Enneagram in Relationship: Type 4 (The Artist)
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- Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2023
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Kimberly and I dive into the relationality of Type 4! We explore their strengths and their struggles, what work they need to engage in, and how we can support the 4's in our lives. Enjoy!
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I’m a 9. I once dated a sexual 4. I remember we would fight because they would express such deeply sad and complex emotion (sometimes so complex I thought damn I’ve never had THAT day) and my immediate reaction would be to say something positive and offer a solution and probably around the 2-3x I did this, they yelled I DONT WANT A SOLUTION and I remember thinking why the hell would someone not want a solution to this? Lol we didn’t last too long but remained friends. I intro’d them to the enneagram and once I learned they were a 4, it all made sense. Since then, I have definitely learned to let 4s just tell you how they feel without having to negate it with something positive.
Loving this series btw. Thank you both!
Thank you so much for sharing! It can be really confounding to be in relationship with someone who sees the world so differently from ourselves! But luckily we have a wonderful tool like the Enneagram to help us navigate this tricky territory!
I’m in a 4 duo relationship hahaha!! Laughing so much about all of this. It’s so true. Thanks for sharing 🩵🙏
Ps the saving grace of a 4 duo relationship is humour to lighten the mood sometimes 🤪
Thank you. I’m a 4w5 in a new relationship with a 7w6.
Wonderful! I hope the 7 episode is helpful for y'all as well!
Melancholy and sadness is the baseline where we are wired. So it's not that we love it- it's more like it's who we are. Similar to how a 7s baseline is lighter and more positive. So when someone says, "hey, change," it feels like the person is attacking our personhood. Because they are criticizing our baseline. The body center is repressed, so moving out of things and into action is hard, too, so that's just another level to making change taking a bit more work and effort. And while we can make changes, I don't think our baseline is going to shift very much. Just having gratitude, and communicating to our partner that, "Hey, I feel fine. I'm not actually unhappy. this is just my baseline. things are actually ok" is helpful in my relationships.
yes yes yes! ❤❤❤❤❤
I love 7s- since I learned the enneagram. I’m never bored with a 7 🎉-4
Thank you
You’re so welcome! Glad you’ve enjoyed the episode!
@@ConsciousEnneagram it’s really well done. I’ve studied endlessly for years about the enneagram and you both brought a new point to my view and that’s something I treasure! I’m a 4W5 dating a 5w4
@@Faeriefungus Aw, thank you so much! That means the world to both of us. I've focused my whole career on making sure that deep, insightful, and powerful Enneagram information is accessible to as many people as possible!