Long Lost Family (UK) S08E03

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @dadt8009
    @dadt8009 4 года назад +570

    If people are simply a little bit kinder and a little bit more open-minded, there will be a lot less suffering in the world.

    • @joyafal7685
      @joyafal7685 4 года назад +3

      dadt l

    • @respecthewoman
      @respecthewoman 4 года назад +21

      Yes. I think we should make a pact to try to do exactly what you said, be more kinder, open-minded, understanding.... patient. We never know another person's story or struggles so its always nice to be kinder. Thank you dadt. So true. Cheers! And thank you Cinelic for these uploads really enjoying them. looking for season 8/4. Been wanting to see that eps for the longest.....

    • @Cinelic
      @Cinelic  4 года назад +9

      @@respecthewoman Yes, the one with Spencer Brown. Been trying to procure it and have had no luck to date. But I will keep trying! 😄

    • @respecthewoman
      @respecthewoman 4 года назад +4

      @@Cinelic Thanks love. Cheers!

    • @dorothyannesolomonduveilho28
      @dorothyannesolomonduveilho28 4 года назад +2

      Amen And Amen

  • @JessieArmy
    @JessieArmy 4 года назад +378

    I cry every single time I watch this show. It never fails.

  • @audreywilliams7007
    @audreywilliams7007 4 года назад +305

    There are so many older people went to their graves with some serious secrets that will never be revealed. I am searching for my birth mother who would be 78 now. I just got an Ancestry DNA kit. Please wish me luck.

    • @emze.6516
      @emze.6516 4 года назад +4

      Goodluck Audrey. I hope it turns out well for you

    • @NikkiBikki
      @NikkiBikki 4 года назад +3

      I hope it turns out really well for you!

    • @axeljsk1281
      @axeljsk1281 3 года назад +3

      Wish you good luck ,hopes she s fine .

    • @luzjacobo2799
      @luzjacobo2799 3 года назад +4

      Wishing you lots of luck. Let us know what you find out.

    • @janeblake5083
      @janeblake5083 2 года назад +1

      I hope you find each other - please keep us updated, *fingers crossed*

  • @cyl742
    @cyl742 3 года назад +65

    I was all good with no tears until Jeff's face went to bliss hugging his sister. The little boy inside finally got what he'd wanted for so long.

  • @theevolvingmindset333
    @theevolvingmindset333 Год назад +34

    I'm a Long Lost Family fanatic and I'm American. I've watched all of the Long Lost Family US shows and now I've been binge watching Long Lost Family UK.
    These stories and reunions are so amazing, beautiful and emotional, I can't stop crying 😭😭 Thank you for uploading these!

    • @virg0_lem0nade
      @virg0_lem0nade Год назад +3

      i love the UK version especially 💗

    • @Nonsense-On-Stilts
      @Nonsense-On-Stilts Год назад +3

      I agree. I wish I could watch starting with season 1. Living in the US do you know where to find more episodes?

    • @debrariggin5954
      @debrariggin5954 6 месяцев назад

      Me too 💯

    • @NanetteWoolston
      @NanetteWoolston 3 месяца назад

      I’ve also been watching Long Lost Family, the UK version, and it’s great to see families reunite! I had no idea that there’s a US version.

    • @NanetteWoolston
      @NanetteWoolston 3 месяца назад

      @@Nonsense-On-StiltsI have a PBS Passport subscription whereby the UK version streams!

  • @rosadallago9543
    @rosadallago9543 2 года назад +35

    I am always so impressed by how respectful this show is towards it's protagonists. We are almost not used to this kind and open hearted behaviour anymore, especially on TV. It is wonderful to watch.

    • @housedubs
      @housedubs 9 месяцев назад

      Yes, I thought the same, but most of them turned out to be victims of circumstance too.

  • @heidip2464
    @heidip2464 4 года назад +72

    So far this is the episode I have cried the most! Jeffrey ripped my heart out when he said he'd never known love until his wife. That was so heartbreaking... I'm so happy that his sister found him

  • @absurdlyy9009
    @absurdlyy9009 4 года назад +207

    "I am wanted" something all the little kids in us want to know and feel. You are loved. Never forget that child ❤️

  • @christinareid7810
    @christinareid7810 4 года назад +207

    I like how Davina eased into the information that Jeffery hadn't had the best childhood. She didn't ignore it, but she presented it gracefully. That had to be hard to hear. You always want the best, but sometimes the best, isn't what happened.

    • @jeffpetrie7744
      @jeffpetrie7744 3 года назад +7

      I had a wonderful childhood, but a horrific adulthood. Does that happen to anyone in these episodes?

    • @IsmaAragto
      @IsmaAragto 3 года назад +4

      His mother is disgraceful for sleeping around while her husband was out fighting a war and then tossing her child out. She is SOLELY to blame really.

    • @i.m.7710
      @i.m.7710 3 года назад +22

      @@IsmaAragto No, her husband could have softened his heart and he would have been hard and stopped the talk. That little boy was in an orphanage until he was 7. He's damaged. The husband could have just carried on and not cared about society. I will bet anything that he wasn't celibate during the war. Not at all!
      There was no birth control back then, she was young, it happens. She did not toss her baby out, her husband did.
      And you leave out any blame on the biological father. Interesting. Very sexist and judgmental.

    • @kimel-khalafawi7683
      @kimel-khalafawi7683 2 года назад +6

      @@IsmaAragto you didn't walk in her shoes...

    • @uncletaylorify
      @uncletaylorify 2 года назад +2

      @@i.m.7710 If he cheated on his wife then yes he should have accepted the child. But if he didn't cheat then I can understand his anger over his wife cheating.

  • @sassytbc7923
    @sassytbc7923 4 года назад +92

    As an adoptee, you are told over and over that you are special, that you were chosen. At the same time, you are always wondering why, if you are so special, that your birth mother gave you up. I am glad that there is someone in the world who wants to, and is able to help answer some of those answers. As usual, I much prefer the British version of a show over the American one. thank you for being there for these people

    • @elainesmith7512
      @elainesmith7512 4 года назад +7

      @sassy tbc: I can't relate to being an adoptee because I was BLESSEDLY raised in a big, loving family with parents who were married for over 60 years before my mother died. And I have always been close to my siblings. I LOVE this show, and although I don't want to be disloyal because I am an American, I also like the British version better.👍👍👏👏😀😀

    • @elainesmith7512
      @elainesmith7512 4 года назад +4

      @Kai Evans What is wrong with you? I wrote "blessedly" because I know I was blessed to have been brought up by both my birth parents. I hope I am not coming across as being arrogant, BUT GRATEFUL to God because it was just by His grace because I could have been raised in other circumstances. If I offended you, I am sorry. Take care.

  • @deegrant6426
    @deegrant6426 4 года назад +324

    I'm so happy for Jeffrey. He seems like such a kind man and his wife a gentle soul who brought him so much love all these years. God bless him and his new family

    • @swampydouglasobannon8804
      @swampydouglasobannon8804 4 года назад +8

      I agree something about his story touched me I think he's a gentle soul.

    • @a697ag
      @a697ag 3 года назад +18

      When they asked who the first person was that showed him affection and he sobbed out "Wendy", I totally lost it

    • @brigittekosgey6291
      @brigittekosgey6291 3 года назад +9

      For a man to tear a child away is very cruel. When men have secret kids, this is hardly the case. I feel like hugging Jeff. Poor Sharon too, ignorant, close minded people 😒

    • @iyob.serekeberhan5484
      @iyob.serekeberhan5484 2 года назад

      Z!

    • @myoldvhstapes
      @myoldvhstapes Год назад

      Geoffrey

  • @renatabrpe
    @renatabrpe 4 года назад +96

    I loved how they both showed affection to each other's pictures! He kissed his sister's picture and she held his picture to her heart.

  • @livingincrete7157
    @livingincrete7157 4 года назад +106

    The woman with white Mum and black Dad. OMG Never have I ever seen such a beautiful soul. All she cares about is how her mother must have felt. She is hands down the most selfless person ever. She's moved me to tears. God bless her. Compassion so strong.

    • @theresaduncan-devos5410
      @theresaduncan-devos5410 4 года назад +9

      True. Selfless love when you put other people's feelings ahead of yours. ❤️

    • @summer6787
      @summer6787 Год назад

      but her other sisters were also mixed so i dont understand that

    • @cynergy7985
      @cynergy7985 23 дня назад

      ​@@summer6787
      The difference is she was married to their father so she had support to get through all the racism but not when she had the other girl so she wouldn't have been able to even find work. Single moms struggled to even find someone who would hire them in those days but add a mixed race child to the mix & there would have been zero chance of finding work.

  • @talitahuang6414
    @talitahuang6414 4 года назад +70

    I have been binge watching this show for four days my eyes are so swollen. From crying the skin around my eyes feel raw but I can't stop watching

  • @ratstograts
    @ratstograts 4 года назад +61

    This show is great for opening the tear ducts. I loved that the women met at the pub their mother had worked at for fifteen years.

  • @TennesseeMelanie
    @TennesseeMelanie 3 года назад +54

    I just adore Geoffrey...I am so glad he has such a wonderful wife...and that his sister found him.

  • @uncletaylorify
    @uncletaylorify 4 года назад +37

    I'm a grown ass man! I am NOT gonna start crying while watching this.........ohhh shit somebody give me a tissue!

  • @lovetoread9042
    @lovetoread9042 4 года назад +116

    I love this show! I found out through DNA my father wasn't my father. I was rejected by Birth father and 2 half brothers. This show helps me to heal by seeing good reunions. Thank you for sharing these.

    • @britt905
      @britt905 4 года назад +17

      I can’t imagine not accepting a sibling. I’m so sorry. I hope the family you do have or the family you’ve chosen (friends) gives you all the love you need.

    • @lovetoread9042
      @lovetoread9042 4 года назад +22

      @@britt905 thank you! Yes I have been blessed. Also, I have met some wonderful new cousins and aunts and uncles who have welcomed me with open arms.

    • @ericmishima
      @ericmishima 4 года назад +10

      Real family Act Like Family. Stay strong!

    • @lovetoread9042
      @lovetoread9042 4 года назад +4

      @@ericmishimathank you

    • @monicafedel3307
      @monicafedel3307 3 года назад +3

      Perhaps his wife put her foot down on bringing you into their lives. I hope they realize their mistake. I am grateful my birthmothers-family was welcoming. Now with DNA found my birth fathers brother too .

  • @marydieter2079
    @marydieter2079 28 дней назад +1

    This is such a civilized show…kind, thoughtful, gracious and redeeming. I’m 73 & have watched nearly every episode❤ thank you for sharing their stories.

  • @EPalsson
    @EPalsson 4 года назад +88

    I feel so bad for Geoffrey. My impression was he was scarred from the loveless upbringing he had after 18 months. And so sorry for the mother feeling she had no choice but to give up a beloved 18-month-old toddler. I can't imagine. 💔 If only the husband could have accepted what happened and grow to love Geoffrey. Heartbreaking all around!!! 😢

    • @NayLouise24
      @NayLouise24 4 года назад +26

      EPalsson I feel terrible for Geoffrey, but also, that was the Mums doing. How could a man look at that child without seeing his wife’s cheating while he was away fighting for his country? The child would have represented betrayal and probably would never have been loved by the Father anyway. I feel like with being given away, he had the best chance at a normal childhood, it just unfortunately didn’t go that way :( I hope he is able to heal now.

    • @lang-ed3bk
      @lang-ed3bk 4 года назад +21

      i can understand that the husband didn't want the child. his wife not only cheated on him, but had another man's baby. and then to raise it out in the open was another slap to his face; it's like she's not even ashamed of her actions. i don't feel sorry for the mom; i do, however, feel sorry for the boy and the husband. the mom was selfish and it was because of her selfishness that caused all this heartbreak. this wasn't a stepson the husband had to learn to accept; this was a baby his wife had with another man while they were married.

    • @stewartcameron1516
      @stewartcameron1516 2 года назад +6

      @@lang-ed3bk I will never understand why married mothers went to these Dance halls - Red flag straight away - the ultimate betrayal - imagine how crushed he must have felt when he returned home and walked thru the door. Poor Jeoffrey innocent party in the whole thing - wonder if he ever found who is birth father was???

    • @lynarystic
      @lynarystic 2 года назад +3

      @@NayLouise24
      This is why forgiveness is important.
      Unforgiveness brings so much hurt to everyone involved.
      It's good that his sister reach out to him. Strangely never mentioned anything about the 2 older brothers.

    • @maobfh
      @maobfh 2 года назад +6

      @@NayLouise24 - times were tough during WWII. In the UK, France, and several other countries things were harder on a level an American would have trouble understanding. Not even mentioning countries who were overtaken by Hitler and his allies. I don’t know the story, I don’t think any of us do. Just a reminder that we can learn from these stories but might resist the temptation to pass judgment.

  • @BS-dq1kz
    @BS-dq1kz 4 года назад +107

    Big sisters love their little brothers. She was a loyal sister even though she didn’t really know him, she loved him. And it’s apparent he has carried a weight on his shoulders all these years. I’m so happy she searched for him so he can feel whole now. He seems so kind and I’m glad he has a supportive and loving wife. This was a beautiful episode. One of my very faves. They’re all my faves though lol!

    • @hilaryc3203
      @hilaryc3203 4 года назад +25

      She is the little sister; born after dad returned from the war. Little sisters love their big brothers too :)

    • @BS-dq1kz
      @BS-dq1kz 4 года назад +9

      Hilary C Yes that’s right! I knew that but I guess I was thinking of me personally being a big sister. Big and little sisters love their brothers:)

  • @stryker1026
    @stryker1026 3 года назад +23

    Those sisters were lovely women. I love that they put that book together for Sharon as well. How thoughtful and caring!

  • @chichi6796
    @chichi6796 4 года назад +30

    They are the cutest sisters. And the brother suddenly knowing that someone cared is precious.

  • @nabiilahnab6172
    @nabiilahnab6172 4 года назад +109

    The expression of pure joy on Jeffrey's face while hugging his beloved sister 💕💕💕

    • @debbiee6535
      @debbiee6535 2 года назад +1

      🙂💝 just what that man needed and just what she needed

    • @myoldvhstapes
      @myoldvhstapes Год назад

      Geoffrey

  • @emrsdca
    @emrsdca 3 года назад +25

    Barbara and Jeffrey...I'm only half through this one and I'm crying like a baby! I want to say though Davina and Nicky are just absolutely amazing people the compassion and how they hold it together I'll never know! I have to finish this episode!

  • @ericmishima
    @ericmishima 4 года назад +17

    Carol is MVP in this one. You named your daughter Sharon! You Rock!

  • @barbararey-constantin5679
    @barbararey-constantin5679 3 года назад +18

    I felt when the lady walked in the pub that will be what it's like when we are reunited with our loved ones in heaven. Thank you very much for sharing this program.

  • @hazelblue84
    @hazelblue84 4 года назад +48

    It's so sad. That the child had no fault yet had to pay the price.

  • @smc130
    @smc130 4 года назад +54

    The way this group intervenes for people looking for family is just a beautiful thing to watch. They are very mindful of the feelings of those found and respecting those who prefer not to be on camera.

  • @Abdul-Mo
    @Abdul-Mo 4 года назад +58

    I am so grateful to you for these quality uploads. I'm surprised you managed to find them I've looked everywhere for these videos. 👍🏾

  • @81nilufer
    @81nilufer 4 года назад +15

    The emotions that women emit is just magical. One of the best reunions I have seen!!! God bless the LLF Team!!!!!!!! You are angels sent from above!

  • @kaylinfrancis8751
    @kaylinfrancis8751 4 года назад +33

    Thank you so much for sharing these with us Cinelic. I love this show!

    • @Cinelic
      @Cinelic  4 года назад +9

      Same, love the show, I cry every episode and just wanted to share them all with you ❤️

  • @dezaraemichelle509
    @dezaraemichelle509 4 года назад +38

    *you can tell by the looks on their faces that they felt like their mom walked through the door once again 💜*

  • @annamarielewis7078
    @annamarielewis7078 3 года назад +7

    I’m so happy that racism is fading. Loads of lovely mixed couples making such gorgeous babies.💜💜💜

  • @elizabethelliott3175
    @elizabethelliott3175 4 года назад +38

    These episodes wring the emotions out of me every time, but I keep coming back!:))

  • @MegaBrenda1970
    @MegaBrenda1970 4 года назад +77

    Jeffrey is killing me!! I can’t stop crying!!! Lands!! The people just rip my heart out!!

  • @mamahustru
    @mamahustru 4 года назад +20

    Those times. Nice Sharon has sisters who look a little like her. That group hug had me weeping again.

  • @lizlee6290
    @lizlee6290 3 года назад +7

    The quality (sound and picture) of the Long Lost Family videos you present is just wonderful. Thank you! I've been binge watching LLF episodes for weeks and yours are the best, hands down.

  • @bakerssoulkitchen6668
    @bakerssoulkitchen6668 4 года назад +23

    What a wonderful show! Thank you for uploading. I send to all of you lots love from south korea!

  • @rubij1989
    @rubij1989 4 года назад +44

    i want to hug Geoffrey . He is so sweet :_:

    • @lillianebwire4897
      @lillianebwire4897 4 года назад

      Me too!
      They took away his good years growing with rejection so bad.

  • @AgentAO7
    @AgentAO7 4 года назад +10

    OMGosh the first 10 minutes already brought me to tears!
    WARNING: Don’t watch until the end if you’re too emotional. Otherwise, you’ll be a hot mess!!!

  • @veronikaverster1961
    @veronikaverster1961 3 года назад +13

    Wendy...God bless her! Such a loving wife to Jeffrey. So happy he found love through her .

  • @odawanative392
    @odawanative392 4 года назад +27

    The oldest sister named her daughter after her sister❤😭❤😭❤😭

  • @shrellosbourne4238
    @shrellosbourne4238 3 года назад +5

    I'm so very happy for Geoffrey. Barbara is so genuine. I keep watching this over and over. Its just a happy moment for them both.

  • @carolnewton496
    @carolnewton496 3 года назад +6

    I have met a first cousin through Ancestry and she is the child of my uncle and was conceived before he was married. Sadly my uncle died in 1981, but my dad the only surviving sibling was still alive and she got to meet him shortly before he died. I have given her photos of her father, our grandparents and since she collects quilts I gave her one grandma made.

  • @FareezLovesMe
    @FareezLovesMe 4 года назад +21

    I love how Sharon's sisters refer to their eldest sister Carol as " our Carol "

    • @hogwashmcturnip8930
      @hogwashmcturnip8930 2 года назад

      It's what we say where we come from .Also some northern areas too. it's very tribal She is 'their Carol, as opposed to any other Carol, or belonging to anyone else! It is very comforting, because it gives you a sense of identity and security, and a sense of belonging. She will now be 'Their Sharon' which is what she has longed to hear all her life!

  • @hmax1591
    @hmax1591 4 года назад +4

    Lovely stories. So happy for all of them. They should bring that program to the U.S. . Those of you who think having a family is not a big deal, well it is. Those men abandoning their children, those mothers have babies they can't raise, this is the suffering you put your children through.

  • @Emy53
    @Emy53 4 года назад +26

    My heart broke for Jeffrey. He was 18 months old. The husband already accepted her infidelity, so why not keep the child. I don't mean to be judgemental, but this just ripped me up.

    • @Hnzuu
      @Hnzuu 3 года назад +4

      Out of sight, out of mind... That's my guess. It's horrible and unfair.

    • @myoldvhstapes
      @myoldvhstapes Год назад

      Geoffrey

  • @freshname
    @freshname 3 года назад +7

    Wendy seems to be such a caring and affectionate partner! What a person to share your life with!

  • @bee_jeijizzme3124
    @bee_jeijizzme3124 4 года назад +8

    How I ended up here??? 😭 now I can’t stop crying and had watched 5 episodes. Be right back need some water. Dehydrated from crying.

  • @diannameade495
    @diannameade495 2 года назад +6

    God bless Jeffrey. I wanted to reach through the screen and give him a big hug. ❤

  • @annamarielewis7078
    @annamarielewis7078 3 года назад +8

    It is NEVER the children’s fault. But they bear the burden and the suffering. Children are not parcels, not toys, not “things” to be strewn about at the whim of often irresponsible parents and officials. There is so much utter heartlessness in some of these folks backgrounds. Makes you wonder how we survive as a society 🤔

  • @まりゅう-y1v
    @まりゅう-y1v 3 года назад +5

    These videos gives me the feeling of Gratitude. For the wonderful life God hás bestowed upon. We tend to forget and neglect what we have in life and watching these people meet their long lost family member warms my heart. It makes me feel so lucky and loved. God Bless them

  • @Readiculous21
    @Readiculous21 4 года назад +21

    My uncle had one of those war babies while he was in England. We found out after he passed that they had connected a few years earlier.

    • @02Nawal
      @02Nawal 4 года назад

      Carol Fulkerson people should be having war babies let alone one night stands bringing illegitimate children to this world.

  • @shams61022
    @shams61022 4 года назад +10

    During the Caronavirus lock down this videos are bringing me joy in my heart. Every story makes me cry.
    Please produce stories where fathers are also found.
    Thank you very much.

  • @tinanealon733
    @tinanealon733 4 года назад +15

    My heart is broken for Jeffrey. So glad he now knows that his Mother did love him, and that his little sister loves him.

  • @gabe-po9yi
    @gabe-po9yi 3 года назад +10

    Geoffrey being ripped from his family at almost two years old is so tragic. That’s old enough to cause a severe impact on a child and maybe contributed to him not being adopted until the age of 7, who knows. I hate to think of what his life must’ve been like that he’s blocked it out until then. Top it off with not feeling loved until he was grown and met the woman he ended up marrying. Thank God for that.

    • @myoldvhstapes
      @myoldvhstapes Год назад +2

      We've heard from other participants on the show who spent time in orphanages just how horrid the abuse was.

  • @junebugsmithson6301
    @junebugsmithson6301 2 года назад +2

    I'm overjoyed to see how many people are so excited to meet with their loved ones after so many years
    I too fall in this situation, I've tried to talk about it but my mom doesn't want to.
    I enjoy watching this program even though I'm in the same situation it gives me joy to see the happiness in every welcoming family:and sadness for others. God bless the people who thought about doing such a great thing.

  • @Mikecetti
    @Mikecetti 4 года назад +16

    Thank you so much for this, you dont know what it means ❤❤❤

  • @jamesherrick2566
    @jamesherrick2566 3 года назад +2

    Davina and Nikki (as well as their support team) are pure angels for bringing closure and happiness to people’s lives. God bless you.

  • @annamarielewis7078
    @annamarielewis7078 3 года назад +4

    The “sisters” are a force of nature. Tons of beautiful energy.💜💜💜

  • @angharadswansea9343
    @angharadswansea9343 4 года назад +6

    I cannot imagine what it is like for any mother to have to give up her child. I hope society has grown enough to help people and not tear families apart anymore.

    • @justme8841
      @justme8841 4 года назад

      they still do cause women can decide without the fathers opinion to abord a child

  • @jolinescheepers3742
    @jolinescheepers3742 2 года назад +2

    This programme makes me miss my mom & dad SO much. They died when I was a teenager 1y apart.
    I miss them, I miss them, I miss them.
    There's a BIG part of my life missing.

  • @polona9566
    @polona9566 4 года назад +5

    Poor sweet, sweet man.
    And the sisters are so so lovely💛
    I cried so much when the siblings met.

  • @nmac6533
    @nmac6533 4 года назад +5

    My eyes have been puffed for 4 days now. Thank you

  • @FreakingMona
    @FreakingMona 4 года назад +12

    Another heartwarming episode. Thank you so much for sharing these. Merry Christmas.

    • @Cinelic
      @Cinelic  4 года назад +4

      You're very much welcome, and Merry Christmas!

  • @john_carter_of_earth
    @john_carter_of_earth 4 года назад +2

    Thanks for posting! I'm in the U.S. and am very happy to finally catch up with ep. 2 and ep 3 of this season (8). Now if only I could find a posting of ep. 4, then I will have caught up with all of the episodes of season 8. Thanks again!

  • @smiless0999
    @smiless0999 3 года назад +5

    Awwww! That little “family finger” thing was so cute and wholesome ❤️❤️❤️

  • @ramonalinkous4733
    @ramonalinkous4733 3 года назад +6

    Oh. God bless Jeffery. Tears running down my face.

  • @ayetam_aye
    @ayetam_aye 4 года назад +31

    My goodness, I couldn't imagine giving my child away after having him in my life for 18 months! Honestly, I probably would have left my husband💔 No judgement, just me...

    • @GenieGin13
      @GenieGin13 4 года назад +12

      it's difficult in that time period. a woman's identity and livelihood was tied to the men in her life. to wind up making that heartbreaking choice, you have to understand the times. at that point, her husband returned from war and returned as head of household. it is clear he had strong influence over the family and wasn't accepting of any compromise or outcome besides her completely giving the baby up for adoption. it seemed the biological dad was either unknown man from a one night stand after the dancing event or if he wasn't unknown, then he certainly didn't want anything to do with his son since the baby stayed with mom the entire 18 months.
      had she chosen to become single mother, she might not have had resources. husband cuts her off from funds and forbids her from having contact with the two older sons. she might not be able to get a decent job if potential employers would view her the same as unwed single mother with illegitimate child. she would've needed to find another place to live. and again, the issue of single mother might come up. some places didn't rent to single mothers.
      her own family might've not rejected her had she chosen to leave the husband. some families did disown daughters in the vein of "you chose to leave your husband. don't come back here for money/you're not living here with us." or "you chose adultery. you've brought shame to his family and ours. how could you." and didn't want that stigma. families literally did consider the daughter as dead and would tell people that when she went away.
      i've heard of stories of women who did choose their child and ended up homeless with the baby or ended up living on the very rough side of town with not enough to provide for their young child-- clean water, food, shelter, warmth, babysitter etc. because they didn't have any support and there weren't a lot of government entities to help in those days, these women just had love to give but sometimes it isn't enough when it comes to life and death. all these women fought to keep their baby and struggled until it became clear life was not getting better and they knew it was no circumstance to raise a starving cold child, that her child deserved a chance at something better. sometimes, love in the face of no other good options with the prospect of poverty meant giving the baby away and pinging her hopes that the child wouldn't end up in care long term and that a great loving family would adopt immediately.

    • @ayetam_aye
      @ayetam_aye 4 года назад

      Gi L wow, you’ve just explained the everyday struggle of a black American woman. Again no judgement, after 18 months I would have chosen my child.... that’s just me🤷🏽‍♀️..... I understood from the get go why she did it, I personally couldn’t do it. Not after 18 months anyway.

    • @amyholman354
      @amyholman354 4 года назад +12

      But the ultimatum was to leave her other two, older sons, too. Her husband was cruel.

    • @february6189
      @february6189 3 года назад +3

      but then she'd have to leave her two elder sons too.

    • @tauron1
      @tauron1 3 года назад +6

      None of you seem to understand or at least acknowledge the fact that Bessie cheated! Spending all that time away and to return to your wife and family and find that your wife cheated and had a child with another person. FFS, who cares that she thought for one instant there was dancing, laughter, fun blah blah blah. The fact is, a person went off and every day risked their life in a tragic war with the full knowledge that they may never see their loved ones again and then to return and find that the person they loved the most had a child with someone else is one of the greatest betrayals. Not Jeffery's fault, and for sure not the soldiers fault for feeling betrayed, but DO NOT feel sorry for the mother.

  • @loveisall5520
    @loveisall5520 3 года назад +4

    As an American, I'd never hear of Davina or Nicky. You Brits are so lucky to have them--they're perfect.

  • @candles1diffusers
    @candles1diffusers Год назад +1

    Aww Sis Barbara. Thank you for doing what your mum couldn't do. That was really sweet of you.

  • @jukes243
    @jukes243 4 года назад +12

    That sister reunion was sweet.

  • @hgo883
    @hgo883 3 года назад +2

    I was oh so, so close to not crying. I thought, "I think I'm gonna do it! I'm finally not going to cry". Ah, why did he go and say, "That means something there, kid" and proudly, "That's me mum". Tears rolling

  • @simonebarnett1896
    @simonebarnett1896 4 года назад +11

    Thanks 4 uploading...luv this show.

  • @melaniedale-sutton9801
    @melaniedale-sutton9801 Год назад +1

    omg .... weeping! must feel so awesome for him to finally feel wanted - what a beautiful sister to have found!

  • @marianancy2713
    @marianancy2713 4 года назад +2

    Truly bless a happy reunion ... Geoffrey with his sister and Sharon with her four sisters. 💜

  • @janicescott7338
    @janicescott7338 4 года назад +13

    Jeffrey and Barbara look so much alike. Two very nice people.And Barbara not ever even knowing what her mother looked like.😢

    • @richardtruitt4646
      @richardtruitt4646 3 года назад +1

      did i miss what happened to the other 2 brothers?

    • @JM-vp3xb
      @JM-vp3xb 3 года назад

      @@richardtruitt4646 they did not participate in this show

  • @jillhansen5054
    @jillhansen5054 2 года назад +2

    The best thing about this show is the prolific use of the word "lovely" :)

  • @sandradavis8695
    @sandradavis8695 3 года назад +2

    Jeffrey seems like such a great person! I'm so very happy for he and Barbara.

  • @nmac6533
    @nmac6533 4 года назад +8

    Been crying for 4 days.. This is awesome

  • @babbitsmom
    @babbitsmom 4 года назад +4

    When Jefferey got that sisterly hug...tears!

  • @nicoleb3868
    @nicoleb3868 4 года назад +7

    Living in a very liberal state I feel very lucky that my relationship is not subjected to such cruelty. It makes me extremely angry that people would be so ignorant when love is such a precious gift.

  • @mon796
    @mon796 3 года назад +22

    I'd like to know if Geoffrey's brothers remembered him.

    • @GOOF-AID
      @GOOF-AID 3 месяца назад

      That's the exact thought that kept repeating...(I don't think or remember if they said the brothers had passed?? Or didn't want to be on camera) I wonder too if they thought of him and if they were still living, if they also got to meet him. Wow

  • @Sienna1919
    @Sienna1919 3 месяца назад

    Just absolutely had my heart shattered by Jeff. What a sweet man, and I'm so happy for him.

  • @kimel-khalafawi7683
    @kimel-khalafawi7683 2 года назад +1

    So happy for Geoffry and Barbara. And to the second reunion: I would love to wait 50 years, to be part of such a wonderful "sisterhood". Sorry for my english. Hugs from germany

  • @nillyk5671
    @nillyk5671 8 месяцев назад

    I'm masochistic, I keep coming back to this ep to cry. I feel so much empathy for the older gentleman...how much pain our actions cause to others... why can't people control their urges? It's so selfish and egotistical. That kind soul, that adorable older man didn't deserve to go thru so much pain. I just want to hug him. I keep thinking I am so happy that his sister has so much love to give.

  • @Faramallera
    @Faramallera 4 года назад +2

    THANK YOU SO SO SO MUCH for uploading these episodes… I love this show and I'm in Venezuela, so thank you!! ❤

  • @janeblake5083
    @janeblake5083 2 года назад +1

    Glad to hear I'm not the only one sobbing through this episode (actually every episode!)

  • @debbie6712
    @debbie6712 4 года назад +17

    I wish I was adopted so I could find my relatives and maybe have a real family. Like families are supposed to be. I grew up like the older gentlemen did. With no love or affection of any kind and daily abuse on top of it. I can dream can't I?

    • @jeraleewood5969
      @jeraleewood5969 3 года назад +1

      Love from Oregon!

    • @debbiexoxoxo6628
      @debbiexoxoxo6628 3 года назад +1

      @@jeraleewood5969 You made my day. Big smiles.

    • @Grimzoid
      @Grimzoid 3 года назад

      Love from Belgium 💖

    • @ilche996
      @ilche996 3 года назад

      I feel sad when I read this. I was brought up with only my mum and later met my dad. And I experienced so much love from my mum, and other relatives. I wish that all people was feeling that love. Big hugs

  • @9sunstar9
    @9sunstar9 4 года назад +1

    I have been watching these all day. I did not start today expecting to cry for most of it 😭😭

  • @juliesabuero9851
    @juliesabuero9851 Год назад

    It must be a good feeling for this 2 putting smile on people's faces. Watching this show I can't help crying. A tears of happiness for them. I like to have a job like them even if I don't get paid😃. The smiles in their heart would be enough pay.

  • @Tunapie
    @Tunapie Год назад +2

    I’ve been binge-watching these and idk if i have any more tears left 😭

  • @monicahummingbird
    @monicahummingbird 4 года назад +4

    I love you guys, Nicky and Davina... seeing the episodes always inspires me to have faith and hope! tears come anyway... :)

  • @TheRivrPrncess
    @TheRivrPrncess 4 года назад +31

    How can adoption agencies not check to see how prospective adoptive parents feel about giving kisses, hugs and otherwise seeing if they will be good for any child's emotional well being?

    • @homemanager12
      @homemanager12 2 года назад +4

      It was the times. Foster families went well vetted either. Lots of abuse happened.

    • @schs1977
      @schs1977 2 месяца назад

      Unfortunately, in many cases, it's not about the child, it's about the money they receive from the adoptive parents.

  • @kuvekhamo3790
    @kuvekhamo3790 4 года назад +6

    Can’t stop watching these videos ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lisaberchtold2248
    @lisaberchtold2248 9 месяцев назад

    I say- I will not cry- as I play in background at my remote job- there I am balling and all red eyes. Amazing program. I am American and I only watch UK as it is so special ❤

  • @LM-hv9xm
    @LM-hv9xm 3 года назад +6

    He thought he would be rejected. That poor man. I am glad she wanted to look for him.

    • @XY1541-s3v
      @XY1541-s3v 3 года назад +2

      He later tried to find out about his birth father & the first 7 years of his life which he didn't remembered, they found oyt it was very painful. It's very sad but at the same time it's good that he doesn't remembers it.

  • @keithbell6929
    @keithbell6929 4 года назад +22

    This show is my new addiction.

  • @mariarojas4205
    @mariarojas4205 Год назад +1

    The daughter's skin color is just beautiful ❤️ + HAPPY SHE HAS SISTERS 😊