WHY ARE MANY WOMEN TERRIFIED OF BEING ALONE by RC Blakes
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WHY ARE MANY WOMEN TERRIFIED OF BEING ALONE by RC Blakes
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I love when you talk like these men in the streets 😂😂😂😂you got an answer for that foolishness 😅
Thank God for you & your teachings! Tell the truth & bring the word!! 🙏🏽💙🙏🏽
Mr Blake's my name is Janet I have learned about this is dark place are blessing behind every story but the true statement is God will never leave me alone.i truly thankful for all of this picture I can see clearly now the rain is gone
Why does it take me coming here to change people's minds? I will go but don't think for one second that if you call me another Bitch that I won't come back here and finish what I started. Ignore this like you ignored my last comment. You don't even help people who are in desperate need of the King you are a fraud.
You need to think it over considerably before using any of my content out of context ever again.
I’m almost 77. I’m single. The quiet lonely time I’m turning over to God in order to listen better to Him. He has purpose in us being alone at times.
I'm 73 and totally understand what you're saying. The only constants we truly have in this world are ourselves and God, people come and go for various reasons.
Same here..I'm 70..I don't feel lonely much..I'm resting in the peace of God.
Wow! Beautiful older women, I admire you all! I'm 45 and I too am using my single time wisely. Getting closer to God and working on me. I get lonely sometimes but the holy Spirit steps in and affirms me that he's with me 🥰. He has a purpose for me.
@@lynellbsame
60yrs old...loving my peaceful alone time. Been there, done that.. I'm good😊
I've been divorced for over 30 years now. Being by myself has taught me that walking with God is very powerful ❤. Keep trusing God. You can be married and still die alone. Don't fear. God is with us.
@@tracieholland😢😢
So very true!
AMEN AMEN AMEN sister
I'm never alone I have the Lord watching over me. I been by myself the majority of my life. It's not worth being with someone for the wrong reasons or just because you're alone
Amen!!❤
@@felisaupagaran3794Amen!
Sometimes being single is pure happiness compared to the tragedy of a messed up relationship in my opinion
Who wants a messed up relationship? I don’t anyone in their right mind would. But who wouldn’t want to share their life with the right man???
@@danyellg3079sometimes there is no right man. Accepting reality is better.
@@etcwhateverThis
I’m a True Empath I Love Being Alone. I know what’s it’s like to be in a relationship I was there for many years my partner passed away 8 years ago. And it took me a long time to get back to myself and I don’t want anyone or anything to ruin that. I Love myself more than I’ve ever have. I’m happier than I’ve ever been. I’m an Attractive Woman who knows her worth and I believe God is saving me for the Right Man. And if by chance that doesn’t happen I’m Good.
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I understand this..I too am an empath and I love being alone. It is empowering to do so I believe.
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I love myself, therefore I’m not afraid of being alone. I enjoy my peaceful time, privacy , etc……
Me Too Sis
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To each it’s own
Unfortunately, many men nowadays are not safe. They are violent toward women more these days due to all the pornography and social “norms” that are pushed in society. Parents are also not protecting their children in the technological world. Things are so different now compared to when I grew up in the 70’s and 80’s.
There is no way I live with a man. I Don’t need that energy near me.
After my divorce 16 years ago,I was afraid to be alone. The Lord helped me overcome this. No more fear plus I've published 4 books!
What are the titles of your books.
@@mrsb3216 1. Braver I. 2. Beauty, Brains Influence 3. A Season Called Lonely: Managing it; finding its gifts & 4. Forty Seers which will be available in 2024. Thanks for replying!
@@danilaroche1156 thank you
congratulations
I’m interested in purchasing one of your titles. How can I find your books?
You are like the Father I never had; I REALLY thank God for you. Even though I wish you were here from childhood, through God you are helping to heal my Broken
While in my early to mid 30s, I was judged by others for being single and childless, especially by unhappily married women and highly insecure men. I felt like I was defective at times because they were very rude about my single status. I did get married and have a son, but I married the wrong person due to wanting to be a mother more than anything. Wrong move! 20 years later after meeting my ex, he is still trying to manipulate me. It is refreshing to listen to Pastor Blakes who shares the truth about relationships and ppl’s desires and God’s provision.
Mines too 20 years later still trying to manipulate after our 1 kid. I'm over it.
I've gotten those questions about marriage, having children, etc. It makes me feel some kind of way 🙄😒. They ask me why and I say that I don't want to be with a man who isn't God's best for me.
I miss not having a companion but I am getting better at being by myself. Going to events, eating in a restaurant by myself has gotten easier with time.
This study will help you prepare for marriage,please Google KEYS FOR A HAPPY MARRIAGE AMAZING FACTS.(This is a Bible Study)
Being alone can bring you closer to God.
Amen Sis!!!
Facts
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There is a difference between being alone and being lonely. You can be alone and be settled and happy. Doing whatsoever you deserved in the context of our Heavenly Father. Be respectful, happy with yourself and having a great relationship with your savior.
Amen!
This is something I struggle with. I feel a sense of rejection from men. Either I was treated very badly by them or I feel completely ignored by them. I cried over this yesterday.
I have learned to love me and am not afraid to be alone. My growth has been amazing with the help of Bishop. Thank you Bishop.
That part it’s so much PEACE ☮️ HERE
@@redbone8844 Yess sis!!! So much peace and encouragement here. Contrast to what the other RUclips channels are advising single women to do. 🙏🙏🙏
We born alone and we die alone! Thank you, sir! ❤
But I do not wish to live alone. I am tired of that!!!
@@nzingahoney in this concept of being alone it not necessarily to stay alone forever it more like a mental concept to understand deep down that it better alone that to feel alone and broken with someone just because you need them, if you don’t want to be alone than be with someone cuz you want to not because you need them! And he’s trying to say that no matter what we do or be with we born alone and die alone so don’t get to attached to anything and anyone just God. ✌️❤️
But some of us are not living alone.
I’m terrified of choosing the wrong man. 😩
Been there done that. I still prefer not to always be alone.
Me too but I still desire to be successfully happily married
I’m not afraid of being alone I just don’t enjoy it. I want someone who I can sit, talk and have intimacy with every day. It’s very lonely for me. I’m a very loving and caring person. I believe it’s just in my nature to have a man who shares same kindred spirit as I have. It would be nice 🙏🏽
Nothing wrong with that. I am the same. I pray God blesses you with a loving man.
@@ms.a806So sweet! Thank you 🙏🏽
I feel for you I wish you could meet somebody like me I’m 71 in good health, looking for a good healthy woman to spend the rest of my life with retired
I feel the same way💯
@@ReginaldWescottoh please😂
I’ve never been afraid of being alone. I love my solitude.
Me too. I am tired of it though.
Me too, I love doing what I want. Men can be controlling. I'm free like a birdie....
Really. I wish I could say that
Better to be alone and alive than with someone and dead
I’m 34 still waiting on God , but I’ll be fine eiether way I like being alone 💪🏿❤️. You feel it more on holidays but God is with us
Men can’t be alone at ALL .. they have to have some type of situation at all times. Women I feel at least can handle it a little better but idk
Agreed! That’s why they always have a “place holder”
I”m not scared to be alone but do struggle with this especially when I see my friends who have been divorced and remarried several times.
Are we really?? I love my own company although I would like a companion but until I meet him it’s me myself and I.
Im tired of making decisions alone. I watch videos of couples enjoying life together, wish i had that.
Alone is my reality but it doesn’t make me happy. Praying to GOD for peace and strength ❤
I feel the same way
Corinthians 7:7 says to be single is a gift from God. Walk in your singleness until God sends a true King to your Queendom. Im learning to live in totally 😅 fulfillment.
I still cry from frustration. Its lonely sometimes sob myself 2 sleep because of frustration in my body.
I'm not alone of being single. Some people make being single a death sentence, it is a blessing
So true sista Keisha it is blessing and its sad so many people don't see it that way. What I'm finding is that there's so many broken unhealed single men out here. I'm like I'm good I'm not rushin out of my season of singleness.
It is. But too much of a good thing...
It is not good for man to be alone. I will make him an helpmeet genesis 2:18
@@Natashablessed320It’s better to be alone than being in a wrong relationship mess.
@@SPenninah0425 obviously … but I’m talking about what the Bible says
I am not afraid of being alone but I want, desire and is patiently for my king.
That’s where I’m at sis!!! 💯
Amen 🙏🏾
The part that made me cry was the athlete on the bench analogy. I couldn't care LESS about society's expectations. They have a track record of using women conveniently and ignoring their needs and value. But the reality of remaining on the bench, with unfulfilled potential to be a great man's star teammate, THAT absolutely breaks my heart into a million pieces. 💔 To know what you're capable of and to know it remains unactivated, sans the right man. This hurts a lot😢.
My God... you said what I felt. In the past, I've had men chose another woman or back to their or keep me as a placeholder...or just the friend. It's taking work to still believe God regarding the dream I had in 2013. I've been preparing and still feel at times I'm overlooked or dismissed but I'm careful to believe that who God has for me will be safe for me and see me safe for him... in spite of my limitations. I pray He sees Christ in me to recognize it in me.
I am a widow going on 1 year. I had never been alone. Went from my Mom’s home to marriage with my first husband and not proud of this but went directly to my second husband. Was married for 25 yrs. Now it’s me and God. I was afraid but I gave it to God and he told me “ I will never leave you” and I am content and happy with being alone.
I agree too, I am a widow of 2yrs. Was married 22 years.
I was married 3 times, and I refuse to settle for abuse or cheating! I love myself and know my self-worth as a woman. I'm single, celibate, happy, and independent! I'm 58, and if Jesus wants me with a husband, he will bring him to me. If not, I'm perfectly content the way I am. Praise God Almighty! Ya, have a blessed evening. I'm never alone. Jesus is always with me! Blessings
I'm 59 & have never been married. Marriage is irrevelent and overrated. This married woman told me the latter. My father told me that I don't have to get married. We all die alone.
Amen!!
@-Jesus-daughter They always find someone else. Sorry to hear that. Dating is too much work. Then there's the possibilty of hearing lies. I can't be bothered with their lyrics.
This is what I need to hear.
You’re a man you can protect yourself !
Women are vulnerable in so many ways taken advantage of in many ways
For me I’m not terrified but I do miss the company of a man
That's honest.
I'm thankful to God that he is delivering me from not being able to enjoy myself alone. Yesterday, Nov. 18, 2023 I went to see Toby Mac and didn't go with anyone. I had an absolute blast! I actually forgot I was alone until the lady said," Oh are you alone?" I thought about it, then replied with the biggest smile ever....,"Yes I am!"
@Justaskruth Yes! Go and enjoy yourself! Celebrate you!!
You go Joy... I like that👍🏾
@Justaskruth👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@Justaskruthand Sis you will get a seat up close too!!! I went with myself to a Mary J. Blige concert and had a good time with other women sitting around me!!
Live Do what makes you Happy, and God will Give you the desires of your Heart!
I hope I remember to come back on here on time to watch this. I must say I used to be afraid of being alone. Society puts a pressure on women that makes them think something is wrong if one remains single or has been divorced; the most judgmental coming from religious individuals. After 3 divorces I learned to be at peace with myself and to understand that my true provider is the creator. I do want a companion; however if it costs me my peace than no thank you ❣
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 my thoughts exactly. I’ve watched friends stay and take a bunch of crap just to say they got a man or they’re married . Not me been there done that.. I love me more. I got 3 sons all with the same dad.. was with him for 21 yrs no change got worse . Now he wants to be a husband after the boys are men. Dude I’m cool .. 👍🏽😎
I also save it in case I forget
I found out that you can be married or dating and still be alone 😔
Exactly 💯. I'm not selling my Peace 😔 period 👏
@@angelproctor2123 You better teach!
I'm not afraid to be alone. I just DIDN'T want to be alone, but I've learned that I've scarified and compromised myself too much to the wrong people and I deserve so much more than What I've allowed. Currently single and finding my way with God after going in circles for 15 years.
We was born alone n we'll die alone! No one will b n your casket only u🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Yes so why do we have to live alone on top of that?
Yes the women who taunt other women about getting married, most times are unhappily married themselves.... So True for a person who has love gives love.and peace
I feel a peace and a calm, for I know I'm never alone.
🗣️Clownology type men causes many of us women to be alone Vs having a kingology type mindset man to share our space with… it’s definitely a challenge being alone at times however God is still faithful to comfort me in those times…🏖️🛫🥳✝️⛪️🔥🔥🥇
2 Timothy 1:7
For God has not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.
I enjoy my privacy, peace, and solitude. Prayer works and heals.
"You came in the world alone, even if you had a twin." ❤😂
I'm 41, 2 children, never married ... I really made some mistakes that has blocked my blessing of marriage. I don't want to be single . I really wish I would hv made the right decisions in life
I think we all desire to have a partner, being alone can be scary tho. I have aunts who tolerate disrespect because they can’t be without a man. I hope to not be that way as I have 1 child only , left her dad b/c we just outgrew each other, we were unequally yolked aswell. Single life gets lonely but that’s why it’s vital to have a relationship with God, and work on ourselves ❤
As a single woman thats never been married. When I do interact with married women, most of the time, they try to act like they're better than me. Try to treat me like I'd sleep with anyone. Basically try to tear me down. Thats why having single women friends is very important.
I love, love, love my singleness! I have more time to spend and grow with God, I have fabulous friends to travel with and have a great support system! I have hobbies, time for working out, cooking fun meals, volunteering or just relaxing and reading in the peace and comfort of my home. God is good. Everything in His timing. ❤️❤️❤🙏🙏🙏
Thank you, Pastor Blakes for your valuable work and support in helping all of us women and men be the best we can be. Like you said, everything we need is already inside us. God bless you and Lady Lisa Blakes ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏
Human beings in overall will never feel lonely if they make it their mission to serve others..just my opinion...I am in my season of hiding and God is making alot of things really clear to me..I agree with all your advice..God bless you🙏
Please also talk about the fact that it’s not safe in this world for women to be alone. Dating is a risk, going into business contracts with companies is a risk, every time you turn around there’s someone trying to take advantage of a single woman. Yes, we can be single but the PROTECTION of a man, especially in these times, is needed.
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Uh....
Lucky Lady, ever heard of a pistol and some Pitbull dogs???
Male friends help me and have at times kept me from getting ripped off.
Hmmm, no. That’s just life. If you’re gonna live in fear than you’ll just have a man to have a bodyguard. And that doesn’t even guarantee any type of safety. Just sayin
That’s great and yes, it’s all true. However, I feel afraid to be alone because I know as we get old we have health problems. I’ve met elders through volunteer work who have nobody, they rely on strangers to get them to the store, to get them to doctors appointments, to help them with their health issues. Everything. It’s scary getting alone with nobody in your life. Nobody to talk to, nobody to rub your Rx cream on your back because you can’t reach. These things make us feel lonely and sad. That’s where I am with it all.
Very valid points.
“When by myself, I am least alone.”
I swore off men 3 decades ago, but I still have family and friends.
The social conditioning and pressure is real, especially from those who are in precarious situations themselves. I find it interesting that some people can actually tie their worth and value completely to another person. It seems to me that balance is essential.
A woman can be with a man and still be made to feel alone. If you not careful
WORD 🙏😞
I’m NOT Terrified of being Alone, I’m TERRIFIED of The Men out there these days🥴 I have My Mom, Children, and GOD🫶🏽❤️
😄👍Blessings
I found out that. . Being alone . I dont have to deal with drama. . .its for my peace ✌️. . I'm loving it ❤
Looking forward to this harvest. Everyone please know you are Enough. And tell yourself: I LOVE YOU.
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I love myself,I'm learning a lot about me in this journey called life. I'm 50th now and I don't have the time and energy to waste. So I'm going to do the work on me and when times promises I be blessed with a nice companion🙌
I was married for 12 years and I am now divorced. I’m a single woman and I’m not unhappy being single, but I do prefer a companion. I want the opportunity to be married.
I am soooo grateful for your videos Uncle RC. This was confirmation for me. I just broke up with the man who I thought was the love of my life. He began to not show up in the relationship with honesty. He also began to belittle me and talk to me in ways that were not mild mannered. And began to not show up in the relationship in a healthy way for it to be geared to wards a healthy loving marriage. God has created such a life that most women desire their husband to give them, yet God has already given that to me. And I have so much gratitude towards what God has given me, so why would I trade that for a disrespectful man that is not trying to gain my trust or even allow me to gain his. I choose God. And I literally broke up with him today and this video came this evening. God truly loves us and want the abundant life for us. Thanks again Uncle RC! And happy holidays to you and Auntie!
Yes I have adopted your guys 😂 as my Auntie and Uncle 🫶🏽
Drink your coffee, Pastor…. I've had many married women ask me the question, “When are you getting married?” and then say they would never get married again. Thank you, endlessly for your wisdom.🙏🏽💕
Yes they do they admire us
I've heard women tell me that they would never get married again either.
I am one to not judge women who stay single. I am newly divorced and also will never remarry! I married later in life and had one child, and my ex is still trying to manipulate me post divorce. Women really need to be cautious who they marry. It was a toxic marriage. I adore my son…but I suffered much to become a mother. I am learning to be content where I am at and serving others thru my church and raising a decent young man.
It seems like we as women are birn at a disadvantage...😢
I'm big on loving My Peace & I truly Adore Me 😏 soooo Patience is what I hav for what God has for Me ....Cuz I AIN'T settling despite that fact that I'm seasoned & Cuuute still 😉🤭😌
The amount of facts in this video! The part where you say many times the women pressuring and asking single women when are they going to get married are UNHAPPY themselves. So true
That's it Bishop! Protect 1st lady....your lady. That's what I desire too...protection
Rejection is Protection
🗣️Thanks Pastor for this message… you too funny 😂when you say there’s a store here in America called Walmart that sells electric blankets…😂😂😂 I needed this today… I am single…saved…sanctified on top & going higher…🎉🎉😂❤ thank you and First Lady for all y’all do…🎯💯🙏👍🏾😁👍🏾
I love singleness. I will love sharing my life with a good caring, healthy man. 💕💕
I’m not it’s better to be ALONE than with somebody who makes you feel alone ❤️🩹🥴
Right! 🎉🎉🎉
@@tonisanders3289 Yas until the right one come along I’ll at peace by myself! Even if I don’t find love I’m good!
Amen
@@sharinaross1865 yass 🙏🏾
You are so right! I wish I had this at 16!
I am a single woman and prefer it that way. Definitely not lonely, in fact I like being alone.
It’s not good for man to be alone. I believe women can handle being alone more than men. During your single season you should do the self work. The inner work. Self care self growth self esteem self healing etc. I say if you lonely then be by yourself. Pray for discernment. Enjoy your own company. Know what you want and don’t want. Dating isn’t for marriage. It’s to collect the data on a person. Date to court then court to marry. ❤
❤I love my alone time. I enjoy my peace and knowing God is with me !
I Thank you so much for all these helpful teachings on how to love yourself as a Queen, I listen to that song about 8 times back to back it’s a very powerful song for single women, Thank you Pastor RC Blakes
Who sang it dear I keep searching for it
I think it's Dave Hollister
Bishop, thank you for this conversation! I am 59 years old and I have been married and divorced twice, with the last marriage ending over 10 years ago. It was when this last marriage ended that God said, "Do your emotional recovery and work!" I got counseling and support, and spent time alone, and in my alone time, I discovered ME! I now cherish my singleness more in my late 50s than I ever did. I still desire marriage, but now I have a better perspective about it, and I truly love and value myself. I am at a point where I enjoy life and love God and myself. Because of that, it causes me to be purposeful in all my relationships, and it is a game-changer and a blessing. I am working on my goals, one of which is my doctorate degree. I couldn't have done this without being alone and dealing with the issues that caused me to have broken consciousness and broken focus. I am sharing this video with my clients and all my single sisters and I thank God for you and your wife!
I HATE BEING ALONE, LONELY. i know God is with me, but his purpose is family. Lord please send me someone.
To me the physical touch is sooo extremely important it's almost the oxygen to calmness. The physical touch from the wrong person however is pollution in its purest form. Be careful. Its better to get a hug from your father from your mother than from the wrong man. I collect hugs from the right sources only and never do I feel alone.
I’ve listened to this three times and each time I learn something new. RC Blake’s really helped me during my divorce. That was a really hard time for me. The key takeaway, be fulfilled with yourself first. This is very important. Also, you are never alone. God is always with you and isn’t it very assuring to know that he is always looking out for you.
Been in my own company purposely focused on raising my four babies now teenagers moved out the ghetto away from toxic siblings times of past desperation where our brothers showed the worst treatment hot tears on the pillow then you have to get up act happy in front of the kids. The rejection became overwhelming I decided enough got my essence back poured love back into self and children no drama just peace the most high and nature aged 45 and thank god I still look 20 keeping a sound mental health read books go to festivals been celibate for three years abstinence cleansing the womb and never give up don't ever give up your a woman and you will have your man I'm not alone im in a world full of beautiful people music and sunshine with knowledge wisdom selah🙏🏽
I have been afraid of healing and having a healthy relationship. I have been involved off and on for the last 20 years. The worst alone is settling and being in unhealthy relationship.
I listened to this again, even though I caught it live, because it was so rich! Your ministry is such a blessing!🙏👏
Ladies! A Walmart & the heat blanket ! 🤣😅 Nice one R.C straight to the point & reality
I love this theme song. What a beautiful tribute and lead in to each and every talk.
As a BM I fear BW being alone. A lot of them are secretly depressed, developed bad habits like smoking drinking gambling over sleeping eating & thinking. I try my best as a BM to check up on them because a lot of BW need help from a man & don’t have one. Some BW need to be honest with themselves about how they truly feel 💎🙏🏾👑
This is true for a lot of my sisters. We’re invisible unless we can be of use but no one checks up on us. I’m quite surprised that you’ve noticed as a BM. What you’ve said is very true for many BW.
Preach father RC!!
Yes women want to be desired, we are designed to be in relationship and yet we CAN live quite peacefully on our own too - just as men can
Happily solo and content and joy filled in Christ for 6 years and counting
Praise God you are so on time with this message🎉 I need to share with a friend. A different friend just mentioned that she's scared of being alone she's almost 40!!
I can relate! I felt the same way then I married the wrong man. Better to be alone and live a peaceful life than decades of heartache. I’m still dealing with my ex because he is all about control. She can’t see it but I lived it. May your friend find her way graciously and bravely🙏🏻
whew - the truth, those unhappily married women
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Thank you Bishop Blakes for this video, being a divorced single Queen💃🏿👑I can work on myself and enjoying me❤
😅🎉🎉 I feel wonderful at this age. I was once broken and damage. But listening to r.c. Blake's Jr. And his wife. Now I am so happy to live alone. This is what I always say DO this man have a vision and purpose. 😅😅😂 I can laugh out loud now. I enjoy my life. Thank you both for everything.
Some o of us will get in relationships. Some of us might have to marry men of other races. Some of us will be alone. That’s all going to have to okay. ❤❤❤
I am only 24 minutes in and you’ve been explaining this PERFECTLY
everybody struggles and lives with this mindset- not just women. living and dying alone.
Learning to be alone it has been the hardest part of being single for me. People can become an addiction and source of our happiness. When we’re lacking self love, self-worth and don’t know our true identity, value and when we don’t have a relationship with God. If you have God In your rest assured You’re never alone.
SPEAK FOR YOURSELF❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥.
The reason I do not struggle with the possibility of never marrying is because I made up in my mind that if it comes from God, I'm good. If it doesn't, I'm still good. I asked God for financial stability & He has provided. As many divorces that I've seen & ungodly, abusive , toxic & not ordained or sent by God situationships I'm truly okay with my single status. My relationship with God can be uninterrupted & my life can continue to be elevated.
I am not afraid being a long . Husband died in 2014. It's been about 10 year's Now..
I'm so glad u posted this thank you. Ive been divorced for 15 yrs now and i do desire a mate but i refuse to settle for a man who mistreats me..I have faith in God he will send a mate at the right time ❤
I've been single many more years than I have been either married or in a relationship. It's empowering to make it by myself and know that I am fully capable of taking care of myself, both emotionally and physically. I raised my daughter after her father left us for another woman. At that point, I knew I had to get strong and make my own life, with or without a man.
I am so sorry this happened to you. I am glad you become resilient and be able to move on.