Had my first real relationship start sophomore year of high school, and she fell for me so hard that I decided to ask her out. The first couple years were a dream, until we got to college and variables began to run their course on our outcomes. I was not the ideal boyfriend, and she knew that about me but continued to love me, my family, my friends, and my life regardless. I will always love her for that. The summer of my senior year of high school, I was working so much in the months leading up to school starting while she was at school and….. she met someone. Immediately called me on my way to school to tell me about this guy and basically “not to worry”. I worried, panicked even, and when she brought it up to me i began to shy away and get upset. She took this as a sign of me wanting out and decided to breakup with me on the way to our first class (WHICH WE HAD TOGETHER). It’s been three weeks and im broken man. Saw her the other night with a different guy and it felt like a punch to the liver. I’m really struggling, but hopefully I’ll get through it all at the end of the day.
the biggest thing that sucks too is especially older people (your parents or older peers) will tell you "oh but your young, you will get over it". And that is true, but in the moment it just feels like no one is gonna help you, and that is when you make the discovery that your on your own with these things.
Went to a concert last night and came home to my girlfriend of 3 years had packed and took the cat and left without a single warning sign. She left a long note that I haven’t been able to read yet. This is my first real heartbreak and I’m lost and completely confused.
Stay strong brother! You can’t see it now but you will be just fine. I was there a few years ago & trust me, you will make it through. Let yourself feel those emotions & work on yourself my boy. 💯
I respectfully disagree with the title. I think heartbreak is arguably worse later in life depending on the stage you're in. If you're heartbroken in your 40's or 50's you feel like you could be alone forever and that you're never going to find your person. Fact of the matter is, it's different for everyone. If you perceive the heartbreak situation you're in to be the most painful thing in the world it will be.
Went through it about a week ago, and the breakup was premature, and both sides were in the wrong. What sucks is that my first heartbreak was at 21 and not 14 because I didn't care enough in highschool 😂
My first heartbreak was at 26 . I used to make fun of all those heartbreak songs because it didn’t make sense to me. Than when it happened to me I was like “oh so this is what these mfs were crying about.” 😂
I’m 26 right now, and my girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me a few months ago. Hardest thing to go through. Keep trying your best man, we will get through this.
I told her, "If we dont work out, you'ld be CRAZY not to get back with your ex." ... knowing I was bailing & the fact that if I said those words, it would SMACK her across the face. She was a maneater!
21 and just had my first heartbreak about a month ago. Before her I was already plagued by loneliness and depression, but when I met her we became good friends and I found a sense of happiness again. Her and her ex broke up and I was there for her, I eventually fell for her though. Being stupid and inexperienced I ignored all the red flags that this was just a women using me to fill a void, she simply liked the love and attention I gave her. I started having trust issues with her, and as my love faded because of the shit I was going through I could finally see how much I was being disrespected, how much of the love was fake. I fell deeper into a depression, partly because of our relationship issues, but also because my grandma had died and I lost my job. I could no longer provide her with gifts, with food, or with happiness, because I was broke myself, both financially and spiritually. She used it all as an opportunity to leave me, and she got with her coworker 2 weeks after. The same guy I got upset about one time cause she said he flirted with her and she was still following him on social medias, one time the 🐕🦺 was even liking his tik toks next to me in the car. She claimed that she just wasn't ready for a relationship, and that's why she left. But after I confronted for getting with him so soon after our break up, it was because "I had problems" and "we weren't compatible". Which I agree, we weren't compatible, she's very basic compared to me. However it didn't change that she had given me fake love, used me, and disrespected me just to drop me like I was nothing for a guy she was more interested in. She also never took into account almost all my "problems" stem from her, and the rest from my depression. She never asked me how any of it affected me, she just started treating me like a nuisance because I was using drugs and alcohol to cope. I loved her, never treated her badly, I gave her what I had when I had it, I was there for her every time she was going through something, but none of it mattered. I was just a problem for her
Hey I’m in the same boat yall. Broke up with my first love on the 14th of August. It’s been a really difficult time but trust me it’s gets easier and easier and I’ve learnt so much about life and myself. Heart break would have to be one of the most human experiences, we all go through it and we all come out the other end. You got this.
I feel you brother, my 5 year relationship ended abruptly on the first day i returned back to school my senior year. She lives down the street from me and I have a class with her😂 im cooked man
Had my first real relationship start sophomore year of high school, and she fell for me so hard that I decided to ask her out. The first couple years were a dream, until we got to college and variables began to run their course on our outcomes. I was not the ideal boyfriend, and she knew that about me but continued to love me, my family, my friends, and my life regardless. I will always love her for that. The summer of my senior year of high school, I was working so much in the months leading up to school starting while she was at school and….. she met someone. Immediately called me on my way to school to tell me about this guy and basically “not to worry”. I worried, panicked even, and when she brought it up to me i began to shy away and get upset. She took this as a sign of me wanting out and decided to breakup with me on the way to our first class (WHICH WE HAD TOGETHER). It’s been three weeks and im broken man. Saw her the other night with a different guy and it felt like a punch to the liver. I’m really struggling, but hopefully I’ll get through it all at the end of the day.
Had my first breakup at 25 and it crushed me
itll mess you up
I had my first heartbreak at 21 I’m 23 now wish I experienced it at a younger age tho it really opens your eyes
Heartbreak , part of life , helps create a necesary tough human being , love love this musician , thanks , 2 W
the biggest thing that sucks too is especially older people (your parents or older peers) will tell you "oh but your young, you will get over it". And that is true, but in the moment it just feels like no one is gonna help you, and that is when you make the discovery that your on your own with these things.
Went to a concert last night and came home to my girlfriend of 3 years had packed and took the cat and left without a single warning sign. She left a long note that I haven’t been able to read yet. This is my first real heartbreak and I’m lost and completely confused.
Stay strong brother! You can’t see it now but you will be just fine. I was there a few years ago & trust me, you will make it through. Let yourself feel those emotions & work on yourself my boy. 💯
Just got dumped yesterday after 5 1/2 years. I feel horrible.
Fuck guys so we all in this one huh? How is everyone doing everyone good?
@@joefrazier8383Bro your not alone mines was 2 years.. i feel terrible
It’s happening to me slowly right now, losing my sanity.
I respectfully disagree with the title. I think heartbreak is arguably worse later in life depending on the stage you're in. If you're heartbroken in your 40's or 50's you feel like you could be alone forever and that you're never going to find your person. Fact of the matter is, it's different for everyone. If you perceive the heartbreak situation you're in to be the most painful thing in the world it will be.
Went through it about a week ago, and the breakup was premature, and both sides were in the wrong. What sucks is that my first heartbreak was at 21 and not 14 because I didn't care enough in highschool 😂
Hahaha same brother 21 first heartbreak after my girl cheated on me after almost 2 years
@@brianrawlings12I hope you guys are ok , I’m hurt as fuck right now
Bro ...
My first heartbreak was at 26 . I used to make fun of all those heartbreak songs because it didn’t make sense to me. Than when it happened to me I was like “oh so this is what these mfs were crying about.” 😂
Dated my first love for 7 years. Got dumped last week. I’m so sad, but trying to take it day by day.
Take care of yourself and heal. Try not to dwell in the grief too long. Out of a two year relationship myself.
how r u now man
26 years old, I have not been in love in 4 years .
Better to not fall in love. Men have too much to lose.
I hate what I became after my first serious break up at 26
I’m 26 right now, and my girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me a few months ago. Hardest thing to go through. Keep trying your best man, we will get through this.
I told her, "If we dont work out, you'ld be CRAZY not to get back with your ex."
... knowing I was bailing & the fact that if I said those words, it would SMACK her across the face.
She was a maneater!
Wait she told you that or you told her?
@@irbazzia2590 I told her. She was playing both sides, keeping him around for insurance. So, I split!
Girlfriend left me 6 days ago, my first love, i don’t know how to cope and i feel so lost :/
Hey, I'm here for you, my first love left me on August 16th
Just know that your not alone, I'm struggling and feeling the same pain that you are 😭
21 and just had my first heartbreak about a month ago. Before her I was already plagued by loneliness and depression, but when I met her we became good friends and I found a sense of happiness again. Her and her ex broke up and I was there for her, I eventually fell for her though. Being stupid and inexperienced I ignored all the red flags that this was just a women using me to fill a void, she simply liked the love and attention I gave her. I started having trust issues with her, and as my love faded because of the shit I was going through I could finally see how much I was being disrespected, how much of the love was fake. I fell deeper into a depression, partly because of our relationship issues, but also because my grandma had died and I lost my job. I could no longer provide her with gifts, with food, or with happiness, because I was broke myself, both financially and spiritually. She used it all as an opportunity to leave me, and she got with her coworker 2 weeks after. The same guy I got upset about one time cause she said he flirted with her and she was still following him on social medias, one time the 🐕🦺 was even liking his tik toks next to me in the car. She claimed that she just wasn't ready for a relationship, and that's why she left. But after I confronted for getting with him so soon after our break up, it was because "I had problems" and "we weren't compatible". Which I agree, we weren't compatible, she's very basic compared to me. However it didn't change that she had given me fake love, used me, and disrespected me just to drop me like I was nothing for a guy she was more interested in. She also never took into account almost all my "problems" stem from her, and the rest from my depression. She never asked me how any of it affected me, she just started treating me like a nuisance because I was using drugs and alcohol to cope. I loved her, never treated her badly, I gave her what I had when I had it, I was there for her every time she was going through something, but none of it mattered. I was just a problem for her
Hey I’m in the same boat yall. Broke up with my first love on the 14th of August. It’s been a really difficult time but trust me it’s gets easier and easier and I’ve learnt so much about life and myself.
Heart break would have to be one of the most human experiences, we all go through it and we all come out the other end. You got this.
I feel you brother, my 5 year relationship ended abruptly on the first day i returned back to school my senior year. She lives down the street from me and I have a class with her😂 im cooked man
First hard breakup at 17 it kinda sucks
Give it time and all is good trust me
What song is he referring to if he loves you more?
I don’t know what song he’s talking about at all. But then I started thinking that he means “Anna” by the Beatles. It’s a cover tho