Overcoming Betrayal: How to Find Peace
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- Опубликовано: 6 сен 2024
- Understanding WHY you were betrayed is separate from being OVER the pain of being betrayed - But understanding why is often an incredibly important step to moving through the pain to help you learn the lesson that the experience teaches. Although thoughts of revenge are common, they do not lead to peace; and remember, the ultimate goal for all of us is peace. Special thanks to Tariq from New Zealand for asking for this video.
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Dr. Conte, I have missed your weekly dose of calm reality. Betrayal is a special kind of hurt because of the element of surprise and shock, and loss of trust.
@@livinglargecoachingcounseling A., Thank you for your kindness. B., You are so right: it’s element of shock that adds to the pain. There’s a lot more to say about this, but I wanted to at least add something to be helpful for people who are going through this. Definitely sending you much gratitude and peace! 🙏🏼
I really appreciate you and your videos. Thank you for all you do.
Thank you. Sending you tons of gratitude and peace!
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OHH AND I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS. KEEP them coming if you are up for it. they help besides the book which i reread.
Thank you so much for your kind thoughts on my book. I really appreciate that. And I think it speaks a lot about you that you recognize the difference between knowing a message and practicing it, and you are absolutely right that it's not easy to always practice what we know. Learning to set and keep boundaries is so important for all of us. Please know I am most definitely sending you all my best and tons of peace and gratitude!
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@@fairygurl9269 🙏🏼
Thank you Mr Conte appreciate you alot for making this video on my behalf and it was very informative ❤ my wife made me watch it twice even. Your videos are excellent, I appreciate you alot. Tariq
Great video Doc.
@@joemosser8119 🙏🏼
Thank you! betrayal hurts. But at some point you have to consider that you don't want people who betray you in your life anyway, and it's like trash taking itself out;. I'm older and wiser now. And most older people who betray other people, are going to do it to the next person and the next person and so on. In fact, It's a really high % of marriages that fail where one person who cheated on another person to be with that person in a marriage, fail, because they either do it to the current person, or the current person thinks that the person who cheated with the current person to be in the marriage, is going to do it to them as well.
Yes, it definitely does hurt. You are absolutely right also, that we don't want those who do that in our lives, so usually after the pain subsides, we tend to be grateful not to be around that person anymore. I think learning from every moment is what really matters for all of us. Thank you for taking the time to watch and comment! Definitely sending you all my best and tons of peace!
@@DrChristianConte Same to you, People need to hang on til the indifference toward the betrayer sets in, that is a wonderful feeling. I know for me, once I feel indifference toward someone there is no way for that person to come back from that.
Hey buddy its Matt from Brownsville, I love your videos, they help a ton , I’d really like a few mins of your time if you ever come home to see your parents or your brother.