[FULL STORY] I Walked Out of My Family’s Thanksgiving Dinner, and They Haven't Stopped Calling...

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  • Опубликовано: 23 дек 2024

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  • @celesterios4130
    @celesterios4130 Месяц назад +271

    They make fun of her for having a good job and making good money and not being married yet. But they wanted her to help her brother out.

    • @liwiathan
      @liwiathan Месяц назад +15

      The fall in line line that gets me

    • @TheShakeship
      @TheShakeship Месяц назад +9

      No they made fun of her for not having good money and valuing work life balance over grinding. Also the amount of time she blocked these people and they could somehow still message her lol

  • @wordforger
    @wordforger Месяц назад +182

    They don't know what to do with themselves without their scapegoat.

  • @shoshanaudelson4481
    @shoshanaudelson4481 Месяц назад +170

    When my mother expressed frustration that I (27+ and single, no boyfried) wasn't providing her with grandchildren, I assured her i could, but preferred to be married first. The shock shut her up.

    • @gabriellafne4218
      @gabriellafne4218 Месяц назад +4

      🤣

    • @boatthere867
      @boatthere867 Месяц назад +3

      good for you for doing it the right way

    •  Месяц назад

      Strictly speaking that’s not really required right?
      It’s like the government has figured out a way to lockdown your ovaries until you sign a license giving them executive power over you and your partner.

    • @valenmejia2135
      @valenmejia2135 28 дней назад +5

      I actually said something like this to my grandma once during a family dinner (don't worry, she gives as good as she takes, she is just slightly pushy because she loves when the family has kids). It was something like:
      "(married cousin's name) doesn't want kids so we need you to give us some soon"
      "Hey I can go to any street corner and you give you a grandbaby, but I won't take care of them and I wouldn't know the father...Maybe not a good idea"
      She didn't expect that since I'm usually silent and reserved.

    • @jyvben1520
      @jyvben1520 24 дня назад

      your mother has no right to expect grandchildren, marriage is fake, finding a good partner is essential and life insurance

  • @marchellewilliams5945
    @marchellewilliams5945 Месяц назад +36

    Wow you were the punching bag. You were right to walk out. "Family" when they want money or allow you to be verbally abused. You are so right to walk away.

  • @Meredythe
    @Meredythe Месяц назад +71

    It's called skip the drama and go on vacation somewhere warm and sunny. Possibly a beach, mai tai in hand do a selfie and text the fam "Happy Holidays!" With that pic. Or ignore the family. It doesn't matter when you are away.

  • @alexadraeln5316
    @alexadraeln5316 Месяц назад +70

    Learn to use the "block" button an invest in legal assistance. Cease and deceased letters, RO's and finally criminal charges for harassment and emotional abuse. Family is the price we pay for not being called orphans.

  • @whattheelle360
    @whattheelle360 Месяц назад +57

    Doesn’t sound like much of a family to save. Just move on.

  • @merykhan97
    @merykhan97 Месяц назад +14

    They're just mad they don't get to bully OP anymore.

  • @fanofpink
    @fanofpink Месяц назад +59

    Keep the peace and family helps is such bullshit. They want a punching bag.

  • @annabellegarcia4240
    @annabellegarcia4240 Месяц назад +124

    How is the phone buzzing when everybody is blocked? 😂

    • @sefadar1282
      @sefadar1282 Месяц назад +27

      AI cannot comprehend time

    • @kimmieb2u
      @kimmieb2u Месяц назад +15

      Calling from other numbers?

    • @Wishingstarmik0
      @Wishingstarmik0 Месяц назад +3

      Fr

    • @Wishingstarmik0
      @Wishingstarmik0 Месяц назад +4

      @@kimmieb2uit would be specified but is ai generated so it wasn't

    • @TsukinoUtokki
      @TsukinoUtokki Месяц назад +13

      She blocked her mom, then she blocked her mom again lol

  • @runeingebretsen8378
    @runeingebretsen8378 Месяц назад +6

    ah yes it's always the scapegoat that has to think about "family".

  • @natedablack7857
    @natedablack7857 Месяц назад +12

    SMH...
    First the OP claims that they've "blocked" all lines of communication with them, only to then come back and claim that they've "reached out" (i.e., text/email) to them.
    And then to make matters worse, they actually responded to 'em, essentially opened up those lines of communication with 'em, after previously stating that they'd gone "no contact" with them.
    Apparently, these OPs don't understand the meaning of the phrase "no contact".

  • @FlipTheBard
    @FlipTheBard Месяц назад +9

    Funny how OP "has to fall in line", but the rest of the family are free to take digs at OP.
    So much for "keeping the peace".

  • @dorthyjamieson5738
    @dorthyjamieson5738 Месяц назад +33

    No contact with everyone! NTA.
    Make your own holiday.

  • @sriramms1
    @sriramms1 Месяц назад +20

    OP is being treated like Luisa from encanto,always having to fix things without having time to be themself

  • @slayermoon666
    @slayermoon666 27 дней назад +4

    Family makes fun of op:
    Op stands up for herself:
    Family shocked pikachu face…
    Op, if I were you I would’ve doubled the f down… and if the flying monkeys were so concerned about family then they can be the butt of their jokes…

  • @eddiejoe3303
    @eddiejoe3303 Месяц назад +5

    My grandfather used to say, "anyone that says you must always respect your elders usually deserves no respect."
    Also, once the scapegoat leaves they need to adjust the dynamics. The dysfunctional family needs a scapegoat at all times or it collapses.

    • @itsjustme7487
      @itsjustme7487 23 дня назад

      My MIL always said " Th Bible says to honor your mother and father".
      This means all holidays, birthdays, etc were to be spent ONLY with her. NOT MY Mother.

  • @cheyenneherrera5
    @cheyenneherrera5 Месяц назад +5

    Still single?
    Yes! I get to do whatever whenever I want.

  • @amireskarous8594
    @amireskarous8594 Месяц назад +8

    Being the family bridge isn’t easy, but I am glad you were able to move past that and set boundaries for the situation. I am happy for you, and wish for the best outcome for you.

  • @ariannamiragoli
    @ariannamiragoli Месяц назад +16

    This family is so Toxic thath just ear this piece is enough for make someone sick

  • @nancyriggs8170
    @nancyriggs8170 Месяц назад +14

    OMG, please go as low contact with everyone of these AHs.. Stop giving them money, stop being the family scapegoat and STOP going to these family events.. When family's suck this bad, you need to protect yourself.. As i continue to listen all I can think is : Block these people on every form!! No contact at all.. They are so damn TOXIC.. If fact, I think you should move away from all these jagoffs..

  • @FlowerBlossom-cb3zs
    @FlowerBlossom-cb3zs Месяц назад +7

    This is why I have a love-hate relationship with my family

  • @Anti_delusion
    @Anti_delusion 27 дней назад +1

    You're brave. If I had spent years caught up into this toxicity, I would've walked away and never looked back. Sometimes we just have to evolve out of our family core and start our own.

  • @sirblack1619
    @sirblack1619 23 дня назад +1

    Listening to this reminds me why I put a lot of distance between myself and relatives. I didn't set boundaries for trying to "keep the peace" because of my mothers guilt trips. I was treated like s**t at the hands of relatives due to not setting boundaries. Once I set them, I was instantly the villain, especially in the eyes of my FAR older half sisters.
    It is good for OP with setting boundaries. Family is not always biology, which is the lesson that I learned. Friends can definitely be more family than actual blood relatives.

  • @SublimeQueen_28
    @SublimeQueen_28 Месяц назад +6

    Op shouldnt even be viewibg their messages honestly. She shouldnt give them the satisfaction honestly, like block them gor real for real.

  • @RoronoaDeep
    @RoronoaDeep Месяц назад +2

    Just sue for defamation.

  • @civillady13
    @civillady13 Месяц назад +2

    Funny, if she is so wrong and troublesome you would think her family would be glad she left.

  • @kinosaga21
    @kinosaga21 28 дней назад +1

    Poat 1: That last written apology letter is a trap, only set because they realised theg newded her as the scapegiat and lightning rod, people like OPs family will only "change" for a few month's, then they will shift back.

  • @tyronemarcucci8395
    @tyronemarcucci8395 29 дней назад +2

    Every year that I can recall, my mother made a point to suffer through Thanks Giving and ruined the atmosphere. I made a point to never spend one again after I left home.

  • @salamanca1954
    @salamanca1954 27 дней назад

    When our boys were small we read to them from a book, whose message was that a family is a circle of people who love you. The flip side of that message is that if someone isn't in that circle, they aren't really family, blood be damned.

  • @matttillman7430
    @matttillman7430 19 дней назад +1

    17:46 OP could have replied to Mom with, "I don't care about any of the pain any of you are going through since I left because none of you cared about the pain you were causing me every time we met, and every time you spoke of me behind my back to others. I'm better off without you. I have no interest in reconnecting with any of you anytime soon."

  • @lucyroberts2800
    @lucyroberts2800 Месяц назад +2

    I found ignoring the noise is the best thing because they already believe the way they do ! Then when you don’t jump to apologise the flood of text and phone calls . Then when you block them and they use other numbers to contact you or other people . I’m no contact with these people now and will not go back .

  • @colleenosullivan857
    @colleenosullivan857 24 дня назад

    How difficult it is to lose the family scapegoat that was the toxic families reason for existence. How will they build themselves up now without someone to criticize and put down to keep the family dynamic going. Good on op

  • @Bella_on_pawz13
    @Bella_on_pawz13 Месяц назад +6

    Honestly I haven’t rolled my eyes more in my life 🙄

  • @axelsmom7257
    @axelsmom7257 Месяц назад +2

    Why allow yourself to be the punching bag- family isn’t blood it’s who cares about you and is there for you.

  • @MccormackBrayer
    @MccormackBrayer Месяц назад +1

    this video was really engaging and I appreciate how you shared your experience so openly. but honestly, I can’t help but think walking out might not have been the best choice. sometimes, it feels like we need to stick it out, even when things get tough, to keep family bonds strong. what do you all think?

  • @NewBlue-g8n
    @NewBlue-g8n Месяц назад +1

    My family was alot like that. I was the punching bag for my whole family. My opinion was never taken seriously and when i stood up for myself i was told to stop being difficult and be quiet. It involves alot of beinf called stupid and somehow being at fult whenever my parents or siblings had a bad day. Nobody knew what to do when i became an adult and went low contact. They all turned on each other and now we only see each other once a year if that.

  • @mrmonkeyman412
    @mrmonkeyman412 18 дней назад

    Without OP as the fams' punching bag, all they have is themselves to hurt.

  • @carolcarol9982
    @carolcarol9982 Месяц назад +5

    OP's phone was buzzing with messages from people she'd blocked?

  • @christinebuck8268
    @christinebuck8268 Месяц назад +2

    OMG!!! Such a toxic family!! I don't know how this poor woman didn't run away screaming!!!

  • @howlionsmaneknife877
    @howlionsmaneknife877 Месяц назад +1

    I’ve had this from parts of the family in the past in tried to call them out in a way that made it clear I would not tolerate and reminded them that i could not be manipulated controlled or shamed even at one point reminding them of parts of my college education classes in psychology counseling etc. when it continued I was no longer tolerate and came down hart easily defeating there attempts at manipulating me or shaming me and told them this was level 1 for me of dealing with them and told them they did not want to escalate to level 2 or beyond each level would only be worse for them. They did push it to level 2 that being double they never tried for level 3

  • @JUSTD33M
    @JUSTD33M Месяц назад +9

    0:59 shorts ppl

  • @dariocarraresi1823
    @dariocarraresi1823 26 дней назад

    The fact that they kept making a huge ruckus over something as simple as _a relative walking away from a dinner_ shows that they are horribly entitled. Good riddance.

  • @GeniPiesprayers
    @GeniPiesprayers Месяц назад +1

    At the end of the therapy meetup I would’ve asked what made them change so much that’s a real big step from what they used to do🧐🤨🧐🤨

  • @DAD-gt5te
    @DAD-gt5te 15 дней назад

    There's a time for compromise, a time for silence, a time for defending yourself. Defending one's self also sometimes includes being on the offense. Just sad that some people can't even begin to grasp the need for all that as well as lack the ability to discern whenabouts to do what.
    I am starting to believe that these stories are an ad for therapists. That said, nothing wrong with the profession. Sometimes, others really do need some external intervention.

  • @neiltheblaze
    @neiltheblaze Месяц назад +4

    How did she keep getting all those messages after she "blocked" everybody?

    • @kfc28371ify
      @kfc28371ify 22 дня назад

      Different numbers, possibly.

  • @mistah_paari0710
    @mistah_paari0710 25 дней назад

    OO said she blocked them all, but she can still receive messages and emails from some of them. Then she said she enjoyed being independent of them, but would still go and meet them after all this time for a dumb letter. OP might as well just go back to her days of being verbally abused if she can't even grow a spine to just cut them off and live in peace

  • @slyph63
    @slyph63 Месяц назад +1

    These stories make the word family sound dirty
    As for thanksgiving with families like this what is there to be thankful for.

  • @mariterrones3716
    @mariterrones3716 Месяц назад +1

    If your mother wanted a calm and peaceful thanksgiving she wouldn't have said anything that was about the so called past issues making them a present issues.

  • @judohunter1
    @judohunter1 Месяц назад +1

    It’s hilarious when trash can’t fathom when a person is done w them.

  • @THE-CHEESE.
    @THE-CHEESE. Месяц назад +7

    17:18 my sister, Jeseeseeca

  • @glenmassey3746
    @glenmassey3746 Месяц назад +1

    Any holiday, shouldn't be used to roast a family member, it defeats the purpose of having a family function on a holiday.

  • @StoryTeller4yu
    @StoryTeller4yu 25 дней назад

    Family injustice
    OP talks about it
    Cryptic Facebook posts
    Relative start pressuring
    Do it for family
    Started therapy

  • @GodPowerfulMessage
    @GodPowerfulMessage Месяц назад +1

    HAVE A GOOD DAY

  • @DonSiebert
    @DonSiebert Месяц назад +1

    Fascinating. By the end I was wondering if you should be nominated for sainthood or if you still had some small seed of self-destruction remaining. Therapy is a necessity, but I don't understand why you didn't ghost group as of the first Thanksgiving fiasco. But that's just me.

  • @lucasblacks9865
    @lucasblacks9865 23 дня назад

    First she said no contacts for weeks then she says a week after the Thanksgiving, then she blocked her parents and siblings, then her phone start buzzing, its either AI generated or she is on something 😂😂😂

  • @vidaapplebee8388
    @vidaapplebee8388 Месяц назад +1

    They don't like you..why do they miss you? Oh no one else to pile on? Lol. Block everyone!!

  • @seraglioborneo2803
    @seraglioborneo2803 Месяц назад +2

    Move to the next town and change your phone number. That will block 90% of the crud

    • @seraglioborneo2803
      @seraglioborneo2803 Месяц назад

      The end: Wasn't it easier to find a good man, marry him and start a new, non-toxic family. People don't change. Shortly OP will post an update crying that there's more of the same old thing going on!

  • @poolwench4564
    @poolwench4564 21 день назад

    Jesus Christ! With family like that, I don’t blame her for not procreating.

  • @cathyjolivet
    @cathyjolivet 24 дня назад

    So, no one is discussing the fact that she blocked her mother.. . Twice?
    Edit 1: These people need to be asked if a boyfriend or husband had treated her like they had, would they have encouraged OP to keep taking the abuse?
    Edit 2: How are you the fixer of being the victim of their abuse? What sense does that make?

  • @civillady13
    @civillady13 Месяц назад +1

    Funny, if she is so wrong and troublesome you would think her family would be glad she left. And Thanksgiving? Did all this take place over a year?

  • @mark99k
    @mark99k 18 дней назад

    Some people think "family" excuses anything & everything, as if merely sharing some DNA means your life is subject to unlimited criticism or emotional abuse. I'm not one of those people. I'd have left way earlier. It's VERY appropriate that she "ruined" their dinner since they clearly (and repeatedly) ruined hers. The post-blowup meeting and 'text wars' was even more messed up. The therapy session, or at least the description here, seemed way too rehearsed to be real.

  • @hihp
    @hihp 25 дней назад +1

    This sounds AI generated to me. Did you notice how OP blocks people and in the next sentence mentions getting messages from them?

  • @atlus6412
    @atlus6412 Месяц назад +3

    So OP is her Family's emotional Punching bag.

  • @gordy7877
    @gordy7877 Месяц назад +1

    I thought everyone was blocked????

  • @joycevally7878
    @joycevally7878 Месяц назад +2

    They always start painting 🙄 Then get a promotion.

  • @axelsmom7257
    @axelsmom7257 Месяц назад +1

    Never go there again- family ya know ?

  • @trinstonmichaels7062
    @trinstonmichaels7062 26 дней назад

    Good for the girl

  • @nataliasclarandi8204
    @nataliasclarandi8204 Месяц назад +3

    If everyone is an asshole then they should eat their own shit if they can't take the no excuse end of contact action

  • @thelastshallbefirst6036
    @thelastshallbefirst6036 28 дней назад

    You family don't like you but want control over you. You are free. You don't owe them anything.

  • @AryaMAGIN
    @AryaMAGIN Месяц назад +1

    I'm frustrated for her an I'm now frustrated she as such good self control I would have already cursed eachonr of them out in a few seconds then broke. Something and walked out then go no contact at all exact for the peaple who helped me 😂😂😂

  • @GoldsNarrations
    @GoldsNarrations Месяц назад +1

    Good

  • @joeandersen9038
    @joeandersen9038 22 дня назад

    Burned STUFFING? Something doesn´t add up here.

  • @Dabedreon
    @Dabedreon Месяц назад +1

    Family were blocked so how did they message.

  • @catsshadows
    @catsshadows 28 дней назад

    After going NC, she is still in contact?????

  • @ricshaffer4009
    @ricshaffer4009 25 дней назад

    How...if you blocked your family...did they keep sending messages ?...you allowed them to keep messing with you...when i cut my father at 16 ...it was complete , never even tried to meet half- siblings , and cut ANY family or friend who tried to change my mind ..also permently and complete ... family can hurt and betray you more severely then anyone else....make your own choices to hell with what anyone else thinks

  • @LianeSimpell
    @LianeSimpell Месяц назад +1

    Sorry the flashing words are annoying

  • @extaslash7077
    @extaslash7077 Месяц назад +2

    Me when fake stories

  • @badbiker666
    @badbiker666 29 дней назад +1

    I found the problem at 6:29. OP has a "therapist." Seeing one of those quacks is only going to cause pain. Their reason for being is to fill people's heads with nonsense, psychobabble jargon, and drain their bank accounts. NEVER SEE A THERAPIST, not for any reason. You WILL regret it.
    EDIT: Will someone explain to me why the AI can't pronounce 'Jessica?' That's an extremely common name. To fuck it up like that is unacceptable.

  • @angusgow1887
    @angusgow1887 24 дня назад

    How can she get messages from people she has blocked ???

  • @cadavis5314
    @cadavis5314 Месяц назад +2

    Invest in a program that actually pronounces properly in English.

  • @frankd5426
    @frankd5426 22 дня назад

    the parents do not get that
    respect is earned not a given!
    and from all op has posted none of them deserve ops respect
    why is she the family whipping post?
    why is she expected to sit there and quietly accept their abuse, every time the "family" gets together?
    and noone in the family shows her any consideration and respect
    even the cousin buckled under, after a time
    gaslighting, emotional blackmail, verbal abuse.
    thats what op has been subjected to.......but where is the love from family
    not onr of these people showed her any love or familial bond. other than what they can get out of her for their own ends amd amusement
    what disgusting people
    op is better off disowning the lot of them

  • @R4NDOMR4T-r8r
    @R4NDOMR4T-r8r 8 дней назад

    “Jee-sec-uha”

  • @pravin2915
    @pravin2915 21 день назад

    wow !so a geniune question so you told u blocked them all and within seconds u r telling u got message from your family . i guess ai can be consistent with the story.

  • @WilliamSmith-zk4tj
    @WilliamSmith-zk4tj 25 дней назад

    You don't know because you should put it on social media the apology each one should write one in public because the damage is done there believe me there's people that don't know about that last meeting that are looking at you as a bad guy The Whispers will always be there you can't get rid of them they will come back years from now and they will cost you something because people will look and they will see you with your family and think that they're forgiving you

  • @brookelynnenewcomer943
    @brookelynnenewcomer943 19 дней назад

    So start posting all the truth and the messages

  • @chrislist7456
    @chrislist7456 28 дней назад

    Wow. That reads like a bad novel.

  • @tealeaf69
    @tealeaf69 Месяц назад

    1:02 for shorts people♥️

  • @youtubeman5033
    @youtubeman5033 29 дней назад

    You can pick you friends but not your family, I choose to only bother with the nice family and the others I ignore and I have 4 children and we are so happy with the nice family the others can do one they are not wellcome at my home including my so called dad who is a narcissist idiot who wants to control everything ,,I grew up with that so no more,,

  • @jamesroyse201
    @jamesroyse201 27 дней назад

    Jessissica!

  • @hughmelochesr8560
    @hughmelochesr8560 Месяц назад

    Slow down on the narration.

  • @jimott9712
    @jimott9712 9 дней назад

    Huge

  • @Ťħę_bøøš_įš_ğøøð
    @Ťħę_bøøš_įš_ğøøð Месяц назад

    0:57 shorts

  • @BetaRayBill-yx9eb
    @BetaRayBill-yx9eb 27 дней назад

    The poster sounds like a bit of a defensive drama queen learn to give as good as you get

  • @cynthiagreske5957
    @cynthiagreske5957 29 дней назад

    I hate the graphics in these stories. It makes it very difficult to listen to the words of the video which wasn’t that bad but then you see these jerky pictures going all around and up the stairs and down the stairs and over the wall and I feel like it’s over the hill to grandma‘s house. Why not put in decent graphics so that we can enjoy the story instead of trying to get our eyes to constantly readjust?

  • @beagleboysoo7
    @beagleboysoo7 Месяц назад

    Talk to fast 👍

  • @thecrappiehurtlocker2605
    @thecrappiehurtlocker2605 25 дней назад

    I wish they put a limit on these channels. Obviously fake stories. Say shit over and over and over again.

  • @XeniaMS-yv5fy
    @XeniaMS-yv5fy 29 дней назад

    Move to Alaska and change your name

  • @raymondharvey7439
    @raymondharvey7439 Месяц назад

    Why so fast talking very anoying

  • @WickedJesss
    @WickedJesss Месяц назад +6

    Another crappy fake story

    • @Y0URF4VM4Y
      @Y0URF4VM4Y Месяц назад +2

      But you’re still listening to it?

    • @WickedJesss
      @WickedJesss Месяц назад +1

      @Y0URF4VM4Y no shit captain obvious how'd you think I came to the conclusion of it being a crappy story?

    • @Y0URF4VM4Y
      @Y0URF4VM4Y Месяц назад +1

      @@WickedJesss If it was so shitty then why are you watching them in the first place? You’ve probably watched a bunch of other videos like these so if it’s so crappy why are you still watching them?

    • @WickedJesss
      @WickedJesss Месяц назад

      @@Y0URF4VM4Y I unsubbed from that channel already would you like to know what I ate for dinner as well?

    • @mariterrones3716
      @mariterrones3716 Месяц назад

      It's entirely possible for this story to be fictional. However there's also extremely high possibility that some if not all of what happened in this story has happened not only here in the USA but in other countries. If we view things solely based on our past experiences we will negate anything that is outside of our life experience.