It all comes down to supply. When supply is low they always assume they can come back. Know your worth, take your power back and don't let them! You deserve to be treated as a priority and not an option.💛 Every one of these reasons is 💯🎯 Derrick. Great video!
I have been following you for a year. I am in a toxic marriage and pregnant but I managed to walk away and filed for divorce. Now I don't even care what he has been doing and I am doing so much better in my life. I have peace which is priceless
I’m in a toxic marriage now and just filed for divorce…he’s definitely a narcissist..I just wish I didn’t have to deal with him for good but we share a child together..I’m so looking forward to my new found peace and my healing.
Oh my goodness what you said about him being gay on the down low, that hit so close. I’ve always had suspicions for multiple reasons, including his anger and resentment towards women.
Child hood Trauma plays a huge roll!! Abandonment issues!! ,We we’re thinking the same things he is secretly gay! That took the cake for me. Nothing will ever be enough to someone that has not taking the time out to heal ✌🏾
God Bless you brother! My heart hurts so much, and I was going to leave because of his behavior but I wasn't strong enough. I'm relieved, but hurt that he just didn't try to get better for me after all of my own changes and improvement. He just left when he saw my star rising. He's done this before, but this time, I just wouldn't ever go back. Ever.
You have no idea that how this video has saved my life! Thanks for helping me understand that how this situation with a gay looks like. I could sense it but was unable to put my finger on the exact spot. Thanks for doing it for me. You have saved me from getting into a miserable life.
Truth....he went from a 16 years marriage right into another relationship no time in between. Had the childhood trama that was never addressed a true jumper.
This time I didn’t go running back I always had to go back. He never reached out to me, but when he told me the night we broke up to get out of his life he hated me well that’s all he had to say
Hot cold hot cold. He blames his erratic non communicative behaviour on childhood trauma. He overworks, but has no $. Says he can’t hold down relationship. Affection is like pulling teeth. No explanation. Things just too odd. Married 2x. But my gut always sensed that it’s something else … likely that closet gay. Thanks for pointing out a quite likely possibility.
He walked away. He watched me pack and walked away, and never contacted me from that point on and broke my heart to see he could let me go that easy not even a conversation to Hollyn white went wrong nothing
Thanks. In my case, after he molested my four year old, that's the last my kids ever saw him,and that's how I ended up being a single mom, going two years, it's been tough but GOD!!!!!!!!
@@BlackNationClub okay, thanks. My heart gets really sore for contacting him for kids upkeep. Coz he ignores. Will gather the courage to even change all my contacts.
@@Positivevibes-j9e he wants you to need him. It makes him feel better about himself. If you can, find other sources of help because it’s not good to go to an abuser for any type of help.
I did something very wrong. I crossed one of his boundaries out in public and I humiliated him and that was the last straw but it was awesome. My first mistake sort of he was not without fault neither and we drank too much.
This is 100% my soon to be ex husband! Honestly, what PO💩 breaks up with you (when you’re married to go mess around?) I’m glad to be filing divorce papers on my toxic narcissistic ex. 🤮💩
It all comes down to supply. When supply is low they always assume they can come back. Know your worth, take your power back and don't let them! You deserve to be treated as a priority and not an option.💛 Every one of these reasons is 💯🎯 Derrick. Great video!
I agree 💯% Golden Heart. Your speaken the truth. Derrick what a GREAT video. 😊👍🏼👏🏼👏🏼
Yes indeed your so right.
I have been following you for a year. I am in a toxic marriage and pregnant but I managed to walk away and filed for divorce.
Now I don't even care what he has been doing and I am doing so much better in my life. I have peace which is priceless
I’m in a toxic marriage now and just filed for divorce…he’s definitely a narcissist..I just wish I didn’t have to deal with him for good but we share a child together..I’m so looking forward to my new found peace and my healing.
Props to you for getting out ❤
Oh my goodness what you said about him being gay on the down low, that hit so close. I’ve always had suspicions for multiple reasons, including his anger and resentment towards women.
Child hood Trauma plays a huge roll!! Abandonment issues!! ,We we’re thinking the same things he is secretly gay! That took the cake for me. Nothing will ever be enough to someone that has not taking the time out to heal ✌🏾
Mine was secretly gay too, she still doesnt know, I know
God Bless you brother! My heart hurts so much, and I was going to leave because of his behavior but I wasn't strong enough. I'm relieved, but hurt that he just didn't try to get better for me after all of my own changes and improvement. He just left when he saw my star rising. He's done this before, but this time, I just wouldn't ever go back. Ever.
You have no idea that how this video has saved my life! Thanks for helping me understand that how this situation with a gay looks like. I could sense it but was unable to put my finger on the exact spot. Thanks for doing it for me. You have saved me from getting into a miserable life.
Thanks Derrick I’m going through this right now..definitely needed it! ❤️
You are Spot On! Never heard a more concise, detailed explanation covering all bases! Thanks so much!
I don’t care what others says about you. You speak truth
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💯😉 , you are on point, finally I’m happy without him in my life, so bed hopping , remember I won’t be there when your dogged out and need a friend
Thank You Derrick,
The last example you described is the last 30 years of marriage. I appreciate you and all the work you do 🙏🏼
Yah definitely delivered me from that mess cuz I was stuck although I loved him I wanted out .., I was dying
You are channeling like crazy! I’m amazed by your perspective! It’s the truth!! Don’t stop!!
You hit the nail right on the head.
Breaking down what it usually looks like when he’s secretly gay is appreciated. It all hit home and not just for me, but enough other women I know!!!
You be preaching the truth
All these videos break my heart
Truth....he went from a 16 years marriage right into another relationship no time in between. Had the childhood trama that was never addressed a true jumper.
The next woman is only getting the jumper the tiger didn't change the stripes he changed who he going to be a tiger to.
I love that!
This definitely gave me another way to think about things 😄 makes a lot of since too..
Thank you!! 💚💚💚
Words I needed to hear. Thank you.
That purge D is real! Thank God for it though. Its so necessary for alignment. 💯💯💯💯💯🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
You are speaking fact’s I have been through this before and I moved on to that door is closed and North Carolina checking in
Know your WORTH..!!..👌
OMG...."nail on the head" moment.
Amen brother 🙏
Thank you for this video. It was right on time and confined what I was feeling on some points! Keep them coming.
Exactly when he started finding fault even with my breathing, I knew something was up
You are always on point. 😊
I’m just hurt 💔
That's true. If they walk away easily, accept. They're not for you...let them go!
Once again thank you
This time I didn’t go running back I always had to go back. He never reached out to me, but when he told me the night we broke up to get out of his life he hated me well that’s all he had to say
Video request: Why does he push me away then pull me in close?
Love all your videos and all soo truthful!!!
Keep up the great work! You inspire us 💗
Yeah I Felt he was bisexual. All that u said was Spot on👌🏿
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Im just heartbroken 😔
Yessssss
I needed to hear this, thank you❤️
Everything I'm thinking, you speaking.
Really needed to hear this❣️
You're the best!!
I loved this video...Thank you.
I love you so much Derrick ❤️❤️
Seeing is believing
Good point. Helpful thank you
Both need to take several seats
Facts 🎯
It makes sense thank you
Ok U are so bomb. My hero. You've given me so much peace. I just love U❤
That last 1 tho
Hot cold hot cold. He blames his erratic non communicative behaviour on childhood trauma. He overworks, but has no $. Says he can’t hold down relationship. Affection is like pulling teeth. No explanation. Things just too odd. Married 2x. But my gut always sensed that it’s something else … likely that closet gay. Thanks for pointing out a quite likely possibility.
Teach 🙏🙏🙏
I think it's a nail on the head with the first one right there bingo
So deep.
I'm not going back.
I'm no going back either 👍🏾👍🏾
I love you guys so much ❤️❤️
Agreed 💯
Can you please do a video on post divorce and men who asked for the divorce and toxic and what goes through there mimd
thanks for the "vacation" angle... I'm gonna try this one out on my girlfriend. wish me luck
👍Good luck!
Can't have access to open the master class
On point D 💯
He walked away. He watched me pack and walked away, and never contacted me from that point on and broke my heart to see he could let me go that easy not even a conversation to Hollyn white went wrong nothing
OMG you right all of it
Thanks. In my case, after he molested my four year old, that's the last my kids ever saw him,and that's how I ended up being a single mom, going two years, it's been tough but GOD!!!!!!!!
My, my...smh. Praying that your 4 year is not mentally affected as she gets older. Also, I pray for your strength as a single mom.
@Happy Dog part of me feels I change my contacts and location for my kids safety.
@@Positivevibes-j9e it was better for you to just move on. Hopefully you report it but you did the right thing. Just leave, safely.
@@BlackNationClub okay, thanks. My heart gets really sore for contacting him for kids upkeep. Coz he ignores. Will gather the courage to even change all my contacts.
@@Positivevibes-j9e he wants you to need him. It makes him feel better about himself. If you can, find other sources of help because it’s not good to go to an abuser for any type of help.
What about if you ask him if he's gay and it becomes a huge fight for the rest of the day????
I was the longest relationship he had in most of his adult life five years everyone else was three and under
Its because you accepted more.
Yes bisexual yes he doesn’t deny it
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I am lessening to you all the time and this fits my relationship we have sax but he his not Mentally there so I just stop doing it and cool
I did something very wrong. I crossed one of his boundaries out in public and I humiliated him and that was the last straw but it was awesome. My first mistake sort of he was not without fault neither and we drank too much.
This sounds like my ex smh 🤦🏾♀️
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Not me
Oh my God, whenever they showed gay men on TV or TV program with gay men unit he would lose his mind
This is 100% my soon to be ex husband! Honestly, what PO💩 breaks up with you (when you’re married to go mess around?) I’m glad to be filing divorce papers on my toxic narcissistic ex. 🤮💩
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I got a tiger apparently…..
Ture ture ture
Welp
What
Mine he has history with gay
What about when your ex monkey branches on you? And why do men monkey branch?
Some time I don't want no sex
Omg mine was watching trans and gay porn.
Omg...😮
Just stop taking him for granted......
You're wrong!
These women have given their all, only to be left stranded.
You men need to learn to grow up and stop being so dam sellfish and cruel!
@@iamhis4749 And what about you guys???
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