The Only Habit That Will Change Your Life

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  • Опубликовано: 25 сен 2019
  • Hey guys! Today, we'll tell you a story about Nancy. Lately, she's been feeling generally unhappy with life; there seem to be all these things she wants, but they’re just not happening for her. She wants that promotion at work. She wants to eat healthier. She wants to go to the gym more. She wants more energy. Things that we all want!
    The list seems overwhelming to Nancy, though. She begins to feel kinda bad about herself, and starts overeating, having anxiety, and laying awake at night thinking about all these things that seem so out of reach. Nancy becomes grumpy and mopey. Nancy feels like she’s in a vicious cycle... What should she do to get out of it?
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    TIMESTAMPS:
    Why Nancy decided to make a change 0:22
    Why did the cycle begin again? 1:53
    What should she have done differently? 2:54
    The first place where Nancy went wrong 3:33
    So what happened to her? 5:06
    #success #productivity #brightside
    SUMMARY:
    - One day Nancy realized that enough was enough, and decided to make a change. She wrote down all her goals, and even began to get excited, feeling a burst of energy that she hadn’t felt in a long time!
    - She started going to the gym every day after work. She started eating huge salads for nearly every meal.
    - BUT…soon Nancy started feeling overwhelmed again. Her new, heavier workload at the office and going to the gym after work every day was exhausting for her.
    - The cycle began again. Instead of seeing the number on the scale go down, Nancy saw it go up, or stay the same.
    - Nancy didn’t have true commitment to her goals. She wanted fast, instantly gratifying results.
    - If you have some big goals, especially if you have several at once, take a step back. Make sure you’re really committed to put in the work, and to be patient with getting results.
    - Decide what’s doable for you - how many nights after work are you okay with going to the gym? What’s a reasonable goal to set for yourself?
    - Do it until it just becomes part of your life; it should be second nature, like showering every day. Soon the action of working out will turn into a habit.
    - t doesn’t just apply to fitness goals. Small goal + commitment = habit. Habit + increased small goal + commitment = achieved goal!
    - So what happened to Nancy? She branched out her goals and applied true commitment to each step. Nancy feels a sense of accomplishment.
    - Her sense of accomplishment has given her a huge confidence boost too, and that’s important here as well. Sometimes, that surge of energy you feel after you’ve achieved something is confidence!
    - Just do it the right way so that you’re not overwhelmed - which can set you back and make you feel discouraged.
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  • @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL
    @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL  4 года назад +106

    Hey there guys! If you could change ANYTHING in your life, what would be the first thing to change?

    • @loonatic_moon
      @loonatic_moon 4 года назад +10

      I would like to change my relationship with people

    • @rabitree
      @rabitree 4 года назад +6

      Your life also changed a lot with 30 million subscribers... RUclips money

    • @autumnb3250
      @autumnb3250 4 года назад +5

      My look

    • @rabitree
      @rabitree 4 года назад +1

      @@autumnb3250 Hahaha do plastic surgery :)

    • @NganNguyen-lo9pv
      @NganNguyen-lo9pv 4 года назад +3

      My brain!!

  • @sainathvalavala8765
    @sainathvalavala8765 4 года назад +95

    Small goal + commitment = Habit
    Habit + Increased small goal + Commitment = Achieved Goal 👌👌👌

  • @ScottSwalwell
    @ScottSwalwell 4 года назад +275

    Discipline is the key to success. To train discipline start with small wins and build up from there

  • @yukimasahiko
    @yukimasahiko 4 года назад +49

    I did this without knowing it was a good thing. I kept getting depressed even suicidal thoughts twice. I tried to contact the hotline, But was on hold almost an hour both times. My dog put her head in my lap staring up at me. And the thoughts went away and decided I wasn't going to give up. I was sickly for 3 years after mom died, And ever doctor wasn't helping or didn't stick around. So I felt lost and discouraged. But that night, I got my note book and wrote goals. I completed so many of them, And been seeing great doctors now. I am able to run and walk, Barely feeling sick any more. I been so happy, I also been taken by negatives and turning them into a positive.

  • @tushardutta5238
    @tushardutta5238 4 года назад +88

    Thank you bright side i will take some small initiative from now to achieve big goals. Keep motivating us.......

  • @lucascott5631
    @lucascott5631 4 года назад +24

    Summary: Write your goals, take a step back, be willing that you will spend a long time to achieve your goal, and write reasonable goals.

  • @carol-em2gv
    @carol-em2gv 4 года назад +75

    It's like u described my same miserable life!

  • @w00tb0ss
    @w00tb0ss 4 года назад +32

    I used this same logic for drinking whiskey. Now i drink whiskey everyday 😜

  • @gmiranda32
    @gmiranda32 4 года назад +1

    Omg, I’m a male version of Nancy. Little changes help. I was on a path to self destruction by weighing 340 lbs. I was constantly ill and very depressed. Life was not gratifying anymore. I had enough and made changes all at once. I lost 74 lbs and began to feel great. I too overwhelmed myself and began to gain weight. I decided to make little changes and not burn myself out. Now I’m on the right path.....

  • @avagiii
    @avagiii 4 года назад +68

    Watching bright side changes my life :D

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      @user-wf4fc9yx5q 4 года назад +1

      Really, it's channel very useful

    • @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL
      @BRIGHTSIDEOFFICIAL  4 года назад +4

      El, short for Eleven I’m glad! Hopefully the changes are for the better

    • @avagiii
      @avagiii 4 года назад

      BRIGHT SIDE ❤️❤️

    • @gumamamatvlol6996
      @gumamamatvlol6996 4 года назад

      Nose bleed reminds me of your happiness

  • @nayanshrijain2040
    @nayanshrijain2040 4 года назад +1

    My name is Nancy, & mircally this story is epically relatable to my story. & I got direction to work upon the things i lagged behind.
    Thanks!

    • @jamshedkhan3024
      @jamshedkhan3024 4 года назад

      Your name is Nayanshri .. not Nancy 😉😉😉

  • @brandyf1932
    @brandyf1932 4 года назад +12

    Oh, but instant gratification feels sooo guuuuuud!!

  • @PaiviProject
    @PaiviProject 4 года назад +32

    Well I am on my way taking tiny steps at the time. Heh hee life sure is not perfect and zigzags happens all the time. My biggest goal now is to get my tiny house reno done...totally got sidetracked with broken fridge that has taken us all week to...make it better....nightmare not over yet so thanks for dat curve ball....you...who ever you are up there somewhere. I'm gonna get it one day ! Thanks 👍😃👋

  • @vivosereni
    @vivosereni 4 года назад +16

    Bright side we are looking to seeing you reaching the one billion subscribers, best wishes

  • @maggiemcmillin654
    @maggiemcmillin654 2 года назад +1

    Nancy is me exactly. I hope this video will help me. Thank you Brightside!

  • @potatomatop9326
    @potatomatop9326 4 года назад +302

    My net worth before: $1
    My net worth now: $1

  • @keerthi895
    @keerthi895 4 года назад +2

    Thanks is not enough for you
    I am blessed to have you and your channel and supporter's

  • @gabiposts
    @gabiposts 4 года назад +2

    This is so wholesome. We’re all Nancy

  • @aashisharibam4946
    @aashisharibam4946 4 года назад +5

    Thank you. This is a big lesson for me.

  • @melanieohara6941
    @melanieohara6941 4 года назад

    Thanks for this, Bright Side. I really needed this. I will!🙋🏼‍♀️

  • @beautifulflower2875
    @beautifulflower2875 4 года назад +3

    Thanks for you bright side ☺

  • @MicaJG
    @MicaJG 4 года назад +9

    This channel motivates me alot. Thanks Bright Side! You help me live on the bright side of live! 😊💯

    • @sagewhunder642
      @sagewhunder642 4 года назад

      THAT IT DOES!!!💯👍🏽💯👍🏽💯👍🏽

  • @kimb2353
    @kimb2353 4 года назад +1

    This is an absolute fact! It will bring lasting results!!! Thanks

  • @wandarichardson4213
    @wandarichardson4213 4 года назад +3

    Gradually work towards your goals, one at a time and do not deprive yourself.

  • @joejohnson5059
    @joejohnson5059 4 года назад +2

    Its also the toxic people you work with that make you tired.... And also the toxic people you may live with that make you tired aswell.... You can have all the goals you want but if your around toxic people alot then your going to have trouble alright

  • @apjithin
    @apjithin 4 года назад +4

    Quarter bucket to half bucket.. in 2 weeks I'll be able to eat an entire bucket.
    Thanks Bright Side👍

  • @PrincessShaBooBoo
    @PrincessShaBooBoo 4 года назад

    I have said this before...I 💚 this narrator. His tone and pace are absolutely perfect 🎉🎉 I do not know if he has seen my other messages, BUT! he’s awesome 💁🏾‍♀️💚💚 Anywho! Give him a hardy high five from me 🙏🏾 because he deserves it and is appreciated. 😊

  • @mathewjohnable
    @mathewjohnable 4 года назад +2

    Small goal + commitment = habit
    Habit + increased small goal +commitment = achieved goal

  • @muhammadzeeshan9014
    @muhammadzeeshan9014 4 года назад +1

    Haven't appeared in final stage exam of my chartered accountancy for last 4 years. Gonna apply this ASAP

  • @pramodbharadwaj9784
    @pramodbharadwaj9784 4 года назад +3

    Bright Side. . The page which is changing lives from years😊

  • @ShayJohnson33
    @ShayJohnson33 4 года назад +1

    This sounds so achievable because it is. All anxiety is you trying to escape the current moment. Depression is living in the past. I just need to wire this in my brain to be more goal oriented and take small steps to achieve big results. The question is are we willing to change our habits since we are creatures of habit?

  • @jjthraud0811
    @jjthraud0811 4 года назад +2

    You always give ME energy 🤗

  • @edwigeishimwe9871
    @edwigeishimwe9871 4 года назад +16

    My goal. My big goal.
    Wanna know my goal
    Is
    To be a boss, and own i company 😊

    • @nsu3274
      @nsu3274 4 года назад

      Then start one

    • @sonofjesus1464
      @sonofjesus1464 4 года назад

      You certainly will, anything that comes to your mind, you are chosen to achieve. Depending on who gives it, will you know he fruit of that outcome

  • @swaathi8450
    @swaathi8450 4 года назад

    Very sensible & practical video.. thanks!

  • @acleanheart6111
    @acleanheart6111 4 года назад

    I was just thinking about that this morning. Set small goals first

  • @vishalkajale5073
    @vishalkajale5073 4 года назад +3

    Thank you @BRIGHT SIDE .I'm facing similar problems as nancy now I found a solution 🙏

  • @chimchimsprite2478
    @chimchimsprite2478 4 года назад +1

    this bright side guy's voice itself inspires me a lot:)

  • @ahmadqodirov7899
    @ahmadqodirov7899 4 года назад

    This is how I have achieved my goals, Thanks for the video

  • @jason5265
    @jason5265 4 года назад +1

    I love this one. Very helpful

  • @VKian
    @VKian 4 года назад +315

    *I know that*
    *There is 0.001% chance that
    Someone would read this comment 😔*
    Read more
    *But😄😄*
    *Whoever is reading this comment I wish that you will be very happy and successful in your life 💕 because you are born to win and you will rise and shine in your life 💕 so never mind by small failures 🔥 because you deserve to be successful so you will face failures 🔥*
    *Never compromise with your efforts 🔥*
    Remember ‼️
    *You are awesome 💕*
    *Best regards from the small youtuber 💕*

  • @crystaldblevins
    @crystaldblevins 4 года назад +1

    Little goals, that's the best way to go. Great video.

    • @coverinternational-india7798
      @coverinternational-india7798 4 года назад

      If u have little goal then...have the guts to complete that...plzzz new cover of ed sherran perfect. . . .

  • @yashkaliapiano
    @yashkaliapiano 4 года назад

    Bless you Brightside

  • @atharvapathak2638
    @atharvapathak2638 4 года назад +4

    You should be doing more videos like this! 😀

  • @jayasingh2491
    @jayasingh2491 4 года назад +2

    Relatable!! 🤩🤩

  • @emanalkhulaidi4005
    @emanalkhulaidi4005 4 года назад

    What a beautiful positive video 😍😍😍
    Thank you for sharing positive vibes

  • @nawidfaizi2261
    @nawidfaizi2261 4 года назад

    Thank you. Bright side best as always

  • @panagenesis2695
    @panagenesis2695 4 года назад

    Great Video! Thanks for it!

  • @cherimcmeekin3542
    @cherimcmeekin3542 4 года назад +4

    Love Ur channel!!

  • @gksantosh1612
    @gksantosh1612 4 года назад +1

    Thanks for this advise

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    @slimesensory-asmr5036 4 года назад

    Love this channel!

  • @leozorro5906
    @leozorro5906 4 года назад +2

    thank u sooo much bright side u gave me the right path iam really a fan of urs 😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @ganeshmahind963
    @ganeshmahind963 4 года назад +1

    Thanks bright side you are really awesome 🙏

  • @fitoldster8945
    @fitoldster8945 4 года назад +1

    Great video and it is very true!

  • @chocobala2536
    @chocobala2536 4 года назад

    Timely video for my situation. Small goal plus commitment in long turn becomes a habit, superb.,.thanks brightside

  • @vishalchavda3663
    @vishalchavda3663 4 года назад

    Thanks.. m gonna try this

  • @afsarali-hz5lt
    @afsarali-hz5lt 4 года назад

    Thankyou bright side

  • @maxhedge9535
    @maxhedge9535 4 года назад +1

    Why is this so accurate

  • @Yolo-Man-26
    @Yolo-Man-26 4 года назад

    Good one bright side, many small goals add up and form a big goal. ONE STEP AT A TIME

  • @jc2delaga
    @jc2delaga 4 года назад +2

    Thank u so much. I learned so much. I subscribed. N put a like. I love ur videos.

  • @mikhailagarcia6558
    @mikhailagarcia6558 4 года назад

    hi!!! this the earliest i have been!

  • @manishdeodhar2353
    @manishdeodhar2353 4 года назад +5

    I want to reduce 5 lbs weight ...my target is 75....
    Diet exercises and patience

  • @byronyadao5550
    @byronyadao5550 4 года назад

    Reward myself after achieving smaller goals= Positive reinforcement

  • @a.morahly369
    @a.morahly369 4 года назад

    Thank you Bright side this is the first time I have been happy to watch this video thank you very much indeed 😊☺️

  • @thenightbringer9770
    @thenightbringer9770 4 года назад +4

    Thank you Bright side! It's a great lesson! It is why I m a bright side!
    ;-)

  • @K4113B4113
    @K4113B4113 Год назад

    I love this video!

  • @michelle-nm2jk
    @michelle-nm2jk 4 года назад +1

    THANK YOU ❤❤❤❤

  • @arvinrodriguez1232
    @arvinrodriguez1232 4 года назад +2

    The real habit is respect

    • @coverinternational-india7798
      @coverinternational-india7798 4 года назад

      Arvin....u can also do.......If u are watching this than...u will be successful. .one day.....just be enthusiasts. ...btw bro check out my new cover of ed sherran perfect. . . . . I am also trying for singing

  • @erinrich4343
    @erinrich4343 4 года назад +60

    Nancy doesn't have a nose! 😋

    • @mygodisyahweh3078
      @mygodisyahweh3078 4 года назад

      Nancy's nose appeared.1:45 we can see Nancy's nose only from side.

    • @abc-dx3dd
      @abc-dx3dd 4 года назад +2

      Hahaha that's funny😂😂😂

    • @ascentraland9264
      @ascentraland9264 4 года назад +2

      Nancy nose this

  • @carolb.6350
    @carolb.6350 4 года назад

    Go ahead Nancy!👍😀👏

  • @theemotionalintelligence3171
    @theemotionalintelligence3171 4 года назад +3

    This video is a actionable and concise summary of :
    Constant and never ending improvement (CANEI) - ANTHONY ROBBINS
    Tipping point - Malcolm Gladwell
    And the great Japanese principle that made Japan a top nation in just few decades after WWII - KAIZEN principle.

  • @CeciliaFoxyIsBeautiful
    @CeciliaFoxyIsBeautiful 4 года назад

    Great idea🙏💖💕💚💜

  • @night_traffic
    @night_traffic 4 года назад +1

    I gradually increased the intensity and time of my workouts. Now working out is like a habit for me.

    • @coverinternational-india7798
      @coverinternational-india7798 4 года назад

      Very good...when u will become pro then message me..😊...keep going..btw check out my new cover song of ed sherran perfect. .

  • @tigerheart8818
    @tigerheart8818 4 года назад

    What a awsome inspiring story.

  • @TechVevo
    @TechVevo 4 года назад

    Your ideas is perfect... nice video...

  • @sarthaksingh5787
    @sarthaksingh5787 4 года назад +2

    This is wonderfull

  • @hotviral8546
    @hotviral8546 4 года назад +1

    This is what I feel.. then I play games to reset my feelings..

  • @rohitgaikwad21
    @rohitgaikwad21 4 года назад

    Very motivational video a must watch....👍

  • @nowtoday6385
    @nowtoday6385 4 года назад

    BRIGT SIDE is worthy to watch.
    Human true conscience always teach us to do small things for big goal.

  • @shaivyasrivastava4217
    @shaivyasrivastava4217 2 года назад

    Thankyou ❤

  • @ishitakadian1692
    @ishitakadian1692 3 года назад

    I love how we don't get bored from fast food but quickly feel bored from healthy

  • @gloriagalvan6577
    @gloriagalvan6577 4 года назад +1

    Thank you

  • @md.sazzadulislamtalukdersa5792
    @md.sazzadulislamtalukdersa5792 4 года назад

    This is a very helpful video.I got a great result by trying this method.

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    @abhiabhijit7888 4 года назад +1

    *Nice info in this video*

  • @SBJCREATORS
    @SBJCREATORS 4 года назад

    Very helpful info

  • @darpankothia7320
    @darpankothia7320 4 года назад +2

    Kaizen : small improvement gives big results

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    @ahmadzia3119 4 года назад +1

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    @fujisenpai27 4 года назад

    This is very informative.

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    @mukeshchoudhary5741 4 года назад

    Nice one 💗

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    @fanman8303 4 года назад +5

    Wow so fast that many people are watching this fast

  • @hichem726
    @hichem726 4 года назад

    bro u just change my life

  • @toporyx480
    @toporyx480 4 года назад +4

    To lose weight
    To get a calm mind
    To be more confident
    To increase new skills
    To be more positive

  • @pushpeshbhat2497
    @pushpeshbhat2497 4 года назад

    Good one👌

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    @sniffer210 4 года назад +2

    I want these type vids more on bright side

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    @itsmelove06 4 года назад +2

    Big fan ❤️❤️❤️❤️

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    @ACTW667 4 года назад

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  • @aljunecahigao863
    @aljunecahigao863 4 года назад +1

    That's why I have a Bright side.🙂

  • @Roast-her
    @Roast-her 4 года назад

    This is a good video to show kids in school not gonn lie

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    @advenchouretime9062 4 года назад

    Awesome

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    @MovewithJenna 4 года назад

    Lol that ice cream 🍨 so me 😭

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    @sajikv6925 4 года назад +1

    My Goal is to become a Sucessful and Determined Environmentalist♥️