When On a Date You Enchant not Interview a Man

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  • Опубликовано: 24 ноя 2024

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  • @lindsayj0415
    @lindsayj0415 Год назад +874

    “So even if he’s ugly just imagine yourself spending his money” I am FLOORED 😩😂😂

    • @ShaliiynSki08
      @ShaliiynSki08 Год назад +16

      Lol just be in a daze 😅

    • @halohoneydog
      @halohoneydog 11 месяцев назад +39

      I’ve been doing this and they comment that they like how I’m looking at them. 😂
      I feel like the coyote looking at the road runner and seeing a thanksgiving turkey.

    • @bkgarr6041
      @bkgarr6041 10 месяцев назад +4

      ​@@halohoneydog😂😂😂😂

    • @professor.donut24
      @professor.donut24 9 месяцев назад +3

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 absolutely FLOORED ​@@halohoneydog

    • @honeysimza8205
      @honeysimza8205 9 месяцев назад +5

      Literally power and money will do it for me every time.

  • @j-tenn226
    @j-tenn226 Год назад +3075

    Shera, in case you didn’t know you are a part time comedian. My sides hurt from laughing throughout this whole video. Your delivery is always something original, every time.

    • @auroramothergoddess
      @auroramothergoddess Год назад +83

      I know right I am literally laughing out loud LOL

    • @daniellamoreno3616
      @daniellamoreno3616 Год назад +36

      I'm dieing when she said slob busting!!!

    • @luwanevari7948
      @luwanevari7948 Год назад +33

      Oh my gosh! 😂 She had me in stitches.

    • @Fancypantspurr
      @Fancypantspurr Год назад +24

      Yes she really is! I am hollering!!!!

    • @CS-pl1re
      @CS-pl1re Год назад +16

      My two i was laughing in the car 😂😂

  • @nica7747
    @nica7747 Год назад +267

    Everytime she imitates a man’s voice it SENDSSSSS meeeee

  • @GoddessKhaleesi-z2z
    @GoddessKhaleesi-z2z 9 месяцев назад +257

    I literally studied this video before a date and I kid you not the man said “ Your eyes are so enchanting” during the date. And he brought me flowers. Talk about passing with flying colors 😂

    • @VeganLife-mn1jp
      @VeganLife-mn1jp 8 месяцев назад +16

      Wow that’s wonderful!

    • @j-tenn226
      @j-tenn226 7 месяцев назад +7

      Give us an update on you and this man!

    • @tinygrape
      @tinygrape 6 месяцев назад +13

      Pov: I’m getting ready for a first date watching this exact video 😂 (I’ve already gotten $500 from him and I got him paying for the dress I’m gonna wear)

    • @thewave254
      @thewave254 6 месяцев назад

      Yaaaas 🎉🎉🎉🎉😅

    • @navyqueen1
      @navyqueen1 5 месяцев назад

      Yep doing the same now 😂❤

  • @Ashley50144
    @Ashley50144 Год назад +1063

    Ladies …If he’s not “ENCHANTED” when he 1st meets you ..He’s not the target !! ..my SD gave me💰 on spot!! & 🛍️ing & dinner our 1st DATE ✨

    • @juicyy3951
      @juicyy3951 Год назад +28

      Wow Ashley….you’re lucky gurlll ❤️

    • @juicyy3951
      @juicyy3951 Год назад +14

      Where did you find him please?

    • @Ashley50144
      @Ashley50144 Год назад +95

      @@juicyy3951 literally walked in Neiman Marcus alone & he approached me ..I was headed inside the actually mall to shop ☺️

    • @mocalatte92
      @mocalatte92 Год назад +4

      Yup

    • @dreamgirlcam
      @dreamgirlcam Год назад +36

      SPRINKLE SPRINKLE ✨

  • @emyd9655
    @emyd9655 Год назад +325

    If he’s ugly. Maybe imagine yourself spending his money 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @TyraVarnado
      @TyraVarnado Год назад +5

      This comment got me 😂

    • @etherealdeal1792
      @etherealdeal1792 4 месяца назад

      It works and does help lol

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr 3 месяца назад

      It won't help. Stop with the unattractive men.

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr 2 месяца назад

      It doesnt work..unattractive is unattractive .

    • @goldie12577
      @goldie12577 Месяц назад +1

      @@lc-il6wr cope

  • @emyd9655
    @emyd9655 Год назад +544

    “If you sleep with him he’s gonna loose interest. Not if you do it right girl” 😂😂😂😂😂 Sheera

  • @brittae90
    @brittae90 7 месяцев назад +9

    The cherry on top is when you know some info on his favorite hobbies

  • @Digitalguru_ash
    @Digitalguru_ash Год назад +271

    Went on a date w a potential sd today. Was so easy to smile and look at him a certain way thinking of that Wallet 🙂😀

    • @JDVIBEZ4REAL
      @JDVIBEZ4REAL Год назад +33

      😂😂😂Girl...............

    • @Digitalguru_ash
      @Digitalguru_ash Год назад +70

      @@JDVIBEZ4REAL 😂😭 he’s extremely kind. And such a gentleman and willing to spend on me.I can tell he’s REALLY into me. But he’s not the best looking. So, gotta do what you gotta do. As per momma Shera. 😆

    • @JDVIBEZ4REAL
      @JDVIBEZ4REAL Год назад +13

      @@Digitalguru_ash Wow that sounds Awesome 😲😲😲😲😻😻😻. I wish I was you😭😭😭🤣. Forget about the looks. But ain't too bad right? Cause hie purse 👛 be pretty 😭😭🤣🤗💖

    • @ChantalAlba-r5p
      @ChantalAlba-r5p Год назад

      @@Digitalguru_ashhow is it going ?

    • @JosDom-by4eg
      @JosDom-by4eg Год назад +1

      Yess girl

  • @nellytrophysnatchedqueen
    @nellytrophysnatchedqueen Год назад +1546

    This is so funny I did all of this with my current husband without even trying 😂 I've been watching you for years. I finally got a husband to pay all my bills. The last 2 paid only most smh 🤦 I still act like my husband's girlfriend only so he doesn't ever get bored. Thank you Shera ❤️

    • @luwanevari7948
      @luwanevari7948 Год назад +20

      Hey Nelly! So happy it worked out for you. How did you proceed?

    • @nellytrophysnatchedqueen
      @nellytrophysnatchedqueen Год назад +1

      @@luwanevari7948 what do you mean?

    • @luwanevari7948
      @luwanevari7948 Год назад +4

      @@nellytrophysnatchedqueen Which techniques did you use?

    • @CS-pl1re
      @CS-pl1re Год назад +1

      @@luwanevari7948Shera litterly explained lol 😂

    • @HoneyBunches100
      @HoneyBunches100 Год назад +6

      Wooohooo! Congratulations @NellyTrophy ❤️💫🌍

  • @badgalyaya2303
    @badgalyaya2303 Год назад +961

    See this is why I only go on dates when I’m ovulating because there’s no way I could pull this off any other time 😭. Shera you are the goat!

    • @love.1995
      @love.1995 Год назад +34

      Lol this sounds so funny, why ovulating?

    • @j-tenn226
      @j-tenn226 Год назад +3

      What does it mean to be ovulating? When do you know when you are?

    • @cheyennestephens9417
      @cheyennestephens9417 Год назад +161

      @@j-tenn226 there’s an period tracker app that tells you when you’re on different phases of your cycle. Women are most attractive to men while ovulating. Ovulation is a time where you can easily get pregnant

    • @shelonya
      @shelonya Год назад +162

      me too!! when im ovulating i can tolerate entertaining a man so much better 😂

    • @j-tenn226
      @j-tenn226 Год назад +183

      @@cheyennestephens9417 thank you for taking the time for explaining this to me without talking down to me and making me feel dumb for not knowing. I appreciate it

  • @luwanevari7948
    @luwanevari7948 Год назад +420

    Follow Shera's advice! I listened and jotted down notes. Went on a date with an older man. He kept saying how "feminine" I was. That I was "very interesting, feminine, pretty and so damn sexy!"
    He already set up our next date. And asked me how my schedule looks like for the month for a trip 😂.
    It works ladies. Listen to Shera, take notes then put in practice.

    • @MilaChavez138
      @MilaChavez138 Год назад +8

      Update 😏

    • @empress3847
      @empress3847 Год назад +8

      Update please 😊

    • @Eshabee
      @Eshabee Год назад +1

      Where did y’all meet online or in person?

    • @caitlinsoliman1658
      @caitlinsoliman1658 Год назад +9

      How do you do it without feeling fake and awkward?

    • @KeyonaThesweetest
      @KeyonaThesweetest Год назад +4

      Girl were his friends at ?? 😂😂😂 j/p I’m working on getting one.

  • @desdior1207
    @desdior1207 Год назад +431

    I love this! Unfortunately mothers and grandmothers are not teaching us younger women this! Instead negative vibes and energy. We need more experienced women to guide the younger ones for a promising future WITH a man

    • @dunianns2716
      @dunianns2716 Год назад +37

      I have learned that, our mothers, grandmothers, great-grandmothers are/have been victims of victims... they have done the best they knew how from their state of consciousness. We have to honour them in order to be at peace with ourselves and keep working on our energy. ❤

    • @gloriarufus8033
      @gloriarufus8033 Год назад +8

      You do not need to blame anybody

    • @desdior1207
      @desdior1207 Год назад

      @@gloriarufus8033 just like you didn’t need to comment 🫤

    • @adameve6623
      @adameve6623 Год назад +21

      instead they are teaching us to cook and clean and be givers

    • @nisg9078
      @nisg9078 Год назад

      @@dunianns2716this!

  • @iziz5691
    @iziz5691 Год назад +311

    For those of you who think it’s not possible - trust me it isssss. I have 2 sugar daddy’s, both over 60. And I had another one before. They send me thousands. Sure you have to sift through some losers in the process but trust me you’ll get there if you don’t give up - because they ARE out there

  • @thetruthteller33
    @thetruthteller33 Год назад +100

    Got me 2 new tires before i even watch this. My momma taught me the game. But yall better listen up and dont be afraid to ask. They definitely not afraid to drop hints about what they want. So when he decided to move on thats fine. I didnt have to buy groceries or gas for 3 months and i got 2 brand new tires rolling to the next man 😂😂😂😂 who will buy the other 2 😅😅😅

  • @ladyshenna967
    @ladyshenna967 Год назад +406

    Being on a date is to collect data. Enjoy each other's conversations and company.

  • @InTheBeginning83
    @InTheBeginning83 Год назад +405

    Shera I needed you 20 years ago when I was young. Now I'm 40 and tired of working. But with makeup I can pass for 28 so I'm taking notes. Sprinkle Sprinkle

    • @user-gs1di4sk2r
      @user-gs1di4sk2r Год назад +30

      Girl if that’s you in your pfp I think you can pass for 25/26😍you’re looking amazing x

    • @InTheBeginning83
      @InTheBeginning83 Год назад +9

      @N thank you love!

    • @mari-my5gr
      @mari-my5gr Год назад +20

      @@user-gs1di4sk2r Word! She’s looking snatched an amazing 😍 hope I get to look that beautiful at 40

    • @sarahkawala
      @sarahkawala Год назад +12

      Dont worry, am here, joininin this journey as well. It is not too late.

    • @royalkarmaproductions
      @royalkarmaproductions Год назад +22

      Women look the best in their 40s ❤

  • @selmasvast9911
    @selmasvast9911 Год назад +44

    The only community I came across where there are women and they support each other

  • @arrinimani1659
    @arrinimani1659 Год назад +402

    Eye contact
    Assume something about him
    Tell him an exciting/ dumb secret
    Smile while he talks
    Ask him to help you pick something off the menu
    Enjoy the food in a sexy way
    Look him the eyes when the waiter ask about desserts
    Suggest you guys share
    Ask him what he’s in the mood for

  • @l.l.8022
    @l.l.8022 Год назад +340

    2:19:10 "rig your shoes up to break in front of him right in front of an expensive shoe store" is crazy 😂😂😂

  • @AahyiSam
    @AahyiSam Год назад +464

    Came back to this video after trying this out for 1 month. Ladies, this works. I did the opposite and then the correct steps on different men. Worked exactly as she said. Shera knows what she’s talking about. 💯❤ This is not magic it’s a Science & Shera is the guru 🎓literally.

  • @blackroze1471
    @blackroze1471 Год назад +45

    I watched this video to prep for a date lol enchanted that man out his pockets lol he literally asked me to be exclusive with him and spent $500. Then he asked to be my sponsor when I said we need to slow down

    • @Anu_Tuvs
      @Anu_Tuvs 11 месяцев назад +1

      Congrats! How old is he?

    • @j-tenn226
      @j-tenn226 7 месяцев назад

      Update?

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr 2 месяца назад

      Sounds like a ghetto sd..can't u do better like get a job..

  • @madibrooke-fe6ho
    @madibrooke-fe6ho Год назад +356

    Listen to Shera ladies!
    Stop trying to rewrite the rules.
    I’ve noticed with me(26) the older the better (50+) it does not take much for them to want to provide for you. Listen to them talk, agree with them and be available that’s it.
    reason is because young men have no shortage of women and they are used to getting women with little effort, so even if you do get a young guy to provide he either won’t have as much to offer (still building his wealth) or you will have to compete with all the other Insta baddies of the world.

    • @dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473
      @dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 Год назад +60

      Honey I’m 48 and these older men are set up different now..I have 2 beautiful little nurse sisters (registered nurses) one is 28 with a 44 year old with 2 baby mommas and the other is 30 with a 47 year old with a crazy ex wife and 3 children and I’m 48 and snatched up a high value black physician..they both are younger taking care of their boyfriends and helping them with their businesses and children So I don’t know I’m seeing the opposite Younger women please listen to SheRae beautiful younger women should never be taking care of old a$$ men especially over 40 year men..these ninjas just setup different now so tread lightly the older men are bigger players because they are making over six figures and the other dust kings are looking for young girls to use..I try to tell them get older men with money but they don’t listen to me!

    • @madibrooke-fe6ho
      @madibrooke-fe6ho Год назад +7

      @@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 interesting insight. I’m not dealing with any men atm I finished up my education and started a new career in the financial industry had to focus lol.
      so are you for older men or younger men? A little confused by your post.

    • @dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473
      @dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 Год назад

      @@madibrooke-fe6ho neither lovely LOL I'm older and wiser I only dated men who were super financially stable, I'm currently engaged to a physician (he is a little younger than me he is 45 I'm 48) I use to work with thanks to Shera's amazing advice..we are going to Europe to get marry in June. Our (he claim as his own) daughter who is 22 years old and his (who I claim as my own although she has an amazing mother) daughter who is 17 years old can now see how this work so they don't have to go through what I went through because I had no guidance because my mother was too busy struggling with my step father..I was married to a bum when I was 25 years old who could not provide only protect because he was always angry, never again..But then one of my sisters got marry at 26 years old to a man her age and they are 12 years in a super healthy loving marriage..it all depends on the man as alot of older men know young girls are looking for money so they be playing the games too..Uggghh so to me age is just that it's about character..age. I got the man I dreamed of (emotional intelligent, financially intelligent, spiritually intelligent and physically intelligent)..I'm fit curvy so because most men my age 40/50 and older are so out of shape I stayed single until God brought the perfect man for ME in my life I didn't let anyone get in my ear about age unless you want to have children

    • @dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473
      @dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 Год назад +27

      @@madibrooke-fe6ho by the way you are absolutely adorable do NOT allow any dusty to take your youth..VET them follow RC Blakes he will also get you the perfect man of your desires Also follow Adrienne Everheart she teach "educated" woman how to stay feminine..Congratulations on all your accolades and achievements...But if I was you I would not date 50 year old men..35 to 38 at the most if you want to date an older man (it is alot of successful men that are 35 I work with so many amazing young male physicians )..50 years old you all will not have anything at all in common..

    • @madibrooke-fe6ho
      @madibrooke-fe6ho Год назад +7

      @@dr.aliadixonnursepractitio6473 thank you 😊 that’s funny you mention the hospital bc I do take daily walks at my hospital each evening bc they have beautiful trails. Maybe I’ll meet a physician haha 😂 I wouldn’t mind younger if that’s the case

  • @kristamonae
    @kristamonae Год назад +190

    “I dont care why your not married , you finna get these bills and marry me” 🤣😭

  • @kyrareneeLOA
    @kyrareneeLOA Год назад +101

    I adore the title of this video. I am engaged to the most loyal sweet man, he takes care of me and he puts me first, even when I don't need him too. His family adores me. Even his mother said, he is loyal and she sees how happy he is with me. It is funny, as I wanted a man that just adores, and he found me. His last marriage was so bad... but I love that he never slammed her even to his family. He just appreciates the fact that I am the opposite in every way. Happy.

    • @professor.donut24
      @professor.donut24 9 месяцев назад +1

      Awwwww I don't know you but I felt so happy for you ❤❤❤ for many many years of hapiness together to come ✨️✨️✨️

  • @marychantel92
    @marychantel92 Год назад +125

    Watched this right before a date. He filled my tank up after bought me a Mother’s Day gift & is planning to take me to the beach ❤❤❤❤

  • @janaywalton2935
    @janaywalton2935 Год назад +164

    Sheraaaaa girl your advice worked so well! I just came back from my date and I tried that “Can I kiss you?” He ate it tf up 😂🥰 best date I’ve been on thus far, definitely can’t wait to see him again.

    • @EtheLocSmyth
      @EtheLocSmyth Год назад +15

      Omgggg i love that for you !! Where’d y’all meet ?

    • @empress3847
      @empress3847 Год назад +26

      Update, did you get the bag?

    • @celebtingz1698
      @celebtingz1698 11 месяцев назад

      @@empress3847I don’t think she did

    • @Nathi-c5d
      @Nathi-c5d Месяц назад

      😂😂😂😂​@@empress3847

  • @kourtneydouthard-becker1501
    @kourtneydouthard-becker1501 11 месяцев назад +39

    "when the waiter says 'what would you like for desert'? Look him in the eyes 👁️👁️"
    I'm HOLLERING 😭😭😭😂😂😂

  • @rollinggstonee
    @rollinggstonee Год назад +59

    it’s true, the more you tell them how much you like them and how special they are. if done the right way, they are putty. just BE SUBTLE and never too eager. be patient and confident but be yourself of yourself.

  • @GM-wn3sh
    @GM-wn3sh Год назад +133

    OMG SO RIGHT ABOUT THE COFFEE DATES! I've literally NEVER been impressed with a guy I went on a coffee date with. Even dinner/ lunch. BORING.Unless I'm also receiving an allowance. But even then it's like YES I FEEL STUPID GETTING DRESSED TO DRINK COFFEE OUTSIDE MY HOME, WHEN I COULD DO THAT IN BED!!!!! YES 100 YES YES YES YES YES. EVERYTHING YOU SAID 100!!!!! I did tell the last guy off and I will never go on a coffee date again. AMEN SIS!!!!!

    • @BriannaSade
      @BriannaSade Год назад +27

      Lmfao I went in a coffee date last week and was so disappointed, I got all cute and dude look like he didn’t even take the time to wash his hair, I know it’s just a coffee date but damn, you could’nt get yourself together for your first time meeting me lol

    • @niamphdollieofficial
      @niamphdollieofficial 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@BriannaSadethat's why I don't bother dressing up for men like I ain't getting anything outta it why tf should I? Shiiii

    • @pearlpearl3806
      @pearlpearl3806 9 месяцев назад +8

      Men taking women on coffee dates is a whole scam and I will never do it 😂

    • @j-tenn226
      @j-tenn226 7 месяцев назад

      @@pearlpearl3806me too . I don’t even like coffee

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr 2 месяца назад

      ​@@j-tenn226 it doesnt have to be coffee dummy it can be a cappuccino.

  • @Keylove-hi3bq
    @Keylove-hi3bq Год назад +185

    You could keep all this game too yourself but you share 🤯talk about women empowerment thanks sis universe protect this queen at all costs.❤

  • @raqueltheoneandonly3084
    @raqueltheoneandonly3084 Год назад +79

    This is straight game. Shea is giving 100% game. It's fool proof. It works everytime. She the GOAT!!!!

  • @sarahabel8967
    @sarahabel8967 Год назад +113

    Usually I listen to longer lives when I’m cleaning but this had too many gems and had to sit down and write tips in my notebook

    • @wildhalo2769
      @wildhalo2769 Год назад +8

      Me too!!!!❤

    • @blessings4life
      @blessings4life Год назад +7

      On God!❤

    • @blessings4life
      @blessings4life Год назад +1

      I was successfully able to enchant 🪄 last night

    • @bubus682
      @bubus682 9 месяцев назад

      😂it's so funny too

    • @geggeg347
      @geggeg347 18 дней назад

      Girl I need to see that notebook😭

  • @yosr111
    @yosr111 Год назад +150

    I’m blessed as a youngster to have connected with you.

    • @tyd8077
      @tyd8077 Год назад +2

      You really are.

    • @yosr111
      @yosr111 Год назад

      @@tyd8077 I really am.

    • @SelenaLuvGomez
      @SelenaLuvGomez Год назад +10

      Right! Like jokes aside I’m so grateful! What a time to be alive😂

    • @yosr111
      @yosr111 Год назад +1

      @@SelenaLuvGomez heavy on thattt

    • @unknownhehe3903
      @unknownhehe3903 Год назад +2

      Yeah our dating life bout to be great!!

  • @tammyjones9454
    @tammyjones9454 Год назад +186

    Wow shera is dagerous..’enchant’ powerful i dont think alot of ladies understand this but i do..they become addicted to u!

    • @nyasha4964
      @nyasha4964 Год назад +5

      Really? How can one go about it?

    • @John-ls4xh
      @John-ls4xh Год назад +5

      Enchantment is dangerous sorcery rebuke it

    • @doublebreasted1422
      @doublebreasted1422 Год назад

      ​@@John-ls4xh rebuke yo @$$ gtfoh!

    • @professor.donut24
      @professor.donut24 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@nyasha4964just do what shera says .. try it on some men and LEARN ❤

  • @Mynameisdarkxxo
    @Mynameisdarkxxo Месяц назад +3

    You’re so right about being less nervous when you go in with this mentality, it’s been three guys so far in a span of a less of a month & your strategies work wonders. I had that realisation earlier that this is why men behave the way they do!! Body language is everything baby

  • @Forexroadrunner
    @Forexroadrunner Год назад +192

    Shera, I used the tire gag with a dude and he got offended and told me how was I surviving before him. So I stopped texting. Your methods are great but dudes now are different and on viagra. They literally start mentioning their penis the minute you sit down in the chair for the date. It's creepy.

    • @munix9351
      @munix9351 Год назад +187

      Then you start mentioning your bills.

    • @gingerjones111
      @gingerjones111 Год назад +142

      Talk bills. If no reply, then ghost.

    • @Charlett2013
      @Charlett2013 Год назад +209

      Those are called DUSTIES. This advice does NOT work on broke men. There is a entire series on Dusties. Run from them, leave as soon as they mention what they want.

    • @Forexroadrunner
      @Forexroadrunner Год назад +12

      @@Charlett2013 yes I'm on it.

    • @love.1995
      @love.1995 Год назад +93

      Sweetheart, you are not entertaining the kind of men Shera is referencing.

  • @kainaeil
    @kainaeil 3 месяца назад +6

    this woman knows too much, u blow my mind everytime 🤣🤣🤣

  • @dianag4704
    @dianag4704 Год назад +35

    This woman deserves an award!!!

  • @sudan723
    @sudan723 Год назад +108

    I’m about to get a Shera award because I’m about to act my butt off lol

  • @berenice072298
    @berenice072298 Год назад +103

    Girl you’re skilled lol

  • @MisaRedd
    @MisaRedd Год назад +91

    IF ANYONE IS A GODDESS OF OUR TIME, SHERA IS.

  • @lovebuggang33
    @lovebuggang33 Год назад +151

    I swear people come into my life on Divine Timing I definitely needed to hear this & she is a comedian her responses are funny…every time she says “Sprinkle Sprinkle” I feel like I just been seasoned with some game 😂🐞

  • @poojashinde7965
    @poojashinde7965 Год назад +453

    Thank you so much for this because I have autism and while I'm very in tune with my dark feminine energy, I still didn't know how to show it off. This, though...but THIS. This is the playbook I needed in order to exceed in my dating life because the Lord knows my daddy didn't teach me anything I NEEDED to know, just contributed to my low slef-esteem.

    • @oliviaa_clairee
      @oliviaa_clairee Год назад +32

      MOOOOOOD

    • @amoraa.
      @amoraa. Год назад +41

      I'm autistic as well. I was somehow in my dark feminine AND my masculine energy before shera, so she has definitely helped me.

    • @amoraa5114
      @amoraa5114 Год назад

      I think shera is great for girls with autism!

    • @samten4097
      @samten4097 Год назад +16

      Me too. I always get anxious when men be coming onto me so I had to learn how to leverage it

    • @jessicawilson2422
      @jessicawilson2422 Год назад +3

      How did you know you had autism? I always test negative but question myself alot

  • @whiteboard3405
    @whiteboard3405 Год назад +102

    Do this for the right target, because the wrong one will just offer you a position to another job and ask you to work 🤣

  • @nunyafawkingbiz
    @nunyafawkingbiz Год назад +22

    Be unique, mysterious, be fun. A little serious but also carefree ! Think outside the box !

  • @jillgarittagoatgirl-expose2759
    @jillgarittagoatgirl-expose2759 Год назад +142

    Perfect timing! I have a date tomorrow night...The first in 6 years and I forgot how to act..This is a life saver 🙏!!

  • @kailynae2271
    @kailynae2271 Год назад +108

    When you laugh at the things you say 😂😂😂 funny as hell

  • @ppippoppippo597
    @ppippoppippo597 Год назад +224

    You are a genius! I have succeeded in marriage thanks to you!🙇‍♀️

  • @Neema825
    @Neema825 Год назад +70

    This works on young men 32+ from wealthy and upper class families who were raised by older men.

    • @DearStephanieX
      @DearStephanieX Год назад +4

      So true 💕

    • @niamphdollieofficial
      @niamphdollieofficial 8 месяцев назад +5

      That's my goal I want his money but I want to at least be with someone I'm attracted to at LEAST

  • @LovelyLiswa
    @LovelyLiswa Год назад +47

    I love you mama. I'm from South Africa and I have been practicing what you preach in the mirror. Now I will go to these fancy hotel bars to eat and meet this rich provider and protectors I want

  • @kiaralyshell1994
    @kiaralyshell1994 Год назад +309

    I’m so glad I watched this Shera because I was literally about to do the interview style 😂😂😂 I even had a list of questions ready 😅😅

    • @Mscokrissy715
      @Mscokrissy715 Год назад +51

      Me toooo omg let me delete that from my notes 😂😂😂😂

    • @yoshungoddess
      @yoshungoddess Год назад +4

      🤣🤣🤣

    • @kiaralyshell1994
      @kiaralyshell1994 Год назад +10

      @@Mscokrissy715 Same!! Girl I had my notes ready haha I quickly deleted after I saw this

    • @ToniOne03
      @ToniOne03 Год назад +1

      😂😂

    • @nikkig6035
      @nikkig6035 Год назад

      😂😂😂

  • @luztorreano7056
    @luztorreano7056 Год назад +147

    I'm a straight woman and I think I was somehow enchanted by you. :|

  • @Ashley-yr2lq
    @Ashley-yr2lq Год назад +53

    I watched this vid and went on a date later last night…had that man grinning from ear to ear for 3 hours ☺️

  • @kekef3620
    @kekef3620 Год назад +116

    Shera, I'm back (head down). I followed you many years ago but I guess my mind simply wasn't ready. I thought I was the exception and that I found a guy who was "different." Joke was on me. I'm ready to be a student and I'm taking notes.

    • @iamme8947
      @iamme8947 Год назад +42

      Girl same I'm back after 3 years 😂😂😂 🤡

    • @kekef3620
      @kekef3620 Год назад +41

      @@iamme8947 🤣🤣😭 she would be appalled if she knew the details. But at least we learned our lessons and can now take notes and do better.

    • @ToniOne03
      @ToniOne03 Год назад +2

      Same a whole Barbara the builder.

  • @tls4022
    @tls4022 Год назад +144

    This is good to know haha I think I over-interviewed this one guy because I was so nervous and anxious, he ended up not calling me back LOL 🤣🤣

    • @j-tenn226
      @j-tenn226 Год назад +5

      Did he ever come back? Men always come back.

    • @tls4022
      @tls4022 Год назад +25

      @@j-tenn226 not as of yet 🤣 will update you lol he wasn’t worth it anyway, still a broke ass

    • @cheyennestephens9417
      @cheyennestephens9417 Год назад

      In what way did you interview him, whatd you say lol

    • @724moon
      @724moon 10 месяцев назад +3

      Girl, I did the same and now when I listen Shera in this video, I feel so emarance of my self 😅🤣

  • @jasmineedwards8333
    @jasmineedwards8333 Год назад +242

    Loyal listeners love Shera, - her steps are clear, possible.
    Giving us smart ladies itemised useful advice , -
    Shera's the meritorious professor of express prosperity.

  • @Tatianarain
    @Tatianarain Год назад +34

    Damn i wish I had seen this earlier. I recently noticed that this is what I’m missing. It really is the difference between being that girl a man can never forget and the girl who gets the slow fade. 😂

  • @thetruthteller33
    @thetruthteller33 Год назад +38

    Listen ladies sometimes i get there early so that i can have a cocktail to loosen up so i can run game 😂😂😂😂. Its actually hard for me to fake the funk but the martini always does the job to gas a man up

  • @honeyasonja522
    @honeyasonja522 Год назад +342

    This was Golden! Thank you Shera 💅👑💰Ladies stay on your goals Sheras videos and books are the manual, if you want the level up lifestyle; stay out of your feelings they will send you into poverty. Think longterm selfcare high standards always recall, chess not checkers.💰💰💰💅💅💅
    #softlife

    • @mikescott4780
      @mikescott4780 Год назад +7

      This was her best video to date. I have learned a ton from this. She is the filter I always wanted. Selling the dream has never been easier.. I have even read her books. Great stuff.

  • @aileenmac1
    @aileenmac1 Год назад +55

    “if he’s ugly imagine his wallet” 😂

    • @anka6356
      @anka6356 11 месяцев назад

      Aahhaahahahah

  • @krystalnykole
    @krystalnykole Год назад +12

    Baby I’ve been laughing more than I’ve been taking my notes!! You are hilarious!!!

  • @BreeziDeezi
    @BreeziDeezi Год назад +33

    If he’s not attractive , I definitely can still envision him spending money on me 😂 you are golden

  • @VenanceChiepodeu-vu4sr
    @VenanceChiepodeu-vu4sr Год назад +26

    Her delivery is comedy lmaooo but it’s so GOLD!!! 🔑 When I tell you I took NOTES!!! 😂👏🏾👏🏾I can’t wait to get her books!

  • @brookehillman6186
    @brookehillman6186 Год назад +96

    I love her so much like she literally guides me through life 😅

  • @armybrat323
    @armybrat323 Год назад +204

    I laughed the whole time. I love your sense of humor! So intelligent and funny!thank you for all these free game! I’ve purchased your books and anything you sell I’m getting! lol wish i knew about you sooner 😫💖

    • @SheRaSeven1
      @SheRaSeven1  Год назад +28

      thank u so much ❤

    • @angelamc3532
      @angelamc3532 Год назад

      ​@@SheRaSeven1So how do you Enchant a person, that you don't see regularly anymore. Can you do it on their picture??

  • @dreamofjayda5268
    @dreamofjayda5268 Год назад +20

    The dessert "RICH" & the "I'ma call u when i get home almost TOOK ME TF OUUTTTT 😂😩😫

  • @breonna1
    @breonna1 Год назад +89

    The voice Shera puts on for the men 😂😂😂😭

  • @Gmirra5849
    @Gmirra5849 Год назад +9

    A lot of this stuff I already say and do naturally…but I can see where I’m fumbling … Thanks- Im about to start bagging them!

  • @Justonevideoplease
    @Justonevideoplease Год назад +58

    This was so funny!!! She’s a full on comedian lol I can’t take her! I’d love to watch a real date with her lol

    • @pasa186
      @pasa186 Год назад +3

      I’d be laughing so much because I’d realize when she’d be dropping her gems, her game #SPRINKLESPRINKLE 😂😂😂
      Shera is a genius

  • @Redeemedgirly
    @Redeemedgirly Год назад +43

    I loooove this beautiful woman right here, wish I found her channel sooner! It works ladies!! She is THEE truth! 🥰

  • @blabla7652
    @blabla7652 Год назад +17

    Ive spent too much of my time and energy on dusties. Im only gonna date rich man now. Im so glad you came on my feed. Aint no dusty ass man breaking my heart and using me anymore because I want love

  • @bigchichi
    @bigchichi Год назад +108

    ive done everything she says you shouldnt do. i feel so embarrassed

    • @tyd8077
      @tyd8077 Год назад +71

      We all have. We need to teach our daughters what our mothers failed to.

    • @dancingdivazriooo
      @dancingdivazriooo Год назад +39

      One time I went on a date and the man was doing all the enchanting 😂

    • @AllDsFAM
      @AllDsFAM Год назад +23

      It's ok to show yourself grace for simply not knowing while trying to survive the dating world. Dont be so hard on yourself. Your new level up dating life is just beginning. Plenty of new men to enchant 😉😏

    • @nyashaziwondo
      @nyashaziwondo 24 дня назад

      @@AllDsFAMI needed this😩thank you

  • @erickavoguemodel9283
    @erickavoguemodel9283 Год назад +17

    I ran from tiktok after seeing you pop up on my feed and in this moment I'm trusting gods timing and your videos coming into my life is divine timing. Thank you my big sister I never had god bless ❤

  • @sorina8592
    @sorina8592 8 месяцев назад +3

    This woman is genius !!!😂

  • @robinson2589
    @robinson2589 Год назад +15

    I'm going to join her group for 7.99 why not?? Netflix not going to help me level up lol might as well pay her !

  • @limitlessglobalgirl
    @limitlessglobalgirl Год назад +39

    ROFL - on your 3rd video today. Getting so many nuggets of wisdom on feminity + being aligned to womans design. I learn from you, RC Blakes, my own divine downloads, and truly feeling like being prepared for life + mate on the way!

  • @missm6082
    @missm6082 10 месяцев назад +10

    Getting ready for a date and listening to this! thanks Shear xx

    • @AlwaysSpoilt
      @AlwaysSpoilt 10 месяцев назад +3

      You got this baby ❤

  • @janellelakia
    @janellelakia Год назад +24

    I know my fairy god mother when I see her✨

  • @blessings4life
    @blessings4life Год назад +99

    Gold Diggers
    1. Shera
    2. Kim Kardashian
    3. Young Miami
    4. Me❤️❤️❤️
    My goal is to place 1st 🥹

    • @Keyopatrra
      @Keyopatrra Год назад +17

      😂😂 girl me too I can’t even lie

    • @lc-il6wr
      @lc-il6wr 2 месяца назад

      Leeches

  • @katgonzalez4805
    @katgonzalez4805 Год назад +53

    Omg I love you! I wish I can show yall my ring 💍 😍🥰 I FINALLY GOT THE RIGHT AFTER 4 months 😃

  • @Aestheticallyalgerian
    @Aestheticallyalgerian Год назад +5

    Girl i remember when you popped on my fyp the first time, i paused scrolling down and thought to myself, damn this woman is really beautiful.

  • @GoddessLifestyleTV
    @GoddessLifestyleTV Год назад +52

    The storylines are always top tier and hilarious 😂

  • @LovelyLiswa
    @LovelyLiswa Год назад +33

    So the message it, put ideas in their heads without making them think u brought the idea so they will feel like a man and say them to make them think they are smart😂😂

    • @AMNES_
      @AMNES_ Год назад +1

      Law of power

  • @Wealthybaby
    @Wealthybaby Год назад +30

    Shera makes me laugh out loud 😂😂 like I be literally cackling 🤣🤣

  • @nicolletteramirez
    @nicolletteramirez Год назад +9

    You’ve been so right re providers tho. They are either providers or they are not and you can’t get water out a stone. Pick the right target.

  • @Trinidancr
    @Trinidancr Год назад +43

    A Walk date is insulting..

  • @okmoonshapedlimb1505
    @okmoonshapedlimb1505 Год назад +15

    Goddamn ive been making all sorts of mistakes all my life!!time to change lol

  • @nothingbutthetruth564
    @nothingbutthetruth564 Год назад +20

    I have noticed men who don't make a lot get their feather ruffled when I try to bring up the topic of how much they makin!!! It's hilarious they want you to dress up n show up for them Tryna mesmerize them. I can't even find my wig till I know what range his bank account is in. Or they d be physically so buffed tryna blind women from their brokeness.

  • @Sunshinelady82
    @Sunshinelady82 Год назад +7

    Have fun period. Ease him right on to spending more money and getting more dates

  • @miameghynh
    @miameghynh Год назад +8

    This video has me smiling laughin as I’m walking on the beach

  • @wisediamond830
    @wisediamond830 Год назад +31

    This was the best show ever, so much information...Shera, you are a gem!

  • @sybersandy
    @sybersandy 11 месяцев назад +3

    I think pisces woman are naturally enchanting. Shera's so beautiful, literally every single look suits her!

  • @GoddessLaurel
    @GoddessLaurel Год назад +33

    You just get better and better.. thank you for sharing your endless wisdom. 💖

  • @josslyn622
    @josslyn622 10 месяцев назад +2

    I can totally relate to the not want to talk too much abt work part. Believe it or not, it’s usually the man who keeps bringing it up and I really don’t like that. I’m here to get to know you not to get interviewed for what I do.

  • @itsabbymarieb
    @itsabbymarieb Год назад +26

    I liked this video just seeing the title. bringin the energy 😍✨

  • @oziomaannieiwuoha4612
    @oziomaannieiwuoha4612 Год назад +55

    With you Shera, my thinking has definitely shifted during the year for the better, as I keep levelling up. Right now, I am unapologetically picky. I think I'm gonna try out that" gold digger' inscription on my t-shirt. I laughed.What a great sense of humour you've got.el ow el 😂🤣😅. Thank you Ms. Love from Nigeria, West Africa.

  • @swilliams4957
    @swilliams4957 10 месяцев назад +3

    2:22 I saw this in the mall a lot. Dusty hugging around her waist and holding onto her purse, too!! Especially at tax season. The best tax couple of the year!!

  • @jessicanicole1715
    @jessicanicole1715 Год назад +42

    I’m learning so much on your page, thank you queen💖😌

  • @juicyy3951
    @juicyy3951 Год назад +31

    Sheera you are super skilled…..intelligent and gorgeous 💕❤️💕
    Wish I stuck to you Chanel first time I came across it couple of years ago….I wouldn’t still be where I am today….but anyways never too late…..love you ❤️❤️❤️💕💕❤️