This is almost exactly what I went through except we weren't married and we had a girl. We split when she was 3 and our daughter is 12 now and lives with me and her mom is 6 months pregnant with a boy and already kicked the father ( her new boyfriend) out of her house for not being able to handle how crazy she is while being pregnant. I'm so glad I'm not in a relationship with her even though I have been single since we split. She has been through 14 guys that I know of and every single case she splits with them and says they are the problem...
She sounds like my mom, her emotions can flip on a dime. For awhile she's normal and you would never think somethings wrong. But when she went through menopause it was like my childhood all over again. The yelling, the criticizing, it was hell. She made everything about her and her problems well what about the people trying to help her we are the ones that have to handle her. Always blaming "your not going through this so you don't understand!" I went very low connect, I don't give her updates on my life.
Op you needed to keep a record of your wife abuse so you can that in the court for the device so that she would try to take your kid or money But I don’t think you can save this marriage I’m sorry it just can’t be fix
Pregnancy is no excuse to treat your partner like trash. My sister was pregnant 4 times and never treated anyone like that. She was kind and sweet through her whole pregnancy. So yeah what op's wife did was abuse
If you love her compromise, don't listen to most of the people in the comments divorce is not always the option. That's what's wrong with this generation you give up to easy. Adoption is a perfect answer. A vasectomy is another good choice..
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Seriously, why didn’t OP get a vasectomy 12 minutes after the baby was born?
Or perhaps 3 months before.
Leave her
This is almost exactly what I went through except we weren't married and we had a girl. We split when she was 3 and our daughter is 12 now and lives with me and her mom is 6 months pregnant with a boy and already kicked the father ( her new boyfriend) out of her house for not being able to handle how crazy she is while being pregnant. I'm so glad I'm not in a relationship with her even though I have been single since we split. She has been through 14 guys that I know of and every single case she splits with them and says they are the problem...
She sounds like my mom, her emotions can flip on a dime. For awhile she's normal and you would never think somethings wrong. But when she went through menopause it was like my childhood all over again. The yelling, the criticizing, it was hell. She made everything about her and her problems well what about the people trying to help her we are the ones that have to handle her. Always blaming "your not going through this so you don't understand!" I went very low connect, I don't give her updates on my life.
Bro…run.
This is when the guy says nah I'm gonna get fixed so I can never have kids again to prove a point before leaving for good
Adopt girl
Divorce Op and fight for full custody! Good luck!
Jeez, she can adopt...
When you're older you'll understand
Not with her history
She specifically said she wants a daughter that looks like her so I don't think that's an option
Well no she wants a mini me, something she see as a prolongaation of herself she can't adopt a mini me
@@nadjanadjina seems like you don't understand, adopt. Millions of babies need homes.
divorce her asap....
that gaslight is a red flag chernobyl level
Divorce
Similar scenario...Got a vasectomy...Best thing I ever did.
Yeeeeeeah god dont pay the bills sorry
Op you needed to keep a record of your wife abuse so you can that in the court for the device so that she would try to take your kid or money
But I don’t think you can save this marriage I’m sorry it just can’t be fix
It ... wasn't abuse... she was pregnant...
Pregnancy is no excuse to treat your partner like trash. My sister was pregnant 4 times and never treated anyone like that. She was kind and sweet through her whole pregnancy. So yeah what op's wife did was abuse
ADOPT
If you love her compromise, don't listen to most of the people in the comments divorce is not always the option. That's what's wrong with this generation you give up to easy. Adoption is a perfect answer. A vasectomy is another good choice..
The God talk makes me think she’s getting roped into a cult
Funny how after God entered the chat, rationality left