Long Lost Family (UK) S09E07
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- Опубликовано: 13 дек 2019
- Long Lost Family UK Season 09 Episode 07
The final episode in the series features stories of people reported missing to the police, whose families are left behind, and we help a woman looking for answers as to why her mother disappeared.
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Presented by: Davina McCall, Nicky Campbell
Networks: ITV, STV
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Executive producers: Colette Flight, Leanne Klein, Sally Benton, Clare Bradbury, Duncan Coates, Kate Scholefield
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long lost family season 9 episode 7
long lost family uk season 9 episode 7
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Matthew Bone
Simon Greaves
Beryl Everall
My grandmother's brother had a child wth another woman before he got married - she found her way back to her dad and my mom and the other cousins later in life (she was in her 20s). Today she is one of my closest relatives and so glad she came back to us. Love you Auntie K!
Seeing the dad trying to fight off crying while talking about his son is so heart breaking. May God bless that family. 😔
Did they ever find him?
My mother had 8 kids. She raised NONE of us! Pawned my oldest sister off on my grandmother and pawned me off on my father - who also didn't raise me. The other six were placed for adoption, all younger than me and my sister. We all have different fathers. My six siblings were all adopted by different families as well. She is a horrible, HORRIBLE woman! I have managed to find four of my six siblings so far. Two happy reunions, the other two are indifferent. I am still searching for the missing two. I live vicariously through this show and the happy endings.
I am so sorry that you have had to endure all that, no child should ever not feel the love and care of a mother. Some women are just not meant to be mothers, and not all mothers are nice people either. I hope your life is one long happy ending.
@JessieA Maybe I can help spread the word, by sharing your story in this channel, if you're up for it of course. Let me know. I too live through these shows, these are stories I can personally relate to. Love and blessings, ❤️🙏
Often when people do that they are desperately searching for love yet they are hurting their kids so much.
Personally, I'm ALL for forced sterilization after 2 kids you can't take care of (actually, I'd say 1) so they're not screwing up/abusing any more kids. My heart goes out to you Jessie & I hope you can find the missing 2 siblings & the 2 that were indifferent can open their hearts. I'm sure they have a LOT of fear to do that.
Too bad there isn't a law to sterilize women who are awful mothers.
@@Cinelic I've found family through Ancestry DNA but we can not piece together how we are related. Only people from a certain town with the certain last name etc etc but besides piecing landmarks like a familiar church etc we can't figure it out. Any potential help?
I can't figure out why I keep watching these... tears after tears.
OmG, Carol. I saw one a week ago. And I've been binging on them after work ever since. chokes me up every time. But this one with the worried father is by far the worse one for me.
Me too. Floods of tears. My pillow was soaked.
The same here.
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Same here. My heart was breaking but at the same time it became swollen with joy to see family reunion ❤️
Beryl is such a forgiving, compassionate, sweet woman! 💞💕❤
The kids didn't know but apparently their father did and I'm sure somebody on Beryl's side knew but didn't know how to find her mom. People and secrets.
These episodes should be mandatory watching for families who have a falling out. Seeing grown adults cry on finding a parent should teach us all to be more loving and more understanding.
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Simon being unpredictable is strange. Maybe they chucked up his unusual behavior to being "unpredictable" but many people live in pain and have been depressed and suicidal their whole lives without their closest family members having the slightest clue about it.
These are such beautiful and yet heartbreaking stories done with such love, respect and dignity!
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SPOILER ALERT: Conclusion of Matthew Bone story below.
(Sadly, Matthew Bone’s remains were found in a field 2.5 miles away from the hotel in June 2020. Since he was not dressed for the weather when he set off on foot, it’s suspected he died of hypothermia.)
Oh no! How sad 😪
May Matthew Rest In Peace in the Arms of our Heavenly God.
Oh dear, how sad for the family. May his soul forever rest in eternal peace 🙏🏾
Terrible news. I'm so sorry for his family and him.
So sad. I hope his family can find peace and strength to continue moving forward. What a terrible loss and to not know why is just unimaginable.
I was missing for years. I loved my family so much, but the drama they were all going thru bogged me down and being the eldest I felt I can fix it. Wore me down. But also add drugs, not wanting the fam to see it and drugs taking all my time and bam, 15 yrs passed. And of course i was all cash, under the radar. It got so to 3 yrs then 5yrs and I didn't know how to reach out. I was embarrassed. BUT ALMOST 16 YRS MISSING, On Facebook someone saw me and it helped ease me getting in touch. Oh I've been bk wth family for 2 decades now. So you see, there are miracles. It's imp. to fund out if mental illness is involved bc that can change the outcome unfort. Keep hope but no matter, you will see them again 🙏
Yes, both of these first lad's families obviously loved them, but.....when they were describing the family dynamics I was cringing. That would have been far too much togetherness in our family of 6 kids. Our parents were always there for us but not so wrapped up in us. My siblings and I would have balked at that for sure.
So happy for Beryl. To be welcomed so lovingly is the best thing ever!!
My cousin found her father , he told my aunt “, I have to go to court to finalize my divorce then I am coming home to marry you”. He never came back. My Aunt never dated anyone else. When my cousin found her dad , she found she had 2 older sisters & 2 younger. Looking at the photo, it actually looked like quadruplets lol. He first told my aunt he was divorced,then when she was pregnant she wanted to marry ,he said oh I am not totally divorced only legally separated.
Yvonne said she remembered stopping at the cottage and her dad asking their mom, "Are you going to go in?" Their mom said no and they left. So maybe, the mom told her husband about Beryl and they went back to the cottage but Beryl's mother decided not to check on Beryl? Just a thought. I think maybe the sibling's father might have known. Beryl is a wonderful woman, she deserved some answers but resigned to going forward instead of dwelling on the why. Very sad about Matt, but at least the family got to put him to rest. Broke my heart to see his parents cry.
Totally agree Eva. I think the husband knew about Beryl.
This episode was especially moving. The "Unmissables" show is a truly innovative way of bringing attention to the missing. My heart goes out to all of the families, who have been confronted with a loss of this magnitude.
Best of Luck to all from Toronto, Canada
Beryl is a truly kind compassionate person I hope she’ has a wonderful happy remainder of her life
I wish all missing persons be found, healthy and safe and back home with their loved ones.
Those portraits at the end are incredible! What a powerful project
How sad that Matt's body was found two years after his disappearance. It must have been gut-wrenching for his family.
Oh no! I didn't hear that. I really thought he would be found 😢
Aww that sucks :( I was hoping he was found safe , prob going through it and left to get his mind and body right and hopefully reunite . To hear this isn't the case is sad sad. It was my worst thought .
I like this new format where they include missing persons cases. And also poor Beryl. Unbelievable.
I hope they find Matt. His family’s hearts are torn apart. The way the mother and father looked at each other:(
I pray they find both of those men so much!
I just found a news article from 3 days that his remains where found. Heartbreaking
@@tatepasi9519 omg noo
@@tatepasi9519 Oh no. That's devastating for the family.
@@tatepasi9519 :(, damn.
I love how they do these missing person stories.
Oh my. This was one of the most heart-breaking episodes. If anything, though, it's showing me that this program is not afraid of showing that failure can happen as well as triumph.
Weezer mo by noon
One of the times people are most likely to experience depression is at the end of a university experience. The fear of what's next or the realization that you've invested years of your life (and thousands of dollars) into something that you now realize isn't for you can be too much. I couldn't get out of bed for 6 months after I graduated and I attempted to end my life in the years after.
So thankful I made it through. And so sad for all those who don't.
Simon Hodgson-Greaves is still missing as of June 2022. I can't imagine the suffering of not knowing the fate of a loved one
Another post said his body was found 2 years after his disappearance?
@Shmuel-Natan Friedmann yes, you're right
And still missing as of 2024, according to the missing person's website. If I understand correctly, the comments about a found dead body were about Matthew Boone. So very very sad.
Heartbreaking I can't imagine worrying about my child everyday 💔
In the case of Matthew, I think he had some sort of psychological issue, maybe his family didn´t want to talk about it during the show. It seems to me he had depression and some trigger happened in his life - either a bad relationship or school-related or work - that drove him to the edge. He didn´t think his family would understand and thought he would take some time off from life to figure things out. Because the family was so sweet, I think he didn´t want them to think he was a failure, so he just walked walked walked to see if his mind could clear up and find a way out... His parents should´ve been contacted when he was at a hospital treated for dehydration - clearly, something was wrong with him, he should not have been left alone. There is a show in the USA called Vanished, there are at least 3 stories very similar to this one - sons who vanished without a trace and whose remains were found later. In these cases, people around them suspected something was wrong with them mentally but did not know what to do... Today, mental health is more talked about, there are more hotlines and treatments without stigma as these people need medical attention - they cannot figure things out on their own...
Always cry watching this program.
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Matt's remains were located June 2020 May he rest in peace
How he died??
How do you know?
I googled and yes he died and found the body
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Oh what? I had a bad feeling about it. I just wrote a comment saying so. My heart breaks for his family. May he rest in peace.
Thank you so much for the uploads!
The numbers of missing people is staggering. I had thought that it would be a rare occurrence that someone from a normal, stable family with lots of love, would open the door one day, walk through it and never return. And then to be in a situation like Beryl's, where she spent years trying to find the mother who left her, only to find out at the age of 68 that she has four siblings who grew up with their mother and knew nothing about Beryl. I can't help wondering why the mother didn't come back for Beryl at some point and raise her along with the siblings that came along in the years following. It's impossible to know what goes through people's minds. I'm just glad that Beryl has now found her "family".
Thank you so much for sharing!
Everytime i watch this i always cried but i always loved watching this in you tube
My heart goes out to the people that have lost or missing relatives. I can’t imagine the feeling of not knowing their existence. I have been tracing my family’s genealogy for about 25 years, and I regret not being able to share certain events and stories with my parents and other relatives who have passed on. I know they would have been pleased and thankful for the information.
Poor Beryl. Her mum probably didn’t want her Husband to be bereft of his only Daughter since she was eloping with someone else. How could she have taken everything and left hm nothing? She probably never contacted Beryl as she had abandoned her and didn’t have the courage to face her ever. She must have thought of her and thought of looking her up but lost her courage when she chose not to go inside the house. Beryl should have asked about her Mother from her own dad. Beryl ‘s mum couldn’t speak of her to her other children because it was a less than ideal picture of a flawed individual who was otherwise a good mum and good Wife to their own Father. Looks like Beryl’s own dad never married Nor had any other children. I’m quite sure the siblings will forever compensate for all that Beryl never had - the love of their Mother.
that or she felt her new fling didnt want a daughter from a different man and abandoned her so she could pursue the new relationship.
Missing Persons Edition:
These kinds of stories are always sad. Watching stories like these featured on talk shows here in the USA, one thing investigators have conveyed is “Sometimes people don’t want to be found!”
The Mom going to the place her daughter was....and the new sister recalling as she arrived on reveal day...was touching. The Mom never went in the house ....so sad
I feel so sorry for Beryl. She must feel so abandoned and unwanted by her biological mother. The woman never even mentioned her to anyone. That’s so sad. She left her for a man and had a family with him. Idk...maybe there’s more to the story.
I wonder if her dear old dad, wasn't such a dear husband and mom did a runner. They had another story several years ago where the son didn't know why his mom left and it turned out she was beaten by his father and fled. She'd left him behind because the father wasn't abusive towards the child and she was fearful that had she taken her son, he would have followed them and possibly killed her. Leaving the boy would have satisfied the dad.
Nice ppl do terrible things every day.
I'm not sure I would have been able to forgive her that, being the secret child and discovering your "mother" went on to have a replacement family whom she cared for very much. The younger siblings have got to be questioning the woman they thought they knew. :( Praying Matt is found alive and well. Simon as well.
Most times the simplest explanation is the correct one. I believe her mother fell in love with a man, and back then, he most probably didn't want to know anything about raising another man's children so she chose her new man instead of her children...
@@hilaryc3203 I watched this one, his mum went on to live in Australia. Am I right?
Mental torture is worse than death! To live the rest of your life with no closure. And everyday, questioning yourself what happened? What went wrong? Where is he/she? This is just sad.
God bless Bone family. God bless them all.
Heart wrenching. How very difficult it must be for the families. I to have a half sister whom I’ve only seen twice since the mid 60’s. Both times in the early 90’s for a couple days. Last I knew she was in Seattle Washington USA. I live in Canada and have since I was roughly 3. It’s been 30 years roughly and I’ve tried to find her but with no luck. I’m in my early 60’s now and I’m not even sure if she’s still alive. It’s like she disappeared and I’ve found no trace on social media. I admire those of this show who work so hard to rebuild families and relationships.
Try to find her again through Devina and Nicky's team
I love the idea of the art show , having all the missing persons portraits on exhibition is a fantastic way to share the likenesses out there?
RIP Matt Bone, located June 2020 To his loved ones, know that hearts are with you from around the world.
poor Beryl ... just left without explanation. but at least she has met with her stepbrother n sister
Would be half siblings if same mom
Sadly, Matthew Bone’s body was found in June, 2020 in the village of Newland.
😱 Seriously? Where? How? What happened?! 😢
I feel so bad for these families. For Matt's family my heart breaks. For Beryl, I'm so sorry.
Living in USA which is such a huge place to get lost…I was shocked how many are missing in the UK.
i suspect Matthew had a mental break. schizophrenia can occur in teen years or early adulthood. i think this because he was not taking care of himself. he didn’t leave with proper clothing and was just walking aimlessly. it’s very upsetting, but it could have been the case.
in the second case, they did know he was bipolar, but do not mention if he was on meds or not. depressions are very deep and the highs are wonderful. or he could have had an accident. i feel for these families. . .
I think the reason Barel's mother left her was because she was running off with that soldier,and either he didn't want to raise another mans child.
again n again,, my tears up wtching this,,,
Matthew Bone’s body was found in June of 2020. So sad.
Is there an article or website for him?
GREAT JOB PROUD OF YOU FROM TEXAS
I am also given away due to my health issues as an infant. My twin brother was kept. We were reunited as graders but my grandparents who raised me as their own, moved to the Philippines making it rare to see them as often... I did not have a happy childhood! My grannies were very strict to the point that I felt no freedom at all! When they passed away... I started to reach out for my brothers and parents. Except for my mum, all of them were indifferent to me. Years later with advent of DNA, they became more indifferent! My twin brother, whom everybody regard as my fraternal brother, is not related to me? DNA showed. But wonder of wonder, our children are first cousins according to DNA! Puzzled we were, I leave it as it is....just sharing...
It's a sad story but it doesn't define you . Put it behind you and create you own fabulous future
I second what @S W said. Maybe keep an open mind and heart, for when they come to their senses. But don't count on it. That's just me though.. Thanks for sharing your story though ❤️
@rufinus Palen
Maybe have a second DNA test done. If you and your "twin" aren't related, obviously your children should NOT be related!
@@lovingmayberry307 are they may not be brothers themselves but 1st cousins. His mother might be his auntie instead
In cases of indifference..sometimes..just perhaps there may have been some incest involved in some connection..or conception?
This is heartbreaking💔😢
I lost my nephew to suicide 2 years ago. I am lucky because I have closure. Many don’t. Bless you all. Know it is beyond you and all we can do is love.
@Cinelic thank you for the uploads is Season 9 the last upload you have?
It's always good to see siblings united. I am confused about why Beryl said they all could have grown up in her childhood home together. Her mother was at that time living with a different man she had married, and the half brothers and sister were their children, so they wouldn't have lived with Beryl and her dad.
Is the house where Beryl and the siblings met empty all these years? It looked well looked after though. I suppose the LLF Team did the arrangement for shooting location of the episode. Well done👍
I was thinking that Beryl inherited the house and maybe turned it over to one of her children to live in, so that was how she had access to it.
The only thing I can think of is that the Soldier she ran off with didn’t want to raise another man’s child.
This eps is the most heartbreaking 😭😭
Hope all the families could find their missing relatives.. Sending huge hug for them ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you
About 4 yrs ago I got a txt from a young woman who said I was a match to her DNA test. Turns out I am her great aunt. My brother was her grandfather. His son had known this young woman's mother when they were in their teens in the 80s. He was 18. When he found out she was under age he sent her back to her home (100 miles away, she had left home). She found that she was pregnant and tried to find him and was not able to. She had my great neice who was told the story years later & always desired to find her father. Long story short, she & her husband and 3 children were reunited with her father, grandfather and other family. 5 people were restored to my family that day. There are no words. I believe that God is a God of CONNECTION! These stories of people reconnecting to their families just touch my heart so deeply. And I am always reminded that even tho they seem 'Lost', God knows exactly where they are & desires to bring these families back together. Ty Long Lost Families for the incredible, beautiful work you do. Good Bless you!
I can't help but feel so sad for these folks, being dealt the hand of having a shitty parent-selfish...
Whenever they head off suddenly like that it’s usually the onset of a mental episode and usually doesn’t end well. Seen so many of these.
Gone but not forgotten.
I had a very similar experience. I am so sorry for you.
Having great father like this man and leave his life is sad thing 😩😩
so sad
so sad
rip
unbearable for those left behind
we can't change the past, but we can work for a better future.
hi not sure if your active on youtube but can you upload season 10 of long lost family
RIP Matt
Simon 💔
So powerful.
Sadly, they found the remains of Matthew recently. rip x
Whaaaat? No way! 😭 how did you find out?
@@aileenem.8461 I googled his name tonight after watching this episode.Simon is still missing but Matthew's skeletal remains were found in June of this year,not far from where he was last seen.The medical examiner wasn't able to determine a cause of death,so if he took his own life,it wasn't with something like a gun;nothing that would leave marks on skeletal remains.So,so sad.He was so young.
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a quick google of his name shows that his remains were found in a field about 5 miles from the hotel he last stayed at. I didn't see a definitive cause of death. But hopefully it was something peaceful. very unfortunate that he didn't seek out help.
@@N_ReYeS www.portsmouth.co.uk/news/people/missing-waterlooville-man-matt-bone-found-dead-two-years-after-going-missing-2887472
I hope they find some of these people, so sad
I'M NOT NOT ADOPTED BUT OTHER THAN MY AUNTS AND UNCLES AND GRANDPARENTS ON MY MOTHER"S SIDE, I HAVE DRAWN A BLANK. I'VE ALWAYS HAD A VERY VERY STRONG LONGING TO KNOW WHO MY DAD'S FAMILY WAS AND WHO WERE MY GRANDPARENTS?
I HAD A HORRIBLE CHILDHOOD. RARELY FOOD TO EAT. LOTS OF DAYS OF TAKING MOLD OFF THE BREAD AND PUTTING SUGAR ON TOP
WAS IT ALWAYS LIKE THIS FOR MY ANCESTORS ON BOTH MY PARENTS SIDES. THE LITTLE GIRL ME USED TO IMAGINE THAT MY PAST FAMILY WERE KINGS AND QUEENS.
BUT NOT ONLY WERE THEY ROYALTY, THEY FOUGHT AND WON WARS ALONG SIDE THEIR SOLDIERS. THEY WERE LOVED BY THEIR COUNTRY MEN AND 💜❤FAR AND WIDE.
LEAVING THOSE CHILDISH DREAMS BEHIND, I'M NOW 63 YEARS OLD AND STILL KNOW NOTHING. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO OR WHERE TO START AND I'M AFRAID I'LL DIE CLUELESS.
Seeing the video of missing Matthew Bone and his desperate family, is heartbreaking, as from the comments I understand that he has been found dead over two years after his disappearance 😢
Any updates on if they found the missing brothers?
I'd like to know myself. 😔
Matthew Bone is still missing.
Matt's body was found...his family brought his remains home
Simon is still missing,but as already mentioned,Matthew is dead.His skeletal remains were found not far from where he was last seen in Worcestershire,in a field.A medical examiner wasn't able to determine a cause of death,but there weren't any signs of foul play,so its likely that he either died of exposure or took his own life in a way that didn't leave marks on his bones.Very,very sad.
There was an article about Matt and his remains was found in June 2020
Surely Matt realises his parents and sister live in fear and dread every day, and in a complete state! If he loves them, can't he just call and say he's fine but doesn't want to be bothered, so they can rest? It's torn up their entire lives! He left willingly!
his body was found 2 yrs ago.
@flying Dutchwoman... That's horrible! A murder??
@@flyingdutchwoman1582 his body was found last year so you maybe meant two months ago from the time of your posting?
@@thebeloveth7734 they could not determine a cause of death
I hope these people find there loved ones.
Promise you our prayers.
God speed.
My heart hurts for Beryl!
So many lost families in the UK, why so many?
Im praying they will find them the
sooner the better..
By Steve Deeks
Published 17th Jun 2020, 16:27 GMT
Updated 18th Jun 2020, 09:36 GMT
Matthew Bone, aged 26 when he went missing, disappeared in 2018 while visiting the Malvern Hills in Worcestershire - sparking numerous appeals by family and friends to locate him.
But West Mercia Police today announced his body has now been found. His death is not being treated as suspicious.
I have always used a manual can opener! I refuse to have an electric one!
That portrait in between Matthew’s and Simon’s looks a lot like Richey Edwards’, of the band Manic Street Preachers, who has been missing since Feb 14, 1995.
matt's remains were eventually found - there's a facebook page saying goodbye to him
Simons looks so much prince Harry of London..
My mother met a Turkish man and got pregnant in Denmark. He was in my life until I was around a year old and after that I really don’t know what happened. I’ve never really had the courage to ask my mom what happened. I’ve heard bits and pieces from an aunt but not much. We even visited Turkey with him and I have pictures. That feeling never goes away, like why did he leave and not keep in touch with me.
He may have had another family or for whatever reason, could not go back to Denmark.
Waste no more time..ask your mum !! I'm sure she is expecting the question/s.
It might also help her to release it.
Possibly Beryl's mother had an affair and left to start a new life and family with a new man. Beryl was raised by her father and her mother's sisters so it seems that Beryl's mother even abandoned her siblings as well. It does make sense as to why she was never spoken of again. It's also interesting to note that the three siblings no very little about their mother's earlier life. Did she tell them she was an orphan and had no family (siblings, parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles etc.)
Matthew Bone was unfortunately found deceased in 2020.
The poverty and mental issues are glossed over. I wonder how much shame and stress underlies these abandonments.
It sounds to me like he was having some kind of mental breakdown that his family didn't recognize. He was in extreme danger the day he walked out of his house. I have a bad feeling about this.
He was found dead in a field June 2020.
I Recommend missing 411 Dave Paulides....some that go missing have no explanation of disappearance
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This was four years ago… did they ever find him?
Did they find mat?
Yes doing a phd can cause a mental break down. Because you can pass all your couses
do everything right and still not get your degree. It is more stressfull than an ordinary degree, since it's "a maybe degree" maybe your advisor will accept your work after (being his or her servant for 6 or 7 years). Or maybe they will never give you the phd, because
your not a good delivery boy or office cleaner or ghost writer or ghost researcher
for their book? Then if you do get your phd, their are no full time jobs, just part time
(almost minimum wage jobs at colleges) Some schools in usa harvard, mit, yake
87 to 97% graduate and get their degrees!! Then bottom schools like CUNY GRADUATE
CENTER only 20% graduate. (When i went to that school in their literature they claimed that most students get their phd, which is a lie. Stats are only 20% graduate.) People with good coping skills go on to business and private industry and are highlly paid and successful and people without good coping skills break down and need to seek mental health treatments.
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Simon remains missing as of the end of 2020 :( Goodness.
They found his remains😔
@@mizzrink4930 damn 😔😔😔😔
@@mizzrink4930 , very sad
Unfortunately Matthew Bone has been found dead... :(
Thank you, that is very sad.
Is there any one looking for me my God this is hard
Presumably there is. If you could just drop a line or give someone a message to let them know that you are okay, that would ease their minds. Plus it could free up police resources for other matters.