How to know if someone is lying - reading body language
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- Опубликовано: 13 июн 2019
- Both FBI agents and therapists and everything in between read people and their body language. But to see if someone is lying, there really is only one thing you need to know.
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It's so nice, in this confused and troubled world, to hear someone who advocates for kindness.
If only more people were like him...
So many of the people that preach kindness are actually mean and all-around hateful
@P C ... You are wrong. Non of us are God. Non of us can make a determination on who is are isn't worth of receiving kindness.
Just be kind. Because you don't know what some people have been through in this world.
And some are just testing you to get a reaction. So give the right reaction because you don't know what the outcome will be.
Your kindness isn't worth shit if It's only for people who you deem to be kind.
Luke 6:32
“If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them.
Amen
As much as I want to agree, being a realist and going by the materialistic laws of nature, kindness doesnt exist nor is there room for it at all
The law of nature according to materialism is survival of the fittest, no room for kindness there, just stepping over others kindness until you're completely secure
Of course I'm talking for a materialistic, atheistic and realistic perspective
@P C very true
Imagine being someone with a depressive disorder in Norway, having made an appt with a therapist and gone to the clinic. You are taken down a hallway and escorted into an office, but it's not an office. The door opens into a lush forest, and there, seated next to campfire, is Bjorn. Decked out in his long hair, canvas hat, rain jacket and rubber boots, he invites you take a seat on a log across from him. He tills the fire a moment, then says, "Tell me about your mother."
Tbosch1212 , nice thought, thank you
LOL Love this
Ha!
Yes
Imagine if both women and men played the role as leaders and caretakers as well as they used to, then therapy would rarely be necessary
i thought he was going to say before he became a full time viking
Well, some would say what I do is very close to that, haha.
I did too actually
A lot of people confuse the word Viking with Norse people. Vikings were the ones who went and raided their neighboring lands by boat, i don’t think Bjorn raids other countries by boat.
Australia Isn’t reAl
...yet...
@@libertyordeath9936 hhhhhh
Mostly here in California I find that the best way to tell if some ones lying is if they open their mouth!!!! Keep breathing.
@bent outofshape lol!
True story...
This lying thing does seem to be a curse doesn't it?
Well, that is bad!
@@BjornAndreasBull-Hansen It is indeed!
“We are all fighting a battle, be kind to each other”. Wise words. 👍 Cheers from Australia.
Ken Pickett
Plato
True but not a battle against eachother if people understood the system and the world they live in and why it is like that they would know it's a battle against the useful idiots in government's, those who control them against humanity in the end.
Your statement that people are not good at lying got me thinking. It's true some people are terrible liars. But I also know a few for whom lying is as natural as breathing. They even lie when there's no need and telling the truth would have actually been better for them. One gets very upset when caught while the other just shrugs it off.
I was a pathological liar early in my life. Now that I've grown as a person, I rarely do it - and then still no one can tell that I'm not being honest. It all comes down to practice and repetition. It's like a martial art: when you first throw a swing, you will notice many mistakes. The more you swing, the less mistakes you make. One can get good at lying, but no one is born with the ability to suppress subconscious reactions to telling a lie - same as no one can naturally and without practice suppress the reflex to twitch and stiffen up when suddenly getting hit with cold water.
@@ezkiller93 why did you lie?
@@melindanash555 Honestly I have no idea. I guess the same reason kids lie to their parents - to not face scolding or disappoint them. Then as time went on I found it easier to lie as, well, I spent more time lying than telling truth, so it became a habit. Now I become infuriated when others lie as it reminds me of my former self.
@@ezkiller93 thank you for your sincere answer.
Yes, you have those as well. But most people have trouble remembering their lies, so they get caught.
I've never regretted listening to my gut however I HAVE regretted ignoring it.
You know what makes me feel like a knucklehead? Heres a man from Norway, who speaks English every bit as well as I do, and I'm an American. I wish, as a young man, I had taken the time to learn a foreign language so that I could converse as well as this man can in a language other than his Mother tongue. Amazing fellow. Wise words.
I Don't Care for People being Deceitful Right is Right . Wrong is Wrong.
“We are all fighting a battle, and every time you meet someone, they are fighting a battle.” I love that. God bless you sir, and best wishes from the Rocky Mountain region of the States.
oh man the more I watch your videos the more I love your channel. we need more people like you in todays world.
its called profiling... a survival instinct
Profiling without menace is OK BY ME
trust your gut, which is another form of intelligence within our body (recent research shows how many neurotransmitters are created in the gut).
thanks for reminding us to relearn how to truly see, including seeing beyond the obvious/surface.
I really enjoy your channel; thank you
People need to realize they need to not be looking at their phones all the time. Throws situational awareness out the window.
@@richardmiller2049 Now, that is the truth.
Thanks, and I have read about that. Gut feeling is really a thing.
With all the disturbed biofloras these days i would not trust the gut, to know that it is your 2e brain. 😁🤗
@@nafthansen2882Yes, It always has to be carefully tested against reason, reality , knowledge and analysis.
Lao Zi says: He who conquers others is mighty! He who conquers himself is Enlightened.
When you are Honest to yourself; You are Honest To The Universe.
Good talk - thank you for stressing the fact that we all have "issues" with which to deal - and reminding us to be kind. So true!
I've been seriously considering your words from this video because they are wise. But the idea comes to me that the mirror issue of this video is even more important: we need to recognize when people are telling the truth. In these current unsettled days, too many people are seeking to accuse and to squash others down. Pre-judgment is prevalent; and for those who are falsely accused or misapprised, the result is extremely painful and often impossible to set right. It would be more kind all round if they were NOT looking for lies.
Worked in Surveillance dept at a number of Casinos here Canada. Caught people cheating and stealing all the time by observing body language.
i suffer from anxiety when chatting to new ppl, its got better as ive worked on it but someone talking to me may think something is off.
but im actually a stickler for telling the truth, i do it even when i should probably tell white lies lol
just saying there are times when someone acting out of the ordinary isn't them being untruthful
if you do not lie you dont have to remember what lies you have told, being honnest makes life so much easyer.
I have become very attuned to telling when people are lying. I can't explain what it is that i sense, but i just sense, like you said, that something is off, something is out of place. The more you pay attention to what your senses are telling you, the more attuned you will become to those feelings and be able to listen to yourself.
I do not need body language to see if somebody is lying, I just feel it, even on the phone. I love listening to you, thank you. A belgian from Spain🙏🏼🥰
Feelings are deceiving
@@papayaman78 Most of the time, but not allways. In human to human interaction they are important unless you want to act like a robot.
lol like this guy in the video that constantly whines about social media and all the terrible things in the world yet constantly pushes his agenda on guess what...SOCIAL MEDIA
@@MrOnionDip You should start another channel called MrknowitAll .
How do you hear it on phone/voice?
I try to give people the benefit of the doubt but, I have to remind myself that people are not perfect lol! I love this video's message! A good skill to know! Thanks, Bjorn!
Good comparison but I'd like to hear some more detailed information. Very nice to hear that we should all use this skill to be kind. That's perfect!
I was thinking the same, but that would have made the video very long.
Thanks Bjørn as always I appreciate your videos, they give me something to think about and strive for! Skål!
Reading your own instincts is a powerful tool, but it takes practice too.
Yes, pity that society tends to condition us not to do that from an early age!
I love your take-away. It is far deeper than any other video about catching liars that I have seen.
This was great. Thank you. The shots of nature, especially the kitty, bless my heart so much
Bull I can read, track humans, 74 years now. You are what I call a strong, self aware human with great love for life. 👍🏻 from pacific N W.
I find so much wisdom, peace and solace in your videos. Thank you. Please continue to do these if you can.
Great video as usual. Love your perspective on life! God bless!
Thanks, Aubrey!
Right on! Agree. Fighting a battle. Wow never thought about it that way. If we could all unite to help each other fight we would be stronger
If I am at all “good” at reading people, reading you I see a genuine, honest, loving human being that cares deeply for his fellow man. Blessings to you, brother. Peace.
This was very interesting! Thanks for sharing brother!
Good video, enjoyed the info and the way it was presented!
Never thought of it that way before. When you meet someone they are fighting their own battle. True. Thank you, Bjorn.
Hi Bjorn , hope all is ok . Peace from france
Everything is fine, thank you!
I think it's those who are more prone to lies that think it is "unethical." It is a matter of self-protection to be aware of deception.
Beautiful video. Thanks for the inspiration Bjorn.
Really enjoyed this video! I would love to see more videos on this subject!
thank you for this video :) you are essentially many of our therapists by expressing your ideologies into these videos.
Love your channel, brother. Keep the good word coming.
Thanks, Michael.
Thank you, I appreciate your outlook and skill and the truth about being kind is the most important thing we can be doing with our time.🌹
You have such a wonderful way of expression ... thank you, Bjorn ...
I always look forward to your videos my friend! Skål!
Psychology was my major, as I was going for a Law Enforcement degree. What you refer to is contextual incongruity. Yes, most people are easy to spot when lying. It takes some experience to catch a sociopath lying. Often it's when they lie when there is no reason to, no advantage a normal person would see to lie. Learning to spot when people are lying is a valuable life skill, and in some fields, necessary for survival.
Great video Bjorn👌 Indeed, people are fickle. Learning how to "read" their body language is important. See you next time. Enjoy!
Bjorn, your videos along with learning more about my heritage has greatly changed my life. After being in the military and a police officer, I have had struggles with finding my purpose now. I think what's left, is to keep making a difference in people's lives as I have always done, just now in a different way. Tusen tak, (hopefully that is thank you if I remember correctly) for making a difference in our lives, keep it up!
Reading people is important to understand and have empathy for one another. I think people who struggle to read others tend to end up with social anxiety as they are so unsure of any social situations. I may be wrong! I learn so much from each of your videos Bjorn, they are an invaluable part of my week. Thank you once again
I absolutely love your videos, they give me a better outlook on life, please continue to make more, have a great day.
This video was too short. More videos like this would be very instructive. I really enjoyed it. Thank you.
agree
Your wisdom and advice always gives me some hope and motivation to be a better human and a better man. I cannot thank you enough, Bjorn.
Have been very blessed in reading people. Thank you for keeping the Kindness and sharing with us who want to listen to your wonderful videos close to your heart.. Stay Blessed Brother
Thank you, kind Viking 🙏🏻
Thank you so much for these videos!
Back in the early 1970 my employer sent me to a 2 day seminar this seminar also came with a 4 month call in for any question that would come up for just this purpose and also how to spot drug users it was informative and did pay of in the years that fallowed and has served me well over the years . Happy Trails
Love your watching videos. I yearn to live in the outdoors and the adventures, Thanks for sharing!
to see someone talk about a concept so invasive as reading other people and say it should be used for kindness and for us to be better people, it's just astonishing, you're an amazing person bjorn, i guess i shouldn't have expected less
Very cool video. Thank you for that.
You have a refreshingly unique way of speaking that does a great job bringing focus to to the point you are trying to convey . Very well done .
Wise words and great message, thanks for sharing
It’s soothing to see your centeredness Bjørn!
Sometimes good people make bad choices. When I am kind to myself I find my compassion and understanding with others is more authentic. Thank you for another lovely video!
There's a book I read recently called "The Tell" by Matthew Hertenstein that talks about the judgements we make on other people within a few seconds of meeting them. These instant first impressions we make are surprisingly accurate and informative. I recommend it to anyone who wants to learn more about reading people, because there are real life consequences each time we assume something about someone else.
Great video, by the way. I found your channel when "America, what are you doing to your men?" was in my recommended and have been watching you since. Keep it up!
Ian Hurst Like Malcolm Gladwell’s Blink
So...is it don't judge a book by it's cover OR first impressions last forever??? Possibly both? I only type this to show how off our mindsets can be. It should be neither, why judge? There's nothing wrong with observations...great comment Ian.
I will keep that book in mind. Thanks for mentioning it!
Indeed, Ian, they are necessary. We just have to learn to hold them tentatively, as we are receiving new information all the time, and some of it might change ones perception. We often have an instant dislike of someone initially, then new information comes to light and they become s good friend.
What you are doing is herding people into behaviors by perpetuating a self-fulfilling prophecy. You become the creator and destroyer of the patterns. Easy example: "this person is weird, so I won't hire them" - person is now outcasted and can only find job on fringes of society with other "weirdos", thereby actually becoming "weird". All because "they didn't avert their eyes within the expected time-frame when I first met them for 1 minute".
Yes. That is a spot-on judgement! But what you are actually doing is serving a power higher than yourself (because you are unaware of what is actually going on - you just do stuff "because you feel it"). 95%of the time that "higher-power" is a person or group that wants to control you and keep everything for themselves. Thereby, you become the maker of your own chains. It is only when some threshold of suffering is passed that you will ever expend the necessary energy to uncover the inner workings of said machine. And it will only ever be for your own interests.
If you become successful in said rebellion, then you will simply assume the wheel of the ship you sought to sink. And when you come again, ignorant of what had previously passed, you will simply bounce down the same paths previously trodden, until your blood rusts your body from the inside-out, again.
And that is your story, for as long as you choose to tell it.
PS: studies have shown that even seasoned detectives are unable to beat coin-tosses when guessing if someone is lying. The single most-important factor is establishing a baseline specific to that person. This requires spending a great deal of time with them to learn their story and mannerisms. Certainly far more than brief encounters.
Reading people... reading clues... invaluable in life. That's also a great way of describing the process of writing literature etc., [I was waiting for/expecting you to mention it and you did -- thanks for that!] and it has applications to other forms of creative expression like, for me, musical composition.
You are a very soft spoken man. I am glad I found your channel. Greetings from Canada.
Thank you, Bjorn! Please stay well!
Many times even when we are not lying, we are not telling the truth. But something in your voice makes me connect to the truth within myself easier even when the words are not truthful.
Thank you for the video. It must be where you live, because I have never met anyone with the internal peace you have and transmit. In any case, you are a blessing to me and I wish Blessings upon you.
Good video, beautiful scenery. I'm heading out for the woods myself this weekend.
The school of hard knocks taught me how to decipher lying. It's really good to hear someone talk about knowing how to detect it for kindness and to be better effective.
It is better to understand than to be understood. Nothing but AGAPE for you Brotherman!
Thank for your insights in this world of uncivilized social media.
Your video popped up on my feed! What a joy to find you! I recommended your channel to my son. I know he will enjoy this more than I do ;o)
Tusind Tak!
How to know if someone is lying: Never ask a question if you don't already know the answer.
it is so soothing to listen to you. edit. and I'm going to be Tracking, from now on. I love it. if also really appreciate and enjoy any expansion you care to make on this topic. kindness, reading people, understanding their motivations, helping to make our own life, and the lives of others better by being a good person
You can SOMETIMES know if someone is lying... but the last time a man called me liar, he insisted that he could tell when someone was lying (and that I was), yet I was most assuredly telling the whole, complete and unblemished truth. I concluded that day that the ability to detect a lie is limited at best. That is the drawback of reading people for lies, the problem isn't missing lies, it's mistaking the truth for a lie.
Well said.
@@onedaywellallbedead4338 I have since learned that, in fact, the guy was accusing me falsely. He actually knew I wasn't lying, and was lying to me. I couldn't tell that day that he was lying either - but it does explain why he was so intractable.
Profound! I am very intuitive and often feel this, that something is off. It can save you from getting taken in to a bad situation. I think unfortunately we are taught as children to ignore our intuition and forced into dangerous situations. My 4year old grandson told me I don't like that man. My response to him was that's a good call on your part stay away from him. You don't have to like everyone. Maybe we could avoid being injured and mistreated if we just trusted ourselves a lot more. I love your videos. Keep them coming your message is spot on!
THANK you my brother. You Sir are a breath of fresh air in a stagnant and stale society. There's too much hate in the world. You are correct. We don't know what battles the next person is fighting. A little patience goes along way.
I really enjoy watching your videos.
This was very interesting, thank you.
Could you tell us something about runes sometime please? Thanks.
The alfabet is named FUTARK.
Your soothing voice really relaxes me thank you
Thanks for the video Bro
I always watch and enjoy your videos because You help bring peace to the world. kind regards from England.
Thank you, my friend.
IPJ Bradley I’m also watching from England 🇬🇧
Brilliant video Bjorn. Kindness seems to have no place in a world hell bent on judgement by untempered preconceptions.
Love your vids Bjorn... cheers from Australia
Always a good refresher.
Again, another good message.
Some people are such strangers to the truth they truly believe their own lies, sadly. I go more on what is said then how it is communicated.
Last videos i have really took to heart ,really appreciate the content of late , thank you for all you share ...
Another awesome video :)
I just learned body language and tracking in one video. And you explained it so simple. Thanks Bjorn.
As a person with Aspergers, stuff like this helps a lot for rare occasions when I do feel social or have to be social. Thank you for the video
I agree with being kind, one manner for all people. But because one can encounter bad actors, I plan to use what I learned in this video to spot people who try to manipulate me. I'm going to look for what seems "out of place" in a conversation and trust my initial gut reaction instead of second guessing myself. Thanks for your insightful videos and the nature sounds and scenery. Protect Earth!
I really enjoy your videos. You put alot of thought into them and I can tell you are a good person just by that! Kindness is almost obsolete in this day and age. It is refreshing seeing you refer to it. I raised my children (all adults now) to "kill em with kindness"... It always worked. We all have our own struggles.
Your a good man,thank you for your videos,I share them with my son. God bless
Thank you for that lovely video.
I really loved the tracking analogy. It's beautiful. For me this image of tracking mother earth is already sending me in th direction of kindness and curiosity rather then looking for something wrong in someone . ( on , underneath the surface) I think I actually did it without always noticing . I think it really is about intention. U had to forgive myself for my big and small imperfections so I could do this kind of tracking with a kinder glimpse. ( still working on that , and some days are better than others ) loved the way you ended the video, and the connection to nature. I work with children, as a therapist. And I do it in a caravan in a feeld so there is a place to make a small fire or to work with wood and conect emotions to actions outdoors. Thank you so much for this channel. We all need a reminder for the ideas and state of mind you bring
I have always found that when someone feels the need to tell you that you can trust them, you can't.
I enjoy your insight and am glad I found your channel ! I grew up with access to the wilderness & nature - now that I live in the city (not a large city though) I consider myself lucky. I see so many people who seems anxious and stressed and I think they must be missing a certain level of harmony with the world.
Great topic, truly.
I am a retired Combat Medic, 45 years in all, in Medicine. Nope, I am not a doctor.
People lie all the time. The most common, for me, is how they answer "how much do you smoke, or drink"
Its not wrong to expect it.
Great information Sir! Thanks!