Learning every day and I am more mad at my last relationship that I can’t believe I allowed what I allowed. Being young in relationships it’s a learning curve but at 40 I should have really known better. Forgiving myself
You do the best you can with what you have and know. The more we learn the better we can do. No matter how old, don’t beat yourself up! Now you DO know better and that’s something no one can ever take away from you! Plus if you think about it, most of us women now live well into our 80’s. So really you learnt it in less then half your life! That’s amazing coz now you can spend the other half having learnt the lesson! ❤️😊
Ahhhh thanks so much my homie! I’m super excited for this year coz I have some more super fun stuff coming up! Also please please let me know if there’s ever a guest you want me to bring on or themes you want me to touch on!
Please consider interviewing a "Hagued Mother." There is an international treaty that prevents survivors of domestic violence from returning to their home country if they experienced domestic violence while abroad.
There are so many of us protective mothers who are prevented from returning home and trapped by abusers, post domestic violence cases, because of the The Hague convention And those who flee for safety are sometimes criminally punished
It is astonishing that there isn't more public awareness about the Hague, which so often results in abused women and children rendered hostages of their abuser in a foreign country, or even more horrifically separates vulnerable children from their primary caretaker, their mother, placing them in the care of their abuser. The Hague criminalizes fleeing from domestic violence 🤯 How does this tool of state sponsored domestic violence still exist in 2025?
Lisa is just as phenomenal as the guests she selects. I am sincerely impressed by the quality of this podcast, the meaning, information, and intention behind it ❤
Wow thanks so much my homie! I definitely put my entire energy and focus into these interviews and providing value for all women, so you have no idea how much this means to me!
This video came into my feed at the perfect time. I recently made a hard choice in a POTENTIAL romantic relationship for my own peace, I was being used and drew a hard line. Now, I just need to wait and see the consequences.
Great video❤️💫Success depends on the amount of hard work and risk you take. Regardless of so many financial challenges, I thank God for a life transforming occurrence after past struggles.
Giving her my initial savings of $43,000 to invest in a brokerage account was a turning point in my life. It's been an incredibly rewarding experience and the best decision I ever made!
The timing of this episode or me is wonderful- literally planets aligning!! I needed this so much- thank you Lisa! Also Joe is a total keeper for cheering you on at the moment, support for you and secure in himself !!
"Feeling lonely is a real thing and two is always better than one. It's understandable when you badly want to be in a relationship, just make sure it's from an authentic place" Loving this conversation. So much depth and insight.
"Love dumping in relationships is when you end up shrinking yourself just to maintain peace or your partner's affection, minimizing your own needs, dreams, or even your personality" Phew! This finally has a name.
This was absolutely pure gold, Thank you so much for this Lisa and Rhea, Rhea Thank you for Sharing your story, I've learned a lot from this, Thank you, I'm very grateful for Lisa and women of impact, Peace, love and respect to you both and all, All glory smiles to the most high :-) Smile four miles :-)
Rhea is a gorgeous black woman, 46 going on 26.......I will be 48 this month and am making sure I take care of myself, exercise, vitamins, meditation, peace...... been married, divorced, other relationships almost married again, dodged that bullet......now just taking things easy....... not rushing into anything, listening to all the good stuff, not the toxic crap that's out there and combining it all with my core values...but still keeping an open mind
Oh wow! Do you mind if I ask what you felt it was about this interview that felt different? It’s super important to me that we have an open dialogue and I listen to what you guys need so I can make sure I bring on people that serve you and what you need in life! So any more feedback you’re willing to give here would be so appreciated! 🙌
Sending good vibes to those men who listen to a woman diminishing herself and say: "No, you deserve better, come on, go, be yourself, get the success you deserve!"
I agree, partners need to be in alignment. People around me stay in relationships or marriages because they don’t think they can do better or for material things. You have to choose better by doing the shadow work. People rather do what’s comfortable because it’s harder to be alone and shake societies pressure My ex is a narcissist and definitely love dumping. I’m glad to know none of there relationships will last because it’s not authentic
Oh thanks so much! My hair was falling out and it was really tough 😢So I decided to take action and put my health first, so I took out my extensions and have been taking supplements and nurturing it and given it time to just rest. Thanks so much for the message, it’s made my day 🥰
Lisa I liked that you stood your ground when pressured by your family. The speaker point I liked was put on your mask first if you wish to help others.
Thanks my homie! It’s not easy but in doing this show and having learnt from so many of my guests, I feel I am now equipped to handle those difficult situations. Appreciate you!
We stick with someone because we got pregnant 😔 Then we "hope" he will change bc there are children now involved and he tells others that he is a good dad but when he comes home he turns into a horrible person.
Women try to make themsekves feel better and avoid the shame of chosing to stay with a cheater so they deny the truth of the horror, pain and hurt of their partner being sexual or emotionally involved with another woman by teying to convince anyone who will listen that they are ok with the cheating and betrayal it was only the deception they are upset about to avoid the humiliation and devastation of him screwing other women. They are kidding themselves. And therapists buy right into it.
I left after he cheated and sometimes I wonder- Did I do it because it was a boundary for me Or did I do it to show outsiders I don't let any one play me?. Even my ex told me that he thinks I overreacted and we should reconcile. I won't but then again going back to- maybe being more concerned with outsiders opinion.
@thomas_daughter To me, staying with a cheater is dropping your self-respect, and I don't believe that there is any way around that. I would never drop my self-respect to stay with a cheater. It sounds to me that had a lot to do with your decision. out of self-respect and to not damage your self-concept. Yes, staying with someone who cheated means that your reputation as a self-respecting woman is gone. This is one of the ways a cheater makes you look like a fool, which they never care or even think about. Going back to a cheater after leaving? I don't know but there is at least a conception that he was made to pay a price, hopefully a big one wallowing in despair of suffering the consequences, reeling in the shock of being dumped with only himself to blame. People picture the cheating spouse who was left pleading with the cheated on spouse to come back, so I don't think it's the same as staying but that is just an opinion. But still, any woman I know who took a cheater back always got cheated on again. Maybe there are exceptions but if he says you over-reacted I think he is minimizing it and not taking full accountability for the full gravity of what he did and how profound the effect is.
@@cathyh1680 now that you mentioned it, I realised it true with both my colleagues and family members. When their spouses cheated and they stayed, the cheating just continued.
I think it’s so complex that as humans we naturally respond to things in a way that will protect us. So maybe there is some truth to this, maybe there isn’t, either way I give utter grace to any women who is having to go through it, no matter how jar decision they finally make.
Maybe they kinda one of the same! You set the boundary so that no matter WHO knows, you are the type of person to see a boundary through because it’s what YOU need. So yes I think you may have done it for alllll of the above! For him. For your family. And the best thing is…. You did it for YOURSELF! And telling yourself that your worth keeping a promise to yourself is the BEST self worth and love I could ever think of!
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Learning every day and I am more mad at my last relationship that I can’t believe I allowed what I allowed. Being young in relationships it’s a learning curve but at 40 I should have really known better. Forgiving myself
❤please don't be hard on yourself. It's never too late to make a uturn. We live and learn sometimes the hardest way or good. Stay blessed 🙏
Girl I feel this and often say the same but I.thank GOD for getting me out of that relationship and healing me! 🙏🏽
Ditto ladies.. finally walking on the other side of it.
You do the best you can with what you have and know. The more we learn the better we can do. No matter how old, don’t beat yourself up! Now you DO know better and that’s something no one can ever take away from you! Plus if you think about it, most of us women now live well into our 80’s. So really you learnt it in less then half your life! That’s amazing coz now you can spend the other half having learnt the lesson! ❤️😊
@ thank you 🙏
"Anything that is not done from an authentic place, has a time limit" wow !! 4:38
Yes thanks for the time spot. Excellent
Powerful
👏👏 I had to go back to listen to this again- gosh!! Seriously so true
@sofiaarevalotoledo9147 yes 🙌🤗
I’ve been watching Women of Impact for years and I just love you, Lisa! Always a fantastic host bringing out the absolute best in people. ⭐️
Ahhhh thanks so much my homie! I’m super excited for this year coz I have some more super fun stuff coming up! Also please please let me know if there’s ever a guest you want me to bring on or themes you want me to touch on!
Guilty of love dumping and it’s so exhausting and often with no benefit to the “dumper”. Great convo and much needed.
So true!!
Please consider interviewing a "Hagued Mother." There is an international treaty that prevents survivors of domestic violence from returning to their home country if they experienced domestic violence while abroad.
@robinbird this is a hot mess and we must shine light on this issue affecting mothers, how we are being systematically abused and targeted.
There are so many of us protective mothers who are prevented from returning home and trapped by abusers, post domestic violence cases, because of the The Hague convention
And those who flee for safety are sometimes criminally punished
Search: The Impossible Escape: The Story of Narkis Golan, The Hague Convention; and the ongoing battle to protect her young son Bradley
It is astonishing that there isn't more public awareness about the Hague, which so often results in abused women and children rendered hostages of their abuser in a foreign country, or even more horrifically separates vulnerable children from their primary caretaker, their mother, placing them in the care of their abuser. The Hague criminalizes fleeing from domestic violence 🤯 How does this tool of state sponsored domestic violence still exist in 2025?
Search Let Nataly Anderson’s Children Come Home
This Woman is absolutely beautiful, wise, soulful, brilliant!! Thank you 🙏
Lisa is just as phenomenal as the guests she selects. I am sincerely impressed by the quality of this podcast, the meaning, information, and intention behind it ❤
Wow thanks so much my homie! I definitely put my entire energy and focus into these interviews and providing value for all women, so you have no idea how much this means to me!
This video came into my feed at the perfect time. I recently made a hard choice in a POTENTIAL romantic relationship for my own peace, I was being used and drew a hard line. Now, I just need to wait and see the consequences.
Great video❤️💫Success depends on the amount of hard work and risk you take. Regardless of so many financial challenges, I thank God for a life transforming occurrence after past struggles.
Wow Congratulations on your financial success! What's your story?how do you make such??
Elizabeth Ann Hanson I really appreciate her efforts and transparency.
God has used her to save so many families financially. I remember when I met her at the bank, she was indeed a good woman.
Giving her my initial savings of $43,000 to invest in a brokerage account was a turning point in my life. It's been an incredibly rewarding experience and the best decision I ever made!
when someone is straightforward and good at what she does best. People will always speak for them.
I absolutely loved your conversation ! Thank you very much,Lisa ❤ Greetings from Russia ❤
Awesome conversation thanks Lisa 👏🏽 never shrink yourself ladies for anyone, go shine ❤
The timing of this episode or me is wonderful- literally planets aligning!! I needed this so much- thank you Lisa!
Also Joe is a total keeper for cheering you on at the moment, support for you and secure in himself !!
46! Wow she looks amazing!
A pleasure to listen to you from France, improving my American English and my behavior too 😊
"Feeling lonely is a real thing and two is always better than one. It's understandable when you badly want to be in a relationship, just make sure it's from an authentic place"
Loving this conversation. So much depth and insight.
Fantastic episode, thanks Lisa!
"Love dumping in relationships is when you end up shrinking yourself just to maintain peace or your partner's affection, minimizing your own needs, dreams, or even your personality"
Phew! This finally has a name.
Right?? I couldn’t believe it took this long to come up with a term but when I heard it, I was like damn yes that’s what we do!!!
This was absolutely pure gold, Thank you so much for this Lisa and Rhea, Rhea Thank you for Sharing your story, I've learned a lot from this, Thank you, I'm very grateful for Lisa and women of impact, Peace, love and respect to you both and all, All glory smiles to the most high :-) Smile four miles :-)
😍❤️🥰
This was really insightful
Lisa ❤ your smile is medicine ❤ never stop smiling beautiful sister ❤
Thanks my homie! You toooooo!!!! 😊
Rhea is a gorgeous black woman, 46 going on 26.......I will be 48 this month and am making sure I take care of myself, exercise, vitamins, meditation, peace...... been married, divorced, other relationships almost married again, dodged that bullet......now just taking things easy....... not rushing into anything, listening to all the good stuff, not the toxic crap that's out there and combining it all with my core values...but still keeping an open mind
It is hard accept the truth. This was different. I loved it.
Oh wow! Do you mind if I ask what you felt it was about this interview that felt different? It’s super important to me that we have an open dialogue and I listen to what you guys need so I can make sure I bring on people that serve you and what you need in life! So any more feedback you’re willing to give here would be so appreciated! 🙌
Sending good vibes to those men who listen to a woman diminishing herself and say: "No, you deserve better, come on, go, be yourself, get the success you deserve!"
Amen!!!! 🙌
I agree, partners need to be in alignment. People around me stay in relationships or marriages because they don’t think they can do better or for material things.
You have to choose better by doing the shadow work. People rather do what’s comfortable because it’s harder to be alone and shake societies pressure
My ex is a narcissist and definitely love dumping. I’m glad to know none of there relationships will last because it’s not authentic
Lisa is so cute! I love her perkiness
Haha thanks my homie! I’ve really just been letting my flag fly lol and being totally myself. Quirks and all 😉❤️
I loved the conversation, ladies. Thank you, Lisa!
Thanks my homie!
What a great conversation. Thank you, Lisa!
Thanks so much! Let me know what other content and topics you are needing!!
I love and approve myself😊
Best message ever!! 💪
Eat, pray, Love 😘. Scrambled eggs
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Thanks Lisa🥰🥰🥰I really needed this one. I have ping-ponged between wrong choices.
I gotchou my homie! Thanks for being here and let me know what else you are needing and I will then think of what guests I can bring on to help!
Lisa I love the darker hair!
Oh thanks so much! My hair was falling out and it was really tough 😢So I decided to take action and put my health first, so I took out my extensions and have been taking supplements and nurturing it and given it time to just rest. Thanks so much for the message, it’s made my day 🥰
@LisaBilyeu girl I’ve been there before ! What’s your go to hair supplement ? I’ve been through so many over the years, and thanks for the reply! ♥️
Brilliant discussion here ladies 🙌
Lisa I liked that you stood your ground when pressured by your family. The speaker point I liked was put on your mask first if you wish to help others.
Thanks my homie! It’s not easy but in doing this show and having learnt from so many of my guests, I feel I am now equipped to handle those difficult situations. Appreciate you!
Awwww I love Tom and Lisa 🥰
Loving what am learning❤❤❤❤❤❤
Thanks very good conversation lovely her
I love this
We stick with someone because we got pregnant 😔 Then we "hope" he will change bc there are children now involved and he tells others that he is a good dad but when he comes home he turns into a horrible person.
Watching this beautiful, young lady, and hearing her wonderful words of wisdom, I’m about to hit the gym right now!🏃🏾♀️😄✨
Let’s gooooooo homie!! 💪
@ Yesss😁💛🏋🏾♀️
Wow I loved this,it taught me so much ❤
This!
Does she have a youtube channel?
❤
I hope Evy is safe from the trump dictatorship. Thought about her a lot this week. We're scared
Women try to make themsekves feel better and avoid the shame of chosing to stay with a cheater so they deny the truth of the horror, pain and hurt of their partner being sexual or emotionally involved with another woman by teying to convince anyone who will listen that they are ok with the cheating and betrayal it was only the deception they are upset about to avoid the humiliation and devastation of him screwing other women. They are kidding themselves. And therapists buy right into it.
I left after he cheated and sometimes I wonder- Did I do it because it was a boundary for me Or did I do it to show outsiders I don't let any one play me?. Even my ex told me that he thinks I overreacted and we should reconcile. I won't but then again going back to- maybe being more concerned with outsiders opinion.
@thomas_daughter To me, staying with a cheater is dropping your self-respect, and I don't believe that there is any way around that. I would never drop my self-respect to stay with a cheater. It sounds to me that had a lot to do with your decision. out of self-respect and to not damage your self-concept. Yes, staying with someone who cheated means that your reputation as a self-respecting woman is gone. This is one of the ways a cheater makes you look like a fool, which they never care or even think about. Going back to a cheater after leaving? I don't know but there is at least a conception that he was made to pay a price, hopefully a big one wallowing in despair of suffering the consequences, reeling in the shock of being dumped with only himself to blame. People picture the cheating spouse who was left pleading with the cheated on spouse to come back, so I don't think it's the same as staying but that is just an opinion. But still, any woman I know who took a cheater back always got cheated on again. Maybe there are exceptions but if he says you over-reacted I think he is minimizing it and not taking full accountability for the full gravity of what he did and how profound the effect is.
@@cathyh1680 now that you mentioned it, I realised it true with both my colleagues and family members. When their spouses cheated and they stayed, the cheating just continued.
I think it’s so complex that as humans we naturally respond to things in a way that will protect us. So maybe there is some truth to this, maybe there isn’t, either way I give utter grace to any women who is having to go through it, no matter how jar decision they finally make.
Maybe they kinda one of the same! You set the boundary so that no matter WHO knows, you are the type of person to see a boundary through because it’s what YOU need. So yes I think you may have done it for alllll of the above! For him. For your family. And the best thing is…. You did it for YOURSELF! And telling yourself that your worth keeping a promise to yourself is the BEST self worth and love I could ever think of!
This guest is too vague about her advice.
Dr Ramani and Greene
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