How to Pick Up Women in Ancient Rome: A 1st Century Guide to Dating and Love

Did you think dating advice was a modern thing? That only recently have "alpha" men tried to sell their advice on how to pick up women? Think again! Dating advice has been around for centuries, and one of the earliest examples is the Ars Amatoria, a 3-part Latin didactic poem written by the Roman poet Ovid in 2 AD. Considered one of the first European pickup artists and relationship coaches, Ovid's Ars Amatoria is a guide to finding love that is akin to "The Richest Man in Babylon" for personal finance, except much, much older.
The Ars Amatoria provides fascinating insights into the dating scene of ancient Rome, revealing that not much has changed in the last 2000 years. Ovid offers solid advice on how to pick up women, from where to find them to how to impress them. Although some parts are fairly manipulative or off-putting, much of Ovid's advice still rings true today. He also peppers the text with references to Greek myths, much like we reference pop culture and celebrities in our own times.
This video is based on a modernized version of the original text, with some interpretation and adaptation to make it more palatable to a contemporary audience. While the content has been preserved, it is not a straightforward Latin to English translation. The original poem has been transformed into a captivating and accessible guide for anyone interested in the timeless art of picking up women.
This video dives into Book 1, where Ovid lays the foundation for the art of love, particularly from a man's perspective. If you're intrigued by the guidance and advice in this video, don't miss out on Book 2, where we explore the secrets to maintaining a thriving relationship, and Book 3, which shifts its focus to advice specifically for the ladies.
Who knows, maybe Ovid can teach you a thing or two about the world of dating.
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Timestamps
0:00 Intro and Setting the Stage
1:32 The Art of Love: Ovid's Mission
3:09 Hunting for Hearts: Where to Find Her
6:34 Victory in Love: Triumphs as Perfect Opportunities
8:18 Table for Two: Finding Love Over Dinner
9:29 Conquering Her Heart: How to Win Her Over
10:45 The Inside Track: Winning Over Her Friends First
11:57 Remember her Birthday and Believe in Her Superstitions
12:22 Words of Love: Writing Letters and Making Promises
13:22 Be Persistent!
13:58 Dressing for Success: Looking Presentable
14:08 Bold Moves: Making Your Move at Dinner
14:34 Compliments and Play: Being Deceptive
14:58 The Power of Tears and Kisses: Taking the Lead
17:22 Love's Battle Scars: Looking Pale and Beware of Friends
18:34 Adapting to Love: Being Flexible in Romance
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[@kevintierney5711]

It's entertaining how the setting can change so much while people change so little from one age to another

[@TheLegendaryLore]

Doing these videos, I've become more and more convinced that we are way more similar to our ancestors than the history books lead us to believe.

[@aravindp3971]

Your Voice is great, but speed kills...bit slower please

[@JoshTalks11]

I played it in 0.75 and it helps a lot actually lol takes some time getting used to though

[@GoAwayNow247]

Really interesting. Thanks for the video 😊

[@TheLegendaryLore]

Thank you, brother!

[@DisneyInHonesty]

So it was Ovid that brought that old grass is greener chestnut, huh. Fascinating and entertaining presentation as always, thanks!

[@TheLegendaryLore]

Thank you, brother!

[@fabiodeoliveiraribeiro1602]

Loving a woman is undoubtedly foolish. Let's be convinced fools then. Loving a woman can be painful. We must tolerate the pain too. Loving a woman today and being abandoned tomorrow is inevitable. So never avoid another temporary love today. 😅😅

[@TheLegendaryLore]

Hopefully not entirely inevitable 😅 I've been happily married for nearly 20 years.

[@fabiodeoliveiraribeiro1602]

@@TheLegendaryLore You are obviously a rare exception. In practice, most people have had one or two failed marriages and countless awkward relationships.

[@johnnyespalahento2431]

@@fabiodeoliveiraribeiro1602all things are temporary even love, so why not enjoy it while it lasts

[@Ricardo.Illades]

5:30

[@gungnir3926]

women sell nurture and firtility, men sell protection, violence and construction of the nest. basics for eternity.

[@TheLegendaryLore]

But both genders can do great poetry ❤

[@dafyddil]

Sigma males be like:

[@TheLegendaryLore]

Diogenes would have approved of that comment.