9852
      @tripletsfoundationfpb9852 2 года назад +28

      Cuz am humbled,you have been there for me all time i needed you,You have made me to shed tears, If have reminded me of that day

    • @phyllisnjeri3318
      @phyllisnjeri3318 2 года назад +9

      You're the best cousin,,I heard her mentioned you,,,,may the Lord bless you too n never lack.

    • @serahrandal9881
      @serahrandal9881 2 года назад +2

      @@stellamkadi Amen 🙏 Amen 🙏

    • @serahrandal9881
      @serahrandal9881 2 года назад +3

      @@phyllisnjeri3318 thankyou🥰.Amen 🙏 Amen🙏

  • @faniceokutah9696
    @faniceokutah9696 2 года назад +73

    Atwoli touched this girl's life.Shout out to this man.
    I have cried 😭 .

  • @nancyokoyo8224
    @nancyokoyo8224 2 года назад +145

    The most amazing part of the story is when she said " I came back to God, I repented because I wanted to be a perfect mum to these Kids" may God come through for you always my beautiful sister

  • @kuchelireuben7145
    @kuchelireuben7145 Год назад +8

    I'm also a mother of triplets and I can say it is not easy. For the first time I couldn't stop crying while watching this. May the Almighty God continue to strengthen you and provide all you need to bring up this children. May God bless them and keep them for you. God bless you Lynn and reward you greatly for all you do. I personally love you.

  • @galdemsly2756
    @galdemsly2756 2 года назад +314

    Shout out to all the doctors and nurses and everyone who stood with joy during her delivery process

  • @jeddymoon3803
    @jeddymoon3803 2 года назад +440

    “It’s better to have nobody, than to have someone who is half there, or doesn’t want to be there.” - Angelina Jolie

  • @Kasweetie_254
    @Kasweetie_254 2 года назад +545

    SHOUT OUT TO FRANCIS ATWOLI FOR CHANGING THIS GIRL'S LIFE 🙏❤️💯

    • @Kasweetie_254
      @Kasweetie_254 2 года назад +9

      @@victoryisours siasa kando ,kwa hii story nimependa alichofanya ila kisiasa sipendi

    • @elizajacob1
      @elizajacob1 2 года назад +7

      We hava God sent people , baraka zimuandame milele

    • @victoryisours
      @victoryisours 2 года назад +3

      @@Kasweetie_254 okay am sorry but am not in Kanye so far I do watch online Kenyan p and laugh how he talks while walking with alot of anger nothing behind that

    • @Kasweetie_254
      @Kasweetie_254 2 года назад

      @@elizajacob1 🙏

    • @Kasweetie_254
      @Kasweetie_254 2 года назад

      @@victoryisours it's okay dear, si wajua political ideologies differ

  • @annem963
    @annem963 2 года назад +87

    The triplets are so cute.May God continue blessing them. Joy's tears are so infectious. Let us support her to lighten her burden and make her smile again.

  • @janechomba2113
    @janechomba2113 2 года назад +61

    I can also never forget to say that Lynn is humble and so respectful. I watch all her shows. She's a wonderful soul. Thumbs up for Lynn wetu!

  • @nazzyv8748
    @nazzyv8748 2 года назад +93

    This woman is such a humble person.i listened to how she speaks and thanking God and others. This is how God wants us to be,humble. I'm a coloured woman from South Africa,and I'm praying my fellow brothers and sister from Kenya and all the other countries, a happy and prosperous life.Thank You for sharing your testimony,it made me cry so much.I have been through many painful things and trauma,and I'm also ready to share my story in our country.I know God have beautiful plans for you sweet sweet lady.God bless you and your 👶 👶👶

    • @tabithairungu3146
      @tabithairungu3146 2 года назад +2

      Lynn and Lawyer Susan you are God sent to many... To Joy just know this... People with great destiny go through a lot of challenges because God made them Strong....... Susan thanks for this " When Abusers knows you are no longer a victim they disappear completely.... Wao that's me... Be blessed

    • @tripletsfoundationfpb9852
      @tripletsfoundationfpb9852 2 года назад +1

      Thanks

    • @inspirehealthyeating1231
      @inspirehealthyeating1231 2 года назад

      Amen God is good all the time. This story makes me cry. You are blessed and God will see you though. June from 🇬🇧

  • @gladyskungu6473
    @gladyskungu6473 2 года назад +22

    I gave birth in Year 2005 through cesarian section 2 boys they were premature 600g and 1kg my boys struggle especially the one with 600g I prayed to God and My sons survive today they are 17yrs I thank you GOD take heart your girls will grow.

  • @tabithachege1691
    @tabithachege1691 2 года назад +77

    Dear Joy, your story will give hope to many girls out there who were abandoned with only one,you've stood for 3 including yourself.You are strong and your future is bright. you will testify of God's favor. Thank you Lynn Ngugi for highlighting her case. A big shout out to Mr. Francis Atwoli who agreed to be a father to a stranger. in deed we can all fetch a blessing from this particular case.

  • @bonnybonnaya7133
    @bonnybonnaya7133 2 года назад +21

    That dude's action can even make the devil to feel ashamed.... some people will never see heaven...Despite all the challenges she went through am so glad she came out strong and I pray may God grant all her wishes..indeed she's a super woman...God bless the triplets...May their stars keep on shinning forever 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟

  • @sasukethewold3876
    @sasukethewold3876 2 года назад +26

    I declare ten years from now you will be international!flying back and forth and todays tears will have become a testimomy.Hugs hugs hugs dear girl 💑

  • @aaayyymacarena8590
    @aaayyymacarena8590 2 года назад +82

    Somebody somewhere is already regretting abandoning this blessing. Ole wake. Favour has come upon this lady. She will never lack as of today❤❤❤

    • @missmerine115
      @missmerine115 2 года назад +2

      Imagine 3beautiful babies and such a strong lady.what ashame..

  • @IamGodsfavourite6518
    @IamGodsfavourite6518 2 года назад +68

    Be a sisters keeper.As you support Baby Favor,Gods favor will follow you.As you support baby Peace,The peace of the Lord shall always be with you.As you support baby Blessing; God will shower you with his unending blessings.As you support Joy,GOD WILL FILL YOUR LIFE WITH SO MUCH JOY.
    This is a God given opportunity to attain Peace,Favor,Blessings and Joy.
    God bless you Lyn.Keep.doing the amazing job u r doing

  • @janekimemia4140
    @janekimemia4140 2 года назад +69

    So sad.I worked with Joy and i even know the husband.Always doubted that man Joy but you trully loved him.There is God above and your babies will grow.

    • @dianakibunyi
      @dianakibunyi 2 года назад +2

      Francis was a big joker,so sad this young girl fell for his traps 🪤😭.

    • @dianakibunyi
      @dianakibunyi 2 года назад +5

      I remember Francis had proposed to another girl in the north line dfac.

    • @Code_254
      @Code_254 2 года назад +3

      Francis was a big joke i tried to warn her but she was loyal aki..

    • @bancymunene3436
      @bancymunene3436 2 года назад +10

      Woiye aki, this life is interesting. If you see another girl being confused by him, slap some sense in her... (ok, no violence, just some good sense) 🙄

    • @carolinemukami3251
      @carolinemukami3251 2 года назад +3

      I remember that Francis aki nilimtusi one he came to dfac and to my inbox akiji feel Mr handsome. Joy don't give up you are adorable.

  • @kabuguteresa1225
    @kabuguteresa1225 2 года назад +34

    This girl is so smart. The babies are super cute and so is their mum. Her life ain’t stopping, it’s just about to begin and take a beautiful new turn. Be strong joy because that’s the person you are. You’d such an incredible young lady. Lynn you such a blessing to our society

  • @kagwiriakioga6490
    @kagwiriakioga6490 2 года назад +129

    Shout out to Hon. Francis Atwoli for helping this vulnerable gal and changing her life. This is what it means by transforming a whole community through a girl child.

  • @karitie98
    @karitie98 2 года назад +49

    This girl is strong... May your babies never lack in the name of our living God.

  • @paulinemaina9695
    @paulinemaina9695 2 года назад +209

    The last part made me shed most of my tears. Joy is crying from the bottom of her heart to appreciate Lynn and the lawyer for their support. Kenyans let's come through for joy and her 3 beautiful angels.

    • @tripletsfoundationfpb9852
      @tripletsfoundationfpb9852 2 года назад +5

      Thank you

    • @koipeshgasubu541
      @koipeshgasubu541 2 года назад +5

      Yes we are doing it, I couldn't sleep watching this beautiful queen, she even have no idea, such a blessing cuties with this smiling mom, I love you

    • @praizesjovial209
      @praizesjovial209 2 года назад +4

      Me too I found myself crying, indeed she is a strong woman. Joy you have encouraged me

  • @prisciliatebid2898
    @prisciliatebid2898 2 года назад +28

    The girls are so pretty and identical. Who walks away from a blessing like this. My experience is that most parents who abandon their kids end up regretting when it is too late. Because the kids end up being very successful, without them. Because they become God's project.

  • @littlemissrobyn
    @littlemissrobyn 2 года назад +11

    Joy, I am 28 years old, and I can attest to not everything that glitters is gold. I backslid as well, I was so desperate to have a family, and to have children. I was sleeping with a man 31 y.o, who was not my husband, leading me on to start a family and get married with him, only to find out I was being deceived. He was already married with kids. Sis I relate strongly to youre story. Thank you for being brave and sharing. You give me confidence to share mine as well, and to keep my head up and keep moving forward ✨️

  • @theresajulien2926
    @theresajulien2926 2 года назад +33

    Lynn I am very impressed with this marvellous job that you do. I am from St Lucia , in the Caribbean islands. I watch your shows regularly and I am inspired by them. i pray for you and your clients that God will continue to bestow abundant blessings upon you guys.
    Keep up the good work. God is using you to transform many lives. Blessings.

  • @missmugoh4862
    @missmugoh4862 2 года назад +49

    Joy needs someone to talk to the pain in her heart is too much ,being all alone in the house with only her babies, can be so overwhelming for her, God will see you through Joy,🙏 good job Lynn

  • @elizabethmuragu5125
    @elizabethmuragu5125 2 года назад +41

    Shout out to Francis Atwoli.
    And the triplets are so beautiful.

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya 2 года назад +69

    Another side of Atwoli, this girl is blessed and she has the favour of God in her🙏

  • @mitchelllydia422
    @mitchelllydia422 2 года назад +36

    Lynn you're a heaven sent to many lives out here..I couldn't hold back my tears the entire show.Thank you very much for boosting Joys self esteem and reminding her shes worthy. And thanks again by leading by a good example..Just look at how she was overwhelmed with joy when you said you'll provide 3 NAN for the kids😍😍That part was really sentimental.Be Blessed Lynn🙏🙏

    • @tripletsfoundationfpb9852
      @tripletsfoundationfpb9852 2 года назад +3

      Thank you💕

    • @puritymurugi9211
      @puritymurugi9211 2 года назад +2

      I cried my God as you have been. keep amazing this young soul joy I love you and your kids Lyn ngugi be blessed my dear . may you never lack.

    • @francismugo9588
      @francismugo9588 2 года назад +2

      It's so emotional for what she have endured in the hands of those she trusted so much,but God of another chance is here,we are here for you n the triplets nomatr wat 💪 young sis

    • @tripletsfoundationfpb9852
      @tripletsfoundationfpb9852 2 года назад +1

      @@francismugo9588 thanks

    • @HellenOkemwa-fn9tt
      @HellenOkemwa-fn9tt 11 месяцев назад +1

      JOY MY DAUGHTER GOD LOVES YOU SO MUCH IAM LISTENING TO YOUR STORY WITH SIS LYNN NGUNGI MAY THE ALMIGHTY BLESS YOU SO MUCH IAM HAPPY OUR HEAVENLY GOD LOCATED YOU AND IS CARING FOR YOU CONTINUE PRAYING HIM. SIS LYNN THANK YOU.

  • @janechomba2113
    @janechomba2113 2 года назад +4

    In my comments, i never forget this:Lynn has a golden heart. She's truly truly a blessing to this generation. I thank God for you my dear and loves you so..., much 💋 ❤. Susan to is a God's servant too apart from being a lawyer, so experienced and gifted. Thank you Susan. To joyce, wooie take heart dear you are not alone. Many have gone through the same or even worse and today by God's own Hand have a testimony. May you too have a testimony to encourage others tomorrow. 🛐 🙏. Stay strong 💪

  • @sonyia7521
    @sonyia7521 2 года назад +20

    Na unaskia wengine wakisema Hawa wakubwa hawajui Mungu, this is real example ya mtu anajua Mungu. #thankyouFrancisAtwoli.

  • @priscillawairimukenya7057
    @priscillawairimukenya7057 2 года назад +122

    I'm so sorry Joyce my dear, when you came to my church that morning I Remember I was so overwhelmed with sorrow and tears for you. When I embraced you, I knew you were facing More than I could bite. I was also looking for Lynn secretly.
    But I thank God you stayed alive for those little angels. @lynn, please help Joyce she's a kind Soul. Pastor Priscilla.

  • @naomimathenge1561
    @naomimathenge1561 2 года назад +173

    Her gratitude is on another level. The way she appreciates people who have helped her in life is golden. May God remember this beautiful lady and lift her for the sake of the triplets.

    • @tripletsfoundationfpb9852
      @tripletsfoundationfpb9852 2 года назад +3

      Thank you God bless you Naomi❤

    • @puritymurugi9211
      @puritymurugi9211 2 года назад +5

      true many people forget . joy is good she remembers everything

    • @janenyabate4840
      @janenyabate4840 2 года назад +2

      Joy youre such awonderful lady God bless you with your babies now you've learned that is he was unable to keep his first woman of his son,usirudi nyuma let him alone naMamake mwenye anamspoil atakufa bila mke.

    • @tripletsfoundationfpb9852
      @tripletsfoundationfpb9852 2 года назад

      @@janenyabate4840 sure

  • @winniecyrus1058
    @winniecyrus1058 2 года назад +59

    Honestly as this video was beginning.. I thought to myself, 'Joyce is so beautiful' and as I continued listening to her.. I then found out how beautiful her heart is. Joy is definitely going places.. God's got you sis🙏🏾

  • @eunicewangeci2380
    @eunicewangeci2380 2 года назад +20

    As a mum of one, i cannt even begin to imagine how strong this woman is. She is soo strong and may God continue blessing her and her kids. May this man feel ashamed. He was somewhere living his life while the lady suffered. Men who escape responsibilities are cowards. Big cowards!!

    • @sylviemorgan9770
      @sylviemorgan9770 2 года назад +1

      In my country,we call them,'wutless' (worthless)..

    • @eunicewaltonhewitt3679
      @eunicewaltonhewitt3679 Год назад

      Joy, God has your entire life in his hands. Be strong for you ànd your triplets. He promised to never leave you nor forsake you. You are in my prayers Joy. Thanks to Lynn and Susan and the Foundation

  • @gracekrueger4161
    @gracekrueger4161 2 года назад +51

    Joy speaking out is part of your healing process. Thank you for sharing your story with us. We shall stand with you and support you and your babies 👶.

  • @irenemwangi2369
    @irenemwangi2369 2 года назад +32

    I hv cried my heart out. She is a good mum with beautiful kids. God never sleeps nor slumbers..........Joy you will prosper beyond your imagination, your kids will be great ladies in this nation in your lifetime

  • @sonyia7521
    @sonyia7521 2 года назад +120

    If only 100k of Lynn subscribers can give just 100bob each, Joy will get 10m and she can buy a plot in a good neighbourhood, build a 3 bedroom house for herself n girls and still remain with cash she can start a hotel/eatery to cater for her kids without stress. Why don't we do it woiye?

  • @wanyuakenyuki7318
    @wanyuakenyuki7318 2 года назад +8

    I was abused when I was young by my husband and after God opened my eyes he left me with my children to suffer but today my dreams come true I am blessed my children are well educated and they have good life so be strong

  • @TAMARAS_FAMILY
    @TAMARAS_FAMILY 2 года назад +16

    Shout out to her mom, Atwoli, the uncle the nurses and the white guy at Meru slopes for changing Joy's life. Your life will be filled with joy,favour blessings and peace as your generation 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💖💖💖💖💖

  • @wairimuwaihwa2475
    @wairimuwaihwa2475 2 года назад +27

    This is one strong woman living in this difficulties present times.
    No one like her .. real strength/power of a woman!💪💪💪

  • @healthproductskenya
    @healthproductskenya 2 года назад +57

    The triplets are adorable😍😍😍. So sorry for what she went through. She is blessed. Aki nimelia pia. Don't let go of your babies.

  • @jacquelineanyango7871
    @jacquelineanyango7871 2 года назад +52

    Your name Lynn has become a part of my household, your back to back episodes changes our lives directly or indirectly and you're bringing hope to the society and I tell you the Wanjikus feels covered, no vex, Susan talking legality to Joy is an eye opener to those who didn't know that by the so called fiance of Joy trying to call her on phone is kind of negotiations that can be used against her? That got me and I said, aah! You're right, big ups to team LNN.

  • @Timnah10
    @Timnah10 2 года назад +4

    I also passed through this 2016 when I got my firstborn, I was alone in a small room, I used my savings zikaisha, I had no hope, 2016-2019 but God is faithful my husband came back 2019 December nlimsamehe now we hv a son, some hardships we go through are there to strengthen us. It's so painful but there is nothing we can do.

  • @faithwanjiru7393
    @faithwanjiru7393 2 года назад +30

    This story is one of a kind ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ sending hugs to this young lady and may her babies keep growing in Grace ❣️ and hey Lynn,thank you for this wonderful thing you are doing, it's a learning platform for sure 😊 and even though am a student I honestly want to meet Joy and give her the little I can ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️..Joy you are beautiful, courageous and a strong lady,as time goes by I know the pain will go away and if you haven't seen a therapy I will consider this for you and see how I can help you.For Lynn,I love you aki ❤️😊 hoping to meet you some day

    • @josephinewandera1609
      @josephinewandera1609 2 года назад

      Joy you are a strong woman may God give you grace to nurture those triplicates and also strength it is not an easy task

  • @annatieno9523
    @annatieno9523 2 года назад +203

    Before I watch whole show the triplets are so cute.

  • @Ms_Ramtu
    @Ms_Ramtu 2 года назад +151

    If you've never seen anyone laugh in pain... this is a prime example. Being saved as bro must've been hurtful 💔 she is heartbroken.

  • @estherb4826
    @estherb4826 2 года назад +16

    You out there who has made this young girl shed so much tears. Your day is coming.

  • @PottersMind4Teens2023
    @PottersMind4Teens2023 2 года назад +6

    This is what God saved when I was 20years. Now I am 33. I can relate. I really thank God. I cant stop crying. Its heavy. She can still believe and live again. She is the best thing that has ever happened on this show. She is a superwoman

  • @janemuthoni7745
    @janemuthoni7745 2 года назад +10

    I have literally cried... I pray that God lifts this joyful soul once more so she can take care of her 3 cute angels. She is too young to have gone through what she has gone through but this will only make her more stronger for her children.

    • @amaanisierra156
      @amaanisierra156 2 года назад +1

      Joy keep detamined you will win you are great girl mother woman those hero's in Bible passed alot you are a hero

  • @asenathotochi8561
    @asenathotochi8561 2 года назад +8

    There nothing scary in a union than wanting to move on when kids are involved, the issue of custody, being scared raising kids separately, don't say the issue of security because I'm in the same state, can't count how many times i look at a knife in the kitchen and feel like if I'm not alive it will be much better, again the thought of suicide is a sin, how my son will be told I just gave up because things didn't work out.. 5 months ago a lady killed herself because of the same issue and as much people judge I know what was in her mind that time because I have felt it, only that I manage because I have people I can talk to.. To Joy I know the tears are tears of joy because you know what can happen if we come together as a family, wonders happen when we choose unity.... Thanks Lynn for hugging Joy for me, I was crying with her and you reaching out to her for that hug I was relieved ❤️

  • @Nancymutahi66
    @Nancymutahi66 2 года назад +54

    I have cried together with joy...those kids are a blessings. They will one day be honoured in different nations and be proud of their mum

  • @doreenmwenda939
    @doreenmwenda939 2 года назад +62

    How do you enter in a relationship with no intentions to love that person? Protection in Love doesn't only apply physically but emotionally too

    • @theresaelizabethelijah117
      @theresaelizabethelijah117 2 года назад

      Only Narcissist do that they always need a punching bag it's time to educate people especialy women about this Personal disorder (narcissism)

  • @jenniferkinyanjui6330
    @jenniferkinyanjui6330 2 года назад +7

    Aki, hapo when she says ' the guy could somewhat mishandle her sexually to the point she cud'nt hold urine 🙆‍♀️& could have severe backaches '🤦🏿‍♀️
    nimehisi uchungu uchungu sana.
    I'll pray for your healing mrembo

  • @dorothymboga543
    @dorothymboga543 2 года назад +10

    Abuser's work well when they still know you're a victim " what a powerful message 💕💕

    • @chepindichepindi3328
      @chepindichepindi3328 Год назад

      This is so true my ex diminished and dissappeared when I was not his victim anymore.

  • @carolyneo.3007
    @carolyneo.3007 2 года назад +122

    I am a twin mum, raising two kids is not a joke, I can't imagine what you are going through with three. Your story touched me from one mum to the other. I will be in touch!

    • @livelaughlove369
      @livelaughlove369 2 года назад +1

      ❤️

    • @carolwangare3680
      @carolwangare3680 2 года назад +3

      Such a painful story....I hope joy will get lots of counselling...that guy is a narcist and will play with her psychology...but above all she has a very bright future...no plans against her shall prevail....she shall testify again

  • @Jackie-lm2sc
    @Jackie-lm2sc 2 года назад +22

    Atwoli aki wewe Mungu azidi kukubariki zaidi

  • @beautiful4358
    @beautiful4358 2 года назад +93

    This men can surprise someone,they abandon their biological Children and later take care of Children that are not theirs.
    SHAME ON ALL MEN WHO LET THEIR BIOLOGICAL CHILDREN SUFFER AND ARE READY TO SUPPORT OTHER KIDS.

    • @r.q5194
      @r.q5194 2 года назад +3

      Very true I saw the same with my sister ex husband who abandoned her with their 3kids only to take care of his girlfriend's kid

    • @evasavai956
      @evasavai956 2 года назад +1

      Mipango ya Kandi watuliwa na kunguni haeatakua na amani

    • @marydeclan2546
      @marydeclan2546 2 года назад +1

      Shame on them

    • @salmanh9778
      @salmanh9778 2 года назад +1

      @@r.q5194 me ukweli sijuwi kama ni uchawi

    • @letisiakarimi9346
      @letisiakarimi9346 2 года назад +1

      Aki! So shameful

  • @esthereffiong3312
    @esthereffiong3312 2 года назад +43

    Aunty Lynn Ngugi I've been weeping for hours as I watch this show. Am a twin, base on the story my mom often tells me about the pains involves after delivery (especially for the first children as a new mother) from serious back pains to lost of breasts milk. Lynn, I weep because all I've heard this lady talk about come into play in my mind. Am really broken for her.
    To you my sweetheart JOYCE...... You're a strong woman. Watching you in the show, you're smart. You're intelligent. You can go to Canada. You can be the best mom ever. Yes you can.
    And am grateful for you speaking out.
    I love you and I'll be praying for you.

    • @tripletsfoundationfpb9852
      @tripletsfoundationfpb9852 2 года назад +3

      Amen❤This is so sweet of me to read blessings gal

    • @margaretodhiambo3240
      @margaretodhiambo3240 2 года назад +4

      Thanks lawyer Susan, I wish more young ladies would listen to you!

    • @jacintamuthoni4249
      @jacintamuthoni4249 2 года назад

      Thank u Susan your advice is so good may she live to remember you n make her decision

    • @user-cz9go7qb2q
      @user-cz9go7qb2q 4 месяца назад

      God will walk with you joy he will provide for those angels

  • @juliewambui3647
    @juliewambui3647 2 года назад +8

    What a story…it’s well Joy those little angels are your life keep strong girl. Out of experience I don’t mind buying a container or two for the little girls. Tears of a Sweet Mum. Trust me one day you’ll look back and smile . Please Lord let this little angels be a living testimony.

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya 2 года назад +118

    The princesses are soo cute😍❤️May God give them good health 💜❤️Aunt Terry God bless you 🙏

  • @shikowarui6390
    @shikowarui6390 2 года назад +102

    Big up Atwoli..you're a great man 👏👏

  • @Kasweetie_254
    @Kasweetie_254 2 года назад +39

    Mother in law from hell, they'll regret their deeds one day with her son.

  • @najjembaanjelina1564
    @najjembaanjelina1564 2 года назад +2

    I have gone through pain that I would not want to wish any woman ,at times I wake up weak other days strong ,all I keep telling myself is that if God has let me see another day is a miracle itself, sleeping and waking up is a miracle itself.God is just and faithful ,in His own timing He will make it happen,His mercy is new each every day just like new morning dew.I always lift women in pain to God to heal the deep wounds that no man on earth can heal,He heals and binds the broken spirit.Soak yourself in the love of God.He loves you Soo much and He will carry you through this.Fear not ,His hand not too short to save.He is never late.He.loves us all but let learn from our mistakes and going forward let us be lead by His spirit but not flesh.Flesh is slow painful death ,His spirit is life.Hugs Joy ,you are loved and beautiful Wonder God made daughter of Zion You are a daughter of a King.

  • @mohammedallah8083
    @mohammedallah8083 2 года назад +17

    That man will never know peace in his life, unless a miracle happens.
    Stay strong my sister, for your kids and those who care about you.

    • @josephineohalo7321
      @josephineohalo7321 2 года назад

      There is no miracle for the wicked but only pain

    • @mohammedallah8083
      @mohammedallah8083 2 года назад

      @@josephineohalo7321 I believe in Grace that's without bounds to save us from ourselves. An encounter with this grace causes miracles. Unless the miracle happens, he will never know peace.

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya 2 года назад +100

    Dear Joy, abandonment is a wound that never heal but an abandoned child never forgets.
    May God heal your heart♥️you are a queen

    • @moniwawarikuo2253
      @moniwawarikuo2253 2 года назад

      True uhave hit well

    • @blessedmama5367
      @blessedmama5367 2 года назад +2

      a child will never know that it’s abandoned ( rejected) unless the adults tells them .

    • @rachaelopelaawuor9889
      @rachaelopelaawuor9889 2 года назад +1

      Amen

    • @shikuliz4134
      @shikuliz4134 2 года назад

      My exact case .. very confusing and stressing ..plus dealing with narcissist drains you mentally ..I pray she win and stand firm.

    • @sharon-gathiru
      @sharon-gathiru 2 года назад +1

      @@blessedmama5367 That's not true

  • @doreenmwenda939
    @doreenmwenda939 2 года назад +117

    Those who don't know the true value of LOYALTY can never appreciate the cost of betrayal

  • @sleeprelaxation8431
    @sleeprelaxation8431 2 года назад +49

    I don't know who needs to hear this; I walked out of two engagements, saw the signs, and knew I was about to walk into hell. I was frustrated and broken. But I had hoped for a better man, not a perfect man; I am not perfect. I met my third, and he was all that I prayed for; we are married. It is easy to walk out before you take the vows. Do it.

    • @jenniferkinyanjui6330
      @jenniferkinyanjui6330 2 года назад +1

      Weuh!
      Better late than sorry 👍

    • @paulkirongosi939
      @paulkirongosi939 2 года назад +1

      Waaw, good that you landed a better man 💪😅

    • @wanjiru93
      @wanjiru93 2 года назад +3

      Exactly..its best to end an engagement than a marriage. I too ended an engagement after being treated unfairly.

    • @wambuinderitu2461
      @wambuinderitu2461 2 года назад +2

      Very true

  • @annkibe6756
    @annkibe6756 2 года назад +8

    That guy will pay dearly...those tears of this beautiful mother are not in vain...Karma is at work...

    • @Light-g7w
      @Light-g7w 5 месяцев назад

      Rather God will help him

    • @Light-g7w
      @Light-g7w 5 месяцев назад

      God is a good God... Those children belongs to God and he does all for his glory 😊

  • @margaretboyce2673
    @margaretboyce2673 2 года назад +1

    I at 1:23:12 minutes into and I didn't dare stop listening to the PAIN OF AND IN THIS YOUNG BEAUTIFUL LADY and what she has gone through because of this Senseless young man that wants to Fool and Control her 💔 😪 😔.
    Thank God in Transforming you! God knows his Children and how far you go in your Struggles.
    You are much Stronger than when you Began! Sorry that you had to Bear such an Heavy Cross and Despite the Pain! Struggles! Abuse and the wickedness of his mother, when time comes you will see They Salvation, cause they will pay..
    One thing! Don't ever let him get into your head and heart EVER again.
    You are so BEAUTIFUL and Intelligent and I pray God will Continue to Bless your Journey and His Hands Are Upon YOU and that's why you are able to Share your story to help others 🙏 ❤..
    Blessings Lynn and Team as always 🙏 ❤. You are an Angel 😇.

  • @rachaelopelaawuor9889
    @rachaelopelaawuor9889 2 года назад +11

    Destiny can be delayed but can never be denied may God restore back everything that she lost. May Jehovah adonai give you more joy in ur heart you are favoured daughter of the most high together with the amazing angles be strong for the gals and all shall be well to Lyne may God continue uplifting u for touching peoples life always for you are blessed in disguise jaber with your big heart and plat form you create for the voiceless baraka tele

    • @gracekinya6651
      @gracekinya6651 2 года назад

      Amen

    • @warigiapurity8252
      @warigiapurity8252 2 года назад

      Thank you Lynn for coming through for Joy. I love the way this program has impacted peoples lifes. at her life is changing. From today joy is coming back to Joy .All will be well. Blessings.

  • @getrudekarani8151
    @getrudekarani8151 2 года назад +66

    she's so strong woman ♥️she has gorgeous babies Lynn thank you for the platform and peaceful election to fellow Kenyan

    • @wanjirunjiru3083
      @wanjirunjiru3083 2 года назад

      I love here kabisa she is such a sweet baby girl

    • @philokimario9210
      @philokimario9210 2 года назад

      Hello Joy Nipo Tanzania pole sana kwa shida ulizopata.lakini mshukuru Mungu kwa hao watoto.nitakuombea Mungu atakufungulia mlango wa baraka watakuwa na afya njema na wewe utapata kazi.wewe ni jasiri.samehe huyo mwenye watoto na rudi kusali na endelea kumwamini Mungu.huyo kijana acha mahusiano ya kimwili naye kabisa .Mungu atakupa mume mwema atokaye kwake.omba Mungu akupe amani,acha kulia .jipende unaweza na maisha yako yatarudi upya.Barikiwa sana na Bwana Yesu.masimulizi yamegusa moyo.

  • @lizmu-thefavoured9983
    @lizmu-thefavoured9983 2 года назад +29

    A strong woman here.Dealing with such is difficult.Hugs mommie ed rest assured your destiny is great

  • @giftytengey2066
    @giftytengey2066 2 года назад +13

    Joy is so soft spoken. May God's saving grace abound in your life. Lynn, thanks for this wonderful interview. I am Ghanaian, I do not understand your language but I have been able to follow the story line.

  • @jolinekendi3999
    @jolinekendi3999 2 года назад +4

    Am also called Joy like you and am raising triplets alone too.myn are also gals.dont worry dea God has a big reason...up to date have never seen any help from my baby daddy and am still taking care of them alone.if not my mum I can't be alive.God bless you mum u live long....we are now in Grade 2 .God above all

  • @sylviaagutu2528
    @sylviaagutu2528 2 года назад +34

    To all men who mistreat a woman who gave birth to their children,,who listen to their mothers and allow their mothers to control them ,,men who neglect their responsibilities,may you never find peace.God bless you and your children

  • @winfredrhoda408
    @winfredrhoda408 2 года назад +13

    There's ALWAYS a GOOD side of a person
    May God Bless Francis Atwoli Mightily where he is
    May He Guard your steps papah

  • @maggynjeru4414
    @maggynjeru4414 2 года назад +11

    Thank you Francis Atwoli for coming through for this girl. God bless you!

  • @njambikiburio7836
    @njambikiburio7836 2 года назад +3

    Oh Joy,
    Dry your tears.God has heard you and is changing your story for the best.Better is not good enough.The best has just began.Wake up each morning and speak to your children and remind them that they are great children,with a great destiny and wonderful future.
    Kenyans let’s give what we can to Joy and her babies.

  • @elenaelena03
    @elenaelena03 Год назад +6

    Strength of a woman 💪
    What women go through only God strengthens us.

  • @charity4908
    @charity4908 2 года назад +16

    ...this is what life is about...just go for it without fear as long as you are not doing wicked things...brave young lady by approaching Mr Atwoli for help. 👏👏

  • @margaretmbae2681
    @margaretmbae2681 2 года назад +40

    Thanks Lynn for bringing this lawyer to clarify these relationships Kenyans are calling 'marriages' 🤦

    • @melankoli1225
      @melankoli1225 2 года назад +8

      Even in marriages men still walk out any time n they still cheat n theirs nothing you can do about it. That ring is nothing.

    • @wambuitracy4487
      @wambuitracy4487 2 года назад +5

      @@melankoli1225 true!!

    • @carolinefinna4033
      @carolinefinna4033 2 года назад +2

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂dark marriages

  • @TheFrancesZachary
    @TheFrancesZachary 2 года назад +72

    ladies, has it ever occurred to us that God is not happy with what is happening in society... Some men get a lot of satisfaction with dumping different women after giving them children. Let us understand that we have to go back to the drawing board. No getting pregnant unless officially married. If the marriage breaks down, you can follow the court system for maintenance, and even if that is difficult, you have done things legally. There are so many young people who are wounded, they tell us that they wish they knew who their fathers were. Lets agree that women are amazing and strong, but we must not be used to just produce children for men who are dumping us. Lets accept that we too as women were foolish to fall for these bad men.

    • @salmanh9778
      @salmanh9778 2 года назад +1

      👏👏👏👏👏🥳

    • @catem8752
      @catem8752 2 года назад +20

      Marriage will not save you from a bad relationship! How many women were treated badly even after waiting for marriage to have sex, how many have been beaten, wounded and even killed, despite going the legal way of marriage? Most women are not foolish for falling for bad men, we've been trained to see the good in people, we are pressured to marry and have children - and these are often the results.
      However, if we trained women prioritize themselves, to love themselves selfishly, and to want the best for themselves with or without men, we'd avoid most cases like these.

    • @princizzraven2000
      @princizzraven2000 2 года назад +4

      I agree. May we women seek to love ourselves wholly every flaw and insecurity before we allow any man to experience our sacredness. Cultivate a foundation with him, marry, and then welcome children into the love that’s been cultivated. This is my prayer for us all and may those of us who have been heartbroken may true healing and peace be our portion.

    • @shikuliz4134
      @shikuliz4134 2 года назад

      👏👏👏

    • @froline5209
      @froline5209 2 года назад

      Very true

  • @milliejackie8740
    @milliejackie8740 Год назад +4

    I love Susan! Very solid woman,full of genuine advises as a woman and a lawyer.

  • @Timnah10
    @Timnah10 2 года назад +2

    Thank God your mother was there for you, my own mum went silent after I got pregnant, I even never thought of her, nlipatwa na ulcers, I was crying day and night, how I and my daughter savived is only God she is now 6 yrs, Glory be to be to God alone 🙏

  • @hanifahmulindwa6899
    @hanifahmulindwa6899 2 года назад +16

    Much salutes and much love to my mother in law from kiambu she treated with all respect am planning to make a very big surprise to her

  • @maishbabadre
    @maishbabadre 2 года назад +6

    Mwea Mission Hospital,The Best... I don't know why.. But I can foresee a very big testimony from Joy in the near future. She should see something in her,That grace and favor that made Francis Atwoli to embrace her,is the same one that's leading her and the daughters to their great destiny. She's a blessed Lady. A smooth Sea never made a Skilled sailor.

  • @milcahngaruiya
    @milcahngaruiya 2 года назад +13

    I am so worried i know these couple joy and frank ....frank where you are aki mungu halali, i know how you guys loved each other gosh men why do you do this aki to women we go thru hell but God fight our battles.frank if you happen to read my comment ujue hutawai pata amani ...i remember innocent joyce loved you over men who wanted her in KAF joy was a young gal full of life i remember how you manipulated her shame on you ...na ujue sio mguu ulimkata ni baraka ulimuachia ....

    • @benny8900
      @benny8900 2 года назад

      This is too bad honestly with the sacrifices that she made for the guy at our workplace she doesn't deserve all these.

    • @faithkimathi4068
      @faithkimathi4068 2 года назад

      @Milcah Nharuiya, it is well, we thank God that Joy is out of his life now.

    • @mercygakuo6002
      @mercygakuo6002 2 года назад

      May God punish him

  • @yvonneoburu2866
    @yvonneoburu2866 2 года назад +12

    Honestly the things some men make young women go through, my heart bleeds on those tears. The worst may come Joy, you're so strong, you really need God in the journey. @ Lynn, the worst here is how now people treat one as a single mother, especially men. Some will even feel you only deserve to be a second or even third wife. My prayers goes to Joy, when the going gets tough she will keep discovering how gracious God is, cant wait to hear her testimony

  • @_shirley__
    @_shirley__ 2 года назад +10

    I'm so happy to have watched this episode...I've learned so much from it..especially from the lawyer...✨️
    And for Joy....all will be well...continue being strong for your babies ..God is going to make everything beautiful at His own time..💕 my prayers are with you and your family.
    And to Lynn, a big thank you for bringing us this and many more stories ....you're a blessing ❤️

  • @global_sally.2011
    @global_sally.2011 2 года назад +8

    Am so mad with this our brothers that are dropping children everywhere without minding the damage and trauma they are causing in the society. Most ladies are single mother because someone just decided to walk away from responsibility. If you have a brother like that please talk to them we can't continue like this.joy is a beautiful and brave lady that God saved but how many are like joy???and the same men are everywhere planting seeds ......

    • @global_sally.2011
      @global_sally.2011 2 года назад

      @Han Shi hehehe really 😅 I am happy say hello to my namesake.

  • @jenniferkamonjo7126
    @jenniferkamonjo7126 2 года назад +4

    That lawyer is one of a kind.. I have learnt a lot..
    To Joy , I believe from whichever situation you are in or you find yourself in.. always take a positive step.
    To lyn you are a blessing.. I believe you are God sent. I am In your fan base.

  • @joankaree9619
    @joankaree9619 2 года назад +13

    Shout out to this beautiful lady, she is a strong woman and I pray all goes well in her life and the babies. May God come through for you babygal. You are truly blessed

  • @sophiaamwayi294
    @sophiaamwayi294 Год назад +4

    Joy is strong taking care of triplets is no joke am proud of her. Wish I was the grandma to the joys of bundle. Ningewaspoil they are soooo beautiful

  • @carolinemiriti4410
    @carolinemiriti4410 2 года назад +1

    Joy you are a strong,brave and a beautiful mum to beautiful kids..... know that no matter what you have gone through from today henceforth your life and that of your kids will be full of joy, just like your name.......hugs dear..... thanks Lynn for allowing God to use you to impact lives....May your cup keep overflowing always....

  • @verahbenson
    @verahbenson 2 года назад +51

    Joy, you are a joy to the world...may Peace, Favour and Blessings follow you just like the names of your triplets...

  • @leilanijabs2892
    @leilanijabs2892 2 года назад +39

    I'm a multiple mum too and I feel you. Having preterm babies and all the stress you went through, Many Many Hugs to you and your beautiful babies

    • @anneemmanuel4547
      @anneemmanuel4547 2 года назад +2

      Hugs to Joy and thanks Lynn and the lawyer for supporting this lady...Joy might be experiencing postpartum depression and could benefit by seeking medical treatment ❤️🙏

    • @tripletsfoundationfpb9852
      @tripletsfoundationfpb9852 2 года назад +2

      Thanks a lot

  • @chengenemhara9205
    @chengenemhara9205 2 года назад +12

    I feel like giving you a big hug my sister, God said he will never forsake you, he is there for you all the way. I love you 💗

  • @BARAKAGLOBALMEDIA
    @BARAKAGLOBALMEDIA 2 года назад +2

    Thanks Lynn for grounding her and reminding her she is not a fool. Words have power and if you believe in negative words they become curses. Never accept negative words spoken against you but always speak a blessing instead to nullify them