As a former active duty Marine, and concealed carry holder in Florida I can honestly say the number one most important skill to have and exercise when carrying for self defense which hardly anyone talks about is conflict resolution. You'll hear a lot of people talk about drawing techniques, hand grip, good sight alignment, and good sight picture which are definitely all important things, but drawing a weapon should always be a last option. It should only come out if your life or someone else's life is in imminent danger. I've seen way too many CCW holders adopt a new ego or bravado just because they have a gun now so "no one better mess with them". That kind of foolish attitude gets people needlessly killed. I may be a man and I may be a Marine, but I will gladly walk away from a confrontation and look like a wuss rather than push the issue and escalate it to the point of someone getting hurt or dying. Never forget if the day comes to defend yourself with a firearm that there will be a whole lot of people that will want to crucify you even if it was truly self defense.
Same here, I carry as a last resort, not to flex. I even avoid places where I might actually need to use it. Heightened awareness is my first weapon. I'm constantly aware of my surrounding. I keep my head on a swivel and out of my phone.
The best way to win a fight is to avoid it altogether - walk away if possible, de-escalate as much as you possibly can. The vast majority of situations can be resolved peacefully. Your sidearm is emergency rescue equipment. The LAST thing you want is to have to use it.
One of the biggest issues for first timers is they are not use to carry so they feel it and keep adjusting it, touching it, etc. The tried and true method of getting rid of this early habit is to carry at home as much as possible before going out in public.
Habit stacking: When I was 16 or 17 I got into the habit of always carrying my wallet. When I was 33 I got into the habit of always carrying my cellphone. And when I was 47 I got into the habit of always carrying my gun.
I've never understood why people *wouldn't* always carry things like wallets, keys, pocket knives, etc. in their pockets all the time. If it's worth taking with you every time you go out the door, it seems to me it's worth having on you all the time. (Also, I don't remember the last time I lost any of those. I know people who loose them on a regular basis.)
As a retired California cop with over 39 years on the job I made sure to instill two simple 'street survival' tactics to my wife and child since, for many years, they went about their lives unarmed: Keep your heads on a swivel and constantly update your perceptions of the situations, circumstances, and conditions that surround you so you can greatly reduce the need to de-escalate a situation by seeing it develop and by taking steps to vacate the area and avoid conflict in the first place. Secondly, never count on the police to swoop in and save you if things go bad. The odds of them being able to respond in time are very low. While on duty during the course of my career I always had ready access to three or four firearms (four, after we were issued rifles) and the primary purpose of those weapons was to protect me - not the citizenry. Police officers use firearms to protect themselves FAR more often than they use them to save citizens. That may come as a harsh realization to some, but it is an inarguable fact. Pay attention to your surroundings so you can avoid wandering into trouble and remember that should you find yourselves in a threatening predicament, you are likely going to be on your own. Carry on, America. If a permit is required, get one and, literally, carry on.
I would first run to find a place to duck behind, before pulling out a firearm. I would use pepper spray first when being pursued instead of use a gun first. Pepper spray in the eyes will incapacitate the offender yet non-lethal and no noise. A gun is extremely noisy and can destroy your hearing. A continuous pepper spray can temporarily incapacitate multiple offenders to give you valuable time to escape. However, if they will still pursue me, then they will be greeted with the trusty Smith&Wesson M&P 9C with 13 round capacity.
Texas, Arizona, Florida, and many other concealed carry states suffered horrible mass shootings and massacres of innocents, including young children. One would assume that at least 50% of the people close to the armed murderers (in the concealed carry states) were well-armed, carrying concealed weapons. Why do none of those "well-trained marksmen" EVER pull their guns, calmly aim them at the armed murderer, and neutralize him? Why NOT? Why this never happened??? How effective are private citizens with no war combat experience who never shot and killed another human being (in combat) during mass shootings in markets, restaurants, schools, and other public spaces? Why could only John Wayne, James Bond, and Jason Bourne do it? The effectiveness of concealed carry, especially in public areas with tens or hundreds of people present, is a fantasy.
@@trungson6604 lotta good points, esp, imo, your very underrated point re hearing loss. I served in feds retiring after 20 yrs. Eight mos before retiring, tinnitus popped up and it's been unceasing the past 7+ yrs. I'm pretty sure it's due to me shooting for 20+ yrs leading up to that day of the crickets starting in my head. I can only imagine what would happen if I had exposed myself to fully unprotected blasts for years (even outdoor). I will offer this on your overall point. You lay out other options. That's fine, of course. But remember this, criminals are dumb but they aren't without street sense of a criminal nature; that is, they're likely to catch you unawares. You may not have time for ANY weapon deployment before he has hands on you...or his weapon on you. Or you may have time for a snap decision to draw a...gun, taser, spray? If you only have time for one, maybe the gun should be the go-to...then you might stop him in his tracks and you can then figure out what's next. You don't want to put yourself in a position where you bring a spray can to a gunfight... especially if you have a gun. In my old agency, we weren't required to wear any weapon but the gun, due to our tactical people over the yrs worrying about young'uns going for pepper or ASP instead of a gun when gun called for. (We were not a police agency, per se.)
@@teller1290what really shocks me, and I've been carrying since 2005, is how many fail to carry a good tactical style flashlight no matter what time of day it is. Our hostess here cites the Powertac brand, I have 2 and they are very good. I'm both a veteran and current security professional and have been around for some time (long enough to remember when the original Maglite, still a good choice,was the standard) and have taught many including my wife and sons. Thanks for your input!
Love this! I agree on you having one to protect yourself and others right after the #1 slot. I mean it's the definition of the airplane analogy, "you have to put your mask on before helping others." By protecting yourself, that's how lives are saved because what good are we as a last resort in a life-or- death situation if we don't think this way? God bless you and thank you for your service now and always. ❤🇺🇸
I'm a 225 lb. 6 foot tall guy so I have never been a typical easy target for bad guys. But now that I'm nearly 75 years old, it is obvious that I'm no longer viewed as a hard target so It is very much a comfort to know that my firearm can even up whatever bad odds might come at me. I can only imagine how much more secure ladies might feel knowing that they have the power to defend themselves if necessary. You are a peaceful warrior. Much respect.
I am in the same boat as you, almost... 6'2" 250 pounds veteran, I am 50 but I am disabled...I still carry myself like I know how to handle my own, and I do - it would just seriously hurt, even when I win ;-) but now I have alternative deterrents from anybody that might want to try their luck - including non-lethal ones like a taser, but I carry my sidearm just in case, because most people wouldn't try their luck with me unless they are in a group.
Yup. Started carrying in my 60s. I'm in great shape but also am probably not a threat to kick anybody's a** at this point so the equalizer is always on board.
My wife has been carrying for 14 years now. She carries on and off body depending on what she is wearing. Her S&W has no safety, laser sight, and she practices both forms every other Thursday at Shooters on ladies night. Thank you and your husband for keeping you safe.
Two things I’ve never experienced carrying a gun from day one: 1. Paranoia of carrying and that someone would know. I could have cared less 2. Worrying that I had a chambered gun on my person in the AIWB position. Not once. Right gun in the right holster. One thing that carrying did for me is completely eliminated my road rage. I now let anything go. If someone flips me off I nod and thank them.
Yep, I know someone intimately that has carried a concealed handgun for about thirteen years. They have never needed it and hope they never will. They carry mostly .40 Smith & Wesson but also .45 Auto and occasionally, a 9 millimeter Luger. Rather have it and not need it then need it and not have it.
RIGHT?! Coz the last thing a responsible, legal, and morally mature carrier wants to do is HAVE TO USE IT. So not only do we avoid bad situations, we are vigilant and spot them a mile away.
In my 71 years, (6) random situations manifested in view. (6) - 0. Six saved lives to 0 lost. I can't imagine my state of mind if I had shot (6) people instead. Life can quickly turn into Hell. Hell is a lifetime of reget. Prepared is better than panicked.
I was just thinking about it, I’ve carried for 40 years! Twice in my life I was glad I had it, luckily I didn’t have to kill anybody. I really do feel naked if I find myself without it. These days, your biggest risk is while driving. Road rage incidences are on the rise, and have been. You never know when a small fender bender will turn violent. So no matter how careful you are about not going to dangerous places, you can’t avoid driving with who knows who on the road.
What is obvious in the 25+ years you've been carring is, you've never had to use it. Having a gun in your home or on you increases the likelyhood of being killed with a gun. Absolutely not worth the time and the effort.
I have been carrying a gun for about a year in a half. I found you a year ago and I really have gotten a lot out of the videos that you post. I can honestly say I stopped being afraid to carry my gun about 7 months into carrying it. Because I started carrying it every day. You inspired me in many ways and I’ve gotten a few different holsters by learning about them through you. I find my favorite to be the cancan concealment hip hugger. I’m so sad they went out of business. I’ve also gotten my pepper spray from poms another item I learned through you. So, I’m really just trying to thank you for posting everything you have posted. And keeping us informed on caring a concealed weapon. To Those out there that have not gotten used to carrying a gun I promise you it does get easier. Watching videos that she equipped herself post will help you along the way. Be safe out there and remember you are responsible for your own safety. So please keep yourself safe, God bless you all!
@ThomasJons-rl2vm Like I said. If the perpetrator uses a gun. Then yeah. Having a gun is relevant for that matter. Pepper spray, knife and baseball bat. If the perpetrator has no gun. But you shouldn’t really need to worry what the homeowner uses to eliminate the threat. If you prefer to use those methods. Then that’s you.
I've watched a couple of your other videos, but I hope lots of people watch this one because it is phenomenal. I immediately appreciated the fact that you displayed your CCW in a safe condition. Your points were very relevant and practical, especially your advice about being confident in carrying a firearm and the need for additional training to be able to use it proficiently. I asked my wife to watch this because she's been sitting on the proverbial fence about equipping herself, and she really liked your approach to making the activity of concealed carry as mundane but important as wearing a seatbelt, making sure the oven is off before leaving the house and demonstrating appropriate situational awareness. I wish people from all sides of the political spectrum would watch this video, and see you as a role model for how and why citizens should defend themselves responsibly- perhaps then we could have a constructive dialogue about the broader societal issues regarding firearms-related violence and crime rather than spend an inordinate amount of effort on restricting individual rights. Thank you! 👏👏👏👏
I always put my holster and shield, plus extra mag, and pepper spray, on when I get dressed to leave the house. It is part of me getting town clothes on, that way I don't forget it.
The way I get away from not taking my gun with me when I leave the house is to ALWAYS carry my gun on me EVEN in the house. When I get dressed in the morning, my gun is on me. This also helps when first beginning to carry to get use to having it on you. Doing normal activities around the house and seeing how you carry (position) and how this may/may not interfere with those activities is very helpful. When I get ready to leave the house, all I have to do is put on my outer garment (usually a shirt and/or jacket if winter) and I'm out the door.
THAT is AMAZING - I was in Viet Nam from 9/67 - 9/68 in Cu Chi Base Camp with the 25th Admin Co., 25th Inf. Div. The entire Base Camp was required to carry their duty weapon ( usually the M-16 ) with them at ALL times - UNLOADED - to and from duty station to mess hall, etc. The ONLY time we were allowed to " Lock and Load " was upon exiting the perimeter of the base camp. Even upon pulling overnight perimeter guard duty - our weapons were unloaded - as we were inside the ' perimeter ' ! This was an ACTIVE COMBAT ZONE where we got mortar / rocket attacks daily since the TET Offensive. Years later I became a NJ Police Officer and NEVER felt I had to be armed in my house - even though being surrounded by 3 daughters and 1 son ! Not to mention my wife and the dog !
I live in a very anti-gun state. When I first started CC I obsessed over printing and worrying about if anyone noticed. After I formed the habit of carrying, I could couldn't careless if anyone notices. And to my amazement no one notices. The paranoia was all for naught...... I never leave the house without my phone- so to "habit stack" I just kept my gun with my phone wherever I went while I was in the house. Eventually if I just grabbed my phone I knew something was missing. Of course I don't have any kids around the house so that makes it easier, if there were others around I'd just lock my keys in the safe with my gun and problem solved.
I've had my concealed carry for almost 3 years now. My mindset has always been, it's not the the end of the world if anyone notices it. I carry it lawfully. If someone catches a quick print, or maybe a quick glance, it's not a big deal. If it bothers them well, they will get over it, it's my right. And like you said, so many people these days are too busy staring at their phones to notice something like that. Most people are not paying any attention to their surroundings. I honestly have people almost walk right into me in public because there face is buried in their phone.
Hey Stav. I’ve been a subscriber since pre engagement to Mac, pre Mila (can’t remember which came first) and I’ve enjoyed your journey. I hope to see many more videos in the future!
You and Mac just keep making awesome, informative, and useful content videos! In my particular situation and circumstances, I carry all the time, even while I'm at home, up until the time I undress, stash my carry gun, and get in bed. Then my home defense gun is within reach. My greatest concern where I live is an unexpected home invasion. But every time I go out my door I do a self check list with my hands, touching my cell phone, car keys, Bluetooth headset, wallet, and my EDC in my appendix holster, and my pocket carry backup, because I've grown so completely comfortable carrying it its like part of my body. I've been a concealed carry man for over 40 years. One time (without having to draw and fire, thankfully), it probably saved me from being mugged or worse. That could have been the "one time" that I left home without it! I long ago quit feeling paranoid about anyone knowing I carry. In all of those years, not one time has anyone noticed, except that one time, when I made it noticeable and stopped a threat before it happened. Your expertise and knowledge is priceless! Kudos! ❤
I've been carrying for 13 years. The first 3 or 4 months I would look for the required signs on businesses and felt people were watching me while I was out in the public. Now, when I carry, I forget I have a gun on me a lot of the time. I've accidentally carried into prohibited places a couple of times because I don't think about it.
Good for you! I've been carrying firearms for longer than you've been alive, and I agree with all your points. Best to you, and thanks for a fun video.
I've been carrying for decades. This video is an excellent addition to your channel.. The exception to "your gun has to be easy to grab on the go" is don't have to grab it. I put my gun on when I get out of bed, and it stays on until I go back to bed. Three reasons: 1. Temptation: If I make a spur-of-the-moment decision to go out I don't have to grab it, and there won't be the temptation to say "It's only a quick trip to get gas" or whatever. 2. Security: The likelihood I'll need to defend myself or my family at home is small, but not zero. Trouble doesn't RSVP. 3. Safety: If my gun is on my person, it's under my supervision, and no one is going to find it who shouldn't have access.
I as a man want to thank you for carrying. I hope you reach many young ladies with this message, because our second amendment rights depend on women (51%) voting for it. To see that y'all are alot safer is a very nice bonus.
@@gaatjenietaanprivacy5023 Yeah see, that is the funny thing about America's Second Amendment. The forefathers weren't so concerned about keeping people safe, they added that Amendment to keep the government in line with the will of the people. History, you might try it some time.
@gaatjenietaanprivacy5023 - That's nonsense. Europe is "safer" because European Nations don't have a Constitutional Right to own guns and therefore Guns never proliferated extensively in Europe to the same extent. It's far from only about guns also. It's about the fact that America has been under constant and continual organized attack from European Globalist Usury International Central Bankers since before our nation's founding to the present day. America however and the entire world though (and largely by America) was built ENTIRELY on American Firearms Innovations. Our Guns built the entire world largely (gave us our Freedom from tyranny, and allowed us to "liberate" Europe, Russia, China, etc. etc.) much later. Let me explain. Many Europeans (just like many Americans and others worldwide) are ignorant of history, and foolish, and irrational on topics like guns. The Second Industrial Revolution, was the American Industrial Revolution, and essentially all modern innovations came out of that Industrial Revolution (such as Electricity, Generation, and Distribution methods (and most innovations regarding Electrical, Oil and Gas/ Petrochemicals/ Fuels/ Lubricants/ Light Aromatic Hydrocarbons, Plastics/ Polymers/ Polyolefins science (infinite Chemistry/ Physics/ Chemical Processes/ Process Technologies/ Exploration/ Drilling/ Rigs/ Rigging, etc. and the list goes on into Millions of Patents, Products, Inventions, Innovations, and Process Technologies, and then of course you get into now ancient and modern electronics, the telegraph, telephone, light bulb, television, radio, computer, cell phone, and the list is endless. What we didn't invent (and there is a litany of things mostly invented in Europe) we improved upon or made new inventions utilizing older inventions as a basis or foundation, or for individual components to create new inventions/ innovations/ process technologies. But all of it was made possible by one thing: America's necessity for Guns. It was just after the Revolutionary War 1783/84, and It was clear that America did not have enough Rifles/ Muskets. We largely won the Revolutionary War by superior Marksmanship skills and a superior knowledge of the Geography/ Terrain (and not because we had enough guns). We barely had enough guns. At that time, all Rifles and their component parts, were unique and hand made by blacksmiths and gunsmiths/ woodworkers. This was a problem. Because if a rifle broke (say on the battlefield for instance), it would have to be taken to the nearest blacksmith/ gunsmith for repairs. And that person/ those people, might be hundreds of miles away. It might take weeks to repair/ get or make the components they needed by hand. Our Founding Fathers were pretty certain, that Britain was not just going to accept defeat by the American Colonists. So they knew they had to solve this problem before another war commenced. Thus they commissioned specific individuals to work on this problem: Of creating for the first time in human history - Interchangeable Parts, and all the Machine Tools (Lathes, Milling Machines, Drill Presses, Dies, and other components that would make it possible and that would go on to build the entire modern world we live in today (and which has been the foundation for every innovation since). They commissioned Eli Whitney for this task, who was an inventor best known for the Cotton Gin. His most important invention however was the successful innovation of Interchangeable Parts, Integrated Manufacturing, and the Assembly Line (Henry Ford is know for this, but Whitney and others to some extent, accomplished this first [in a much smaller and less efficient capacity]). The only reason Britain didn't commence another war against the Colonies sooner, was because the American Congress (very wisely) allowed a Private Central Bank (with primarily British Investors/ The Royal Family/ Rothschild Family, etc. that was called "The First Bank of the United States". But after 20 years, when the charter was coming up for renewal, the Congress eventually rejected the renewal. This incensed Nathan Rothschild, and he vowed to take America back. The only question would be: Had the Americans made enough technological progress, and did they have enough Rifles? The answer to that question was BARELY. The second to the last link (below) will be an accurate accounting of this history. Even though we won the War of 1812, the British burned down essentially all of Washington D.C. The only Government Building which was spared, was the U.S. Patent Office. Dr. William Thornton (the longest serving Superintendent of the Patent Office, inventor, and designer of the U.S. Capitol Building) pleaded with British Commanders, putting his own body in front of already loaded cannons, stating that "the information and inventions contained therein [the building] would be useful to all mankind for future posterity". According to more than one source, when loaded cannons were already pointed in the direction of his beloved Patent Office, Thornton asked the soldiers involved, “Would you destroy this building for which the whole civilized world is interested? If so, fire away and let the charge pass through my body.” The dramatic effect was reported as magical upon the British soldiers. As a result, the building was ultimately saved from destruction by the British. Anyway, this is far too long, but there are some amazing documentaries which explain this history well. I will link them here, and highly recommend them, because they cast off people's propaganda brainwashing. Every anti-gun nut should learn the truth and factual World History; As those who forget history are doomed to repeat it (literally). ruclips.net/video/PJu6f4rkqMI/видео.html ruclips.net/video/3dIsy3sZI2Y/видео.html tinyurl.com/akcekmzz ruclips.net/video/xFqShpJm_zc/видео.html
I'm glad there is still a country where women are allowed to defend themselves. Speaking from a Canadian, where we have lost all our rights and our women are educated to be prey, I'm happy to see videos like this. Never give up the fight for your rights or you'll end up like Canada, a friendly warning...
I live in Arizona, been carrying for 40 years! This past snowbird season, I took a few Canadians out shooting in the desert! They had never held a gun before! I took 4 different types with us and plenty of Ammo, we all had a great day! I taught them all the safety rules first, they did great!
@@cindyrose4155 Love it! I find even Canadians who own firearms need to get out a lot more and train a lot more, most don't practice enough and aren't as familiar as they should be with their firearms. Of course it's not encourage in Canada, government is doing their best to shut down all the ranges they can. Stay free!☺
@@cindyrose4155 I just read a book by Mark W Smith called Disarmed: What the Ukraine War Teaches Americans about the Right to Bear Arms. It's detailed, but the basic idea behind it is that small arms are very much a help in case of invasion and that the Ukrainians would've been better having guns years rather than only a week before the invasion by Russia. They would've been far more familiar with handling weapons, but when the USSR collapsed in the 1990s they debated about whether to having something aking to America's 2nd Amendment and decided against it. And the rest his history. The sad part about that book is that the Americans (and Canadians and Aussies and Kiwis and British) that really need to read that book will not.
Thank you! I've been carrying for 15 years. The best way to do something is not the only way to ever do it every time you do it. I'm a guy and I often carry off body. Never say never.
It is so true that you need to do things over and over to make them a habit. I used to lose my keys on a daily basis and I put a hook on the wall to hang my keys from and just teaching myself to PUT THE DAMN KEYS ON ON HOOK was a mighty task. But finally learning it taught me so much.
What a great video! I teach concealed carry classes and you hit on all of the main carry points, especially the habit stacking. The only thing that I would add is to pick a gun and holster combo that you are comfortable wearing all of the time. Wear your pistol when you are at home even if you are not going anywhere. By doing that you will have a gun with you in any room of your house. Once you wear the pistol in your own house for a while it will become a habit and you will be much more comfortable carrying outside the house. Also, props to you for the picture of you and your husband. From the way that he is smiling, you must be a great wife!
Always have your gun with you, even at home. You're never more vulnerable in your own home than when you're in bed asleep or doing ANYTHING in your bathroom. Make sure you have a fortified bedroom door with a deadbolt. I've seen way too many reports of people being surprised and raped or killed in their own beds. The BTK killer surprised, tied up, tortured and murdered people in their OWN BEDS! Don't let that be you. It's hard to comprehend someone being that sick and evil. But that's where we are on this planet.
I have always open carried but I got my concealed weapons permit this week but leading up to getting that I was always carrying around the house. I've gotten to the bad habit of not carrying over the years and I fixed that by doing just what you said. Now I just have to get comfortable with concealed carrying but I do carry around the house at all times. And I do carry every time I leave the house, unless going to and from work. Gun free zone even though most of my coworkers are CCW holders.
Carried a custom built .45 Combat commander for 43 years. It's a PITA and heavy, but weighs less than carrying a cop around ! Saved 2 people. Me when somebody tried to rob me, just flashed it as I was getting my wallet out, and second time I had to brandish it to prevent a murder as a group of people were kicking somebody to death.
I’ve been carrying for 5 years! I am guilty of carrying off body. Mostly because it feels so uncomfortable on body at the moment 😭 on a weight loss journey so that should help. Habit stacking brings me back to James clear. I wonder if that’s who it was. His book called atomic habits is amazing
Off body can be very effective for the right person. The main thing while carrying is that your firearm is under your control. If you’re the type of person that can be focused and know exactly where it is, more power to you! Never carry off body, revolvers are not enough capacity, .380 is too small, such and such brand is the best…So much advice out there, but every scenario where you might have to defend yourself is different. Carry what you can, how you can, as long as it’s responsibly. You may be SOL carrying off body in a percentage of defensive situations, but you’re 100% SOL if your gun is at home.
I just wanted to get on a recent video for you and Mac to say that I really like your content presentation. The video quality and visual aids and personalities combine to a great, detailed, comprehensive presentation. 'that's all i have to say about that.'
I've been carrying a concealed firearm since 1983 and was never paranoid or self conscious about anyone noticing the gun. I've concealed carried everything from a .22, .44 Magnum .45 ACP and never once was worried what someone else thought. As a matter of fact, I'd challenge anyone that noticed and tell them that I have a license to carry concealed and that it is my Second Amendment right to do so. If they don't like it, too bad.
Ditto since 1980 (ergo, I'm an old guy). Where I live I have to open carry about 4 months out of the year due to heat. Sweat would ruin an IWB (and me!) in a matter of a few weeks. I actually live in a 'blue' city over a half mil and I can count on half a hand how many folks have negatively commented on my weapon, whether I'm in a grocery store, wine shed, bank or restaurant or just walking the dog around the park. Maybe three or four incidents. On the off chance that someone says something, I always reply, "Oh, is this your first visit to Texas?" That has shut them up every time. One lady called the cops. I said that was fine (walking my dog in a city park). When the cop rolled up, he rolled down the window and asked me how it was going. He then asked me what I was carrying (Kahr CW9). Told him and he said, "Hey, my neighbour has one. Do you like it?" Never once got out of the unit, never once asked me for ID which here we're required to hand over ID and LTC. She was incensed and started dialling her phone again, prob to 911. I have noticed that at least here, folks are getting a bit more used to it. Dunno, maybe. Anyway, keep on carrying. I'm former LEO and do understand the ramifications of open carry/dealing with LEOs & jumpy public/etc. However, as you said it is our right, not privilege, and I always want to come home every day knowing I did what I could to make that happen.
I was asked once, why do I carry I responded to protect against deadly force. I also told them that it's better to have , not need it than to need it, not have it.😊
Tell me you’re a dick, without using the word dick. Nice job. You’re part of the problem - one of those idiots wanting to walk into places with an open AR so you force a confrontation. The only surprise here is that you landed on Stav’s channel.
Great stuff. I've never carried off body but you're right on with all of your points. There's definitely a learning curve and a comfort curve when it comes to carrying daily.
When I get up I get dressed and my gun goes on. It comes off when I go to bed at night. Its how I was trained and it works for me. If someone breaks in I have it. If I am outside and a unfriendly wildlife animal comes around I have it handy. Living in the woods is great, but you must be prepared for it.
With society the way it is today. I don’t believe that’s necessarily a bad thing. Remember to get some training. Having a handgun is only part of the equation. The answers come when you receive the training. As the old saying goes, “ we never rise to the level of our expectations, but we fall to the level of our training” . The more time goes on, the more I found that to be true.
I've been packing about the same amount of time. I've learned that I never leave home without it, on the rare occasion I can't pack, (jury duty or whatever) I'm uneasy. I've also learned that it was a great choice. People are nuts. You're right about the paranoia when you start packing. You really do think you're printing all the time. It's so funny. You think you're the only one at the time, but we all go through that. 🤣
Well done. I would like to add the importance of the responsibility now beholding upon one who carries. If you ever have to use it, make sure you understand the laws using the firearm as the last resort where if needed you can convince a jury that your actions were justified.
An easy alternative solution to having your personal defense tool stored in a place near your keys and other things you always take with you, is just to always carry while at home. The only time I am not carrying at home is when I am wearing pajamas or showering.
Great information. Thank you. My experience was carrying at home gave me confidence to end fidgeting, and gave me conceal confidence. Justification is that my gun is safest either on me or in the safe.
As a retired NJ Police Officer and striving to maintain/ re-establish my wife's interest in firearms , I find your channel most insightful, educational and last but not least delightful ! Having watched a few of your videos either starring Mac or having him assisting you with his input on various matters - There is NO doubt in my mind that your new venture will be nothing short of being very successful, Wishing the both of you the " Best of Luck " and I will make it a point to have my bride of 48 years come this 6/14 check out your numerous videos ! IF I may add - I relocated to Las Vegas, NV in 2014 and OPEN CARRY , as I did while in uniform in NJ, and have NO issue with it, nor do I have to worry about the gun being ' printed / outlined ' in my clothes, as most newbies are overly concerned with for one reason or another. Open Carry here is free, while Concealed Carry is costly - too much Red Tape ! Honestly, it is beyond me as to WHY the average citizen is overly concerned to have to ' hide ' the fact that they are lawfully armed ! Especially, when the FACT of the MATTER is - YOU are NOT the POLICE - and as such YOU are NOT LEGALLY authorized / required / obligated to intervene in a situation which does NOT INVOLVE YOU DIRECTLY ! And YOUR intervention in a matter which DOES NOT concern YOU - could result in SEVERE CIVIL / LEGAL CONSEQUENCE to YOU if you are WRONG ! Not to mention the grief , aggravation and expense involved even - IF - you are RIGHT ! Leave the ' GOOD SAMARITAN ' attitude to the trained medical professionals who are exempt from civil liability. In that light, open carry, in my professional opinion, is MORE of a DETERRENT to PREVENT bodily harm to YOU than concealed carry. Ask Mac, how many sane / sober / drug free / law abiding people would attack an armed Uniformed Police Officer as opposed to plains clothes officers / detectives in civilian attire who are carrying concealed -much less than those who attack a person who is KNOWN to carry a firearm ! More oft than not - when a plain clothed officer gets assaulted it is a lack of proper identification to the suspect which caused the problem to escalate to that level.
Organization is key, I keep a box with everything I need all together, when you come home put everything in there first thing , way easier not to lose things,the larger safes hold everything at your nightstand
I wanted to share my thoughts. First, with respect I do not care what you (or anyone else does, for that matter). As long as they are safe and they do not endanger anyone else. Here is my story: But, when I first started carrying, I got insurance and got a subscription to 3 different magazines. I am not sure where I read this, but it changed me. Before reading the article, I would just carry if I went somewhere "dangerous". I would put the gun away the minute I got home. The article points out that crimes happen everywhere. Even in "safe" areas. After all, if you were a criminal wouldn't you want to target the money (aka the "good neighborhoods")? It pointed out that you should get in the habit of carrying everywhere that you can. That made sense. When I lived in Colorado, we had some nutjob come into a McDonalds with a chainsaw threatening people... Why would you do that?!?! And the Aurora "joker" shooter. Those people thought "who needs a gun, I am just going to the movies to watch Batman"... Then this nut shows up... I could go on for ages with examples. As for the home, why would I need to carry when I am at home? Imagine a townhouse. You have an upstairs with bedrooms, the ground floor with an entry room, welcome room, dining room and kitchen, then downstairs is a basement with the TV. The kids are downstairs, your gun is upstairs (next to the bed). The stairs is next to the front door. You are in the back of the ground floor cooking dinner. Then suddenly the front door is kicked open... do you run downstairs to the kids? Run past the intruders to fight them and race upstairs for your gun? Again, I do not care what anyone does, but I have gotten in the habit of carrying, even in my house. It wouldn't be terrible idea to stage guns if you can do so safely. These are just my thoughts do whatever makes you happy.
I agree with you completely. Your first statement about only carrying were you thought was dangerous. I helped a mentor of mine In Law enforcement give a class to new CCWs. The first class I helped with was the first time I hear this but heard it every time I helped after that. He started his class by asking how many people (all of these people had their CCW for at least a few months) weapon on them. All hands went up (this was a shooting and classroom training class). He said great next question, how many of you carry daily? Not one hand went up. He then said will anyone tell me when and why you carry? One had went up the main instructor (my mentor) said OK, why do you carry when you do. The man said (as you said) when I think where I'm going might be dangerous. The instructor (he was great at this) looked around the room and asked how many of the rest of you carry for the same reason as this gentleman just stated. In this class, all the hands went up (My mentor was a retired marine and had the language to prove it, LOL). He stared at them and then said why and the F would you be going someplace you think you might be getting into a gun fight. I had to leave the room the first time I heard him do this as I had to laugh so hard I think I cried. I truly believe that at least 80% of the people, men or women, that took that class started to carry whenever they leave the house.
Point #1 I agree. When I started to carry I was worried people would know. But over time that went away. Now I ask myself "do I look at peoples waste for a bulge that might be a gun?" Not at all. So why would they look for that on me. Point #3 I do also. But it's only because my work doesn't allow firearms in the building. But I always bring my carry to work in my vehicle. Another point for me was when I first started to carry, I didn't carry with one in the chamber. It took about 6 months before I started to carry with one in the chamber. After I started do that I realized it wasn't a big deal after all. My gun never comes out of my holster, so it's safe.
Having carried a CF since I became a police officer in 1974, off duty and after retirement, I've never had anyone say "I can see you are carrying a gun."
No matter how “convenient” except when siting down it’s probably the only way i would never carry as hurting yourself or your “junk” or even an artery would be non reversible compared to say 9, 3, 4, 6 etc o’clock personal preference but since being into safety alot it seems thats the worse way to cary safely, we can talk about firearms and safety, sticker fired vs hammer fired double/single action etc but an other huge thing that i have noticed is with many sticker fired (sadly including the m&p Shield which i love the balance with the recoil and accuracy) is the plunger when you pull the trigger is in the back of the spring so if anything back there ever breaks the gun will go bang vs he plunger in front of the spring then anything brakes back there there will be zero spring tension for it to go bang. Sorry took it too far but facts are facts and as an ffl/sot, gunsmith and firearms instructor its an issue that should cause concern to all as it should be standard practice from the manufacturers for the plunger to only be in front of the spring vs before for safety reasons, sadly today most manufacturers just sale guns and marketing them for money and quality and safety has virtually gone down the drain and we saw and keep seeing that in the p320s
@@larrydorazio7130 I let someone know they were printing in the 4 o'clock position. He said he knew it prints, but he didn't care who noticed. To each, their own.
When you've carried a gun for 39 years and never had to remove it from the holster is something to be proud of. LEARNING GUN SAFETY is a LIFE SAVER FOR EVERYONE.
Hey Stav, When I first started carrying (45 yrs ago) states didn't have concealed carry laws on the books. By the time the laws were on paper I thought ppl would notice, but honestly, ppl don't notice. I never carry a purse, so my gun is just a part of getting dressed.
@@Razor-gx2dq A little-known fact North Dakota has had a concealed carry permit on the books since the 30s. It is that nobody knew and carried anyway, LOL
In my state no one except police and security could carry until I was about 35. (Now we have permitless carry.) It was a huge mental adjustment. I read everything by Ayoob and Cirillo and Jeff Cooper. I took two tactical classes over and above the CCW class. The single biggest change was to always try to deescalate or retreat. Now I have been carrying over 30 years and thank God have never had to draw. I came very close twice.
If you have not: Run thru your mind, various scenarios -- so you are mentally prepared for that MOMENT. Best of good fortune. You're on the right pathway. 'DEFEND YOURSELF'.
Like you said, we all have opinions so here's another one for you. While I don't advocate off body, If you are going to carry off body-practice the draw on the range...with a timer. The only thing I really care about is if you feel confident about getting your gun out and shots on target in a timely manner. Have you taken a class where you draw from concealment from an off body carry condition under the stress of the timer in front of a group? Best wishes on continued success in life and on your channel-stay frosty!
I'm a guy and have been carrying for a while now. Looking back over the years I've realized that the people who noticed there was something(while unidentified) on me had something in common. They were all females who had interest in me. I think they were observing me a bit more than most people typically do. Which is something that might give me a clue in the future about a woman who becomes curious about what I'm concealing.
Excellent and thank you for allowing others to experience your input mam. The latest thing I have been telling others since my recent Retirement from Law Enforcement is to always also carry OC/PEPPER spray. Make it a "habit" to also carry the OC spray in your hand as you walk in areas of transition. The way I accomplish this is I carry two types of OC. One is a larger canister for dog walks able to reach vicious canines should they charge me or bi-pedals who may want to walk up on me after I have told them to get back. The other is a key carry with an attached wrist secured method (para-chord and straps) for me and it also has a quick detach feature should I go into an area forbidden (Airports etc) also on my keys are a source of light and a source of emergency noise (my old patrol whistle used for traffic control) this is crucial to draw attention should an incident happen. Of course always be armed. Just recognize for every incident where deadly force is authorized there are probably 9 out of 10 incidents where less than lethal" methods will serve just fine. It's also a fact should you spray a person to incapacitate them it's cheaper then dealing with the aftermath of a shooting incident no matter how much in the right or justified one is in general. You can look at plenty of examples of this fact. In most states use of Chemical spray as long as it's in self defense it's justified and less than lethal.
I, too, was a peace officer and would like to add something about OC spray. It might be an effective deterrant to someone giving you a hard time, but it's unlikely to work on someone who is really worked up / enraged. If someone is enraged and full of hate and wanting to hurt you badly (like they're demon possessed, or maybe an ex-wife coming for more money), spraying them in the eyes with pepper spray will just get them upset. (It's the adrenaline, along with whatever drugs they're on.) The only people adversely affected will be innocent bystanders, who always end up getting some on them. (I told my coworkers if I ever saw any of them pull out a can of OC spray I would shoot them.) So have it as a deterrant, maybe, but don't count on it when things get serious. Also, carrying a whistle on your keyring (or in some way you'll always have it with you) is a great idea. The only time I used it, though, was when I volunteered at a museum. Some guy shows up with the inner-city kids football team he coached. It took about a minute for them to start getting unruly and the whistle helped put a stop to that.
I've beencarrying daily simce December 2020 (thanks to you). I lay out my purse, jeweley for the day, perfume, phone & put my gun next to my purse. I carry with a Dene Adams corset, (which i hang on a chair by my bed to air out). I have mode this my routine, so its part of my getting ready to go. I have a Cross Breed purse holster that i keep in the car. I have the velcro installed in my favorite (appropriate) purses, just on case I need to transfer my gun easily. .its soft & entirely unnoticible, but my purse is always ready. It took me about 6 months to really get comfortable carrying daily. I just turned 61 in May & itrain at least 3 d ays a week at my local range, (more if i can). A membership makes it easy & to just drop by, even for a quick 25 rounds plus dry fire practice. I feel naked without it at this point. I also carry POM pepper spray both on body & attached to my keychain. Much love & prayers of safety. ❤️🇺🇸❤️
I’ve been carrying for 2 years now and it took a while and a long series of holsters to finally find a comfortable setup and to not be paranoid as well of people seeing and knowing I’m carrying.
3:00 Many years ago, as a result of leaving her gun behind, Texas State Representative Hupp experienced a most terrible regret. She lost her parents in a mass shooting at a restaurant. She believed that had she brought her gun along she might have been able to stop the killer. The incident made her a more determined gun carry advocate.
I'm retired Law enforcement, so concealed carry comes naturally to me most times; I also have a BUG also (old habits die hard). You are so right about people not being very observant. I have carried OSTW (Not my preferred form of carry usually; I carry ISTW), and I forgot a cover-up one time. I shopped in a crowded store for more than an hr. No one noticed, or if they did, they never reported me. (I have been drawing my pension after putting in 30 years for 10 years and will be 60 in December) so as I said, I have been doing the Concealed Carry thing off-duty for many years and another 10 as a retired LEO. I went to college nights and worked 4 10hr days as a county Deputy sheriff while my wife worked, and we had our first child by the time I was twenty-one, and she was twenty-two. She put her College on hold for me so I could get my Masters's degree in Criminal Justice. Once I finished, we put her through the rest of her College to get her degree in business. While I was in the service, she took two years of college Pre Reqs. I also served three years in the army, from 17 to 20. My parent signed the waiver (they graduated me a year early, or as they call it now, I believe, on an excelled program) for the signing bonus back then (this was during the Ragen build-back years). Once out of the military, I enlisted in our state's National Guard for a better draw from the GI bill. This is much more info than I intended or probably needed (sue me, I can be an over-sharer, LMAO!). I just wanted to make the point that my wife worked at a bank for 32 years (she took retirement at 62 this past Feb). Even though her company DISCURAGED WEAPONS, it wasn't a point, of contention, according to the company charter, that she could be fired for it. My outlook is I was looking for a job when I found this one, but it was my wife, not me. She liked the idea and said yes, I feel the same way, LOL. In those 32 years (she always carried on the body, she just dressed around her Glock 26 the last 20 years before the G26 third gen came out, she had an S&W J frame 1" and 7/8th" barrel in 38 spl. Regarding GFZ (Gun Free Zones) in our State, even if it says GFZ or whatever kind of sign they put up (excluding schools), it is not against the law to conceal carry there. All they can do is ask you to leave if, by chance, they spot what you are carrying. If you don't, they can have you charged with trespass, but it is still not a criminal offense in our ST. Please remember this is In North Dakota. Please, find out the laws in your state. We have some of the most liberal gun laws in the US. We rank on par with TX, so we have it easier than were Stav lives. Way more Liberal GUN laws; only the state is very conservative, which is most likely the reason for the liberal gun law, LOL! Again I'm sorry I'm so wordy. I tell my wife it's because of the hrs I spent alone on duty, LOL! Something I find funny about myself. I forget my phone and keys now, and then I always remember my weapon, but that has been part of my lifestyle for over 40 years.
I haven't purchased my first gun yet but about ready to. Ive been training for a few months with a rental though so Im ready. I know carrying will feel so strange at first!
It’s good that you’re training I wish more people would do so on a regular basis, but make sure you start training as soon as possible with your carry gun. All guns operate a little differently, having switches and buttons in different locations. Gaining familiarity with those is of upmost importance so training with one gun and carrying a different gun can be very problematic. Don’t ask me how I know.🙄 Also, I don’t know what is your idea of training. If that is standing statically at a gun range and shooting at a target in your lane, that is fine for firearm familiarity. But for defensive purposes, you should start taking defensive handgun classes eventually working your way up to a kinetic combat pistol class. No one stands still very long in a gunfight. Everyone is moving, those not moving have most likely been shot.😊 Good luck on your training. Be safe and have fun!
@@longgone9869 Thanks for the input. I'm in for a year of training that has been basic handling and lane drills so far. I had zero experience before that so I definitely needed all the basics. They offer advanced training but not sure how long it takes to progress. My trainer is great and I'm having fun learning. Definitely getting my own gun asap (just need to decide on one) so I can get the most out of training which is a hefty investment (for me anyway).
Your calm and non authoritarian approach is good for beginners. When concealed carry became legal in my state I was about 35. The only people who could carry before that were police and a very small number of security and private detectives. For many of us it took a long time to accept that it was possible and safe. People telling me I was wrong and stupid would not have helped. I carried with the gun cocked but no round in the chamber for months. Every night I checked the trigger and it was never back, so eventually I carried chambered. The lesson is that everyone has their own process and time frame. “You should do X or you will die” is not helpful.
I have a Breakfast Bar in my kitchen. My sunglasses and car keys are always on the bar and my firearm, when not on my person, is retained by a magnet under the breakfast bar. I come and go through my back kitchen door so it's really easy to pick up my sunglasses, my keys and my firearm as I leave.
I have been carrying for one year this August. (Male, appendix carry) The three things that I realized very quickly were 1. 99.999% of people have no clue that I am carrying, people simply do not look at your waist. 2. Carrying with a round in the chamber is as safe as carrying without one in the chamber. 3. Carrying isn’t always comfortable but it is always comforting.
I did experience the “paranoia “ at first but then realized that it was the general public that needs to see people carrying more often. It did go away. I don’t always conceal since it depends on weather and garments.
I always open carry because it is my 2nd amendment right, it is my God given right, so people know that theft of anykind will not be tolerated, protection of others is there if needed, & my life & family are ULTIMATELY important for protection from violent people!!!
I live in Tennessee in Tennessee is an open carry state I find it funny that I walk into grocery stores or past police officers and no one says anything and they can see my gun
Big yes to the last part on other people's opinions! I also learned that most ¨gun people¨ are really knowledgeable and enthusiastic about guns and want you to like them as much as they do. So, they're super patient and helpful and really big on safety because they understand that, even though having guns is a right, it is a right that must be exercised with utmost seriousness and respect. And speaking of off body carry, I bought a Ukoala bag because of your review! I'm currently using it as my purse while I travel in Germany and Austria. On body is still my preferred, but I love this bag for the times when none of my holsters will *quite* do the job.
And the best way to have a comfortable holster is to carry it with an actual belt designed for carrying a firearm, better known as a gun belt. They are more rigid and do a better job of hold a firearm against your body.
My first day carrying I was at the grocery store deli when a police officer got in line behind me I was nervous as hell but he didn't say a thing. I got over it in a short time. I do have a question What do you do at home do you keep you gun with you? Do you take it when your doing yard work etc?
It is ideal to be armed or have something in close reach. Bad things can happen, and people are rarely provided advance notice. A small weapon(like a little pocket pistol) could be on you wherever you go while you're up and about at home or if you step outside. A larger weapon could be locked up and/or staged so that if time or circumstance permits, you can access that. In addition to bad people, sometimes irresponsible people will let dangerous dogs roam off leash. I've seen videos of grown men attempting to fend off attacks from Pit Bulls using bare hands, kicks, and sometimes blunt weapons with very little effect.
If the gun doesn’t get in your way, while you’re outside, doing chores, then why not carry it? I don’t carry a firearm in my home, but as I no longer have children here I have them staged in several places around the house, where I generally spend time. My thinking is this. I am retired and my home looks the same whether I’m here or traveling, shades are pulled, garage doors are generally down. If I happen to be in the basement working out and someone thinking my home is empty, boots my upstairs door I don’t want to have to return upstairs to retrieve my firearm.
I have at least one firearm on my person from the moment I get dressed until I undress, and as one other person replied, my kids are grown, and so my wife and I always have a weapon close. We have some staged but have been trying different 1-gun safes for that and have not found the one I am happy with yet.
As a Ex-Leo I’ve just recently started carrying over the last 2 years, bc of where I live.(NY) Too many incidents have been happening where I fear for my family’s safety! Be safe out there, the world is absolutely dangerous and crazy!
Great video and discussion!! I have been carrying everyday for 15 years. My concern went away after about 6-10 months. My wife and i dont have kids so i store my pistols in a biometric safe on my night stand. After i shower in the moring it goes on my side (Kore essentials belt is a must for me) i hit the range 2 times a month, also have a I target for home. Again Great job!
I am 6’1” 240 pounds and worked very hard to stay fit. Having said that I still carry OC spray on me every day I leave the house. It’s always nice to have a non-lethal tool on you to prevent the necessity of having to lay hands on should someone get aggressive. It’s simply not worth the risk of getting injured. I’m also in the habit of carrying a couple of small knives and an ankle first aid kit 🤷🏼♂️
As I concealed carried for about two month I was never worried about being seen with a gun ( ie printing ). Since I stopped, I open carry everywhere ( 38 states) as a truck driver, I NEVER worry about anyone anytime. I get more thankful conversations and general questions about what I carry.
Solid info! I had enough training before I started carrying publicly that it wasn't much of a concern, and I wore it around my house and property for a few days first when I settled on my first holster so that I was comfortable with it. This helped avoid the tendency to fidget with it while out because I was already used to how it moved and felt.
My name is Donna Shannon and I’m deaf and I read lips. I carry a knife because I don’t think they will let me have a gun. But it was interesting about what you learned after carrying 8 years. Have a great day and stay safe
It has been a month since your last video, and i always look forward to it. Please consider presenting more content with ur hubby Mac. You two make a great team.
“If you want to create a new habit, attach it to an existing habit” is often attributed to author & productivity expert Gretchen Rubin, though similar principles have been discussed by others. In her book, “Better Than Before: Mastering the Habits of Our Everyday Lives”, Gretchen discusses habit stacking, among other concepts.
Been carrying for 3 times as long as you. And yes us guys can wear the same type of clothing. I carry 99% on body, some backpack carry at the gym. The gun is just another part of what I wear and carry. So when I leave the house it’s a normal thing I put on. Carry responsibly but always carry.
As someone who lives in a state where you can open carry without a ccw permit because it's our right do so. That being said I do have a ccw permit, and for the longest time I tried to figure out a way to to carry concealed that gave good access to my weapon but was also comfortable to carry. I eventually gave up trying and started carrying openly about 10 years ago, and have never had a problems or issues doing so not with other people or even the police. Most people don't even notice that you have a gun because most people today are too self absorbed to even notice. The one's who do notice will usually strike up a conversation about it because they didn't realize that it was even legal to do. So it's something I don't worry about anymore.
One thing that surprised me is that carrying a gun made me more polite. I put my gun on when I get up in the morning and do not take it off until I go to bed at night.
Yes it does because you realize if you have a bad attitude or get in an argument with someone it could lead to a fight - and from there you don’t know where it will lead.
Hello my friend. Glad to see this. I have been carrying now 4 years in May. That is wild. Yes the paranoia goes away. The most important thing is just making sure to do is not to do things to make it obvious. Besides printing or not being aware of your clothing and body. Having proper holsters and belts and a full length mirror .Avoid Touching and adjusting your equipment...it is really a big issue for new carriers. As far as off body carry. Do what makes you comfortable. However with Caveats. I sometimes ( 1% of the time.) carry off body in a purse that has a cut proof Strap that has a thick cable and can be unbuckled, and refastened securely. I like to unbuckle it and while keeping it on my person. slide the strap thru my chair and reattach it. Also do the same in the grocery store by attaching it to my basket. If someone were to try and grab my bag they would be grabbing me and my chair or my grocery basket. That would be something. Its always right in front of me and I have complete access to it in a moments notice. my purse is in my lap or in the child seat portion of the cart. I hope that is not too confusing but hope it makes sense. Otherwise 99 percent of the time I carry on body with my CC holster. Another thing that I want to mention is that when you are carrying. Don't let your ego become your enemy and get you into trouble. Be responsible, check yourself and your ego. When you are out and about or even at home watch out with 3rd party situations. Sometimes its best to just call that in and be a good witness and use good judgment if you do engage. Remember your Firearm is a LAST RESORT TOOL. Be safe out there. .
As a former active duty Marine, and concealed carry holder in Florida I can honestly say the number one most important skill to have and exercise when carrying for self defense which hardly anyone talks about is conflict resolution. You'll hear a lot of people talk about drawing techniques, hand grip, good sight alignment, and good sight picture which are definitely all important things, but drawing a weapon should always be a last option. It should only come out if your life or someone else's life is in imminent danger. I've seen way too many CCW holders adopt a new ego or bravado just because they have a gun now so "no one better mess with them". That kind of foolish attitude gets people needlessly killed. I may be a man and I may be a Marine, but I will gladly walk away from a confrontation and look like a wuss rather than push the issue and escalate it to the point of someone getting hurt or dying. Never forget if the day comes to defend yourself with a firearm that there will be a whole lot of people that will want to crucify you even if it was truly self defense.
Same here, I carry as a last resort, not to flex. I even avoid places where I might actually need to use it. Heightened awareness is my first weapon. I'm constantly aware of my surrounding. I keep my head on a swivel and out of my phone.
What's being a Marine got to do with your comment?
The best way to win a fight is to avoid it altogether - walk away if possible, de-escalate as much as you possibly can. The vast majority of situations can be resolved peacefully. Your sidearm is emergency rescue equipment. The LAST thing you want is to have to use it.
@@TA-wg9oi Experience. Both on the battlefield and on the street.
@@richdemanowski2575 Reap what ya sow!
One of the biggest issues for first timers is they are not use to carry so they feel it and keep adjusting it, touching it, etc. The tried and true method of getting rid of this early habit is to carry at home as much as possible before going out in public.
That is the biggest thing you can do to attract attention
Great tip!
Use a wedge
@@smokinhalfat home? 😂
Habit stacking: When I was 16 or 17 I got into the habit of always carrying my wallet. When I was 33 I got into the habit of always carrying my cellphone. And when I was 47 I got into the habit of always carrying my gun.
I heard about the concept from a book called "Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones" by James Clear.
I've never understood why people *wouldn't* always carry things like wallets, keys, pocket knives, etc. in their pockets all the time. If it's worth taking with you every time you go out the door, it seems to me it's worth having on you all the time. (Also, I don't remember the last time I lost any of those. I know people who loose them on a regular basis.)
What freaks you out more? Forgetting your wallet, cellphone or gun?
@@maxwellcrazycat9204 my freaking keys.😂😂😂 I dunno what it is with me and keys but it’s getting ridiculous.😂
If you had pockets you could carry all three at once.
As a retired California cop with over 39 years on the job I made sure to instill two simple 'street survival' tactics to my wife and child since, for many years, they went about their lives unarmed: Keep your heads on a swivel and constantly update your perceptions of the situations, circumstances, and conditions that surround you so you can greatly reduce the need to de-escalate a situation by seeing it develop and by taking steps to vacate the area and avoid conflict in the first place. Secondly, never count on the police to swoop in and save you if things go bad. The odds of them being able to respond in time are very low. While on duty during the course of my career I always had ready access to three or four firearms (four, after we were issued rifles) and the primary purpose of those weapons was to protect me - not the citizenry. Police officers use firearms to protect themselves FAR more often than they use them to save citizens. That may come as a harsh realization to some, but it is an inarguable fact. Pay attention to your surroundings so you can avoid wandering into trouble and remember that should you find yourselves in a threatening predicament, you are likely going to be on your own. Carry on, America. If a permit is required, get one and, literally, carry on.
I would first run to find a place to duck behind, before pulling out a firearm. I would use pepper spray first when being pursued instead of use a gun first. Pepper spray in the eyes will incapacitate the offender yet non-lethal and no noise. A gun is extremely noisy and can destroy your hearing. A continuous pepper spray can temporarily incapacitate multiple offenders to give you valuable time to escape. However, if they will still pursue me, then they will be greeted with the trusty Smith&Wesson M&P 9C with 13 round capacity.
Texas, Arizona, Florida, and many other concealed carry states suffered horrible mass shootings and massacres of innocents, including young children. One would assume that at least 50% of the people close to the armed murderers (in the concealed carry states) were well-armed, carrying concealed weapons. Why do none of those "well-trained marksmen" EVER pull their guns, calmly aim them at the armed murderer, and neutralize him? Why NOT? Why this never happened??? How effective are private citizens with no war combat experience who never shot and killed another human being (in combat) during mass shootings in markets, restaurants, schools, and other public spaces? Why could only John Wayne, James Bond, and Jason Bourne do it? The effectiveness of concealed carry, especially in public areas with tens or hundreds of people present, is a fantasy.
@@trungson6604 lotta good points, esp, imo, your very underrated point re hearing loss. I served in feds retiring after 20 yrs. Eight mos before retiring, tinnitus popped up and it's been unceasing the past 7+ yrs.
I'm pretty sure it's due to me shooting for 20+ yrs leading up to that day of the crickets starting in my head. I can only imagine what would happen if I had exposed myself to fully unprotected blasts for years (even outdoor).
I will offer this on your overall point. You lay out other options. That's fine, of course. But remember this, criminals are dumb but they aren't without street sense of a criminal nature; that is, they're likely to catch you unawares. You may not have time for ANY weapon deployment before he has hands on you...or his weapon on you. Or you may have time for a snap decision to draw a...gun, taser, spray? If you only have time for one, maybe the gun should be the go-to...then you might stop him in his tracks and you can then figure out what's next. You don't want to put yourself in a position where you bring a spray can to a gunfight... especially if you have a gun.
In my old agency, we weren't required to wear any weapon but the gun, due to our tactical people over the yrs worrying about young'uns going for pepper or ASP instead of a gun when gun called for. (We were not a police agency, per se.)
@@teller1290what really shocks me, and I've been carrying since 2005, is how many fail to carry a good tactical style flashlight no matter what time of day it is. Our hostess here cites the Powertac brand, I have 2 and they are very good. I'm both a veteran and current security professional and have been around for some time (long enough to remember when the original Maglite, still a good choice,was the standard) and have taught many including my wife and sons. Thanks for your input!
Love this! I agree on you having one to protect yourself and others right after the #1 slot. I mean it's the definition of the airplane analogy, "you have to put your mask on before helping others." By protecting yourself, that's how lives are saved because what good are we as a last resort in a life-or- death situation if we don't think this way? God bless you and thank you for your service now and always. ❤🇺🇸
I'm a 225 lb. 6 foot tall guy so I have never been a typical easy target for bad guys. But now that I'm nearly 75 years old, it is obvious that I'm no longer viewed as a hard target so It is very much a comfort to know that my firearm can even up whatever bad odds might come at me. I can only imagine how much more secure ladies might feel knowing that they have the power to defend themselves if necessary. You are a peaceful warrior. Much respect.
"Peaceful warrior"...
I like that. 👍
I am in the same boat as you, almost... 6'2" 250 pounds veteran, I am 50 but I am disabled...I still carry myself like I know how to handle my own, and I do - it would just seriously hurt, even when I win ;-) but now I have alternative deterrents from anybody that might want to try their luck - including non-lethal ones like a taser, but I carry my sidearm just in case, because most people wouldn't try their luck with me unless they are in a group.
I'm in my 60's. A friend once asked why I carry. I told her that I'm to old to run or fight.
Yup. Started carrying in my 60s. I'm in great shape but also am probably not a threat to kick anybody's a** at this point so the equalizer is always on board.
Must be hell, where you are living. If there was the need to carry a gun, I would move to a nicer place
My wife has been carrying for 14 years now. She carries on and off body depending on what she is wearing. Her S&W has no safety, laser sight, and she practices both forms every other Thursday at Shooters on ladies night. Thank you and your husband for keeping you safe.
I embrace the concept of “Better to have it and not need it, than to need it and not have it.”
While growing up a friend of mine's father often said that. It has stuck with me through the years.
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If you need it it’s too late and why would you put yourself in that situation
@@alexjadams1970 Because sometimes the situation finds you. The gun is another tool in the toolbox to get out of that situation.
it's never that easy though.
Two things I’ve never experienced carrying a gun from day one:
1. Paranoia of carrying and that someone would know. I could have cared less
2. Worrying that I had a chambered gun on my person in the AIWB position. Not once. Right gun in the right holster.
One thing that carrying did for me is completely eliminated my road rage. I now let anything go. If someone flips me off I nod and thank them.
I think John Correia said something to that effect that I really like: carry your gun or your ego.
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@@scottvhm John Correia has taught me a lot of things. Great channel, great lessons.
@@scottvhm I like that, and John's very good.
@JohnnySilverfootYou my friend are what the mindset of the community is & should be. Total accountability is a sign of maturity 💯🥃
I have been carrying for 25+ years it just makes me more conscious about the environment I am in.
Yep, I know someone intimately that has carried a concealed handgun for about thirteen years. They have never needed it and hope they never will. They carry mostly .40 Smith & Wesson but also .45 Auto and occasionally, a 9 millimeter Luger. Rather have it and not need it then need it and not have it.
RIGHT?! Coz the last thing a responsible, legal, and morally mature carrier wants to do is HAVE TO USE IT. So not only do we avoid bad situations, we are vigilant and spot them a mile away.
In my 71 years, (6) random situations manifested in view. (6) - 0. Six saved lives to 0 lost. I can't imagine my state of mind if I had shot (6) people instead. Life can quickly turn into Hell. Hell is a lifetime of reget.
Prepared is better than panicked.
I was just thinking about it, I’ve carried for 40 years! Twice in my life I was glad I had it, luckily I didn’t have to kill anybody. I really do feel naked if I find myself without it. These days, your biggest risk is while driving. Road rage incidences are on the rise, and have been. You never know when a small fender bender will turn violent. So no matter how careful you are about not going to dangerous places, you can’t avoid driving with who knows who on the road.
What is obvious in the 25+ years you've been carring is, you've never had to use it. Having a gun in your home or on you increases the likelyhood of being killed with a gun. Absolutely not worth the time and the effort.
I have been carrying a gun for about a year in a half. I found you a year ago and I really have gotten a lot out of the videos that you post. I can honestly say I stopped being afraid to carry my gun about 7 months into carrying it. Because I started carrying it every day. You inspired me in many ways and I’ve gotten a few different holsters by learning about them through you. I find my favorite to be the cancan concealment hip hugger. I’m so sad they went out of business. I’ve also gotten my pepper spray from poms another item I learned through you. So, I’m really just trying to thank you for posting everything you have posted. And keeping us informed on caring a concealed weapon. To Those out there that have not gotten used to carrying a gun I promise you it does get easier. Watching videos that she equipped herself post will help you along the way. Be safe out there and remember you are responsible for your own safety. So please keep yourself safe, God bless you all!
Awesome. I’m always armed -unless I’m in the shower.
@@JustDefenseCan’t wait to live in a state where I can open carry and most definitely can conceal carry easier.
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@ThomasJons-rl2vm Sure, if the enemy has no guns. Then that’s fair. It if they do, it’s relevant for them to have guns.
@ThomasJons-rl2vm Like I said. If the perpetrator uses a gun. Then yeah. Having a gun is relevant for that matter. Pepper spray, knife and baseball bat. If the perpetrator has no gun. But you shouldn’t really need to worry what the homeowner uses to eliminate the threat. If you prefer to use those methods. Then that’s you.
I've watched a couple of your other videos, but I hope lots of people watch this one because it is phenomenal. I immediately appreciated the fact that you displayed your CCW in a safe condition. Your points were very relevant and practical, especially your advice about being confident in carrying a firearm and the need for additional training to be able to use it proficiently. I asked my wife to watch this because she's been sitting on the proverbial fence about equipping herself, and she really liked your approach to making the activity of concealed carry as mundane but important as wearing a seatbelt, making sure the oven is off before leaving the house and demonstrating appropriate situational awareness.
I wish people from all sides of the political spectrum would watch this video, and see you as a role model for how and why citizens should defend themselves responsibly- perhaps then we could have a constructive dialogue about the broader societal issues regarding firearms-related violence and crime rather than spend an inordinate amount of effort on restricting individual rights.
Thank you! 👏👏👏👏
Love how you represent your opinion, love our country, love that people can represent their views, keep up the great work!
I like how you give the information and let people make the decision. What works for you may not work for someone else.
I always put my holster and shield, plus extra mag, and pepper spray, on when I get dressed to leave the house. It is part of me getting town clothes on, that way I don't forget it.
The way I get away from not taking my gun with me when I leave the house is to ALWAYS carry my gun on me EVEN in the house. When I get dressed in the morning, my gun is on me. This also helps when first beginning to carry to get use to having it on you. Doing normal activities around the house and seeing how you carry (position) and how this may/may not interfere with those activities is very helpful. When I get ready to leave the house, all I have to do is put on my outer garment (usually a shirt and/or jacket if winter) and I'm out the door.
THAT is AMAZING -
I was in Viet Nam from 9/67 - 9/68 in Cu Chi Base Camp with the 25th Admin Co., 25th Inf. Div.
The entire Base Camp was required to carry their duty weapon ( usually the M-16 ) with them at ALL times - UNLOADED - to and from duty station to mess hall, etc.
The ONLY time we were allowed to " Lock and Load " was upon exiting the perimeter of the base camp.
Even upon pulling overnight perimeter guard duty - our weapons were unloaded - as we were inside the ' perimeter ' !
This was an ACTIVE COMBAT ZONE where we got mortar / rocket attacks daily since the TET Offensive.
Years later I became a NJ Police Officer and NEVER felt I had to be armed in my house - even though being surrounded by 3 daughters and 1 son !
Not to mention my wife and the dog !
I made a tray inside a dresser drawer for my EDC. Wallet, keys, cell phone, knife, aaa flashlight, watch, pen, LC9s, spare mag.
I live in a very anti-gun state. When I first started CC I obsessed over printing and worrying about if anyone noticed. After I formed the habit of carrying, I could couldn't careless if anyone notices. And to my amazement no one notices. The paranoia was all for naught...... I never leave the house without my phone- so to "habit stack" I just kept my gun with my phone wherever I went while I was in the house. Eventually if I just grabbed my phone I knew something was missing. Of course I don't have any kids around the house so that makes it easier, if there were others around I'd just lock my keys in the safe with my gun and problem solved.
I bet your anti-gun state has a lot of gun violence.
I had a similar experience. As long as it's covered most people don't notice. But then I live in a freedom State with Constitutional Carry.
Been a subscriber for years. You're an inspiration -- Thank you.
Thank you young lady for your channel and for helping to educate more young women about carrying. I will share your channel with my daughter.
I've had my concealed carry for almost 3 years now. My mindset has always been, it's not the the end of the world if anyone notices it. I carry it lawfully. If someone catches a quick print, or maybe a quick glance, it's not a big deal. If it bothers them well, they will get over it, it's my right. And like you said, so many people these days are too busy staring at their phones to notice something like that. Most people are not paying any attention to their surroundings. I honestly have people almost walk right into me in public because there face is buried in their phone.
You make a good point. I really worry about the ones that have their nose buried in their phone while they're driving!
Hey Stav. I’ve been a subscriber since pre engagement to Mac, pre Mila (can’t remember which came first) and I’ve enjoyed your journey. I hope to see many more videos in the future!
You and Mac just keep making awesome, informative, and useful content videos!
In my particular situation and circumstances, I carry all the time, even while I'm at home, up until the time I undress, stash my carry gun, and get in bed. Then my home defense gun is within reach. My greatest concern where I live is an unexpected home invasion. But every time I go out my door I do a self check list with my hands, touching my cell phone, car keys, Bluetooth headset, wallet, and my EDC in my appendix holster, and my pocket carry backup, because I've grown so completely comfortable carrying it its like part of my body. I've been a concealed carry man for over 40 years. One time (without having to draw and fire, thankfully), it probably saved me from being mugged or worse. That could have been the "one time" that I left home without it! I long ago quit feeling paranoid about anyone knowing I carry. In all of those years, not one time has anyone noticed, except that one time, when I made it noticeable and stopped a threat before it happened.
Your expertise and knowledge is priceless! Kudos! ❤
I've been carrying for 13 years. The first 3 or 4 months I would look for the required signs on businesses and felt people were watching me while I was out in the public. Now, when I carry, I forget I have a gun on me a lot of the time. I've accidentally carried into prohibited places a couple of times because I don't think about it.
Good for you! I've been carrying firearms for longer than you've been alive, and I agree with all your points. Best to you, and thanks for a fun video.
I've been carrying for decades. This video is an excellent addition to your channel..
The exception to "your gun has to be easy to grab on the go" is don't have to grab it. I put my gun on when I get out of bed, and it stays on until I go back to bed. Three reasons:
1. Temptation: If I make a spur-of-the-moment decision to go out I don't have to grab it, and there won't be the temptation to say "It's only a quick trip to get gas" or whatever.
2. Security: The likelihood I'll need to defend myself or my family at home is small, but not zero. Trouble doesn't RSVP.
3. Safety: If my gun is on my person, it's under my supervision, and no one is going to find it who shouldn't have access.
I as a man want to thank you for carrying. I hope you reach many young ladies with this message, because our second amendment rights depend on women (51%) voting for it.
To see that y'all are alot safer is a very nice bonus.
In Europe we are also safe, no school shootings or any kind. Because we DON'T carry guns. The USA still has a lot to learn 😂
@@gaatjenietaanprivacy5023who asked
@@gaatjenietaanprivacy5023 Yeah see, that is the funny thing about America's Second Amendment. The forefathers weren't so concerned about keeping people safe, they added that Amendment to keep the government in line with the will of the people. History, you might try it some time.
@gaatjenietaanprivacy5023 - That's nonsense. Europe is "safer" because European Nations don't have a Constitutional Right to own guns and therefore Guns never proliferated extensively in Europe to the same extent. It's far from only about guns also. It's about the fact that America has been under constant and continual organized attack from European Globalist Usury International Central Bankers since before our nation's founding to the present day.
America however and the entire world though (and largely by America) was built ENTIRELY on American Firearms Innovations. Our Guns built the entire world largely (gave us our Freedom from tyranny, and allowed us to "liberate" Europe, Russia, China, etc. etc.) much later. Let me explain.
Many Europeans (just like many Americans and others worldwide) are ignorant of history, and foolish, and irrational on topics like guns. The Second Industrial Revolution, was the American Industrial Revolution, and essentially all modern innovations came out of that Industrial Revolution (such as Electricity, Generation, and Distribution methods (and most innovations regarding Electrical, Oil and Gas/ Petrochemicals/ Fuels/ Lubricants/ Light Aromatic Hydrocarbons, Plastics/ Polymers/ Polyolefins science (infinite Chemistry/ Physics/ Chemical Processes/ Process Technologies/ Exploration/ Drilling/ Rigs/ Rigging, etc. and the list goes on into Millions of Patents, Products, Inventions, Innovations, and Process Technologies, and then of course you get into now ancient and modern electronics, the telegraph, telephone, light bulb, television, radio, computer, cell phone, and the list is endless.
What we didn't invent (and there is a litany of things mostly invented in Europe) we improved upon or made new inventions utilizing older inventions as a basis or foundation, or for individual components to create new inventions/ innovations/ process technologies.
But all of it was made possible by one thing: America's necessity for Guns. It was just after the Revolutionary War 1783/84, and It was clear that America did not have enough Rifles/ Muskets. We largely won the Revolutionary War by superior Marksmanship skills and a superior knowledge of the Geography/ Terrain (and not because we had enough guns). We barely had enough guns.
At that time, all Rifles and their component parts, were unique and hand made by blacksmiths and gunsmiths/ woodworkers. This was a problem. Because if a rifle broke (say on the battlefield for instance), it would have to be taken to the nearest blacksmith/ gunsmith for repairs. And that person/ those people, might be hundreds of miles away. It might take weeks to repair/ get or make the components they needed by hand.
Our Founding Fathers were pretty certain, that Britain was not just going to accept defeat by the American Colonists. So they knew they had to solve this problem before another war commenced. Thus they commissioned specific individuals to work on this problem: Of creating for the first time in human history - Interchangeable Parts, and all the Machine Tools (Lathes, Milling Machines, Drill Presses, Dies, and other components that would make it possible and that would go on to build the entire modern world we live in today (and which has been the foundation for every innovation since).
They commissioned Eli Whitney for this task, who was an inventor best known for the Cotton Gin. His most important invention however was the successful innovation of Interchangeable Parts, Integrated Manufacturing, and the Assembly Line (Henry Ford is know for this, but Whitney and others to some extent, accomplished this first [in a much smaller and less efficient capacity]).
The only reason Britain didn't commence another war against the Colonies sooner, was because the American Congress (very wisely) allowed a Private Central Bank (with primarily British Investors/ The Royal Family/ Rothschild Family, etc. that was called "The First Bank of the United States". But after 20 years, when the charter was coming up for renewal, the Congress eventually rejected the renewal. This incensed Nathan Rothschild, and he vowed to take America back.
The only question would be: Had the Americans made enough technological progress, and did they have enough Rifles? The answer to that question was BARELY. The second to the last link (below) will be an accurate accounting of this history. Even though we won the War of 1812, the British burned down essentially all of Washington D.C.
The only Government Building which was spared, was the U.S. Patent Office. Dr. William Thornton (the longest serving Superintendent of the Patent Office, inventor, and designer of the U.S. Capitol Building) pleaded with British Commanders, putting his own body in front of already loaded cannons, stating that "the information and inventions contained therein [the building] would be useful to all mankind for future posterity".
According to more than one source, when loaded cannons were already pointed in the direction of his beloved Patent Office, Thornton asked the soldiers involved, “Would you destroy this building for which the whole civilized world is interested? If so, fire away and let the charge pass through my body.” The dramatic effect was reported as magical upon the British soldiers. As a result, the building was ultimately saved from destruction by the British.
Anyway, this is far too long, but there are some amazing documentaries which explain this history well. I will link them here, and highly recommend them, because they cast off people's propaganda brainwashing. Every anti-gun nut should learn the truth and factual World History; As those who forget history are doomed to repeat it (literally).
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@@gaatjenietaanprivacy5023can you say the same about your country’s stabbings!?😅😂
You always crush it... really enjoy your channel. Keep up the great work.
I'm glad there is still a country where women are allowed to defend themselves. Speaking from a Canadian, where we have lost all our rights and our women are educated to be prey, I'm happy to see videos like this. Never give up the fight for your rights or you'll end up like Canada, a friendly warning...
I live in Arizona, been carrying for 40 years!
This past snowbird season, I took a few Canadians out shooting in the desert!
They had never held a gun before!
I took 4 different types with us and plenty of Ammo, we all had a great day!
I taught them all the safety rules first, they did great!
@@cindyrose4155 me too (Mohave County), I left that now socialist wasteland 2 decades ago and will never return.
@@cindyrose4155 Love it! I find even Canadians who own firearms need to get out a lot more and train a lot more, most don't practice enough and aren't as familiar as they should be with their firearms. Of course it's not encourage in Canada, government is doing their best to shut down all the ranges they can.
Stay free!☺
@@daddybeagleaz907 I'm definitely thinking of doing the same!!!!
Stay Free! The U.S. is our only hope!!🙏
@@cindyrose4155 I just read a book by Mark W Smith called Disarmed: What the Ukraine War Teaches Americans about the Right to Bear Arms. It's detailed, but the basic idea behind it is that small arms are very much a help in case of invasion and that the Ukrainians would've been better having guns years rather than only a week before the invasion by Russia. They would've been far more familiar with handling weapons, but when the USSR collapsed in the 1990s they debated about whether to having something aking to America's 2nd Amendment and decided against it. And the rest his history.
The sad part about that book is that the Americans (and Canadians and Aussies and Kiwis and British) that really need to read that book will not.
Thank you! I've been carrying for 15 years. The best way to do something is not the only way to ever do it every time you do it. I'm a guy and I often carry off body. Never say never.
Very very outstanding video young lady. Great job. Keep up the great work. Thanks a lot friend. SC Navy vet. 1965. 🇺🇸😊
It is so true that you need to do things over and over to make them a habit. I used to lose my keys on a daily basis and I put a hook on the wall to hang my keys from and just teaching myself to PUT THE DAMN KEYS ON ON HOOK was a mighty task. But finally learning it taught me so much.
What a great video! I teach concealed carry classes and you hit on all of the main carry points, especially the habit stacking. The only thing that I would add is to pick a gun and holster combo that you are comfortable wearing all of the time. Wear your pistol when you are at home even if you are not going anywhere. By doing that you will have a gun with you in any room of your house. Once you wear the pistol in your own house for a while it will become a habit and you will be much more comfortable carrying outside the house. Also, props to you for the picture of you and your husband. From the way that he is smiling, you must be a great wife!
Always have your gun with you, even at home. You're never more vulnerable in your own home than when you're in bed asleep or doing ANYTHING in your bathroom. Make sure you have a fortified bedroom door with a deadbolt. I've seen way too many reports of people being surprised and raped or killed in their own beds. The BTK killer surprised, tied up, tortured and murdered people in their OWN BEDS! Don't let that be you. It's hard to comprehend someone being that sick and evil. But that's where we are on this planet.
I have always open carried but I got my concealed weapons permit this week but leading up to getting that I was always carrying around the house. I've gotten to the bad habit of not carrying over the years and I fixed that by doing just what you said. Now I just have to get comfortable with concealed carrying but I do carry around the house at all times. And I do carry every time I leave the house, unless going to and from work. Gun free zone even though most of my coworkers are CCW holders.
Wow, glad you're back. Love the videos.
Carried a custom built .45 Combat commander for 43 years.
It's a PITA and heavy, but weighs less than carrying a cop around !
Saved 2 people.
Me when somebody tried to rob me, just flashed it as I was getting my wallet out, and second time I had to brandish it to prevent a murder as a group of people were kicking somebody to death.
@ThomasJons-rl2vm why? Anyone that wants to harm me deserves to be shot!
You do you.
I’ve been carrying for 5 years! I am guilty of carrying off body. Mostly because it feels so uncomfortable on body at the moment 😭 on a weight loss journey so that should help.
Habit stacking brings me back to James clear. I wonder if that’s who it was. His book called atomic habits is amazing
I carry and forget it is there. The key is a well fitted holster that fits me and fits the gun.
Off body can be very effective for the right person. The main thing while carrying is that your firearm is under your control. If you’re the type of person that can be focused and know exactly where it is, more power to you!
Never carry off body, revolvers are not enough capacity, .380 is too small, such and such brand is the best…So much advice out there, but every scenario where you might have to defend yourself is different. Carry what you can, how you can, as long as it’s responsibly.
You may be SOL carrying off body in a percentage of defensive situations, but you’re 100% SOL if your gun is at home.
I just wanted to get on a recent video for you and Mac to say that I really like your content presentation. The video quality and visual aids and personalities combine to a great, detailed, comprehensive presentation. 'that's all i have to say about that.'
I've been carrying a concealed firearm since 1983 and was never paranoid or self conscious about anyone noticing the gun. I've concealed carried everything from a .22, .44 Magnum .45 ACP and never once was worried what someone else thought. As a matter of fact, I'd challenge anyone that noticed and tell them that I have a license to carry concealed and that it is my Second Amendment right to do so. If they don't like it, too bad.
Ditto since 1980 (ergo, I'm an old guy). Where I live I have to open carry about 4 months out of the year due to heat. Sweat would ruin an IWB (and me!) in a matter of a few weeks. I actually live in a 'blue' city over a half mil and I can count on half a hand how many folks have negatively commented on my weapon, whether I'm in a grocery store, wine shed, bank or restaurant or just walking the dog around the park. Maybe three or four incidents. On the off chance that someone says something, I always reply, "Oh, is this your first visit to Texas?" That has shut them up every time. One lady called the cops. I said that was fine (walking my dog in a city park). When the cop rolled up, he rolled down the window and asked me how it was going. He then asked me what I was carrying (Kahr CW9). Told him and he said, "Hey, my neighbour has one. Do you like it?" Never once got out of the unit, never once asked me for ID which here we're required to hand over ID and LTC. She was incensed and started dialling her phone again, prob to 911. I have noticed that at least here, folks are getting a bit more used to it. Dunno, maybe. Anyway, keep on carrying. I'm former LEO and do understand the ramifications of open carry/dealing with LEOs & jumpy public/etc. However, as you said it is our right, not privilege, and I always want to come home every day knowing I did what I could to make that happen.
@@r.f.pennington746 I'm an old guy also LOL!
I was asked once, why do I carry
I responded to protect against deadly force. I also told them that it's better to have , not need it than to need it, not have it.😊
"Id challenge anyone that noticed..."
Caaaaallate el hosicooooo...
Dale. You are a Hazard to yourself.
Tell me you’re a dick, without using the word dick. Nice job. You’re part of the problem - one of those idiots wanting to walk into places with an open AR so you force a confrontation.
The only surprise here is that you landed on Stav’s channel.
Appreciate the honesty in your comments. Always be safe.
Great stuff. I've never carried off body but you're right on with all of your points. There's definitely a learning curve and a comfort curve when it comes to carrying daily.
I'm starting my 61st year. Never leave home without it. I'm proud of you good citizen. Be safe.
When I get up I get dressed and my gun goes on. It comes off when I go to bed at night. Its how I was trained and it works for me. If someone breaks in I have it. If I am outside and a unfriendly wildlife animal comes around I have it handy. Living in the woods is great, but you must be prepared for it.
Finally!!!!! 🎉 I was waiting for a new one yayyyyyy
Its a life style, and you become comfortable with it after a little while.
I’m paranoid if I don’t have my gun- which isn’t often.
With society the way it is today. I don’t believe that’s necessarily a bad thing.
Remember to get some training. Having a handgun is only part of the equation. The answers come when you receive the training.
As the old saying goes, “ we never rise to the level of our expectations, but we fall to the level of our training” . The more time goes on, the more I found that to be true.
She makes some good videos, has some great points. She is always worth watching.
Great info, thanks for sharing. I've been carrying since around 1990 and all true.
It’s really great seeing more and more women that carry a gun everyday. Thanks for sharing your experiences and encouraging other women.
I've been packing about the same amount of time. I've learned that I never leave home without it, on the rare occasion I can't pack, (jury duty or whatever) I'm uneasy. I've also learned that it was a great choice. People are nuts. You're right about the paranoia when you start packing. You really do think you're printing all the time. It's so funny. You think you're the only one at the time, but we all go through that. 🤣
most running loose anymore are not even sure where they are let alone notice if you are carrying something.
Well done. I would like to add the importance of the responsibility now beholding upon one who carries. If you ever have to use it, make sure you understand the laws using the firearm as the last resort where if needed you can convince a jury that your actions were justified.
An easy alternative solution to having your personal defense tool stored in a place near your keys and other things you always take with you, is just to always carry while at home. The only time I am not carrying at home is when I am wearing pajamas or showering.
Great information. Thank you. My experience was carrying at home gave me confidence to end fidgeting, and gave me conceal confidence. Justification is that my gun is safest either on me or in the safe.
As a retired NJ Police Officer and striving to maintain/ re-establish my wife's interest in firearms , I find your channel most insightful, educational and last but not least delightful !
Having watched a few of your videos either starring Mac or having him assisting you with his input on various matters -
There is NO doubt in my mind that your new venture will be nothing short of being very successful,
Wishing the both of you the " Best of Luck " and I will make it a point to have my bride of 48 years come this 6/14 check out your numerous videos !
IF I may add - I relocated to Las Vegas, NV in 2014 and OPEN CARRY , as I did while in uniform in NJ, and have NO issue with it, nor do I have to worry about the gun being ' printed / outlined ' in my clothes, as most newbies are overly concerned with for one reason or another.
Open Carry here is free, while Concealed Carry is costly - too much Red Tape !
Honestly, it is beyond me as to WHY the average citizen is overly concerned to have to ' hide ' the fact that they are lawfully armed !
Especially, when the FACT of the MATTER is - YOU are NOT the POLICE - and as such YOU are NOT LEGALLY authorized / required / obligated to intervene in a situation which does NOT INVOLVE YOU DIRECTLY !
And YOUR intervention in a matter which DOES NOT concern YOU - could result in SEVERE CIVIL / LEGAL CONSEQUENCE to YOU if you are WRONG !
Not to mention the grief , aggravation and expense involved even - IF - you are RIGHT !
Leave the ' GOOD SAMARITAN ' attitude to the trained medical professionals who are exempt from civil liability.
In that light, open carry, in my professional opinion, is MORE of a DETERRENT to PREVENT bodily harm to YOU than concealed carry.
Ask Mac, how many sane / sober / drug free / law abiding people would attack an armed Uniformed Police Officer as opposed to plains clothes officers / detectives in civilian attire who are carrying concealed -much less than those who attack a person who is KNOWN to carry a firearm !
More oft than not - when a plain clothed officer gets assaulted it is a lack of proper identification to the suspect which caused the problem to escalate to that level.
NJ. Gun banner capitol of the world.
@@howardjohnson6584 Only 2nd to New York !
Actually 3rd - taking California into the mix !
Organization is key, I keep a box with everything I need all together, when you come home put everything in there first thing , way easier not to lose things,the larger safes hold everything at your nightstand
I wanted to share my thoughts. First, with respect I do not care what you (or anyone else does, for that matter). As long as they are safe and they do not endanger anyone else.
Here is my story:
But, when I first started carrying, I got insurance and got a subscription to 3 different magazines. I am not sure where I read this, but it changed me. Before reading the article, I would just carry if I went somewhere "dangerous". I would put the gun away the minute I got home.
The article points out that crimes happen everywhere. Even in "safe" areas. After all, if you were a criminal wouldn't you want to target the money (aka the "good neighborhoods")? It pointed out that you should get in the habit of carrying everywhere that you can. That made sense. When I lived in Colorado, we had some nutjob come into a McDonalds with a chainsaw threatening people... Why would you do that?!?! And the Aurora "joker" shooter. Those people thought "who needs a gun, I am just going to the movies to watch Batman"... Then this nut shows up... I could go on for ages with examples.
As for the home, why would I need to carry when I am at home? Imagine a townhouse. You have an upstairs with bedrooms, the ground floor with an entry room, welcome room, dining room and kitchen, then downstairs is a basement with the TV. The kids are downstairs, your gun is upstairs (next to the bed). The stairs is next to the front door. You are in the back of the ground floor cooking dinner. Then suddenly the front door is kicked open... do you run downstairs to the kids? Run past the intruders to fight them and race upstairs for your gun?
Again, I do not care what anyone does, but I have gotten in the habit of carrying, even in my house. It wouldn't be terrible idea to stage guns if you can do so safely.
These are just my thoughts do whatever makes you happy.
I agree with you completely. Your first statement about only carrying were you thought was dangerous. I helped a mentor of mine In Law enforcement give a class to new CCWs. The first class I helped with was the first time I hear this but heard it every time I helped after that. He started his class by asking how many people (all of these people had their CCW for at least a few months) weapon on them. All hands went up (this was a shooting and classroom training class). He said great next question, how many of you carry daily? Not one hand went up. He then said will anyone tell me when and why you carry? One had went up the main instructor (my mentor) said OK, why do you carry when you do. The man said (as you said) when I think where I'm going might be dangerous. The instructor (he was great at this) looked around the room and asked how many of the rest of you carry for the same reason as this gentleman just stated. In this class, all the hands went up (My mentor was a retired marine and had the language to prove it, LOL). He stared at them and then said why and the F would you be going someplace you think you might be getting into a gun fight. I had to leave the room the first time I heard him do this as I had to laugh so hard I think I cried. I truly believe that at least 80% of the people, men or women, that took that class started to carry whenever they leave the house.
Someone somewhere said they keep loaded magazines around the house and carry their gun empty while in the house. Brilliant.
As you know realize, criminals have cars too.
Point #1 I agree. When I started to carry I was worried people would know. But over time that went away. Now I ask myself "do I look at peoples waste for a bulge that might be a gun?" Not at all. So why would they look for that on me.
Point #3 I do also. But it's only because my work doesn't allow firearms in the building. But I always bring my carry to work in my vehicle.
Another point for me was when I first started to carry, I didn't carry with one in the chamber. It took about 6 months before I started to carry with one in the chamber. After I started do that I realized it wasn't a big deal after all. My gun never comes out of my holster, so it's safe.
My "fear" of the gun printing or otherwise being visible went away after I changed to appendix carry.
Mine changed when I untucked my shirt.
Then the "fear" went to the nutshot gamble... fuck what other people think. 🤠🤠
Having carried a CF since I became a police officer in 1974, off duty and after retirement, I've never had anyone say "I can see you are carrying a gun."
No matter how “convenient” except when siting down it’s probably the only way i would never carry as hurting yourself or your “junk” or even an artery would be non reversible compared to say 9, 3, 4, 6 etc o’clock personal preference but since being into safety alot it seems thats the worse way to cary safely, we can talk about firearms and safety, sticker fired vs hammer fired double/single action etc but an other huge thing that i have noticed is with many sticker fired (sadly including the m&p Shield which i love the balance with the recoil and accuracy) is the plunger when you pull the trigger is in the back of the spring so if anything back there ever breaks the gun will go bang vs he plunger in front of the spring then anything brakes back there there will be zero spring tension for it to go bang. Sorry took it too far but facts are facts and as an ffl/sot, gunsmith and firearms instructor its an issue that should cause concern to all as it should be standard practice from the manufacturers for the plunger to only be in front of the spring vs before for safety reasons, sadly today most manufacturers just sale guns and marketing them for money and quality and safety has virtually gone down the drain and we saw and keep seeing that in the p320s
@@larrydorazio7130 I let someone know they were printing in the 4 o'clock position. He said he knew it prints, but he didn't care who noticed. To each, their own.
When you've carried a gun for 39 years and never had to remove it from the holster is something to be proud of. LEARNING GUN SAFETY is a LIFE SAVER FOR EVERYONE.
Hey Stav, When I first started carrying (45 yrs ago) states didn't have concealed carry laws on the books. By the time the laws were on paper I thought ppl would notice, but honestly, ppl don't notice. I never carry a purse, so my gun is just a part of getting dressed.
Damn, a bit risky back then, unless you lived in Vermont or something
@@Razor-gx2dq A little-known fact North Dakota has had a concealed carry permit on the books since the 30s. It is that nobody knew and carried anyway, LOL
Every ladies ensemble should include a handgun.
In my state no one except police and security could carry until I was about 35. (Now we have permitless carry.) It was a huge mental adjustment. I read everything by Ayoob and Cirillo and Jeff Cooper. I took two tactical classes over and above the CCW class. The single biggest change was to always try to deescalate or retreat. Now I have been carrying over 30 years and thank God have never had to draw. I came very close twice.
If you have not: Run thru your mind, various scenarios -- so you are mentally prepared for that MOMENT. Best of good fortune. You're on the right pathway. 'DEFEND YOURSELF'.
Like you said, we all have opinions so here's another one for you. While I don't advocate off body, If you are going to carry off body-practice the draw on the range...with a timer. The only thing I really care about is if you feel confident about getting your gun out and shots on target in a timely manner. Have you taken a class where you draw from concealment from an off body carry condition under the stress of the timer in front of a group? Best wishes on continued success in life and on your channel-stay frosty!
When I was pregnant with my daughter, I had no choice but to carry off body.
I appreciate your channel. Thank you.
I'm a guy and have been carrying for a while now. Looking back over the years I've realized that the people who noticed there was something(while unidentified) on me had something in common. They were all females who had interest in me. I think they were observing me a bit more than most people typically do. Which is something that might give me a clue in the future about a woman who becomes curious about what I'm concealing.
Good take. I’ve been caring for about 8 years and concur with your vid. Love women who carries.
You buy a side arm, you get proficient with it,then you start collecting Holsters! That's the Real Expense!! 😅
True that I have a box full at least as large as Stav's Husband, LOL.
Yep! And that's why i started making my own.
The Box of Shame.
I love your channel! And YOU! It’s been so helpful for me!! You are awesome! Keep it up!!
Excellent and thank you for allowing others to experience your input mam. The latest thing I have been telling others since my recent Retirement from Law Enforcement is to always also carry OC/PEPPER spray. Make it a "habit" to also carry the OC spray in your hand as you walk in areas of transition. The way I accomplish this is I carry two types of OC. One is a larger canister for dog walks able to reach vicious canines should they charge me or bi-pedals who may want to walk up on me after I have told them to get back. The other is a key carry with an attached wrist secured method (para-chord and straps) for me and it also has a quick detach feature should I go into an area forbidden (Airports etc) also on my keys are a source of light and a source of emergency noise (my old patrol whistle used for traffic control) this is crucial to draw attention should an incident happen. Of course always be armed. Just recognize for every incident where deadly force is authorized there are probably 9 out of 10 incidents where less than lethal" methods will serve just fine. It's also a fact should you spray a person to incapacitate them it's cheaper then dealing with the aftermath of a shooting incident no matter how much in the right or justified one is in general. You can look at plenty of examples of this fact. In most states use of Chemical spray as long as it's in self defense it's justified and less than lethal.
I, too, was a peace officer and would like to add something about OC spray. It might be an effective deterrant to someone giving you a hard time, but it's unlikely to work on someone who is really worked up / enraged. If someone is enraged and full of hate and wanting to hurt you badly (like they're demon possessed, or maybe an ex-wife coming for more money), spraying them in the eyes with pepper spray will just get them upset. (It's the adrenaline, along with whatever drugs they're on.) The only people adversely affected will be innocent bystanders, who always end up getting some on them. (I told my coworkers if I ever saw any of them pull out a can of OC spray I would shoot them.) So have it as a deterrant, maybe, but don't count on it when things get serious.
Also, carrying a whistle on your keyring (or in some way you'll always have it with you) is a great idea. The only time I used it, though, was when I volunteered at a museum. Some guy shows up with the inner-city kids football team he coached. It took about a minute for them to start getting unruly and the whistle helped put a stop to that.
I've beencarrying daily simce December 2020 (thanks to you). I lay out my purse, jeweley for the day, perfume, phone & put my gun next to my purse. I carry with a Dene Adams corset, (which i hang on a chair by my bed to air out). I have mode this my routine, so its part of my getting ready to go. I have a Cross Breed purse holster that i keep in the car. I have the velcro installed in my favorite (appropriate) purses, just on case I need to transfer my gun easily. .its soft & entirely unnoticible, but my purse is always ready. It took me about 6 months to really get comfortable carrying daily. I just turned 61 in May & itrain at least 3 d ays a week at my local range, (more if i can). A membership makes it easy & to just drop by, even for a quick 25 rounds plus dry fire practice. I feel naked without it at this point. I also carry POM pepper spray both on body & attached to my keychain. Much love & prayers of safety.
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I’ve been carrying for 2 years now and it took a while and a long series of holsters to finally find a comfortable setup and to not be paranoid as well of people seeing and knowing I’m carrying.
Good tips! Been carrying for 20 years and solid objective points made in this video.
3:00 Many years ago, as a result of leaving her gun behind, Texas State Representative Hupp experienced a most terrible regret. She lost her parents in a mass shooting at a restaurant. She believed that had she brought her gun along she might have been able to stop the killer. The incident made her a more determined gun carry advocate.
Yep. This shooting happened at a Luby's down South of Texas
I'm retired Law enforcement, so concealed carry comes naturally to me most times; I also have a BUG also (old habits die hard). You are so right about people not being very observant. I have carried OSTW (Not my preferred form of carry usually; I carry ISTW), and I forgot a cover-up one time. I shopped in a crowded store for more than an hr. No one noticed, or if they did, they never reported me. (I have been drawing my pension after putting in 30 years for 10 years and will be 60 in December) so as I said, I have been doing the Concealed
Carry thing off-duty for many years and another 10 as a retired LEO. I went to college nights and worked 4 10hr days as a county Deputy sheriff while my wife worked, and we had our first child by the time I was twenty-one, and she was twenty-two. She put her College on hold for me so I could get my Masters's degree in Criminal Justice. Once I finished, we put her through the rest of her College to get her degree in business. While I was in the service, she took two years of college Pre Reqs. I also served three years in the army, from 17 to 20. My parent signed the waiver (they graduated me a year early, or as they call it now, I believe, on an excelled program) for the signing bonus back then (this was during the Ragen build-back years). Once out of the military, I enlisted in our state's National Guard for a better draw from the GI bill. This is much more info than I intended or probably needed (sue me, I can be an over-sharer, LMAO!). I just wanted to make the point that my wife worked at a bank for 32 years (she took retirement at 62 this past Feb). Even though her company DISCURAGED WEAPONS, it wasn't a point, of contention, according to the company charter, that she could be fired for it.
My outlook is I was looking for a job when I found this one, but it was my wife, not me. She liked the idea and said yes, I feel the same way, LOL. In those 32 years (she always carried on the body, she just dressed around her Glock 26 the last 20 years before the G26 third gen came out, she had an S&W J frame 1" and 7/8th" barrel in 38 spl. Regarding GFZ (Gun Free Zones) in our State, even if it says GFZ or whatever kind of sign they put up (excluding schools), it is not against the law to conceal carry there. All they can do is ask you to leave if, by chance, they spot what you are carrying. If you don't, they can have you charged with trespass, but it is still not a criminal offense in our ST. Please remember this is In North Dakota. Please, find out the laws in your state. We have some of the most liberal gun laws in the US. We rank on par with TX, so we have it easier than were Stav lives. Way more Liberal GUN laws; only the state is very conservative, which is most likely the reason for the liberal gun law, LOL! Again I'm sorry I'm so wordy. I tell my wife it's because of the hrs I spent alone on duty, LOL! Something I find funny about myself. I forget my phone and keys now, and then I always remember my weapon, but that has been part of my lifestyle for over 40 years.
I haven't purchased my first gun yet but about ready to. Ive been training for a few months with a rental though so Im ready. I know carrying will feel so strange at first!
It’s good that you’re training I wish more people would do so on a regular basis, but make sure you start training as soon as possible with your carry gun. All guns operate a little differently, having switches and buttons in different locations. Gaining familiarity with those is of upmost importance so training with one gun and carrying a different gun can be very problematic. Don’t ask me how I know.🙄
Also, I don’t know what is your idea of training. If that is standing statically at a gun range and shooting at a target in your lane, that is fine for firearm familiarity. But for defensive purposes, you should start taking defensive handgun classes eventually working your way up to a kinetic combat pistol class. No one stands still very long in a gunfight. Everyone is moving, those not moving have most likely been shot.😊
Good luck on your training. Be safe and have fun!
@@longgone9869 Thanks for the input. I'm in for a year of training that has been basic handling and lane drills so far. I had zero experience before that so I definitely needed all the basics. They offer advanced training but not sure how long it takes to progress.
My trainer is great and I'm having fun learning. Definitely getting my own gun asap (just need to decide on one) so I can get the most out of training which is a hefty investment (for me anyway).
Your calm and non authoritarian approach is good for beginners.
When concealed carry became legal in my state I was about 35. The only people who could carry before that were police and a very small number of security and private detectives. For many of us it took a long time to accept that it was possible and safe. People telling me I was wrong and stupid would not have helped.
I carried with the gun cocked but no round in the chamber for months. Every night I checked the trigger and it was never back, so eventually I carried chambered. The lesson is that everyone has their own process and time frame. “You should do X or you will die” is not helpful.
Fascinating. Can you give some examples of when you had to pull out your gun to defend yourself?
I have a Breakfast Bar in my kitchen. My sunglasses and car keys are always on the bar and my firearm, when not on my person, is retained by a magnet under the breakfast bar. I come and go through my back kitchen door so it's really easy to pick up my sunglasses, my keys and my firearm as I leave.
I have been carrying for one year this August. (Male, appendix carry) The three things that I realized very quickly were 1. 99.999% of people have no clue that I am carrying, people simply do not look at your waist. 2. Carrying with a round in the chamber is as safe as carrying without one in the chamber. 3. Carrying isn’t always comfortable but it is always comforting.
I did experience the “paranoia “ at first but then realized that it was the general public that needs to see people carrying more often. It did go away. I don’t always conceal since it depends on weather and garments.
I’ve carried a gun daily since 2009. Now, being unarmed in public makes me feel weird. Everything you said in this video is true. Good job
100% it feels so weird to be out and about without a firearm. (Vacationing in stupid states that don't honor my states CCW)
Excellent tips Ann's hints for future protectors... God bless!❤
Sometimes I open carry just so people know it's legal!
I always open carry because it is my 2nd amendment right, it is my God given right, so people know that theft of anykind will not be tolerated, protection of others is there if needed, & my life & family are ULTIMATELY important for protection from violent people!!!
Where I live, it’s illegal to open carry. Unless you’re a criminal.
Same here, in Massachusetts open carry is perfectly legal and I like to remind people of that, as is my right.
Even though I do not, unless I'm getting gas late at night, it's perfectly legal to open carry here in ky
I live in Tennessee in Tennessee is an open carry state I find it funny that I walk into grocery stores or past police officers and no one says anything and they can see my gun
Big yes to the last part on other people's opinions! I also learned that most ¨gun people¨ are really knowledgeable and enthusiastic about guns and want you to like them as much as they do. So, they're super patient and helpful and really big on safety because they understand that, even though having guns is a right, it is a right that must be exercised with utmost seriousness and respect.
And speaking of off body carry, I bought a Ukoala bag because of your review! I'm currently using it as my purse while I travel in Germany and Austria. On body is still my preferred, but I love this bag for the times when none of my holsters will *quite* do the job.
Practicing to shoot accurately with both hands can save your life someday.
Excellent narrative. My habit wallet, keys, gun, everyday when go out, even when walking the dog. Holster comfort is key.
And the best way to have a comfortable holster is to carry it with an actual belt designed for carrying a firearm, better known as a gun belt. They are more rigid and do a better job of hold a firearm against your body.
My first day carrying I was at the grocery store deli when a police officer got in line behind me I was nervous as hell but he didn't say a thing. I got over it in a short time. I do have a question What do you do at home do you keep you gun with you? Do you take it when your doing yard work etc?
Was wondering the same
I do.
I'll carry while taking care of my garden and animals.
Some creep could try something again. I live in a subdivision and nice ones are targeted.
It is ideal to be armed or have something in close reach. Bad things can happen, and people are rarely provided advance notice. A small weapon(like a little pocket pistol) could be on you wherever you go while you're up and about at home or if you step outside. A larger weapon could be locked up and/or staged so that if time or circumstance permits, you can access that. In addition to bad people, sometimes irresponsible people will let dangerous dogs roam off leash. I've seen videos of grown men attempting to fend off attacks from Pit Bulls using bare hands, kicks, and sometimes blunt weapons with very little effect.
If the gun doesn’t get in your way, while you’re outside, doing chores, then why not carry it?
I don’t carry a firearm in my home, but as I no longer have children here I have them staged in several places around the house, where I generally spend time.
My thinking is this. I am retired and my home looks the same whether I’m here or traveling, shades are pulled, garage doors are generally down. If I happen to be in the basement working out and someone thinking my home is empty, boots my upstairs door I don’t want to have to return upstairs to retrieve my firearm.
I have at least one firearm on my person from the moment I get dressed until I undress, and as one other person replied, my kids are grown, and so my wife and I always have a weapon close. We have some staged but have been trying different 1-gun safes for that and have not found the one I am happy with yet.
As a Ex-Leo I’ve just recently started carrying over the last 2 years, bc of where I live.(NY) Too many incidents have been happening where I fear for my family’s safety! Be safe out there, the world is absolutely dangerous and crazy!
Great video and discussion!! I have been carrying everyday for 15 years. My concern went away after about 6-10 months. My wife and i dont have kids so i store my pistols in a biometric safe on my night stand. After i shower in the moring it goes on my side (Kore essentials belt is a must for me) i hit the range 2 times a month, also have a I target for home. Again Great job!
I didn't hear anything about OC. That's my preference, but depends on your state of course. I remain conscious all the time.
Knife, gun and pepper spray. If all you have is a hammer everything looks like a nail
I am 6’1” 240 pounds and worked very hard to stay fit. Having said that I still carry OC spray on me every day I leave the house. It’s always nice to have a non-lethal tool on you to prevent the necessity of having to lay hands on should someone get aggressive. It’s simply not worth the risk of getting injured.
I’m also in the habit of carrying a couple of small knives and an ankle first aid kit 🤷🏼♂️
@@Razor-gx2dq I ad 1 more thing a good flashlight also.
@@longgone9869 Ankle IFAC is a necessity in the job I worked, or if I was in uniform, my chest right had my IFAC.
As I concealed carried for about two month I was never worried about being seen with a gun ( ie printing ). Since I stopped, I open carry everywhere ( 38 states) as a truck driver, I NEVER worry about anyone anytime. I get more thankful conversations and general questions about what I carry.
Solid info! I had enough training before I started carrying publicly that it wasn't much of a concern, and I wore it around my house and property for a few days first when I settled on my first holster so that I was comfortable with it. This helped avoid the tendency to fidget with it while out because I was already used to how it moved and felt.
Thank you for the post. Another thought is always know your environment and listen to people speech and sounds , be alert to rough crowds etc.
My name is Donna Shannon and I’m deaf and I read lips. I carry a knife because I don’t think they will let me have a gun. But it was interesting about what you learned after carrying 8 years. Have a great day and stay safe
It has been a month since your last video, and i always look forward to it.
Please consider presenting more content with ur hubby Mac. You two make a great team.
“If you want to create a new habit, attach it to an existing habit” is often attributed to author & productivity expert Gretchen Rubin, though similar principles have been discussed by others. In her book, “Better Than Before: Mastering the Habits of Our Everyday Lives”, Gretchen discusses habit stacking, among other concepts.
Been carrying for 3 times as long as you. And yes us guys can wear the same type of clothing. I carry 99% on body, some backpack carry at the gym. The gun is just another part of what I wear and carry. So when I leave the house it’s a normal thing I put on. Carry responsibly but always carry.
Looking forward to the class. Hoping it comes in time for my birthday at the end of this month.
Happy early birthday 🎂 from another end of June birthday person
@@ItsAMbutyoutubechangedmyname Thank you! You too!
As someone who lives in a state where you can open carry without a ccw permit because it's our right do so. That being said I do have a ccw permit, and for the longest time I tried to figure out a way to to carry concealed that gave good access to my weapon but was also comfortable to carry. I eventually gave up trying and started carrying openly about 10 years ago, and have never had a problems or issues doing so not with other people or even the police. Most people don't even notice that you have a gun because most people today are too self absorbed to even notice. The one's who do notice will usually strike up a conversation about it because they didn't realize that it was even legal to do. So it's something I don't worry about anymore.
One thing that surprised me is that carrying a gun made me more polite. I put my gun on when I get up in the morning and do not take it off until I go to bed at night.
Yes it does because you realize if you have a bad attitude or get in an argument with someone it could lead to a fight - and from there you don’t know where it will lead.
Hello my friend. Glad to see this. I have been carrying now 4 years in May. That is wild. Yes the paranoia goes away. The most important thing is just making sure to do is not to do things to make it obvious. Besides printing or not being aware of your clothing and body. Having proper holsters and belts and a full length mirror .Avoid Touching and adjusting your equipment...it is really a big issue for new carriers. As far as off body carry. Do what makes you comfortable. However with Caveats. I sometimes ( 1% of the time.) carry off body in a purse that has a cut proof Strap that has a thick cable and can be unbuckled, and refastened securely. I like to unbuckle it and while keeping it on my person. slide the strap thru my chair and reattach it. Also do the same in the grocery store by attaching it to my basket. If someone were to try and grab my bag they would be grabbing me and my chair or my grocery basket. That would be something. Its always right in front of me and I have complete access to it in a moments notice. my purse is in my lap or in the child seat portion of the cart. I hope that is not too confusing but hope it makes sense. Otherwise 99 percent of the time I carry on body with my CC holster. Another thing that I want to mention is that when you are carrying. Don't let your ego become your enemy and get you into trouble. Be responsible, check yourself and your ego. When you are out and about or even at home watch out with 3rd party situations. Sometimes its best to just call that in and be a good witness and use good judgment if you do engage. Remember your Firearm is a LAST RESORT TOOL. Be safe out there. .