Not letting Tyler see him was a mistake. You didn't do anything but drive the wedge deeper between you two. IF you truly wanted a relationship with him again then you do anything to bring you two closer. Apparently you care more about your ego than your son...Im a huge Bubba supporter, but you were wrong bro.
Tyler was 100 percent wrong. But u gotta let the kid say bye. But I do understand bubbas frustration. Just becareful not to let that dictate the future
Bubba I hope you see this Im 39 and my father and I have gone through a similar situation I didnt talk to him for nearly 2 decadesso as someone who was in Tylers shoes he will come around sometime unfortunately for us it took me having a massive stroke and dying in transit to the hospitalluckily lakeland regional saved my lifeand gave me and my father a 2nd chance to make things right hopefuly it doesnt take a tragedy to bring you guys back togetherI hate myself for how I treated my dad for so long
Bubba I'm also a father and have had my child say they hate me, ghost me, etc etc. Being a dad is not easy and it's a long form game and way of life. We as parents make all kinds of stupid mistakes throughout the years with our children. I wasn't the best Dad. As a parent we suppose to mimic Christ the best way possible. Just be there for him when he needs you and give him his space. Don't try to push the issue. Send him a message telling him that you love him and then let go. He'll be back.
I am sorry for the loss of your stepfather. Wishing you and your family peace. Thank you for sharing. I lost my mom in June. Big hug to you Bubba. 🙏❤️😿
And a similar thing happened where my grandpa on my moms side died in that time period. And I still visited him and interacted with my parents at the time but it’s still a regret at how much more time I would’ve had at the end if I wasn’t avoiding my parents as much as possible at the time. It sucks but sometimes we don’t learn until the hard things happen. But I have to say it isn’t my place to judge Bubbas choice but this is going to be a huge hit to their chance to reconcile. Especially if he already has a distorted view of Bubba already that’s being twisted by his girlfriend and her family. If her family manipulates as has been said they’re going to use this as ammo to widen the divide sadly. They’ll pump him up about how he wanted to do the right thing and that Bubba wouldn’t let him and is the bad guy. The call is Bubbas but this is gonna be a huge hit to the chance they reconcile if he has a family pumping his head that he’s right to stay away.
The girlfriend of his is toxic and and narcissistic. Hope he sees the light soon. Im sorry bubba been listening to you over 15 years now. Absolutely love ya man im praying for you.
You have done your part Bubba. You did him a massive favor by protecting him from that memory. As hard as this is, it’s on him. He has chosen to treat you, Tara and Janie Cakes this way. That’s on him. #BubbaArmy ❤❤❤
You said yourself they were buddies. You guys are mad at each other right now, but you shouldn't have stopped him from having closure with his grandpa just because of the anger you have for him currently. You know this Bubba.
He’s had ten months 3 family gatherings during holidays grandpas birthday and Father’s Day to reunite with his buddy My mom said no and I’m the one that delivered that message
Im not much older then Tyler I’m 24. this breaks my heart i can’t imagine being mad at my dad over a girl but bubba you are right sir! Even if i was pissed off at my dad i would do everything in my power to make it work and be around my grandparents because the only people i have a better relationship with then my parents are my grandparents my grandpa is truly my best friend i would be devastated if he died and i wasn’t around there the last few months or year Im sorry for loss bubba
I had a falling out with my parents where we didn’t really speak for around a year. I came around and realized my error. There’s hope in time but it has to be incredibly hard in the waiting
Mom/Grandma always knows best I’m going through this right now, my son has a son my only grandchild and my son is blaming me for not being around when he was born, I was talking care of my mom with stage four cancer, wish she was still here to strengthen him out I haven’t seen my 4 year old grandson in over a year. 😮🤷🏼♂️
Bubba, I am a long-time listener from the power pig days. I am so sorry for what you are going through with Tyler and Jeff. Thoughts and Prayers for Janie Cakes, Bubba and Tara. God Bless. Stay BUBBA STRONG
Bubba messed up on not letting him go see his papaw. Yeah the dumbass kid should have gone before and he didn't. But all that he will remember and the narrative will be is that Bubba didn't let him see his grandfather on his death bed. And without context or additional information it's true.
My deepest condolences to you and your family. It's so tough to lose a parent and you are never prepared. I think you did the right thing. It happened to me when my mother died and my daughter was mad that I didn't tell her about the services. My mom specifically said if she doesn't want to see me when I'm alive, I don't need her at my service. It's damn heartbreaking
Man that is rough Bubba. Everyone can chime in and have their opinions but at the end of the day its your family and your life. I don't know if that's the way I would have handled it personally, but I certainly understand your logic and where you are coming from. Tyler very well may have just been trying to visit him out of guilt but he's a young adult and we all do really dumb shit when we're young. I really truly hope your family finds peace and healing through all of this someday.
I think you tried to be a buddy instead of a Father all these years. Take time and let the kid grow up. His whole life has been public on the radio. Now he has to walk the path and be a man. Good luck.
Bubba is 100% right!...Tyler should reflect on his actions over the past year...his little girlfriend won't be there in the long run...he needs to realize that family will be there for him, but it's a 2 way street...Tough love is sometimes the best way...maybe Tyler will mature enough to understand this before another tragedy occurs.
He wanted to see his grandfather out of guilt, not out of love if he loved his grandfather, he would’ve went and visited him in the last year. I completely agree Bubba.
Exactly, all guilt. Its one thing to have a problem with someone but to freeze out your grandparents but only wanna show up when they are passing away.....Tough call to make and you made the call and stood by it.
Bingo. Using this kind of trash to win a battle in the war and then talking about it on the show like it's entertainment for the 500 people left listening to him is the kind of bullshit that fucks up every relationship this dude has. This kid made it 20 years into this dudes ego power trip bullshit give him credit that's longer than most people were able to handle.
I don't know if there is a right or wrong way...every family is different...I'm fighting with my family member ( brother).. and I'm fine not having a relationship with him....
I agree with this decision... and I'm looking at it from a completely neutral standpoint. We are all God's children and none of us on this earth are perfect. Bubba would be the first to admit that. Hopefully Tyler will set aside his pride and do the right thing by showing up at the funeral. I'd suggest he get a hold of his Dad maybe the day before so it's not so awkward. This relationship will not mend overnight....but you have to start somewhere. I think counseling would be a good idea. With both of you having such busy schedules, It might be a bit challenging but a small commitment of 1 hour a week or so is definitely worth it in my opinion. Tyler - everyone is probably telling you the same thing and that's because we've been there before. To completely throw away your entire family like they are yesterday's trash is just silly. Your master plan is to put all your eggs in one basket? What if you and your girlfriend should break up? Where does that leave you? The truth is you can have love and support from both your family and hers. Not everyone will get along because we all have our own personalities, egos, etc...and remember nobody is perfect. Peace and love
For what it's worth Bubba, you made the right decision by not letting him see his grandpa. Tyler had plenty of times to see him when he was alive and he opted to not see him bc he's mad at you! This goes to show where his maturity is and he needs to live by his "adult" decision! Tough love and he needs to mature a whole lot!!
Bubba's gonna have a lot of regrets
I will never judge anyone when it comes to closing and grieving and death, we all have our different ways of doing it
Just because they’re family doesn’t mean you have to like them. Hold your ground Tyler.
funny as hell story!
Not letting Tyler see him was a mistake. You didn't do anything but drive the wedge deeper between you two. IF you truly wanted a relationship with him again then you do anything to bring you two closer. Apparently you care more about your ego than your son...Im a huge Bubba supporter, but you were wrong bro.
Tyler was 100 percent wrong. But u gotta let the kid say bye. But I do understand bubbas frustration. Just becareful not to let that dictate the future
Bubba I hope you see this Im 39 and my father and I have gone through a similar situation I didnt talk to him for nearly 2 decadesso as someone who was in Tylers shoes he will come around sometime unfortunately for us it took me having a massive stroke and dying in transit to the hospitalluckily lakeland regional saved my lifeand gave me and my father a 2nd chance to make things right hopefuly it doesnt take a tragedy to bring you guys back togetherI hate myself for how I treated my dad for so long
Yes he will well said
Bubba I'm also a father and have had my child say they hate me, ghost me, etc etc. Being a dad is not easy and it's a long form game and way of life. We as parents make all kinds of stupid mistakes throughout the years with our children. I wasn't the best Dad. As a parent we suppose to mimic Christ the best way possible. Just be there for him when he needs you and give him his space. Don't try to push the issue. Send him a message telling him that you love him and then let go. He'll be back.
I am sorry for the loss of your stepfather. Wishing you and your family peace. Thank you for sharing. I lost my mom in June. Big hug to you Bubba. 🙏❤️😿
And a similar thing happened where my grandpa on my moms side died in that time period. And I still visited him and interacted with my parents at the time but it’s still a regret at how much more time I would’ve had at the end if I wasn’t avoiding my parents as much as possible at the time. It sucks but sometimes we don’t learn until the hard things happen. But I have to say it isn’t my place to judge Bubbas choice but this is going to be a huge hit to their chance to reconcile. Especially if he already has a distorted view of Bubba already that’s being twisted by his girlfriend and her family.
If her family manipulates as has been said they’re going to use this as ammo to widen the divide sadly. They’ll pump him up about how he wanted to do the right thing and that Bubba wouldn’t let him and is the bad guy. The call is Bubbas but this is gonna be a huge hit to the chance they reconcile if he has a family pumping his head that he’s right to stay away.
The girlfriend of his is toxic and and narcissistic. Hope he sees the light soon. Im sorry bubba been listening to you over 15 years now. Absolutely love ya man im praying for you.
Regret is a hard lesson to learn and one that never goes away.
Bubba you have to be the bigger man. Maybe that could have been the start of him opening his eyes and seeing the importance of family. FTE
Bubba is a moron and so are the people that think he is correct in denying his song from
Seeing papa
Tyler will open his eyes when he controls his own feeling and acts on it by himself and not controlled by the gf
You have done your part Bubba. You did him a massive favor by protecting him from that memory. As hard as this is, it’s on him. He has chosen to treat you, Tara and Janie Cakes this way. That’s on him. #BubbaArmy ❤❤❤
Bubba, as a father that has as son doing the same things to me, you were absolutely correct in the decision you made. Love the show
Bubba I totally agree with you buddy. So sorry for your loss.
You said yourself they were buddies. You guys are mad at each other right now, but you shouldn't have stopped him from having closure with his grandpa just because of the anger you have for him currently. You know this Bubba.
He’s had ten months 3 family gatherings during holidays grandpas birthday and Father’s Day to reunite with his buddy My mom said no and I’m the one that delivered that message
I agree with bubba choices have consequences
@@aroro13 amen
Closure requires both parties involved!
My condolences to you Bubba. Lost my dad and step dad 4 months apart in 2020. Prayers for you and your family.
Keep your head up bubba. Your in the right here. Bubba army for life.
I'm very sad about what you're going through Bubba. Many blessings.
Im not much older then Tyler I’m 24. this breaks my heart i can’t imagine being mad at my dad over a girl but bubba you are right sir! Even if i was pissed off at my dad i would do everything in my power to make it work and be around my grandparents because the only people i have a better relationship with then my parents are my grandparents my grandpa is truly my best friend i would be devastated if he died and i wasn’t around there the last few months or year
Im sorry for loss bubba
I had a falling out with my parents where we didn’t really speak for around a year. I came around and realized my error. There’s hope in time but it has to be incredibly hard in the waiting
Sorry for your loss Bubba, Stay strong.
I hate to hear about Bubba and Tyler, but Bubba should have let Tyler see him Pawpaw no matter what state he was in.
I agree. Tyler may never forgive Bubba for that.
Mend it or end it that’s what my mom his grandma said
@@TheBubbaArmy and you fuchin ended it ... with your son...you pus_$!
Mom/Grandma always knows best I’m going through this right now, my son has a son my only grandchild and my son is blaming me for not being around when he was born, I was talking care of my mom with stage four cancer, wish she was still here to strengthen him out I haven’t seen my 4 year old grandson in over a year. 😮🤷🏼♂️
@@TheBubbaArmy agreed
Tyler’s just being hard headed you live and you learn unfortunately for him it’s going to have to be the hard way.
I’m sorry for you Bubba
Her parents only have known you guys for a few short years, family is forever. She's got the power of the poontang
It’s took many of great men out you live and you learn..
Bubba, I am a long-time listener from the power pig days. I am so sorry for what you are going through with Tyler and Jeff. Thoughts and Prayers for Janie Cakes, Bubba and Tara. God Bless.
Stay BUBBA STRONG
Bubba messed up on not letting him go see his papaw. Yeah the dumbass kid should have gone before and he didn't. But all that he will remember and the narrative will be is that Bubba didn't let him see his grandfather on his death bed. And without context or additional information it's true.
My deepest condolences to you and your family. It's so tough to lose a parent and you are never prepared. I think you did the right thing. It happened to me when my mother died and my daughter was mad that I didn't tell her about the services. My mom specifically said if she doesn't want to see me when I'm alive, I don't need her at my service. It's damn heartbreaking
Man that is rough Bubba. Everyone can chime in and have their opinions but at the end of the day its your family and your life. I don't know if that's the way I would have handled it personally, but I certainly understand your logic and where you are coming from. Tyler very well may have just been trying to visit him out of guilt but he's a young adult and we all do really dumb shit when we're young. I really truly hope your family finds peace and healing through all of this someday.
Uh oh!! Bubba’s having poop pains. Hehehe 😂.
Made me cry @bubba
It’s just an all around sad situation
I think you tried to be a buddy instead of a Father all these years. Take time and let the kid grow up. His whole life has been public on the radio. Now he has to walk the path and be a man. Good luck.
Bubba is 100% right!...Tyler should reflect on his actions over the past year...his little girlfriend won't be there in the long run...he needs to realize that family will be there for him, but it's a 2 way street...Tough love is sometimes the best way...maybe Tyler will mature enough to understand this before another tragedy occurs.
Wow Bubba, no wonder why he won't talk to you! That's brutal.... it's not about you, your son needed closure for himself.... you're so selfish!
Wrong
He wanted to see his grandfather out of guilt, not out of love if he loved his grandfather, he would’ve went and visited him in the last year. I completely agree Bubba.
Exactly, all guilt. Its one thing to have a problem with someone but to freeze out your grandparents but only wanna show up when they are passing away.....Tough call to make and you made the call and stood by it.
Bubba is toxic af
Bingo.
Using this kind of trash to win a battle in the war and then talking about it on the show like it's entertainment for the 500 people left listening to him is the kind of bullshit that fucks up every relationship this dude has.
This kid made it 20 years into this dudes ego power trip bullshit give him credit that's longer than most people were able to handle.
Hello bubba and everyone at Bubba army 😎😎😎
I’m in so many situations that are so similar to Bubba…I understand him and wish I could tell him
I don't know if there is a right or wrong way...every family is different...I'm fighting with my family member ( brother).. and I'm fine not having a relationship with him....
Yes Bubba you are so very right
out of the loop here, what happened to Jeff?
He had a massive heart attack and was on life support...The family decided to turn off the machines.
Bubba, you are the patriarch, not the matriarch.😊
reap what you sow…
My Condolences to you and family. You are right bubba.
I agree with this decision... and I'm looking at it from a completely neutral standpoint. We are all God's children and none of us on this earth are perfect. Bubba would be the first to admit that. Hopefully Tyler will set aside his pride and do the right thing by showing up at the funeral. I'd suggest he get a hold of his Dad maybe the day before so it's not so awkward.
This relationship will not mend overnight....but you have to start somewhere. I think counseling would be a good idea. With both of you having such busy schedules, It might be a bit challenging but a small commitment of 1 hour a week or so is definitely worth it in my opinion.
Tyler - everyone is probably telling you the same thing and that's because we've been there before. To completely throw away your entire family like they are yesterday's trash is just silly. Your master plan is to put all your eggs in one basket? What if you and your girlfriend should break up? Where does that leave you?
The truth is you can have love and support from both your family and hers. Not everyone will get along because we all have our own personalities, egos, etc...and remember nobody is perfect.
Peace and love
For what it's worth Bubba, you made the right decision by not letting him see his grandpa. Tyler had plenty of times to see him when he was alive and he opted to not see him bc he's mad at you! This goes to show where his maturity is and he needs to live by his "adult" decision! Tough love and he needs to mature a whole lot!!
Atta boy Bubba...sorry but F Tizzy....i understand