r/Prorevenge My Girlfriend Cheated On Me, So I Made Her Fail School!
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- Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024
- r/Prorevenge OP is dating a girl in high school, and he discovers that she's been secretly cheating on him by finding guys to hook up with online. Luckily for OP, he's also tutoring her in a very important subject at school. Instead of getting mad, OP gets even? He photoshops fake lesson plans to trick his girlfriend into learning wrong information so that she's guaranteed to fail the class and delay her graduation!
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"Our school has a very, very strict rule about cheating - if you get caught cheating THREE TIMES, then you get in trouble." LMAOOOOO most schools kick you out for cheating just once. Europe sounds nice.
Idk where you live but that’s certainly not the case where I live and I’m not in Europe.
I think this is with suv
if i got caught cheating in school i think the worst i could get was a detention(not that i would cheat)
High school or below - failed grade in that class and possibly a few days suspension. College/university: usually means suspension for a semester or two. Possible expulsion forever some places after the first time it happens. I’m in Norway
She had a loiscense.
I'll never understand why people ratter start living a second life than just break up with their partner.
you gotta take those free good grades if you BF can deliver them.
They want the benefits of a serious relationship but none of the responsebileties
It's about having your cake and eating eating it too. People who do this want the excitement and immediate gratification of being a free agent. Able to do whatever they want to whoever they want because they have no obligations, responsibilities, or loyalties to anyone. While they simultaneously want the reliability of a commitment and the dependability of a long term partner. They want a relationship that they know they can count on to be there.
Basically I's be willing to bet the girl in the first story probably planned to string the bf along while she hooked up all through college and through post graduate studies. They would have been a couple but she would have been hooking up with any guy she wanted. Then when he was done with Med School and she was dome with Law School she would have happily had the sunset wedding with old dependable Dr. BF with him none the wiser. Best of both worlds as it were.
I see stories where the person does break up instead of living a second life but they’re still branded as the villain for leaving OP for someone else so I don’t think it really matters.
I agree with the others who commented here, but I also think it's possible that some less then smart people fuck up and fall for someone's charm, that and I think some others who for whatever reason feel or are forced into a relationship also are more likely to cheat. That's what'd I guess at least.
Ex: "hOw cOuLd yOu doOoOo tHiS to me?!"
OP: *"How ironic."*
"How could I? How could I?! How could YOU?!" would have been my preferred response.
I swear, these people have no self-awareness whatsoever.
The audacity of that, oh my god I would've been pissed
Straight facts🤣
@@jamesnorman9160 She says it like she didn't do anything to him. Like Jesus lady, you just cheated on OP and you still had the gall to tell him how could he do this to you? Are you seriously that ignorant in what you just did?
Ex: “*how wholesome.*”
The last one was kinda heartbreaking. For the girl I mean. I know if I were in that situation then I would beat my brother senseless. I don't like violence BUT there are exceptions
i would have done the same
the brother is a classic sociopath. no empathy and the only person that matters is him. they can be very charming.
@@ninirossau2304 Exactly what I thought, her OP's brother sounds like a sociopath, no empathy, manipulating and self centered.
@@ninirossau2304 sounds like you have experience with those
For me, I would go further. I mean here’s the thing, I usually like having sympathy for other people. But if it is something to the people I care about, I will show no mercy. The point is you can mess with me all you want but if it is people I care for, then no
First story... “props to out to her” is about the teacher I’m pretty sure. Not Caroline. Props to the teacher for being that flexible.
That's what I was thinking
SWEET CAROLINE!!!
FAILED HER CHEM!!
@@seanshanleyAnimeUWLPer lmaoooo
@@seanshanleyAnimeUWLPer
BUM BUM BUM!!!!
If I were OP I would also feed her false info on chemistry lmao
the last story, that brother is very scary. he’s gonna end up killing someone someday
The more they described him, the more I was noting how sociopathic/psychopathic he sounded. The things he did were beond cruel, to the point he didn't even remedy the situation years afterwards, when it would have not hurt him at _all_ to do so.
Huh?
@@JadeAnnabelArt yeah dude sounds like a bonafide psychopath
@@JadeAnnabelArt nobody can truly hurt these monsters, only way to mess them up is to ruin their whole life, no job, no family, nobody to scoop them up from the pit they fall in. The twin needs to sabotage everything in his life, otherwise nothing will ever truly faze him enough to be considered "revenge"
@@momoshikadora So you're saying she can't just go pro. She has to go nuclear
I mean if a guy believes your brother over you, then he's not worth dating. The brother is still awful.
After yesterday’s Nuclear Revenge story, I got worried while reading/listening to the first OP. I’m glad he didn’t destroy his ex’s life though; just her GPA.
I hope the last OP will be able to move on from her ex, or that her ex will come around and get back together with OP. I also hope the evil twin’s gf leaves him before things get worse.
and also this story isn't about a sadistic maniac who would have laughed if his ex cheated.
Yeah. The difference between revenge stories are the damage to recovery ratio. Yesterday was more supernova revenge because the way yesterday's OP damage he target, recovery was next to impossible. I found a post on Reddit by a moderator that explains the definition of revenge stories. This story is definitely prorevenge because OP thought up a well and organized plan. Although the target can recover from this, she won't forget it and her actions that lead to it.
Yesterday was uber fake you dont bang the entire sports team and then your ex comes crying back. Thats the difference lol
@@tylerclark1979 that one too xD
Let's pretend that the nuclear revenge story wasn't just some neckbeards fantasy. Last op deserved everything he got. He was a narcissistic a-hole that had no business wrecking all of those other relationships because of his pathetic little game.
I think we should request at least one wholesome subreddit read a month to balance out all of the insanity and evil.
Agreed
I think this would be good for rslash's mental well-being too
+1
Yes
Yes that would be very nice
Last Story: OPs brother is a sociopath.
I rather say that he is a psychopath. A sociopath mostly do something so it gain them and can hurt you if you have done something wrong in their eyes. Meanwhile a psychopath just hurts you for the sake of it. For a better lack of words so can they do it just for fun. But I could be wrong.
@@stonedbeaver I would be inclined to agree with you, but OPs brother clearly lacks any empathy for anyone but himself. That's why I made the distinction to call him a sociopath, although it would honestly be more accurate to call him a trash human being with sociopathic tendencies.
@@SpiritoftheWolf28232 OP's brother is definitely more of a psychopath than a sociopath. Sociopaths are actually capable of empathy and having emotions for others, but they just don't feel it very strongly. In fact, many people may confuse people with Asperger's Syndrome as being sociopaths because people with AS also struggle with empathy. If you ever watched the BBC show Sherlock, Sherlock describes himself as "a high functioning sociopath", and yet his behavior is more like that of a person with AS. In fact, it is shown many times in the show that while he is shown to be manipulative, cold, and tactless, he also does care about others, especially those close to him. Psychopaths, on the other hand, DO NOT care about other people AT ALL. All the famous serial killers, more specifically Ted Bundy, are psychopaths. I'm not saying that OP's brother is going to turn into a serial killer, but he definitely shows more signs of being a psychopath than a sociopath.
Agreed with the psychopath argument. This kind of mental state isn’t super uncommon and usually isn’t the murderer type, most become ceos etc because of their great social manipulation and just generally are more successful because they can do what they want.
Dont internet diagnose people
Last Story: The Twin Brother is a psychopath/sociopath
Exactly what I was thinking.
Love the pfp
100th like
First ProRevenge story is already more believable than Mister "I'm the superstar of my Highschool, everygirl will cheat on their BF for me" from last video.
I couldn't finish last video, my eyes rolled to high
I feel like the last one was true though because they did a lot of things that most people in high school do mainly athletes and there are people who end up in a situation like him
Revenge 1: She cheated, and she got what she deserved. Good on ya, OP.
Revenge 2: Not only did that driver commit several federal crimes (destroyed a mailbox, which is a federal crime), but stupidly left a large amount of drugs in their car.
Revenge 3: That AH brother lied just ruin OP's relationship with her BF and now OP gets to return the favor.
*THIS! IS! K A R M A!*
No kidding about the second story, as mailboxes are ultimately owned by the PO and smashing one is a federal offense, which leads to 5 years in prison and a $250,000 fine
Mmm spicy
I read 'This! Is! Karma! exactly the same way you'd say "This is Sparta!" as you intended. 🤣🤣
I would show my partner everything on my phone that he/she wants to see, but I wouldn't give him/her my passwords. If you need to tell your passwords, I think there's a fundamental lack of trust.
This.
If she wants to have a look I'll show her, but someone having complete access to my phone at any time even when I'm not around? Nah.
Even ignoring the fact I turn off autologin/save password stuff on money related things, I still wouldn't want the person to just decide one day that she doesn't like some of my friends, so she hops on my phone and under my accounts sabotages friendships.
Maybe I'm just not a particularly trusting person, but I think you should always have some risk management, just in case.
I'm surprised rSlash has this view considering the _dozens_ of stories he's done where a relationship starts out fine, but it turns out after a little while down the road that one of them is a controlling narc who was just playing a role in the start.
@@DAKOTA56777
I absolutely agree with you. I think the "need" to constantly rummage through someone's phone suggests an extreme insecurity and/ or need to control. I mean, digging through one's phone is not unlike going through one's underwear drawer, or reading one's diary all under the possibility of _maybe_ finding *something* to justify the behavior. It's... creepy, and (to me) shows a fundamental lack of all trust. Not to mention how many of us have our utilities, finances, business / work, and possibly even friend's confidences on our phones that are absolutely no one else's business.
It would take a lot of trust for me to give someone the unlock pattern on my phone screen, knowing even then that each app has a different password. I haven't found the level of trust it would take to willingly give those as well. It's not that I have anything to hide, (I'm about as vanilla as you can get), but like you mentioned; handing over that information is like presenting your SO with a key to the nuke sitting in the middle of your city.
Positive reason to hide passcodes; Even if there isn't anything sinister. What if you're hiding something good? What if you're planning to propose? Or a birthday gift?
Nah, my boyfriend knows my passcode and I know his, but we won’t look through each other’s phones without the other one knowing about it (with the exception of me putting a selfie on his phone or updating his profile picture on Facebook, but he definitely doesn’t care about that). Things like my Facebook, email, bank account or other sensitive stuff like that we won’t share passwords for, but again if he asked or if I asked to see something with one of those things, we wouldn’t mind showing each other
@@LorenaAkaCams1 same with my boyfriend, for us it's a respect type thing and showing were completely open with each other. We both have shitty past relationships involving being cheated on so it gives us peace of mind those bad days when our depression and anxiety acts we that we know each other's password and see were not hiding anything. Every relationship works differently.
I don't think giving your partner your passwords is a good idea. I know someone who was in a very abusive relationship with someone who would constantly check who she contacted and even locked her out of some accounts. People need boundaries.
I don't even like handing my phone to my sister. And there's not even anything on it. But with how much we use it for, a phone is personal and you family, partner or anyone else isn't entitled to it.
@@breezy3392 wait your family doesn't check your phone at radom for anything bad?
@@crescentmoon5859 nope
He destroyed her relationship with lies, she destroyed his with the truth.
And now if she has those conversations where he finally admitted to her that he lied she can send them to her ex. I noticed that no one had mentioned that part.
@@calebwhitcomb3995 I'm considering tracking down her ex myself, I'm so mad at her brother!
its exactly what they say.
"don't try to ruin my life with lies when your life can be ruined by the truth"
The description of the brother is scary sh*t…. Almost all the things to look for if you`re trying to identify a psycopath 😮
"if your partner won't give you their phone password then you should consider that a major red flag" is a majorly bad take. People are entitled to their privacy. I'd never cheat on someone, but I'm not about to give anyone my phone password either.
Yeah it’s a gray area for sure
Right for privacy, while a right, can also be a red flag. Like you got a right to say whatever you like or even lie, but it can generally wreck a relationship. Trust also works both ways. I show my trust by sharing electronic devices and having my gf/wife's fingerprint on my phone and still not snooping around. She shows trust by doing the same. Having full access mitigates the need to use it.
Show some trust and share the lock codes.
@@Niilomaan haha fuuuuck that. I disagree with your whole premise. If you can't trust your partner not to cheat unless you have access to their accounts, then you shouldn't be dating them. I wouldn't give my password to anyone, and I wouldn't ask my partner for their password either (unless it was an emergency, but then afterward I would ask them to change their password so I no longer had access). If privacy wrecks a relationship, then that relationship was no good in the first place. Like you should absolutely communicate your feelings with your SO, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't have privacy.
I'm not even in a relationship, but I don't trust anyone enough to give my password. I have a tiktok account--not a business, or even a big one, or anything like that, but it still means a lot to me--and I am insanely careful on it. No one there knows my legal name, where I live, or any personal information. I don't even show the front of my home because there's a chance someone will recognize it. I have a couple other social media accounts that I'm also careful about and I make sure they don't overlap or show each other. If my significant other just wanted to do something cute, they could end up putting a video on my tiktok or a picture somewhere else that could ruin all my work and care and reveal information they didn't notice or didn't realize I was hiding. They wouldn't need to have malicious intent to mess things up. So no, they don't get the chance.
Even if you would let your partner read your chats, there is still an other person on the end, if my best friend tells me something in private, my boyfriend has no business knowing about it unless she gives me permission to tell him. Same for her significant other
gotta disagree with you on the whole "phone passwords" thing, if anything it's the other way around. if a partner insists they need your password or that they need to go through your phone that's a major red flag. it shows insecurity, controlling behavior, and a lack of respect for privacy or boundaries.
I agree to an extent. Despite never being in a relationship, here’s my belief: if you both know each other’s passwords, that’s ok. If neither of you know each other’s passwords, also ok. But if one person knows the others passwords but the 2nd party is insistent on hiding theirs, then that’s a sign to gtfo.
@@cameroncoates4863 i don't think any rule is absolute and there's always room for nuance, but that's the exception and not the rule. even if the 2nd party is totally willing to give you their password, that doesn't entitle them to yours if you don't want to give it to them, and not respecting that boundary is a red flag as a general rule.
@@vivijansen7240 Agreed. I feel if the person is too insisting to get your password, that shows massive insecurity. That and if the person goes wanting to find some proof of something like cheating, they'll find it on anything. A simple convo between you and a work colleague or friend, even if the most innocent thing, can be 'a proof he/she is cheating on me' for a person like that.
I agree with you Vivi. Why would you want to know your partner's phone code? I think it means a lack of trust.
He never said that partners are insisting on passwords. Pretty sure he means exactly what my hubby and I do - we know passcodes, but neither of us insisted. It isn't a good sign when a partner doesn't have a phone nearby, but when asked to use theirs, they are up in arms. The intention was never to look through it, but the person is defensive.
Once my hubby learned the password on my phone, he changed his to match. It's nice. I'm bad at making sure my phone is charged and end up using his if we are away from home. He also has RUclips red connected to his account, so if we listen to music, I use his phone while he drives. I never need to ask him to put in his password, it's just convenient. And it goes the other way. Neither of us have thought the other was cheating, but by this point, it'd be awfully strange for him to reel his phone away from me unless he had some kind of surprise on it.
“It’s a red flag if they don’t want their partner to have total access to their phone” is a pretty bad take.
it depends, if they ask the password to everything a lot its pretty controlling, but just knowing phone password is ok imo
Depends on the person.
Privacy is important. If my friend is having a hard time and talking to me about personal things I don't want my partner (or anyone else) seeing that conversation unless my friend has given permission for me to share it. If my partner is worried about me cheating on them or is insecure I want them to talk to me to work it out, not get reassurance by violating my privacy. If that's what works for other couples, great, but that's not what works for me.
It depends on the dynamic of the relationship in my opinion/experience. When you have someone who is always paranoid, constantly scouring through your phone &/or computers etc., looking for evidence of misdeeds & other controlling behaviors - yea. That's an issue.
But if you have an otherwise happy, healthy relationship & your partner isn't allowed access to your phone...that's a little suspicious. Every partner I've had, if I needed to borrow their phone because mine was charging or whatever, I was handed the phone without any issues - I also never snooped through their messages or social media though. I used it for whatever I needed it for & then returned it.
I think its different for him since he's MARRIED, but yeah, people have a right to define their own limits to privacy.
Its the classic "Just because I have nothing to hide doesn't mean I don't have a right to."
In fact, his logic statement of "Cheaters always try to hide their phone" also works in reverse, since cheaters are ALSO paranoid because they project their unfaithfulness on their partners and will constantly search for any hint that their innocent partner is also guilty. So following his logic "Cheaters always try to access your phone, so its a red flag if your partner suddenly wants access."
I would like to note that not giving your partner acces to your phone is okay and not automatically a red flag. It's not only to protect your own privacy. I for example have frinds sharing their secrets or problems with me via phone and they defnitely wouldn't be comfortable with me giving my partner acces to their messages.
On the other hand, having a partner demanding access to your phone is a red flag and common practice in abusive relationships (eg to install tracking or spy software or using acces to social media accounts to distance the victim from their friends), so please take this into consideration and take care.
This is why I am very protective of my phone and computer. I'm fine with people watching a movie or video, but me and only me gets to hold the controls. Too many times I have had someone look at a funny text picture and then try to back out of the picture into a private conversation. Like, fuck off. The person who sent the funny cat gif may have just been telling me about their crush or dead grandma a few messages before.
Not giving access to your phone MAY be ok...
...but if I had flags enough - and asked to look through the phone, but was denied - I would walk.
Because it is 100% clear that there is no "us" at that point, so just drop the bad habit and find someone new.
@@yammoyammamoto8323 "Us" doesn't mean there is no "I/me", being in a relationship doesn't entitle you to invade every aspect of your partner's life
@@BigT.Larrity
Yet another one who can't read...
Why respond when you gonna make a straw man of the fucking argument made?
_(that was a rhetorical question - I truly don't care what you think)_
@DisealBitches
Thats what I said. :)
I have trained myself to wake up to rslash. Should I be proud
me 2
man
Yes, yes you should
Ofc congrats on that must've been a while to train
Maybe
Good morning then lol
Well if the trust is already so low that you need to be able to snoop through a phone then any trust left isn't worth jack. I would rather not look through someones phone to confirm or deny any suspicions than to do so, find nothing and look like an idiot.
OP is a nicer person than I am. If I was in his shoes, I would’ve told Caroline to figure it out herself.
I mean why not squeeze some cash out of it whilst you can 🤷♀️
the real alpha male be like:
@@OneMoreWord1 yeah might as well get you something nice while you’re at it
There's actually a very good reason to not share your password, even with your partner.
We all have friends that might share something personal ONLY with you, not wanting (for whatever reason) your partner to know it.
We also might want to share something with a friend that we might not want our partner to know (and don't be mean, it may be something as simple as a surprise party or something like that).
We are individuals and, even in a relationship, we NEED our privacy. So I think that this thing of not sharing your password is a red flag is bullshit.
I trust my wife, she trusts me, I never cheated on her, and still I don't have access to her phone as well as she doesn't have access to mine.
I have bad trauma related to my ex going through my phone every day, questioning me on every pm I ever had with male friends and making me break down because he was desperate to find any proof that I cheated on him. Turns out, he was cheating and was looking for justification. Now, handing my phone to literally anyone makes me have full blown panic attacks. Please understand that your partner has a right to their privacy and trying to force them to hand over their phone will break that trust forever. 😰😭😰
Yupp shouldn't be forced, but you shouldn't hide the phone either to your partner because of an asshole ex. I know my gf code and her mine but it's more for emergencies and if I need her to do something that I can't do in the moment
I hear you... and that dude sounds like a complete jerk.
But people cheat... and if there are signals that something is off - and you go "nothing"...
Someone might make the request - as a last ditch effort before walking.
I know I would.
"Please sis, just give it up already. This relationship is different then the one you had years ago"
"For once Brother, I agree with you. It IS different. I actually loved my other half, YOU on the other hand cheated on her with 5 other girls. You reap what you sow. So, suck it punk".
Also, I hope the Twin Brother gets rid of his childish and FAST, before his antics gets him killed in the future.
Pray he doesn't have the bad luck of getting it on with a yandere girl. *That* would go bad for him.
@@RiptoGakt actually hope he does. He sounds like a sociopath.
I don't think he's capable of getting rid of his childishness because what he's displaying isn't childishness, it's full-blown psychopathy. He lacks empathy, he's sadistic, he's a master liar and manipulator... There is literally no way for him to change. OP should never bother trying to have a relationship with her demon brother, just cut contact and move on.
I love the mailbox stories because technically if someone crashes into them it’s not the person who owns it fault
The gf story seems nothing after yesterday's video
Well because in this scenario we have someone that... let's say, not having an ego, and definitely have an emphaty and common sense 😂
@@starfall8861 Yesterday we had the main character of American Psycho, today it's more Le Mans 66
Yesterdays story was clearly fake
Yesterday's story was pure evil
yes due to this ones still have sanity and compassionate even though , ex girlfriend and twin brother , gets the full taste of their revenge regardless what they did to them , but only difference is first one help out and charge tuition fees , like or not she cheated , she knew her ex is her last resort , due to cannot even find anyone else he's pro , if i cannot get someone teach good as him , then i gonna stuck at school for another 2 months or more maybe years not graduate , Second one , Revenge on her twin brother screw up her dating life , lie , made believe story and ruins her twin sister relationship stating not serious , honest he was jealous of her and knew he cannot be like her faithful boyfriend , so he destroy her worst way possible by ruining her twin sister relationship , her twin sister got her chance and ended up helping her find out her twin brother is unfaithful cheating boyfriend who dates girls like her , his Girl friends , end up helping the main serious girl friend , that her twin brother dates with , the girlfriend probably have control over him and at least she can break up with him anytime and find a new one boyfriend.
I love how the post master hated the family, but hated being insulted by the town more.
I'm still getting flashbacks from the last nuclear revenge vid.
Fr, that dude was so toxic I couldn't believe that was a real story
Edit: probably should've phrased my original call comment better, but what I meant was I didn't think the story was real because of how awful the dude was. It just seemed to be a I'm a cool toxic badass self pity story
@@gubbinsm122 it wasnt
@@gubbinsm122 At least the first story in this vid is a nice breath of fresh air to make up for it.
Gamma I mean it kinda of was now don’t get me wrong that girl was a absolute piece of shit but the stuff that guy did was absolutely horrid like I think he should have stopped after they hadn’t met each other for a year at the latest
@@simplyhypixel6876 i mean the story is fake. he says he was an athlete but also did drugs, which is impossible since athletes HAVE to do drug tests
“Where a cheater’s life is destroyed!” Um... like yesterday *cough, cough*
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@@mattybrunolucaszeneresalas9072 The last R/NuclearRevenge Has a cheaters life and mental heath destroyed by sexual affairs
@@doubledare4535 So?
@@mattybrunolucaszeneresalas9072 You asked, I answered.
The first story. But "destroyed" sounds like an exaggeration.
I have to disagree with you rSlash. I have personally never cheated and do not like sharing my phone with a significant other. I feel like if your SO is so insecure that they can't trust you to do the right thing then that in and of itself is a red flag. If you can't trust each other not to cheat and have to constantly invade each other's privacy in order to validate yourselves, why are you even together.
Just be ready for that the person may walk when you deny them.
Because there is a flip(or /flop)-side to your one-sided viewpoint. :)
@@yammoyammamoto8323 That would be fine I don't want to be with someone who has that little trust in me that they feel the need to go through my phone on a regular basis.
@@lisles58
I wasn't talking primarily of "on a regular basis". :) But that's fine. Just saying - dont be surprised when it causes someone to walk.
most of prorevenge can be put into nuclearrevenge and nothing would change. change my mind
Some acts in NuclearRevenge stories are illegal, but yeah, some of the more extreme ProRevenge stories would fall in NuclearRevenge.
Nuclear revenge and worse have mostly illegal stuff in them, so not really.
Well, the subreddits would change for sure.
Nah. I’d say most nuclear revenge stories are hardcore pro revenge. True nuclear revenge happens when the whole family gets involved or someone dies/becomes destitute.
listen to yesterday's story compared to todays lol
I really don't get why people cheat, if u dont wanna be in a relationship don't go out with someone
Probably something to do with security, there’s security on having someone who doesn’t cheat on you.... even if you are the dirty cheating dirtbag...
Could also be they may get some pleasure out of hiding their actions and knowing what they are doing is wrong... kind of like how some people get off by having others watch them passionately hug....
So another thing about cheaters is they PROJECT.
I never went through my ex's phone as I wanted to respect his privacy, though he would go through mine. But I probably should have, though I didn't really need to because I knew what was going on however I may have found enough there to give myself enough courage to end the relationship much sooner.
So, we married in 2013, and it only took a year for everything to fall apart, and I think it's because I wasn't the person he wanted me to be or become, a party person. I'm way more laid back and a homebody. I had a little fun experiencing concerts and the club but it just wasn't for me.
We used to hang out with his coworkers and there was one girl who I even considered a friend, and they got... close.
Our first separation came after he came home from a group hangout (I couldn't go as often due to my job at the time) and he had kissed her. I had forgiven him and it kept happening.
After I moved out, he begged for me back after sleeping with her and only thinking of me... yeah that happened two more times... 🤦♀️ I was stupid.
Anyway. Things never got better, and he wouldn't listen to my concerns that he would STILL hang out with people while she was present. I couldn't trust him, and I only had friends to turn to but eventually he cut me off from them too because he would go through my phone and get pissed when he saw the messages.
I had to resort to one friend and snapchat for the message deletion feature it has.
And he got super pissed when I put a lock on my phone because I had NO privacy.
Sorry for the rant, I'll see myself out
So glad you finally got out of that toxic environment! Better late than never! Hope you're living a much better life now :)
If someone asks to see your phone, let them BUT only if they let YOU see THEIRS too.
Humans, regardless of their relationships, deserve privacy. They deserve their space, their items, their bubble. Phones usually fall into that bubble; I still cringe every time I wanna show a meme and someone grabs my whole phone away. It’s not a red flag to wanna keep your private sector private, it’s a human necessity. Please don’t act like not wanting to share your passwords equals cheating, that’s a really toxic and often abusive mindset that people use to lord over their partners.
Just because your significant other doesn't give you their passcode to their pones or other electronics doesn't mean they have something to hide. Like me, they could just value their privacy.
However, on the other hand, the most convoluted passcode for your phone is not a 4-digit number. Tat is easy to break with 10,000 possible combinations. Use your phone number as your passcode. The irony behind that is that you give it out to so many people every day and they never know you gave out access to your phone. Its like setting your password to your computer to "Incorrect." One wrong guess and it tells you your password.
I disagree with you on the last one. Keeping your phone away from your partner isn't about lack of trust, it's about privacy. IMO the one with a trust issue is the one that's insistent about needing access to something so personal and sensitive
I consider another persons cell phone to be like a mans wallet or a women's purse. I refused to open my wife's purse, I would get it for her (not carry it) and she could get what she needs. No you cannot have my cell phone password, not because I may be cheating but because it's one of the few things you have that retain just a bit of the privacy you once had. Also, I guess the girl in the first story should have taken biology instead. There's no math or formulas, just dissection of an occasional frog, may he rest in peace.....
About the last story: that guy is definitely a sociopath. I'm not saying that as an insult, I genuinely mean he's a sociopath. He could get diagnosed by a psychologist and everything. The lies, the manipulation, the lack of empathy, hurting others for no reason - textbook sociopath right there. I hope that his girlfriend leaves him and that his family forces him into therapy. That kind of behavior could turn deadly if not treated properly.
My uncle lives on a farm and once a month someone hit his mail box so after 6 months of the cop's not caring he dicided to replace the wooden pole thing he used with a metal one he dug a 2 foot hole filled it with concrete and put the pole in next month same thing except that the car's front end was totaled.
the reason there's so many stories about this, is people are stupid, and rural mailboxes are an easy fun target. grandparents had a farm, rural local bored teens D&D would target them with bats... the usual happened, grandpa made it far more secure after a few times and ,well, one kid and a broken arm from the bat breaking his own arm instead and viola no more trashed mailboxes. i swear it's almost a rite of passage for rural mail teens.
I feel for the girl in the twin story. I, too, have a crappy brother. We aren't twins, he is actually 4 years older than I am. The stories I have from our childhood is literally borderline abuse. For instance, he had broken my nose... 3 times. One was him getting pissed at me at the bus stop and because he was pissed, he elbowed me in the nose.
I kind of think she dodged a bullet on the boyfriend though. Her twin is no doubt horrible but the boyfriend wasn't exactly star quality either
I'm confused how she was studying to be a lawyer but they were in highschool like come on dude
TLDR: Your SO may have a really good reason for not handing over a password or passcode to their phone, so it shouldn't always be considered a red flag even if you don't fully understand it.
I would like to point out that I am in a healthy relationship and my SO does not have my passcode to my phone. I have had past relationships that were not so great and it has caused me to see my phone and other things as an extension of me, so the very idea that someone wants to look through and have access to those things makes me feel ill and violated. I was up front and honest about these issues with my SO who understands. I am open about all my messages and such but I like the ability to choose when to talk about somethings that may be very triggering to me.
I know my partner's passwords and he knows mine. But that's mostly because we grab the nearest device when we want to look something up. We know each others passwords but we never go through each other's phones/computers. We trust each other enough on both ends and it works for us. I totally get why some people who have snoopy partners wouldn't want to give out their passwords though.
Sounds like you've got a decent basis for a family going. ;) gz.
Not all "Snoopy partners" are due to being overbearing... even non-snoopy persons may be driven to snoop, given the right events. Partner suddenly locks phone. Works late. Feels distant. and so on. Usually things don't need to be spelled out. 99.9% of people know when shit is up... the "asking for the phone" is not about going through the phone - but to judge the response to the request.
As a therapist, DO NOT share phone passwords.
It would've been nice if you gave am explanation on why
Depending on the content of her brother's messages it may be worth passing them along to her ex for a sense of closure.
OP's dad should have made a sign that says
WARNING INVINCIBLE MAILBOX
And the number of cars it had destroyed, and kept updating it everytime there was another
Jeez, I think the brother at the end may actually be a sociopath
I said the same thing on storyline about how that Dad saves lives by having the mailbox put back.
Would love to see more wholesome content like r/humansbeingbros
Yes!!
Yep
I'd love this
Definitely! In the meantime, One Topic often does wholesome stuff if you want to watch him
Revenge stories that involve an innocent party getting hurt just don't feel justified to me.
The evil twin brother was already hurting her. OP just brought out the truth.
@@thegreatstoneddragon9432 Quite true. With that said, iirc this episode just felt like it had a lot of collateral damage, I wasn't specifically talking about just that story.
After yesterday's nuclear revenge, I see a prorevenge about cheating. Weeeeee
Yesterdays story was fake as hell
@@BenoitRAG3 Never know my dude, never know. People like that do exist.
The girl in the last story should take screenshots of her brother admitting he , and send it to her old boyfriend. Atleast he won't still think she cheated on him
"If your partner won't give you their phone password Then you should consider it a major red flag" - dude, wtf, I don't want anybody snooping if it isn't an emergency, not even my closest friends an family. I value my privacy and I value theirs.
I have always been so grateful that my fiancé and I have so much transparency and trust in our relationship. I just hear stories about people getting screwed when their partner looks thru their phone/bag and can’t help but think how exhausting it must be to always be on guard about that stuff. PLUS, when you don’t have anything to hide, you get to be lazy and ask your partner to dig thru your purse for something or read you a text when your phone is closer to them than you, etc. Laziness and trust ftw!
Compared to yesterday, at least this OP in the first story knew when to stop..
I need rslash to brighten up my day just as much as I need a sugar daddy to handle the financial parts of my life
You don't need a sugar daddy lol.
@@bigkmoviesandgames no one need a sugar daddy, but its a luxury to have one
@@NotUnique_ yeah but I just wouldn't personally feel comfortable living off someone else's resources.
@@bigkmoviesandgames me too, cause I have a job, I just wrote the first thing that came up in my mind lol
@@NotUnique_ I'm not criticizing you or anyone that does want a sugar daddy LOL and I'm not saying that there's anything wrong with it I was expressing how I personally couldn't do it.
Hi RSlash! I love your videos, I watch them whenever I can tbh
I just wanted to say: the advice you gave about passwords isn't the best. Setting personal boundaries isn't a red flag, and not allowing someone access to very personal information, even if you trust them, doesn't automatically mean something is up. You do see it as a common factor in these stories, but it's only really a red flag when it seems like they're actively hiding something already and it's paired with other suspicious things. Normally I wouldn't comment just to disagree with you but I feel like that advice could really destroy relationships if taken too seriously.
Anyways, I mean no disrespect, and I hope you have a great day!
A cheating girlfriend story after yesterday makes me sweat a bit
Story one revenge in this video isn’t that bad though. He ruined her grades by doing things he had no obligation not to do. He didn’t need to help her.
I'm actually curious about what OP's brother told her ex. Just amazing how you'd be dating someone and then this rando comes to you and says your SO has been cheating and you'd be like: "Sure, I believe you. I don't even need any proof." When your SO denies it (which is the truth), you're just like: "No."
Especially that line "the worst part is that you won't just tell me the truth". I'd just reply with: "I've been telling the truth all this time. You made the choice to believe something that's not real. What proof do you have that I've cheated?... Exactly."
My mom and I listen to rSlash almost every day. We love discussing the videos and what we think about them. rSlash is some of the things binding us together❤️
Your comment was heartwarming until I saw the profile picture lmao
@@PirateShux hahahahaha wow I’m a LITTLE sorry🤣🤣🤣
Not sharing your passcode with a significant other isn't always a red flag. Some of us were allowed zero privacy from our parents as kids and the thought of anyone looking through our phone makes us feel physically ill.
Yay perfect timing! We are packing our apartment and this is exactly what I wanted to listen to 😁
Good luck on that move my dude, don't forget to hydrate and stop for lunch
@@jedediahcoulbourne1791 thank you! I really hope it goes well!
I want a picture of that poll, 'cause damn it deserves to be appreciated
That last story would make a good movie
Honestly man ive never thought about it before but if Rslash has done 883 episodes as of this one i wonder how many reddit stories he’s actually read. Like there may always be anywhere from 1-5 stories per episode and all of them are good. Which means he’s weeded through all the ones he may have deemed potentially/obviously false or the ones that simply are nothing burgers and on and on. This man Rslash really is putting in MAD WORK!😂
haven't even finished the video, but I will say one thing.
gottem
3:33 OP: “I'm gonna do what’s called a pro gamer move!”
I feel like “honestly, props go out to her” was supposed to be about their teacher not Caroline lol that teacher definitely deserves those props
Op here, sorry for not specifying but yes, that’s right
Question: Do you consider it a red flag if someone is unwilling to let their significant other read their diary?
If not: Why do you think it's a red flag if they don't give their phone password?
Phones are probably the second most private thing we have in this world (diary would be first, obviously) and everyone has a right to their privacy.
If you think not sharing a password is a deal breaker that's fine, everyone has requirements for their relationships but that doesn't mean it's a universal red flag that instantly means the person may be cheating. That was an incredibly bad take and you need to realize that.
I think that was one of the ways I got my wife to trust me early on in the relationship.
She asked me for the passcode one day, I immediately handed her my phone and told her the passcode and walked away. She seemed surprised but very happy. Trust is HUGE in relationships and keeping secrets only sours the pot.
I've had serious problems in the past with partners snooping through my phone and causing no end of problems, despite not having done anything wrong, so now no one gets access to my phone. Not partners, not friends, no one. And I don't ask for access to my partner's phone, either. She deserves her privacy as much as I do mine.
First story...if she wasnt codependent on OPs HW to start her grade wouldn't be a problem
She could have put in more effort but didnt
He didnt have to keep helping
Doing bad in a class cuz you hate is your own fault
....
Im dyslexic, I had to have a tutor but they helped me be able to learn myself eventually and succeed in the classes, like theyd teach math a special way, made me do the problems on my own tho so I could replicate it the future... sounds like he was spoon feeding her
The story with the twins, I would have waited until he was planning on proposing; just because he sounds like he deserves some harsh karma.
I think I get why people enjoy these stories, but the sheer inability of these people to _communicate_ and instead choose to be absolute jackasses (particularly in the relationship stories) never fails to amaze.
I love that you said his dad shouldn't feel bad about the mailbox thing. Screw that guy and all people like him
I feel sorry for op loosing her boyfriend because of her brother.
The real red flag is someone you're in a relationship demanding I give them access to my phone. My husband is free to unlock my phone any time he needs it, but if he ever demanded... ?
ngl after yesterday's episode this title feels so tame xD
That first story was literally "f*ck around and find out"
Well, she found out alright!
An r/nuclearrevenge video followed by r/prorevenge? *Yes, please!*
For some weird reason that funny Simpsons episode were Homer is in a devil costume saying "I am evil Homer" while dancing around good Homer's grave popped in my mind 🤔
Morning video to listen to before work.
Props to the first story OP to still agreeing to tutor his cheating ex for regular fees.
I'm not sure I'd have been merciful enough not to charge a huge extra.
Giving out your password to your phone? You continue to give terrible advice. If there really IS trust within the relationship, neither of you should be worried about what's in the other's phone, devices, accounts etc. I never cheated on any of my exes, but neither did they gain access to my devices. I didn't ask for theirs either. It fundamentally comes down to trust. It's not an "if you have nothing to hide, then you shouldn't have a problem with it" issue. It's a matter of, "you either trust each other, or you don't ".
On the phone thing, even though my boyfriend has my passport, I still would be majorly pissed if he would just go through my phone, I don't go through his, and I just think it is a huge invasion of privacy and an "I do not trust you" sign held right into your partner's face.
I feel like it was props to the teacher not Caroline
Whenever I hear these sibling stories I always end up with the same question “Am I a good brother?”
When ever I see rslash I stop what I’m doing and watch it then continue lol and my dad like his content too
15:15 since the brother texted her things along the line of it being "different" she can send that screenshot to her ex.
I'm awake for once!
That chemistry student is showing all the signs of becoming a dangerous sociopath. If you are his girlfriend, run - run like the wind and never look back.
Setting up someone to fail is fucked up regardless of what the other person did, 2 wrongs don't make a right.
Exactly
My teachers teacher edited a page they were looking at on Wikipedia, this little trap caught almost half the class.
Day 95 of telling him he's making everyone day better
You cant be stopped...
Day whatever of telling you to shut up
@Paul Weiner dont stop him
Ya
@@paul_warner :) Day 1 of telling Paul Warner to shut up.
I have extreme trust issues so I refuse to give anyone my phone.
My dad (while I was gone for school) would grab my phone and scream at me for everything on it.
Nude pics? That was wrong.
A video game? That was wrong.
He would judge everything. My phone is me. It is my everything and I don’t know if I can trust someone with it.
Cheaters deserve no mercy. Like the last Nuclear Revenge story.
That OP with the twin brother doesn't realize her twin brother did her a favor with her ex. If he was willing to believe her brother over her despite not having any proof, the guy wasn't worth staying with anyways. The thing is, when someone you're in a relationship trusts someone else over you that they don't really know that well, then there's a fundamental lack of trust that will wreck the relationship further down the line and it would probably hurt even worse if it happened later on when the OP would've been even more attached to their ex.