I stayed in an abusive marriage for years, could not find the strength to walk out but I finally did

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  • Опубликовано: 3 янв 2025

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  • @CarolineMbithiDey
    @CarolineMbithiDey Год назад +311

    Thanks Lynn and Your Amazing Team💕 for Providing a Safe Space to Share My Story and i pray it Empowers snd Impacts Others 💕

    • @JulzMuya
      @JulzMuya Год назад +8

      Hey sis!!❤❤❤ I can't wait to watch this episode my dear. Just logged on after my morning devotion and I strongly belive this story will change lives and give hope to those who want to rebuild and have a second chance at love. Lots of love sis ❤❤❤.

    • @miss60kiss
      @miss60kiss Год назад +4

      Thank you so much for sharing ❤

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  Год назад +7

      More Grace to you❤❤❤

    • @majamaja8136
      @majamaja8136 Год назад +12

      You are telling a story of many who haven't yet found their voices, thank you.

    • @NancyMwangi-hy2cy
      @NancyMwangi-hy2cy Год назад +7

      At Carol I just can't enough of your story because it's sounds like paste and copy of my love story. To God be the Glory for another chance. Xoxo to Lynn and you. Love from Delaware 🇺🇸 🌎

  • @jackiewacuka
    @jackiewacuka Год назад +135

    I shed a tear when Charles said "...I want to apologize for the Trauma and the pain you've been through. Even though it wasn't done by me, I think it's appropriate for someone to say sorry...". This is truly healing.

    • @CHRIST-f7g
      @CHRIST-f7g Год назад +2

      Yes, its really an important thing to do , just to bring healing .

    • @winnieawuor9129
      @winnieawuor9129 Год назад +3

      There aren't so many Charles out here.Girl, you are blessed!

    • @lauralaurenwamucii3542
      @lauralaurenwamucii3542 11 месяцев назад +4

      This really got me crying 😢 too. Such a loving man, I didn't know they exist

  • @shirleysmith3954
    @shirleysmith3954 Год назад +149

    I lost everything being in a mental abusive marriage for 43 years and I lost everything during the marriage. It
    effected my life and my children. I have found an Amazing Loving Nigerian man now for 6 years. We have met challenges because I am African American Black strong woman. I always asked God to send me a Godly man who will love me and be my faithful Hubby. We put God first in everything we do. God’s Grace and mercy has been the anchor for us.🙏🏾🇺🇸

    • @TalkOfGracePodcast
      @TalkOfGracePodcast Год назад +3

      Aawwww… that’s so sweet. More blessings upon y’all 😇

    • @anneanne893
      @anneanne893 Год назад +4

      Wow so good to hear. I was in same situation and pray someone nice comes my way.

    • @orokokemunto4769
      @orokokemunto4769 Год назад +2

      More years of happiness 🎉

    • @EdnaMwende-zf4xf
      @EdnaMwende-zf4xf Год назад +1

      More blessing ma grea to hear❤

    • @wanguigrace2957
      @wanguigrace2957 Год назад +1

      Congratulations my dear.🎉🎉 may God protect your union ❤

  • @millyadhiambo238
    @millyadhiambo238 Год назад +31

    Wooow,this lady describes my life with my ex,for like 16yrs ,today am happily marriage more than 15yrs,God is a God of 2nd chance

  • @faithfaith.2945
    @faithfaith.2945 Год назад +354

    The ones that narrate these stories in English are the ones that have really made this channel international

    • @motivator1992.
      @motivator1992. Год назад +16

      True coz I don't miss any and am Ugandan. All ladies she brings really are so beautiful but passing through alot which anyway makes them stronger 😢😢😢

    • @shee-w2s
      @shee-w2s Год назад +14

      I am so encouraged that there are men who can love us despite òur past
      Amen

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Год назад +39

      Thanks for listening to my story i pray that you’re encouraged

    • @matts6894
      @matts6894 Год назад

      ​@@WILMA_she lives in Tx

    • @genevieveokyere2124
      @genevieveokyere2124 Год назад +3

      So true, I'm in Ghana 🇬🇭. Watch Lynn's shows all the time. God bless you Caroline and Lynn. This is true Ministry.

  • @johnmaelfu1360
    @johnmaelfu1360 Год назад +110

    Ladies...men lie to get you in the box..stop being carried away by an illusion 'he loves me'..focus on who he is..at personal level

  • @JENNIFERNJAMBI
    @JENNIFERNJAMBI Год назад +34

    I'm 19 with two kids ,the father is a narcissist and, the emotional abuse I have gone through in my relationship with him has caused me suffer from depersonalization, anxiety and depression but currently I'm trying to get my self together at my parents place , don't let anything hinder you from walking out of a toxic relationship or marriage everyone deserves to be happy ❤

    • @Nia-Kenia
      @Nia-Kenia Год назад

      ‘Depersonalisation’! So so true ❤

    • @sharonmicheni2018
      @sharonmicheni2018 Год назад +2

      All the best. All will be well sooner than you think

  • @carolmathenge3
    @carolmathenge3 Год назад +41

    As a domestic violence survivor, I totally relate to Caroline's experiences. It's amazing that we are both Carolines that have survived much and love God. Am glad she gave you your flowers Lynn, because you deserve them and much more. Thank you for Hosting my namesake. And YES LYNN!!! God has just begun His work through You. Thank You Caroline for sharing your story and am also trusting God for a man that loves Him too and can wait untill marriage. Shalom.

    • @pmgpmg7717
      @pmgpmg7717 5 месяцев назад

      I like that purpose healing and work. Blessings

  • @margaretgithu-hj1il
    @margaretgithu-hj1il Год назад +22

    Stayed mine 16yrs now single raising 3kids but i still believe in marriage works n i know one ntapata mr right

    • @polinekilengelu9163
      @polinekilengelu9163 Год назад

      You’re not alone me too, I’m the same journey….raising two beautiful girls .God will see us through ❤

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Год назад

      Thanks for taking the time to watch I pray Your Boaz will find you and your beautiful children 💕

  • @imeldamarcos335
    @imeldamarcos335 Год назад +67

    I've watched this episode and I've seen myself in it all through,from dating the wrong person,to your mum having an itch about the partner,the emotional abuse,healing and finally giving myself a second chance to love. Everything was like she was talking about me. Even though i don't have a ring on my finger yet,im hoping for the best with the person we trying at the moment. May i have an happy ending like Carol and i tap that in Jesus name.

  • @pastormungaianne2039
    @pastormungaianne2039 Год назад +28

    Lynn, Thanks for hosting Calroline. Having known her since she landed in Boston, and truly, She is a Queen who was meant to shine. Even in those tough days in the 90s, we knew she is coming back. Carol we love you and Mr Dey. Keep on shining

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Год назад +3

      Thanks Pastor for taking the time to watch my story and all you have done and continue doing for the community in the diaspora

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  Год назад

      Thank you so much Pastor🙏🙏

  • @myaeve007
    @myaeve007 Год назад +8

    Thank you so much Lynn for bringing Carol to the show! Her story resonates with so many women ( and men), myself included. We need to share our stories and give each other hope. Leaving a failed marriage does not mean you are a failure, it is the marriage that has failed, a distinct entity from you as an individual.
    I believe marriages fail because we marry for the wrong reasons e.g. he paid my university fees it means he loves me. Narcissists do that so they can control you. Desperation makes young girls rush into marriage because any act of perceived kindness is seen as love.
    For those who can afford it, i challenge the women on this platform to identify just one girl to sponsor through school, related or not. That act of genuine kindness will help one girl to have an opportunity to marry when she is ready, not because she needs financial assistance.

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 10 месяцев назад

      @myaeve007 thanks for watching my story 💕 blessings to you

  • @susannangiro8736
    @susannangiro8736 10 месяцев назад +1

    God’s word is real. The best definition of when one door closes, another opens indeed. That was God’s grace, love n purpose for u Caro indeed. God’s timing is the best👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 9 месяцев назад

      Thanks @susannangiro8736 blessings to you 💕

  • @jeddymoon3803
    @jeddymoon3803 Год назад +24

    Its too sad that "what will people say" keeps so many people in abusive relationships

  • @marymuthie5844
    @marymuthie5844 Год назад +8

    Carol yr story is so inspiring...I love the fact that God is in the centre of your relationship. You have encouraged many ladies going thru toxic relationships and those yet to get married to take note of the red flags....thank you for giving Lynn her flowers while she is still alive...🎉🎉she has really healed many lifes. Life lessons learnt:-
    -everyone has greatness inside of you.
    -you are not what happens to you.
    - take time to heal...healed people heal others, hurt people hurt others.
    Lynn keep up the good work and stretch your tent.

  • @GRACE-pg1mw
    @GRACE-pg1mw Год назад +20

    I know Carol personally, she’s a brilliant awesome human being, didn’t even know of her trauma. Thanks for not letting your past overwhelm you 💕💕

  • @floraigokiterah1642
    @floraigokiterah1642 Год назад +12

    How about we start a funds drive for that studio?Why not?

  • @goodmusic1802
    @goodmusic1802 Год назад +24

    Some people mistake when we say we like to be chased as women. The chase means when I say yes, keep dating me and being a gentleman. When I say no, it means I don’t want you and I don’t want you to try.

    • @abby-oj3md
      @abby-oj3md Год назад +4

      Narcissist never take no for am answer. Note, that's a red flag. Because they don't respect boundaries.

    • @prosistalaswai1901
      @prosistalaswai1901 Год назад

    • @ichooseviolence2532
      @ichooseviolence2532 Год назад +1

      Buy a Dildo and leave men alone

  • @raelgaro7157
    @raelgaro7157 Год назад +21

    This story is exactly like mine.Ladies ..we go through alot when we don't have the right partner.

  • @muthonim2905
    @muthonim2905 Год назад +10

    I am so happy Caroline has said this. Lynn is Lynn. Our Lynn. Herself!! Unique!! Like no other. Let’s stop comparing her. She is joining the realm of global change makers. Bringing her own unique and authentic light! Just…Our Lynn! She is enough!!

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  Год назад +1

      Thank you❤❤❤🙏🙏

    • @judahwillgofirst7964
      @judahwillgofirst7964 Год назад

      We want our Lynn,to sit with akina Oprah,but our girl,will tell the world,you can make it and still be God-fearing.

  • @joycekimani9812
    @joycekimani9812 Год назад +9

    This lady's composure is so admirable ❤. The way she narrates her story and how consistent she is. The God who loves her did this for her and made her smile😊. What a beautiful story with a happy ending 🎉😊. One day I will tell my story.

  • @LynnNgugi
    @LynnNgugi  Год назад +36

    Good morning team LNN,
    What is your take-home from today's conversation with Carol?
    You can connect with her on Facebook: Caroline Mbithi Dey
    Stay tuned for our episode with her husband tomorrow at 10am!
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    To share your story on Rebuilding, send a brief summary to our emails Info@Lnn.digital or Lynn.ngugi@Lnn.digital
    Thank you so much for watching

    • @sheilahendrich6995
      @sheilahendrich6995 Год назад +1

      Wow!! I know Carol ,thank you Lynn to bring her here 🙏🏼🙏🏼

    • @GraceWanjakaranja
      @GraceWanjakaranja Год назад +1

      Thank you for sharing such an amazing story. I dated one such guy for 7years .... broke the engagement and I have never been happier. I didn't even know what he was doing was gaslighting, even when I knew I knew, I never left.

    • @marykaluki1945
      @marykaluki1945 Год назад +3

      Thanks Lynn for sharing such a great story.This relates to what am going through today and funny enough I can't move out.i don't have the courage to do it.i have no one to talk to...no one really will understand. 😢😢it's my prayer God that you rebuild my foundation like you did to Carol

    • @carolkami.671
      @carolkami.671 Год назад

      @@marykaluki1945 please dear I pray that you heal. Real courage is when you're afraid but still manage to face your fears anyway..I did it only last year and I believe you too can do it.. coincidentally my name is Caroline!!🤩

    • @carolkami.671
      @carolkami.671 Год назад

      @Lynn, I perfectly know this is not a mere coincidence but a sneak peak into my future..
      It's not a coincidence that my name too is Caroline and early this year I sat down with you narrating of my story which is eerily similar to this!!
      I too testify of the power in therapy/counseling, which you so graciously offered me.. even though my story wasn't aired, a breakthrough followed soon after my encounter with you. I'm currently still pursuing total healing, re-discovery and personal development.
      Yes indeed Lynn yours is purpose, work and ministry 🙏 keep it up!!

  • @rianendegwa8349
    @rianendegwa8349 Год назад +1

    It’s funny I don’t see Oprah in Lynn , so I don’t see why the comparison. Hers is a unique ministry! The authenticity of this lady is spectacular!
    Proverbs 22:29
    29 Do you see a man diligent in his/her work/business? He/she will stand before kings; he/she will not stand before obscure men.
    God is causing you to stand before kings Sis! God bless you!

  • @elijahm1717
    @elijahm1717 Год назад +10

    May she find complete healing. She gave too much to be with her ex, including ignoring her values, her parents, the red flags. They moved in without setting healthy boundaries/standards. It was bound to fail from the word go. Love with your eyes open ladies. Again, this is the reason enjoying the fruits before the tree matures leaves you with a bitter taste

  • @turphenorawambo4061
    @turphenorawambo4061 Год назад +2

    A beautiful woman,a strong woman.What lessons i got from this,is do the healing first.You are not what happened to you.

  • @AdventinaAnthony
    @AdventinaAnthony Год назад +124

    Another day to remind myself to never ignore red flags 🙏

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Год назад +3

      God’s got you always and yes always pay attention to the red flags

    • @carolinewanjiku6610
      @carolinewanjiku6610 Год назад +3

      Everyone sees the red flags but I think the pleasure to settle down or keep the marriage as they all say, and comparing oneself to fit in groups.

    • @sabin7327
      @sabin7327 Год назад +1

      ​@CarolineMbithiDey I worked with Charles in the past. He's an amazing soul. Am glad you two found each other. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @Kakwasi
      @Kakwasi Год назад

      N to never ever think of 400 people who are coming to the wedding

  • @shalomministries_ojwigaros1916
    @shalomministries_ojwigaros1916 11 месяцев назад +1

    Indeed Ms. Lynne you are exceptional. 🎉❤ you give healing and comfort to many broken soul out there (women) iam one of those.

  • @nirvaborgelin5056
    @nirvaborgelin5056 Год назад +20

    Hi Lynn
    I love your show and love her story today. It’s look like my story 35 years ago, but I broke up my engagement six weeks before the wedding. Good God’s Grace save me. Six years later, God’s blessed me with a wonderful man of God. Now we have four amazing children together.
    God blessings are with you Lynn and your team.❤

  • @kavitajosephine2813
    @kavitajosephine2813 11 месяцев назад +1

    Caro and Lyne God bless you you've inspired me am avictim having married for 27 yrs and chased away like a dog God bless you

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад

      God has got you, you’re not what happened to you I and God has greater plans for you💕

  • @johnmaelfu1360
    @johnmaelfu1360 Год назад +7

    your pastor only prepares you for happily ever after because thats what the bible instructs..but on the ground things are alway different.detach emotions and carry your brain..marriages dont work the way you think

  • @carolinewanjiru3739
    @carolinewanjiru3739 Год назад +59

    Caroline your story resonates with mine, only that it took me 19yrs of perseverance and covering up to walk out. There's nothing worse than being married to a street angel who's a devil at home.

    • @polinekilengelu9163
      @polinekilengelu9163 Год назад +2

      Hungs…

    • @dotgazelle
      @dotgazelle Год назад +3

      Wow! You have put up so well. Hugs, love and prayers that you find healing and someone that loves you dearly.

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Год назад +4

      Hi Caroline thanks for listening to my story blessings to you

    • @carolinewanjiru3739
      @carolinewanjiru3739 Год назад

      @@CarolineMbithiDey Amen 🙏

    • @lisak9361
      @lisak9361 Год назад +1

      Sorry you had to go through that. I also stayed for 15 yrs.

  • @HRL.
    @HRL. Год назад +32

    God bless her for all she's telling you directly about God's messages to you.
    On a personal note, I think it's time to reach out and host other communities outside the Kenyan community.
    Spread your outreach, Lynn.
    God bless you and your team.

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Год назад +4

      Thanks for listening to my story blessings to you

    • @HRL.
      @HRL. Год назад +1

      @@CarolineMbithiDey You're most welcome 🙏 and your hubby as well.

  • @millsopaul6696
    @millsopaul6696 Год назад +3

    I experienced the same and gathered courage to walk out after 23 years. That was the best decision l ever made.

  • @annkirethi3812
    @annkirethi3812 Год назад +13

    Relationships at a young age can drive one crazy,glad for the lessons this forum continues to offer to so many generations ❤

  • @ja9293
    @ja9293 Год назад +9

    I stayed married to a narcissist for over 3 decades....each year, each day, I hoped he would change because "he was a man of God." A narcissist is a narcissist, and they never change....

    • @marywangui7432
      @marywangui7432 Год назад +2

      You mean for 30 yrs. That is long but it's never too late to get our freedom.😅😅

    • @peninamuthoni5323
      @peninamuthoni5323 Год назад

      Did you leave finally?

  • @thesecretplaceofthemosthig2377
    @thesecretplaceofthemosthig2377 Год назад +14

    Wonderful show Lynn your guest speaks for a lot of women who are suffering in abusive marriages and hoping it will get better but instead gets worse. God bless u Lynn & your crew

  • @nancymuniu9142
    @nancymuniu9142 11 месяцев назад +1

    Thank Caroline for talking about rededication after everything and starting again....

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 9 месяцев назад +1

      @nancymuniu9142 thanks for watching my story my hope is that you were empowered and encouraged, blessings to you 💕

  • @DollyOliphant
    @DollyOliphant 10 месяцев назад +1

    Very polished guest, eloquent.

  • @nyamburarachel8184
    @nyamburarachel8184 Год назад +22

    I used to ask myself why would a woman leave her matrimonio home just like that? The more I kept growing up and experienced it, I know understand,we can always love again and stay where our love is not limited, trigger,where there's peace to be precise.

  • @marywanjiku9406
    @marywanjiku9406 Год назад +9

    Am watching this crying,I can relate to her story I went through this for 9 year and I thank God I came out of it

  • @esthergithogori2930
    @esthergithogori2930 Год назад +6

    Finally. Thank you Lynn for hosting my friend Caroline. She’s such beautiful soul. I thank GOD seeing her and seeing where God took her from. God is good. She’s meant to shine. Thank you Lynn. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯

  • @janeg7109
    @janeg7109 Год назад +2

    Thanks Carol for pouring out I remember when I met you, you’re young beautiful girl who loved God with beautiful voice. God gave you Dey with a purpose. I attended your 2nd wedding which was very colorful and I knew you are healed. ❤❤continue serving God.

  • @raisingremarkableteenagers
    @raisingremarkableteenagers Год назад +9

    Wow Carol thanks for sharing- I was feeling like you’re telling my story 😢)
    - that’s a common line with abusers ( no one will love you like I do… you’ll not find anyone) 🎉kudos to you - and look what the Lord has done ❤after you’ve let go of what’s not good for you

  • @shikuliz4134
    @shikuliz4134 Год назад +16

    I don't blame anyone who hold on so long on an abuser because of their love bombing trait's . you're always confused but you feel not okay

  • @johnmaelfu1360
    @johnmaelfu1360 Год назад +17

    my piece of advice...dont promise anything and dont believe on what they promise especially in the initial stages of relationship

    • @purityhesed
      @purityhesed Год назад

      We'll said!

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Год назад

      Thanks for listening to my story blessings to you

    • @virginiasyombua225
      @virginiasyombua225 Год назад

      ​@@CarolineMbithiDeyYou're such strong Gem ❤ thanks for sharing your story

  • @reginahenry513
    @reginahenry513 Год назад +2

    LNN ,this is me ,this is my life story ooh I thank God for He rescued me and my 3 beautiful daughters. I can say am healed and still healing. One day I will share the story of my life . Sharing helps many many others

  • @murielhampson6643
    @murielhampson6643 Год назад +29

    This episode was so inspiring, I know how that kind of relationship can be, it is very narcissistic and very painful. Thanks to Caroline for sharing her story. I was very moved, we all need to learn to find our selves and stand up for what's right, not just make excuses and allow things to continue down the wrong path.

  • @beatricenjeri740
    @beatricenjeri740 Год назад +3

    Your story teaches us that only God can change a man ( woman) you can’t change human beings. Thank God you left

  • @ekudamekimombasa461
    @ekudamekimombasa461 Год назад +8

    LNN is going to be one of greatest channels in world Lynn kip trusting God and don't allow pride to kill your future. JUST Continue being humble Before God and my sister sky will be the limit.

  • @mercynaloli2382
    @mercynaloli2382 Год назад +10

    After listening to her story i now know that i was also being abused emotionally and i didn't know. I so badly wanted to make the relationship work, despite the prophecy i had also received i so badly wanted it to work. I finally had the courage to walk out and let God take care of me. I can truly relate to Carol's story. Thanks for sharing mama. I am forever grateful🙇
    Thanks Lynn for creating a beautiful platform that has greatly impacted our lives. May God richly use you .

    • @exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198
      @exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198 Год назад +2

      I never knew I was abused emotionally until 5 years ago, long story....God bless you.

    • @joycemwathi6892
      @joycemwathi6892 Год назад

      ​@@exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198😊😊😊😊😊 29:29

  • @SharonWaBarakaVlogs
    @SharonWaBarakaVlogs Год назад +16

    Wow Carol she was my bestie in school and we are still friends to date. What an inspiring story, our scars are what makes us stronger. You are a testament that God is a God of second chances. By the way that part of news anchor started in our dorm. I remember how you would walk with a folded book pretending to be a microphone and say ...Caroline Mbithi reporting for KTN 😂😂

  • @rebeccamakenzi9019
    @rebeccamakenzi9019 Год назад +2

    Turning point..... I have done.....the decision point thus turns self slavery into freedom... Quit and go.. Move on... He will change.. Is the Big sickness women are fighting.. God have mercy upon us.. We need God's grace to reign to excel into laughter zones.. Relax into good hands..Lynn you're chosen Queen... Continue being humble. Good goodness is running over you. Amen God bless All. It's a powerful testimony. Be blessed caro

  • @catherinemuiruri6098
    @catherinemuiruri6098 Год назад +21

    This is one of the most powerful impact full interviews 👏🏽. The Lord bless you, Caroline, for hearing God and encouraging Lynn so powerfully and timely 🙏🏽

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Год назад +2

      Thanks Catherine for listening to my story i pray that you’re encouraged

  • @carolinekiai2631
    @carolinekiai2631 Год назад +14

    The rebuilding series has had a huge impact on my life as a woman and a mother. Thank you, Lynn. God bless you. People are healing and rebuilding their lives from hurt, pain, deceit, revenge .....etc....to finding themselves and being better.

  • @katelairene6915
    @katelairene6915 Год назад +5

    Wow! Nice conversation here. There is just so much of us ladies who would or occassionally fall into this trap, " he's been so nice to me, he has sacrificed so much for me" , and then he makes an advancement and truthfully you may not want to consent but the thought of how much he has done blah blah .... you fall in. Yes as she is saying learning to affirm your No is something that every lady can learn and be unapologetic about it. Personal dignity for self matters and doing it for the other is selfish when you are hurting 😢.
    Thank Lynn and team

  • @JaneMwikali-r4f
    @JaneMwikali-r4f Год назад +1

    Purpose healing & work...Much love @ Lnn ❤️❤️... I'm not what happened to me! we are healing slowly by slowly Thank You.

  • @mamaketotos4414
    @mamaketotos4414 Год назад +4

    Lynn your energy and wisdom matches all the ages from teenagers, thirties, forties and even people who are much older than you may God contribute blessing you for us

  • @naomimuthoni2082
    @naomimuthoni2082 Год назад +21

    I've been through alot now I'm in my rebuilding season and I'm loving what God is doing in my life Lynn a time like this next year I will be on this show in Jesus name I'm allowing God to make this story of mine more beautiful ❤❤22nd Sept 2024 I claim it in Jesus name may God keep you Lynn and expand you more ❤❤

  • @lunalove8119
    @lunalove8119 Год назад +4

    Its the ending for me when Mr.Dey stepped in! Haki the way he holds her hand after 12 years of marriage! Ohh God, May every woman watching this experience that in Jesus name🙏💫❤ Amen❤.. @Lynn thank you for what you do❣

  • @clairehongo115
    @clairehongo115 Год назад +3

    Lynn am not that much financially stable to fetch for a therapist coz the last time I contacted one for a Service I got broken......but your shows girl and the type of guests with their stories is enough therapy for me

  • @princesmagie6132
    @princesmagie6132 Год назад +15

    Oooh my God ...we share the same story....
    Thanks to God from a broken marriage of 17yrs
    I have found a love of my life again
    To God be the glory 🙏🙏
    Thanks LNN rebuilding series' for inspiration stories

  • @loisenjeri7379
    @loisenjeri7379 Год назад +4

    That is my friend and coach! Everytime I listen to your story, I still learn so much. I love how you and Mr. Dey do life together and treat each other. You are such a gift to the hurting. May God continue blessing and enlarging your territory Caroline!!

  • @edatatu2739
    @edatatu2739 Год назад +6

    Thanks for affirming Lynn. I love her. She's authentic. Ive never liked the comparison to Oprah. She's our very own Lynn. Let God use her for His purposes. There's a lot happening in the world today that people need to hear about. For Congratulations on your Post Traumatic Growth. PHW. Purpose, Healing and Work. 🎉🎉🎉

  • @auci3358
    @auci3358 11 месяцев назад +1

    What a great testimony! I was once naive during my dating journey😢but God helped me out open and now thank God i have a amazing husband our wedding Anniversary is 09/3 too ❤️

  • @ethel-dredanyahoza6780
    @ethel-dredanyahoza6780 Год назад +3

    Thanks Lynn and Caroline.
    What was shared here
    has given me a wake up call, hope ... purpose,healing and work.
    Praying for a time I can start over again with a husband who is God sent.
    Serving God together ...

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Год назад

      @ethel-dredanyahoza6780 thanks for watching my story and i pray the Lord surprise you with your destiny spouse

  • @faithamaro5134
    @faithamaro5134 Год назад +15

    Caroline, thank you for heeding God's voice and doing this interview! Thank you for embodying so much grace and strength, and vulnerably sharing your story. Although I haven't been married before, you spoke to me on so many fronts. May you continue to be salt and light, and shine your light so bright 💝

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Год назад

      @faithmaro5134 dis💕 you’re welcome its my moral obligation to share and testify and empower others blessings to you

  • @fmn356
    @fmn356 Год назад +26

    I can't miss this lesson..
    Thank you Lynn for this amazing episode.
    Myself I know in future when I get to have my own family, am sure what I've learnt from this show will be a lifetime guide..
    Blessings to LNN❤❤

  • @anneowino3619
    @anneowino3619 Год назад +2

    My ex husband told me I could never get s man to Marry me. But see God now, he has given me a man who loves me so much. My current man is even younger than my ex. We are getting married very soon. He respects as a woman and loves me very much.

  • @mbojemaina
    @mbojemaina Год назад +10

    With determination and a good therapist you can always come out of the pit and thrive again. God bless Caroline and her God ordained husband.

    • @carolkami.671
      @carolkami.671 Год назад

      This is true,I'm currently practicing it and already feeling great from the inside!

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Год назад

      Thanks for listening to my story blessings to you

  • @sanyuelpuganda3581
    @sanyuelpuganda3581 Год назад +1

    Thank you very much, Ms. Lynn... Thank you very much, Ms. Carol and your Valentine...

  • @wilkistermakani1593
    @wilkistermakani1593 Год назад +3

    The story is exactly what I have gone through, am rebuilding myself right now thou I don't know how to do it but I believe God has got my hand, I even threw the ring. Caroline you have spoken to my heart, let me have the courage perhaps one day I will also have a beautiful ending, even though the trauma is too much😢😢😢😢

  • @labelle8110
    @labelle8110 Год назад +3

    This woman deserves to be loved!

  • @chaniawillow
    @chaniawillow Год назад +11

    I love Carols' spirit and indeed its absolutely true, healing is key, otherwise you wont recognize a good person plus you can also repeat patterns. I am so happy for them both. Charles seems gentle and that's what women need. I can relate to her story and the bounce back and peace is everything. I pray all women in abusive situations get the courage and the realization that there is a way out. You can start again. Not easy, but you can!!

  • @JacintaMzee
    @JacintaMzee 9 месяцев назад +1

    Carol, You have nailed it. Lynn, you are the best. We love you. Lynn continue the work God ordained you to do. You will make it. Amen

  • @veronicakanga7204
    @veronicakanga7204 Год назад +3

    Carol Mbithi Dey thank you for being vulnerable enough to pour out your heart. Well articulated, you hv encouraged many. Great job Lynn.

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Год назад +1

      Thanks Veronica for taking the time to watch my story blessings to you

  • @ritahsworld608
    @ritahsworld608 6 месяцев назад +1

    Pure soul comes with clarity ..wow ..her hubby is so sweet

  • @journeywithjesus
    @journeywithjesus Год назад +3

    Just listening to the beginning before the whole video my mother also asked me 'Myoma, are you sure you want to marry this guy' then I was in love but had no idea. I am glad that I was able to leave.

  • @beatricekipngok6531
    @beatricekipngok6531 Год назад +1

    Thanks for sharing this. I need a therapist please connect me to one, i will appreciate

  • @IANA2030
    @IANA2030 Год назад +4

    I just left unapologetically very peaceful and happier now❤❤❤

  • @agnesnjeri8402
    @agnesnjeri8402 Год назад +7

    I agree with the fact that Afro looks good on you, it's our signature 😅😅 you're looking beautiful as usual 🥰🥰

  • @johnmaelfu1360
    @johnmaelfu1360 Год назад +16

    unfortunately, if you tell someone they are being used..they will think you are jealous..you want to snatch their people

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Год назад

      Thanks for listening to my story and life lessons blessings to you

  • @nabbosabeldine8885
    @nabbosabeldine8885 Год назад +1

    Thanks for sharing the painful story 😭😭😭.
    We praise God for not giving up on us .. .
    Thanks for sharing be blessed always. . be blessed always 🙏🏾 thx

  • @joyajuogaosano3507
    @joyajuogaosano3507 Год назад +4

    This story resonates with me. I am also a testimony of what can do if you turn your life to Him and let Him lead. From Kenya to The US and changing my life. God is Great.

    • @janemathenge2820
      @janemathenge2820 Год назад

      I tap to your blessings .may he lead my life as well

  • @mariabaemedi3326
    @mariabaemedi3326 Год назад +1

    Totally agree to what that lady said about Lynn's show, she's such an inspiration every time I watch her shows I am like my God elevate her to greater heights.

  • @melphonejoan6410
    @melphonejoan6410 Год назад +6

    True when you are in abusive relationship never tell your abuser guy your leaving because that will now be the beginning of tough life

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey Год назад

      Thanks for watching my story and you’re absolutely 💯 correct

  • @josphineakinyi5157
    @josphineakinyi5157 Год назад +1

    I like your work Lyn. I will one day be on your platform to share my story dear. I am just one step to my breakthrough

  • @marumbusophie7839
    @marumbusophie7839 Год назад +2

    Pure spirit that cannot be corrupted Lynn,this is great! Next level we are coming...as lynn says, we respect the giver of the gift not the gift itself...purpose,healing and work merged together!

  • @Moon-mi3nn
    @Moon-mi3nn 11 месяцев назад +1

    Well done great woman and God richly bless your husband. Bravo Lynn and your team 👏
    Remain blessed and
    keep prospering

  • @sallieklausworld9094
    @sallieklausworld9094 Год назад +5

    I pray 🙏 so many people especially in Diaspora would watch this it never too late to leave forget about what family and friends will say but always choose you cos either people will always talk. Thanks Lynn for the platform ❤

  • @irenenyaboke7
    @irenenyaboke7 Год назад +2

    Thank you Lyn for the rebuilding series. Learning alot. Truly we shouldn't allow what we have gone through to define us❤

  • @anttoinetteselynemakokha7413
    @anttoinetteselynemakokha7413 Год назад +2

    This lady is amazing.
    For the first time in LNN I had pen and paper, wrote some beautiful notes.

  • @JaneKimani-k2k
    @JaneKimani-k2k Год назад +2

    This lady is prophetic… Lyn, you better write down this and more such like

  • @ReneeMurunga
    @ReneeMurunga Год назад +9

    My cousin... God bless you. You are a brave woman and a great inspiration.

  • @growthhubke
    @growthhubke Год назад +1

    I hear myself in your story. I relate a lot with your justification for abuse while inside the relationship and marriage.

  • @Beato12rob
    @Beato12rob Год назад +7

    I know Caroline personally, and I can surely say that she is a woman who is authentic, and this story is true! Touching generations! As a woman I have benefited greatly, and her story helped me walk out of a toxic relationship as well! God bless you, carol as God continues to use your story to change the lives of many women out there 💕🤗❤️

  • @bilhahnjeri6427
    @bilhahnjeri6427 Год назад +1

    Carol has a lovable spirit she makes us believe that we can give love another chance thnx for the encouragement

  • @rachaelakello3040
    @rachaelakello3040 Год назад +3

    Thanks Carol for allowing God to use you as a channel of strength and encouragement to Lynn.
    Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @veramunene6604
    @veramunene6604 Год назад +1

    I have been married for 8yrs but I always find time to take myself out for coffee or shopping or for pedicures by myself ever since I was 19yrs until now at 33yrs. It is the best.. don't wait for someone to do it for you. If they do it, well and good. But you owe yourself so nice treatment

  • @CarolCaylor7996
    @CarolCaylor7996 Год назад +5

    I was so tired and didnt know i will watch it all. Thank you Lynn and Caroline. I have learned so much. Thank you Caroline for affirming the words to Lynn. Her platform has so much. Its a unique platform, just one of a kind. Its a HUGE BLESSING

    • @dorothyanyango2197
      @dorothyanyango2197 Год назад

      Me too, but I'm glad I finished watching the whole show 😊

  • @judynyokabi8502
    @judynyokabi8502 Год назад +1

    God can collapse timeframes on your behalf! Wow! Such a gracious show. Lynn, you truly are designed for even greater things!🤩