i no longer see any fun in my life, and im constantly relapsing into false pleasures which don't need listing. i dont speak to people even though i live with 4 others. i always wondered why i was lonely yet antisocial, you explained me right there better than i can explain myself.
I don't feel lonely like lack of connections I feel lonely in the way of absolutely nobody understands me not my friends not my family they understand some but not all of what I go through mentally.
nobody will ever truly understand you because nobody is you. if you continue to learn into your authentic self, you will eventually find people that truly understand you. even if it takes longer, it will happen.
Totally agree. Even joining voice calls instead of messaging helps. Reconnecting with the world, like just going for a walk or staring at some plants, has helped me.
The thing is, i came to the realisation that i dont feel lonely, i just hate everyone around me. Everyone feels hostile and everyone wants to drag me down it feels like. Even some of my family members.
Could be the case or it could be something you're doing. Could be either you need to ask peoples honest opinion why they dislike you; narscisists tend to have problems with everyone and think everyone is against them and have no idea they're acting badly and think it's everyone else that's the problem and never themselves.
@@BurntFossil I dont even think they dislike me, i just think most of them want to use me. And dont get me wrong my personality is flawed as well but i dont feel like interacting with anybody in my close proximity anymore since everyone feels so fake. Its like most people i meet seem to never be themselves and portray a fake personality.
I know for me that I've reached a point where I feel that interacting with anyone on a deeper level just isn't worth it. Pretty much all of my childhood friends just don't interact with me any more.
You make points that sounds so obvious but that I still never thought about, thank you kind stranger whom I have not heard of before for this small yet helpful realization.
This might be the best RUclips video/channel I've ever seen. Specifically this video topic is exactly what I needed to hear, cause like a lot of people, after COVID, I fallet like I didn't really have that much of a social life. But now I realize, if I truly want to become a indie game developer as my job. I have to interact with the community, chat, talk and make friends in the community. Thank you, this is truly the best channel I could have randomly stumbled across while watching a frickin Minecraft speedrunner. Easiest sub ever. ❤
Jesus is the answer. :) Jesus will fulfill you more than anything in this world, I speak from experience (from when i did Romans 10:9-13), he loves you and wants to be in a meaningful (not romantic) relationship with you. :) “that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. For the scripture saith, Whosoever believeth on him shall not be ashamed. For there is no difference between the Jew and the Greek: for the same Lord over all is rich unto all that call upon him. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.” Romans 10:9-13 KJV “and saying, The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand: repent ye, and believe the gospel.” Mark 1:15 KJV If you want proof that Jesus and the Bible are true look a documentary called “Ron Wyatt discoveries 2022” on RUclips and a RUclips channel called Expedition Bible. They both examine archeological sites and discoveries that prove the Bible, and even reference secular sources. (Just don’t convert to 7th day Adventism after watching the documentary) And lastly if you don’t know the gospel and want to be saved search up “abc’s of Salvation Teenmissions” on Google and it should be the first or second result. When you click on it read the whole thing, and do what it says and have faith in Jesus while you are doing it, do not doubt, and if it is hard for you to do what it says, ask Jesus to help you, have faith that he will, and *he will.* God Bless :)
the problem with me is a do online school now because when i went to in person school people were trying to unalive me so i went to online school to feel safe. now i really miss school so im just waiting for next school year and i go to hang out with friends anytime i get so i stop feeling so lonely
When I lost my ear buds I somehow became more aware of stuff. Might be because I hear stuff. Sometimes it is in my ears, but I don't listen to anything, and just eavesdrop lol
great video man, i'd say that because of the lack of interactions even with people at stores or down the street and the overstimulating content that we consume everyday, we would be still feeling empty, no matter how many friends we have. you're right, literally just living the present moment and talking with more random people treating them as actual humans will fix the problem. btw 6:34 as an italian got me laughing so hard cause that's what we all actually do and during those busy days my only breaks are drinking coffe at the bar ahahah
I started watching these vids today after feeling lonely and seeing it pop up in my recommended list. I initially wanted to scroll past it but then I thought about one day a week ago I did not feel alone because I said yes to learning how to play cards with someone at a school club I was at. I initially wanted to say no because apparently I don't know what is good for myself lol and thought learning to play cards would be a waste of time. I was wrong
RUclips is slowly healing itself. This shit is so real and I actually have been using a flip phone for 6 ish months at this point because of how much isolation originates from our phones and the internet.
I’m 17 and I’m glad it’s illegal for me to use my phone while driving. I honestly just put my music on in the car and try not to pick it up to change the playlist to much. Plus I dislike when the adults drive and text in my life. I really enjoy driving sometimes I’ll even take the longer route to my house just cause 😜
noticed ive been doing some of these social interactions more often, even if they're small. such as going to stores physically, sitting in a restaurant even if its a quiet fast food chain, shooting up a hangout in dms, inviting people over, going to meetings instead of using google meet etc. feeling much better than i did in 2022 and 2023, nice to finally hear why im actually feeling better. thank you for this super informative video :)
This is literally me, except I work 12 hour night shifts in a warehouse. So on my days off I just wanna sleep and relax. And that tinder thing is WAYY to real.
Hey fellas, another suggestion: church on Sundays. You can meet plenty of people at church and you will come closer to God. God is the one who truly changed my life. It is truly impossible to be alone because God is always with each and every one of us. God bless fellas
@@YuutaTogashi0707 I understand where you are coming from, but I would suggest doing research into the accuracy of the Bible, and Jesus Christ being a living person in the time that the New Testament was written. If you have heard of the RUclipsrs redeemed zoomer and inspiring philosophy, I would recommend checking them out! Not only that but there are studies and research that can prove that Jesus was a living person in the past. God bless brother!
@@YuutaTogashi0707no need to apologize, I understand your concern! The Bible is one of the best kept historical documents in history, hundreds of people in it confirm that Jesus not only lived, but died and came back to life. They were even given the choice to believe that Jesus resurrected and die, or big believe it and live. Lots of people held to the truth and died. If people were willing to die because they had truth, that seems awfully convincing right?
I cant even use my phone much in the car cuz i get carsick and im kinda glad cuz it feels shit to be on your phone in the car even. (says the guy who has no life) atm
Funny enough, I feel like people online are much more real than irl. When was the last time you heard someone on the street yell something like "oh fuck you, I love sniffing my old socks" at a complete stranger? But it happens on reddit all of the time
Man I've missed the gameplay commentary days of youtube
Yeah now its cringe tho since its a tiktok trend
@@h24812hWhat...
@@goldberserk7425 Ig they are referring to those YT creators who use MC parkour in the background like Jellybean
I know right!! videos like these and have inspired me to do something similar but with pokemon , I’m glad this kind of content is making a comeback
I needed to hear this cause the past few years haven’t been the best. Thank you for this.
You got this!
i no longer see any fun in my life, and im constantly relapsing into false pleasures which don't need listing. i dont speak to people even though i live with 4 others. i always wondered why i was lonely yet antisocial, you explained me right there better than i can explain myself.
I don't feel lonely like lack of connections I feel lonely in the way of absolutely nobody understands me not my friends not my family they understand some but not all of what I go through mentally.
nobody will ever truly understand you because nobody is you. if you continue to learn into your authentic self, you will eventually find people that truly understand you. even if it takes longer, it will happen.
Totally agree. Even joining voice calls instead of messaging helps. Reconnecting with the world, like just going for a walk or staring at some plants, has helped me.
The thing is, i came to the realisation that i dont feel lonely, i just hate everyone around me. Everyone feels hostile and everyone wants to drag me down it feels like. Even some of my family members.
Could be the case or it could be something you're doing. Could be either you need to ask peoples honest opinion why they dislike you; narscisists tend to have problems with everyone and think everyone is against them and have no idea they're acting badly and think it's everyone else that's the problem and never themselves.
@@BurntFossil I dont even think they dislike me, i just think most of them want to use me. And dont get me wrong my personality is flawed as well but i dont feel like interacting with anybody in my close proximity anymore since everyone feels so fake. Its like most people i meet seem to never be themselves and portray a fake personality.
I know for me that I've reached a point where I feel that interacting with anyone on a deeper level just isn't worth it. Pretty much all of my childhood friends just don't interact with me any more.
You make points that sounds so obvious but that I still never thought about, thank you kind stranger whom I have not heard of before for this small yet helpful realization.
This might be the best RUclips video/channel I've ever seen. Specifically this video topic is exactly what I needed to hear, cause like a lot of people, after COVID, I fallet like I didn't really have that much of a social life. But now I realize, if I truly want to become a indie game developer as my job. I have to interact with the community, chat, talk and make friends in the community. Thank you, this is truly the best channel I could have randomly stumbled across while watching a frickin Minecraft speedrunner. Easiest sub ever. ❤
not to be annoying but I think you meant specifically
@@ScotchyFur Thanks 👍
thank you so much! :)
Jesus is the answer. :)
Jesus will fulfill you more than anything in this world, I speak from experience (from when i did Romans 10:9-13), he loves you and wants to be in a meaningful (not romantic) relationship with you. :)
“that if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation. For the scripture saith, Whosoever believeth on him shall not be ashamed. For there is no difference between the Jew and the Greek: for the same Lord over all is rich unto all that call upon him. For whosoever shall call upon the name of the Lord shall be saved.”
Romans 10:9-13 KJV
“and saying, The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand: repent ye, and believe the gospel.”
Mark 1:15 KJV
If you want proof that Jesus and the Bible are true look a documentary called “Ron Wyatt discoveries 2022” on RUclips and a RUclips channel called Expedition Bible. They both examine archeological sites and discoveries that prove the Bible, and even reference secular sources. (Just don’t convert to 7th day Adventism after watching the documentary) And lastly if you don’t know the gospel and want to be saved search up “abc’s of Salvation Teenmissions” on Google and it should be the first or second result. When you click on it read the whole thing, and do what it says and have faith in Jesus while you are doing it, do not doubt, and if it is hard for you to do what it says, ask Jesus to help you, have faith that he will, and *he will.*
God Bless :)
the problem with me is a do online school now because when i went to in person school people were trying to unalive me so i went to online school to feel safe. now i really miss school so im just waiting for next school year and i go to hang out with friends anytime i get so i stop feeling so lonely
i walk a town thats long since passed its glory days.
When I lost my ear buds I somehow became more aware of stuff.
Might be because I hear stuff. Sometimes it is in my ears, but I don't listen to anything, and just eavesdrop lol
great video man, i'd say that because of the lack of interactions even with people at stores or down the street and the overstimulating content that we consume everyday, we would be still feeling empty, no matter how many friends we have. you're right, literally just living the present moment and talking with more random people treating them as actual humans will fix the problem.
btw 6:34 as an italian got me laughing so hard cause that's what we all actually do and during those busy days my only breaks are drinking coffe at the bar ahahah
The 1980s and 90s had the start of the loneliness epidemic.
Really love this slow paced, basic minecraft commentary. Keep it up man (:
thank you :)
I started watching these vids today after feeling lonely and seeing it pop up in my recommended list. I initially wanted to scroll past it but then I thought about one day a week ago I did not feel alone because I said yes to learning how to play cards with someone at a school club I was at. I initially wanted to say no because apparently I don't know what is good for myself lol and thought learning to play cards would be a waste of time. I was wrong
Damn... This hits hard.... Bravo mate, keep doing what you're doing
Thank you :)
RUclips is slowly healing itself. This shit is so real and I actually have been using a flip phone for 6 ish months at this point because of how much isolation originates from our phones and the internet.
I’m 17 and I’m glad it’s illegal for me to use my phone while driving. I honestly just put my music on in the car and try not to pick it up to change the playlist to much. Plus I dislike when the adults drive and text in my life. I really enjoy driving sometimes I’ll even take the longer route to my house just cause 😜
Yeah I have no idea why in some places it isn't banned. Like wtf lmfao
this reminds me so much of jschlatts "the weekly slap" and i love it. great content here.
Glad you enjoy it!
Solace, videos like yours inspire me to make content like this too, let’s bring back the old RUclips!!
Great video
Thanks!
noticed ive been doing some of these social interactions more often, even if they're small. such as going to stores physically, sitting in a restaurant even if its a quiet fast food chain, shooting up a hangout in dms, inviting people over, going to meetings instead of using google meet etc.
feeling much better than i did in 2022 and 2023, nice to finally hear why im actually feeling better. thank you for this super informative video :)
thanks for watching :)
Great vid. I've got same problem over 5 years now, so I'll definitely try to apply some of your advice in my life and see if it helps.
man you are a really great person. tysm for making these (:
Glad you like them! :)
This is literally me, except I work 12 hour night shifts in a warehouse. So on my days off I just wanna sleep and relax. And that tinder thing is WAYY to real.
Yes for Real Some of Us are lonely like Me
7:23 Bro jumped in the water and took fall damaged and was like wtf why did I take fall damage. I would've done the same lol
Thank you for this
Thanks.
You're welcome!
Hey fellas, another suggestion: church on Sundays. You can meet plenty of people at church and you will come closer to God. God is the one who truly changed my life. It is truly impossible to be alone because God is always with each and every one of us. God bless fellas
I agree with finding a place for improving communication but there is no actual proof for what a book made by randoms centuries ago said
Sorry
@@YuutaTogashi0707 I understand where you are coming from, but I would suggest doing research into the accuracy of the Bible, and Jesus Christ being a living person in the time that the New Testament was written. If you have heard of the RUclipsrs redeemed zoomer and inspiring philosophy, I would recommend checking them out! Not only that but there are studies and research that can prove that Jesus was a living person in the past. God bless brother!
@@YuutaTogashi0707no need to apologize, I understand your concern! The Bible is one of the best kept historical documents in history, hundreds of people in it confirm that Jesus not only lived, but died and came back to life. They were even given the choice to believe that Jesus resurrected and die, or big believe it and live. Lots of people held to the truth and died. If people were willing to die because they had truth, that seems awfully convincing right?
This is incredible
thanks!
Hey... I am your 1,000th viewer! Not so lonely after all...
thanks for watching :)
what version of mc are u play on? also i needed to hear this bc ive felt alone since i started at a new school
1.0 :)
i love u, u are my master now.
Good video
Glad you enjoyed :)
Covid ruined everybody’s social life lol
YOUR VOICE IS PERFECT FOR A RADIO HOST
thank you :)
Real
I didn't expect that The video will be that good
That's me bro I need to explore this world more
I cant even use my phone much in the car cuz i get carsick and im kinda glad cuz it feels shit to be on your phone in the car even. (says the guy who has no life) atm
How can you do this if you live in the middle of nowhere?
I really like this type of videos, feels like old youtube but with some nicer quality ;)
LowkeyMartin but orange
What are the facial characteristics of vampires??
“Touch grass, kid”
Did you figure out why you took damage in 7:20? Is it because of the game version or something?
yeah, this is minecraft version 1.0 so it’s pretty buggy
Bros next video is gonna be “why our parents hit us more”
7:30 man if someone tells you that he likes your shoes in my country chances are that he will try to rob you so keep an eye on him
Funny enough, I feel like people online are much more real than irl. When was the last time you heard someone on the street yell something like "oh fuck you, I love sniffing my old socks" at a complete stranger? But it happens on reddit all of the time
well this is unique
LMFAO
subscribing
we are a social species 🦾🤖
oh wait i see other people doing the same thing
its a fun trend im all here for it
Hey solace !
hey!
Robokast is that you
youtube really had to shove this in my face lol
Amogus 😞🤟🏼
bro is NOT niko
correct i am, in fact, not niko
7:54 lol
im hella autistic bro
why do you sound like robokast?
i am robokast ;)
slop video