I stayed in an abusive marriage for years, could not find the strength to walk out but I finally did

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  • When Carol got into her first marriage, she ignored all the red flags from the word go. She knew she had no business being with that man but the fear of, “what will people say” was so strong that she opted to remain in that marriage for years.,
    However, after years of suffering, she left that marriage, started doing inner work, attended therapy and got to know herself more.
    Then one day, love presented itself again, but this time she was ready, aware and healed. She said a big yes, and the rest is history
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  • @CarolineMbithiDey
    @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад +305

    Thanks Lynn and Your Amazing Team💕 for Providing a Safe Space to Share My Story and i pray it Empowers snd Impacts Others 💕

    • @JulzMuya
      @JulzMuya 11 месяцев назад +7

      Hey sis!!❤❤❤ I can't wait to watch this episode my dear. Just logged on after my morning devotion and I strongly belive this story will change lives and give hope to those who want to rebuild and have a second chance at love. Lots of love sis ❤❤❤.

    • @miss60kiss
      @miss60kiss 11 месяцев назад +4

      Thank you so much for sharing ❤

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  11 месяцев назад +7

      More Grace to you❤❤❤

    • @majamaja8136
      @majamaja8136 11 месяцев назад +12

      You are telling a story of many who haven't yet found their voices, thank you.

    • @NancyMwangi-hy2cy
      @NancyMwangi-hy2cy 11 месяцев назад +7

      At Carol I just can't enough of your story because it's sounds like paste and copy of my love story. To God be the Glory for another chance. Xoxo to Lynn and you. Love from Delaware 🇺🇸 🌎

  • @jackiewacuka
    @jackiewacuka 11 месяцев назад +129

    I shed a tear when Charles said "...I want to apologize for the Trauma and the pain you've been through. Even though it wasn't done by me, I think it's appropriate for someone to say sorry...". This is truly healing.

    • @omo926
      @omo926 10 месяцев назад +2

      Yes, its really an important thing to do , just to bring healing .

    • @winnieawuor9129
      @winnieawuor9129 9 месяцев назад +1

      There aren't so many Charles out here.Girl, you are blessed!

    • @lauralaurenwamucii3542
      @lauralaurenwamucii3542 8 месяцев назад +2

      This really got me crying 😢 too. Such a loving man, I didn't know they exist

  • @millyadhiambo238
    @millyadhiambo238 11 месяцев назад +27

    Wooow,this lady describes my life with my ex,for like 16yrs ,today am happily marriage more than 15yrs,God is a God of 2nd chance

  • @shirleysmith3954
    @shirleysmith3954 11 месяцев назад +144

    I lost everything being in a mental abusive marriage for 43 years and I lost everything during the marriage. It
    effected my life and my children. I have found an Amazing Loving Nigerian man now for 6 years. We have met challenges because I am African American Black strong woman. I always asked God to send me a Godly man who will love me and be my faithful Hubby. We put God first in everything we do. God’s Grace and mercy has been the anchor for us.🙏🏾🇺🇸

    • @graciahalukoma4517
      @graciahalukoma4517 11 месяцев назад +3

      Aawwww… that’s so sweet. More blessings upon y’all 😇

    • @anneanne893
      @anneanne893 11 месяцев назад +4

      Wow so good to hear. I was in same situation and pray someone nice comes my way.

    • @orokokemunto4769
      @orokokemunto4769 11 месяцев назад +2

      More years of happiness 🎉

    • @EdnaMwende-zf4xf
      @EdnaMwende-zf4xf 11 месяцев назад +1

      More blessing ma grea to hear❤

    • @wanguigrace2957
      @wanguigrace2957 11 месяцев назад +1

      Congratulations my dear.🎉🎉 may God protect your union ❤

  • @faithfaith.2945
    @faithfaith.2945 11 месяцев назад +340

    The ones that narrate these stories in English are the ones that have really made this channel international

    • @motivator1992.
      @motivator1992. 11 месяцев назад +15

      True coz I don't miss any and am Ugandan. All ladies she brings really are so beautiful but passing through alot which anyway makes them stronger 😢😢😢

    • @user-nr7tj6ct1t
      @user-nr7tj6ct1t 11 месяцев назад +14

      I am so encouraged that there are men who can love us despite òur past
      Amen

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад +38

      Thanks for listening to my story i pray that you’re encouraged

    • @matts6894
      @matts6894 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@WILMA_she lives in Tx

    • @genevieveokyere2124
      @genevieveokyere2124 11 месяцев назад +3

      So true, I'm in Ghana 🇬🇭. Watch Lynn's shows all the time. God bless you Caroline and Lynn. This is true Ministry.

  • @carolmathenge3
    @carolmathenge3 11 месяцев назад +40

    As a domestic violence survivor, I totally relate to Caroline's experiences. It's amazing that we are both Carolines that have survived much and love God. Am glad she gave you your flowers Lynn, because you deserve them and much more. Thank you for Hosting my namesake. And YES LYNN!!! God has just begun His work through You. Thank You Caroline for sharing your story and am also trusting God for a man that loves Him too and can wait untill marriage. Shalom.

    • @pmgpmg7717
      @pmgpmg7717 Месяц назад

      I like that purpose healing and work. Blessings

  • @pastormungaianne2039
    @pastormungaianne2039 11 месяцев назад +27

    Lynn, Thanks for hosting Calroline. Having known her since she landed in Boston, and truly, She is a Queen who was meant to shine. Even in those tough days in the 90s, we knew she is coming back. Carol we love you and Mr Dey. Keep on shining

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад +3

      Thanks Pastor for taking the time to watch my story and all you have done and continue doing for the community in the diaspora

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  11 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much Pastor🙏🙏

  • @imeldamarcos335
    @imeldamarcos335 11 месяцев назад +65

    I've watched this episode and I've seen myself in it all through,from dating the wrong person,to your mum having an itch about the partner,the emotional abuse,healing and finally giving myself a second chance to love. Everything was like she was talking about me. Even though i don't have a ring on my finger yet,im hoping for the best with the person we trying at the moment. May i have an happy ending like Carol and i tap that in Jesus name.

  • @johnmaelfu1360
    @johnmaelfu1360 11 месяцев назад +108

    Ladies...men lie to get you in the box..stop being carried away by an illusion 'he loves me'..focus on who he is..at personal level

  • @user-tr4iy2bo6i
    @user-tr4iy2bo6i 11 месяцев назад +34

    I'm 19 with two kids ,the father is a narcissist and, the emotional abuse I have gone through in my relationship with him has caused me suffer from depersonalization, anxiety and depression but currently I'm trying to get my self together at my parents place , don't let anything hinder you from walking out of a toxic relationship or marriage everyone deserves to be happy ❤

    • @Nia-Kenia
      @Nia-Kenia 11 месяцев назад

      ‘Depersonalisation’! So so true ❤

    • @sharonmicheni2018
      @sharonmicheni2018 10 месяцев назад +2

      All the best. All will be well sooner than you think

  • @raelgaro7157
    @raelgaro7157 11 месяцев назад +21

    This story is exactly like mine.Ladies ..we go through alot when we don't have the right partner.

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад +3

      Thanks for listening to my story blessings to you

  • @myaeve007
    @myaeve007 10 месяцев назад +7

    Thank you so much Lynn for bringing Carol to the show! Her story resonates with so many women ( and men), myself included. We need to share our stories and give each other hope. Leaving a failed marriage does not mean you are a failure, it is the marriage that has failed, a distinct entity from you as an individual.
    I believe marriages fail because we marry for the wrong reasons e.g. he paid my university fees it means he loves me. Narcissists do that so they can control you. Desperation makes young girls rush into marriage because any act of perceived kindness is seen as love.
    For those who can afford it, i challenge the women on this platform to identify just one girl to sponsor through school, related or not. That act of genuine kindness will help one girl to have an opportunity to marry when she is ready, not because she needs financial assistance.

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 6 месяцев назад

      @myaeve007 thanks for watching my story 💕 blessings to you

  • @margaretgithu-hj1il
    @margaretgithu-hj1il 11 месяцев назад +19

    Stayed mine 16yrs now single raising 3kids but i still believe in marriage works n i know one ntapata mr right

    • @polinekilengelu9163
      @polinekilengelu9163 11 месяцев назад

      You’re not alone me too, I’m the same journey….raising two beautiful girls .God will see us through ❤

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад

      Thanks for taking the time to watch I pray Your Boaz will find you and your beautiful children 💕

  • @wangui0011
    @wangui0011 10 месяцев назад +4

    This particular show was for me!! My Mum met my ex 2 years into the relationship and she said, "he's not the one for you". Regretfully, I stayed for way longer than I should have. I experienced emotional, physical and financial abuse at the hands of this person. To this day i regret staying and losing so much...myself, energy, precious time, my confidence, trust in people. But I'm thankfully i FINALLY got out with my life on 10/14/2022. Hardest thing I ever did. Been through some therapy after getting diagnosed with Major Depressive Disorder and Anxiety. Thank you for sharing your story Caroline, and thank heavens God turned it around for you with a wholesome partner. Lynn, you're an amazing talk-show host. Keep on keeping it real

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 9 месяцев назад

      @wangui0011 sending hugs and loads love your greater days are ahead of you

    • @nilotn
      @nilotn 7 месяцев назад

      Sending you love mama ❤

  • @carolinewanjiru3739
    @carolinewanjiru3739 11 месяцев назад +58

    Caroline your story resonates with mine, only that it took me 19yrs of perseverance and covering up to walk out. There's nothing worse than being married to a street angel who's a devil at home.

    • @polinekilengelu9163
      @polinekilengelu9163 11 месяцев назад +2

      Hungs…

    • @dotgazelle
      @dotgazelle 11 месяцев назад +3

      Wow! You have put up so well. Hugs, love and prayers that you find healing and someone that loves you dearly.

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад +4

      Hi Caroline thanks for listening to my story blessings to you

    • @carolinewanjiru3739
      @carolinewanjiru3739 11 месяцев назад

      @@CarolineMbithiDey Amen 🙏

    • @lisak9361
      @lisak9361 11 месяцев назад +1

      Sorry you had to go through that. I also stayed for 15 yrs.

  • @joycekimani9812
    @joycekimani9812 11 месяцев назад +9

    This lady's composure is so admirable ❤. The way she narrates her story and how consistent she is. The God who loves her did this for her and made her smile😊. What a beautiful story with a happy ending 🎉😊. One day I will tell my story.

  • @jeddymoon3803
    @jeddymoon3803 11 месяцев назад +23

    Its too sad that "what will people say" keeps so many people in abusive relationships

  • @karenwanjiru5276
    @karenwanjiru5276 11 месяцев назад +5

    My mum was a victim too, and her whole struggles with healing has made me want to be graced as a tool for healing for wounded souls. If God opens doors for me to study counselling psychology and therapy, i will serve Him with that career in church as those amazing tools of healing did for Caroline.

  • @nyamburarachel8184
    @nyamburarachel8184 11 месяцев назад +22

    I used to ask myself why would a woman leave her matrimonio home just like that? The more I kept growing up and experienced it, I know understand,we can always love again and stay where our love is not limited, trigger,where there's peace to be precise.

  • @HRL.
    @HRL. 11 месяцев назад +32

    God bless her for all she's telling you directly about God's messages to you.
    On a personal note, I think it's time to reach out and host other communities outside the Kenyan community.
    Spread your outreach, Lynn.
    God bless you and your team.

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад +4

      Thanks for listening to my story blessings to you

    • @HRL.
      @HRL. 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@CarolineMbithiDey You're most welcome 🙏 and your hubby as well.

  • @marymuthie5844
    @marymuthie5844 11 месяцев назад +8

    Carol yr story is so inspiring...I love the fact that God is in the centre of your relationship. You have encouraged many ladies going thru toxic relationships and those yet to get married to take note of the red flags....thank you for giving Lynn her flowers while she is still alive...🎉🎉she has really healed many lifes. Life lessons learnt:-
    -everyone has greatness inside of you.
    -you are not what happens to you.
    - take time to heal...healed people heal others, hurt people hurt others.
    Lynn keep up the good work and stretch your tent.

  • @nirvaborgelin5056
    @nirvaborgelin5056 11 месяцев назад +19

    Hi Lynn
    I love your show and love her story today. It’s look like my story 35 years ago, but I broke up my engagement six weeks before the wedding. Good God’s Grace save me. Six years later, God’s blessed me with a wonderful man of God. Now we have four amazing children together.
    God blessings are with you Lynn and your team.❤

  • @muthonim2905
    @muthonim2905 11 месяцев назад +10

    I am so happy Caroline has said this. Lynn is Lynn. Our Lynn. Herself!! Unique!! Like no other. Let’s stop comparing her. She is joining the realm of global change makers. Bringing her own unique and authentic light! Just…Our Lynn! She is enough!!

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  11 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you❤❤❤🙏🙏

    • @judahwillgofirst7964
      @judahwillgofirst7964 11 месяцев назад

      We want our Lynn,to sit with akina Oprah,but our girl,will tell the world,you can make it and still be God-fearing.

  • @annkirethi3812
    @annkirethi3812 11 месяцев назад +13

    Relationships at a young age can drive one crazy,glad for the lessons this forum continues to offer to so many generations ❤

  • @elijahm1717
    @elijahm1717 11 месяцев назад +10

    May she find complete healing. She gave too much to be with her ex, including ignoring her values, her parents, the red flags. They moved in without setting healthy boundaries/standards. It was bound to fail from the word go. Love with your eyes open ladies. Again, this is the reason enjoying the fruits before the tree matures leaves you with a bitter taste

  • @catherinemuiruri6098
    @catherinemuiruri6098 11 месяцев назад +21

    This is one of the most powerful impact full interviews 👏🏽. The Lord bless you, Caroline, for hearing God and encouraging Lynn so powerfully and timely 🙏🏽

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад +2

      Thanks Catherine for listening to my story i pray that you’re encouraged

  • @thesecretplaceofthemosthig2377
    @thesecretplaceofthemosthig2377 11 месяцев назад +14

    Wonderful show Lynn your guest speaks for a lot of women who are suffering in abusive marriages and hoping it will get better but instead gets worse. God bless u Lynn & your crew

  • @shikuliz4134
    @shikuliz4134 11 месяцев назад +16

    I don't blame anyone who hold on so long on an abuser because of their love bombing trait's . you're always confused but you feel not okay

  • @flohMN1356
    @flohMN1356 11 месяцев назад +26

    I can't miss this lesson..
    Thank you Lynn for this amazing episode.
    Myself I know in future when I get to have my own family, am sure what I've learnt from this show will be a lifetime guide..
    Blessings to LNN❤❤

  • @millsopaul6696
    @millsopaul6696 9 месяцев назад +2

    I experienced the same and gathered courage to walk out after 23 years. That was the best decision l ever made.

  • @goodmusic1802
    @goodmusic1802 11 месяцев назад +24

    Some people mistake when we say we like to be chased as women. The chase means when I say yes, keep dating me and being a gentleman. When I say no, it means I don’t want you and I don’t want you to try.

    • @abby-oj3md
      @abby-oj3md 11 месяцев назад +4

      Narcissist never take no for am answer. Note, that's a red flag. Because they don't respect boundaries.

    • @prosistalaswai1901
      @prosistalaswai1901 11 месяцев назад

    • @ichooseviolence2532
      @ichooseviolence2532 11 месяцев назад +1

      Buy a Dildo and leave men alone

  • @esthergithogori2930
    @esthergithogori2930 11 месяцев назад +6

    Finally. Thank you Lynn for hosting my friend Caroline. She’s such beautiful soul. I thank GOD seeing her and seeing where God took her from. God is good. She’s meant to shine. Thank you Lynn. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💯

  • @furries.v
    @furries.v 11 месяцев назад +3

    I came to the US as an 8 year old from Taita taveta. Saa hizi niko 23 year old and i envy this gal's accent. Anipe siri niongee kama yeye. Lynn you came to the US na huwezi come to WA State. Ningekutreat at least na Ice cream gal. Next time please come to Seattle I will host you in my house.

  • @GRACE-pg1mw
    @GRACE-pg1mw 11 месяцев назад +19

    I know Carol personally, she’s a brilliant awesome human being, didn’t even know of her trauma. Thanks for not letting your past overwhelm you 💕💕

  • @carolinekiai2631
    @carolinekiai2631 11 месяцев назад +14

    The rebuilding series has had a huge impact on my life as a woman and a mother. Thank you, Lynn. God bless you. People are healing and rebuilding their lives from hurt, pain, deceit, revenge .....etc....to finding themselves and being better.

  • @Herhealingtouch6683
    @Herhealingtouch6683 11 месяцев назад +12

    Beautiful... walking away is always the best decision...to stay and suffer is absolute cowardice!!! May the path ahead be prosperous.
    @Lynn you should organize an online meetup for singles men and women who ready for marriage, who have gone through self work and healing.
    " Heal so that you don't breed on those who didn't hurt you "

    • @angelinemuriuki7384
      @angelinemuriuki7384 11 месяцев назад +1

      Victims of abuse stay in abusive relationships because of the emotional damage that's inflicted through emotional & at times physical abuse - it's nothing to do with cowardice. When you are not in the right state of mind it's very difficult to make rational decisions. It's important to empathize with victims & survivors of any form of abuse.

    • @Kerrry-34
      @Kerrry-34 9 месяцев назад

      Do not be harsh in your judgement. Just thank God that you have never been in such a Situation.

  • @floraigokiterah1642
    @floraigokiterah1642 11 месяцев назад +11

    How about we start a funds drive for that studio?Why not?

  • @murielhampson6643
    @murielhampson6643 11 месяцев назад +29

    This episode was so inspiring, I know how that kind of relationship can be, it is very narcissistic and very painful. Thanks to Caroline for sharing her story. I was very moved, we all need to learn to find our selves and stand up for what's right, not just make excuses and allow things to continue down the wrong path.

  • @ekudamekimombasa461
    @ekudamekimombasa461 11 месяцев назад +8

    LNN is going to be one of greatest channels in world Lynn kip trusting God and don't allow pride to kill your future. JUST Continue being humble Before God and my sister sky will be the limit.

  • @auci3358
    @auci3358 7 месяцев назад +1

    What a great testimony! I was once naive during my dating journey😢but God helped me out open and now thank God i have a amazing husband our wedding Anniversary is 09/3 too ❤️

  • @princesmagie6132
    @princesmagie6132 11 месяцев назад +15

    Oooh my God ...we share the same story....
    Thanks to God from a broken marriage of 17yrs
    I have found a love of my life again
    To God be the glory 🙏🙏
    Thanks LNN rebuilding series' for inspiration stories

    • @annemuigai7130
      @annemuigai7130 11 месяцев назад

      Believe it takes a big heart to do it again.

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад

      Thanks for listening to my story blessings to you

    • @princesmagie6132
      @princesmagie6132 11 месяцев назад

      @@CarolineMbithiDey blessings too

  • @faithamaro5134
    @faithamaro5134 11 месяцев назад +15

    Caroline, thank you for heeding God's voice and doing this interview! Thank you for embodying so much grace and strength, and vulnerably sharing your story. Although I haven't been married before, you spoke to me on so many fronts. May you continue to be salt and light, and shine your light so bright 💝

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 9 месяцев назад

      @faithmaro5134 dis💕 you’re welcome its my moral obligation to share and testify and empower others blessings to you

  • @mercynaloli2382
    @mercynaloli2382 11 месяцев назад +10

    After listening to her story i now know that i was also being abused emotionally and i didn't know. I so badly wanted to make the relationship work, despite the prophecy i had also received i so badly wanted it to work. I finally had the courage to walk out and let God take care of me. I can truly relate to Carol's story. Thanks for sharing mama. I am forever grateful🙇
    Thanks Lynn for creating a beautiful platform that has greatly impacted our lives. May God richly use you .

    • @exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198
      @exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198 11 месяцев назад +2

      I never knew I was abused emotionally until 5 years ago, long story....God bless you.

    • @joycemwathi6892
      @joycemwathi6892 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@exquisitecaribbeanqueen7198😊😊😊😊😊 29:29

  • @janeg7109
    @janeg7109 11 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks Carol for pouring out I remember when I met you, you’re young beautiful girl who loved God with beautiful voice. God gave you Dey with a purpose. I attended your 2nd wedding which was very colorful and I knew you are healed. ❤❤continue serving God.

  • @mbojemaina
    @mbojemaina 11 месяцев назад +10

    With determination and a good therapist you can always come out of the pit and thrive again. God bless Caroline and her God ordained husband.

    • @carolkami.671
      @carolkami.671 11 месяцев назад

      This is true,I'm currently practicing it and already feeling great from the inside!

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад

      Thanks for listening to my story blessings to you

  • @veronicakanga7204
    @veronicakanga7204 11 месяцев назад +3

    Carol Mbithi Dey thank you for being vulnerable enough to pour out your heart. Well articulated, you hv encouraged many. Great job Lynn.

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks Veronica for taking the time to watch my story blessings to you

  • @marywanjiku9406
    @marywanjiku9406 11 месяцев назад +9

    Am watching this crying,I can relate to her story I went through this for 9 year and I thank God I came out of it

  • @lunalove8119
    @lunalove8119 11 месяцев назад +4

    Its the ending for me when Mr.Dey stepped in! Haki the way he holds her hand after 12 years of marriage! Ohh God, May every woman watching this experience that in Jesus name🙏💫❤ Amen❤.. @Lynn thank you for what you do❣

  • @edatatu2739
    @edatatu2739 11 месяцев назад +6

    Thanks for affirming Lynn. I love her. She's authentic. Ive never liked the comparison to Oprah. She's our very own Lynn. Let God use her for His purposes. There's a lot happening in the world today that people need to hear about. For Congratulations on your Post Traumatic Growth. PHW. Purpose, Healing and Work. 🎉🎉🎉

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  11 месяцев назад

      Thank you Doc❤❤❤

  • @ethel-dredanyahoza6780
    @ethel-dredanyahoza6780 10 месяцев назад +3

    Thanks Lynn and Caroline.
    What was shared here
    has given me a wake up call, hope ... purpose,healing and work.
    Praying for a time I can start over again with a husband who is God sent.
    Serving God together ...

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 9 месяцев назад

      @ethel-dredanyahoza6780 thanks for watching my story and i pray the Lord surprise you with your destiny spouse

  • @AdventinaAnthony
    @AdventinaAnthony 11 месяцев назад +124

    Another day to remind myself to never ignore red flags 🙏

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад +3

      God’s got you always and yes always pay attention to the red flags

    • @carolinewanjiku6610
      @carolinewanjiku6610 11 месяцев назад +3

      Everyone sees the red flags but I think the pleasure to settle down or keep the marriage as they all say, and comparing oneself to fit in groups.

    • @sabin7327
      @sabin7327 11 месяцев назад +1

      ​@CarolineMbithiDey I worked with Charles in the past. He's an amazing soul. Am glad you two found each other. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @Kakwasi
      @Kakwasi 11 месяцев назад

      N to never ever think of 400 people who are coming to the wedding

  • @mamaketotos4414
    @mamaketotos4414 11 месяцев назад +4

    Lynn your energy and wisdom matches all the ages from teenagers, thirties, forties and even people who are much older than you may God contribute blessing you for us

  • @reginahenry513
    @reginahenry513 11 месяцев назад +2

    LNN ,this is me ,this is my life story ooh I thank God for He rescued me and my 3 beautiful daughters. I can say am healed and still healing. One day I will share the story of my life . Sharing helps many many others

  • @joyajuogaosano3507
    @joyajuogaosano3507 11 месяцев назад +4

    This story resonates with me. I am also a testimony of what can do if you turn your life to Him and let Him lead. From Kenya to The US and changing my life. God is Great.

    • @janemathenge2820
      @janemathenge2820 11 месяцев назад

      I tap to your blessings .may he lead my life as well

  • @johnmaelfu1360
    @johnmaelfu1360 11 месяцев назад +17

    my piece of advice...dont promise anything and dont believe on what they promise especially in the initial stages of relationship

    • @purityhesed
      @purityhesed 11 месяцев назад

      We'll said!

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад

      Thanks for listening to my story blessings to you

    • @virginiasyombua225
      @virginiasyombua225 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@CarolineMbithiDeyYou're such strong Gem ❤ thanks for sharing your story

  • @naomimuthoni2082
    @naomimuthoni2082 11 месяцев назад +21

    I've been through alot now I'm in my rebuilding season and I'm loving what God is doing in my life Lynn a time like this next year I will be on this show in Jesus name I'm allowing God to make this story of mine more beautiful ❤❤22nd Sept 2024 I claim it in Jesus name may God keep you Lynn and expand you more ❤❤

  • @raisingremarkableteenagers
    @raisingremarkableteenagers 11 месяцев назад +9

    Wow Carol thanks for sharing- I was feeling like you’re telling my story 😢)
    - that’s a common line with abusers ( no one will love you like I do… you’ll not find anyone) 🎉kudos to you - and look what the Lord has done ❤after you’ve let go of what’s not good for you

  • @ja9293
    @ja9293 11 месяцев назад +9

    I stayed married to a narcissist for over 3 decades....each year, each day, I hoped he would change because "he was a man of God." A narcissist is a narcissist, and they never change....

    • @marywangui7432
      @marywangui7432 11 месяцев назад +2

      You mean for 30 yrs. That is long but it's never too late to get our freedom.😅😅

    • @peninamuthoni5323
      @peninamuthoni5323 11 месяцев назад

      Did you leave finally?

  • @chania80
    @chania80 11 месяцев назад +11

    I love Carols' spirit and indeed its absolutely true, healing is key, otherwise you wont recognize a good person plus you can also repeat patterns. I am so happy for them both. Charles seems gentle and that's what women need. I can relate to her story and the bounce back and peace is everything. I pray all women in abusive situations get the courage and the realization that there is a way out. You can start again. Not easy, but you can!!

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад +4

      Thanks for listening to my story blessings to you

  • @loisenjeri7379
    @loisenjeri7379 11 месяцев назад +4

    That is my friend and coach! Everytime I listen to your story, I still learn so much. I love how you and Mr. Dey do life together and treat each other. You are such a gift to the hurting. May God continue blessing and enlarging your territory Caroline!!

  • @johnmaelfu1360
    @johnmaelfu1360 11 месяцев назад +16

    unfortunately, if you tell someone they are being used..they will think you are jealous..you want to snatch their people

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад

      Thanks for listening to my story and life lessons blessings to you

  • @lynnmems2076
    @lynnmems2076 11 месяцев назад +4

    Asking God for His guidance before all undertakings is the best way to handle life's issues.

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад

      💯 correct thanks for taking the time to watch my story

  • @agnesnjeri8402
    @agnesnjeri8402 11 месяцев назад +7

    I agree with the fact that Afro looks good on you, it's our signature 😅😅 you're looking beautiful as usual 🥰🥰

  • @melphonejoan6410
    @melphonejoan6410 11 месяцев назад +6

    True when you are in abusive relationship never tell your abuser guy your leaving because that will now be the beginning of tough life

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад

      Thanks for watching my story and you’re absolutely 💯 correct

  • @wilkistermakani1593
    @wilkistermakani1593 11 месяцев назад +3

    The story is exactly what I have gone through, am rebuilding myself right now thou I don't know how to do it but I believe God has got my hand, I even threw the ring. Caroline you have spoken to my heart, let me have the courage perhaps one day I will also have a beautiful ending, even though the trauma is too much😢😢😢😢

  • @jackienjunge5134
    @jackienjunge5134 11 месяцев назад +9

    Thanks Lynn for hosting my friend Caroline Dey. What a blessing and great testimony.

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks Jackie for taking the time to listen to my story

    • @jackienjunge5134
      @jackienjunge5134 11 месяцев назад +1

      @@CarolineMbithiDey you are welcome and keep the fire burning. Enjoy your holidays.

  • @CarolCaylor7996
    @CarolCaylor7996 11 месяцев назад +5

    I was so tired and didnt know i will watch it all. Thank you Lynn and Caroline. I have learned so much. Thank you Caroline for affirming the words to Lynn. Her platform has so much. Its a unique platform, just one of a kind. Its a HUGE BLESSING

    • @dorothyanyango2197
      @dorothyanyango2197 11 месяцев назад

      Me too, but I'm glad I finished watching the whole show 😊

  • @rianendegwa8349
    @rianendegwa8349 8 месяцев назад +1

    It’s funny I don’t see Oprah in Lynn , so I don’t see why the comparison. Hers is a unique ministry! The authenticity of this lady is spectacular!
    Proverbs 22:29
    29 Do you see a man diligent in his/her work/business? He/she will stand before kings; he/she will not stand before obscure men.
    God is causing you to stand before kings Sis! God bless you!

  • @ReneeMurunga
    @ReneeMurunga 11 месяцев назад +9

    My cousin... God bless you. You are a brave woman and a great inspiration.

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks cousin for listening blessings to you

  • @monicakiragu7715
    @monicakiragu7715 11 месяцев назад +3

    Caro your story is inspiring, I've been through alot in 13 yr of toxic marriage, im in healing process and i know God have purpose on me

    • @dianacee6369
      @dianacee6369 11 месяцев назад

      We share same years...yes 13 years

  • @anttoinetteselynemakokha7413
    @anttoinetteselynemakokha7413 11 месяцев назад +2

    This lady is amazing.
    For the first time in LNN I had pen and paper, wrote some beautiful notes.

  • @user-fr7fp8dk6j
    @user-fr7fp8dk6j 9 месяцев назад +1

    Purpose healing & work...Much love @ Lnn ❤️❤️... I'm not what happened to me! we are healing slowly by slowly Thank You.

  • @gloriagkemunto-lm9hq
    @gloriagkemunto-lm9hq 11 месяцев назад +5

    Wow, I have taken home alot alot. Everyone has greatness in them, no matter the obstacles, God has empowered them to overcome them

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад

      Thanks for watching and learning the life lessons

  • @irenenyaboke1401
    @irenenyaboke1401 9 месяцев назад +2

    Thank you Lyn for the rebuilding series. Learning alot. Truly we shouldn't allow what we have gone through to define us❤

  • @sarahwangare9247
    @sarahwangare9247 11 месяцев назад +7

    This one is life changing for me,God has used you Caro to shift my paradigm. Thanks Lynn

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад +1

      Sarah thanks for listening to my story i pray you’re encouraged

  • @katelairene6915
    @katelairene6915 11 месяцев назад +5

    Wow! Nice conversation here. There is just so much of us ladies who would or occassionally fall into this trap, " he's been so nice to me, he has sacrificed so much for me" , and then he makes an advancement and truthfully you may not want to consent but the thought of how much he has done blah blah .... you fall in. Yes as she is saying learning to affirm your No is something that every lady can learn and be unapologetic about it. Personal dignity for self matters and doing it for the other is selfish when you are hurting 😢.
    Thank Lynn and team

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад

      Thanks for listening to my story blessings to you

  • @IANA2030
    @IANA2030 11 месяцев назад +4

    I just left unapologetically very peaceful and happier now❤❤❤

  • @beatricenjeri740
    @beatricenjeri740 11 месяцев назад +2

    Your story teaches us that only God can change a man ( woman) you can’t change human beings. Thank God you left

  • @rebeccamakenzi9019
    @rebeccamakenzi9019 11 месяцев назад +2

    Turning point..... I have done.....the decision point thus turns self slavery into freedom... Quit and go.. Move on... He will change.. Is the Big sickness women are fighting.. God have mercy upon us.. We need God's grace to reign to excel into laughter zones.. Relax into good hands..Lynn you're chosen Queen... Continue being humble. Good goodness is running over you. Amen God bless All. It's a powerful testimony. Be blessed caro

  • @shalomministries_ojwigaros1916
    @shalomministries_ojwigaros1916 7 месяцев назад +1

    Indeed Ms. Lynne you are exceptional. 🎉❤ you give healing and comfort to many broken soul out there (women) iam one of those.

  • @labelle8110
    @labelle8110 9 месяцев назад +3

    This woman deserves to be loved!

  • @judynyokabi8502
    @judynyokabi8502 10 месяцев назад +1

    God can collapse timeframes on your behalf! Wow! Such a gracious show. Lynn, you truly are designed for even greater things!🤩

  • @tabbygoto998
    @tabbygoto998 11 месяцев назад +14

    Thanks Lynn for bringing us such guests. Carol is calm, collected & authentic.

  • @roselineligusi8868
    @roselineligusi8868 10 месяцев назад +2

    Lynn I love the stories you air. I think most of us ladies go to marriage without knowing ourselves well. This is therapeutic for sure.

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 9 месяцев назад

      @rosenigus8868 thanks for watching my story i pray you were empowered and encouraged

  • @lennahombiro3577
    @lennahombiro3577 11 месяцев назад +17

    Thanks Caroline and Lynn for sharing this. Counseling and healing time is important.

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад +2

      Thanks for listening to my story i pray you’re encouraged

    • @priscachika6797
      @priscachika6797 11 месяцев назад

      ​@@CarolineMbithiDeythe same story with me but for 18yrs before I pull off 😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @celineachieng4963
    @celineachieng4963 11 месяцев назад +2

    I love how Lynn loves love without envy..God will give her the Best Love ❤️. Am touched by him apologising to his wife for the previous wounds..may God give the wounded women such comforters.

  • @erib254
    @erib254 11 месяцев назад +5

    Thank you God using Carol, lynn is Lynn and not Oprah. Finally someone said it. Every human is special, different and unique because God did agreat and mighty job. I have lernt alot as always. More grace to your guests, lynn and your team ❤

    • @ninah1628
      @ninah1628 11 месяцев назад +1

      I agree 💯

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад +1

      Thanks for taking the time to watch my story blessings to you

  • @mariecm6259
    @mariecm6259 10 месяцев назад +1

    That guy is a pure narcissist. Thank God you found someone who was destined for you.🙏🏽 big lesson. Thank you Lynn 👏🏽

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 9 месяцев назад

      Thanks for watching my story @mariecm6259 am humbled and grateful to share my testimony blessings to you

  • @user-oy4wf6hn4m
    @user-oy4wf6hn4m 11 месяцев назад +4

    Watching from Zimbabwe. I love
    watching your shows Lynn. You are so amazing I like the way you interview your guests. You don’t interject you give them time to flow with their stories. Keep up the good job 👏🏽

  • @nabbosabeldine8885
    @nabbosabeldine8885 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for sharing the painful story 😭😭😭.
    We praise God for not giving up on us .. .
    Thanks for sharing be blessed always. . be blessed always 🙏🏾 thx

  • @kazimla5016
    @kazimla5016 11 месяцев назад +3

    I love you Lynn you are such an inspiration to me Carol I love your story I have been through the same experience as yours i stayed in an unhealthy marriage for 16 years but now I'm happily dating my self its the 6th year now i trust God will bring someone who will love me with the love of God
    I follow Lynn s stories from South Africa
    ❤❤❤❤

  • @clairehongo115
    @clairehongo115 11 месяцев назад +2

    Lynn am not that much financially stable to fetch for a therapist coz the last time I contacted one for a Service I got broken......but your shows girl and the type of guests with their stories is enough therapy for me

  • @rachaelakello3040
    @rachaelakello3040 11 месяцев назад +3

    Thanks Carol for allowing God to use you as a channel of strength and encouragement to Lynn.
    Thanks for sharing your story.

  • @JacintaMzee
    @JacintaMzee 5 месяцев назад +1

    Carol, You have nailed it. Lynn, you are the best. We love you. Lynn continue the work God ordained you to do. You will make it. Amen

  • @sallieklausworld9094
    @sallieklausworld9094 11 месяцев назад +5

    I pray 🙏 so many people especially in Diaspora would watch this it never too late to leave forget about what family and friends will say but always choose you cos either people will always talk. Thanks Lynn for the platform ❤

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад

      Thanks for watching my story blessings to you

  • @roselinemutinda7381
    @roselinemutinda7381 10 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you Carol this is so powerful.Similar to my story ... God thank you for this two strong ladies keep on changing and toughing lifes.indeed it's my preparation period i thank God have healed n continue to.Lynn your pure and Unique.Carol's story is my game changer.i am not what happened to me.

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 9 месяцев назад

      Amen you’re not what happened to you, you have greatness in you and God’s got you thanks for watching my story @rosemuthinda7381💕

  • @marumbusophie7839
    @marumbusophie7839 11 месяцев назад +2

    Pure spirit that cannot be corrupted Lynn,this is great! Next level we are coming...as lynn says, we respect the giver of the gift not the gift itself...purpose,healing and work merged together!

  • @matts6894
    @matts6894 11 месяцев назад +8

    She is a great host ..she hosted us in Boston once, wish her nothing but the best.

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад

      Thanks it was an honor to host you and thanks for listening to my story blessings to you

    • @cathrineheinrichs8570
      @cathrineheinrichs8570 11 месяцев назад

      Caro this was so brave of you to share this story it's like 16 years ago and sounds like yesterday may the Lord continue to restore and strengthen you thanks Lynn for allowing God to use your channel to bring hope and restoration

  • @SharonWaBarakaVlogs
    @SharonWaBarakaVlogs 11 месяцев назад +16

    Wow Carol she was my bestie in school and we are still friends to date. What an inspiring story, our scars are what makes us stronger. You are a testament that God is a God of second chances. By the way that part of news anchor started in our dorm. I remember how you would walk with a folded book pretending to be a microphone and say ...Caroline Mbithi reporting for KTN 😂😂

    • @wangarenjenga7600
      @wangarenjenga7600 11 месяцев назад

      It feels like yesterday. Flashlights to the world!

  • @wanjiruwambui1
    @wanjiruwambui1 11 месяцев назад +12

    Carol!!! Glad you shared it on this platform💕

    • @CarolineMbithiDey
      @CarolineMbithiDey 11 месяцев назад

      Thanks for listening to my story blessings to you